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So do you fucking agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:33 AM
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Then why the fuck do ugly, old, obese, midget women get 1000s of dating offers? Wtf are you missing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:14 AM
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Just checking, do you agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking in order to have hookup and sexual options?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:59 AM
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I mean what can I say, you're so extremely privileged being a woman living the sex life only available to Emperors and 80s rockstars. Its quite humbling hearing how you talk about it. But anyways, besides that, when you say the guy has to be really cute, shy and nerdy, maybe the aesthetic standard is extremely high. Like maybe this guy has to be really male modelesque and youthful. Like if you're at a club and your GF picks up a guy, she will pick the guy who stands out in aesthetics. Like the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:33 PM
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We are listening to what women are saying on social media and that aligns with the real world behavior of young women under 35
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:30 PM
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Then why do 80% of men get no matches on Tinder? Why do top 5% get 90% of all likes from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:28 PM
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But what about the millions of women who are enjoying casual sex? Women who do hookups from Tinder, have FWB rosters, have short term sexual flings, etc with hot guys. Women who have an active sex life despite not being in a committed relationship. Can you claim on their behalf that they won't care that their life will change suddenly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:27 PM
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But in your experience, in retrospect, the guys who did end up being part of a 3some (FMF) were outliers, exceptional in some way. Could be looks, hotness, sexual ability, fame, etc. Else you and the other woman wouldn't be able to justify allowing him that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:23 PM
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Millions of women enjoy casual sex and are happy that hot men have low standards for fucking. Imagine if men were as sexually picky as women. Thats not a world you'd want to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:23 PM
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Men are not looks elitist so why wouldn't they be sexually attracted to you? Again, your concern suggests you go for conventionally hot men way above your league for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:53 AM
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You uttered from within you that men are desperate only for top percent of women. How's that possible if ugly obese midget women get 1000s of offers to hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:44 AM
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Right, but if he's really good-looking and hot, he doesn't even need to lie and he can be upfront about just wanting to be fuck buddies, yes? Like imagine if a 6'4 hot guy you meet up with said he wants to just be casual fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:39 AM
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Then why the fuck do ugly, old, obese, short as midget women have 1000s of offers to hookup on dating apps. Are you sure you're not bullshitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:32 AM
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The ones you have casual sex with very early, what differentiates them from the one's you need to speak to for a longer time? I know you said both have to meet a minimum attraction criteria, but are the ones you can fuck very quickly after meeting even good-looking/hotter/distinguihsed in looks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:28 AM
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And for hookups and casual fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:05 AM
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So you were only seeking Chads on dating apps back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:04 AM
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But the hot male model tier guys get 1000s of women worshipping them on dating apps for their shirtless gym pics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:03 AM
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why do women only find 10-15% men attractive on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:02 AM
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So you're saying you filter out good-looking, tall, hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:01 AM
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(For instance, the guy who was hoping for a threesome Was he not good-looking, hot enough to expect something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:00 AM
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Are you attracted to fat men? Or must you only swipe right on tall fit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:59 AM
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Its funny because they still fuck Chads casually when they come across them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:58 AM
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Then why the fuck do mediocre and below average looking women get so many dating offers? If you are willing to go to Chads flat at 2am you've never met, maybe the safety fears aren't that big to you. Just accept that you're an extremely shallow elitist female
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:57 AM
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So you're saying women collectively only find 10-15% of men attractive (percentage of men who get matches on dating apps) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:55 AM
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Is your attractiveness criteria/benchmarks on dating apps higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:53 AM
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So why do you need to be courted in the initial phases? Why do you need the asymmetry initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:50 AM
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Why don't you actively search for and court men who are emotionally expressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:47 AM
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So why aren't you celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:45 AM
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Men do claim that women are shallower, hypergamous and way more looks elitist than men. That is an innate difference
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:44 AM
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But if most men didn't take the initiative and perform the mountain of emotional labor to court someone, they'll be single and sexless for life You are talking about very good looking, hot guys who can afford to be passive. Do you understand this or are you bigoted against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:42 AM
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So why do only men need to plan dates and have confidence during courtship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:41 AM
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I can't accept that women have lower libidos I have seen women who have rosters, fuck buddies, short term flings, and hot lovers. They fuck like rabbits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:29 AM
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So why aren't women celibate? Who are the men they're fucking? If what you say is true, way more women should be celibate than men, but twice as many men as women are celibate under 35
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:28 AM
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Why do men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking to have dating options?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:07 AM
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Why do men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking to have dating options?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:07 AM
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Why do men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking to have dating options?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:06 AM
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Average and below average looking women also only hookup with hot guys. The ugliest of girls on college campuses hookup with good looking tall guys only. The ugliest of women on dating apps ONLY want good looking tall guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:05 AM
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Show me women hooking up with average / mediocre looking guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:03 AM
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Why the fuck are you so fucking obsessed with boomer married couples? Why are you scared shitless to see the young crowd at college campuses, clubs, bars, festivals, beaches, etc? Literally every GenZ girl no matter how ugly , obese, short as midget she is wants exclusively a tall handsome hot lover/boyfriend/fuck-buddy. Literally every girl on a college campus is hooking up with tall handsome guys. Why the fuck are you scared shitless to address that? Why are you obsessed with boomer married co…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:03 AM
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<image> Women lie pathologically
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:00 AM
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Do you know that women are mf'n liars and pathologically downplay the importance of good looks? How do you feel about this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:59 AM
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How would therapy make a man more physically attractive, taller, hotter (all the things needed to hookup with women) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:57 AM
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By disproportionate amount of sex you mean the amount of sex an average woman gets?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:55 AM
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Why do you think women have so many petty icks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:52 AM
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Whats the reason why women have so many extremely petty icks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:50 AM
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Whats the reason why women have so many petty icks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:50 AM
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Wth was your ick?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:49 AM
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Why do majority of men need to walk on eggshells to get a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:48 AM
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There aren't enough women without petty icks for most normal men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:47 AM
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There aren't any options for most men when the petty icks of women exclude majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:45 AM
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Why do so many women have such petty icks is the question? Why don't men have icks on the same scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:45 AM

Its the same everywhere, Socal, NY, Chicago, Seatlle, Miami, Toronto. There's no escape, thats for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:51 AM

According to GenZ women 5% of young men are attractive (fuckable, hookup-able, FWB-able, Tinder-worthy, etc) Men that women deem attractive do hookups and flings just like that. They can use Tinder and Bumble. They can go to clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:47 AM

There's no manipulation Its just something mf'n feminists bullshit out of their asses. Hell with them too. Hell with women's lies and bigotry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:23 AM

Do you fuck the shit out of these girls who approach you? Do you use them for sex or not? How many of them have you used for their bodies /sex? If not then you could be mistaking friendliness and respect for lust and desire. Also what are your looks and height stats? My best friend is 5'7", bad teeth, not fit, not well off, doesn't have an impressive job and is incredibly successful in dating. I've seen him questioned for years about how he's managed to get with the women he has and he always ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:21 AM

Also doesn't fix a narrow structure, longer head, big forehead, small eyes, average penis size, etc Women look at every single thing. Everything has to be perfect now else they get the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:18 AM

It can only mean you were always good looking and tall, but couldn't capitalize on it when you were younger. Average and below average looking men don't get more attention when they're older. Even after making money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:32 PM

The looks women want and value are very hard to change. Face structure, head shape, eyes, jawline, etc. Women are just naturally extremely elitist about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:30 PM

Are you serious? Looks and height are the hardest things to have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:18 PM

Younger women have higher standards for looks. How does that make it easier for older men to get them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:01 PM
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All guys in a university class are visible to all girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:36 PM
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We want to understand how women can want to fuck some men without getting to know them deeply first
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:21 AM
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Even for a hookup / casual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:19 AM
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What were his face, height, body stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:19 AM
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If the guy is really tall and hot and say out of your league, you would just want to hookup with (fuck) him without knowing or socializing with him. You know he exists and you know you want to fuck him. There are such hot guys in college, university, maybe work. When you finally flirt and exchange numbers you fuck these guys quickly. Its only a matter of time before you fuck them Then there are guy with who you might know they but you don't want to fuck them on your own accord. They might meet m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:19 AM
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Exactly, so why are women being obtuse in the comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:18 AM
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How do those guys have so many women wanting to fuck them without knowing them or hanging out with them first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:11 AM
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How can women want to fuck some guys without getting to know them or hanging out 1 on 1 first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:09 AM
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How do they get laid more easily if they haven't made a connection with the woman yet by hanging out 1 on 1 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:08 AM
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Men don't give a fuck about popularity or extroversion. A meek, obscure, average looking girl on a college campus could be the biggest slut and have a huge roster of guys. So why aren't you understanding the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:08 AM
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But women can fuck those guys without getting to know them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:06 AM
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I don't think I've ever dated popular guys, as in athletes, musicians, etc. Not even done casual hookups and FWB stuff with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:04 AM
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How does the physical/sexual chemistry differs between a very good looking, tall gym bro and say an average height gamer type?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:03 AM
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If every girl is different why do all of them crush on and do sexual situationships with the same guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:01 AM

If the guy is really tall and hot and say out of your league, you would just want to hookup with (fuck) him without knowing or socializing with him. You know he exists and you know you want to fuck him. There are such hot guys in college, university, maybe work. When you finally flirt and exchange numbers you fuck these guys quickly. Its only a matter of time before you fuck them Then there are guy with who you might know they but you don't want to fuck them on your own accord. They might meet m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:59 PM

Why are you indulging in whatabouism? Why is this even important? In the world I'm describing, men will have casual sex if they want, just like women do. Some would, some won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:20 AM
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Unattractive, below average, out of shape women have casual sex with hot guys all the time. Its more important to women that the man they're having casual sex with is incredibly good-looking, hot, and preferably way above their league, than how much he's into them. Women don't have casual sex with mediocre looking simps who worship them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:13 AM
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So men will start seeking validation from the same things women do Right now men seek validation from a lower level physical act (sex). In future state they will seek validation from higher level things - being simped, having money spent on them, romance, commitment options Why don't you want men to be more like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:59 AM
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Have casual sex with a wide range of men Most problems would disappear - Men will no longer have to tie their worth to their ability to get casual sex - Distinctions such as Chad, Alpha, betabuxx, incel would become meaningless. Every guy can now get laid just as every woman can - Men will stop worrying about women's sexual past when seeking serious relationships and marriage. You fucked 50 guys? So what? I also fucked 150 women. Its a natural thing. - Men will no longer need to get into relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:01 AM
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Why do women need beauty now that the ugliest of women can get the hottest of guys on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:50 AM
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If I'm able to get casual hookups, flings and FWB, I wouldn't be insecure about the sexual past of a woman I'm pursuing for a serious relationship and who she fucked for fun. Because I'm myself not excluded or disqualified from casual hookups and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:40 AM
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The looks and height requirements of women in US and EU cannot be met by majority of men anymore. Every young woman wants a tall handsome fit lover, fuck buddy, hookup, fling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:51 PM
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So why can't I just get hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:50 PM

White men only make their lives better. AW literally have a fetish for WM and they worship their penises
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:14 AM
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This makes me sad. As a mediocre looking guy I always wanted to relocate to places like Thailand so I can enjoy a dating/sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:19 AM
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Then why do horny women who love casual sex, are obsessed with hot guys? Why aren't their looks standards low, if they're not concerned with status, aesthetic attraction, romantic fantasy, validation, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:20 PM
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Why do women have casual sex, hookups and FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:08 PM
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Then why do women lust after and line up to fuck hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:08 PM
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So why the fuck only good looking, hot guys get casual sex, hookups and fuck buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:06 PM
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Most men don't experience this kind of sex drive either. You still need to be a good looking guy to experience her sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:05 PM
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Why does sex with super hot tall dudes is like gold to women then? Why is every good looking hot guy hounded by women for sexual stuff alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:03 PM
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I'm in my 30s. These were not my girlfriends but girls/women I went on dates with and at some point their exes / sexual history came up. In other instances I already knew the girls via common friends/acquaintances/circle so I knew who they hooked up with before. Why are you ignoring the question about hookups, casual sex, ONS, short term flings, and FWB? I'm a 3 in looks. Women who are 3s don't do casual hookups and FWB with 3s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:27 PM
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So why can't mediocre looking guys like me just get casual sex, hookups, short term flings and fuck buddies? If I could experience all this I wouldn't have any insecurities around women's sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:50 PM
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Not online content. Real life experiences. Like finding out about a girls exes etc Question: Why are women's short term flings, hookups, fuck buddies ALWAYS way more attractive than the men they settle down with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:02 PM
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Feminists support Akash Singh and his wife dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:47 AM
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Thats why there are indications that we look for, like if she had sex with 4 men, what did those men look like? Are they totally different than me? Are they way better looking, taller, bigger hotter, different ethnicity than me? Thats a sure indication I'm not her type and she's settling because she couldn't get commitment from her real type Secondly, did she have casual sex with those guys but wants me to invest my time and emotions first? Thats another indication she's not naturally attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:40 AM
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But women on this forum keep saying sex is a much lower priority in a long term relationship than in a casual fling / FWB. They keep saying romantic love and sexual desire are separate. That you can love a husband even if you're sexually lukewarm about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:41 AM

No. I was explicitly and implicitly told by multiple women - when I suggested we just hookup / be FWB first and see where thing go - that they don't mind that but if they wanted that they have 10 other super hot guys they can do it with, why would they have to consider someone like me and waste their time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:45 AM

Exactly. Women who want casual sex don't find me attractive. Which is why I care about sexual past so much and need to ensure the woman I pursue for marriage never had casual sex with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:41 AM

<image> What do you think about what other women are saying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:33 AM

But why the fuck have I and millions of other men have been told by women we were dating or trying to date that casual sex, hookups, or FWB was not on cards because thats something reserved for super hot dudes? If I'm acceptable as a long term partner, why dont I at least make the cut for casual sex for the same women? Are you unwilling to acknowledge that women have WAY HIGHER standards for good looks for casual sex than for settling down? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:32 AM

Those troll looking dudes were handsome and White. Just scruffy or unkempt. They were also tall and large built
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:29 AM

To women, what makes the men who have the option of casual sex different?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:58 AM

I was in the same place as the men who did get lots of casual sex (college campus, house parties, clubs, dating apps, circles). I never got casual sex and fuck buddies. My only option was pursuing a long term relationship. Its still the same So what the fuck is the difference? Are you leaving some important inofrmation out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:55 AM

BECAUSE MEN NEED TO BE VERY GOOD LOOKING, TALL, HOT AND OUTSTANDING TO GET CASUAL SEX !!! Why the fuck are you unwilling to accept this? We are not as privileged as mf'n women who can look like anything and still get laid left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:53 AM

I know the guys or through gossip
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:51 AM

Then why do average looking men never experience this kind of spontaneous casual sex ever? Why is my only option to pursue a long term relationship with a woman? How can I emotionally invest in a woman who doesn't find me good-looking/hot/sexy enough for recreational sex, if she had those with superior men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:49 AM
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By seeing what her exes look like If they look totally different than you, if you're just an average looking guy, but the exes were mostly super good looking, tall, hot dudes, its a clear indication she's not sexually attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:46 AM
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Why is she is with you if her ex was so good? Because the ex was not willing to commit for long term or marry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:45 AM
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Why do you insult men who care about women's sexual past and body count then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:44 AM
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Thats why body count and sexual past matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:43 AM
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The paranoia can be easily cured by men having lots of casual sex, hookups, short term flings, and fuck buddies before seeking serious long term relationships. Why can't men just experience all this to get over this paranoia and validate themselves sexually? This way they can assure themselves they are sexually desirable without providing any other value to a woman. Why are you scared to give this recommendation to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:42 AM
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The paranoia can be easily cured by men having lots of casual sex, hookups, short term flings, and fuck buddies before seeking serious long term relationships. Why can't men just experience all this to get over this paranoia and validate themselves sexually? This way they can assure themselves they are sexually desirable without providing any other value to a woman. Why are you scared to give this recommendation to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:41 AM
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Men need to be exceptionally good looking, tall, hot to experience real unconditional lust from women that is not tied to performative relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:38 AM
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So why would a woman be interested in something serious with a guy without the sexual enthusiasm she had for the exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:37 AM
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Why would she have much less lust and sexual desire for the current partner than an ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:34 AM
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Then why are women's short term flings, hookups, and fuck buddies way better looking, taller, hotter, sexier than the husbands they end up marrying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:32 AM
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how does nobody see the obvious thing here: if the ex was so amazing, she’d still be with the ex! But! She’s not. She’s here. Dating you! This is such a bullshit low IQ dishonest moronic take She's dating him because the good-looking, tall, super hot exes she really desired weren't emotionally available, loyal, or interested in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:31 AM

