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So do you fucking agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:33 AM
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Then why the fuck do ugly, old, obese, midget women get 1000s of dating offers? Wtf are you missing here?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 06:14 AM
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Just checking, do you agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking in order to have hookup and sexual options?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/26 12:59 AM
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I mean what can I say, you're so extremely privileged being a woman living the sex life only available to Emperors and 80s rockstars. Its quite humbling hearing how you talk about it. But anyways, besides that, when you say the guy has to be really cute, shy and nerdy, maybe the aesthetic standard is extremely high. Like maybe this guy has to be really male modelesque and youthful. Like if you're at a club and your GF picks up a guy, she will pick the guy who stands out in aesthetics. Like the c…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:33 PM
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We are listening to what women are saying on social media and that aligns with the real world behavior of young women under 35
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:30 PM
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Then why do 80% of men get no matches on Tinder? Why do top 5% get 90% of all likes from women?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:28 PM
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But what about the millions of women who are enjoying casual sex? Women who do hookups from Tinder, have FWB rosters, have short term sexual flings, etc with hot guys. Women who have an active sex life despite not being in a committed relationship. Can you claim on their behalf that they won't care that their life will change suddenly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:27 PM
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But in your experience, in retrospect, the guys who did end up being part of a 3some (FMF) were outliers, exceptional in some way. Could be looks, hotness, sexual ability, fame, etc. Else you and the other woman wouldn't be able to justify allowing him that experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 06:23 PM
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Millions of women enjoy casual sex and are happy that hot men have low standards for fucking. Imagine if men were as sexually picky as women. Thats not a world you'd want to live in
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:23 PM
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Oh, wow. You're obese and still manage to get casual sex. May I ask how, because obese men are considered sexually repulsive by all women and can never get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 12:06 PM
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Men are not looks elitist so why wouldn't they be sexually attracted to you? Again, your concern suggests you go for conventionally hot men way above your league for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:53 AM
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You uttered from within you that men are desperate only for top percent of women. How's that possible if ugly obese midget women get 1000s of offers to hookup?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:44 AM
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Right, but if he's really good-looking and hot, he doesn't even need to lie and he can be upfront about just wanting to be fuck buddies, yes? Like imagine if a 6'4 hot guy you meet up with said he wants to just be casual fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:39 AM
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Then why the fuck do ugly, old, obese, short as midget women have 1000s of offers to hookup on dating apps. Are you sure you're not bullshitting?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:32 AM
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The ones you have casual sex with very early, what differentiates them from the one's you need to speak to for a longer time? I know you said both have to meet a minimum attraction criteria, but are the ones you can fuck very quickly after meeting even good-looking/hotter/distinguihsed in looks ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:28 AM
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And for hookups and casual fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:05 AM
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So you were only seeking Chads on dating apps back then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:04 AM
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But the hot male model tier guys get 1000s of women worshipping them on dating apps for their shirtless gym pics
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:03 AM
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why do women only find 10-15% men attractive on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:02 AM
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So you're saying you filter out good-looking, tall, hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:01 AM
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(For instance, the guy who was hoping for a threesome Was he not good-looking, hot enough to expect something like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 11:00 AM
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Are you attracted to fat men? Or must you only swipe right on tall fit men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:59 AM
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Its funny because they still fuck Chads casually when they come across them
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:58 AM
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Then why the fuck do mediocre and below average looking women get so many dating offers? If you are willing to go to Chads flat at 2am you've never met, maybe the safety fears aren't that big to you. Just accept that you're an extremely shallow elitist female
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:57 AM
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So you're saying women collectively only find 10-15% of men attractive (percentage of men who get matches on dating apps) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:55 AM
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Is your attractiveness criteria/benchmarks on dating apps higher?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:53 AM
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So why do you need to be courted in the initial phases? Why do you need the asymmetry initially?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:50 AM
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Why don't you actively search for and court men who are emotionally expressive?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:47 AM
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So why aren't you celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:45 AM
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Men do claim that women are shallower, hypergamous and way more looks elitist than men. That is an innate difference
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:44 AM
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But if most men didn't take the initiative and perform the mountain of emotional labor to court someone, they'll be single and sexless for life You are talking about very good looking, hot guys who can afford to be passive. Do you understand this or are you bigoted against men?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:42 AM
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So why do only men need to plan dates and have confidence during courtship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:41 AM
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I can't accept that women have lower libidos I have seen women who have rosters, fuck buddies, short term flings, and hot lovers. They fuck like rabbits
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:29 AM
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So why aren't women celibate? Who are the men they're fucking? If what you say is true, way more women should be celibate than men, but twice as many men as women are celibate under 35
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 10:28 AM
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Why do men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking to have dating options?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:07 AM
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Why do men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking to have dating options?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:07 AM
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Why do men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking to have dating options?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:06 AM
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Average and below average looking women also only hookup with hot guys. The ugliest of girls on college campuses hookup with good looking tall guys only. The ugliest of women on dating apps ONLY want good looking tall guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:05 AM
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Show me women hooking up with average / mediocre looking guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:03 AM
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Why the fuck are you so fucking obsessed with boomer married couples? Why are you scared shitless to see the young crowd at college campuses, clubs, bars, festivals, beaches, etc? Literally every GenZ girl no matter how ugly , obese, short as midget she is wants exclusively a tall handsome hot lover/boyfriend/fuck-buddy. Literally every girl on a college campus is hooking up with tall handsome guys. Why the fuck are you scared shitless to address that? Why are you obsessed with boomer married co…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:03 AM
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<image> Women lie pathologically
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 09:00 AM
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Do you know that women are mf'n liars and pathologically downplay the importance of good looks? How do you feel about this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:59 AM
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How would therapy make a man more physically attractive, taller, hotter (all the things needed to hookup with women) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:57 AM
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By disproportionate amount of sex you mean the amount of sex an average woman gets?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:55 AM
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Why do you think women have so many petty icks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:52 AM
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Whats the reason why women have so many extremely petty icks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:50 AM
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Whats the reason why women have so many petty icks?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:50 AM
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Wth was your ick?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:49 AM
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Why do majority of men need to walk on eggshells to get a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:48 AM
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There aren't enough women without petty icks for most normal men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:47 AM
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There aren't any options for most men when the petty icks of women exclude majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:45 AM
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Why do so many women have such petty icks is the question? Why don't men have icks on the same scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/26 08:45 AM
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Then why the fuck do below average looking women have 1000s of dating options?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 11:26 PM
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"Nobody has a worse time in the dating world than a 1 or 2 woman, who may hook up with a 7 or 8, but will nearly never see a relationship form out of it. Why aren't these 1 and 2 women hooking up with their looks-matches so relationships can potentially form out of it? Why are they so fucking shallow and elitist that they worship the feet of men way above their leagues?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 09:42 PM
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Young women are 6s don't date guys who are 3s But young women who are 1s 2s and 3s do hookup with guys who are 7s 8s and 9s Again, why are you dismissing young population under 35?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 03:44 PM
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You still need to be a decent looking, sufficiently tall police officer, doctor, fireman for the occupational leverage to work. 95% of women today will fuck a jobless 6'3 bum than a 5'7" Harvard grad surgeon
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:11 AM
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So hang around boomer married couples and old homes then? ANYWHERE you see YOUNG people hanging out - clubs, malls, beach, festivals, downtown, parks, college campus - you'll see the same shit: Good-looking, tall, handsome, fit cookie cutter guys (preferably not Asian / Brown) who are WITH women; who have women around them; who are interacting with women, who are hooking up with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 10:08 AM
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Its the same everywhere, Socal, NY, Chicago, Seatlle, Miami, Toronto. There's no escape, thats for sure
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:51 AM
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EVERY man finds his wife hookup-worthy, casual sex-worthy, attractive enough to be a fuck buddy. Why cant only a small minority of women can say the same about their husbands?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:49 AM
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According to GenZ women 5% of young men are attractive (fuckable, hookup-able, FWB-able, Tinder-worthy, etc) Men that women deem attractive do hookups and flings just like that. They can use Tinder and Bumble. They can go to clubs.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:47 AM
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How does it feel being made? You're made for life man. World is your oyster
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:37 AM
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No, Tinder is heaven for ugly old women Any woman in US, UK, EU can open Tinder and get 100s of young fit men to fuck till a priest lowers the f'n pinebox into the ground
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:36 AM
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Look at this. This will blow your f'n mind https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:35 AM
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I'm saying women's true physical/sexual types are the men they hookup with, have short term sexual flings with, do booty calls and FWB with. Not their husbands Do you understand that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:32 AM
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Men marry their physical type. Now you're just being straight up dishonest. Its a known fact that men marry their best sexual option, women marry their worst sexual option
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:25 AM
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There's no manipulation Its just something mf'n feminists bullshit out of their asses. Hell with them too. Hell with women's lies and bigotry
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:23 AM
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How do old broke out of shape dumpy regular women get fucked by hot young 20 something dudes till retirement age without being celebrities?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:22 AM
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Do you fuck the shit out of these girls who approach you? Do you use them for sex or not? How many of them have you used for their bodies /sex? If not then you could be mistaking friendliness and respect for lust and desire. Also what are your looks and height stats? My best friend is 5'7", bad teeth, not fit, not well off, doesn't have an impressive job and is incredibly successful in dating. I've seen him questioned for years about how he's managed to get with the women he has and he always ju…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:21 AM
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Also doesn't fix a narrow structure, longer head, big forehead, small eyes, average penis size, etc Women look at every single thing. Everything has to be perfect now else they get the ick
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:18 AM
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But they don't want to fuck older men. They don't have proper passionate makeout and sex with those men even if they keep them as a sugar daddy. Its not love and lust
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:16 AM
