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When I was moderately young I started acting like the fox with the grapes and telling myself things I didn't get weren't really that great any way. It seemed to work, because these days I'm pretty content with my life and what I have achieved. One thing I definitely stopped very long ago was looking at other people's lives in comparison to my own. It's hard but I think worth the peace of mind.
/r/ExRedPill15/02/26 08:34 PM
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I saw an update where he posted that it was his dad and step dad who are bullying him and everyone's piling on him again because apparently everyone thinks pets are great and his experience is an exception and nothing to do with the patriarchy. Why is it so hard to imagine macho men punishing a child for loving a pet, men literally are afraid to wipe their own asses because they think it's gay. They are getting scurvy in the name of machismo. Are these people stupid? Do they not understand the d…
/r/ExRedPill22/11/24 04:19 PM
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I don't know why you're getting such pushback. (I know why). Showing affection openly and treating your pets like beloved kids is 100% seen as feminine and "pussified" under the patriarchy. I'm sorry you live in it too. I am sure your cats are adorable and are happy you love them. Kinda want to tell some of the other commenters to stfu but my annoyance is too amorphous to articulate.
/r/ExRedPill22/11/24 04:49 AM
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life is so unfair sometimes I swear It is. I think it's really hard to genuinely accept that your life might always be harder than others'. A friend of mine is overweight, has chronic health conditions, has been sexually assaulted multiple times, is being pushed to get married, and grew up with parents who kept spending money on everything except her education and future. She tells me how she Instagram stalks new people she meets and burns with envy at their easy lives. It's easy for someone to …
/r/ExRedPill19/10/24 03:08 AM
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You haven't really talked about what these women whom you are attracted to are like... Why do you believe they are attracted to "traditionally masculine" traits? Have you been rejected for the traits you describe here? I personally would not want to change myself in order to attract someone unless those changes are things I want for myself (in which case I would still be changing for myself and not to attract someone else). The reason why you do things matters. What are the intentions with which…
/r/ExRedPill09/10/24 03:43 AM
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Yes, women prefer to share the better men between them than getting a chance to a regular one. Women now that they will be cheated on and replaced for a younger girl in the future, so they choose to stay with the best the long they can. Sir what the fuck I assume you meant "women know"... Do you have such a low opinion of men that you think none of them can commit to one person? That every "better" man is just looking to replace the woman in his life? With friends like you, what man needs enemie…
/r/ExRedPill27/09/24 02:54 AM
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Ah yes I remember those days. You feel like a prickly angry ball 99% of the time.
/r/ExRedPill17/07/24 09:50 PM
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I'm not the same person but it didn't sound sarcastic to me at all
/r/ExRedPill17/07/24 09:45 PM
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Ah okay that's nice
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 02:07 AM
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Option #3 is that there are two "friendzones": one where a woman knows (or believes) she won't be interested romantically but likes your company, and the other where she is too scared to openly reject you and therefore just says "let's be friends". Of course there are people of all genders who string others along in the hope that something might happen while taking advantage of whatever they can offer. I don't think "men and women can't be friends" is true at all, no. I have a few people I call …
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 12:46 AM
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They never called women females...