Why are you infantilizing these women? Do they need you to be their saviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:26 AM

So how come I never experienced those 'mistakes' ? I'll be ok if some women made those mistakes with me and now women as a whole have matured and changed. I can then believe those were immature phases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:25 AM

Whats your height and looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:23 AM

Why are women having sex on 1st dates with hot guys they really want? I see this happening all around me. Girl links up with a hot guy, goes to his place and they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:23 AM

You are lying. Grown ass women in their 20s and 30s sleep with hot guys on 1st dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:19 AM

Its not 5 years ago neither a stupid mistake. Its about hot the guy is and the terms/dynamics she has with him. There are women in their 30s who have sex with tall hot guys on 1st dates while going on the 5th date with others without having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:18 AM

Then they shouldn't have sex on the 1st date with some men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:16 AM

They were just regular guys who I thought were hot enough to want to sleep with Is hot enough to sleep with different than looks acceptable enough for a serious relationship ? Also, you wouldn't need manipulation by Chad. Chad can be honest and upfront about just wanting to fuck and women STILL fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:15 AM

Hell with them too I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:44 AM

5'11 is average according to women. Why don't you go to a college town or campus and see who young women are hooking up with? Literally its only good looking, hot, fit, tall cookie cutter guys who girls hookup with. Why are you obsessed with boomer married couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:21 AM
1

How do you know he was an incel and not simply a deranged violent freak?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:02 PM
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In public we're just mediocre below average looking men who are often short and ethnic. Not someone who can go to clubs or use dating apps, or flirt with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:51 PM
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Therapy can't make you more physically attractive and taller. Most incels aren't anyones physical type and would be turned down immediately even if they approached women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:49 PM
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I'm talking about 16 year olds. Literally these things don't matter at 16. Good looking, taller guys start dating early. Others are over looked. Nothing to do with being born with the 'tools'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:43 PM
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You don't need therapy, inner work, healing or other stuff to have these experiences, is what I'm saying. It comes down to looks and superficial barriers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:22 AM
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So why can't I experience those short term flings and dysfunctional relationships? Are you being intellectually dishonest here and claiming that young people experimenting and exploring during their teens, 20s and upto early 30s has no value if it doesn't lead to marriage? You are literally saying everything young people are doing is pointless. Their whole culture, dating scene, experiences are meaningless. Is that what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:59 AM
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Why do some men need extensive self improvement before they can finally begin dating at 38, while others actively, date, hookup and have flings, relationships since the at of 16 like its second nature without a deeper thought behind it? Are some men just born with the 'tools'? Are they just magically born healthy, functional, healed, therapied, successful, kind, philanthropic, amazing human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:31 AM
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Then those people will try to understand the reason why. Anything that is coveted but scarce will be studied like economics. Why does this study make women and feminists uncomfortable? Why the insistence to not study this and to just accept somethings are not meant to be? How does vagueness around this subject benefit women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:01 AM
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Why are people dating, hooking up, having fun, experimenting, exploring since the age of 16? What value does it bring to the lives of 100s of millions of youth across the world engaging in this if it doesn't lead to marriage? Were they more emotionally intelligent, pious, kind, generous, healed, therapied, sorted out, successful, disciplined, thoughtful humans at 16 than I'm in my mid 30s? Were they somehow born with emotional intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:53 PM
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Women telling men "go to therapy and unlearn your behaviour" has nothing to do with looks and everything with what you are focusing on in life. They say this specifically in the context of dating and getting relationships with women. That doesnt mean i accept your premise. I just accept that reality is a thing and some people wont find someone no matter what they do or how hard they try. Are you talking about finding a long term partners to settle down with or even casual dating, short term flin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:45 PM
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They literally want the whole society to be truthful about the importance of men's looks to women. They are fighting this war on social media everyday. Do this experiment. Go on an incel, blackpill page, comment section, and say "I'm a woman and I accept that men face more pressure than women to be good looking to have dating options. I accept that most incels are incels because of looks, not their personality and character defects" You will be met with 100% praise from incels
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:30 PM
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Again, I'm not able to do shallow, superficial, short term relationships, flings, hookups, FWB, etc. I get zero matches on all dating apps (like many mediocre looking men). I am invisible and unwanted by women in social situations, parties, clubs, bars, etc. I can't flirt with women, can't get their numbers, can't ask them out to dates because of superficial barriers. This is my barrier. Someone telling me that I struggle because I can't do chores, do my laundry, aren't emotionally vulnerable, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:26 PM
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* sexually successful men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:07 PM
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Women who have sworn off marriage are still having sex and short term flings, FWB here and there. They aren't celibate. So who are the men they're fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:03 PM
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Incels, lonely, single men aren't threatening violence. This is overblown by the 7 cases of incel violence in the past 2 decades. Way way more violence against women is done by sexually successful men. There's no comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:02 PM
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Why does that matter when the men who are struggling can't get their foot in the door and have zero dating options? If I was able to get hookups and short term flings easily, but no woman wanted to get serious with me, maybe your advice of therapy, healing, inner work might be applicable. But I have zero dating options and I am rejected based on superficial criteria upfront. Are you able to understand this simple nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:00 PM
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Normally, the looks benchmarks are higher for FWB than steady BF, because even ugly fat girls can get athlete model level fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:58 AM
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So casual sex with super hot (even if broke) guys Marriage to boring, average but acceptable looking stable supportive guys who never get casually laid. Got it. Husband material is an insult and limits your life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:35 AM
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So you're saying they marry men they might have regrettable offspring with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:38 PM
1

So why are women doing hookups, casual sex, and FWB if its so horrible for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:21 PM
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So why the fuck is it immensely harder for most men to become the hookup / fuck buddy than a husband? Like wouldn't the more important significant role be harder to achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:15 PM
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So why the fuck are you claiming men hate being sexual objectified if they never get objectified in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:33 AM
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So whats so extremely special, unique and exclusive about the mighty one time hookup? Who are the extremely privileged men who get to experience those that make them so superior to husband material men? Why is it so extremely difficult being the one time hookup guy than being a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:01 AM
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Why don't women sexually objectify me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:50 AM
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Then who are the men women are having sex with? Why can't I get casual sex with those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:49 AM
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Yes it makes sense. It means you, as a woman, get both options, but most men only get one. Funny how the fuck that works, no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:43 AM
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Thats not pure sexual desire. Thats transactional sex that has a million prerequisities and is conditional upon many things. The man knows this deep down. Being told that you are inferior and cannot have a sex life when you're a bachelor is very limiting. Do you remain celibate when you're unmarried?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:33 AM
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Then why the fuck are millions of women saying their looks benchmarks for hookups are way higher than for marriage Read this https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:29 AM
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I went to a college too. lived in dorms for 4 years. Only 30% of guys get hookups at least once. An even smaller number hookup regularly, maybe 5-10% at most You are talking straight outta the wrong side
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:26 AM
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Was your husband not good looking, hot enough to be a fuck buddy? Did he not meet that looks benchmark required for casual sex? https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:25 AM
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Its even harder to get hookups for most men https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:22 AM
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Why do women have casual sex? Why don't women remain celibate when they're not in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:21 AM
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i am horny, this guy will do. And that guy is usually a very good looking, hot guy who's top 10-15% in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:20 AM
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Why do you have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:19 AM
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Then why the fuck do you have casual sex? Why don't you reserve sex for long term relationships and marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:18 AM
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Its you women who believe husbands are less attractive and inferior to your fuck buddies Please stop projecting that abhorrent value system onto men We have higher standards for wife material (beauty and personality) than for women we want to fuck casually. So lame that its the opposite for you https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:16 AM
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Why can't you understand why being hookup material is a bigger compliment than being told you're husband material and not hot enough for hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:11 AM
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We don't live in that world. Majority of men are not considered good looking enough for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:10 AM
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You expect way more effort from the husband than the fuck buddy. How is that a compliment? The fuck buddy is so hot, you don't care if he puts in any effort for having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:08 AM
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Wtf is actual husband material? Way more men get married than men who have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:03 AM
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Then why the fuck are so many women saying their benchmarks for looks and physical attraction for hookups are way higher than for marriage? https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:02 AM
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So why can't the husband material experience and enjoy hookups? Why does he have to live like an INCEL until he gets into a big long term relationship or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:01 AM
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Being considered as a sexual object by women is still a win for men since only very good looking hot guys get to experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:00 AM
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An interchangeable hookup guy / Fuck buddy is still pretty good looking and desirable. The baseline required for hookups is so high that 80% of men can't meet them. Telling he guy he's interchangeable among the top 20% is still a compliment than being told you don't make the cut for a fuck buddy but still considerable for marriage because you're stable, loyal, caring and other boring bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:59 AM
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If he's chosen as a hookup he still meets the bar for casual sex which is pretty high to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:57 AM
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I'm asking is it not about the good looks hierarchy whereby you take very less time in fucking the more conventionally hotter, sexier, taller guys but longer time with guys who are lower on that hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:41 PM
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Maybe the incentive to hook up with that guy was he was funny or they had great chemistry or she was more comfortable with him etc. Huh? Why the fuck would a woman pursue a serious relationship with a guy she doesn't find hot, funny or has a good chemistry with? Why would a guy want to emotionally invest in a woman who isn't attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:38 PM
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So why aren't most women consistent like you? You don't have casual sex with any guy. Most women say they don't want casual sex but still have casual sex knowingly if the guy is hot enough. Most mediocre looking men will accept their position if women were consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:35 PM
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Men don't date women they're not sexually attracted or don't want to be intimate with upfront. The degree of attraction can vary, but the willingness to engage physically upfront is binary and if its not there, they wont date the woman Why isn't it the same for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:05 PM
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Exactly. So finding a woman to marry who never did casual sex shouldn't be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:16 PM
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What qualities does 'hookup material' possess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:28 AM
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Ok, so its not the fucking hierarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:24 AM
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Why can you fuck some men fairly quickly and without a deeper bond, but require others to put in much more time, effort, emotions before wanting to fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:31 AM
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So why am I not running into those women? Why has every woman I ever went on dates with wanted me to prove something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:27 AM
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The OP is saying women can make different rules for hot men and that other men should be ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:25 AM
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Most women themselves acknowledge that they find their casual sex / short term partners way more desirable than their long term partners / husbands https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-TViyiCJ Why don't you believe women? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:45 AM
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You're this way with all men or do you make exceptions for super hot, super tall, handsome guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:37 AM
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She also wants relationships with some of the other guys she fucked casually. They are not mutually exclusive. A third of marriages and 60% of relationships for college aged people begin with a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:31 AM
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Its sexual desire, friendship, codependency
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:28 AM
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You don't either unless the male friends want to fuck you and that gives you the upper hand in the dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:26 AM
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So men are also trying to find women who want to have sexual relationships with them out of genuine desire. OP is against that and wants men to become providers and husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:23 AM
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These stupid ones try to frame relationships as something deeply virtuous, soulful, philantrophic, and ethereal or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:34 AM
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Without sex and physical intimacy, whats a relationship? Its a friendship. Why do you need to date women to be friends with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:31 AM

I think you're lying. Women have phase of singlehood in between relationships when they just want to meet their sexual needs or have a hot fling. Guess who they choose and how quickly they fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:30 AM
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Why she doesn't require that when having sex with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:27 AM
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Nope. It doesn't work that way. Waiting for sex isn't something I want. Its something she wants. And I'm fine with waiting if thats what she wants from all guys. Its not about hookups vs relationships. She's ok with hooking up and seeing where things go with other guys, but wants me to prove something first. That just reflects poorly on me and how she feels about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:26 AM
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Most men can't have casual sex since its only something women do with good-looking/hot guys. Why are the vast majority of men who can't get casual sex, shamed for caring about body count when theirs is low?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:34 PM
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Was it just looks and height she was addicted to? Were all the other men not attractive or tall? What were his physical features that made him so special and unique to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:33 PM
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I'm talking about upwards of 80% men If you consider 85% + men to be ugly unattractive then women are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:27 PM
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I think the real reason is that most of you want women to have the best of both worlds, and still lie to men that hookups are a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:40 PM
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Maybe he's just good looking and what women really desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:00 PM
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Why do women insult men for caring about body count when seeking a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:58 PM
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Why do women insult men for caring about body count when seeking a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:58 PM
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Why do women insult men for caring about body count when seeking a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:57 PM
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The vast majority of adult men are ready to have a grilfriend and be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:51 PM
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Then why dominance & masculinity are the most important traits women looks for in casual sex instead of compliant and cooperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:50 PM
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Women can simply stop hookup culture by telling any man they date that they only fuck after there's commitment or emotional connection. They are not doing that They keep fucking hot guys on 1st 2nd and 3rd dates
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:22 AM
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When men say they want to avoid marrying high body count women who engaged in hookups, why are they insulted by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:17 AM
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Why are women the biggest supporters of hookup culture? Why are women single handedly perpetuating the hookup culture? When the growing number of men want to bring back traditional courting, marriage, discourage hookup culture, why does the biggest push back come from women? Who says body count deosnt matter, sexual past doesnt matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:20 AM
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But hookup culture is single handedly perpetuated by women Women love hookup culture Women want to keep hookup culture alive Men are the ones speaking against hookup culture. Men are the ones wanting to bring back monogamy, marriage, traditional courting. Women insist on keeping hookup culture alive Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:13 AM
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So why aren't single women in their 20s celibate? Why aren't divorced women in their 30s and 40s celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:11 AM
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Then how is this woman getting 100+ offers to fuck from young decent looking men per week? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:10 AM
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So you agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good-looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:29 AM
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Most single young women aren't celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:21 AM
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Not a virgin. But a woman who never had casual sex without connection with another man. Because you are insisting that you are incapable of wanting sex without connection, without a man providing something. No man will accept being LIED TO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:48 PM
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So you've never felt free lust for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:29 PM
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But women do have the ability to be just as if not more lustful for men they actually find physically attractive. We see examples around us daily. So why are women setting a precedent of being lustful ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:27 PM
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Think about the one fling you had with a hot guy wherein you wanted to fuck him like a rabbit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:22 PM
1

What was so special about your fuck buddies and hookup guys? What was different about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:07 PM
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Fuck the semantics, just answer why is the sexual desire you have for your fuck buddies and hookup guys so unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:56 PM
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How are you looks wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:52 PM
1

Men who hate sluts don't have access to casual sex. Why don't women dismantle the hierarchy of casual sex and make it available as evenly as long term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:52 PM
1

Why do you have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:50 PM
1

Who are the men you hooked up with casually without requiring financial bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:49 PM
1

Who are the men you love and lust for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:48 PM
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Then it would be important to ensure the woman we're providing for didnt have casual sex with men she really desired physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:45 PM
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The woman in Tiktok is proving what us men keep screaming on top of our lungs that women LIE that emotional connection is needed for sex. Its only needed if the man is not good looking enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:41 PM
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Why is normal sexual desire you have for you fuck buddies and hookup guys so unrealistic and rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:38 PM
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Being "feral" is basically just wanting to fuck a guy without requiring any bullshit effort from him. This is a huge privilege to men that only the hottest men can have. Why do you hate men so much to not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:34 PM
1

So who are the men getting sex without providing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:30 PM
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Only if you're a good looking guy. Average and below average guys don't get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:28 PM
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Its literally just how casual sex happens for good looking, hot guys. Why the fuck do you think men have to move mountains to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:51 PM
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Good looking, tall, hot guys have rosters. They have multiple girls hitting them up every week. Why is it so hard to imagine this? Did you never live on a college campus? thats the benefit of being very good looking. You get casual sex regularly and easily
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:42 PM
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Right, so men need to be very good-looking to get casual sex. So wtf does this mean? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:13 PM
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Let me ask you a basic question and this will indicate your honesty: What is the benefit of being very good looking as a man in terms of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:47 PM
1

So you also believe hookup culture and FWB are also a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:45 PM
1

Wtf did those guys look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:32 AM

Why do you project your ease of getting casual sex onto men? Men need to be conventionally good looking to get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:19 AM
1

casual sex, hookups, short term flings, FWB are not a myth, who are the guys getting these?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:18 AM
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He was so hot, she couldn't say no to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:17 AM
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Who tf is saying I'm uncomfortable and embarrassed? Where are you pulling this nonsense scenarios about my life from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:16 AM
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Thanks. Most women tell me the looks bar for casual sex is way higher than for serious relationships. Which is totally weird way of thinking to me and you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:15 AM
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What about casual sex? If your attraction to men in binary, do ALL the men you find yourself attracted to meet the benchmark for casual sex, casual hookups, FWB? Or is there a nuance there, that some men qualify for casual no strings sex, but others are only 'attractive' in a serious relationship context?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:05 AM
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I bet you also think casual sex, hookups, short term flings, FWB are a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:02 AM
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She continued to for years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:00 AM
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Just stop bullshitting. They've been good friends. I KNOW they're not lying. I've SEEN girls throw themselves onto them Why the fuck are you assuming they're lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:58 AM
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The binary system is how men think in regards to sex. Women have told me the exact opposite: They're very attracted to some men, and less attracted to others so they need more time effort and emotions to like the latter kind. Women have told me that they do casual hookups/ FWB with men they are VERY attracted to, but the men they're LESS attracted to must put in more time effort commitment emotional investment before they can want sex with them. I
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:56 AM
1

