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So you'll go there and say nothing like the other times you saw attrative women.
/r/seduction31/12/25 03:15 PM
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Giving birth is literally achievable by any woman so that is by definition not speial. For every 1 "Liz Combs" there are 99 other Crystals who end up with a dead end job with no actual useful skillset because they used their looks as a crutch for the rest of their life. Women get no pressure to be useful outside of their looks so the majority mostly stay as they are. That's when they start looking at men as retirement plans. Dated a former stripper for a while. She tried so hard to get me to com…
/r/seduction23/12/25 02:13 PM
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This is true. Women know VERY well that there is really nothing that special about them. All the self-glazing they do is basically the trying to gaslight themselves into thinking they are worth something. If you are get out in the world and get shit done, you'll see getting access to women is so easy. That hot girl in your Bio class will eventually be a receptionist at your local dentist.
/r/seduction23/12/25 09:41 AM
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Wow you are a liar too or just dumber than I thought. The comment you wrote is right there you stated "Nobody with an academic background with ever ues.." which is the very core of an ad hominem attack where you try to discredit someone's credibility by attacking them. You try to win in technicalities while COMPLETELY missing the very point of it. Anyways, I can already look several steps ahead and realized that this will neither lead you to learning anything valuable or any kind of useful concl…
/r/seduction11/12/25 01:30 AM
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LMAO if you're an academic you'd know the least academic thing to do would be doing what you are doing which is know as an ad hominem attack. Instead of attacking the claim, you attack the person stating the claim hoping that the audience is dumb enough to be confused. Again stop giving academics a bad name. You have zero crediblity and have negative after this exchange. Not to mention you are literally using word selection as proof as to whether someone is an academic or not. Again, you are los…
/r/seduction11/12/25 01:22 AM
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Yes, psych major are too much into the theoretical stuff and not enough in the evidence based portion. This will get you an A but won't pass inthe real world. I'm coming from the data backed research side and find these sort of opinion pieces with zero evidence implicitely claiming they somehow have proof by using zero causal research in their citations. All your citations are for borrowing ideas but none of those actually cite an actual real research study. Other psychology researchers back up …
/r/seduction11/12/25 01:05 AM
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TLDR: Manipulation is only okay if women use it. Starting from that fact that this is not even a causal study and just an opinion piece, it assume that men and women are different in vaccum simply due to the power dynamic and COMPLETELY IGNORES pysiological and brain anatomy differences. A lot of smart words for a the same sh*tty flawed argument. Validate your ideas instead of just your grammar. EDIT: This shit even dropped a bunch DOI references to OTHER opion pieces as if it proved anything. Y…
/r/seduction11/12/25 12:41 AM
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Seriously non-americanize asian women are so hard to pick up. Language barrier is a real thing AND their sense of beauty is totally different.
/r/seduction10/12/25 01:51 PM
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Lmao you can call anyone a mysoginist by choosing the most vague statement and you spend the rest of your time trying to get them to prove themselve otherwise. If anything, your obession with accusing people with mysoginy shows just what you're core desire is. You want people to constantly prove themselves to you so you can get your power trip. Very common in reddit and political subs. You just aimlessly go through life trying to get your next high. As a result you spend all of your day browsing…
/r/seduction09/12/25 04:01 AM
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Just aim to meet people and you'll meet women. If you want to meet attractive women, just go places where people are better looking which tend to be the higher socio economic areas.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:53 AM
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See now you're getting it. Majority of people don't want to be talked to. Even more so for women. Hence don't approach women unless they show some level of interest. So the general statement to avoid women is a pretty good thing for most men. You're either a Grade A gaslighter or just dumb lol.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:50 AM
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Is this sent by you or the internet? Don't forget to send your comment by pigeon.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:41 AM
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The majority of women don't want to be talked to. That is a fact. You should avoid approaching unless they showed some level of interest, not run away from them that's stupid lmao.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:40 AM
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Majority of women should be avoided lol. Even women support this sentiment. You sound like the typical ADHD psycho who has nothing else better to do than spout the same thing over and over again.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:34 AM
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Not Indian but why the racism? This is actually not making you look good at all. Do you all just spam this sub with feminazi ideals and spread racism against indians? Honest question.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:31 AM
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Lol do you just stay on this sub as a feminazi watchdog for frree? You cry misgony in every thread lmao.