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Who the fuck is even talking about marriage? Do you even realize that most women don't marry their true physical type? The real litmus test, the real deal, the true test of attraction is hookup, FWB, short term flings, sexual situationships. Are you scared to talk about that?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/26 01:16 AM
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It can only mean you were always good looking and tall, but couldn't capitalize on it when you were younger. Average and below average looking men don't get more attention when they're older. Even after making money
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:32 PM
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The looks women want and value are very hard to change. Face structure, head shape, eyes, jawline, etc. Women are just naturally extremely elitist about looks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:30 PM
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Are you serious? Looks and height are the hardest things to have
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:18 PM
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Younger women have higher standards for looks. How does that make it easier for older men to get them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 10:01 PM
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All guys in a university class are visible to all girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 05:36 PM
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We want to understand how women can want to fuck some men without getting to know them deeply first
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:21 AM
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Even for a hookup / casual fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:19 AM
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What were his face, height, body stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:19 AM
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If the guy is really tall and hot and say out of your league, you would just want to hookup with (fuck) him without knowing or socializing with him. You know he exists and you know you want to fuck him. There are such hot guys in college, university, maybe work. When you finally flirt and exchange numbers you fuck these guys quickly. Its only a matter of time before you fuck them Then there are guy with who you might know they but you don't want to fuck them on your own accord. They might meet m…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:19 AM
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Exactly, so why are women being obtuse in the comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 11:18 AM
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How do those guys have so many women wanting to fuck them without knowing them or hanging out with them first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:11 AM
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How can women want to fuck some guys without getting to know them or hanging out 1 on 1 first?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:09 AM
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How do they get laid more easily if they haven't made a connection with the woman yet by hanging out 1 on 1 ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:08 AM
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Men don't give a fuck about popularity or extroversion. A meek, obscure, average looking girl on a college campus could be the biggest slut and have a huge roster of guys. So why aren't you understanding the question?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:08 AM
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But women can fuck those guys without getting to know them first.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:06 AM
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I don't think I've ever dated popular guys, as in athletes, musicians, etc. Not even done casual hookups and FWB stuff with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:04 AM
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How does the physical/sexual chemistry differs between a very good looking, tall gym bro and say an average height gamer type?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:03 AM
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If every girl is different why do all of them crush on and do sexual situationships with the same guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/26 09:01 AM
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If the guy is really tall and hot and say out of your league, you would just want to hookup with (fuck) him without knowing or socializing with him. You know he exists and you know you want to fuck him. There are such hot guys in college, university, maybe work. When you finally flirt and exchange numbers you fuck these guys quickly. Its only a matter of time before you fuck them Then there are guy with who you might know they but you don't want to fuck them on your own accord. They might meet m…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 11:59 PM
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Why are you indulging in whatabouism? Why is this even important? In the world I'm describing, men will have casual sex if they want, just like women do. Some would, some won't.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:20 AM
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Unattractive, below average, out of shape women have casual sex with hot guys all the time. Its more important to women that the man they're having casual sex with is incredibly good-looking, hot, and preferably way above their league, than how much he's into them. Women don't have casual sex with mediocre looking simps who worship them.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 10:13 AM
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So men will start seeking validation from the same things women do Right now men seek validation from a lower level physical act (sex). In future state they will seek validation from higher level things - being simped, having money spent on them, romance, commitment options Why don't you want men to be more like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:59 AM
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Have casual sex with a wide range of men Most problems would disappear - Men will no longer have to tie their worth to their ability to get casual sex - Distinctions such as Chad, Alpha, betabuxx, incel would become meaningless. Every guy can now get laid just as every woman can - Men will stop worrying about women's sexual past when seeking serious relationships and marriage. You fucked 50 guys? So what? I also fucked 150 women. Its a natural thing. - Men will no longer need to get into relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/26 09:01 AM
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Then why do you only swipe right on Chads on Tinder?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 12:48 PM
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Why do women need beauty now that the ugliest of women can get the hottest of guys on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/26 11:50 AM
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If I'm able to get casual hookups, flings and FWB, I wouldn't be insecure about the sexual past of a woman I'm pursuing for a serious relationship and who she fucked for fun. Because I'm myself not excluded or disqualified from casual hookups and fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/26 06:40 AM
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The looks and height requirements of women in US and EU cannot be met by majority of men anymore. Every young woman wants a tall handsome fit lover, fuck buddy, hookup, fling
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:51 PM
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So why can't I just get hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 03:50 PM
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White men only make their lives better. AW literally have a fetish for WM and they worship their penises
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 11:14 AM
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This makes me sad. As a mediocre looking guy I always wanted to relocate to places like Thailand so I can enjoy a dating/sex life.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/26 09:19 AM
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Then why do horny women who love casual sex, are obsessed with hot guys? Why aren't their looks standards low, if they're not concerned with status, aesthetic attraction, romantic fantasy, validation, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 09:20 PM
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That doesn't explain why I do get opportunities to have serious relationships with 2s and 3s. If my attitude is so bad, why would they consider me for a serious relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:27 PM
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Why do women have casual sex, hookups and FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:08 PM
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Then why do women lust after and line up to fuck hot guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:08 PM
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So why the fuck only good looking, hot guys get casual sex, hookups and fuck buddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:06 PM
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Most men don't experience this kind of sex drive either. You still need to be a good looking guy to experience her sex drive.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:05 PM
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Why does sex with super hot tall dudes is like gold to women then? Why is every good looking hot guy hounded by women for sexual stuff alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:03 PM
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I'm in my 30s. These were not my girlfriends but girls/women I went on dates with and at some point their exes / sexual history came up. In other instances I already knew the girls via common friends/acquaintances/circle so I knew who they hooked up with before. Why are you ignoring the question about hookups, casual sex, ONS, short term flings, and FWB? I'm a 3 in looks. Women who are 3s don't do casual hookups and FWB with 3s
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:27 PM
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So why can't mediocre looking guys like me just get casual sex, hookups, short term flings and fuck buddies? If I could experience all this I wouldn't have any insecurities around women's sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:50 PM
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Not online content. Real life experiences. Like finding out about a girls exes etc Question: Why are women's short term flings, hookups, fuck buddies ALWAYS way more attractive than the men they settle down with?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 01:02 PM
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Feminists support Akash Singh and his wife dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:47 AM
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Thats why there are indications that we look for, like if she had sex with 4 men, what did those men look like? Are they totally different than me? Are they way better looking, taller, bigger hotter, different ethnicity than me? Thats a sure indication I'm not her type and she's settling because she couldn't get commitment from her real type Secondly, did she have casual sex with those guys but wants me to invest my time and emotions first? Thats another indication she's not naturally attracted …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 10:40 AM
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But women on this forum keep saying sex is a much lower priority in a long term relationship than in a casual fling / FWB. They keep saying romantic love and sexual desire are separate. That you can love a husband even if you're sexually lukewarm about him.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:41 AM
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You are so much better than me. I'm merely 5'7 and ethnic so its a death sentence as far as anything casual is concerned. Have you tried Asian and Brown women? They are much easier for White guys
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:19 AM
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Yes, it is disrespectful. Just because she fucked some other man casually doesn’t mean she owes you the same courtesy. Grow up. If she finds me so ugly / unattractive, why go on dates with me in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:17 AM
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Do you have good hygiene/grooming or do you constantly look like you just finished a 48 hour video game, bender? Do you take care of your teeth, your skin, your hair, etc.? How/where do you meet these women? Are you hanging out with a bunch of loud obnoxious men when you meet them? What is it about you that you believe should make a random woman want to just automatically have casual meaningless sex with you? Do you have your own place where you could actually fuck these women if they let you? D…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:15 AM
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What's your height, ethnicity, body type, facial attractiveness? Thats all that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 04:13 AM
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Its not disrespectful if the SAME women had been doing FWB with other (obviously much hotter and taller) guys. You are just making things up Like I said, this is a common sentiment that average and below average looking men experience when dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:57 AM
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No. I was explicitly and implicitly told by multiple women - when I suggested we just hookup / be FWB first and see where thing go - that they don't mind that but if they wanted that they have 10 other super hot guys they can do it with, why would they have to consider someone like me and waste their time?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:45 AM
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Exactly. Women who want casual sex don't find me attractive. Which is why I care about sexual past so much and need to ensure the woman I pursue for marriage never had casual sex with other men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:41 AM
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<image> What do you think about what other women are saying here?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:33 AM
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But why the fuck have I and millions of other men have been told by women we were dating or trying to date that casual sex, hookups, or FWB was not on cards because thats something reserved for super hot dudes? If I'm acceptable as a long term partner, why dont I at least make the cut for casual sex for the same women? Are you unwilling to acknowledge that women have WAY HIGHER standards for good looks for casual sex than for settling down? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:32 AM
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Those troll looking dudes were handsome and White. Just scruffy or unkempt. They were also tall and large built
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 03:29 AM
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To women, what makes the men who have the option of casual sex different?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:58 AM
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I was in the same place as the men who did get lots of casual sex (college campus, house parties, clubs, dating apps, circles). I never got casual sex and fuck buddies. My only option was pursuing a long term relationship. Its still the same So what the fuck is the difference? Are you leaving some important inofrmation out?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:55 AM
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BECAUSE MEN NEED TO BE VERY GOOD LOOKING, TALL, HOT AND OUTSTANDING TO GET CASUAL SEX !!! Why the fuck are you unwilling to accept this? We are not as privileged as mf'n women who can look like anything and still get laid left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:53 AM
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I know the guys or through gossip
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:51 AM
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Then why do average looking men never experience this kind of spontaneous casual sex ever? Why is my only option to pursue a long term relationship with a woman? How can I emotionally invest in a woman who doesn't find me good-looking/hot/sexy enough for recreational sex, if she had those with superior men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:49 AM
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By seeing what her exes look like If they look totally different than you, if you're just an average looking guy, but the exes were mostly super good looking, tall, hot dudes, its a clear indication she's not sexually attracted to you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:46 AM
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Why is she is with you if her ex was so good? Because the ex was not willing to commit for long term or marry
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:45 AM