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 12:40 AM
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From my perspective: It's not that the person is aloof but rather that they are not coming on too strong and making me uncomfortable. Someone who gives me space is more likely to be attractive to me because They will probably respect boundaries I can take the time to make a decision The line between "maintaining respectful distance" and "acting aloof and disinterested" is probably pretty slim. If I feel like someone's doing the second as a manipulation tactic I'm definitely not interested, but I…
/r/ExRedPill13/07/24 12:39 AM
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Did you fucking talk to every woman on the planet What a load of nonsense drivel All women aren't feminists you absolute donut
/r/ExRedPill20/06/24 11:12 AM
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Your title doesn't match your post. Are you unable to understand or are you upset you're not physically attractive enough for women to desire you? I think it's entirely valid to have things about ourselves that we want our partners to be attracted to. I am sure my tendency to reject anyone who seems primarily attracted to my looks has kept me single when I needn't have been. For me a personality makes someone go from "with a physical body which I could be attracted to" to "someone whose clothes …
/r/ExRedPill15/05/24 12:04 PM
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Yeah no shit, that isn't what your buddy the OP was crying about though
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 07:49 AM
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Yeah, the patriarchy is a bitch, how much ever we try it doesn't go anywhere. I'd argue with you about "nobody" caring but me being a feminist who cares isn't going to change your lived experiences. If this is the primary double standard which bothers you, you're pretty lucky! Good luck being hot enough in your next life that people tell women to get over you making them uncomfortable I guess.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 07:45 AM
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Why did you mention that Is your only goal in life to make suggestive comments to hot women I literally have no idea what you look like but your creep energy is off the charts I love that you think women would think that's an actual plus in life when compared to all the other shit
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 12:54 AM
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Oh you've chosen option 3, good for you
/r/ExRedPill05/04/24 12:52 AM
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Sure, and? Conventionally good looking people (and those with enough money to appear good looking) have been able to get away with crap forever. The solutions are: Don't do stuff that you think you can't get away with Try to be better looking (clothing, styling, attitude) Assume you are fucked and give up on life Your entire post is about men, forgetting that unattractive women exist and are often punished by society far more than unattractive men (not getting dates doesn't count as being punish…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/24 03:24 AM
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stereotypical chad face What in the heck is this? I'm pretty sure women have a much wider range of physical attributes they find attractive so there's literally no chad face which makes a guy automatically women bait. I don't have any desirable physical traits I don't know what you look like but your opinion of yourself and your assumption of women's desires automatically makes you unattractive to me.
/r/ExRedPill13/04/22 11:44 PM
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There was a post a I read a few days ago talking about Female Dating Strategy which also pointed out why these unhealthy cults work so well - they give good advice alongside the shitty stuff. (I'll see if I can find it) You've managed to prune all the gunk off. Good for you!
/r/ExRedPill21/01/22 09:06 AM
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Lol
/r/ExRedPill11/01/22 08:49 AM
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So is your original question serious or are you just feeling bad about white women having it easier than you? All else being equal, women have it harder than men. If you understand anything about intersectionality at all, it becomes clear that not keeping everything else equal means that plenty of women have it better than plenty of men.
/r/ExRedPill08/01/22 11:12 PM
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Absolutely fucking not. Vulnerability is a huge turn on for me (not in a creepy way, though an ex used to joke that I wanted to have sex with him any time he cried). Knowing that someone trusts you enough to open themselves up to you is great. The only caveat is that the vulnerability should actually eventually lead to something, you know? I'm not into people using me as an emotional sponge and making no attempts to grow/change/heal on their own.
/r/ExRedPill01/10/21 07:53 AM
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The fuck is this. Sorry i didn't read any of that.
/r/ExRedPill16/01/21 02:07 PM
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Not saying your a teddy bear, you are more like my therapy animal. Her: I’m not an animal. Me: Yeah you are. You are cute like squirrel and wild like a tiger in the bedroom and you love nuts. Good lord how fucking infantalising and dismissive.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/21 05:33 PM
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I think it's also important to normalise men reaching out to each other.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/21 05:31 PM
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I was hoping she'd see why this might not be a good idea if she's trying to build something with me but she didn't and went out with them anyways. Why couldn't you just talk about this instead of expecting her to read your mind? She said she didn't want to define a relationship so why would she be thinking about "building something" with you?
/r/ExRedPill22/10/20 06:12 PM
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#3 is probably the most important point I have to make today. I'm absolutely with you on this. I see the top comment is upset that guys have to work harder (even if it's to support each other) which is sadly par for the course with men's spaces online, but I hope someone hears you.