/r/seduction09/12/25 03:09 AM
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I've dated borderline preppy "hood" chicks but never straight up hood chicks. Are you trying to date actual ghetto-ass hood chicks? You are asking for sht you can't handle. I once dated this gorgeous blonde chick that looked like a she belonged on the runway. She was hood as one can get and she hung around hood people. Even that was a too much for me. I've tried to date hood chicks but they were just way too hood. As in a different kind of toxicity that is not worth the trouble.
/r/seduction01/12/25 11:42 AM
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No that still works. Most likely you are not as attractive as you were to the current women in comparison to the previous women. I've actually seen a massive spike of choosing signals lately, especially from younger women. They will literally check you out shamelessly. Caught on girl checking out my crotch recently while I was shopping at target, she was looking down and on the way up we made eye contact and she ran away after I caught her. Same at the gym. Maybe you are focusing on the wrong bo…
/r/seduction29/11/25 10:33 PM
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Building my vision. Right now I just have my own business. Allows me to literally just hang out wherever I want, help cool business owners and be a target for my ADD brain. I meet women along the way but I will never sacrifice this lifestyle for a girl. Make's women absolutely inconsequential. Every girl is just some random who happens to be pretty. I need them to actually earn my respect otherwise I can literally get some random girl on a date and get laid no issue. I want to get goosebumps whe…
/r/seduction29/11/25 05:09 AM
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Entire fall is cuffing season becasue it's cold and people have a need for some endorphin release during all the holiday or they'll feel like they are alone.
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:57 AM
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Now you're happy? Bro you are so unpredictable lol
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:53 AM
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You are really good at making barely on-topic outro statements. Find your turtle
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:36 AM
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I wish they made emotional support hotlines that talked like this. We'd have no depressed people.
/r/seduction27/11/25 08:00 AM
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Found the cool guy who gives free oil change to all his female friends. Only the prettty ones though and it costs one hug and them saying "yeah maybe one day we'll go out, o hey look at the time."
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:57 AM
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So basically you're saying instead of verbally saying "smashing," OP should use body language? WRONG OP: Do you want to smash? RIGHT OP: Do you wanna.. **Humps air while winking at girl**
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:54 AM
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And the award for barely relevant bot comment goes to....
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:50 AM
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Lol what's with you all wanting to imagine you are arguing with an underage kid. Weird.
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:40 AM
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You seem really disappointed. Did you just realize I'm not an "ungrown" child. Sorry to disappoint.
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:39 AM
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small brain comment
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:35 AM
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You seem very informed in the matter. So you usually argue with kids? Weird. I feel like I'm being groomed to eventualy cut my balls off.
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:14 AM
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Careful you may suddently become an "ungrown" child if you use that term.
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:10 AM
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Lol this comment thread is proof this sub has died because it got inflitrated by feminazis. If it's a dude using women for sex that's automatically bad. If it's a woman using men for free labor and free money, it's totally okay. Wtf happened to this sub lmao.
/r/seduction27/11/25 07:04 AM
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I don't have lines but more of a framework. For example, I have a reason to be somewhere, and I just ask things in accordance to that to anyone in that setting. If you are in a setting you want to just naturally engage with that setting so you feel natural when engaging with people. There are really no lines. You mostly choose a place, engage with everyone in it man or woman to get warmed up and before you know it, you don't need indirect lines. This is how you achieve volume which is what reall…
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:57 PM
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I'm very careful with people who put a label or try to put me in a box whether it's for a good thing or not because they usually use it later on to manipulate you. First they get you dependent on the pride you feel by being labeled as "the good guy" and then they start putting expectations on that label. "Oh hey you are such a good guy, is it possible for you to help wash my car tomorrow? I'm having trouble washing it myself I thought I'd ask you."