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Why do you insult men who care about women's sexual past and body count then?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:44 AM
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Thats why body count and sexual past matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:43 AM
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The paranoia can be easily cured by men having lots of casual sex, hookups, short term flings, and fuck buddies before seeking serious long term relationships. Why can't men just experience all this to get over this paranoia and validate themselves sexually? This way they can assure themselves they are sexually desirable without providing any other value to a woman. Why are you scared to give this recommendation to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:42 AM
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The paranoia can be easily cured by men having lots of casual sex, hookups, short term flings, and fuck buddies before seeking serious long term relationships. Why can't men just experience all this to get over this paranoia and validate themselves sexually? This way they can assure themselves they are sexually desirable without providing any other value to a woman. Why are you scared to give this recommendation to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:41 AM
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Men need to be exceptionally good looking, tall, hot to experience real unconditional lust from women that is not tied to performative relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:38 AM
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So why would a woman be interested in something serious with a guy without the sexual enthusiasm she had for the exes?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:37 AM
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Why would she have much less lust and sexual desire for the current partner than an ex?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:34 AM
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Then why are women's short term flings, hookups, and fuck buddies way better looking, taller, hotter, sexier than the husbands they end up marrying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:32 AM
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how does nobody see the obvious thing here: if the ex was so amazing, she’d still be with the ex! But! She’s not. She’s here. Dating you! This is such a bullshit low IQ dishonest moronic take She's dating him because the good-looking, tall, super hot exes she really desired weren't emotionally available, loyal, or interested in marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:31 AM
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Why are you infantilizing these women? Do they need you to be their saviour?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:26 AM
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So how come I never experienced those 'mistakes' ? I'll be ok if some women made those mistakes with me and now women as a whole have matured and changed. I can then believe those were immature phases.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:25 AM
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Whats your height and looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:23 AM
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Why are women having sex on 1st dates with hot guys they really want? I see this happening all around me. Girl links up with a hot guy, goes to his place and they fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:23 AM
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You are lying. Grown ass women in their 20s and 30s sleep with hot guys on 1st dates.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:19 AM
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Its not 5 years ago neither a stupid mistake. Its about hot the guy is and the terms/dynamics she has with him. There are women in their 30s who have sex with tall hot guys on 1st dates while going on the 5th date with others without having sex
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:18 AM
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Then they shouldn't have sex on the 1st date with some men
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:16 AM
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They were just regular guys who I thought were hot enough to want to sleep with Is hot enough to sleep with different than looks acceptable enough for a serious relationship ? Also, you wouldn't need manipulation by Chad. Chad can be honest and upfront about just wanting to fuck and women STILL fuck him
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/26 02:15 AM
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Hell with them too I guess
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 10:44 AM
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5'11 is average according to women. Why don't you go to a college town or campus and see who young women are hooking up with? Literally its only good looking, hot, fit, tall cookie cutter guys who girls hookup with. Why are you obsessed with boomer married couples?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/26 08:21 AM
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How do you know he was an incel and not simply a deranged violent freak?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:02 PM
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How do you know he was an incel and not simply a violent disturbed loser?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/26 09:02 PM
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In public we're just mediocre below average looking men who are often short and ethnic. Not someone who can go to clubs or use dating apps, or flirt with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:51 PM
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Therapy can't make you more physically attractive and taller. Most incels aren't anyones physical type and would be turned down immediately even if they approached women
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:49 PM
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I'm talking about 16 year olds. Literally these things don't matter at 16. Good looking, taller guys start dating early. Others are over looked. Nothing to do with being born with the 'tools'.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 11:43 PM
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You don't need therapy, inner work, healing or other stuff to have these experiences, is what I'm saying. It comes down to looks and superficial barriers.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 01:22 AM
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So why can't I experience those short term flings and dysfunctional relationships? Are you being intellectually dishonest here and claiming that young people experimenting and exploring during their teens, 20s and upto early 30s has no value if it doesn't lead to marriage? You are literally saying everything young people are doing is pointless. Their whole culture, dating scene, experiences are meaningless. Is that what you're saying
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:59 AM
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Why do some men need extensive self improvement before they can finally begin dating at 38, while others actively, date, hookup and have flings, relationships since the at of 16 like its second nature without a deeper thought behind it? Are some men just born with the 'tools'? Are they just magically born healthy, functional, healed, therapied, successful, kind, philanthropic, amazing human beings?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:31 AM
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Then those people will try to understand the reason why. Anything that is coveted but scarce will be studied like economics. Why does this study make women and feminists uncomfortable? Why the insistence to not study this and to just accept somethings are not meant to be? How does vagueness around this subject benefit women?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/26 12:01 AM
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Why are people dating, hooking up, having fun, experimenting, exploring since the age of 16? What value does it bring to the lives of 100s of millions of youth across the world engaging in this if it doesn't lead to marriage? Were they more emotionally intelligent, pious, kind, generous, healed, therapied, sorted out, successful, disciplined, thoughtful humans at 16 than I'm in my mid 30s? Were they somehow born with emotional intelligence?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:53 PM
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Women telling men "go to therapy and unlearn your behaviour" has nothing to do with looks and everything with what you are focusing on in life. They say this specifically in the context of dating and getting relationships with women. That doesnt mean i accept your premise. I just accept that reality is a thing and some people wont find someone no matter what they do or how hard they try. Are you talking about finding a long term partners to settle down with or even casual dating, short term flin…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:45 PM
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They literally want the whole society to be truthful about the importance of men's looks to women. They are fighting this war on social media everyday. Do this experiment. Go on an incel, blackpill page, comment section, and say "I'm a woman and I accept that men face more pressure than women to be good looking to have dating options. I accept that most incels are incels because of looks, not their personality and character defects" You will be met with 100% praise from incels
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:30 PM
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Again, I'm not able to do shallow, superficial, short term relationships, flings, hookups, FWB, etc. I get zero matches on all dating apps (like many mediocre looking men). I am invisible and unwanted by women in social situations, parties, clubs, bars, etc. I can't flirt with women, can't get their numbers, can't ask them out to dates because of superficial barriers. This is my barrier. Someone telling me that I struggle because I can't do chores, do my laundry, aren't emotionally vulnerable, e…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:26 PM
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* sexually successful men
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:07 PM
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Women who have sworn off marriage are still having sex and short term flings, FWB here and there. They aren't celibate. So who are the men they're fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:03 PM
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Incels, lonely, single men aren't threatening violence. This is overblown by the 7 cases of incel violence in the past 2 decades. Way way more violence against women is done by sexually successful men. There's no comparison.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:02 PM
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Why does that matter when the men who are struggling can't get their foot in the door and have zero dating options? If I was able to get hookups and short term flings easily, but no woman wanted to get serious with me, maybe your advice of therapy, healing, inner work might be applicable. But I have zero dating options and I am rejected based on superficial criteria upfront. Are you able to understand this simple nuance?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 11:00 PM
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Normally, the looks benchmarks are higher for FWB than steady BF, because even ugly fat girls can get athlete model level fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:58 AM
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Why are young women doing hookups, casual sex, FWB, short term flings so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:38 AM
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Why do women have casual sex and hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:34 AM
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Men would also hookup with women they consider wife material Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/26 12:33 AM
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So casual sex with super hot (even if broke) guys Marriage to boring, average but acceptable looking stable supportive guys who never get casually laid. Got it. Husband material is an insult and limits your life
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/26 04:35 AM
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But when I look at women and their dating history, the men they hooked up with are usually way better looking, taller, charming, sexier than the men they end up marrying. The lust, desire they had for their hookup guys was way stronger than what they have for husbands. I have seen this myself.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:57 PM
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So you disagree with what they're saying? You agree what they're saying is ridiculous, abhorrent and counter intuititve?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:39 PM
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So you're saying they marry men they might have regrettable offspring with?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 10:38 PM
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The women in the link I shared with you all lives in a 'Western' country What are they saying?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:22 PM
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So why are women doing hookups, casual sex, and FWB if its so horrible for them?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 09:21 PM
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Just like I had already mentioned women find different men attractive. The type of men I like is the complete opposite of the type of guy my sister is drawn to for example. Do you realize what you've mentioned is a complete lie and women themselves admit the men they find attractive for casual hookups and FWB's are in a DIFFERENT category than men they find ACCEPTABLE for marriage? https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husband…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 04:55 PM
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So why the fuck is it immensely harder for most men to become the hookup / fuck buddy than a husband? Like wouldn't the more important significant role be harder to achieve?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:15 PM
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Then why are women sexualizing themselves more and more? Have you seen their fucking clothes?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:13 PM
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Doesn't matter. Its still better than being relegated to a motherfucking husband material provider stable guy. The guy who can't get casual sex, hookups, one night stands booty calls, short term flings, FWB situationships, cannot use motherfucking Tinder and Bumble, can't have fun in college, can't. Do you fucking realize how much men miss out from not being sexualized?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:06 PM
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So why the fuck no woman wants to hookup with me for fun, but I have had options to settle down and marry? Why the fuck all the men who get casual hookups conventionally hot but husbands come in all shapes and sizes? Whats the fucking difference between your hookup standards and marriage standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 12:03 PM
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Not being sexualized all your life is depressing. Men enjoy being sexualized.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:19 AM
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They why the fuck is it way harder for me to get low quality casual sex than low quality marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 07:14 AM
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Could've been a exception. I can bring you 100 men who would absolutely love it if you sexually objectify them
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:44 AM
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So why the fuck are you claiming men hate being sexual objectified if they never get objectified in the first place?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:33 AM
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Then why do super hot men who are able to get casual sex still get into serious relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:33 AM
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Why the fuck are you claiming that men hate relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:23 AM
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Why the fuck are you being snarky? You bullshitted that men love casual sex and hate relationships. I told you that super hot guys who can have casual sex, sitll have relationships and get married. You don't have a fucking answer to that. That means men don't hate relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:08 AM
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horny woman + non-attractive man = no sex horny + attractive man = sex Then how the fuck do average and below average looking men get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:06 AM