/r/ExRedPill16/09/20 03:07 PM
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a straight up carbon copy of the "female dating strategy" sub The mgtow sub 100% went that way first
/r/ExRedPill13/07/20 07:33 PM
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This is neither here nor there but I have had black female acquaintances in my life who called themselves feminists but still expected men to be the ones taking charge, paying, making the first move, literally being taller and manlier etc etc. I didn't considered them feminists at all, but I didn't know most of them well enough to engage more than superficially. (I also think that minority groups have complex internal hierarchies that real scholars have studied and that I don't know enough about…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/20 10:41 AM
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I guess the most you can do is try to be around the kinds of people who really try not to perpetuate harmful and useless gender stereotypes. It's not easy, and it's very lonely. I do feel for guys who wonder why they have to be the ones to make the first move all the time, but the answer isn't "women are all bitches", it's "how do I move conversations I'm in away from stupid gendered roles"? I don't have a solution for you, sadly. There isn't a magic wand one can wave and make people push agains…
/r/ExRedPill26/05/20 10:24 AM
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Tbf you don't sound super attractive as a person. Looking good is not the most important thing. I've made the first move in most of my relationships with guys and the "self-improvement" that draws me to a guy is them liking themselves and not bashing women and feminism for shit that is absolutely not feminist. You need to be okay being by yourself. You need to say "I have these great qualities and someone who can't see that is not worth my time". Talk to women without trying to hit on them.
/r/ExRedPill26/05/20 08:24 AM
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We may have advanced our social understanding and tolerance towards race and religion Are you serious
/r/ExRedPill01/04/20 04:37 PM
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Why are you even on this sub? This is garbage sexist tripe which would be at home in TRP.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/20 07:55 PM
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because he's a man and there's nothing more attractive than a feminine woman Please stop peddling such trash.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/20 04:33 PM
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r/TrollYChromosome is a nice meme-y space for guys. r/MensLib aims to create a space like you describe as well.
/r/ExRedPill10/11/19 01:19 PM
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Wow holy shit this is fascinating, thank you for sharing.
/r/ExRedPill11/10/19 03:48 PM
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Sad but makes sense
/r/ExRedPill08/10/19 08:04 PM
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This person's entire comment history in this thread is mind boggling. I've reported each one but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
/r/ExRedPill07/10/19 05:11 AM
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Sounds like you need to get back into RP Wtf
/r/ExRedPill06/10/19 03:30 PM
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showing how horrible of a person I am Oh honey <3 I have a lot of friends whom I love dearly, and some of them struggle with conforming to society's expectations for functional adults. It doesn't make them horrible people. Imo the only thing that makes a person horrible is then making choices that hurt others either through action or inaction. The fact remains that I still don't understand how anyone could appreciate me when I obviously have such terrible qualities as well. It sounds like your f…
/r/ExRedPill30/09/19 12:50 PM
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Gender roles in minority communities can be excessively rigid and often reinforced by women as strongly as men. I'm not saying those women don't know what they want, but their opinions are strongly shaped by their communities (and many POC communities have strong misogynistic undertones that manifest as hatred of/ disdain for feminine traits in men). I personally believe that most people who aren't feminists don't think about where their ideas of attraction come from and that it harms everyone b…
/r/ExRedPill11/09/19 04:48 AM
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I dated someone who was a virgin at 35 and I was willing to work with him through that. It helped that I was 30 myself, a little more experienced, and a raging feminist. And he was a really lovely person whom I genuinely liked. Sex can come later. The important thing is to find a woman who is feminist enough not to subscribe to stupid ideas of virginity and then make a connection with her on a personal level so you guys know you're actually into each other. It's not easy or simple but the key is…
/r/ExRedPill17/07/19 04:13 AM
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luxurious Mos Eisley Haha you really like your Star wars references!