So how do men try and to decide if they like it or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:33 AM
2

Why did you have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:33 AM
1

Why is that if women don't like casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:05 AM
1

Lets say you're single again and want a FUCK BUDDY or a pure sexual fling. Which guy you're going for? The super hot tall Chad (the kind you've been with a couple of times) OR the 5'7 normal looking dude with an average one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:05 AM
2

Yet, way more women than men have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:02 AM
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<image> Woman agrees that the looks & hotness benchmarks for casual sex are immensely higher than for marriage. Equates men getting casual sex to a hot woman getting flown to Paris
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:51 AM
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So how do average and below average looking women get Chad experience when it comes to casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:49 AM
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You've lived a very hedonistic life, possible only for male models, actors, porn stars and rock stars. If I recall correctly, you still struggle with wrapping your head around the idea that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking and exceptional in every way to have that kind of sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:47 AM
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<image> Chad for casual, spontaneous, carefree, no strings, effortless sex. Average joe who has hid life together for settling down. Average joe only gets sex in a long term committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:37 AM
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Right, so you agree casual, non committal, no strings, carefree, spontaneous, effortless sex is only available to Chads. The average joe can only get sex in a serious long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:32 AM

Ok lets take a step back. Let me ask you, what kind of men get super easy, super regular casual sex, hookups, FWB and booty calls?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:28 AM
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Why do only super good looking hot guys experience this kind of sex? Spontaneous, raw, effortless...where the woman just wants you for your body and dick, she's just eager to give you a blowjob, lick/kiss him all over the body. Tall jocks I've known told me in college girls message them asking if they can come over to give them a blowjob. Showed me messages. Why do only super hot tall handsome guys tell me these experiences? Why do all other men get sex so differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:26 AM

This girl fucked this good looking tall guy for years despite him treating her poorly in bed, just because he's good looking and tall. Such is the magnetism of physicality 1000s of women reading this post are simply afraid to comment <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:22 AM
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Yeah, its amazing that women will continue to have sex with a super hot guy despite all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:59 AM
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Based on women's descriptions on their flings and hookups with extremely good looking men. Reddit is full of such anecdotes Based on the sexual experiences of very good looking/hot guys I've known. (They live in a different universe) Why are all these people lying but you are the only truthful one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:37 AM
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What did your fuck buddies, casual hookups, and sexual flings look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:34 AM
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What if I told you my question is based on the sexual experiences of very good looking tall hot guys I've known in life? Why do you keep insisting I'm lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:21 AM
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So how was your pull towards his body different than for other less good looking partners? Were you eager to be more active with him? Did you feel the urge to kiss his body all over a lot more? What was different in terms of your feelings and response based on his exceptional looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:17 AM
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Who do you have casual hookups and FWB with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:12 AM
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I don't think men get Stacy widowed. Men are all too happy to have casual sex with average and below average looking women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:57 AM
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So casual hookups and FWB is porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:56 AM
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Why did you have FWB with a super hot guy if he wasn't good in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:55 AM
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Then what do you fuck buddies, hookups, booty call, sexual fling guys look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:54 AM
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But does he need to be good in bed? There's a reason why you're so eager to have FWB with a super hot super tall guy, because he can be totally passive and boring, but still you will worship his body in bed. You admire his aesthetics and body in bed. You kiss him all over. You love his body so much you just wrap yourself around him and can't wait to give him a BJ. You can't feel those things with a normal looking partner. The normal looking guy needs to have very high energy and put in effort to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:53 AM
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I'm asking a simple question: Did you ever have a sexual fling/FWB with a super hot tall dude or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:23 AM
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Does he need to be good in bed? There's a reason why you're so eager to have FWB with a super hot guy, because he can be totally passive and boring, but still you will worship his body in bed. You admire his aesthetics and body in bed. You kiss him all over. You love his body so much you just wrap yourself around him and can't wait to give him a BJ. You can't feel those things with a normal looking boyfriend or husband. The normal looking guy needs to have very high energy and put in effort to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:23 AM
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So you're saying the short term fling guy being way better looking, taller, bigger, hotter than your husband didn't make any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:17 AM
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You've never hooked up with a super hot tall built guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:13 AM
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What isn't a thing? You never had a short term fling / FWB situationship with a hot tall chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:12 AM
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So the physical / sexual chemistry with a tall handsome big dicked guy is so natural, effortless and out of this world, that women would even put up with him being totally passive and boring. Do you realize that this proves my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:11 AM
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But when you had a short term fling / FWB with a super hot, super tall, built like QB guy, wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of this world?=
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:09 AM
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Were all the guys you dated super conventionally hot, tall, and built like QB's ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:08 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:07 AM
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So how was your short term fling / FWB thing with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:02 AM
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If its not appealing to women, who is Chad fucking casually literally every night?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:01 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:00 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world? How did that physical chemistry compare with your long term relationships with average looking medium height men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:00 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:59 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:59 AM
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You're implying young men should only focus on finding long term committed relationships Why should'nt men do what young women are doing and also seek hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:24 PM
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But most young women are hooking up and partying with hot guys, and just going with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:57 PM
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You need to hookup / get laid before you have a relationship. We aren't having arranged marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:56 PM
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Therapy doesn't make a difference to attractiveness to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:55 PM
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You too can get fucked, disrespected, and discarded by men if you like. I reckon men don’t like this since so much language is about how humans don’t like getting fucked over… Then why aren't women having casual sex with other women, but instead prefer casual sex with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:18 AM
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The women who are having casual sex, hookups aren't saying they're disrespected. They seem very happy about it and boast about their sex lives. They even middle finger men and insult them for being incels. So why are you pushing this narrative that women are being dehumanized by casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:41 PM
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What about loser and unattractive women? Who are they fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:00 PM
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Just be intellectually honest and realize wholeheartedly that young men today face immensely more pressure than women to be conventionally good-looking to have dating and sexual options. Just stop framing men as inferior to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:32 PM
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Ok. But men need to be exceptionally good-looking to become promiscuous. Women can be ugly, obese, old, midgets and still get fucked left right and center This should make you feel very privileged as a woman, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:31 PM
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The remaining 80% still get plenty of hookups and short term flings with good looking, hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:18 PM
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Then why do you believe natural selection only works by preventing ugly men from procreating but not ugly women You really believe ugly women can get laid easier than ugly men, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:17 PM
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If a man is unsuccessful at getting casual sex, it means he is not good-looking/hot/gorgeous enough for promiscuous women. Why is marriage to a promiscuous woman even an option then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:14 PM
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Ugly short obese women can still get fucked left and right Does it make you happy that your gender is immensely privileged in this regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:11 PM
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How do promiscuous women have regular sex despite being unmarried?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:03 PM
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No. It means in 20s, dating has become a good-looking man's thing. Only good looking men date and have situationships with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:02 PM
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What are your minimum looks and height requirements for something like casual sex, ONS, FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:12 PM
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Why do you have casual sex with men? Why not with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:55 PM
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Women are reluctant to prescribe casual sex to men who aren't super good-looking and seeking advice or just frustrated with their dating/sex life. They silently agree that casual sex is an extremely privileged, extremely hidden element of society that only the hottest, most superior men should partake in. When you ask women questions about casual sex, they even gatekeep the discussion itself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:39 PM
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It really takes showing so many examples and evidence for women like you to finally concede that men do face way more pressure than women to be good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:19 PM
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<image> You aren't in touch with reality. Ugly, obese girls get fucked left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:11 PM
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I'm not talking about MARRIED couples I'm talking about the boyfreinds and fuck buddies of girls in their 20s Tell me what do those guys look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:05 PM
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Wtf are you talking about ? Literally every girls boyfriend / lover / situationship is with a guy who's 2 - 4 points above her? Have you ever been to a fucking university campus? Girls who are 3s and 4s and with guys who are 7s 8s 9s You are out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:56 PM
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I did similar expeirments myself. I was shocked to get 100+ guys messaging me within 4 days using a 4'9 ugly middle aged Indian janitor ladys picture. Location was Chicago
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:55 PM
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The correct answer is marry a low BC woman who never did casual sex. She might not be enthusiastic and spontaneous in bed, but at least she wasn't enthusiastic and spontaneous with other men. At least I know thats just her nature. Because a high body count woman marrying a man who doesn't have access to casual sex is being manipulative and settling. Your hatred of men prevents you from understanding why men want low BC count wives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:50 PM
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So before marrying a high BC woman, why can't the man just raise his own BC to 100 or 200 so he can be confident and not feel insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:46 PM
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Women don't need to be good-looking at all. Women's looks have almost ceased to matter in the hookup world. ALL the pressure to be good looking is on men now <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:40 PM
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No Because a sexually experienced woman may have gotten her experience with men who were totally different than me. Women have casual sex / sexual flings / FWB with super good looking, super tall, hot, masculine, well built, large dicked men (top tier guys) There is no benefit for a barely average looking guy to marry a promiscuous woman because she's not marrying me for sex. If she wanted me for sex, I would have opportunities for casual sex too. I dont
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:38 PM
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Then she should be open to be FWB with me as a litmus test. Then it might lead to something serious. I have had women tell me (upon my suggestion that we should be casual / fwb first) that if they wanted that (and they did) they would go for a totally different type (chad) and why would they choose me? Most of you women are raging dualistic w's, sadly. You compel men to thhink the way they do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:36 PM
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Then its bad advice, because promiscuous women don't marry for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:32 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:32 PM
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How good looking and tall does a man need to be in 2026 to have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:31 PM
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Yeah, so investing in a woman who wouldn't hookup with me (but does so with other men) is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:28 PM
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So easy, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:25 PM

I meant gatekeeping the discussion on casual sex, doofus Thye avoid the topic and keep going back to relationships and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:24 PM
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How is this incoherent? It is a great insult if a promiscuous woman told me she considers me acceptable for marriage but not hot/sexy/gorgeous enough for casual sex because the barrier for hookups is way higher And this happens to men all the time wth do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:21 PM
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So you disagree that the looks barrier for casual sex is way higher than the looks barrier for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:17 PM
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They gatekeep casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:15 PM
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So why can't men just have casual sex with women who enjoy casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:09 PM
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Not having access to casual sex means not being attractive to women who enjoy casual sex. Why would a man seek a serious relationship with a group of women who dont find him hot enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:07 PM
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I'm asking you, do women who automatically give this advice in a marriage context implying that men getting casual sex with promiscuous women isn't feasible for most men but marrying one might be a better strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:05 PM
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No. They are just complaining about bad sex life Do you need to get married to get regular sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:02 PM
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I'm talking about casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:01 PM
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So why would a high BC woman be attracted to me? If she's attracted to me, it means I can have casual sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:00 PM
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Ok. There is still a risk that your sons might inherit your side of height genetics and end up being extremely short like 5'7 or 5'8 Then what will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:59 AM
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They are told that if you're frustrated with your sex life and not getting enough sex, not getting enthusiasm from women you were in relationships with, then date/marry promiscuous women Why isn't their first thought "Just BE promiscuous with promiscuous women" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:58 AM
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So why wouldn't I just have casual sex with sexually promiscuous women and become promiscuous myself? That way I would just raise my own body count too. Like why is the hypthetical man being being pigeonholed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:56 AM
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But why wouldn't I just have casual sex with a high BC woman if she's available to me? She has a high BC. She does casual sex. Why wouldn't I just join in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:54 AM
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But why wouldn't I just have casual sex with a high BC woman if she's available to me? She has a high BC. She does casual sex. Why wouldn't I just join in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:53 AM
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How tall is he and on the looks scale? How tall are you and rank on looks scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:52 AM
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Good-looking, tall, hot guys have sex via hookups, the remaining in LTRs and marriage Ugliest, obese old grannies also have regular casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:51 AM
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It is frequently brought up in liberal circles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:44 AM
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Then how do you get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:44 AM
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Very frequently, men are told they shoot themselves in the foot by wanting low BC women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:43 AM
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Then you're not concerned about your future sons? What if they don't end up being super handsome & super tall and become incels? You know how mf'n shallow you are and you only hookup with chads
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:42 AM
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Anti natalist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:38 AM
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No. What you see are married couples in their late 30s The average guy doesn't get hookups and casual dates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:25 AM
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Are you stupid? Most young women are hooking up with chads and hot fuckboys throughout teens and 20s. What option do most guys have other than be retirement plans for women ghosted by chads and hot fuckboys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:24 AM
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Makes you so happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:22 AM
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You are bullshitting A 3/10 woman does not want to date a 3/10 guy She is hooking up with 7s and 8s You are a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:21 AM
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How much lust for height do you women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:20 AM
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You literally have casual sex, hookups, FWB with hottest guys and talk about marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:19 AM
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Can't have natural selection if ugly short women continue to procreate and make more incel sons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:18 AM
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In South America, the incel phenomenon isn't a thing. Men who aren't good looking enough simply have paid sex or paid adjacent sex and its not even looked down upon socially. I visited a few times and I felt amazing. My good-looking tall friends were banging regular girls every night while I either got escorts or pay for play type girls through a local friend. It felt like a fling experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:17 AM
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Dont you think a trip to Colombia or Thailand would be cheaper and more effective? Why is paid sex considered such a premium thing in US?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:12 AM
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Women aren't going celibate. Way more young men than women are celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:55 AM
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Ugly women dont get casual sex, dont get sexualized. They have sex in marriage. Hope your brain is capable of distinguishing b/w casual sex and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:10 PM
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Ugly women get laid in real life, Ugly men don't unless they f'n marry or pay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:25 PM
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You are not depserate to be alone, yet you tolerate abuse, toxicity and and emotional unavailablity of hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:24 PM
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Looks, height, body, superficial charm, money
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:36 AM
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So you're saying the men you have relationships with are ugly and inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:20 AM
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I was in college once. Was I top 13% of men at that point? I wasn't able to hookup once in 4 years, because the looks and height requirements for hookups were insanely high. The ugliest girls in college wanted tall handsome fit guys for hookups, ONS, FWB, flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:30 AM
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Have you been to a college campus or a club in LA or Bay Area? What do you notice about the men who are with the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:17 AM
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Aren't you looks-elitist sl**s? Worshipping, chasing the biggest baddest hottest tallest loudest motherfucker out there at all times?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:38 PM
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How many she's before it begins to matter? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:36 PM
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This is what women are saying See the funnel she's talking about Hookup guys are the top of top <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:24 PM
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Then why are all 4s and 5s girls in LA and Bay Area dating 7s and 8s and hooking up with 10s? Like, I need to see young women in their 20s in a big city dating guys who are much lower than them. But I see the exact opposite And for casual sex its even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:21 PM
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I will hookup with her to find out if its true or not. So far in 35 years of my existence, not one woman has found me physically attractive. It happens to a good 30% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:59 PM
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You said physical attraction is a prerequisite. Thats not binary thinking I'm saying I don't meet the physical attraction barrier for women in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:41 PM

Are the LOOKS requirements higher for casual sex than for a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:10 PM
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How is that relevant if I'm not physically attractive to women? You just uttered above that women must be physically attracted and without that, personality would be irrelevant <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:01 PM
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What was different about these men looks, body, hotness wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:59 PM

You said you don't need model looks for relationships. What are your looks stipulations for casual sex? Its casual sex. The purest form of sex that the most privileged supreme men can get. You are giving away your whole body to a man who hasn't proven to you, havent given all his emotions to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:56 PM
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I wonder how gender dynamics would be different if men could get sex as easily as women. I believe in that scenario we will see relationships that are truly equal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:43 PM
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What was different about the hookup & FWB sex? They were genetically superior men you had physical attraction for that you don't have for your inferior husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:41 PM

Then why do you have casual sex, hookups, FWB with model tier guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:40 PM
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Tell that to women who say looks don't matter. You won't because you're scared of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:32 PM
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There's nothing to offer if you're not physically attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:30 PM
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Because if as a below average looking short guy, I say that I'm unable to date because I don't meet women's physical criteria, I will have 100 women on social media gang up on me and tell me its because I'm a horrible human being, not looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:27 PM
2

By relationships you mean short term sexual flings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:26 AM
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Yet, women in their 20s and 30s are having casual sex so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:33 PM
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Chased like a sex god, you mean have a sex life and get laid every now and then without being in a big relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:31 PM