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:39 PM
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There actually is one guy whom my pickup framework sprouted from call Paul Janka. Very smooth guy and just direct to the point. He's also known for doing direct in New York but he almost has an alter ego style that is centered around indirect. Indirect is so good i used to filter through entire cities I can just keep approaching anywhere and anyone in plain sight and collect a bunch of numbers and then have 2-3 dates in one day. I can't imagine just doing that with direct without ending up in th…
/r/seduction18/11/25 12:31 PM
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Direct was heavily promoted during the hayday of pick up because indirect required too much skill and if a coach was to teach indirect, there would not be enough results and would require too much time to teach someone how to do when applied to the general population of males. Indirect is superior in every sense because you can decide to go direct at any moment if you can manage to learn it. Direct is a conditional approach. Indirect is the framework. The reason is that in practice, what you say…
/r/seduction18/11/25 11:09 AM
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Really depends on the situation and which subculture these women are in. I've approached women who would reject me if I met her on the street but would be all over me if we met as an exclusive social club where they know everyone is preselected. There are certain types of women that you can't get via cold approach alone because the risk is too high for them and they already have too much good candidates within their circles to make sense for them to go for some dude she just meets.
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:27 AM
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Your own concepts and explanations contradicts themselves. It's just a long-winded yapping that means nothing even if you were to take it seriously. Puts all the responsibility for the relationship on the man’s "coherence" and his energy, ignoring the woman’s own emotional state during the interaction. It tells the man to stop seeking reactions but still measures success by how the woman physically responds, so he is still depending on her reaction for validation. Claims it's not "spiritual talk…
/r/seduction17/11/25 10:15 AM
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Don't keep approaching in the same area. Duh. Cycle into different places. When I was a student I'd go to different campuses and sleep with who I can pick up there and then next semester I'd be going to a sister campus nearby.
/r/seduction17/11/25 09:17 AM
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Won't spill the beans on this since it's much better for you to do trial and error and find out for yourself. The hint is that it really doesn't matter. People don't think too much about what you ask if your vibe is right.
/r/seduction14/11/25 08:37 AM
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This is exactly why it's SO EASY to get people to like you. It's so easy. I use this exact equation for getting laid and getting rich. You just get them to talk to about themselves. And then they think you are the best person in the world and they fall in love with you because poeple are selfish and just love talking about themselves. They feel good after talking to you and they don't know why.
/r/seduction13/11/25 01:26 PM
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Dude tasted one shitty pistachio and threw out the whole basket.
/r/seduction13/11/25 01:17 PM
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Yes I've had seasons where I get approached by women a lot. This summer there was a week where women were just appraoching me nonstop for no reason. Had a girl scream "can I have your number" as I was walking into a walmart, would get random smiles from women at random places and at the gym women were just give me fuck me eyes nonstop. It comes in waves. I have this theory that women in an area can sometimes have the same ovulation period and women are insanely horny during that phase. If this i…
/r/seduction10/11/25 01:54 PM
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"Hey there mature lady. I see you are going about with your mature self. Mind if we have a some mature canoodling right now? I myself am a mature man *wink wink."
/r/seduction04/11/25 08:03 AM
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As someone who mostly did cold approach on campus and mostly laid young college students, I was so amazed by how I was able to finally connect with milf when I used dating apps lol. 30+ women with their own houses are just a different vibe when you hook up. I got tired banging in cars, bushes and tents lol. Dating apps are really good for dating older women, Cold approach is really good for dating young very attractive women who typically get bombarded and traumatized on the apps. I've matched w…
/r/seduction03/11/25 07:18 AM
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Yes technically but it's not that simple. #1 Is more of a mental state. Non-Reactivity is from knowing that you can take on any problem that life throws at you. You can pretend to be "non-reactive" or you can be centered. Non-reactivity is just a sign that you know what to focus on. When you discover enough about people you realize most of what they say or do is a lie or all for show. As a result you don't react anymore and become selective of what you put effort into. However, when you act, you…
/r/seduction29/10/25 11:54 AM
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If you're Mexican you need to avoid looking like you eat tacos everyday and wake up to Mariachi in the morning. If you're Russian you need to not look like you beat women as a hobby.