/r/ExRedPill26/01/19 11:46 AM
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I don't know if copying someone else's patterns would help. How does your girlfriend see affection? Maybe ask her what actions on your part would make her feel more loved and appreciated. Instead what if you try something simple: every time you feel yourself shut down a thought because you think it makes you look weak, write it down. Then you can discuss that with her when you're ready.
/r/ExRedPill15/01/19 02:02 AM
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Well it's not kind to any person to tell them all your worries. It won't necessarily make you appear weak but it can overwhelm the other person. This is especially true if it's an issue that isn't changing at all. Therapy really is the answer to find good method of communicating and growth. A good therapist will help you find ways to deal with your issues over time and share what's happening with your partner. Finally, it's important to give your partner support just as you ask for it so I hope …
/r/ExRedPill02/04/18 01:15 PM
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I wrote a much longer comment here. Take a read and think about it a bit. :)
/r/ExRedPill02/04/18 09:06 AM
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Does your GF know about your dad's history?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/18 06:04 AM
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"Does "dread" work?" The short answer to that is yes. The longer answer is: "what exactly are you trying to achieve here?" When TRP talks about dread, it's a manipulation technique that is particularly effective on insecure and abused people. It also tends to be used by insecure or narcissistic people. Not a great combination. I'm becoming insecure in our relationship, I'm very worried my GF is going to get bored with me and leave me or cheat on me. This has led me to want to feel I need to use …
/r/ExRedPill02/04/18 06:03 AM
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That's not third wave feminism, FYI. And microaggressions are real.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 11:34 PM
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Third wave feminism pushed me to anti-feminism What do you mean?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/18 09:10 PM
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The most dangerous thing to take from TRP is the fake persona. The macho dude with no feelings who insults women and doesn't give a fuck. The hardest thing for people is to be simultaneously confident and vulnerable. Try to find out what you are really like rather than trying to "fake it till you make it". Assess yourself objectively but kindly. Change things about yourself that you dislike, mentally and emotionally in addition to physically. When you are a person you really like being, it becom…
/r/ExRedPill20/07/17 12:30 AM
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Many TRP critics think that TRP is abusive and the ideology is the cover, but I actually think that it is the exact opposite; the desire to harness and control other's sexuality inevitably leads to abuse, as abuse is one of the only consistent ways to maintain control in a relationship predicated on taking what you can. This kinda blew my mind. Thank you!
/r/ExRedPill19/07/17 09:34 AM
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(I'm not a sir, by the way.) It's really hard for me to comment on this being Indian myself. I understand a lot of your struggles, and at the same time I have met a lot of desi guys with similar attitudes. I don't know much about Canada but I spent a lot of time in r/thebluepill my first year or so on Reddit and I totally get why the narratives are seductive to physically unattractive (or not ideally attractive) brown guys in western countries. I think Desi culture as well as western stereotypes…
/r/ExRedPill18/07/17 05:59 PM
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Do you live in India now?
/r/ExRedPill18/07/17 12:09 PM
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I think it's important to note that this is probably more true for self confident women. When you're an insecure person you don't really value yourself enough.
/r/ExRedPill13/07/17 10:43 AM
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This is why feminists talk about intersectionality. You have a very narrow misguided view of feminists and "SJW"s.
/r/ExRedPill17/06/17 10:29 AM
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Ooh gotcha. Yes yes. I misunderstood you.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 02:46 AM
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What the crap? Fragile masculinity and regressive gender expectations are the perfect recipe to send some poor sap scurrying into TRP's arms.
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 02:40 AM
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Sounds like he would benefit from some therapy and rethinking his approach to self worth and masculinity. TRP is waaaay too obsessed with an incredibly narrow and regressive view of success and status and it looks like he's forgetting you guys are a team and treating your marriage like that stupid "captain/first mate" shit they have going on. Please don't blame yourself for this. This is a choice he has made because he feels threatened and emasculated. The problem is with his definitions of valu…
/r/ExRedPill14/06/17 02:38 AM
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People don't really love unconditionally
/r/ExRedPill31/05/17 02:35 AM
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and honestly I don't want to change any of that. Why?