The difference being funny makes is not significant in the vast majority of cases. We see too many funny men who don't get hookups because they aren't good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:16 PM
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Have you pursued casual sex with average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:00 AM
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How many mediocre, below average looking funny guys have you had FWB and purely sexual flings with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:56 AM
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Comedians get laid due to fame, not by being funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:55 AM
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No, the few women who were attracted to him, found him physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:54 AM
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Foreplay is something women want with very good looking handsome men who often happen to be above their leagues. These men are often just interested in pump n dump. Have you pursued casual sex with average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:20 PM
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Men need to emotionally invest in a woman and center her to start a relationship. Are you talking about very good looking/hot men who can start relationships casually on equal terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:17 PM
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How do you have sex with men despite decentering men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:14 PM
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They don't want sex and companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:11 PM
0

What are your looks and height stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:10 PM
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But women are telling men that to get casually laid they need to center women, align lifetyle/interests/hobbies/circles, impress them, pursue them and perhaps even emotionally invest in them. How do you get laid without all that "centering" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:15 PM
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Can men do the same? Decenter women and still get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:05 PM
2

And what about sex? How do women who decenter men get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:37 PM
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There's nothing to say. The benchmarks for men's looks, heights, physiques, charm, personality, confidence, sociability are immensely higher than those for women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:28 PM
2

So men need to be exceptionally good looking to live like a mediocre woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:39 AM
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Do you think looks are the answer to everything? Be so good looking as a man that you can live like an average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:36 AM
0

What about so many men who are getting regular casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:35 AM
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Who told you women who decenter men are going celibate? Its always said in context of marriage only
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:07 AM
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Right, but that would mean most men will just alienate themselves from women even more because their lifestyles, hobbies, etc diverge. So my question is, how are women doing both successfully: decentering men and still having sex with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:06 AM
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Surprizing silence on this question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:57 AM
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And what are your hookup/pure-sex-fling/FWB requirement? How narrow does that get? Can you compare the looks, heights, hotnesses of men you had LTR vs you fucked casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:38 AM
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So when you feel horny and want to fuck, and if the 85 percenter approaches you, he will have to be funny and make you laugh first. But the top 5 percenter wont have to make you laugh for wanting to fuck Is that how it works? Like, you don't know if you are feeling horny and want to fuck someone before they've done a funny dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:20 AM
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If men had higher prerequisites, how would mediocre looking women with mediocre personalities have casual sex? Women take immense pride in their ability to have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:46 AM
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Why are you fixated on top 5-10% looks wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:44 AM
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So 5% for hookups, casual sex, ONS, and pure sexual flings. the 85% only get a chance for long term relationships after emotionally investing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:41 AM
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Like you said, above average / decent looking but non Chad men can still get hookups occasionally and some can lead to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:28 PM
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Fucking a guy in hopes of a relationship does not work.(Scientifically it's not how men work) Formulating a friendship/getting emotional investment before sex works to get a relationship and builds better relationships which is typically what women prefer. Formulating friendships and getting emotional investment before sex only works with men who aren't attractive enough to get hookups .Attractive men just want to hookup and see where things go. And many if not most relationships grow from hooku…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:08 PM
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I think relationships/marriages are becoming more and more obsolete/irrelevant to society. Which means casual sex, short term flings, FWB are becoming more important, because single women aren't celibate. They're still fucking. Why dont you accept that men face more pressure than women to be good-looking in todays world?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:05 PM

You women have 24 hour access to Tinder and real sex with super hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:46 PM

Why do you expect men to be ok with being settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:46 PM

Why do you want the average man to worship you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:44 PM

Its not the same Even the women who get settled for have 100 times more options than average men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:44 PM
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Right, and only these supreme, elite, privileged category of men are worthy enough to enjoy that fun shared/goal/activity of casual sex. I wish the worst upon women who still insist men don't face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good looking. I really do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:35 PM
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So hookup material men are the most superior, elite, privileged, admirable category of men, from your analysis. They are the elite winners among men, who can get fastrack intimacy with most women. Not only that, they also have readily available options for relationships if they wish to proceed in that direction. They are they men you are so attracted to you just want these men on a primal level.. You place them very high in the hierarchy of men. Like, in your minds, these men are so superior tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:50 PM
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How many meet your hookup/FWB benchmark?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:28 PM
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Why the fuck is hookup still on top? Like why isn't it hookup with 15% > Be in a relationship with 10% > Marry 3% Like wtf is so special about the hookup category? Why do they need to be superior to the husbands and boyfriends? Let me ask you again. Wtf does the 10% and 3% relationship and marriage material men LACK that they can't do hookups? What makes them so inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:28 PM
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Women dont gaf about marriage. They are happy single and enjoy their sex lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:34 AM
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What percentage of men in your age group meet your looks and height requirements?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:10 AM
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They litrally have an abundance of such men on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:09 AM
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What are the looks, height, ethnicity needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:08 AM
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True. He doesnt realize that the gravy train never stop for women. Even pensioner women with a foot in the grave are consistently having sex with hot tall 25 year old boys. You women literally have it made
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:07 AM
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Dude, 60 year old women are banging hot 25 year old boys these days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:06 AM
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Who are the men you're crushing on, lusting after and hooking up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:05 AM
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Men face the same risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:05 AM
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Why is every young woman seemingly obsessed with Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:03 AM
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What percent of men in your age group have the looks that you require?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:01 AM
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Right, and now you will catastrophize the risks as "being m*rdered"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:59 AM
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Its about looks & height in the end. The men available for relationships and marriage are numerous but not good looking / hot and tall enough to satisfy their base urges
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:58 AM
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Yeah, they're not having casual sex with 90% of men Its kinda like Schrodinger's cat thing at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:35 AM
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So you agree that incels are right about hypergamy and women being physically attracted to very few men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:08 AM
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They are naturally good looking, hot, tall, well built, charming. Thats masculinity. They don't have to pursue you or put in effort to convince you. They don't have to emotionally invest in you. What is the effort you're referring to? They put effort into their appearance and lifestyle. Not effort into courting you or pursuing you. What about the men you have FWB, one night stands, sexual flings with? How do they put in effort to pursue you, court you? Aren't they mostly just passive? Like I'd a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:31 PM
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So are you now celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:17 AM
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Why do you view equal effort in dating as demeaning to women? Have you never been attracted to a man, just wanted him, hooked up with him without requiring him to pursue you, court you, take you on dates and pay for them, emotionally invest in you first?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:16 AM
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But why are women's choices incentivizing men to act like women in dating? For instance, the men you and most women are most attracted to in your life, the ones you casually hooked up with, did FWB with, had hot sexual flings with, had crushes on, loved and lusted for the most were most likely passive, put in very less effort and acted like they are the prize. They were the lazy men who just expected you to come over and do Netflix and chill. Men are not blind. We are just adopting to what women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:23 AM
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So why don't women hookup and date men who put in effort and pursue? Why do they seek hookups and flings with good-looking, hot, tall guys who can afford to be passive? Men who are lazy and just ask women to come over for netflix and chill? Why do 5% of top good looking men get 90% of all attention on dating apps? Its a culture that women are shaping. They have spoken clearly that they want who they want. Men are just adopting to what women want. Men have realized that when women are really attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:15 AM
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I'll pay for a date if its what she expects from all men. Even though paying for a date is already not equal, I'll still do it if thats a consistent expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:37 PM
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Women are the ones who love to party and hookup with hot guys in their youth. Men aren't taking their virginities. Women love to have sex with hot guys without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:20 PM
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Most women nowadays are extremely shallow elitist and unforgiving on looks and are openly disparaging men's looks. They are openly screaming there is a chopped man epidemic, men are hard to want, top tier men are just average woman, they swipe right on top 5% of men collectively, etc. The evidence just keeps on mounting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:56 PM
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Why do you expect men to pay on dates when you don't require it from men you find physically hot? Isn't it insulting that its all based on your attraction level? And if men are becoming averse to this, instead of recognizing our problem you frame it as men being lazy princesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:50 PM
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Oh, and women are oftentimes "mocked/insulted" (though it is more anger) if she has a lot of sexual partners. Even though she wants to be equal to men in the casual sex department. Women are mocked for casual sex, because women who have casual sex with one category of men, often expect courting, pursuit, and emotional investment from another category of men. Men never shied away from courting and pursuit. Its only recently when they have started to notice that you're only required to court and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:46 PM
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Right, so you're having those low effort sexual relationships and flings with hot men, but men who aren't super hot, but still decent looking enough and who meet other criteria, will have to pursue and court you, wear their hearts on their sleeve and if they expect a low effort start and "sex first then relationship" you call are princesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:40 PM
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So you admit that women expect to be chased?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:34 PM
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So let me ask this, you're saying that men who want 50/50, who don't court and pursue you hard, who want to just hookup and see where things go, are incompatible with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:32 PM
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So why are you chasing the men that you chase? There have been men in your life, you were attracted to and you just hooked up with without them having to chase or court you. What was different about those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:29 PM
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Why do they frame it in a way that demonizes men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:25 PM
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Who the hell is asking you to date someone? I'm talking about the way you are framing this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:24 PM
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I'm asking why do you women mock/insult men's desire to be equals to women in dating and relationships as something abhorrent?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:31 PM
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They are willing to explain and defend their claims. They are open to debate Women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:27 PM
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So they want equality in dating, they don't want to solely pay on dates, they want 50/50 in expenses, they want assurance that you're attracted to them before emotionally investing, they don't want to wear their hearts on the sleeve to avoid getting played and hurt And this is in the backdrop of the hookup culture where most of you women take initiative with, chase and hookup with good looking, hot men you really desire w/o requiring any effort. Yet you twist these valid concerns of men into men…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:25 PM
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What about the 1000s of women on this sub who saw this post, agree with these statements, and decided not to post to avoid arguments? What about the several women who commented here in support of these statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:17 PM
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"Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days" What do they mean? What does this statement mean, since you feel its not bigoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:16 PM
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Yes I disagree with them when they say its ok for men to cheat. Men are desiring equality and balance in the dating world (which I know is not possible because women have 100 times more options)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:12 PM
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There is plenty of engagement in comments. Women just make extremely bigoted statements and shut off anyone who disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:10 PM
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If I say that women are way more selective and elitist about looks, find way fewer men physically attractive than vice versa, and that men face way more pressure than women to be good looking in order to get laid, why does this annoy you? I agree that this fact can be expressed in different ways and come across as whining, angry,etc. but do you agree with the underlying fact or not? We can talk about the tone later
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:09 PM
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"Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days" A woman above who wouldn't respond (as expected) interpreted this statement as "Men want to be the prize and chased" So basically you agree that its women who want to be the prize and be chased, and men are just copying what women do (want equality) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:05 PM
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Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days" What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:02 PM
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Asking you again, What the fuck does this mean in real life? Give me some real life examples from the dating process what does it mean by this statement "Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:57 PM
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Fed up with what? Dating wise you women have never had it better. You literally have 1000 times more options than average men. You are financially independent, you have sexual freedom. You can enter and exit relationships at whim. What have men done to you personally to elicit this hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:57 PM
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The women who were oppressed for 1000s of years aren't here today. The women alive today aren't oppressed, neither the men alive today are their oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:55 PM
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Among the statements I listed, are there any you agree and disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:53 PM
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What does that mean in real life? Give me some real life examples from the dating process what does it mean by this statement "Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:53 PM
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One way would be if the person making the statement is willing to explain it, defend it, and is open to debate and counter arguments or not. As I mentioned in the OP, the women making these statements are completely unwilling to do any of the above and start insulting men who try to question these statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:52 PM
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Why is that? Is it because you agree with them and are afraid to support them, explain them, defend them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:48 PM
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Its crazy you know that they really do agree with these statements deep down. Like, literally no woman here has dared to negate them or disagree with them. They are just questioning why we notice them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:12 PM
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All these statements are rooted in bigotry against and a sense of superiority over men. Can you defend these statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:51 PM
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Whats your question and why are you being so cryptic? Just openly explain your stance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:49 PM
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Saying men want to be the prize is not bigotry Why do you think only women should rightfully think they are the prize? Why do you believe women are superior to men? Men just desire equality in the dating process. They may or may not get equality depending on their looks, height, appeal. But why do you demonize and mock the desire itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:46 PM
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Who told you redpill doesn't want debate? Men's primary claim that women are hypergamous and physically/sexually attracted to way fewer men than vice versa is pretty open to debate. Most men in the manospohere will debate this with you, listen to your counter arguments, provide evidence to support their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:40 PM
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Even men in manosphere would not support men who cheat, but yes, they do encourage single men to sleep around, because its our firm belief that men who get casual sex, hookups, fast track sex, sexual flings, are truly the men that women desire. These are the men who - when they do have relationships - have them on equal terms. Again, I can explain why we believe casual sex, hookups are so important to the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:31 PM
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Why do you believe women are superior to men in the dating process?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:28 PM
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Women are physically & sexually attracted to way fewer men than vice versa, and there are a million ways women indirectly acknowledge this reality daily. You don't agree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:26 PM
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So you are against these statements and disagree with the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:22 PM
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A common manosphere complaint is hypergamy and the fact that women are physically attracted to very few men. Men are more than happy to debate this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:04 PM
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Women in comments here are literally doubling down on them. They still want to defend these statements <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:04 PM
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The manosphere have very specific complaints against women. Despite all the hatred that they spew, they are willing to explain and engage in debate. They also claim to seek equality in dating and relationships, Women's narrative is rooted in superiority over men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:01 PM
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So you're being bigoted towards men and claiming that you women are superior to men If it doesn't work for men, it means they're not attractive enough. It will work for men that women find desirable. Why is the desire itself being mocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:59 PM
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It means men desiring equality, reciprocity and exhibiting self-respect in the dating process, are being mocked by women because women believe they are superior to men. That they are the main character while men are just supplicating NPCs. Its bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:57 PM
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I will be specific. Lets take this statement women are spewing all over social media - "Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days" What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:52 PM

How good looking are you and whats your height? I guess having a much higher body count than your wife and having casual sex with hotter women than your wife kinda equals it out in your mind. I'm sure if I was able to have so much casual sex I would be able to accept a woman's past in marriage too. But when I'm locked out of casual sex, when I'm told by women that casual sex is an immense privilege unlocked only for hottest dudes while I need the werewithal to pursue a long term relationship to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:46 AM

I created a Tinder profile of an ugly, 4'9, borderline obese, 50 year old Indian janitor lady in Chicago area. She got 1000 likes and 100+ matches in 5 days. Most matches were with young tall fit decent looking guys I had 20+ guys give out their numbers and were willing meet up. So young, tall, fit looking men are not decent matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:42 AM

Where is the research saying men are less open to dating autistic women than vice versa? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:05 AM

They don't start with a friendship. Most relationships start with a direct expression of interest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:08 AM

Read again. You are being dishonest. They are responding to the claim that friendship is not required for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:22 AM

A mediocre looking woman get 100s of dating options. A mediocre looking man get almost zero options What common sense conclusion will you draw from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:20 AM

So there are no leagues then? And the way people rate out of 10 is also totally incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:18 AM
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Then why are 4 times as many autistic men are single?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:04 AM

Just a few examples I found scrolling down this thread. Women are peddling this lie a lot <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:03 AM

Were the "relationships" with mediocre looking men non-sexual and low quality rebounds? Were you enjoying them sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:00 AM

How does Chad compete against you peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:58 AM

Most women are extremely proud of their ability to fuck hot guys above their leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:57 AM

Majority of short and long term pairing didn't grew from friendships. You are a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:56 AM

Or maybe men are more FORGIIVING to women on their social awkwardness than vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:55 AM

Women are not physically attracted to their looks matches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:43 AM

They are not good friends. They are just acquaintances in the same social circle. The women know they exist, they are safe and physically attractive enough. What women say here is that you need to be good friends first on a deeper level
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:41 AM

But women are not attracted to their looks matches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:40 AM

Most relationships start with sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:39 AM

Because its not needed. There is no evidence that the vast majority of short and long term pairings grew from a good friendship. Its always mentioned in bad faith to men who are not physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:36 AM

True. Sadly, most women are insanely dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:21 PM

Any nuanced deep analysis on this topic will get zero responses from these bigoted w****n Look at them typing bs rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:20 PM

I've been called beautiful my whole life and I've dated some barely mediocre looking guys, but they were smart, intelligent and funny and that made them become attractive to me. Were those low quality rebounds and non sexual relationships where you were just giving them a chance? They didn't last because you quickly found someone youe genuinely attracted to? These men were walking on eggshells throught the duration of these psudo relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:19 PM

Demisexual women still hookup with hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:15 PM

