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How do you know they want you to give something to their kids? How do you know they don’t just want something casual, that they have no intention of introducing you to their kids? They have limited time and I bet some of the ones you’re matching with just want to get … needs … met
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 06:48 PM
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A ton of guys list themselves as 6’5” on Tinder and even more put 6’3”
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 05:19 PM
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The song’s got a good beat Also lol throwback to my type by saweetie
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:49 PM
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This is just something that might happen with… certain sex acts…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/24 04:08 PM
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It’s a huge trope that women acquire a crush/partner and then her female and male friends are like uhh girl what are you doing A lot of women just roll with it at this point, it’s a trend on tiktok like “fighting for my life in the gc again” “no no no he looks better irl TRUST” “he’s cutie you just don’t see the vision 😭”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:09 PM
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You think the average men here can limit their pool to above average women? Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:02 PM
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What percent of women haven’t had a boyfriend/LTR at 30+ but have had many sexual partners? 5?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 03:00 PM
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Hmm this is an interesting perspective that I’d never explicitly thought of before
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/24 02:57 PM
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“Most marriages” if the couple has Bachelor’s degrees or higher there’s a 25.9% chance of divorce. The chance also drops if the woman is 25+ y/o. And millennials have significantly lower divorce rates than previous generations (they’re also less likely to get married).
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:32 PM
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Yup, and Trader Joe’s has used this phenomenon to grow revenue and attract customers by avoiding the choice overload effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/24 01:20 PM
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They’re just as willing to only go for sex with equally desirable women.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/24 11:42 PM
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And how long has India been an independent country?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 02:09 PM
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I mean this post is clearly about India or maybe a very similar country. I don’t know exactly to what type of culture youre referring to
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:41 PM
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Too many confounding variables to draw conclusions from that Even kissing compatibility is fundamental
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:40 PM
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Yikes
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:38 PM
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Lot of old people here think they have everything about situationships figured out
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:37 PM
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You have no idea what you’re talking about lol
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:35 PM
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“Someone that you actually enjoy” = compatibility on paper and meeting in person several times, but usually not over a long time period
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:33 PM
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I don’t know how someone looks at India or other countries in the region and thinks “yeah, rationally this is a good societal setup”
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:32 PM
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No it’s very cheap and very common in certain Eastern countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:30 PM
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Even a virgin knows when the sex is off or not really doing anything for her. We grew up in the age of the internet. Women aren’t shrinking violets with no access to information about sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:29 PM
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Rage b8, obvious from how extreme her history is and how her history is supposedly heavy in having sex with multiple men at once
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/24 01:16 PM
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Huge difference between nightclubs and parties like house parties
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 09:19 PM
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then why did ariana grande cheat with spongebob
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:34 AM
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“We”? Is that you in your pfp…? You literally have chad potential
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 01:06 AM
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Pretty sure they were joking
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:48 PM
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There are many benefits of looksmaxxing. Do it anyway, enjoy the better treatment by everyone, and bag a great girlfriend.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:55 PM
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Working on labor and delivery shows you really fast to never ever settle. There are men there who truly are with their wives/girlfriends every step of the way, supporting and taking care of them. In high risk pregnancies especially. It would be hell to go through pregnancy, childbirth, and postpartum with a man who is less loving and competent. There are so many men who are just a dead weight.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 04:24 PM
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…no. The lowest caste people are generally not immigrating to other countries because they don’t have the opportunities. But lots of middle caste people immigrate and even have positive views of India overall
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:29 PM
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Yeah the angles starting messed up when there’s too much of a height difference
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:26 PM
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58k is more than enough and you have not at all explained why it’s not. Have you ever taken a statistics class?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 06:33 PM
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Yes but more than ~30% less
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 12:31 PM
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Hmm, I think I’ve gotten with two guys who evoked that visceral need. They weren’t stereotypical chads but had good faced and were very much my type. One was 5’7” and my body would literally lose it when he was in the same room. My ex didn’t evoke that need when I first met him. Just thought he was kinda cute. We were close friends first. When we started having sex tho, holy shit. I was in a near constant haze of need for months. Interestingly, the best sex I’ve had was not with any of the above…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/24 05:25 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:06 AM
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Ah yes I’m sure your anecdote is worth more than survey data.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:06 AM