/r/ExRedPill29/05/17 02:32 PM
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If he can't think about other people and care how things affect them then how can you trust he cares about you?
/r/ExRedPill07/03/17 09:43 AM
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I hope so too. Good luck!
/r/ExRedPill19/02/17 12:28 AM
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Don't use manipulation you learnt on TRP and then ask people here for advice. We will tell you that manipulation is wrong even if it works because manipulating someone makes you a shitty person nobody should trust. If I found out a friend was "soft nexting" me and being passive aggressive in an attempt to make me interested, instead of being honest and open about his feelings, that friendship would be over because he would have made it perfectly clear he did not respect my ability to make decisi…
/r/ExRedPill18/02/17 11:53 PM
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I don't spend much time here
/r/ExRedPill16/02/17 02:25 PM
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I don't think fear mongering RP as it exists on Reddit is a stretch. You absolutely should be aware of the actions of the worst members of that cult, because you can't just go through life believing you'll only meet the moderate ones who are merely mildly misogynistic and not really abusive. TRP is manipulative and abusive and locks people into regressive and reductive roles. RPW normalizes domestic abuse and victim blaming. Just because there's a few morsels of decent advice hidden in there doe…
/r/ExRedPill16/02/17 12:56 PM
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Why the actual fuck are you in this sub if you think RPW offers anything except tips to be an acceptable abuse victim.
/r/ExRedPill16/02/17 12:25 PM
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You can think that feminists shouldn't ignore men but being anti-feminist just makes you ignorant and dangerous.
/r/ExRedPill20/01/17 02:03 AM
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And minority women make less than minority men. Why does women mean "white women"? White women have a shit ton of white privilege. It's why half of them voted for Trump and over 90% of black women voted Hillary.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/17 01:04 PM
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More rapes and violence are perpetrated on minority women than women who belong to the group in power, and that violence is far more likely to be excused and forgiven. This is why intersectionality exists.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/17 01:03 PM
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Black slaves were raped as a power play constantly what are you talking about. Minority women have had it worse than their men because they were women in every scenario.
/r/ExRedPill18/01/17 01:00 PM
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I don't qualify to participate but I'd be interested in your results. Will this be published and available for reading?
/r/ExRedPill18/01/17 12:48 PM
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Yes! I had to quit around the same time I left MensLib because I was in bad emotional shape but I'm much better now. I don't think I could participate in femradebates... There's too much I'd disagree with and it would be too frustrating.
/r/ExRedPill05/01/17 11:22 PM
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Oh that's nice. I used to mod there.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/17 02:51 PM
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Also go to /r/MensLib.
/r/ExRedPill04/01/17 12:47 AM
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Thanks for your opinion. There's a legitimate chance the person I responded to doesn't think sexism and racism are important because they are not affected by either. It's not a "gotcha" (who even does that), but it's relevant.
/r/ExRedPill03/01/17 08:38 PM
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But why do you propose that that is so "invariably"? I don't think it is. And I don't think it is what happens in practice. When I say "invariably", I mean that I believe this is how it tends to happen in practice. I'm not sure why you don't think this is what happens. Many men's rights blogs, facebook pages, subreddits, movements etc tend to demonize feminists, often conflate feminists with women and vice versa, and recruit on rather belligerent and hateful grounds. There are some notable excep…
/r/ExRedPill03/01/17 08:34 PM
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Hmm.
/r/ExRedPill29/12/16 06:29 PM
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I find it odd not to consider that gender and race aren't strong arms of capitalism. Are you a man?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/16 05:27 PM
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Why are you on this sub if you don't care about gender? What do you do to push back against this oligarchy?