/r/seduction28/10/25 08:54 AM
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Actually had this issue before and these helped me be more grounded You are likely to have a dormant level of HSV mouth sore without realizing it because it's so common in the population but our bodies have kind of learned to suppress it. Get GARDASIL because you will get some level of HPV from someone but gardasil protect you from the types that cause warts and cancer There's no point stressing about having sex with someone you are in a relationship with. If you are not comfortable being with t…
/r/seduction26/10/25 11:44 AM
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You are better looking than 90% population hence she approached you but you are also weirder than 90% population hence you made everyone hate you so fast. SOLUTION: Clearly you don't need to work on anything. Everyone else is the problem, not you. Everyone is out to get you. People plan to sabotage you because you are so special and everyone's just jealous of what you have. Men AND women you've met hate you because 90% of people are stupid. You are the only who deserves anything in this life. Pe…
/r/seduction26/10/25 09:46 AM
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Only time I've had a girl complained was when she was giving me a blowjob and she said it kept getting lost in her month lol. I trimmed but we kept fcking. It's never an issue getting laid. If you are going out and want to get laid worrying about your bush is the the wrong thing to focus on.
/r/seduction25/10/25 09:57 AM
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My type are tall scandinavian blondes or short cute busty asians. I've dated a good amount of those types in the US but they are harder to come by but in Europe that's pretty standard and the pretty asian girls are easier to come by in asian countries as an american. Most of my exes were either of those two and they get inundated with suitors it's a bit annoying to deal with the competition here in the US.
/r/seduction12/10/25 12:38 PM
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Yup I travel a lot and the difference state to state and city to city is massive. Difference from country to country is pretty much life changing. Literally THE BIGGEST advantage of men who who have the means and resources to do so is to move to a place where you are valued.
/r/seduction12/10/25 06:46 AM
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As someone's who's had a long term fwb and made it work. You need to disappear during these times lol. A FWB is way different than a friend.
/r/seduction11/10/25 10:26 PM
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It's less of a one time thing you do and more of a full program you enroll him into lol. One of the things I've done for my dates was I would tease them about potentially having sex and then being all seductive and backing out last minute. Giving them massages that are very suggestive and then nothing happening. Give them another massage, and just a little bit happens. Then just when they've given up that's when you start escalating it and you can see the surprise in their eyes, and feel how fas…
/r/seduction11/10/25 05:56 AM
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It may just not be for you. Consider yourself lucky. It's like a drug of some sort. Majority of my early gfs were very high on the hot scale and high than average in the crazy scale but super fun.
/r/seduction11/10/25 05:52 AM
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Women care more about the face and men with low body fat just look better. You probably have lower body fat on your face compared to your body so it doesn't f*ck you up to much when you get all flabby.
/r/seduction11/10/25 02:16 AM
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Women collect numbers nowadays because it's a potential social media follower for their dream of becoming super popular influencer one day.
/r/seduction11/10/25 02:12 AM
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Don't make it easy. You have to tease every step of the way. It's not just a physical thing but it a mental thing. I had an ex (who unfortunately was bat shit insane but was really good at seduction), who basically knew how to make your mind work to the point that you don't know what you'll be getting it and she'll bring you through a roller coaster of emotions before the end. That's what every guy wants and that's what every woman wants in the bedroom but most of the people who are that good in…
/r/seduction11/10/25 02:09 AM
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Going for the number is a false win. You need to go for the genuine, playful interaction. I came to a point where if I knew the set was a waste I turn down the number even if they offer because it's just going to be annoying going through the motions. I always aim to see them again asap if not instantly go out after meeting. The number is just a way to make the continuation faster if they have to go somewhere. Most guys don't know how to continue the energy after the number exchange. Numbers are…
/r/seduction07/10/25 12:07 PM
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6'4 at 17 is almost too tall that you are probably way too skinny right now. Make sure to just keep eating like crazy.
