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| 3 | Women are absolutely clueless as to how much more difficult dating is for menMen have no standards and are too desperate, which is actually the issue. Sleeping with anything, simping for women online, paying for every date, subscribing to onlyfans, etc. It’s like a form of inflation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/22 08:00 PM |
| 35 | Just be nazi theoryOver 300 matches is hard to explain away. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:37 PM |
| 24 | Just be nazi theoryThe tattoo is hard to miss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/21 07:36 PM |
| 0 | Guys would rather be fuckboys than seen as husband material because the former gets the best of both worlds, and the latter gets the least of both worlds.This sub bases too many opinions on the worst of the genders. The type of woman I’m interested in would be completely turned off by fuckboy characteristics. As would most women with self esteem. And on the other side, the decent guys looking for something serious won’t spend their time in meaningless relationships. So the opinion on what’s husband material from a toxic individual has no value to me. Most people on this sub need to get closer to being the type of person their ideal partner would … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/21 05:13 PM |
| 6 | Post from Dating Over Thirty I'd like to discuss " Is it always true that if a guy says he's not ready for a relationship that the "with you" is silent?"Does it even matter? If you don’t want to date me then I’m moving on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/09/21 01:40 AM |
| 3 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.All you need to do is look outside and you’ll see that this is not true. I’ve never seen a man on Reddit say he’s waiting for his girlfriend to propose. I see it all the time in the reverse. You live in an alternate reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 05:32 PM |
| 1 | Women control the entire relationship realm, men have no say in anything.Even the most attractive woman on earth has a guy that she is waiting on a text back from. Women control the sexual marketplace and use this to leverage into relationships. This is dating 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/09/21 04:56 PM |
| 13 | CMV: Men shouldn’t take dating advice from women online at all, until they consider what type of women they want to attractTake advice from other men that are successful at dating. No offense but women often give advice that’s not optimal from the male perspective. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/08/21 12:00 AM |
| – | Women's best sex partner-what would you have done ?Yeah, no. I’m not standing for my sex life being discussed negatively among friends. Not to mention she was gaslighting him when he brought it up. Dude should move on and that girl should try to get back with her ex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 08:05 PM |
| 1 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?You sound like a cynical fool. Good luck getting older. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 08:24 AM |
| 1 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Then don’t. The gist of my post was that dating for the average man is easier after 30, to which you seem to agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/21 04:49 AM |
| 2 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)I read again and get what you mean, my bad for the misinterpretation. These bitter guys will drive away any quality women they’d meet with their thinking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 04:29 AM |
| 0 | Men Spend Their 20's Trying to Fuck Stacy (Hot Women) and Then Settle For Billy Beta (Women of Similar Attractiveness)This post is a lot of projecting. Not all young men are so short sighted that they value attractiveness over everything else. You beta alpha sigma people always assume everyone’s trying to pull a fast one while dating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/08/21 04:09 AM |
| 0 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?What are you advocating for then? Everyone saying this nice guys stuff but doesn’t present a solution to the issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/08/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Well are you attractive? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 05:08 AM |
| 1 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Two things: I disagree with you and good looking is subjective. Women are up against their biological clock and societal standards to land a husband, they get thirsty a little after 30. You don’t even have to believe me, this is what they say themselves. Meanwhile 30 year old men can date women older and younger than themselves, even if what you say is true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/08/21 12:05 AM |
| 2 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Y’all are becoming exactly what you bemoan with this type of logic. Have a good one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 04:32 PM |
| 1 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Women are up against their biological clock and aren’t typically initiators in western dating, so that’s a different dynamic. Difference between simping and finding your long term partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 04:02 PM |
| 4 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Dating in general is difficult. Age and wisdom gives a man an advantage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 07:28 AM |
| 10 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?This kind of mentality is so toxic and it’ll only attract more dumpster fire, so good luck. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 04:18 AM |
| 11 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?Doesn’t matter if you’re a nice guy or not, dating as a guy in your 20s is a grind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 04:07 AM |