/r/ExRedPill29/12/16 04:54 PM
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I think the biggest problem around men's issues is that men who fit into the expected stereotypes will rarely work to change them. If you are a successful man who is masculine in all the right ways, you don't think about how you are privileged and you probably won't want to change the system. The only guys who work really hard to have discussions about unfair expectations in guys are those who have been affected by them, and their methods are invariably to blame women and recruit on that platfor…
/r/ExRedPill29/12/16 01:02 PM
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You have to remember that IQ tests were created by people (men) who defined intelligence a certain way. The more we learn about the human brain, the better we understand human interactions, the more we study ourselves and how we work, the less relevant that set of definitions becomes. Do you also think that people from different races have different skills and abilities that are inherently tied to that race? Those assumptions come from the same place. When a certain group defines the parameters …
/r/ExRedPill20/12/16 11:34 PM
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A father doesn't rush to his child and cry with him when he scrapes his knee What sort of mothers have you met?
/r/ExRedPill22/04/16 03:56 PM
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http://nytimes.com/2016/03/20/upshot/as-women-take-over-a-male-dominated-field-the-pay-drops.html
/r/MensRights20/03/16 08:49 PM
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Why you derail?
/r/MensRights14/03/16 06:52 AM
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Why you derail?
/r/MensRights14/03/16 06:46 AM
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Why you derail?
/r/MensRights14/03/16 06:42 AM
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Baby steps!
/r/MensRights13/03/16 12:32 PM
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Like I was ever exciting to being with. NO DON'T YOU SAY THAT NEMO!!! You are the most exciting of all our enraged obsessed stalkers and we love you. <3
/r/MensRights13/03/16 09:00 AM
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Your personal history is not fact. This line of thinking is not welcome.
/r/ExRedPill13/03/16 08:01 AM
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If only it was that easy with women... It's not like all men are open books, you know. Humans want to be liked and loved but everyone's insecure and everyone hides stuff. Communication is key. Are you telling me your friends know how much you want their approval and affection? Isn't that cheating at the game? I don't think of this as a game. I believe I am an interesting and good person with certain flaws. I can't be with someone to whom those flaws are the most important thing, you know? I feel…
/r/ExRedPill05/03/16 05:13 PM
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You can look into her head...you just have to figure out what you want to know and then ask her. :) The thing is, if you are changing who you are in order to attract one particular person, they will find out eventually. It is far better to figure out why you like someone and why they might like you. It took me ages to get to a point where I knew what I valued about myself as a person, and I only let those people into my life who also saw value in those traits. There are plenty of people, men and…
/r/ExRedPill02/03/16 06:14 PM
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I don't know about other women but a guy with a great smile makes me go all fluttery.
/r/ExRedPill02/03/16 03:54 AM
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No, your personality matters.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/16 01:02 AM
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I won't be able to look down at those below me and sneer, and that's very fun. This is really what you need to change, of you truly want to be happy. Lifting yourself up by putting others down is unattractive, petty and immature. People want to be with others who are kind and understanding and loving, not judgemental and cruel.
/r/ExRedPill01/03/16 01:00 AM
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Why do averagely attractive women have confidence problems if, as I stated, they know they're sexy? Why do you think that your messing something up will suddenly make women despise you, why do you think one women disliking you means all of them will, why do you think your worth only lies in what you do? People believe a lot of really irrational and incorrect and contradictory things when they're insecure. Not many of us "know" we're good looking or smart or whatever. If you have self confidence …
/r/ExRedPill01/03/16 12:57 AM
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Gotcha. I find that reading the whole thing is a lot more telling. There's a lot that shows up in between.
