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Flagfootball99/r/MarriedRedPill20/10/17 03:09 PM
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Flagfootball99/r/RPChristians09/01/18 03:48 AM
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Thank you
/r/RPChristians09/01/18 07:12 PM
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Just An outsider here, but my main question was asking “what do you do when you when start questioning your faith”?? Any denomination should be able to answer it without being a dick. Maybe I should have left out how I felt after many years as a RC, but that’s how I feel though. I was looking for Feedback about potentially letting it go. Obviously I don’t won’t to, why would I be posting here. ? But instead, was told I’m don’t know what I’m talking about , wasting my time on me, stupid. Was quot…
/r/RPChristians09/01/18 06:44 PM
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Thank you. I’ll check it out.
/r/RPChristians09/01/18 05:42 PM
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Thank you guys for feedback. I guess I posting here because I was always taught we all are all Christians ??? I assumed Catholics were here too. Maybe catholic isn’t considered christian to some people. One of you caught it, yes I was hurt. I suffered depression my entire life but I really good at hiding it. My wife didn’t even know. Anyway, long story short, I overcame it about 3 years ago. Took 37 years. It feels like I’m in a new awakening and see the world differently now. I’m finally at pea…
/r/RPChristians09/01/18 01:38 PM
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No problem, check out the red pill terms and acronyms on the right side on the main mrp site. This stuff totally changed my life, I’m giving back now. Totally transformed my life and marriage in 3 years. Previously 10 year dead bedroom. The guys in the locker room can be harsh at times I know. But there’s gold scattered in most of the replies, just mine for them and ignore all the other bullshit.
/r/MarriedRedPill08/01/18 08:31 PM
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Home gym for all the the reasons listed. Also, you will know when your MAP is working when your wife comes into the garage while you are working out in a robe with nothing on underneath, locks the door behind her.. and rides you on the bench.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 06:23 PM
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Good post. I’m in the spirit of giving back too. The key to your better future is YOU.
/r/askMRP08/01/18 04:38 PM
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Judging by the way she lashed out at you about MASH FUCKING POTATOES, she's not attracted to you dude. The lashing out is a direct reflection of her level of attraction for you right now. Hear that again: The lashing out is a direct reflection of her level of attraction for you... right now. Always add the words "right now" after EVERYTHING she says. That's how she's feelz right now. If she continues to lash out and show silent treatment, then she cannot be attracted to you. Need to change the p…
/r/askMRP08/01/18 04:14 PM
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Holy Fuck... the Classic Mash Potato Stalemate! I've seen this one before, happened in the 2nd game of the Fischer-Spasskey match in the '79 championship.. This wasn't a shit test. A shit test is her sonar sending out pings to the environment... and testing if you are still in charge. She already knows that you are a loser and piece of shit. She is full of resentment from the 10 years you were a Drunk Captain... You put her in charge and didn't even know it. A wife will giggle like a school girl…
/r/askMRP08/01/18 03:12 PM
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What part of husband don’t you understand ??? (Very sarcastically) ass slap and walk away.
/r/askMRP06/01/18 09:29 PM
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Map = male action plan. Read any of Athol Kay’s work, start with married man sex life primer. That was the first book I read , it was like getting hit over the head with a 2x4. I was blind but now I see.... what it felt like.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/01/18 11:26 PM
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Women want to FEEL. Feel Everything, both good and bad emotions... and in great frequency. That’s why everything we have been taught about making women feel “happy” all the time is total bullshit. It makes us boring. If chicks are bored-not feeling that fluctuating between positive and negative emotions , they tend to create drama and act out. They will create their own drama. Side note: women need drama in their lives since they own survival depends upon it. In trible Times, men would go out an…
/r/askMRP05/01/18 06:35 PM
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No. Not a good idea. It will backfire. They just want you to get it, not to read a book on how to do it. Never reveal what’s behind the curtain. Don’t have to hide it, but just say it’s self improvement stuff. Don’t talk about fight club.