You don't need to be friends first to start dating The vast majority of gf/bf couples were not good friends first Please stop peddling lies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:14 PM

You don't need to be friends first to start dating The vast majority of gf/bf couples were not good friends first Most women here live in a strange world where a good friendship has to precede dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:12 PM

You don't need to be friends first to start dating The vast majority of gf/bf couples were not good friends first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:11 PM

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/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:10 PM

Not feel bad. Just not react negatively when men say they face immensely greater pressure than women to be good looking, charming, extroverted to have dating options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:08 PM
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No. This statistic clearly shows autistic men have it worse than autistic women in dating and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:00 PM
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Dont be a fool. Misandry is when I say its way harder for men to get relationships and women deny the fact
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:16 AM
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You need to be conventionally good looking as a man to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:13 AM

Why do they say its small? I'm below average looking so I can't have casual sex, but all the guys I know who are average in size and are able to have casual sex or just sex with experienced women say the women think its small whenever they asked for feedback. This friend is dating a very promiscuous liberal woman and he says she initially though his dick is small even though its 5.5. And the stories are endless
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 05:07 AM

any woman who has casual sex considers 5.5 as small. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:17 AM
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He's more attractive/desirable than me in her eyes which is why she doesn't need him to invest heavily in an emotional bond for having sex. He's so desirable, sexy, attractive, admirable that she can just have recreational sex with him. Because I'm inferior physically and sexually, I cannot experience the spontaneity and purity of a purely lustful experience. I'm inferior and Im confined to having sex in a long term relationship only. I remain celibate for years when I'm not in a big relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:09 AM
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Only super hot guys sleep with dozens of women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:13 AM
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Why can't you date autistic men then? Why do you prefer to date non autistic men if you know the are more likely to abuse or just take advantage of you? Is it because you consider autistic men below your caliber?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:15 PM
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So whats the reason why you have it so easy at getting relationships, while women absolutely hate having relationships with autistic men? And being an autisitc woman, why do you hate having relationships with autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:59 PM
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Ok, so husband is not physically inferior and would have qualified for hookups back in the day. Good. Because most husbands don't qualify for their wives hookup standards. How fucked up is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:27 AM
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Misandry is encouraged by women. Suffering and disadvantages of men are laughed at by women. What can we say <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:20 AM
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Life is indeed harder for autistic men than autistic women <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:18 AM
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Life is way harder for autistic men than for autistic women. Only dishonest misandrists will disagree <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:17 AM
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Life for autistic men is hell compared to autistic women. Be thankful you're not born as a man <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:02 AM
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Life for autistic men is hell compared to autistic women <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:00 AM
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Life for autistic men is hell compared to autistic women <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:59 AM
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Are you scared to address this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:59 AM
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<image> https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-025-06836-x?utm_source=chatgpt.com
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:37 AM
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I'm a 3 in looks. I can date/marry women who are 2s and 3s. Women who are 2s and 3s only have casual sex with 7s and 8s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:15 AM
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Were your hookup partners a lot more conventionally good looking/hotter than your long term partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:11 AM
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Then why don't you date autistic men who are in the same boat? Why do look down upon them and consider them below your caliber?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:39 AM
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Then why do autistic men struggle in dating 100 times more than autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:02 AM
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Or maybe, just maybe women are given more leeway in terms of introversion, passivity, and lack of confidence in social situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:01 AM
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Why don't they date autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:59 AM
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So you get to socialize and date like normal people despite being autistic and you twist it into a disadvantage? Why don't autistic women date autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:58 AM
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Why were your hookups conventionally better looking than your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:24 AM
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I have been told by countless women on this forum and elsewhere that if you want casual sex, be upfront about wanting casual sex. Stop dating women like you date for a relationship then wonder why they dont want to have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:58 PM
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Doesn't make sense. If I'm acceptable for a relationship, I should be acceptable for casual sex. Unless women are two faced, dualistic, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:45 PM
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Then who are the men millions of women are having sex now? Despite all the slut shaming, pregnancy risks etc. Why are you telling me they face all those risks when millions of women are having it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:36 PM
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You have to be conventionally good looking as a man and meet a much higher benchmark of looks, body, height, charm, dick to get the privilege than the "relationship only" guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:33 PM
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Oh yes, your 2 ugly friends who get laid: Pete Davidson and Jack Black
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:23 PM
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I do. I am just asking why I don't qualify for casual sex? What do I lack?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:22 PM
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Don't you think that if I have so many defects and shortcomings, I should be excluded from the possibility relationships and marriage as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:20 PM
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Enough for casual sex, a hookup, FWB. Sex that a mediocre looking guy like me gets is based on an emotional bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:07 PM
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So why is she open to the idea of a relationship with me if I'm repulsive to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:25 AM
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Women have casual sex with raging misogynists, toxic assholes, criminals, abusive men and degenerates. Why is the mere alleged thought of women losing value from casual sex disqualifies me immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:19 AM
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I know good looking men who get casual sex more than once a week. They don't put any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:14 AM
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It also seems like you do not truly want a relationship, but are pursuing one only because you believe you cannot get casual sex, something you’ve put on a pedestal in your mind So why can't I just get casual sex? Why are women's looks standards for casual sex way higher than for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:14 AM
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Then I won't be dating anyone. No woman wants to hookup with me casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:04 AM
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How does casual sex start then? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:02 AM
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I don't want to put in the immense energy, time and emotions into building a relationship at this point in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:00 AM
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Their casual sex partners were way better looking, hotter than me. I have been told many times by women I went on dates with upon my suggestion that we just hookup, that I'm not good-looking enough for that purpose, and they have way hotter guys available if they just want something purely physical. What do I make of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:58 AM
1

Then why do women have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:53 AM
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So you want to use women and discard them Yes. Thats what women want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:48 AM
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Its about how they view me as physically inferior. Not how I view them. Why are you twisting this around?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:45 AM
0

Right, so why can't I just have casual sex which is shallow in nature and prove m indoctrination wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:22 AM
2

But not under-confident, insecure and off putting enough to have a long term relationship with? How the hell does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:21 AM
2

Your BF's scenario is different because 1) your bf is good looking and also compares favorably to most of your casual sex partners and 2) He didn't want casual sex despite having the option
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:05 AM
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I think one way to deal with these feelings is to pursue relationships with women who don't have casual sex and are "demisexual" (hate that world because too many women who call themselves demisexual still have casual sex with hot guys anyway). And that would require caring and inquiring about body count and sexual past when dating. Sadly, this will just reduce relationship options for men like me even further. The best way to deal with it would be to have casual sex with a lot of women, build s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:56 AM
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Was your threesome and foursomes with all men? And were most of your casual sex guys hotter in a more conventional way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:50 AM
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if he can have relationships (which he apparently seems to be able to have, just can't get past people's pasts) then there's no reason he couldn't have casual sex, since the bar is generally much lower for casual sex. The bar for casual sex is not lower <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:28 AM
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He's purposefully removing himself from casual sex considerations by only dating for a relationship Where the fuck did I say I'm purposely removing myself from casual sex considerations? I'm saying when I approach women, go on dates, the only women who reciprocate any interest in me pigeonhole me into the long term relationship box, so that's what I have to go with. These women can tell me "lets just hookup and see where things go" and I'll happily accept that proposition, but I'm not good looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:26 AM
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Lets say I do want a relationship (thats my only option anyway). How should I feel that this woman can have casual sex with other (hotter) men, but needs to wait and have relationship feelings before having sex with me? How can I take being physically unattractive a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:22 AM
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How can you emotionally invest in a person who doesn't find you physically attractive enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:17 AM
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The men with lots of sexual history that you dated; did they expect you to work harder for sex, needed more time to have sex, because you're less attractive than their casual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:13 AM
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But this is totally ironic as I have been able to build serious connections in the past and still can if I put in enough time and effort. But what I've been totally failed at doing is getting casual sex How is that possible? Are you being dishonest or not telling the full picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:08 AM
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How is it a weird thing if casual sex is something my GF/wife only does with men way better looking than me? How is this not insulting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:02 AM
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Lol. Thats what I've been screaming on top of my lungs: That women are more physically & sexually attracted to their casual sex partners than their husbands and LT partners. That the benchmarks for good looks, height, body, sexual ability are way higher for casual sex than for LTR and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:00 AM
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I have been trying to have casual sex for 15 years (I'm 35 now) and been only given the middle finger by women. I was explicitly and implicitly told be several women I went on dates with that I should'nt be expecting casual hookups because if they wanted that they could easily pick tall, good looking, hot guys and the only reason they agreed to date me was to prospect me as a long term guy. I have tried clubs, dating apps, even went to sex/kink clubs and these environments are immensely competit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:56 AM
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If they are highly sexually experienced, have experimented with a large number of partners then they'd be incompatible with me for a serious relationship because I havent experimented with a large number of partners. I will happily have casual sex with a highly experienced woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:47 AM
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So its nothing vile for men to desire casual sex too. Wtf was the purpose of framing it as being replaceable and used & thrown out if women are also enjoying it? Because you have been raised differently and haven't learned the skills that would get you casual sex? If I can have a serious long term relationship with a woman, why am I not acceptable for casual sex to the same kind of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:45 AM
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2 partners a year is a lot for men, maybe not for women. You can just get in and out of short term flings upon whim. The vast majority of men get maybe 5 relationship options in a lifetime. Amazing how privileged women are isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:40 AM
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I know that you're an extremely dishonest person trying to gaslight me with the choice of words, but I'll ask you Why are women having casual sex then if its such a vile thing? Why is it immensely harder to be the man who's replaceable, doesn't matter and is thrown out after use? It should be easier to be him, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:37 AM
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What is this woman saying? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:32 AM
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So its not because women have way higher looks benchmarks for casual sex than for long term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:29 AM
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What if they are short term sexual flings where the guy is hot and she says "Lets just hookup and see where things go" I've never had such a short term fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:27 AM
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The women who have casual sex surround themselves with good looking, tall, genetically blessed, sexually gifted, big dicked men. They live in a different eco system which is immensely competitive for men You go on Fetlife and you see every woman demanding a 6'4, broad, large dicked guy to fulfill their fetishes and desire for rough play. They are extremely upfront about the physical attributes they want and they can be ugly, obese and old themselves You go to dungeons and sex clubs and you are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:23 AM
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If casual sex is such a huge risk and very few women are having it, why does it give every woman the ick if men care about body count and sexual past of women they intend to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:17 AM
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Women with low self esteem get laid left and right. How is that possible? Why do you need high self esteem in a man if you just want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:14 AM
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He'll only be jealous if he has to pursue you romantically. I'd have zero jealousy of the sexual history of a woman I'm having casual sex with. She is allowing me to build my own sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:13 AM
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Are you going out, are you charming, extroverted, fun to be around, If I'm not charming, out going and fun enough, why would a woman consider me for a long term relationship or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:11 AM
4

So whats the reason why I can't get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:35 AM
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My obsession is an effect rather than cause. The obsession is irrelevant because whether I'm able to get casual sex or not totally depends on my looks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:34 AM
5

So why are women having casual sex and who are they having it with? Whats different about those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:14 AM
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Single women in their 30s and 40s and 50s are giving up on marriage and happy having casual sex. Why do you mock me for being only 35 and wanting casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:05 AM
1

The superficial traits determine our success in dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:03 AM
5

Tall women don't want shorter men than themselves. Short men will happily hookup with taller women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:01 AM
4

Your male partners don't consider you sexually inferior for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:00 AM
12

So whats the difference between the men she has/desires casual sex with and me? Why can't I simply be that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:59 AM
12

Wouldn't you be only interested in relationships with men who are good-looking/hot enough to have casual sex anyway? Why would you even consider a relationship with a man who isn't good looking enough to have casual sex in his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:52 AM
4

So if she's attracted to me, why can't I have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:48 AM
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So you should know that way way more girls than guys have done some form of casual sex be it ONS booty calls, fuck buddies, Tinder/Bumble hookups, short term flings, situationships, sex at house parties, etc. This is common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:45 AM
10

Ever lived in a college town?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:00 AM
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So would it be ok if I ask women if they have casual sex or not and only pursue relationships with ones who dont have casual sex? Who always require a high degree of investment from men before having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:00 AM
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What would you say to this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:56 AM
10

Why do you have "disconnected sex" as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:50 AM
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I am told caring or asking about a woman's sexual past is misogynistic and gives women a major ick. I am told that literally no decent guy cares about it in 2025 And most women have had casual sex nowadays and have had dozens of partners by 35 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:50 AM
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And if she's not having casual sex with you, it doesn't have anything to do with looks or attraction or any of that. It very well could be that you are not on her radar for that. It absolutely does. If the man is conventionally good looking, she will have casual sex with him and then see where things go. Why do you think I'm not able to have casual sex? Its just because of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:45 AM
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So what kind of men did you have casual sex with? Were they not the super hot masculine guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:38 AM
1

Are your looks and hotness benchmarks higher for casual sex than for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:50 AM
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So why is the expectation on them to accept the super high body counts of their girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:59 AM
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I'm disagreeing with him and saying they are not more sexually desirable to women If they were, they will get a lot of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:44 AM
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The performative boyfriends of liberal women Why they never got casual sex, hookups, FWB? Why is their body count much lower than their gfs and wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:42 AM
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Are they getting casual sex or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:41 AM
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With hotter guys, were you more eager to give head regardless of recirpocation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:30 AM
3

So how are abusive men better than incels in women's eyes? Whats the lesson here for incels? That they'll gain more acceptance by women if they became abusers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:28 AM
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What will you say to this woman? Just tell me <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:24 AM
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Because men need to be exceptionally good looking, tall, masculine, big in size preferably, to get casual sex. These men's personalities and politics doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:06 AM
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Why don't you need them to be performative?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:56 AM
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Why don't these men have high body counts themselves? What are they lacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:55 AM
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Why do you have casual sex with men who aren't performative then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:54 AM

Why is his body count way lower than yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:53 AM
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Then why don't these performative males have high body counts of their own? What are they lacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:52 AM
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What kind of men do you have casual sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:51 AM
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The perfomative Alpha does it to get laid casually. He has a high body count. He can get casual sex, hookups, sexual flings, FWBs, etc. The peformative liberal boyfriend does not get casual sex. He does to be acceptable to just one woman. Why do you have casual sex with chads and alphas?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:50 AM
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No, the performative male never got casual sex and his body count isn't high. Men need to be very good looking, very tall, genetically blessed and masculine to get a high body count. The performative bf only get serious relationships where's is is heavily invested He has to mold himself to your lifestyle and interests, not the other way round. She dresses the way she wants. Not to fit into his ideal or fit into his social circle. He dresses and styles himself to fit into her social circle and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:47 AM
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Is it because you never do casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:02 AM
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Is it because you never do casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:02 AM
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Is it because you never do casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:02 AM

Men need to be very good looking to get casual sex. What should majority of men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:34 PM

Why do women have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:33 PM

He just wants casual sex, just like you do. He's just not good looking enough to get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:30 PM
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Because only very good looking men can get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:27 PM
-1

How do women have casual sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:26 PM

So you agree that getting casual sex is an immense advantage to women are confirms the blackpill, incels, 80/20 and other concepts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:59 PM

Men need to be very good looking, tall, fit, charming to get one night stands, hookups and booty calls. The ugliest women have 1000 men on Tinder willing to have sex. Why are women putting no effort, why they have no patience to get a real relationship, why are they so cheap and desperate to go for this low hanging fruit of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:58 PM

Men have low standards and will fuck anything that moves. Men will have sex with women they are grossed out by in social, romantic, intimate contexts What does it say about women who take advantage of those pathetically low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:07 PM

What does a woman having one night stands, Tinder hookups, and booty call demonstrate to you? Lack of discipline, patience, desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:05 PM

I am going to bookmark this to shove it in the faces of 100s of women on PPD who deny BP, 80/20, hypergamy and other concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:02 PM

We never see this. What we do see is ugly, oebse, old women regularly hooking up with tall handsome fit young men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:25 AM

How can ugly women have casual sex with hot men knowing they just see them as cum bucket and fleshlights?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:24 AM

Who do you judge more? Women who have casual sex or men who pay for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:19 AM

Nope. Repulsive women get laid left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:18 AM
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You said that you love nice cocks but thats not enough reason to get into a relationship, so how are you finding out guys have nice cocks before getting into relationships with them? For women, the benchmarks for men's good looks, hotness, height, body, good dick, sexual prowess for casual sex, ONS, FWB are way higher than for serious relationships. Casual sex guys are superior in that sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:34 AM
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So what makes a cock nice to you? Long, Thick, extremely hard, curved, a certain aesthetic? Also, do all your long term relationships meet the benchmarks for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:21 AM
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50 year old men aren't fucking hot 22 year girls who are friends of their daughters. The gender reverse scenario is everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:09 AM
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assortative mating doesn’t apply to short term relationships? Assortative mating absolutely doesn't apply to casual sex, hookups, ONS, and FWB See what these women are saying https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:08 AM
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Just listen to women https://imgur.com/a/dual-mating-strategy-afbb-women-have-way-more-physical-sexual-desire-casual-partners-than-husbands-mc3C1he
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:07 AM
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Look at who below average and ugly girls are having casual sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:06 AM
2