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No chance that arguing for feminism with the men here is worth it. And if a man thinks feminist = shitty person then that’s a him problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 12:04 AM
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If men want to rule out 68% of women 18-29, that’s their choice https://www.pewresearch.org/short-reads/2020/07/07/61-of-u-s-women-say-feminist-describes-them-well-many-see-feminism-as-empowering-polarizing/
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 11:52 PM
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Go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/24 09:57 PM
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Sure, it helps. Irl I don’t think there’s a significant different in dating prospects for 6 ft vs 5 10 men tho. On dating apps yeah there’s more arbitrary cutoffs that don’t make logical sense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 04:11 PM
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What happened?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:36 PM
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Man B is basically my type lol. Though I wouldn’t stay home and would teach my kids that occasionally crying is healthy for everyone. I’m woman A almost to a tee
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:30 PM
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Bro the idea that you can’t date bc you’re 5’10” is such a joke. Irl it doesn’t matter because people under 5’8” can’t even tell the difference. And on dating apps just put 5’11”…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:27 PM
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Was planning to touch grass last night and ended up not. Feeling the negative effects of that now
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 03:20 PM
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You think the human race will last until 2424?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 11:02 PM
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Crime would drop like crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:53 PM
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Mm I think white men 5’7” or below wanting to date white women have trouble, 5’8” can be tough too. In my experience asian guys on the shorter end do fine if they’re extroverted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:50 PM
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How short are we talking here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:38 PM
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The avg woman in the US is 5’3.5”. The avg man is 5’9”. A man who’s 5’5”, for example, is in the bottom 10 percentile. Short kings are generally taller than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:37 PM
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Comfort, falling into patterns, codependency, “accepting the love they think they deserve”, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 05:13 AM
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“What men refer to as blackpill women view as common sense” - one of the most insightful comments I’ve seen on this sub
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/24 08:01 PM
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This is an important point that I think a lot of self proclaimed nice guys miss.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 09:29 PM
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I’m from an upper middle class area and this is absolutely not true. It’s very uncommon for women here to have children out of wedlock. I can think of two cases, 1 when the woman was in high school and 1 a few years after HS graduation. Tho the latter woman didn’t go to college.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:30 PM
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That’s how you talk about your female friends? That’s fucked.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/24 01:23 PM
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I think it doesn’t make sense to say a 70th percentile 25 yo male is equal to a 70th percentile 25 yo female. Such a woman’s dating pool is men ~25-30, and such a man would not be 70th percentile of that pool. But yeah, people really overestimate their looks. A lot of young men do so IME
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:22 PM
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But how long into seeing these women are you sharing your inner thoughts?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 05:00 AM
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But what is your cutoff? Let’s say for a 25 year old woman, and for a 30 year old.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:57 AM
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What about women who begin searching for LTRs early (let’s say 22) and have casual sex in between LTRs? I can name several women who fit this bill, and most actually had 1 serious LTR before 22. Women who have high body counts and have had a lot of casual sex, but have never pursued a serious relationship by their late 20s/early 30s are pretty uncommon.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 04:55 AM
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Yeahh the narrative on this sub that there’s a sizable amount of women who reach their 30s having had a lot of casual sex but never an LTR is so funny
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:05 PM
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Oh look he’s got a second acct
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:44 PM
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Did you spend your 20s in a major coastal city?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:38 PM
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“Getting to know a guy for a year before sleeping with him” oh so you’re trolling
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 02:57 AM
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Re: sex and the city, didn’t Charlotte, Carrie, and Miranda all have at least 1 LTR in the years before the series started (before their 30s I mean)?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:36 AM
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Marrying and having children just to avoid potential loneliness is a surefire way to live an unhappy life
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:31 AM
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Why are we pretending that 28 year old women are out here having situationships rather than 20 year old college students? And why are we pretending it’s any level of normal for women to go through their 20s hooking up but never having a long term relationship? It is much more common for women who have casual sex to have some LTRs in their 20s, and hook up when they are single.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 01:22 AM
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There’s this narrative on this sub that women in their 20s are just hooking up with “Chad” and not pursuing relationships. The reality is that women who have casual sex generally pursue a mix of hookups and relationships in their 20s. At times they will be in a monogamous relationship and if not, they’ll pursue hookups. It’s pretty rare for a woman to only have casual sex in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 12:59 AM
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Yeah after being on a labor and delivery floor long enough you’ll see that there are a number of criteria that need to be dealbreakers and you just cannot settle on. There are other criteria that are more flexible based on the woman’s preferences. I don’t want to compromise on finding a man I can laugh and banter with, but I have friends who have compromised on that. I personally would compromise on income (to like 50% of my income)
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 03:37 PM
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Shit take. My sister and I begged my parents to divorce when we were younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:56 PM