/r/askMRP02/01/18 04:18 PM
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Wanted to add: Sounds like you fix shit round the house which is good. But, if you aren’t gaming her, getting passive dread rolling, getting in shape, leading the family, dressing better, becoming assertive, being the best version of yourself possible, basically doing anything that would make other women want to fuck you.. then it doesn’t matter that that you took you 3 hours to change the flux capacitor on your car and saved $375 or that you make 3 times as much as her... you need to man up on …
/r/askMRP31/12/17 03:24 AM
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I had a similar experience 3 years ago. Is this true or not? Probably true. Ok. You have a lot of work to do. No where to go but up now. Stop sitting on the sidelines. Get in the game. Only the quarterback fucks the home coming queen. Some starting places to begin: 1)Are you lifting yet ? Start. 2)Get control of the head of the table (fuck, my red pill awakening, I realized my wife was always sitting at the head chair. Assume the kings throne. Now. Frame yourself as the leader. You begin prayers…
/r/askMRP31/12/17 02:47 AM
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When I first started reading the Bible at home is when I realized it was all bullshit. The god of the Old Testament is fucking crazy, people were raping each other, homosexually, god was revengefull, purposefully did evil shit. I couldn’t believe what I was reading! Not my god. Don’t get me wrong, I do love some of the beautiful parables and stories like sermon in the mount , golden rule . But they do cherry pick which readings to read.
/r/askMRP30/12/17 04:51 PM
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Good post. Turning 40 this year. I can now see the matrix and I question everything now. After doing some basic research about my catholic religion and learning that numerous other stories before that time frame have a virgin birth, great flood, peaceful dove, 3 wise men, blood sacrifIces, talking snake, sun god, pagan altar, etc,,, I realized that the story I learned is basically another mythology story. At first I was pissed of a lifetime of lies.. but now, I’m at peace. I do believe in a grea…
/r/askMRP30/12/17 03:50 PM
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Remember that when you do a drive by , you are doing it for YOU, not her. You can even say that if she says something negative. Don’t wait for a response from her, don’t linger on, just grind that ass and move on. My suggestion is to be playful and cocky. All the time.
/r/askMRP26/12/17 09:14 PM
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What is that one thing that she always complains about you ? Mine was that I never talk to her. I was always wrapped up in my head alor thinking about work or some Thing. Really, I had no clue of game (kino, aa, am, shit tests etc). And once I started gaming her and what she thought was me “talking” to her , everything came back on the menu for me. It’s as easy as hey babe how was work today ass slap.. let her tell you about how sally was a bitch at work or Kim is really stuck up bla bla bla. Ju…
/r/askMRP26/12/17 09:07 PM
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That’s where that book fails. Stupid idea. If you want sex , then have sex. If you get a hard no then practice OI. She feelz “pressured” because she isn’t attracted to you. She’s probably resents you too. She thought she was getting x but got y when she married you . Are you using kino and flirting through the day? Have to be always using kino (kitchen counter, hallway closet, bathroom, etc) but don’t let it lead to sex. Do some drive bys and then just keep on walking. Is she doing drive bys on …
/r/askMRP26/12/17 08:52 PM
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Thought a lot about this very thing. I’m 3 years in now. It’s totally changed my life and relationship with my wife- previous 8 yr old dead bedroom. Thought it was mainly about sex, but turns out now It was all about myself. Totally life transformation and reawakening. I have 3 young boys, so setting examples and observation is best right now. I make sure they see dad hugging on mom, kissing, every once in awhile lass slap. Being fun, playfull, cocky, but serious when doing work or fixing someth…
/r/askMRP26/12/17 07:43 PM
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Read: married man sex life primer (mmslp) first by Athol Kay.