One of the traits men want in a wife is a woman whose brain isn't COOKED from casual sex with studs, pornstars, athletes, chads, male models, gym trainers, musicians, big dicked guys, etc. Such a woman is not suitable for an average looking man who didn't get much casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:04 AM
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Casual sex is ok, but I think the question was about emotionally investing in such a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:02 AM
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Whats a nice cock?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:01 AM
5

Because most men don't get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:45 AM
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I wouldn't emotionally invest in such women. They had casual sex with other guys, so why can't they have it with me if they're interested in me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:44 AM

You just said earlier that casual sex is an extremely high risk for women so only makes sense if the guy is absolutely hot and physically and genetically gifted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:52 AM

How do ugly obese women get 1000s of hookup offers on Tinder then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:33 AM

But you know that men need to be conventionally good looking to get hookups, but women dont'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:22 AM

Why isnt it a turn off for men fulfilling the bulk of financial responsibilites?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:44 AM

So she doesn't want equality in the relationship and always wants to be the pursued main character? The intense pursuit and effort men give early on are required to secure a relationship. Its not sustainable. Most men want equality and to feel relaxed in a relationship just like women do. The fact that you want men to walk on eggshells all their lives shows how much deep seeted disdain you have for men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:42 AM

So women are less suited to monogamy than men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:40 AM

So women are less suited to monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:40 AM

Many aspects of the hookup culture aren't the most sustainable choice for the average person. For the average man you mean? Average women can get casual hookups till retirement age
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:39 AM

Since you're an Asian woman, I'm assuming you only do casual sex and hookups with non Asian men, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:38 AM

How much have good looks got to do with it? The casual fuck buddies are young hot guys, so it probably opens up the animalistic side of women thats not possible with average looking husbands no matter how helpful they are. Theres a reason why women say their casual sex standards are way higher than standards for marriage. You are truly more attracted to your casual fuck buddies than husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:35 AM

Why do women discourage men from seeking casual sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:32 AM

Why do you women treat the man who wants a genuine relationship worse than the casual fuck buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:31 AM

You women are just proving that the man who wants a genuine relationship is treated worse than the casual fuck buddy. The more he does, the more you raise your expectations and keep gaslighting him he isn't doing enough and is expecting too much sex. Its a battle the man will always lose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:30 AM

Women marrying men who don't meet their hookup/casual sex looks benchmarks is the root cause. When relationships and marriage grow from casual sex, FWB, hookups, these things don't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:28 AM

Then why do most men get married but struggle to be the casual lover, hookup, FWB, side guy of women? Why are casual lovers so privileged? Most men would kill to experience being casual lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:26 AM

If they don't look at sex like men do, why do they enjoy casual sex with hot young guys they barely have connection with? Oh, those are privileged men you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:24 AM

why are women marrying ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:20 AM

What do you think of women on PPD who insist their casual sex standards aren't higher than marriage standards and husbands are always a subset of hookup worthy guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:19 AM

So women marry unremarkable men they aren't physicallly attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:18 AM

How many times will we see men bleating about paying for a date and therefore expecting sex in return? Why the hell can't women expect sex from husbands in return for doing all the chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:57 PM

Why can't women act like men with average and below average looking men? Why do they only act like men with super good looking/hot men only?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:56 PM

Hmm, so moving in together is the real culprit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:48 PM

They're not saying they won't have sex with them because of it. They just want to avoid dating them to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:46 PM

Why do you think men don't have this burning sense of injustice over uneven division on financial responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:41 PM

What if she realizes he's too a child and is looking for a mommy? So many older women don't mind mommying a good looking younger lover. Physical attraction is the real issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:37 PM

How do so many women love sex with their hot toxic assholes boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:36 PM

How come men don't feel the same way when they are financially exploited in a relationship? Have you ever heard a man say "My wife sits at home all day, does little housework, I pay all the bills and pay for all the outings, so I no longer want to have sex with her" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:33 PM

Why do women love sex with hot toxic assholes so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:27 PM

So why are only women lying that they can't desire sex with someone who wronged them in some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:25 PM

How can these husbands in sexless marriages become more like the casual lovers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:17 PM

I'm asking why the F it doesn't kill men's libido when they're under pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:04 PM

How does that not apply the other way round? Say a man is expected by his wife to do uneven amount of financial labor and she also does less than 50% of household work. You don't hear men in this situation stop wanting sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:01 PM

How come women enjoy sex with toxic men so much then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:58 PM

Why it doesn't create pressure for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:42 PM

Funny how some husbands say the more chores they did, the more defensive their wives got - like she sensed it was just “for sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:40 PM

Wtf does it mean? Give me a real life scenario where the husband acts like a child
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:33 PM
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Why is the woman always hoping for more in a sexual situationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:05 AM
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Expectation on the woman's part always ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:04 AM
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There is very strong anecdotal evidence. Any guy who was known to have a big dick was sleeping around and never struggling getting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:38 AM
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You can ask any guy with big dick and he will tell you he gets casual sex easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:08 AM
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More options, less effort, ability to get rosters of FWBs, being the side guy, being the guy women cheat with, being offered sex, being passed around by women, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:08 AM

Because today, women are only approaching a handful of top tier hottest men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:14 AM
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I'm asking you a simple question; Why do guys with big dicks get casual sex so easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:22 PM

See, how normal and prevalent casual sex is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:29 PM

But these liberal men didn't have fun years of their own. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:28 PM

But he can't have his own experimentation, hedonistic phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:27 PM

All those former party girls end up marrying the extroverted, fun, handsome guy. Would strongly disagree with this one. Majority of promiscuous slutty girls are not ending up marrying the hot fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:26 PM

Are you married or intend to marry in future?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:24 PM

Not necessarily Women who are apparently monogamous today were free in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:23 PM

If you don't like casual sex, then you have sex for the emotional bond or some other bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:12 AM

Why aren't those men offered sex just like men with big dicks are? A big dick is a selling point in the casual sex market Why isn't a small / average dick a selling point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:09 AM

Why does it help the guy who puts 8 inches? Is it because women aren't attracted to dicks unless they are big?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:08 AM

Having an average pussy, ass, boobs are a selling point. Why isn't an average dick appealing to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:06 AM
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Why can't men with smaller dicks get casually laid as easily as guys with big dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:05 AM

What about women that like small / average dicks? Why aren't they on social media talking about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:29 AM

Then why don't I get zero likes from women on hookup apps if I mention I have 5.5" but the guy who mentions 7.5" gets 100s ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:29 AM

Then why do women who have casual sex get offended that they are beneficiaries of men's pathetically low sexual standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:27 AM
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Most men dont have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:06 AM

Other guys are nowhere near as prolific and only appealed to certain women. Big dick guys have universal appeal in promiscuous women Why? Also, big dick alone is a selling point. A woman will find out this guy has a big dick and will reach out to him. Why is average sized dick not a selling point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:17 AM

Why is average sized penis small to women who have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:58 AM

Then why are men with big dicks so sought out by women and they can get laid on demand? I have known guys with big dicks who ended up fucking ALL women in their circles as women gossiped about them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:21 AM

Go through the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:19 AM

Why are average women objectified but not average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:19 AM

When you want casual sex, what dick size do you want ideally?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:17 AM

Why do women with small breasts get 1000s of sexual offers on dating apps then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:17 AM

Its EVERY woman who likes CASUAL SEX Its not that hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:16 AM

Average women get 1000s of sexual offers on dating apps. Average men get zero
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:16 AM

Average is 5.5 and its considered small by every women who likes casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:15 AM

I'm talking about women who want sex for the sake of sex. Can you wrap your head around that concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:14 AM

When you want casual sex what size do you find the most appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:06 AM

Every woman who likes casual recreational sex, hookups, FWB prefers gymbros. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:05 AM

Is there any woman on the planet who likes casual recreational sex, hookups, FWB and likes smaller dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:03 AM

Because women who don't have those traits still get laid easily. Men with average sized dicks dont get laid easily
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:02 AM

Because EVERY woman who likes casual sex, hookups, recreational sex wants big dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:01 AM

I have 5.5" fully erect and thickness is kinda in the middle Literally every woman I've asked (including hookers) have said it is kinda small. You can literally show a fully erect average sized penis to a woman who has had many partners, who has casual sex and she will be "meh" about it. Real life is very different than Reddit. Specially if you're in a casual hookup scene, kink community you immediately get the feeling that every woman is after big dicks. Every guy with a big dick is sought afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:00 AM
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So if its not a bad thing then you agree women are immensely privileged compared to men since they can get casual sex so easily despite being mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:23 AM
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So below average, over weight, dumpy women are more desirable than below average, over weight dumpy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:11 PM
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What does this mean then? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:10 PM
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Why are so many women having casual sex then? Just read the comments and you'll find so many women talking about casual sex like it isn't a big deal. More young women than men engage in casual sex. Why? If casual sex is so risky, we should have a very small number of outlier daring women who have lots of casual sex and a much larger number of men getting some action.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:52 AM

How the fuck do below average, short obese old women get casually laid left and right, if men are also equally shallow? Why do only men need to be good looking, tall, fit, charming to have casaul sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:58 PM

So only the hot guys can get casual sex. The rest of us are limited to getting laid in relationships only Meanwhile, you women get both options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:57 PM

ALmost every woman irl also says the looks benchmarks for casual sex, hookups, FWB are a lot higher than marriage. Having seen women's dating patterns around me, their fuck buddies and hookup guys were almost always more attractive/hotter than the men they ended up marrying. Its an unmistakable pattern, specially if you look at non white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:48 PM

who are these women? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:38 PM

So some men are not hot / good looking enough for casual sex but can be considered for a long term relationship if they put in enough effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:36 PM

In open relationships, its the woman who's fucking around while the man is usually the Nesting partner who barely gets action with other women on the side unless he's good looking. The gender power imbalance in poly community is absolutely insane
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:34 PM

Weird. Most men I know who are dating or married absolutely care about sexual past No guy I know wants to wife up a former slut
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:31 PM

Because you are privileged as a woman and can compartmentalize casual sex and relationships. Men need to be exceptionally good looking, hot, superficially charming to get casual sex so their ability to get casual sex gets tied with self worth. Women can be ugly obese old and still get fucked left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:29 PM

Men need to be focused on casual sex to get casual sex. As a woman you can get casual sex like its second nature. Why is it so hard to understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:27 PM

Why do you need "EFFORT" from some men but not others? Like, you're either attracted or you're not, right? Why the fuck do you need effort if you already know who you want to fuck and who you dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:22 PM

Below average looking and ugly women don't have casual sex with their looks matches. Its common knowledge. Women who are 2s and 3s have casual sex with guys who are 6s are above.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:20 PM

Why the fuck are the looks, height, youth, body, hotness benchmarks for the fuck buddy way higher than for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:13 PM

Because she's dishonest and desperately wants to gatekeep the discussion on casual sex. She thinks casual sex is an immense privilege that only women and super hot men should have and the rest of men should only strive to be supportive long term providers and husbands to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:12 PM

You know its such a fucked up mindset that you women have. You will never hear a man say "I can fuck hot girls quickly, but with average looking girls, I require a lot more time and effort from them before fucking them"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:08 PM

Good looking, broke men are fucking women left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:04 PM

Old grandmas have 1000 offers to casually fuck on Tinder from young men in their 20s How is that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:02 PM

If you, as a woman, uphold a system of elitist sexual hierarchy where men must be exceptionally attractive to get casual sex, while women can be mediocre in every way and still find sex partners easily, why would you expect men - who are already sexually marginalized - to not care about the sexual history of the women they want to marry, given that marriage or long-term relationships are often their only viable options?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:01 PM

“highly sexually experienced, secure, gifted men”, since all of those qualities are extremely uncommon to find together in one man to begin with. Its funny that women never struggle to find all these qualities in one man when they want fuck buddies. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:57 PM

that high-n women are constantly dating and pairing up with men on the completely opposite end of sociosexuality. It happens way more often than you'd like to admit Read what these women are saying https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:55 PM

Not all women have access to good looking, sexy, hot, super charming men for marriage and LTRs. If you look around, most women are married to average looking men who never had the opportunities for hedonism that women get Are you able to understand that about the "wider society" you're so concerned about or you think all men look like the hedonistic male models pornstars and athletes youre surrounded with?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:51 PM

Life is easy mode when you're a woman seeking casual sex, no? You can look like quasimodos female version and still bang male models till retirement age
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:45 PM

Why the fuck is it such a big discussion on social media among women? Why are women saying they keeping running into men who are insecure about sexual history or BC?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:44 PM

So because of that you have to consider marrying men who aren't good looking, hot, sexy, charming enough to get a lot of casual sex You have to consider men who are towered over by the looks, charm and sexual prowess of the men you casually fucked And so you have to hide your hedonistic crazy sexual past from these men because they'll become insecure if they found what you did with the football players.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:41 PM

Which is why women lie about sexual past and omit BC info from men they intend to marry.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:37 PM
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It matters if she is used to having casual sex with way more attractive/hotter men
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:34 PM
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Its extreme for men. Pretty normal for women. Most girls have slept with 15 guys before university nowadays. Its so easy for them
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:33 PM
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Because I know its validating. Why do women feel validated by abusive assholes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:45 PM
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I want to identify what qualities allow them to get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:33 PM
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Who the hell is asking for 'divine reason'? You're so desperate to make the topic as vague and muddied as possible, when the answer is so simple: Men need to be conventionally good looking to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:32 PM
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I'm a 2 in looks and my female versions do hookups, flings, and FWB with 6s, 7s and 8s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:06 PM
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why do women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:04 PM
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To poor people, money is everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 01:02 PM
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Yet y'all aren't celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:58 PM
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Why do you have sex if it doesn't increase your happiness?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:56 PM
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How much sex are you having?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:55 PM
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There's an explanation for everything. Why are you trying to gatekeep the explanation? Because the discussion makes you deeply uncomfortable and you feel men are being entitled to sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:49 PM
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Its about good looks. Straight men need to be good looking to get casually laid. Women and gay men don't. Good looking tall men who hate women have women lined up to worship their cocks Look at this. Chad is so silly...teehee <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:33 PM
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At women who deny that men face way more pressure to be good looking to have dating & sexual options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 12:29 PM
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Now I have nothing to prove, no cognitive dissonance. Wherever I go, in any social situations, people know why I'm single and celibate. My mind is now free to cope with the reality and find fulfillment in other things in life. There's no debate left, nothing to prove
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:11 AM
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I am told by society and women that I don't get laid because I'm an unattractive loser incel and a horrible human being. The fact is that my female version and gay male version are getting laid left and right. I want to change the narrative and make society stop and realize that straight men are incels because the rules and bechmarks are different for them. Not necessarily because of some objective traits and shortcomings
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 10:47 AM
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It allows me to have an explanation for why I'm not having sex. For why I'm celibate.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:29 AM
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They gave out real phone numbers and were willing to meet up. They wanted to do video call, wanted to talk on phone Some said they were near my area and can pick me up. Have you never used Tinder? Literally every woman says they get 100s of offers to fuck from real men. Why are you acting like its unrealistic? You seem very agitated because this goes against your worldview of "men not having low sexual standards". You desperately want to prove that its equally hard for women to get casual sex an…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:09 AM
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How do you know they were bots?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 07:05 AM
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I made a Tinder profile of a 4'9 50 year old fat Indian janitor lady with an unappealing face and bad hygeine. Location was set to Chicago metro area. I got Tinder premium so I can see the likes and match with them I had 1000 likes in 5 days. Matched with 100 or so hottest young ones. All above average facially, 20 something, tall, fit guys. 30 dudes gave out their phone numbers and wanted to meet up and fuck. All within 5 days.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:43 AM
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I would disagree and having engaged with countless incels and men in manosphere online, I feel they are very welcoming of the mindset I have described. It just needs to be normalized in the mainstream A lot of anger that you encountered was just pent up after years of being gaslighted by women and feminists.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:39 AM
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A better way for women to be helpful and not aggravate men further would be to accept that its immensely harder for men to find sex and relationships, to accept that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good-looking, and to accept how privileged & advantaged they themselves are to have sex and relationships so easily despite being ordinary in most ways. Accept that an incels female version can have the sex life of a rock star / porn star This would also reduce miso…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 06:24 AM
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I want to feel sexually validated like women do. Why is sexual validation only for the hottest of men, but also available to the ugliest of women at lowest point in their lives?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:59 AM
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There is plenty of evidence thats been discussed to death that ugly women too get 1000s of casual sex offers on dating apps. I myself have done experiments on Tinder and got 100s of offers to meetup using an ugly woman's profile. And since you're bigoted and will simply disregard all evidence we present, women themselves agree men have incredibly low standards for casual sex, allowing ugly, obese, old women extremely easy access to it. See what these women are saying <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:58 AM
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I have low self esteem too. Why can't I do those unhealthy things to myself ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:49 AM
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But you shouldn't preach what you don't practice. Women telling men that dating and sex aren't important, when women have immensely colorful hedonistic lives themselves is quite insulting and ridiculous. I would definitely welcome the advice from women who are celibate because that would be 'practicing what you preach'
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:48 AM
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How the fuck do women with low self esteem get laid so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:45 AM
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Whatever their reasons are, my original stance was that women are immensely privileged and advantaged compared to men since they don't need to be conventionally good-looking to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:43 AM
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The ugliest of women on Tinder get 1000s of offers to fuck from decent looking fit young men. Are you sure it doesn't make them overestimate their looks and appeal?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:20 AM
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Why do you need to get rich and successful just to get laid when ugly broke women can get laid as much as they want?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:16 AM
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The biggest advantage/function of physical attractiveness is to attract partners. Then there are social and economic advantages. Why does it matter if they leave "to have dating/sexual options”? What the fuck do women need good looks for if not to have dating/sexual options and feel desirable?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:14 AM
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So why are women have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 05:11 AM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:51 PM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:51 PM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:51 PM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:51 PM
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Why are incels so hated for saying men face way more pressure than women to be good looking to have dating/sexual options?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:50 PM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:49 PM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:49 PM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:49 PM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:49 PM
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No, I agree with you. They're not cum dumpsters. They're enjoying the easily available casual sex with super hot guys above their leagues. At least we can agree how privileged and advantaged women compared to men. We men need to be good looking and tall to get casual sex. Women can be ugly fat short old and still get hot dudes to no end.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:48 PM
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So you agree that women enjoy casual sex and its an amazing advantage/privilege that women can get casual sex so easily regardless of their own looks and circumstances, while men need to be good looking tall winners in life to get the same opportunities. Why are you scared to say women are privileged and advantaged?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:31 PM
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Why is the biggest lament of women in dating that hot sexy guys only want to fuck them but don't want commitment? Do you think women need to be realistic about looks and go for looks matched, looks compatible men? You bullshitted above that casual sex is bad for women, yet you also support women mindlessly chasing hot men despite knowing that hot guys have low standards for casual sex and it likely wont end up well for women seeking relationships. What the fuck do you stand for? Do you have a co…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:27 PM
1

