FlamingBudder Archive

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2	How is Believing in Blackpill and Doomer thoughts supposed to help you? I think the red pill’s purpose is to “help” men succeed in the dating world and believing that women are primal and only want men who are rich and muscular and alpha dominant is misleading and ineffective at helping men get into relationships. With the blackpill and doomer ideology though, no one is subscribing to this ideology to get help or get better. The point is not that the blackpill is supposed to help you. That’s ridiculous, the whole point is that you feel like you are just incapable of…	/r/ExRedPill	28/02/26 12:31 AM
1	Do you know any man who has been mistreated by a woman, who has held a grudge against women, and whose grudge disappeared upon finding a woman who loves, protects, and supports him? I have to ask about the motivation behind asking this question. Are you the man who was hurt by women before and want to be healed? Where is this question coming from? It seems oddly specific.	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/26 01:23 AM
16	Do you think David Buss's study is accurate? Here’s a video making fun of evolutionary psychology https://youtu.be/31e0RcImReY?si=Wz9b-MSp9ltFxRvC It is generally considered pseudoscience. Its core principle that human psychology stems from evolutionary pressures is true, but beyond that most of the conclusions that the field espouses are pretty much complete bullshit that’s based on vibes without substantial backing by factuality. A lot of unfalsifiable claims, which are a no no to anyone trying to do rigorous science. It’s a complete jok…	/r/ExRedPill	07/02/26 01:08 AM
-5	Do you know of any anti-red pill channels that address this issue with empathy? From google’s AI overview: Key YouTube Channels and Creators Countering Red Pill Ideologies Destiny (Steven Bonnell II): Known for live-streamed debates, Destiny frequently engages directly with red pill influencers and critics to dismantle their arguments regarding gender dynamics and society. HealthyGamerGG (Dr. Alok Kanojia): A psychiatrist who addresses mental health, loneliness, and, often, the pitfalls of the red pill/incel mindset from a psychological perspective, offering a, “healthy alt…	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/26 07:23 PM
4	Do you know of any anti-red pill channels that address this issue with empathy? Healthygamergg is very good for that	/r/ExRedPill	02/02/26 07:21 PM
2	I believe that my sixteen year old brother has been red-pilled. Open to interpretation, I’d love to chat. That sounds like a great idea! My dad also doesn’t really respond well to feedback and seems to like to live a life of his own. I really don’t know what to do about that and get fathers to play a more engaged role but maybe the specialist has some good advice	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/26 10:03 PM
2	I believe that my sixteen year old brother has been red-pilled. Open to interpretation, I’d love to chat. Yeah your concerns are pretty valid. He definitely sounds like he is being red pilled. It’s kind of shocking how much can happen in a few months. I think an intervention and conversation of some sort might be able to help. Especially if you can educate your father on these ideologies because your brother is more likely to listen to and respect a man. But yeah I’m sorry you have to deal with this and good luck!	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/26 07:37 PM
1	What are your thoughts on hypergamy? Yeah that’s unfortunately one of the gender roles prized by society. Unfortunately I’m still college age and it’s not a concern for me at this point so I haven’t asked women about how they feel about it. Nor do I have very good advice on it. But I’ve found a few posts on the internet where men and women say they don’t have the traditional men make more than women situation going on. Honestly it’s something I think society should abandon and will probably fade away because I don’t see how it’s sh…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/26 06:09 PM
5	What are your thoughts on hypergamy? This is a very long comment, didn’t mean it to be this long but i think it could be helpful for you if you read it all Like with most things, it’s easy to fall into black and white thinking. Some people say women are super hypergamous, some people say no it doesn’t matter at all. I think to a certain extent hypergamy is there. I mean it has to be there, just the fact that some people are more attractive than others means people gravitate towards the attractive people. But I don’t think this hype…	/r/ExRedPill	30/01/26 05:48 PM
2	I think I may be starting to doubt the 80/20 rule and I may be more attractive than I think. I’m glad you are getting better, seeking therapy, and changing your mind on some things. The fact that you are on this subreddit and have a therapist is already amazing! I recommend going to some sort of group therapy. There are these therapy groups called “process groups” which basically involve people in the group sharing about their struggles and victories, and then getting therapeutic, validating, non dismissive and kind feedback from other group members and the therapists who are moderating…	/r/ExRedPill	10/12/25 01:49 AM