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But most average looking men get told by women they're dating that they are not good looking enough to hookup with casually and waste a body count, unless something long term or significant is on the cards. Why is that? I have gone on dates with countless women as a mediocre looking guy. Some of them were interested in taking things further. When I suggested we just hookup first they said hookups are only for super hot guys and I was too inferior for that privilege. That a guy like me needs to p…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:04 AM
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So whats so extremely special, unique and exclusive about the mighty one time hookup? Who are the extremely privileged men who get to experience those that make them so superior to husband material men? Why is it so extremely difficult being the one time hookup guy than being a husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 06:01 AM
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Normally, when you women sleep with a guy too early its because he's too good looking, hot and is a fuckboy kind. He's probably above your league as well. Those men weren't interested in seriously dating you to begin with. Go suck an average guys dick on first date. The kind you will end up marrying one day. He will cherish you forever. But its all about the looks hierarachy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:57 AM
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Then why do men who are super good looking/hot enough to get regular casual sex have serious relationships and get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:53 AM
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Why don't women sexually objectify me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:50 AM
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Then who are the men women are having sex with? Why can't I get casual sex with those women?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:49 AM
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Then why do men struggle to get casual sex more than they struggle to get married?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:45 AM
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Yes it makes sense. It means you, as a woman, get both options, but most men only get one. Funny how the fuck that works, no
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/26 05:43 AM
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Show men one woman who says her looks standards for hookups are lower than for marriage. What I showed you is universal. No woman here will dare to deny it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:34 AM
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Thats not pure sexual desire. Thats transactional sex that has a million prerequisities and is conditional upon many things. The man knows this deep down. Being told that you are inferior and cannot have a sex life when you're a bachelor is very limiting. Do you remain celibate when you're unmarried?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:33 AM
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Then why the fuck are millions of women saying their looks benchmarks for hookups are way higher than for marriage Read this https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:29 AM
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I went to a college too. lived in dorms for 4 years. Only 30% of guys get hookups at least once. An even smaller number hookup regularly, maybe 5-10% at most You are talking straight outta the wrong side
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:26 AM
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Was your husband not good looking, hot enough to be a fuck buddy? Did he not meet that looks benchmark required for casual sex? https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:25 AM
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No. Stop lying It has to do with LOOKS Read this https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:24 AM
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Its even harder to get hookups for most men https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:22 AM
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Why do women have casual sex? Why don't women remain celibate when they're not in a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:21 AM
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i am horny, this guy will do. And that guy is usually a very good looking, hot guy who's top 10-15% in looks
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:20 AM
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Why do you have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:19 AM
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Then why the fuck do you have casual sex? Why don't you reserve sex for long term relationships and marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:18 AM
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Its you women who believe husbands are less attractive and inferior to your fuck buddies Please stop projecting that abhorrent value system onto men We have higher standards for wife material (beauty and personality) than for women we want to fuck casually. So lame that its the opposite for you https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:16 AM
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Why can't you hookup with the husband material TOO? What does it take away from you by having sex with him casually? Do you, in your mind, feel he is not hot/sexy/exciting enough to deserve sex without a deeper connection and effort from him first?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:14 AM
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Why can't you understand why being hookup material is a bigger compliment than being told you're husband material and not hot enough for hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:11 AM
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We don't live in that world. Majority of men are not considered good looking enough for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:10 AM
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You expect way more effort from the husband than the fuck buddy. How is that a compliment? The fuck buddy is so hot, you don't care if he puts in any effort for having sex with him.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:08 AM
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You are a looks elitist hypergamous being, so you are only looking at top 5% best looking guys on campus
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:06 AM
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These bigoted women know its more validating. They just don't want to say it
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:04 AM
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Why the fuck would you marry a guy you're not physically attracted to enough to have casual sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:04 AM
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Wtf is actual husband material? Way more men get married than men who have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:03 AM
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Then why the fuck are so many women saying their benchmarks for looks and physical attraction for hookups are way higher than for marriage? https://imgur.com/gallery/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-AzYsqVK
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:02 AM
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So why can't the husband material experience and enjoy hookups? Why does he have to live like an INCEL until he gets into a big long term relationship or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:01 AM
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Being considered as a sexual object by women is still a win for men since only very good looking hot guys get to experience that.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 02:00 AM
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An interchangeable hookup guy / Fuck buddy is still pretty good looking and desirable. The baseline required for hookups is so high that 80% of men can't meet them. Telling he guy he's interchangeable among the top 20% is still a compliment than being told you don't make the cut for a fuck buddy but still considerable for marriage because you're stable, loyal, caring and other boring bullshit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:59 AM
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If he's chosen as a hookup he still meets the bar for casual sex which is pretty high to begin with.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 01:57 AM
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Do you think you're an exception, because the looks & height requirements of the vast majority of women are becoming insanely high and elitist these days leading to blackpill, incel culture, looks maxxing, dating app imbalance, and just a deep feeling of cynicism around dating among men?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/26 12:18 AM
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What kind of guys do you physically go for for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:59 PM
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You're backtracking and now saying husband material also qualifies as hookup material (tingles genitalia and heart both) So why do 10s of millions of men get told they're husband material but not hot enough for flings and hookups? Like, why is my only option, as a mediocre looking guy, to pursue women interested in marriage and not fun, flings, hookups and FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:58 PM
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Ok, so are you looks and height benchmarks extremely high to begin with? Like are you only swiping on top 2% best looking guys on dating apps?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:54 PM
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You have failed to explain why would you marry a guy you don't even consider fuckable I explained at length why men fuck women they don't intend to marry (which btw women do too)
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:46 PM
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I'm asking is it not about the good looks hierarchy whereby you take very less time in fucking the more conventionally hotter, sexier, taller guys but longer time with guys who are lower on that hierarchy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:41 PM
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Maybe the incentive to hook up with that guy was he was funny or they had great chemistry or she was more comfortable with him etc. Huh? Why the fuck would a woman pursue a serious relationship with a guy she doesn't find hot, funny or has a good chemistry with? Why would a guy want to emotionally invest in a woman who isn't attracted to him?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:38 PM
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So why aren't most women consistent like you? You don't have casual sex with any guy. Most women say they don't want casual sex but still have casual sex knowingly if the guy is hot enough. Most mediocre looking men will accept their position if women were consistent.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:35 PM
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Because we don't live under Islamic sharia rule. You don't need to be married to to have sex. What are you getting at?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:31 PM
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Right, so why would you want marry a guy you don't want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:15 PM
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A lot of men also wouldn't marry the women they agree to fuck That's not important. You can't marry everyone you want to fuck. You sure as hell should want to fuck anyone you intend to marry. Why can't you see its a false equivalance?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:07 PM
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Men don't date women they're not sexually attracted or don't want to be intimate with upfront. The degree of attraction can vary, but the willingness to engage physically upfront is binary and if its not there, they wont date the woman Why isn't it the same for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:05 PM
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Marriageable people are a subset of fuckable people. So if I'm marriageable to some women why am I not fuckable to the same set of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 11:02 PM
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Right, so that should exclude me from being marriage material too, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:17 PM
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Exactly. So finding a woman to marry who never did casual sex shouldn't be a problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 01:16 PM
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What qualities does 'hookup material' possess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:28 AM
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Ok, so its not the fucking hierarchy?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 08:24 AM
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Why can you fuck some men fairly quickly and without a deeper bond, but require others to put in much more time, effort, emotions before wanting to fuck them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:31 AM
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So why am I not running into those women? Why has every woman I ever went on dates with wanted me to prove something?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:27 AM
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The OP is saying women can make different rules for hot men and that other men should be ok with it
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 06:25 AM
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Most women themselves acknowledge that they find their casual sex / short term partners way more desirable than their long term partners / husbands https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-than-long-term-partners-husbands-TViyiCJ Why don't you believe women? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:45 AM
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You're this way with all men or do you make exceptions for super hot, super tall, handsome guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:37 AM
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She also wants relationships with some of the other guys she fucked casually. They are not mutually exclusive. A third of marriages and 60% of relationships for college aged people begin with a hookup
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:31 AM
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Its sexual desire, friendship, codependency
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:28 AM
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You don't either unless the male friends want to fuck you and that gives you the upper hand in the dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:26 AM
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So men are also trying to find women who want to have sexual relationships with them out of genuine desire. OP is against that and wants men to become providers and husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 03:23 AM
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These stupid ones try to frame relationships as something deeply virtuous, soulful, philantrophic, and ethereal or something
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:34 AM
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Maybe most men cannot have sex for fun along the way to the goal, so sex and goal become the same? What would happen if men could get casual sex as easily as women? Do you think men would still seek serious relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:33 AM
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Without sex and physical intimacy, whats a relationship? Its a friendship. Why do you need to date women to be friends with them?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:31 AM
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I think you're lying. Women have phase of singlehood in between relationships when they just want to meet their sexual needs or have a hot fling. Guess who they choose and how quickly they fuck
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:30 AM
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Why she doesn't require that when having sex with other men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:27 AM
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Nope. It doesn't work that way. Waiting for sex isn't something I want. Its something she wants. And I'm fine with waiting if thats what she wants from all guys. Its not about hookups vs relationships. She's ok with hooking up and seeing where things go with other guys, but wants me to prove something first. That just reflects poorly on me and how she feels about me.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/26 12:26 AM
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Who tf is talking about 'forcing' attraction? We're just saying she needs to be aware if she's going for men above her league or not, and then continue doing what she wants with that realization
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 10:13 PM
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At which point do we have enough information to know if she’s shooting out of her league? Because she's a woman and average looking women aren't physically attracted to average looking men? Isn't that already established?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 07:18 PM
0