So women overestimate their looks and appeal, not men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:26 PM
1

She's saying women having casual sex (with hot men they're attracted to) is a good thing. You uttered above that its a bad thing
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:25 PM
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So why can't women be less shallow, less look-obsessed, looks elitist that they are desperate to get with the hottest men above their leagues and will agree to be their fuck buddies when they want relationships? Itsn't it helpful to tell women that hot men have low standards for casual sex so they're cautious about chasing hot men aobve their leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:24 PM
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what the fuck do you think about this woman who says no woman is below any man's league. She says that ugly women getting casaully fucked by hot guys means they're in the same league <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:20 PM
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Hot guys will readily casually fuck mediocre looking girls but would never date them You think below average ugly girls are in the same league as male models?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:19 PM
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Obviously you don't believe in leagues because you think any woman can and should get the hottest of men. Until a dorky below average guy shoots for a hot girl, then you fucking believe in leagues suddenly smh
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:17 PM
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Why do men feign relationship interest just to get laid? Why can't they just be honest about wanting casual sex upfront to women who have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:14 PM
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So why are more women than men having casual sex, flings, hookups and FWB stuff if casual sex is so harmful to women? And why are women so looks obsessed when they want casual sex? Why not pick cooperative men for casual sex instead of the biggest baddest hottest motherfucker?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:13 PM
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Women will still insist that her past shouldn matter and you're being insecure that you wont measure up to her past lovers
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:59 AM
1

Doesn't matter what language you use, women, feminists, liberals disparage and insult men for caring about sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:34 AM
1

So why do women show intense hatred for men who care about body count? Most women hate casual sex so why is it a problem that men seek wives who didn't fuck around?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 10:22 AM
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How is it not an advantage for women who have/want casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:54 AM
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Its not 1% of women who have casual sex. Women have more casual sex than men, for obvious reaons
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:31 AM
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They are making fun of men for having low standards for casual sex. I think men's low standards for casual sex are an immense advantage for women who want casual sex as it allows they to casually fuck hot men way above their relationship leagues. But at the same time it is a double edged sword because super good looking/hot men will fuck mediocre looking girls but will have some background apathy for them, in the same way mediocre looking dorky men disgust you. Personally, I would accept casual …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:28 AM
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So getting casual sex easily with hot guys is an immense advantage to women. Why the fuck are you scared to admit you are privileged as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:18 AM
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There's so much doublespeak in your response. On one hand you say "pretty much any woman can find someone who will give her a lousy time in bed and use her for sex, but this is not a privilege at all". but then "I've been pretty open about having a body count that puts me at 97% or so. I had a great time, and debauched many a sweet and quiet geek boy." Clearly you lived an exciting, enjoyable, hedonistic life How the hell are you not privileged & advantaged compared to your male version / looks-…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:15 AM
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Any man bringing up body count and sexual past is disparaged by women, no matter how politely he brings it up
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:08 AM
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Why does it matter as long as women get to have casual sex with good looking hot guys way above their leagues? We all agree that women are incredibly shallow, elitist and unforgiving on looks when they want casual sex. They exclusively want casual sex with the hottest men even if they are below average dumpy looking themselves. Why can't they tolerate a little bit of background apathy from those hot men? They do say that their hot casual sex partners are selfish in bed and they're willing to pay…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:08 AM
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Asking you again, Female promiscuity is stigmatized by whom? And what are the consequences of that stigma to a young woman having casual sex in 2025? How is her life tangibly affected? Literally more women than men are having casual sex. Go to any college campus and for every guy that has casual sex there are 3 girls. If there's stigma then it clearly isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:04 AM
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Why does it matter as long as women get to have casual sex with good looking hot guys way above their leagues? We all agree that women are incredibly shallow and elitist and unforgiving on looks when they want casual sex. They exclusively want casual sex with the hottest men. Why can't they tolerate a little bit of background apathy from those hot men? They do say that their hot casual sex partners are selfish in bed and they're willing to pay the price to get with genetically gifted men Don't y…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 09:02 AM
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Asking you again because you spouted the feminist bullshit rhetoric. Why doesnt the beauty industry pressure on women extend to the dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:53 AM
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These terms crudely describe that men have way lower standards for casual sex than for serious relationships. A good looking/hot guy will readily have casual sex / ONS with a below average looking girl, but he won't be seen with her in public. Its like how women view ugly dorky men. You hate and find ugly men repulsive and feel creeped out by them, but many men would at least have casual sex with ugly dorky girls. So once the sex part is over, men tend to revert to the same disgust you have for …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:47 AM
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What the fuck do you think about these women? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:42 AM
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What about women who do have/want casual sex? How are they not advantaged/privileged compared to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:41 AM
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How do you view women's ability to easily get casual sex with men way above their leagues looks wise? Do you see it as an advantage/privilege for women that they don't need to be good looking to get casual sex so incredibly easily and that too with conventionally good looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:39 AM
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Asking you again. How the fuck do ugly, obese, out of shape, old women with boring personalities get casually fucked left and right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:36 AM
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How do objectively ugly, fat, obese, old, broke women get 1000s of sexual offers on every dating app?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 08:35 AM
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Then how the fuck do ugly, obese, out of shape, old women with boring personalities get casually fucked left and right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:05 AM
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So why are you loathe to admit that women who have casual sex are immensely privileged/advantaged compared to men? Why do you deny that men face way more pressure than women to be good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:02 AM
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A lot of things follow from "You don't have to be special, good-looking, hot, charming, successful as a woman to get regular casual sex". Women don't like that line of argument at all no matter how politely to put it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 03:01 AM
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My premise was that almost all women are loathe to admit that women who have casual sex are immensely privileged/advantaged compared to men. They deny that men face way more pressure than women to be good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:59 AM
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So you did enjoy casual no strings sex and flings with hot guys. Why downplay the advantage/privilege of getting casual sex you have as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:54 AM
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How does the beauty industry pressure doesn't extend to the dating world?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 02:44 AM
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But you have long term relationships with men who aren't attractive enough for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:28 AM
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Men's low standards benefit women who have casual sex. Why can't these women acknowledge that men's low sexual standards benefit them?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 01:27 AM
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Because women who have casual sex with hot men above their leagues, look down upon men who are their looks matches and would never have casual sex with them. Their ability to get pumped n dumped by hot guys above their leagues is what gives them the superiority complex over men. Its what makes women arrogant and encourages them to insult incels, despite knowing that men are disadvantaged and need to meet impossible benchmarks of looks height body charm to get casual sex. Despite knowing that the…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:58 AM
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So you agree that women are immensely advantaged and privileged over men because they don't need to be conventionally good-looking, hot, charming, etc to get casual sex? You agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good looking in todays world? Why are you bluepilled not blackpilled then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:54 AM
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Literally what most women who have casual sex think
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:51 AM
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So you agree women's ability to easily get casual sex is an immense advantage over men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:50 AM
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So lets just only talk about women who have casual sex. When you tell that that men have low standards for casual sex and their ability to get laid doesn't make them special, why do they get offended?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:49 AM
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I'm asking about women who do have casual sex. How are they not privileged?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:48 AM
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So you agree that women who do enjoy casual sex are immensely privileged over men, because they don't need to fulfill elitist beauty standards to get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:47 AM
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How is it the same thing to insult someone for inability to have sex vs having too much of it? It is your privilege as a woman that you don't need any positive quality/trait to have casual sex. You don't need to be good looking, young, fit, tall, charming, rich, good in bed, sexually gifted, big titted, etc to have casual sex. Men are excluded from casual sex for having mediocre facial features, height, built, penis size, and much more
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:46 AM
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So you agree that casual sex doesn't dehumanize women, and its an immense advantage/privilege women have over men that they can find casual sex easily without being super good looking and charming? You f'n agree that men face way more pressure than women to be good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:43 AM
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Why is it 1 in 4 women but only 1 in 6 men?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:40 AM
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So they're not cum dumpsters. They are enjoying casual sex and its an immense advantage to women that they don't need to be good-looking, fit, charming or have money to get regular casual sex Do you f'n agree?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:40 AM
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So you agree that women are immensely advantaged and privileged over men because they don't need to be conventionally good-looking, hot, charming, etc to get casual sex? You agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good looking in todays world? Why are you bluepilled not blackpilled then?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:38 AM
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Stigmatized by whom? And what are the consequences of that stigma to a young woman having casual sex in 2025? Literally more women than men are having casual sex. Go to any college campus and for every guy that has casual sex there are 3 girls. If there's stigma then it clearly isn't working.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/25 12:37 AM
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Far too many women irl are catching up to these social media narratives
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:23 PM
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I wouldn't take offense in being called "dial a dick, dick monger, walking dildo" by women. I think its funny that women see you that way and you get to have free casual sex with so many women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:21 PM
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Men don't hate women they casually fuck either. They just don't have to like them all that much. They just see them as warm bodies. No hate or hard feelings
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 11:02 PM
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Women view themselves as superior to men and think no man is above their league looks wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:30 PM
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But I routinely hear women say they don't like their fuck buddies and hookups as people and can even hate their politics See what these women are saying. It will resonate with what a lot of women you've come across have said https://imgur.com/a/not-only-personality-likeability-doesnt-matter-to-women-casual-they-often-actively-seek-casual-with-good-looking-hot-men-they-dislike-as-people-x6cxmWD
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:28 PM
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Its kinda like how women see hot fuckboys and manwhores. These men are good for phone a dick or dick appointments, but not for long term relationships. The only difference is men need to be conventionally good looking winners, while women can be dumpy, old, fat, boring to play the same role.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:13 PM
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But thats not how GenZ women on social media view things when they say - Men aint shit - No man is above any woman's league - Top tier men are just average women - Men are the easiest to get - There are literally 100s of men in my dm's and I'm fat, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 10:00 PM

The group and topic was casual sex specific and most of these women had earlier admitted they have casual sex. How can you punch down on men knowing you are privileged and the rules are immensely harder for men? just read these women <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:38 PM

See how these women are taunting me for saying that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good-looking. They are so smug that they have casual sex <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:30 PM
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Woman 2 is wrong if she thinks she's special for find men for casual sex. Whats wrong with pointing out that she's wrong? I will show you examples
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:17 PM
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So why do women who have casual sex take pride in their ability to have casual sex and often taunt men for their inability to get laid, when they know its incredibly easy for any ugly, short, obese, old, broke woman with zero personality to get laid as much as she wants, while the benchmarks for men are elitist?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 09:02 PM
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So how do you explain women that hot men who are above your league still have low standards for casual sex so they don't get confused and mistake their sexual options for relationship / marriage options?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:59 PM
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So you do agree that women are immensely advantaged over men since they can obtain casual sex with hot partners easily despite being mediocre and below average looking themselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:52 PM
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So why do you disagree that women are immensely advantaged/privileged over men in the dating/hookup world? Why do you disagree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good-looking in todays world?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:50 PM
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So why do most women deny that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good-looking in todays world? Why do they deny the 80-20 and the hypergamy phenomenon that manosphere talks about?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:48 PM
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So you agree that women are immensely advantaged and privileged over men because they don't need to be conventionally good-looking, hot, charming, etc to get casual sex? You agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good looking in todays world? Why are you bluepilled not blackpilled then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 08:45 PM
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"I’m friends with quite a few women I have deep admiration for but I’m like “yeahhh long term exclusive relationships aren’t really for you. And I’m sorry that you’re chasing the dragon. You should have a more low stakes relationship with clear boundaries or else you’re going to constantly disappoint yourself and others.”" Are these women conventionally unattractive and chasing hot men above their leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:43 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/women-admit-that-men-have-extremely-low-standards-casual-3eHTzjy Why do women laugh about the same thing then? They regularly joke that men have low standards for casual sex and need to fuck like they need to piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:29 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/women-admit-that-men-have-extremely-low-standards-casual-3eHTzjy Why do women laugh about the same thing then? They regularly joke that men have low standards for casual sex and need to fuck like they need to piss.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:29 PM
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Thanks for being consistent, at least
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:27 PM

This is what you said This is where idea of looksmatch and leagues comes from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:27 PM

Why are you arguing like a snarky child?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:13 PM

All these points are dismissed/denied by women on this forum. The solution is that you women should acknowledge these wholeheartedly and anytime a guy complains about Chads and women not being attracted to their looksmatches, you just mention these points. You just tell them: Women are hypergamous and physically attracted to way fewer men than vice versa. Tell them, that very very few men are physically attractive enough for casual sex. Just tell them that the looks benchmarks for men are way hi…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 07:02 PM

Good looking/hot men are extremely happy being single, even more happy than single women. Men just need to be good looking, Women don't
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:58 PM

So they are not emotionally available to you and willing to commit? They pursue serious relationships with prettier, more wholesome women?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:57 PM

Then who are the men you're having casual sex with? Why can't you pursue a relationship with one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:37 PM

Because good looking/hot men have lower standards for sex than for relationships. Why can't women accept this?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:35 PM

Non attractive women are in situationships and fuck buddy arrangements with good looking, tall, hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:35 PM

Men are attracted to women at their level. Reverse isn't true
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:34 PM

Understandable, because any old below average dumpy looking woman can have sex with good looking, hot young men till retirement age
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:32 PM

You still have casual sex options. You just need time to narrow down on guys you like the best. Men don't have casual sex options unless they are very conventionally good looking. Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:31 PM

Those women are single but not celibate. They are still casually dating men. Men need to be very good looking to casually date and have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:30 PM

No. Men are still sexually attracted when they adapt their standards. Women compromise sexually. Big difference
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:29 PM

Average joe's are perfectly attracted to average looking women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:28 PM