/r/seduction06/10/25 11:55 AM
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If you are a man, doesn't matter how attractive you are if you are socially restarted. You will attract a girl for the first few minutes and then make no progress after that. Women can be dumb as a doorknob as long as they attractive but dumb women tend to only be attractive for 2 years in their prime and self-destructs soonafter. TLDR: Don't be unattractive and don't be dumb. Being attractive and dumb is fine but not that much better.
/r/seduction06/10/25 06:59 AM
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Prolly because the owner of this sub is a scam coach himself lol. The entire seduction community was pretty much ran by scam coaches lol.
/r/seduction05/10/25 12:10 PM
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Why are you overvaluing a woman you met based on her looks alone. That's your biggest problem. There are a lot of attractive women, just meet a bunch of them and one will turn out okay. You can't be hoping that this one thing with a girl will work out.
/r/seduction03/10/25 11:51 AM
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Attractiveness is a force multiplier for women. If an attractive girl just wants a relationship they tend to have lower body count than average because they tend to find a guy willing to commit much faster than an average girl so they don't have to date as much. If an attractive girl went on the dick roulette, they have higher body count than average because they tend to sleep around until they feel like they've satisfied their desire to meet the top man they can sleep with. The problem with thi…
/r/seduction01/10/25 09:27 AM
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Because COVID made everyone forget how to socialize for 3 years straight and a huge demographic of people who are having trouble dating are the people whose formative social years were occurring around that time and instead of going out and develop social skills they were indoor with their brains formulating a way to socialize via digital mediums. Now they are all stuck and too comfortable to make a change.
/r/seduction01/10/25 09:09 AM
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Meh it's mostly everyone nowadays being socially inept. Not just men but women. So each dating attempt are two social re***ards trying to gaslight the other into thinking they are stupid. Typically women are better at gaslighting and relatively better at socializing so the guy thinks he did something wrong. In reality, all you have to do is just be there. You don't need to do anything to make sex happen it's a natural human reaction to rapport with the opposite sex.
/r/seduction30/09/25 05:47 PM
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Lol nvm you won't reach anything actually.
/r/seduction28/09/25 03:14 PM
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It's not a craft. It's more logistics than skill. But again, you'll find that out after you spend thousands of hours trying be some skilled pick up buddha or something.
/r/seduction27/09/25 11:01 PM
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Nightlife has moved to interest based events. Nightclubs are dead because it's such a generic experience.
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:55 AM
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Lol you are missing the point. But hey you do you, you'll eventually realize what I'm saying if you ever make it out to the other side.
/r/seduction27/09/25 06:41 AM
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Those could just be characteristics of a respectable man. You're desire to be labeled a "player" suggest you are overcompensating for something.
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:54 AM
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The reason I learned how to cold approach is so that I won't have pretend to like bachata just to get laid.