So whats wrong with telling her that most likely she's going for men above her league looks wise and she needs to be aware of that?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 06:42 PM
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Why does telling her the truth impact anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:12 AM
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Not sue wtf you're on about. This isn't the 50s. Women are more picky and shallow about looks than men. Get the fuck on with the times
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:09 AM
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Men already know why they're single. Most of us know we are not good looking, tall or financially stable enough to date women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:08 AM
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How is it insulting to tell someone they're going for people above their league and should be aware of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:04 AM
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Whats wrong with self awareness and pointing out the issue?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:03 AM
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I see what you did there
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 08:02 AM
1

You had a lot of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 02:10 AM
1

Why aren't you celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:50 AM
1

How conventionally good looking and hot tall does a man need to be for you to want a physical / intimate relationship with him?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:49 AM
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Good looks is the answer to everything. You just have to be so good looking, so tall that women will like/desire you naturally. You have to be better than women in every way. You have to be 10/10 in looks so 4s and 5/10 women will want you. Its all pointing towards the same direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:48 AM
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Good looks is the answer to everything. You just have to be so good looking, so tall that women will like/desire you naturally. You have to be better than women in every way. You have to be 10/10 in looks so 4s and 5/10 women will want you. Its all pointing towards the same direction.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:48 AM
1

Then who are you fucking for fun?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:41 AM
1

What about millions of young women on social media who are saying they want 6'5 trust fund male models with blue eyes?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:40 AM
1

Who are women having sex with ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:39 AM
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Women are not going celibate. Who are they dating and having sex with then of men aren't putting in the effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:38 AM
1

Why is every young woman today demanding a 6'3 jacked model?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:36 AM
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Young men today can observe how women respond to men they actually find attractive. How can you expect to have two tier system in dating?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:35 AM
1