/r/ExRedPill30/01/16 05:21 PM
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Did someone PM you this stuff?? I really wanted to help but it was too incoherent for me to follow :(
/r/ExRedPill30/01/16 04:51 PM
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Thank you for sharing. It is admirable that you have managed to identify the harmful thoughts you do hold, because that's the first step in changing the conversation. I am not sure how easy it is to just turn around and decide to change how you think of yourself and how you define success. Have you ever managed to internalize advice from other sources before? What seems to convince you about new or different ideas? I think the way in which advice and ideas are packaged makes a huge difference in…
/r/ExRedPill08/01/16 02:45 PM
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Thanks for taking the time to do this. I would also add something I've found myself telling guys often: Have some standards for the person you want to be with, and don't make those standards merely physical. Take a look at yourself and figure out which aspects of you are the most important to how you think of yourself as a person. Look for those traits in whomever you think you might be interested in. Nobody wants to know that they are interchangeable with the next person who comes along. They w…
/r/ExRedPill24/06/15 12:54 AM
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What? Dude if I'm bitter and lonely, it is NOBODY'S responsibility to be nice to me! I can ask for kindness and kind people will give it to me. OP's been throwing a massive tantrum all over this page. Why not tell him to behave better?
/r/ExRedPill08/12/14 03:39 PM
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Oh, well said! I do think some of the comments could have been a bit less harsh while telling OP why his thought process is flawed. His feelings and personality need a lot more delicate handling, I think! The mistake that OP and /u/Tilting_Gambit are making is to conflate all women with the ones they are the most bitter at. If I went into AskMen and said "Why are you guys such assholes? Why do you treat me like I'm a fool or just around for your sexual gratification", they have every right to be…
/r/ExRedPill08/12/14 02:26 PM
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Dude you LITERALLY just said women could get "virtually any guy they wanted". Right [here] (http://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/2njaz1/im_never_going_to_break_my_misogyny/cmekh91). And now suddenly ask a woman should want is an "average" guy? Do you even understand what hypocrisy is? Maybe you'll realize that everyone doesn't get what they want without also being what the other person wants, hmm?
/r/ExRedPill07/12/14 08:18 PM
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Absolutely nobody wants OP to leave this thinking he is worthless. That's utter rubbish. Nobody argues that TRP doesn't work. TRP is manipulative. Manipulation works. If you're clever, rich, tall, well-built, handsome, young, charming? Manipulation works even better. Even within TRP there's a hierarchy and it's based on the same old ideas of attraction that the non-TRP world is full of. If some dude asks for help on how to treat women "normally" you bet your ass I'm going to be upset. Jim needs …
/r/ExRedPill05/12/14 06:32 PM
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I agree with the assessment of most of these replies, but you still didn't answer my question and neither did OP. I'm on my mobile and can't see. Did you respond to him? Did you help him deal with his insecurities?
/r/ExRedPill05/12/14 05:41 PM
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it's too hard to see women as the same when they'll never suffer loneliness to the same extent, that they'll always be loved and valued due to their bodies. Hey OP. Just because someone values you for something doesn't mean you want that. I understand that for someone who feels constantly rejected that any offer should seem better than none, but that simply isn't true. Everyone wants what they think they deserve based on their own personal evaluation of themselves. Society places an unfair and s…
/r/ExRedPill05/12/14 05:16 PM
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I do understand OP's problem. Where I find it hard to feel sympathy for OP is his attitude when he asks for help. He isn't asking for help to find love. He is saying "convince me to stop hating women". How can we do this? How is it at all possible for anyone to convince someone that he should not approach every woman with the implicit assumption that she is worthless, irrational, shallow? He doesn't even talk about women as friends in any way, which is such a red flag! It's one thing for men to …
/r/ExRedPill05/12/14 05:03 PM
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Your comments are the best birthday present in the world.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/14 02:20 AM
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lol.