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:47 AM
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The same reason why attractive people tend to stay single than average people. Hot people are just always rewarded for being hot. They are more attentive to the rewards of being hot. Dated this 10/10 for a few months and she'd basically go do anything and get hit on by dudes and she just craves the attention. Her life was so unpredictable and exciting because she knows the next exciting thing can come at any moment. If you are hot, you know some person may change your life so you tend to be very…
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:23 AM
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Not to sound racist but I've matched with a lot of attractive black women playing the tinder game in order to get some sort of hidden agenda. Some of my worst dates have been with black women lol. Once was this girl who started talking about how men are just supposed to pay for whatever the woman wants. The other black girl I dated that was a straight model, was straight up trying to convince me to make a sex film with her but she also just kept wanting me to take her out to the most expensive f…
/r/seduction26/09/25 08:16 AM
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You've figured out half of the picture. People will always side with the person they have built the most rapport with. It doesn't matter what you do, her sister will always side with her. Marriage nowadays is being an indentured servant a lot of women basically look for a man whom they can treat like a slave and a lot of manchildren try to find a wife to marry as their second mother. Most people are stupid and north worthy of commitment. I've unsubscribed myself from man of these social norms an…
/r/seduction25/09/25 12:30 PM
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Can you talk more about the difference when doing "daygame at night." I'm a daygame veteran and I've been thinking of getting back into it and really curious about doing "night daygame" at places like festivals, events etc since like you said it seems there are just more people out so you have more ROI for the time you invest.
/r/seduction25/09/25 11:01 AM
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Yes and here's a major tip that I use for business leads when trying to reactivate them. Send a callback meme or a meme about how you haven't talked in a very long time. If you reach back out to tons of old leads I bet you can get around 50%+ reply back rate. Don't put any fancy long paragraph, just keep it simple. Just f*ck it and send to everyone.
/r/seduction24/09/25 09:33 PM
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Lmao I legitimately thought you're talking about business leads like why are you talking about leads in a seduction sub.
/r/seduction24/09/25 12:22 PM
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I'm 6'2 and when around my 6'4 friend I always expect that he will basically mog me but I basically get all the attention from women. Pretty much similar to the experience you mentioned. I also used to be very shy and self conscious which is why I pretty much always focused on my looks out of insecurity AND once I was able to confidently use it that's when I saw a drastic change in my success. The I noticed about all those looks is that they are completely useless because women very rarely actua…
/r/seduction21/09/25 06:01 PM
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Oddly enough when it's so obvious and you are both pretty much dancing around the subject, it kind of a relief if someone would just say it. Happened to me. I was flirting with this girl in class, she basically let me finger her in the back of the class and we basically just spent the entire time flirting when we were working on classwork. Then we were in my car just hanging out and "talking" she was being her usual difficult self and I just went "orrr you can just sit me?" and just went. "ummm.…
/r/seduction21/09/25 11:05 AM
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There are a fewscenarios this happens: Big gap in attractiveness they can only see the positive - Matched with a girl like this and she was already saying she's cool with being in my harem. KInda weirded me out. I've had a few fwbs at the time but I never considered them a harem lol. They are young and their hormones are raging - Basically slept with this gorgeous redhead who was still in college. She was just ready to go, I think I was just at the right time and place and she literally never ca…
/r/seduction20/09/25 06:50 PM
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Lol so they want you to keep liking their content. You're their engagement simp.
/r/seduction19/09/25 09:22 AM
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Lol halfway through reading this i just felt a friend-zone vibe wash over me. It's not your flirting that's wrong. Your overall everything is just wrong. Too much talking and not enough action. Women don't invited you to talk, they want to feel something when they are with you. You are focusing on the wrong things. Like why did you expound so much on all that and then skip on the details of the first hang out. That's the most crucial part. The fact that she ended up making out with another dude …
/r/seduction15/09/25 11:28 AM
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Can confirm true for my experience as well and I used to do A LOT of cold approach in college. The hotter the girl the better the results typically. This is why I used to warm up with less attractive women and then go for the attractive women once I'm good. That being said, they are way more difficult to escalate with. If a girl is less attractive, she may be more reluctant but she's easier to lay whereas an attractive women will be more ready and react positively but she'll have an invisible gu…
/r/seduction15/09/25 11:03 AM
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Lol just because you get desperate broke zoomer kids listening to you doesn't mean you are a dating coach.
/r/seduction15/09/25 09:57 AM
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Lol why would be be interested, he probably just wished you'd stop rambling about this like the rest of this sub.