So why are masses of women becoming so anti male?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/26 01:33 AM
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Why the fuck are you bullshitting about married couples when the topic is casual sex partners? I'm asking what kind of men women are choosing for casual sex? Look at who women are choosing for one night stands, Tinder hookups, FWB, etc: And is almost always the biggest, baddest, tallest, hottest, loudest motherfucker around.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/25 05:04 AM
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Most men can't have casual sex since its only something women do with good-looking/hot guys. Why are the vast majority of men who can't get casual sex, shamed for caring about body count when theirs is low?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:34 PM
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Was it just looks and height she was addicted to? Were all the other men not attractive or tall? What were his physical features that made him so special and unique to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 08:33 PM
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I'm talking about upwards of 80% men If you consider 85% + men to be ugly unattractive then women are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:27 PM
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I think the real reason is that most of you want women to have the best of both worlds, and still lie to men that hookups are a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:40 PM
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Maybe he's just good looking and what women really desire?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 02:00 PM
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Why do women insult men for caring about body count when seeking a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:58 PM
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Why do women insult men for caring about body count when seeking a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:58 PM
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Why do women insult men for caring about body count when seeking a wife?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:57 PM
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The vast majority of adult men are ready to have a grilfriend and be in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:51 PM
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Then why dominance & masculinity are the most important traits women looks for in casual sex instead of compliant and cooperative?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 01:50 PM
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Women can simply stop hookup culture by telling any man they date that they only fuck after there's commitment or emotional connection. They are not doing that They keep fucking hot guys on 1st 2nd and 3rd dates
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:22 AM
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When men say they want to avoid marrying high body count women who engaged in hookups, why are they insulted by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 10:17 AM
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Why are women the biggest supporters of hookup culture? Why are women single handedly perpetuating the hookup culture? When the growing number of men want to bring back traditional courting, marriage, discourage hookup culture, why does the biggest push back come from women? Who says body count deosnt matter, sexual past doesnt matter?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:20 AM
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But hookup culture is single handedly perpetuated by women Women love hookup culture Women want to keep hookup culture alive Men are the ones speaking against hookup culture. Men are the ones wanting to bring back monogamy, marriage, traditional courting. Women insist on keeping hookup culture alive Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:13 AM
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So why aren't single women in their 20s celibate? Why aren't divorced women in their 30s and 40s celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:11 AM
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Then how is this woman getting 100+ offers to fuck from young decent looking men per week? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 05:10 AM
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So you agree that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good-looking?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:29 AM
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Most single young women aren't celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/25 04:21 AM
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Not a virgin. But a woman who never had casual sex without connection with another man. Because you are insisting that you are incapable of wanting sex without connection, without a man providing something. No man will accept being LIED TO.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:48 PM
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So you've never felt free lust for a man?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:29 PM
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But women do have the ability to be just as if not more lustful for men they actually find physically attractive. We see examples around us daily. So why are women setting a precedent of being lustful ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:27 PM
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Think about the one fling you had with a hot guy wherein you wanted to fuck him like a rabbit
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:22 PM
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What was so special about your fuck buddies and hookup guys? What was different about them?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:07 PM
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Fuck the semantics, just answer why is the sexual desire you have for your fuck buddies and hookup guys so unrealistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:56 PM
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So then why is the looks and hotness bar for casual sex so significantly higher than for long term relationships? What is it that you need that extremely high level of physical desire and aesthetics for? If its just sex, why the fuck can't you do it with a mediocre looking guy who could be husband material?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:55 PM
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How are you looks wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:52 PM
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Men who hate sluts don't have access to casual sex. Why don't women dismantle the hierarchy of casual sex and make it available as evenly as long term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:52 PM
1

Why do you have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:50 PM
1

Who are the men you hooked up with casually without requiring financial bs?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:49 PM
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Who are the men you love and lust for?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:48 PM
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Then it would be important to ensure the woman we're providing for didnt have casual sex with men she really desired physically.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:45 PM
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The woman in Tiktok is proving what us men keep screaming on top of our lungs that women LIE that emotional connection is needed for sex. Its only needed if the man is not good looking enough
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:41 PM
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Why is normal sexual desire you have for you fuck buddies and hookup guys so unrealistic and rare?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:38 PM
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Then what the fuck does the LTR guy lack that disqualifies him from casual sex? Why is he CONFINED in a box where he can only experience sex when its accompanied by some other bullshit?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:36 PM
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You're so hung up on the semantics, and not considering the real life implications of this dual set of standards for men
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:36 PM
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Being "feral" is basically just wanting to fuck a guy without requiring any bullshit effort from him. This is a huge privilege to men that only the hottest men can have. Why do you hate men so much to not understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:34 PM
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So who are the men getting sex without providing?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:30 PM
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Only if you're a good looking guy. Average and below average guys don't get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:28 PM
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Its all describing the ease and frequency of getting casual sex. Men need to be very good looking to get regular easy casual sex. Women don't. Men face way more pressure than women to be good looking to have a sex life whilst being single
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:11 PM
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Its literally just how casual sex happens for good looking, hot guys. Why the fuck do you think men have to move mountains to get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:51 PM
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Is this PORN STYLED sex? I gave a few examples like girls messaging hot, tall, jacked dudes offering them blowjobs, multiple girls hitting them up every week, multiple girls throwing themselves at them at house parties, clubs, etc, girls willing to do threesomes with them (2 girls), 100s of matches on Tinder etc, being able to bang a new girl every night from clubs
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:50 PM
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When I say that good-looking, tall, hot jacked dudes get casual sex very conveniently, easily and regulalry, and I gave a few examples like girls messaging them offering them blowjobs, multiple girls hitting them up every week, multiple girls throwing themselves at them at house parties, clubs, etc, girls willing to do threesomes with them (2 girls), 100s of matches on Tinder etc, being able to bang a new girl every night from clubs, why do you and other women say that these are porn fantasies a…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:16 PM
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Good looking, tall, hot guys have rosters. They have multiple girls hitting them up every week. Why is it so hard to imagine this? Did you never live on a college campus? thats the benefit of being very good looking. You get casual sex regularly and easily
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:42 PM
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Right, so men need to be very good-looking to get casual sex. So wtf does this mean? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 03:13 PM
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Let me ask you a basic question and this will indicate your honesty: What is the benefit of being very good looking as a man in terms of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:47 PM
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So you also believe hookup culture and FWB are also a myth?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 02:45 PM
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I'm just saying men need to be conventionally good-looking to get casual sex regularly, women don't
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:33 AM
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Men in your circle will not share their sexual struggles with you (a woman). You are a privileged woman who projects her own ease of getting laid onto men, not knowing how much time, effort, money, energy goes into whatever few opportunities they get to get laid every now and then. And then you see one of them with a woman once and think they're all players. Only good looking, tall, hot guys get casual sex easily and regularly.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 11:11 AM
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Because none of my men friends, tall, *short**,* *fat, thin, balding**, hair, have ever struggled with sex* So they all can get regular casual sex, fuck buddies, one night stands, hookups when they are single?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:51 AM
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Wtf did those guys look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:32 AM
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I'm just telling you that tall, good looking hot dudes get casual sex very easily and regularly. Why does this simple fact irk you so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:31 AM
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To get casual sex easily, you need to use Tinder. Only top 5% hottest men get a reasonable number of matches on Tinder. So how the fuck can you say ALL KINDS of men get EASY casual sex? Why are you lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:30 AM
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Why do you project your ease of getting casual sex onto men? Men need to be conventionally good looking to get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:19 AM
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casual sex, hookups, short term flings, FWB are not a myth, who are the guys getting these?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:18 AM
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He was so hot, she couldn't say no to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:17 AM
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Who tf is saying I'm uncomfortable and embarrassed? Where are you pulling this nonsense scenarios about my life from?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:16 AM
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Thanks. Most women tell me the looks bar for casual sex is way higher than for serious relationships. Which is totally weird way of thinking to me and you
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:15 AM
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What about casual sex? If your attraction to men in binary, do ALL the men you find yourself attracted to meet the benchmark for casual sex, casual hookups, FWB? Or is there a nuance there, that some men qualify for casual no strings sex, but others are only 'attractive' in a serious relationship context?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:05 AM
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I bet you also think casual sex, hookups, short term flings, FWB are a myth
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:02 AM
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She continued to for years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 10:00 AM
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Just stop bullshitting. They've been good friends. I KNOW they're not lying. I've SEEN girls throw themselves onto them Why the fuck are you assuming they're lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:58 AM
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The binary system is how men think in regards to sex. Women have told me the exact opposite: They're very attracted to some men, and less attracted to others so they need more time effort and emotions to like the latter kind. Women have told me that they do casual hookups/ FWB with men they are VERY attracted to, but the men they're LESS attracted to must put in more time effort commitment emotional investment before they can want sex with them. I
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 09:56 AM
1