/r/MarriedRedPill26/12/17 05:44 PM
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Once you start implementing the sidebar, the routine arguements will go away. Once I saw first hand that she was indeed the oldest teenager in the house, things changed. Never argue with a woman , she doesn’t use logic. All emotional based. I used to get into arguments and try explaining myself to her using logic and reasoning. What i failed to realize is that women are like dogs. You wouldn't argue with a dog, so why argue with a woman. This is no joke. You need to fully understand to understan…
/r/askMRP20/12/17 12:23 AM
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Your wife sounds like mine used to be. She resents you. Period. No respect for you. You need to read the sidebar and unfuck yourself. When y’all got married she thought she getting x, but she got y. Do you think Brad Pitt would walk around the house and bicker and whine to her about picking up her shoes??? Really, Who gives a fuck. For starters, stop initiating only at perfect times- like kids taking a nap or at bed time. You need to be initiating at all times. Kino all day, text game, track her…
/r/askMRP19/12/17 11:39 PM
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Good advice for newbies. Reframing your thinking on how you need to view yourself at home. Pre map, my wife argued with me about everything- from the way I loaded the dish washer, still wrote out monthly bills with checks (old school)., spanked my kids, talked on the phone, conversation at dinner with friends... of course I’d DEER constantly and eventually said yes dear. Post map, 3 years in, this bullshit had never happened. All of a sudden the way I loaded the dishwasher doesn’t fucking matter…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/12/17 10:59 PM
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This was one of my big issues too after starting my MAP. SGM backfired on me big time at first. Key point.. at first. I was way too early in my MAP. I realize that we were both so quiet during sex. Cring worthy. My wife has reacted positively to the below lines but I’m still working on more hard core dirty talk but not there yet. Here are some good ones for a novice to break the ice: for starters, MMSLP says that you should roar like a fucking lion when you cum... like a fucking cave man. Do it!…
/r/askMRP15/12/17 12:17 AM
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Wow... brutal but totally necessary.
/r/askMRP13/12/17 01:08 AM
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“Got into an argument about something I have strong feelings about” - gay Did she make fun of your D&D game? Need a strong, confident , fun loving frame. Nothing should rattle you , especially not something this stupid.
/r/askMRP13/12/17 01:02 AM
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“How do I communicate...” I stopped reading after that. More doing . Less communicating. I was able to recover from a 8 year deadbedroom situation without ever talking about sex one time in about 3 years. It will get worse before it gets better. But focus on improving yourself these first few months in.. she’s sensing the momentum changing and do any like it. Doesn’t want it to change.
/r/askMRP12/12/17 07:45 PM
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Dead on ! Post like this make me realize how far I’ve come in 3 years. I can’t believe how this used to bother me as well ! Ha. My wife was the queen of this and I failed miserably for years upon years. Once you start improving yourself, lifting, taking care of shit around the house, leading your family, letting go of past regrets and resentments, getting a vision, having nostalgia about the future instead of the past , etc basically untucking yourself , you will actually have fun using AA on he…
/r/askMRP12/12/17 03:01 AM
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Was in the same situation as you are in. You need to provide more kino, hugging, flirting, touching, that doesn’t lead to sex throughout the day. I was in a 8 year dead bedroom, didn’t know shit about kino or game. When I would iniate at bedtime, she would have this incredible negative physical reaction and be repulsed. Why can’t we just cuddle???? I wasn’t provided enough kino or comfort during the day. Pick her up and carry her to the sofa, hump or grind, ass slap and then walk away, don’t let…
/r/askMRP10/12/17 04:13 PM
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U/redpillrobby - told you some guys wouldn't get it. Advice for newbs, learn how to mine for golden nuggets on these posts, ignore and move on from the rest if you don't agree. The gold is scattered throughout. Everything else is just mental masturbation.