| 12 | The dating game- Worth it for average men or not?This answer depends on your age. If you’re below 30, dating as an average guy is going to be a bunch of work and mistakes. Above 30 and your competition thins out and women are more sober about their options. It’s all worth it when you snatch one decent person in the end. Sucks until that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/08/21 03:59 AM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyLol yeah, tall dark and handsome, but I just never noticed the guy. Anyways here’s how you can do what he did! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 01:02 AM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyWomen often don’t pursue men so this isn’t really breaking news. This is very subjective. A lot of women see an attractive guy and fantasize, this is just normal. That’s how celebrity crushes exist. Be attractive and confident is the best way to approach women, I agree. None of your advice is really useful to “lost cause” dudes who women aren’t attracted to. My advice you guys would be to hit the gym, take good pictures, and date consistently. In the age of apps, approaching someone in person is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 12:41 AM |
| 2 | Do you think Online Dating just makes it too easy for the opposite sex (either one)?Online dating is different than in person. Everything else you’re saying is nonsense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:20 PM |
| 2 | Do you think Online Dating just makes it too easy for the opposite sex (either one)?You are using raw numbers as if humans are robots. Women on dating apps have a plethora of options that regular women do not have. They can get approached in person and on the apps, especially if they’re attractive. This is a level of competition very different than prior generations of dating, the two experiences can’t even be compared. People on the apps behave differently than in person. You can wave it off as anecdotal if you want to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Do you think Online Dating just makes it too easy for the opposite sex (either one)?Are you in opposite world? Man on dating apps get turned down, unmatched, ghosted WAY more than they ever would in person. For the obvious reason that there’s no social consequences for doing so and options are unlimited. Online dating is extremely different from in person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 04:28 PM |
| 2 | Do you think Online Dating just makes it too easy for the opposite sex (either one)?This is very untrue. The quantity of options changes the incentives and behavior of users. For men, the competition is often extreme in a way that offline can never replicate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:30 AM |
| 1 | Do you think Online Dating just makes it too easy for the opposite sex (either one)?Come on now. Women generally choose not to initiate on apps and have a much wider pool to select from. Not to mention the sheer amount of likes the average female user gets compared to a male user. Nobody would ever choose the latter if there was a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 07:29 AM |
| – | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexYou’re crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 04:44 AM |
| 4 | There is no proof that men aren't having ”good quality” sex in relationships.Literally nothing in your OP is provable, get a grip. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 06:40 PM |
| 3 | There is no proof that men aren't having ”good quality” sex in relationships.Why are you arguing with logic you don’t believe? Watch what they do in this instance makes no sense because most men are getting lackluster sex from their women, beta or whatever does not matter. Women on Reddit will even admit to phoning it in during sex for various reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/21 04:14 PM |
| 4 | Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for...Women don’t approach men so they aren’t aware of their dating looks range in the same way guys are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 05:09 PM |
| 10 | Even if a woman lowers her standards, she won't be ATTRACTED to the man she's lowered them for...Women lower their standards all the time. Because sure they can sleep with an 8 but will he date her? Meanwhile the 6 might. Everyone wants the cream of the crop, but that’s not how life works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 03:30 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you rather?A very high percentage of women don’t initiate nor do they pay for dates. #1 is automatically out of the question, I’m not gambling sexual chemistry until after marriage. #2 possibly for a casual situation, I’d remain single if these were my options. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/21 05:03 PM |
| – | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Why don’t you ask them, I won’t claim to be a representative of that group. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 09:39 PM |
| – | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.People in earlier generations got married very young on average, and likewise for having sex. I’m taking those responsive surveys with a grain of salt. This is a tangent anyways, you’re talking about sex, I’m talking about relationships. Your logic for saying online dating has ruined everything is likely that it’s made dating around too easy, which was my point to begin with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:53 AM |
| 1 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withThe comparison is foolish. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:36 AM |
| – | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Dudes were definitely not having more sex back then than today. Boomers average less sexual partners than millennials, and millennials still have a lot of life to live. I prefer this generation over being married at 23 and drafted to a war. Not to mention sex isn’t the only end goal here. Online dating presents some issues I’ll agree but at some point you work with what you got. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withRight? Like using terms like beta? Just cringe all around on some of these takes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 06:02 AM |
| 1 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withYeah, you sound like you’ll make a great husband I bet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 05:40 AM |
| 1 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withLol. And when your looks fade or when she leaves you for a better looking guy, are you just going to say “that’s how it goes”? Use common sense, any relationship founded on vapidity is doomed to fail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 03:17 AM |
| – | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Which gets back to OP’s point right, men are willingly signing up for these less than desirable opportunities. Gotta take responsibility. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 03:15 AM |
| 1 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withYawn. Is your wife going to be the most attractive woman you’ve ever been with? Will you leave her if someone more attractive comes along? I see why a lot of guys on here struggle, you’re obsessed with looks and sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 03:14 AM |
| – | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Yeah, I agree that it’s more nuanced than a simple Reddit post will allow. But the average guy begging the “alphas” to stop smashing average women so they can have a chance…like I just can’t be moved to do that. The average guy today has a chance to have more women to date than any man in history. You only need one girlfriend and you’re out the game. Historically men have never had it easier, and I’m a dude saying that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 03:12 AM |
| 1 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withOk? And I pulled my GF still, so what? I’ve dated hotter women, I don’t ever feel the need to address it to her. It’s almost like you can like people for reasons beyond the physical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 03:07 AM |
| – | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Why does everything come down to: look women do it too! The male behavior I’m describing is idiotic and undermines the dating market. Saying oh women do stuff too if they like the guy is a childish argument. Never said women had more self respect by the way, just that men are debasing themselves to get a sniff of pussy, and it’s true. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 03:05 AM |
| – | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.I’m not even sure what your point is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:57 AM |
| 3 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withThey could find you attractive and you not be the most attractive partner she’s ever had. Meaning she’s not with you primarily just for looks? Some of you are just hypocritical, you don’t want to be judged on material things in one thread but here everyone is revealing that’s what they really care about. Just stupid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 03:00 AM |
| 5 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withPaying for companionship is just going to make these guys worse off, you’re giving bad advice. Men would be better off just committing to self improvement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 02:58 AM |
| 5 | Men need to accept that they aren't going to be the hottest guy that their partner has been withDoes it matter if you’re the most attractive partner? There’s an odd obsession with looks in this sub. And then suggesting paying for an escort to “overcome” a power imbalance…just lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 01:11 AM |
| 2 | New research: College women value physical attractiveness in their sexual partners just as much as men do.Any guy that’s been to college should know this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:43 PM |
| 9 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.I’m a man. Get a grip and stop embarrassing yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 11:35 PM |
| 0 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Boo hoo, high sex drive men just suffering. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 09:54 PM |
| 98 | If women are responsible for their poor taste in men, then men are responsible for their poor taste in women.Lol this post baited a lot of posters. It’s not a controversial statement and I actually agree. A lot of men complain about the dating market but they are collectively responsible for it. Whining about all the options that the average woman has, well that’s because all of you are so thirsty for sexual attention that you have no self respect. Who’s paying for all the onlyfans out there? Who’s being thirsty in Instagram comments? Catcalling women on the street? Some people need to just be real and… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 03:56 PM |
| 6 | Women would be better people if they had to compete in dating like men doNobody owes anything to anyone. Below average people belong together, fool. Whatever average means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/21 04:07 AM |
| – | Men are more likely to agree in what women are attractive, while women are more likely to disagree in what men are attractiveStill need the bottom feeders to pay for only fans, give likes on social media, and serve a purpose. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionGo ahead then. I already said I’d be willing to give up porn for a sexually satisfying relationship so chill with the agenda. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 02:08 PM |