So women who like / have casual are immensely privileged compared to men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:35 AM
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So how do men try and to decide if they like it or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:33 AM
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Why did you have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:33 AM
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Why is that if women don't like casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:05 AM
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Lets say you're single again and want a FUCK BUDDY or a pure sexual fling. Which guy you're going for? The super hot tall Chad (the kind you've been with a couple of times) OR the 5'7 normal looking dude with an average one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:05 AM
2

Yet, way more women than men have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 08:02 AM
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<image> Woman agrees that the looks & hotness benchmarks for casual sex are immensely higher than for marriage. Equates men getting casual sex to a hot woman getting flown to Paris
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:51 AM
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So how do average and below average looking women get Chad experience when it comes to casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:49 AM
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You've lived a very hedonistic life, possible only for male models, actors, porn stars and rock stars. If I recall correctly, you still struggle with wrapping your head around the idea that men face immensely greater pressure than women to be good-looking and exceptional in every way to have that kind of sex life
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:47 AM
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<image> Chad for casual, spontaneous, carefree, no strings, effortless sex. Average joe who has hid life together for settling down. Average joe only gets sex in a long term committed relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:37 AM
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Right, so you agree casual, non committal, no strings, carefree, spontaneous, effortless sex is only available to Chads. The average joe can only get sex in a serious long term relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:32 AM
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Ok lets take a step back. Let me ask you, what kind of men get super easy, super regular casual sex, hookups, FWB and booty calls?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:28 AM
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Why do only super good looking hot guys experience this kind of sex? Spontaneous, raw, effortless...where the woman just wants you for your body and dick, she's just eager to give you a blowjob, lick/kiss him all over the body. Tall jocks I've known told me in college girls message them asking if they can come over to give them a blowjob. Showed me messages. Why do only super hot tall handsome guys tell me these experiences? Why do all other men get sex so differently?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:26 AM
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This girl fucked this good looking tall guy for years despite him treating her poorly in bed, just because he's good looking and tall. Such is the magnetism of physicality 1000s of women reading this post are simply afraid to comment <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 07:22 AM
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Yeah, its amazing that women will continue to have sex with a super hot guy despite all this.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:59 AM
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Based on women's descriptions on their flings and hookups with extremely good looking men. Reddit is full of such anecdotes Based on the sexual experiences of very good looking/hot guys I've known. (They live in a different universe) Why are all these people lying but you are the only truthful one?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:37 AM
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What did your fuck buddies, casual hookups, and sexual flings look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:34 AM
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What if I told you my question is based on the sexual experiences of very good looking tall hot guys I've known in life? Why do you keep insisting I'm lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:21 AM
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So how was your pull towards his body different than for other less good looking partners? Were you eager to be more active with him? Did you feel the urge to kiss his body all over a lot more? What was different in terms of your feelings and response based on his exceptional looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:17 AM
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Who do you have casual hookups and FWB with?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 06:12 AM
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I don't think men get Stacy widowed. Men are all too happy to have casual sex with average and below average looking women too.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:57 AM
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So casual hookups and FWB is porn?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:56 AM
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Why did you have FWB with a super hot guy if he wasn't good in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:55 AM
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Then what do you fuck buddies, hookups, booty call, sexual fling guys look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:54 AM
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But does he need to be good in bed? There's a reason why you're so eager to have FWB with a super hot super tall guy, because he can be totally passive and boring, but still you will worship his body in bed. You admire his aesthetics and body in bed. You kiss him all over. You love his body so much you just wrap yourself around him and can't wait to give him a BJ. You can't feel those things with a normal looking partner. The normal looking guy needs to have very high energy and put in effort to…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:53 AM
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I'm asking a simple question: Did you ever have a sexual fling/FWB with a super hot tall dude or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:23 AM
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Does he need to be good in bed? There's a reason why you're so eager to have FWB with a super hot guy, because he can be totally passive and boring, but still you will worship his body in bed. You admire his aesthetics and body in bed. You kiss him all over. You love his body so much you just wrap yourself around him and can't wait to give him a BJ. You can't feel those things with a normal looking boyfriend or husband. The normal looking guy needs to have very high energy and put in effort to g…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:23 AM
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So you're saying the short term fling guy being way better looking, taller, bigger, hotter than your husband didn't make any difference?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:17 AM
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You've never hooked up with a super hot tall built guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:13 AM
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What isn't a thing? You never had a short term fling / FWB situationship with a hot tall chad?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:12 AM
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So the physical / sexual chemistry with a tall handsome big dicked guy is so natural, effortless and out of this world, that women would even put up with him being totally passive and boring. Do you realize that this proves my point?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:11 AM
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But when you had a short term fling / FWB with a super hot, super tall, built like QB guy, wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of this world?=
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:09 AM
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Were all the guys you dated super conventionally hot, tall, and built like QB's ?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:08 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:07 AM
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So how was your short term fling / FWB thing with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:02 AM
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If its not appealing to women, who is Chad fucking casually literally every night?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:01 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:00 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world? How did that physical chemistry compare with your long term relationships with average looking medium height men?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 05:00 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:59 AM
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So how was your short term fling with the super hot, super tall, guy different? Wasn't the physical chemistry with him out of the world?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/25 04:59 AM
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You're implying young men should only focus on finding long term committed relationships Why should'nt men do what young women are doing and also seek hookups?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 08:24 PM
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But most young women are hooking up and partying with hot guys, and just going with the flow.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:57 PM
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You need to hookup / get laid before you have a relationship. We aren't having arranged marriages
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:56 PM
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Therapy doesn't make a difference to attractiveness to women
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/25 12:55 PM
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You too can get fucked, disrespected, and discarded by men if you like. I reckon men don’t like this since so much language is about how humans don’t like getting fucked over… Then why aren't women having casual sex with other women, but instead prefer casual sex with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/25 09:18 AM
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The women who are having casual sex, hookups aren't saying they're disrespected. They seem very happy about it and boast about their sex lives. They even middle finger men and insult them for being incels. So why are you pushing this narrative that women are being dehumanized by casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:41 PM
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What about loser and unattractive women? Who are they fucking?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/25 12:00 PM
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Just be intellectually honest and realize wholeheartedly that young men today face immensely more pressure than women to be conventionally good-looking to have dating and sexual options. Just stop framing men as inferior to women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:32 PM
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Ok. But men need to be exceptionally good-looking to become promiscuous. Women can be ugly, obese, old, midgets and still get fucked left right and center This should make you feel very privileged as a woman, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:31 PM
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The remaining 80% still get plenty of hookups and short term flings with good looking, hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:18 PM
1

Then why do you believe natural selection only works by preventing ugly men from procreating but not ugly women You really believe ugly women can get laid easier than ugly men, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:17 PM
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Unlikely to be average looking if he was promiscuous. Men need to be very good looking, very tall, very masculine to be promiscuous. Women can be ugly, short as midgets, obese, old and still get laid left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:15 PM
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If a man is unsuccessful at getting casual sex, it means he is not good-looking/hot/gorgeous enough for promiscuous women. Why is marriage to a promiscuous woman even an option then?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:14 PM
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Ugly short obese women can still get fucked left and right Does it make you happy that your gender is immensely privileged in this regard?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:11 PM
5

How do promiscuous women have regular sex despite being unmarried?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:03 PM
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No. It means in 20s, dating has become a good-looking man's thing. Only good looking men date and have situationships with multiple women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 09:02 PM
0

What are your minimum looks and height requirements for something like casual sex, ONS, FWB?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 03:12 PM
2

Why do you have casual sex with men? Why not with women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:55 PM
1