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The stat was 1.62 for non immigrant swedes
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 02:43 PM
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Women tend to be interested in / value their partner’s education, employment, and earning potential. I’m a woman and the attractiveness of the women I matched with increased dramatically after attaining a high level of prestige in those realms
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 11:51 PM
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Are you serious? The pool shrinks because a small percentage of men are tall, or rich, or whatever
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:58 PM
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Both of my grandmothers were 13 when they got married. My grandfathers were mid 20s. This is not at all unusual for their generation.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:21 PM
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Everyone is stupid for love
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:17 PM
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I think it’s more often a body insecurity thing not a femininity insecurity thing
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:12 PM
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There are plenty of men who prefer tall women. There are also men that prefer educated women with high earning jobs (though they tend not to care if she plans to stay in it or not). You are projecting your preferences and your definition of high value (well the preferences of >50% of men, but not nearly 100%). Also, this is not why tall and rich women struggle. A tall woman’s dating pool shrinks significantly if she prefers a taller man. Same with a rich woman who wants a man who makes more than…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:10 PM
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There are plenty of men who prefer tall women. There are also men that prefer educated women with high earning jobs (though they tend not to care if she plans to stay in it or not). You are projecting your preferences (and the preferences of >50% of men, but not nearly 100%). Also, this is not why tall and rich women struggle. A tall woman’s dating pool shrinks significantly if she prefers a taller man. Same with a rich woman who wants a man who makes more than her. The rich woman may have also …
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 03:08 PM
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💀
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:32 AM
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How does casual dating negatively impact any of the things you said
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:19 AM
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FOBs are fucking. A lot. With each other. Source: I had several East Asian fob friends in college
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/24 05:16 AM
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I thought abt it more and I think a lot if these women also have avoidant attachment, but are more able to justify avoiding relationships bc of how time limited they are. But I also definitely have some friends/family friends who were so stressed out of their mind in college or med school that they couldn’t pour into new relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 08:39 PM
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Thanks for the laugh. Good luck with all that
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 06:21 PM
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Ok. And how many men actually level up to the point of going for younger women who are 9s. Or honestly even younger women who are 6s. For a 6 a man needs to be either spending good money on her or look very good for his age. For a 9, both criteria or a lottt of money would need to be involved.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 05:58 PM
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Yup. As a young woman with deep rooted issues surrounding both sex and relationships, I’ve spent years avoiding both and planned to continue doing so for some time. I also had very strong friendships so I didn’t mind much. But now, I moved, it’s hard as hell to make friends, and my previous friends are finding the same in their new cities and are collapsing into relationships. My hand is being forced in terms of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:36 PM
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The jealousy sets in about 6 months - 1 year after college ends (so ~23). This is particularly true for young people today because we are so isolated and lonely. It becomes really hard to socialize after college - for the first time in our lives, we don’t have school to force proximity with potential friends. And work from home is bigger than ever. People collapse into their relationships to maintain that lifeline to human connection. And then slowly the dominoes start to fall as more people tur…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:22 PM
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Because that narrative doesn’t have basis in reality. I’m 2 years out of college and my instagram feed is almost suffocatingly full of engagement and wedding photos. These are early-mid 20s women with men their age or a few years older. I also run mostly in secular circles. The women who avoid relationships in their 20s are basically in two categories: 1. avoidant attachment (these women tend to express desire for relationships, but struggle to actually engage in them bc underlying issues) caree…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 04:15 PM
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People go on and on about fertility here but a sizable minority of people don’t even want kids nowadays esp for economic reasons
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:15 PM
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And how many men are actually out here getting their status up?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:12 PM
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Did typing this up make you feel better
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:09 PM
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This post is so out of touch with current economic realities lmfao. Outside of fields like tech/finance/maybe trades, many people are simply not financially stable enough to have children in their mid to late 20s. Thinking about housing prices and daycare priced, plus everything else.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:09 PM
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The women on this sub skew heavily educated and above avg income. That’s a big part of the distortion seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/24 03:05 PM
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Yup. I would rather be single than be married to someone who was not an equal partner and coparent. Or someone who I couldn’t laugh/banter with. Or someone I wasn’t able to have an adventurous and fulfilling sex life with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:43 PM
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Lots of people arguing that women are much less likely to swipe right than men. Watch a gay guy swipe sometime. They are veryy discerning. It would be reasonable to think the pool of men on apps is on avg worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:40 PM
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Bunch of people in this comment section viewing dating apps as reflective of all dating despite being repeatedly explained to why dating apps are uniquely bad
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/24 03:37 PM
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Not really… I mean if a guy’s really attractive or good in bed a woman will stick around for some time but generally no. Like there’s a few options after the woman is initially attracted: LTR, FWB, ONS. If there’s no attraction past the physical, then LTR won’t happen. If the woman isn’t into casual sex, then nothing happens. Otherwise a woman will fuck zone you, though even for FWB there’s usually some level of rapport, like with sense of humor. And outside of some special circumstance like the…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 09:38 PM