/r/seduction14/09/25 07:53 PM
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Really doesn't matter what you look like. If more built and taller and when I talk to groups with guys and girl the short small dudes start acting insecure. You are more likely to find issues with insecure dudes than actual strong guys. So try to avoid sets where they guy looks like a tool because their self-esteem won't be able to take it.
/r/seduction14/09/25 08:57 AM
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So you're a dating coach and your best friend still sucks at dating? Oof doesn't really reflect well on your coaching skills.
/r/seduction14/09/25 05:40 AM
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You're looking for the other type of seduction sub
/r/seduction09/09/25 02:32 PM
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Figure it out yourself then
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:34 PM
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You reek of validation-seeking. It's something social people can smell a mile away. Why do you care if they text you back. What are you trying to do? Be goal oriented rather than being validation oriented. You are a 26 yo male yet you have the self-esteem of a 14 yo girl. Stop forcing your way into groups trying to beg for some value thrown your way. Build value, and bring people along the way. You are just trying to socialize with people for the sake of socializing. No dude does that.
/r/seduction08/09/25 12:29 PM
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OP you actually sound like you know what you're doing than most people commenting on this. If you want a relationship and want to bring up a deal breaker this is the most efficient way to do it but you are right that you may need to use a different method. As someone who has done cold approach for a very long time, it's the worst for getting a niche type of girl because its too random. I recommend you doing social circle game and start meeting women from a specific type of interesting that tends…
/r/seduction08/09/25 10:04 AM
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Really depends on how hot the girl is. If you are dealing with legitimate 9s and 10s they take a while to actually land because they are being pulled towards all sides. I've always been against this but it's probably why I've only dated less 9s and 10s versus some of my more patient friends who would make a special case for 9s and 10s and just keep following up until they bite. Again highly dependent on whether a girl is worth it. Do not ever do this for any girl is not even that hot because the…
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:56 AM
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Its good to try but you'll soon find out it can be annoying once the dates start stacking up and you've freaking the fck out making your schedule work. If all of the girls end up want to sleep with you'll be drier than the sahara dessert.
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:53 AM
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Lol this is bullsh*t. There are women that are totally out of your league but not based on what most people think. For example, a very attractive girl born to shitty parents, has no money, no stable social circle, no job, no career, and has no communication skills is under a lot of guys leagues. They just bank on being able to find a stupid guy who is easily blinded and believes that she is above their league so she can siphon value from him. A fairly attractive girls, born to rich parents, has …
/r/seduction08/09/25 09:47 AM
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I mean that's why a lot of the creepy dudes are in their late 40s and 50s. It's late midlife crisis. You know its your last leg at doing anything remotely exciting because your nearing old age so your develop some bravery.
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:42 AM
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The true reason is that that they are too horny to care about anything else.
/r/seduction08/09/25 05:32 AM
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Are you poly or just too lazy to motivate your own girl lol.
/r/seduction07/09/25 10:49 AM
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I think people misinterpret confidence all the time. If was in a room with a hot shy girl, or an average confident girl I'm more likely to talk with the confident girl. It doesn't mean I'm more attracted to her but her confidence gives her the chance to build rapport which in a way builds that emotional attachment between people. If you have no confidence to step forward then you'll just stay stuck.
/r/seduction07/09/25 10:47 AM
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Really depends. I used to only be able to date college baddies. It was nice since I'd meet some hot girl on campus, vibe for a bit and we'd end up in my car, their dorm or do it in a tent. That was all I did in school so it was very easy to just meet a bunch of hot girls on campus and go from one date to another. Older ATTRACTIVE women are rare IRL but they are easier to meet in dating apps since you can just entertain the matches that are attractive. They are just better lays too and I love vis…
/r/seduction07/09/25 10:36 AM
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This is very easy. Escalate. If she let you, then she likes you. She may be talking with everyone but who does she meet after. If she doesn't want to meet you in a different place it doesn't matter what she says. It's all about what she does. I love calling women's bluff. Especially the hotter they are. If a hot girl shows interest I immediately go into trying to get her into a date because a lot of them will waste your time without paying the escalation tax. I don't waste my attention on some g…
/r/seduction07/09/25 10:22 AM
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You need to define "lots of attractive women." 1 new girl per month? I tried this whole thing where I was dating 3-4 women every month but it's more work than it's worth and the drama is not worth it. In the end your problem is your insecurity. What makes you think you need to have sex with lots of women. For me I realized sleeping with a new girl every few months is the perfect balance. Having sex with a new girl every week is very tiring and you don't enjoy it. At the end it become performativ…
/r/seduction07/09/25 09:56 AM
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I've been doing this for a very long time as well and tips like these are the absolutely best advice. My method is more indirect but it's also rooted in the willingness to walk away. If they don't show effort for me I don't even bother. I do the ping, it's up to them to keep me there, if not I'm gone.