| 0 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionYeah, good luck finding a guy to agree with that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 07:11 AM |
| 1 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionYou’re assuming my partner doesn’t have her own fantasies and things she likes. I already said it’s a two way street, sex is a mutually beneficial process. Good sex anyways, which doesn’t sound like what you describe. If I’m relying upon my imagination in my relationship then it’s time to leave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/21 12:30 AM |
| 1 | Why is talking about sexual strategy much more inflammatory than practicing it in real life?You are living a PPD discussion, which is even worse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:14 PM |
| 1 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionI prefer the things that are pleasurable to me. If my partner is sending nudes and doing the things I like in bed then I don’t need porn to subsidize my relationship. If I’m single, I’m doing whatever I want. According to you, guys should accept whatever sexual advances they get. And if they don’t get any then they should remain chaste, don’t watch porn, and don’t follow anyone attractive. Oh and don’t have any sexual fantasies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/21 09:12 PM |
| 5 | Why is talking about sexual strategy much more inflammatory than practicing it in real life?Why don’t you? You seem eager to talk about it on Reddit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 01:30 PM |
| 9 | Why is talking about sexual strategy much more inflammatory than practicing it in real life?OP sounds like the type of person that people avoid at parties. Nice story though, I’m sure your wife is loving your arrangement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/21 08:38 AM |
| 0 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionYou’re saying a lot of nothing. If I give up porn in a relationship it’s because I’m satisfied sexually. If we’re not acting out my preferences then yeah, it’s not good sex for me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/21 06:20 AM |
| 2 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionWhatever you say. Most men are not giving up porn/masturbating to be in a relationship devoid of sexual excitement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/21 03:02 AM |
| 7 | To the highest value men, a woman's status and intelligence are equally important as her looksThis is just common sense. People who have something to lose aren’t just going to marry a pretty face. They’ll cheat all day long though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 05:26 PM |
| 0 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionYou’re trying to make it sound like some kind of extreme position. People have sexual preferences and stuff they like to do, I would prefer to share that with my partner exclusively. And obviously it’s a two way street, I do things for my partner that they find pleasurable as well. Don’t see how you make a jump from that to treating anyone like an object. Your position is basically that guys should give up porn and things they enjoy sexually, and no they should not expect those things from their… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 03:57 PM |
| 2 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionProtective of their own pleasure, you mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:42 AM |
| 1 | Post from RedPillWomen- what the eff has happened to men these days? DiscussionI find it funny how attractive women on Instagram are deemed to be cheap and fake when it suits the argument. Men like attractive women. So they follow them on social media. So they watch porn. Where’s the leap from those two things to being insecure? If the guy is single then he’s free to do whatever he wants on this front. And to be honest I wouldn’t give up porn in a relationship unless there was a conversation and my partner was willing to share pictures/videos to my preferences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/06/21 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexDon’t want to put in the effort to look good? If so then I agree. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 02:20 PM |
| 21 | Most Legitimately Average Men Don't Have Such A Huge Problem With Having SexLooks attract women even more than men think they do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 01:15 AM |
| 1 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.Sex doesn’t benefit women unless there’s monetary value, noted | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Having sex is a mutual benefit for the man and the woman, not just for the man.Non physical needs apply for both genders but sure | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/05/21 12:59 AM |
| 8 | If women shouldnt feel proud about talking money from simps and losers, then men shouldnt feel proud about fucking Pick Me Girls and female losers.It actually takes work to build a connection with a female partner, whether or not you think she’s a pick me? Sex is something that’s mutually beneficial? “Loser” men can pair with women on their level? Meanwhile some female redditors think it’s ok to accept money from and enable onlyfans/sex worker culture, and then ridicule those guys in the next take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/05/21 02:08 PM |
| 6 | What do people mean when they say women don’t want to settle down until they are 30 or ‘old’?I have no horse in the race about settling down or whatever the topic is but you’re toeing the line on misinformation about advanced age pregnancy. The odds of a natural pregnancy at age 40 is slim, let alone 45. Women fret about motherhood around age 30 because of societal pressures and realizing that the timeline from meeting a partner to dating to marriage to pregnancy could push their family planning into risky territory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/05/21 07:00 AM |
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