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Unrelated but I’ve seen a few times in this comment section men saying they’ve never seen a woman friend bake for others/male friends… how is that even possible? Women be baking lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:11 PM
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I don’t see how this is contradicts what I said? Appearance is the first step in attracting women. Next step is keeping her interested…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 08:08 PM
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…no? I’m sure there are cases of the friendzoner giving false hope but that is not nearly the most common scenario. The friendzoned person is also not necessarily sticking around due to false hope. I’ve been friendzoned twice, once by a straight male and once by a straight woman. The first was a harmless crush, I was rejected, got over it in some time apart, and stayed friends with him for years. The second time, I fell in love. But with time I got over it. She continues to be one of my closest …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:32 PM
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I can understand the point of feeling annoyed at what other people are saying. I think the point being made throughout this comment section, though, is that these women are calling themselves 10s and meaning “I love and respect myself, I have value as a human being, etc” I’m sorry that you weren’t treated as human before changing your physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:28 PM
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I think you’re blinded by the hair honestly. Blonde hair tends to soften features in a way that brings flaws out of focus. Plus her hair is impeccably curled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:19 PM
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I think a lot of women need the positive reinforcement at the outset
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 07:18 PM
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Great analysis. Many men on this sub miss this entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:57 PM
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Times where I had a strong opinion of my looks, I ate healthier, avoided emotional eating, and dressed better. Actually, vanity about my skin and believing that I naturally have good, clear skin was one of the biggest motivators for decreasing my fried and fast food intake. Times when I felt bad about how I looked, I avoided exercise and laid in bed, wore over sized clothes to hide my perceived flaws, and was prone to binge eating.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:55 PM
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Frfr I couldn’t believe my eyes at first
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:42 PM
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I said a sizable minority… not the majority
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 06:18 PM
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I don’t know what to tell you. I’m bisexual and find the brunette more attractive. Tbh I don’t see why the blonde is so much more attractive in your eyes. They both have strong facial features, imo equalish in that respect. They have pretty similar bodies. The differences I see are hair color, makeup, outfit, and how the blonde has styled her hair.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 05:05 PM
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1) Calling that brunette a 5 is crazyyy. Absolutely delusional to think she’s an avg woman 2) The blonde fits the beauty standard of blonde and tanned and all but I think a significant minority of people would view the brunette as more attractive. Myself included (not a fan of bottle blondes) 3) The blonde is not a 9, at least not in the US. 4) The blonde gives heavy dunking on the brunette vibes. 5) Women sugar coat. We are raised to communicate like this, esp with other woman. We either rate a…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:49 PM
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This comment section is seemingly using a really broad definition of friend zoning — something like “when a woman befriends a man rather than trying to fuck him” — rather than the traditional definition, where a man and woman are friends, a man expresses feelings/ says they want a relationship, and the woman says she just wants to be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:35 PM
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“Limit the options mentally to want to be with a friend” oh shit it me
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:32 PM
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Assuming a minimum height is met (like 5’7”): - Fitness, which means healthy weight and some muscle (not roided out) - General effort with appearance, including effort with hair/grooming and dressing decently. This can be person specific, like skincare for a guy with acne issues, teeth whitening or braces for a guy with dental issues, etc - Over time working on self esteem and confidence - Sense of humor, tho admittedly I’m not sure how to actually improve that - Working on socializing with wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:30 PM
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Ahh another “blue pill is just personality” “blue pill thinks looks don’t matter” meme post
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 03:15 PM
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Casual/drunken sex can only fulfill someone for so long…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:43 PM
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This is a good point
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 02:23 PM
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Instead of acknowledging this people here prefer to go on about 80/20 and Chads lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/24 01:18 PM
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So many men here are claiming that women just use male friends for favors or as an “emotional tampon,” it’s bewildering. I have to think that a large part of this is that these just men have superficial friendships with other men. They don’t understand that it’s normal and healthy not emotionally support your friends. It’s also normal to sometimes do favors for each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:11 PM
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“Do favors for them”? What? Generally friends are mutually there for each other…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:02 PM
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I can agree with the cost aspect but saying that spending time outside is a cost is kind of ridiculous… that’s just what human interaction is
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 03:08 AM
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I don’t think these issues specifically resonate with viewers. Generally, the idea that dating is currently a shit show resonates with most people. People are looking for reasons and solutions, so they turn to these influencers, dating coaches, etc. The reality is that the vast majority of these issues are related to the decline of in person interaction and rise in using the internet for human connection (also imo a big drop off in general male-female interactions). But that’s a much harder thin…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 04:28 PM
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There’s a huge difference between SSRIs and Valium, and you know it. There’s also probably an argument to made that women’s health issues (mental and physical) tend to be dismissed as anxiety which leads to SSRI rx
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/24 08:29 PM
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