/r/ExRedPill28/11/14 12:43 AM
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I'm pretty fucking lonely, thanks. Just because some women are inundated with attention whether they want it or not doesn't give you the right to sit on your high horse and whine about how easy their lives are. Anyway, it looks like you want someone to magically wave a wand and make you not a jerk and that's not going to happen. Nothing is going to change your mind because you don't want to change your mind.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/14 10:50 PM
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because they sit back and don't have to do anything anything to get relationships This is false. Your jealousy is based on fallacious ideas. I don't have any advice for you, unfortunately. You say you blame yourself and then you blame everything except yourself.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/14 08:37 PM
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You will not be able to stop hating women until you genuinely stop blaming them for your being alone. When you say "I have tried", what have you really done? Have you thought: "Hey, these people are saying that the only way to be happy is to believe implicitly this shit that I know is completely false. But dammit, I want to be happy, so I'm going to force myself to believe!!!" If you're comparing "believing women are people" to "becoming a christian" that implies you think there's no empirical p…
/r/ExRedPill27/11/14 06:42 PM
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Do you really want to stop hating women or do you just want to stop being single? If you want to stop hating women you might want to not care about dating first.
/r/ExRedPill27/11/14 11:23 AM
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I adore the av club. Best comment section on the interwebs. I usually stick to tv club, though, so thank you for sharing this!
/r/MensRights25/09/14 11:06 AM
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Yeah but TRP assumes all women do, and there's the whole horribly disturbing LMR nonsense. "Even if she says no she really wants you to just be the man and do things to her THAT'S WHAT SHE REALLY WANTS AWALT"
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 03:57 PM
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You have to be able to read your partner and be considerate of (but not controlled by) her needs Yes. But this is a delicate and nuanced thing to be able to do and nothing about the conversations on TRP that I have seen lead me to believe that the guys there are learning this. You cannot be considerate of someone when you are constantly trying to manipulate and one-up them.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 03:57 PM
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If I ever want pussy I will make sure I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 03:28 AM
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I'm just trying to understand your analogies... it's not my fault they don't make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 03:15 AM
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So we ignore the emotional and psychological pain then? Only physical pain counts? Enough people advocate rough sex and talk casually about slapping women for it to count as physical pain.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 02:59 AM
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Your analogy game is terrible, sorry. Try again.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 02:55 AM
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Well that's reassuring. When someone's TRP behavior causes someone actual physical and emotional pain or pushes them to therapy or suicide we can reassure ourselves by remembering that it's okay because TRPers don't actually give a shit about other people's feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/14 02:39 AM
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This is what "not open to facts" looks like. S/he gave you scientific evidence, for heaven's sake!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/08/14 11:11 AM
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Neither am I!!! I just like being able to maybe expand the way I define "feminine".
/r/ExRedPill24/06/14 04:06 PM
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Welcome! You would probably also enjoy /r/GetFeminine.
/r/ExRedPill24/06/14 01:29 PM
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I haven't looked at your history, but are you far east Asian, or south Asian? Men from both cultures appear to be reacting similarly, but as an Indian I tend to imagine that a typical Indian man exposed to TRP is a horrific idea.
/r/ExRedPill22/06/14 01:37 PM
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I think the question was more about how Asian men are beginning to blame Asian women a lot more for their failure and are a lot more likely to fall for TRP..
/r/ExRedPill22/06/14 01:29 PM
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Why did you read TRP all weekend?
/r/ExRedPill09/06/14 10:20 PM
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Understand that there are horrible people and also really good people. Relationships are not black and white they are varying shades of gray. Sorry to break it to you, but that's what "BP" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/14 02:19 AM
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their is nothing to argue *there
/r/TheRedPill21/05/14 01:43 PM
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Lose my ability to approach the world with enthusiasm, my ass. :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/14 01:01 AM
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If you are seriously considering suicide, please do also consider checking out /r/SuicideWatch. EDIT: The sidebar has some helpful links.
/r/TheRedPill10/04/14 01:59 AM
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What I love is being treated like just another human being, not as an alien with incorrigible, warped psychology, intellectual potential of a baby jackass and unable to grasp the subjects of empathy and love. Damn you have a way with words, lady.
/r/MensRights04/04/14 06:23 PM
You can kill a man, but you can't kill an idea.

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