Then why are you afraid of accepting that men face way more pressure than women to be conventionally good looking? Why are you reluctant to admit that the looks, height, fitness benchmarks for men to have dating options are way higher than for women? Why tf do you disagree with the 80/20 phenomenon and hypergamy talked about by manosphere?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/25 06:27 PM
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these are misleading, outdated statistics. Its simply impossible that more young men are having casual sex than young women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/25 06:54 AM
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I'm asking why does every thug and abuser has women. Do you have an answer?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/25 05:16 AM
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So why is it wrong for men to want to experience that, if you enjoy it?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:41 AM
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So you are saying there are enough women with trauma in the world that every woman beater, thug, criminal has women always lined up to date/fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:38 AM
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So why do you women get both options (casual sex and relationships), but most men can only have sex in long term relationships? Whats the difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:37 AM
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How the fuck do way below average looking girls in college and workplaces were casually fucking tall handsome fit guys? This is something so fucking obvious. How the fuck can you deny this?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 07:31 AM
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Or women are just shallow, elitst, power worshippers? They are just attracted to violence and dark triad characteristics?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:34 AM
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Its not halo affect. Its just women's shallowness and attraction to dark triad. I think women need to come clean on this
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:31 AM
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Did. Every young woman has something going on: An on/off fling, occasional hookup, a FWB or two, a situationship with a super hot guy, etc. You are bullshitting
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:27 AM
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But if I say "I prefer hookup material a way bigger validating compliment than husband material", women bullshit that it means you don't really like women as people, don't value relationships and bonds, and only value sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:23 AM
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You think men do sex like charity when they fuck ugly obese women?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:12 AM
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And men need to be very good looking, tall, fit, charming to have casual sex, so we feel more validation when we're considered good for casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 08:07 AM
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When you casually fucked men and did hookups, did you feel like a f'n disposable tissue paper?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:58 AM
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So why don't the men you date seriously have fuck buddies like you do when they are single? Because they're not good looking, hot enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:56 AM
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So how the fuck do mediocre and below average looking have casual sex so easily? Its not pretty privilege. Its gender privilege
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/25 07:49 AM

He lacks willingness to commit. Now tell me what does the "husband only material" LACK that prevents him from being chosen for casual fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:52 PM
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So you do agree casual sex guys are more privileged than husband only material?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:48 PM
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Its for hot men only
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:46 PM
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The women who have casual sex have higher benchmarks for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:44 PM
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So why is it so extremely difficult to have casual sex and my only option is being a husband? Why are the looks, hotness, height, dick size benchmarks so much higher for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 03:42 PM

Why is the criteria for men to be FWB way higher than for being a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 09:08 AM

So why are the looks benchmarks for casual sex so much higher than for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:51 AM

Why is casual sex only for women to experience and enjoy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:43 AM
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Every girl in college is hooking up with good looking guys. Even ugly girls
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:39 AM

Countless experiments have been done with the same results. I myself made a fake profile of an ugly, short, fat old janitor lady and had 1000+ likes and 100 matches on Tinder in 4 days. At least 50 guys gave me their numbers to meet up and fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:35 AM

Why are way more women than men having casual sex then? Why are young women in their 20s preferring partying and hooking up with hot bad boys and completely uninterested in settling down and marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:33 AM
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So you agree being chosen for casual sex is more validating for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:32 AM

Then why do ugly fat women get 1000s of hookup offers from young decent looking men on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:30 AM

But what does he specifically lack that disqualifies him from being a fuck buddy to women? And why is casual sex only for women to enjoy, but men must only experience it in a long term committed relationship? Why do you get both options, but men only get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:29 AM

So they are a very superior/exclusive group of men that can get sex without relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:25 AM

Why is the criteria for the man who is "lower in value" way higher? Why can't the typical husband meet the "lower criteria" of a fuck buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:12 AM

Why is the criteria for the man who "gets less" is way higher? Why can't the typical husband meet the "lower criteria" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:11 AM

So who are the men women choose for casual sex despite being less horny? Whats special about those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 08:09 AM

Why is the minimum looks threshold for hookup so much higher than for the husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:58 AM

You don't have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:48 AM

So husbands of most women aren't hot enough to be fuck buddies you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:48 AM

So why is it way harder for average looking to be chosen as fuck buddies than as husbands? What do husband material men LACK that prevent them from being chosen as fuck buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:47 AM

Why is it harder for average looking men to become a fuck buddy than a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:44 AM

Why is becoming the 'sex guy' so much harder than becoming the long term guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:32 AM

Why are most single women not celibate then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:28 AM

I can say that because I've slept with lots of very beautiful men Why were you unable to have serious committed relationships with beautiful men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:27 AM

Because men are called insecure, small minded, controlling neanderthals for caring about body count.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:23 AM

Please stop bullshitting. Single women in their 30s and 40s are not celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:22 AM

Just say it: What the fuck do most husbands LACK that prevent them from being fuck buddy material?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:21 AM

Most women who have casual sex don't hang out in these places either. They have casual sex with men in their circle, workplace, dating apps, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:20 AM

Why is it easier to be a husband than the hookup guy for average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:19 AM

Why is it easier to be a husband than the hookup guy for average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:19 AM

So how do ugly, short, fat, out of shape women get casually laid left and right with good looking young men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:17 AM

Then why don't husbands of most women don't meet their own looks criteria for a fuck buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:13 AM

Most young Gen Z women are having situation-ships with good looking, tall, hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:08 AM

Who are women having (casual) sex with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:05 AM

These women are from 2025 What do yout think about them? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ You talk about artificially boosted mediocre men, but what about mediocre looking women who are getting laid left and right? How is that good for society?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 07:02 AM
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My only option is sex within long term relationships. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:51 AM

So all these women are stupid f'n c***s ? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:50 AM
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Utter cope. This sounds like the disadvantages of being a tall man
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/25 06:47 AM
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Why is it easier to be a husband than the hookup guy for average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 03:06 PM
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https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:54 PM
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Why is the criteria for the man who "gets less" is way higher? Why can't the typical husband meet the "lower criteria" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:53 PM
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So why can't most men get women in their horny/hookup phase and have to wait until they are mature? Why do you women get both options, but most men only get 1?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:49 PM
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So the guy who's giving you emotional investment, gifts, kind gestures, and supports your favorite team; what does he lack? What specifically does he lack that he doesn't qualify for hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:48 PM
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Please get real. Young women are more promiscuous than ever in the post dating app / hookup / situation-ship culture era. Only men are having less sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:42 PM
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What does it prove?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 02:39 PM
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So whats the point of having way higher benchmarks for physical and sexual attraction for FWB & hookups than for husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:23 AM
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Most young single women are sexually active. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:19 AM
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No. It doesn't work that way in real life. Irl, if a man is so good looking and hot, no woman will dare pigeonhole him into the husband category and expect him to court/date them and offer commitment. They have to get on his program in order to have a shot at getting a relationship with him, and that means "hooking up and seeing where things go without expectations". If it leads to something more, great. If it doesn't, at least you have a good looking hot FWB. Only average looking men are pigeon…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:17 AM
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Because there aren't enough good-looking, hot, tall, sexy men with nice dicks and hot bodies for every woman to get married to. Average looking women can casually fuck super hot guys. They can't marry them and will have to settle for average looking men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:12 AM
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Based on what women are saying. Just read it. I promise it won't hurt you. https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 10:10 AM
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Simple: You need to be more good looking, hot, sexy, charming to be a fuck buddy than a husband.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:56 AM
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Whats the reason behind women and feminists insulting men for finding this validating?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:48 AM
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What do women want to gatekeep?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:44 AM
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I don't know if they are attracted to their husbands or not. I'm saying they are MORE attracted to their fuck buddies and hookups than the men they marry. Why are you scared of addressing that point?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:43 AM
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Do you find it hard to believe that the overwhelming majority of men observe and experience that the benchmarks are higher for FWB and hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 09:40 AM
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Do you think women whose FWB standards are way higher than for husbands are kinda abnormal and weird?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:57 AM
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The OP's question is "The ability to find FWBs, not relationships, is the measure of how sexually attractive a man is" Why are the benchmarks for FWB and fuck buddies way higher than for husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:56 AM
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They are saying that the only reason they have sex with their LTR partners is because of an emotional bond, not because of physical attraction and the sex itself. These men had to provide commitment, invest emotionally in order to get laid. They were not attractive enough to get casual sex, hookups, flings, and FWB. Why are you being so dishonest about his and moving goal posts to them not being attracted to them, when the topic is that women are way way more sexually attracted to their short te…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:50 AM
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They are literally saying their long term partners do not meet the extremely high benchmarks for sex done purely for recreation. Why is that? What do the long term partners and husbands lack? Why are they so inferior compared to the fuck buddies, that they don't qualify for pure, casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:45 AM
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Then why the fuck are the benchmarks for being the casual sex guy so much higher and elitist? Why are only the hottest, sexiest, tallest, best looking, most charming winners are chosen for casual sex by women? Do you have a fucking answer to this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:42 AM
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Don't expect women to respond to nuanced takes
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:40 AM
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How/why would a man put effort for something that other guys got for free? Is it because he's less physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:39 AM
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Ugly women don't want casual sex with mediocre looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:37 AM
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Why the fuck so many women (way more than men) have casual sex then if the slut shaming is so bad?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:37 AM
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Something wrong with him, you mean he's exceptionally good looking, hot, great in bed, charming, and a winner among men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:35 AM
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Women who have casual sex, are very proud of their ability to get casual sex and routinely insult men for not having it easy. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:23 AM
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What if he's really good looking, hot, has nice dick, great body, is tall, etc and he tells you he only wants to be a fuck buddy. Now what will you do? Now he qualifies for the fuck buddy, right because he's so good looking and hot. But if he was average or okayish looking then you'd want a relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:22 AM
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Why the fuck are women's standards for looks, physical attraction and sexual ability way way higher for casual hookups and FWB than for marriage? Why the fuck are you scared to address this? Read these f'n comments. Can you dare to say these women are weird c***s ? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:19 AM
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So why/how is he able to get casual sex with women so easily, while the majority of men can only have regular sex in a long term committed relationship? I know you're f'n scared to admit that he is a superior, admirable, enviable man. He is a winner thats why so many women want to fuck him casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:16 AM
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Were your fuckbuddy guys more conventionally good-looking/hotter than your committed guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:13 AM
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Is he a good looking tall guy that women had FWB with him hoping to get a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:11 AM
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I know you're f'n scared to answer this, but why the fuck are women's casual sex partners, hookups, short term flings, FWB's are usually significantly more physically attractive than the men they end up marrying and having a family with? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:10 AM
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Wtf do you have to say about women who think like this? I know you, like every other woman here is scared shitless to disagree with another woman let alone say they are wrong. https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 08:06 AM
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They were disappointing because they were selfish in bed. They used her body for their pleasure and she let them have their way because they were so good looking and physically superior. Why did she not pursue relationships with such good looking men? Because they were not interested in her? Because they saw her as a convenient pump and dump and she had to adjust her looks standards? How do you even know this detail? This is incredibly disrespectful for a man if his wife is telling him this. Unl…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 06:38 AM
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So youre not good looking enough to her for casual sex? You dont qualify for that. The men she fucked casually were physically superior to you and she enjoyed way more intense physical chemistry with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 03:44 PM
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Look at these piece of shit women Tell me they don't deserve hate. Tell me men aren't justified in fighting against their bigotry <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:09 AM
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Say that these women are lying hateful c***s towards men
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 11:01 AM
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Just say that these women and millions others like them on social media are bullshitting. Say that they are liars, gaslighters, dishonest c***s Dont be afraid to call women wrong https://imgur.com/a/women-feminists-insisting-that-looks-dont-matter-any-man-who-struggles-dating-is-horrible-human-being-PAA3nJe
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:37 AM
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The misogyny can simply be addressed by acknowledging that women are hypergamous, looks elitist, and only feel sexual desire and lust for a smaller number of men. Way smaller than the other way round. Its just an example of life not being fair. Life isn't fair to men in this aspect. And I believe men have the capability to accept it without hating women. Women create misogynists not by being hypergamous and looks elitist, but by gaslighting men about character, morality, personality, kindness, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:34 AM
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I know that you hate men, but try to consider this. When you're a below average looking guy, the best you can ever get is probably be settled for in a long term relationship/marriage. You will be chosen for stability, not sexual desire. You will never get hookups, flings, short term casual fun, FWB's etc. You will never feel desired or validated. Often the woman who will settle for you will have enjoyed sex with way hotter sexier superior men. (You know how easy it is for women to have casual fu…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:22 AM
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When women are around good looking/hot men, they suddenly become open to casual sex. Their desire for casual sex is limited by good looking men. Its not 20%. The vast majority of women have casual sex at points in their lives when they come across good looking/hot men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:09 AM
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Are you conventionally good looking and tall?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:07 AM
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Why is FWB status so difficult for men to achieve? Like why are the benchmarks for looks, charisma, sexual ability so fucking higher than being a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:06 AM
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Most women who have casual sex, say that the sex with their short term flings and FWB's is more explosive, raw, and visceral than one with husbands. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 10:04 AM
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You are still not realizing that the incels with no looks and charisma would still not get laid if they were not misogynists. misogyny is irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:46 AM
2

Elliot Roger was short and Asian looking. Do you know women in America hate that phenotype for hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:44 AM
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Whats wrong with him is his looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:42 AM
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Because women on social media are constantly insisting that the bar for men is on the floor, yet men are showing up in rented excavators. They are insisting that the incel and male singledon epidemic is due to men not being kind, empathetic and nice humans enough. Why don't you tell all these women to shut the hell up? why are you afraid of calling out women's bigotry?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:34 AM
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Why are their brains like this?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:32 AM
2

True. Its superficial charm that women are interested in. Not genuine kindness or empathy. Hope women can learn to be honest about this
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:31 AM
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Why do you enjoy casual sex? Why the fuck arent' you celibate when you're not in a long term serious relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:29 AM
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So if you are capable of fucking hot men on 1st dates, what does it mean for men who never get laid within the first few dates?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:28 AM
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Why do women pretend sex on 1st date such a big fucking deal when men bring it up in the context of their dating struggles? Why do women move goal posts so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:26 AM
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Why don't you fuck all your male friends then, since they all make you feel safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:24 AM
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Not saying it and denying it are different, Why do so many women DENY it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:23 AM
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Women are definitely a monolith. I think you can't hide the fact anymore. Marriage is going out of favor so just look at who women are hooking up with. Yes, keep marriage aside and you'll realize they are a monolith
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:22 AM
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So we don't hate the women we are romantically interested in either We can hate women in general (just like you hate men in general) but not hate the ones we want to pursue romantically. What the fuck is different about that? Are you able to fucking articulate whats different about your general hatred of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:19 AM
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Wtf do you mean by better? Whats your definition of "better"? Is it hotter, taller, sexier? Because in todays dating scene almost all women have become looks elitist. Good looking hot toxic assholes are having a field day. There literally hasn't been a better time in human history to be a good looking man than now. Personality, character, effort has never meant lesser. You women yourself spew/utter that the bar for effort and character is on the floor. Why the fuck are you backtracking from wome…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:10 AM
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Because most men don't have casuals sex. Why the fuck don't you women who love to have casual sex marry men who have a lot of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 08:54 AM
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Judging promiscuous women is deemed hatred by women and feminists
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:04 AM
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More women than men engage in casual sex. Do you fucking realize that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/25 07:03 AM
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How tf do you know? In real life majority of young women date men for good looking, superficial charm, and excitement. What world do you live in? Have you like even observed the guys women are having crushes on and in fuck buddy situationships with?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:47 AM
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So why tf can't men do the same? Talk shit about shallow, elitist, promiscuous women and still want to date non-promiscuous pleasant, realistic women?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:44 AM
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Most young single women have active dating and sex lives these days. How is that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:41 AM
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Men who hate women in general and call modern women shallow, selfish, elitist, narcisstic, promiscuous wh***s, are still holding out for traditional low body count women and will cherish her if they're lucky enough to find one. Wtf is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:37 AM
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There is a wave of intense hate against men on social media, particularly insta and Tiktok. The women who give these hateful takes and comments all mention that they are still dating men.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:33 AM
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How are you mind readers of incels and can smell them a mile away?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:30 AM
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Men who call modern women shallow, selfish, elitist, narcisstic, promiscuous wh***s, are still holding out for traditional low body count women and will cherish her if they're lucky enough to find one. Wtf is your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:28 AM
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But these women aren't celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:23 AM
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Facebook groups are full of such women. Literally 10s of 1000s of such women. They simply don't answer when you bring this up
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:21 AM
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So why do you disagree with incels who say men face more pressure than women to be good-looking in todays world in order to have dating and sexual options?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/25 05:19 AM
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They are literally saying they're fucking hot assholes and hot trash losers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:35 PM
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They are literally saying they're dating and fucking hot assholes and hot losers
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/25 03:33 PM
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Why do millions of women agree with those "rage bait" videos and ZERO women distance themselves from them or want to call them out?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 08:29 AM
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So what kind of men do you find physically attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/25 06:46 AM
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