/r/seduction31/08/25 10:45 AM
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If you can rock any kind of longer hair or thick big hair it's basically a cheat code. I always get complimented for my hair and I keep mine long and layered. As long as it's well maintained and get a professional to style it, it should be good. Mine's so thick that it almost looks like a lion's mane. Women just melt seeing my longer hair. They like playing with it, talking about it, and just seem to attract so much female attention. I've had a girl obsessed with me and followed me around and ke…
/r/seduction31/08/25 10:42 AM
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Very lame and one way to put pressure on her. You only want to meet once you have a guarantee of sex? This is why I always aim to meet women on a data asap because you are essentially doing mental jousting to see who will crack. If you can't handle losing her to get her in line to agree to a meet up then you won't gain her respect. Also as someone said this is so typical. Every girl I've dated has shown me some creeps text bragging to her about his sex abilities trying to logically sell the sex.…
/r/seduction30/08/25 09:43 AM
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Yeah f*ck no the reason I'm approaching in person is so that I don't get trapped in some penpal situation in the first place. If you are texting, you should be leading the interaction towards meeting in person anyways. If you spend all your time texting like besties, that's a symptom not the root of the problem. If she'd rather text than talk in person she's just trying to get attention with zero cost to her. You are paying with your time and attention which is a huge resource for high value mal…
/r/seduction30/08/25 09:35 AM
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True game is played in logistics. And as someone who's heavily considered night game, the logistics are just horrible. expensive hard to talk to people due to loud music the lays are worse because you're all drunk af the attractive women have their guards way up The men who get a lot of success in night game are the ones who figure out the logistics beforehand. For example, simply working as a bartender makes it much better to get laid via night game or living right next to a club. Some people m…
/r/seduction30/08/25 09:29 AM
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Speed is everything at every level of seduction. I've slept with some many women are typically outside of my league but I hit them up at the moment when they are looking for someone and they were horny. If hesitated and did not take advantage of openings, their mood would have shifted. That's why you'll see the biggest idiots get the most women because their actions are measured in d*ck per second.
/r/seduction30/08/25 09:14 AM
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HOW TO ATTRACT MEN: Simple be attractive. It's really that simple. Women's problems are usually never about IF they attract men but whether they are attracting the men they prefer.
/r/seduction30/08/25 09:10 AM
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Do you encounter some issues/drama with the women that used you to cheat on their man?
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:55 AM
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Basically Demand for quality of men increased by historic proportions Most men are confused because this put more demand on normie men who are now considered below average and typically above normie are now considered average. Every girl wants to date the above average guys but then (As someone there) even then women are oddly fleeting because they think they can still do way better so they would tend to only sleep with you and then move on because they are all aiming for the top of the top.
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:50 AM
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Haha this is actually true from my observation as well. Considering there are way more attractive women than there are attractive men and the fact that women are their highest SMV, the only way normie guys can get an attractive girl nowadays is by bending over to her every will. Was on a date with this gorgeous girl who also a bit insane. She kept seeing me once in a few months and we've do weird sht in my car and then she'd disappear and go about her life. This has happened many time and I can …
/r/seduction30/08/25 02:39 AM
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