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 10:36 PM
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Good post man. Hit home for me. Some guys will not get this at all. Those who weren't as bad off as some of us were. Part of my red pill awakening was just what you said. If i ordered my steak medium well and it came out well done I just ate it.. Didn't want to upset anyone. I had no preferences for restaurants, vacations, movies, i always just went with the flow.. Whatever you like hunny... Was my saying.. Wife used to fucking hate that.. Dead bedroom for years. Now i know better. Always have a…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 06:30 PM
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Leaking over from TRP.. agreed. Retards need to realize that Chad is king with fucking plates and even bored married chicks, but over time would fail miserably in a LTR because of his lack of beta skill set. Need both in a happy LTR. = rambo
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 12:46 AM
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You are right it does sound retarded. no where does the sidebar say to cut out all appreciation and lovey dovey shit. If she is treating you nicely, reward her with comfort (follow the suggested golden ratio though) Alpha and beta are not in the same scale. It's not one or the other. It helps to think of them as two independent scales at the same time. Like this: This represents when you are being alpha. Notice the beta doesn't ever not exist. ------------ Alpha --- ---- Beta------------- This r…
/r/MarriedRedPill28/11/17 12:04 AM
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You sound like a good guy so I'll take it easy on you today. She sees a huge BETA payoff ($$$ and provider for her and her future offspring) and wants to lock it down now...with you. Don't do it. Next thing you know, she'll "pressure you" into having kids next year, after that she'll pressure you into building a larger house, after that she'll pressure you into buying an expensive vehicle, after that she'll pressure you into expensive vacations, prizes, etc. It never fucking ends. Ask me how I k…
/r/askMRP24/11/17 04:41 PM
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Great post. Great reminder of their true nature. It's like having a glimpse to the wizard behind the curtain. Chicks have the luxury of not having to really work towards any goals and cannot enjoy the work/journey because they can just wait at the finish line and pick out their Chad. They don't want to strive to be a winner, just want a winner and be part of his accomplishments. Interesting... i have a successful side business that's making a pretty good profit. But it took a years worth of work…
/r/MarriedRedPill16/11/17 03:37 PM
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I have a somewhat different opinion. Yes, your wife should have input, but you also have to LEAD. However, this whole process still has the potential to suck royal dick. I was in the same position 2 months ago. House buying, especially with kids, is fucking brutal. I ultimately had to put an end to it about 3 weeks in – I had to, my wife went into full cunt mode… even WITH leadership. I’m 3 years into red pill and MRP, which totally changed my life. But this house hunting experience sucked dick.…
/r/askMRP06/11/17 09:43 PM
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Great post. Surprised not many upvotes. Reminds me of the jim rohn talk about don't ask on the job what am i getting here, the right question to ask is "who am i becoming" here on the job. So much more powerful. The universe can only give you what you already are. Good post , thanks
/r/askMRP05/11/17 02:58 PM
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What is the point of this post? No value added. TFA probably logs in with different user names to pat himself on the back. Every time.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/17 11:41 PM
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Since u r new to this, the correct response is actually no response was needed. You should have been Actively leading ur family at to that point. If it was around bedtime and u knew u needed to work on ur briefing, u should have told ur kids to get ready to bed... Go brush ur teeth or take a bath, ill come tuck.u in in 15 minutes after i take out my work shit and get it organized. 15 min comes, go put them to bed. Easy. I do that all the time. Yes, u were doing work and need to get it handled, b…
/r/askMRP22/10/17 07:40 PM
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Great post.. "it's a spectrum , it's not binary. ".. Great. as a stem tard, i tend to think black and white, on or off. What helped me is learning to have fun, cocky funny attitude, .stop over thinking shit when it's not necessary. Always be sexual. yes, my wife saw me coming a mile away when i wanted sex and it.was.probably cringe worthy. As far as the negative comments goes, you really need to think of these post as a locker room, sharing of ideas and field reports. Take what's useful for you …
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/17 06:01 PM
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Good start.. Realize that it will get worse before it gets better.. She will start to realize that the relationship dynamics are shifting and changing and will do everything in her power to resist it. The bitch level will increase. Stay the course, you are playing for the long game here.. Slowly become the leader of your family, one step at a time. Her feelings are her feelings... About 3 months in, if u r improving and increasing ur SMV, there will be a huge comfort test from her., probably acc…
/r/askMRP22/10/17 05:14 PM
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