So why the fuck would you consider a low body count man for a serious relationship or marriage? You only fuck super hot, studs, fuckboys and chads for fun way above your leage. Great. Why can't you STICK to them for serious long term committed relationships too?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:54 PM
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You said you're promiscuous. You have a body count thats 100+ You think men shouldn't match that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:19 PM
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No. You should have casual sex with low body count men. Whats wrong with that?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 02:18 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/2n7b365mc67g1.png?width=1503&format=png&auto=webp&s=ec0b5da12c1564febb140d6e975e78d61c18849d
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:49 PM
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Women are reluctant to prescribe casual sex to men who aren't super good-looking and seeking advice or just frustrated with their dating/sex life. They silently agree that casual sex is an extremely privileged, extremely hidden element of society that only the hottest, most superior men should partake in. When you ask women questions about casual sex, they even gatekeep the discussion itself
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:39 PM
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It really takes showing so many examples and evidence for women like you to finally concede that men do face way more pressure than women to be good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:19 PM
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<image> You aren't in touch with reality. Ugly, obese girls get fucked left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:11 PM
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I'm not talking about MARRIED couples I'm talking about the boyfreinds and fuck buddies of girls in their 20s Tell me what do those guys look like?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 01:05 PM
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Wtf are you talking about ? Literally every girls boyfriend / lover / situationship is with a guy who's 2 - 4 points above her? Have you ever been to a fucking university campus? Girls who are 3s and 4s and with guys who are 7s 8s 9s You are out of touch
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:56 PM
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I did similar expeirments myself. I was shocked to get 100+ guys messaging me within 4 days using a 4'9 ugly middle aged Indian janitor ladys picture. Location was Chicago
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:55 PM
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LTR are still an option for me, but I have to put in extreme effort and emotional investment and pursuit to get there, because I'm not super good looking and tall. You are lying that women have varied tastes, because you are looking at MARRIED couples. Not women having casual sex. Look at women's casual sex partners for gods sake. They all fucking look they came out of cookie cutters And you are lying because women absolutely don't need to be good-looking to get fucked by hot young tall men http…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:54 PM
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The correct answer is marry a low BC woman who never did casual sex. She might not be enthusiastic and spontaneous in bed, but at least she wasn't enthusiastic and spontaneous with other men. At least I know thats just her nature. Because a high body count woman marrying a man who doesn't have access to casual sex is being manipulative and settling. Your hatred of men prevents you from understanding why men want low BC count wives
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:50 PM
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So before marrying a high BC woman, why can't the man just raise his own BC to 100 or 200 so he can be confident and not feel insecure?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:46 PM
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Women don't need to be good-looking at all. Women's looks have almost ceased to matter in the hookup world. ALL the pressure to be good looking is on men now <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:40 PM
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No Because a sexually experienced woman may have gotten her experience with men who were totally different than me. Women have casual sex / sexual flings / FWB with super good looking, super tall, hot, masculine, well built, large dicked men (top tier guys) There is no benefit for a barely average looking guy to marry a promiscuous woman because she's not marrying me for sex. If she wanted me for sex, I would have opportunities for casual sex too. I dont
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:38 PM
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Then she should be open to be FWB with me as a litmus test. Then it might lead to something serious. I have had women tell me (upon my suggestion that we should be casual / fwb first) that if they wanted that (and they did) they would go for a totally different type (chad) and why would they choose me? Most of you women are raging dualistic w's, sadly. You compel men to thhink the way they do
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:36 PM
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Then its bad advice, because promiscuous women don't marry for sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:32 PM
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True
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:32 PM
4

How good looking and tall does a man need to be in 2026 to have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:31 PM
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Then on dating apps, why do you swipe on the hottest tallest 5% of men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:29 PM
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Yeah, so investing in a woman who wouldn't hookup with me (but does so with other men) is nonsensical
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:28 PM
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Who tf is talking about entitlement I'm asking why is this narrative permeating everywhere among women that they are superior and only a small number of men are good -looking, tall, attractive enough for procreation?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:26 PM
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So easy, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:25 PM
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I meant gatekeeping the discussion on casual sex, doofus Thye avoid the topic and keep going back to relationships and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:24 PM
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Nope, the narrative is going mainstream and permeating everywhere Every woman now believes women are superior and majority of men are meant to die off without sex and procreation, while all women are attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:23 PM
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How is this incoherent? It is a great insult if a promiscuous woman told me she considers me acceptable for marriage but not hot/sexy/gorgeous enough for casual sex because the barrier for hookups is way higher And this happens to men all the time wth do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:21 PM
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I see women insulting men's appearance, heights daily on social media and irl Why can't you see the growing hatred bigotry and elitist looks standards put on men by women?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:19 PM
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So you disagree that the looks barrier for casual sex is way higher than the looks barrier for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:17 PM
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They don't overtly, but consider them inferior unappealing subhumans
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:15 PM
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They gatekeep casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:15 PM
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So why can't men just have casual sex with women who enjoy casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:09 PM
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Not having access to casual sex means not being attractive to women who enjoy casual sex. Why would a man seek a serious relationship with a group of women who dont find him hot enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:07 PM
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I'm asking you, do women who automatically give this advice in a marriage context implying that men getting casual sex with promiscuous women isn't feasible for most men but marrying one might be a better strategy?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:05 PM
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5'8 is considered midget by women Do you at least agree how much women hate men who are around that height? You dont fear that your sons might be on the receiving end of extreme women's shallowness that keeps rising?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:03 PM
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No. They are just complaining about bad sex life Do you need to get married to get regular sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:02 PM
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I'm talking about casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:01 PM
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So why would a high BC woman be attracted to me? If she's attracted to me, it means I can have casual sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:00 PM
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Ok. There is still a risk that your sons might inherit your side of height genetics and end up being extremely short like 5'7 or 5'8 Then what will happen?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:59 AM
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They are told that if you're frustrated with your sex life and not getting enough sex, not getting enthusiasm from women you were in relationships with, then date/marry promiscuous women Why isn't their first thought "Just BE promiscuous with promiscuous women" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:58 AM
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So why wouldn't I just have casual sex with sexually promiscuous women and become promiscuous myself? That way I would just raise my own body count too. Like why is the hypthetical man being being pigeonholed here?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:56 AM
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But why wouldn't I just have casual sex with a high BC woman if she's available to me? She has a high BC. She does casual sex. Why wouldn't I just join in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:54 AM
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But why wouldn't I just have casual sex with a high BC woman if she's available to me? She has a high BC. She does casual sex. Why wouldn't I just join in?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:53 AM
1

How tall is he and on the looks scale? How tall are you and rank on looks scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:52 AM
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Good-looking, tall, hot guys have sex via hookups, the remaining in LTRs and marriage Ugliest, obese old grannies also have regular casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:51 AM
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It is frequently brought up in liberal circles
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:44 AM
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Then how do you get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:44 AM
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Very frequently, men are told they shoot themselves in the foot by wanting low BC women
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:43 AM
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Then you're not concerned about your future sons? What if they don't end up being super handsome & super tall and become incels? You know how mf'n shallow you are and you only hookup with chads
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:42 AM
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Anti natalist?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:38 AM
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No. What you see are married couples in their late 30s The average guy doesn't get hookups and casual dates
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:25 AM
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Are you stupid? Most young women are hooking up with chads and hot fuckboys throughout teens and 20s. What option do most guys have other than be retirement plans for women ghosted by chads and hot fuckboys?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:24 AM
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Makes you so happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:22 AM
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You are bullshitting A 3/10 woman does not want to date a 3/10 guy She is hooking up with 7s and 8s You are a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:21 AM
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How much lust for height do you women have?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:20 AM
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You literally have casual sex, hookups, FWB with hottest guys and talk about marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:19 AM
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Can't have natural selection if ugly short women continue to procreate and make more incel sons
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:18 AM
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In South America, the incel phenomenon isn't a thing. Men who aren't good looking enough simply have paid sex or paid adjacent sex and its not even looked down upon socially. I visited a few times and I felt amazing. My good-looking tall friends were banging regular girls every night while I either got escorts or pay for play type girls through a local friend. It felt like a fling experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:17 AM
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Dont you think a trip to Colombia or Thailand would be cheaper and more effective? Why is paid sex considered such a premium thing in US?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:12 AM
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What do you need to look like to attend as a man? What are the looks, height, ethnicity requirements for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 11:10 AM
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Women aren't going celibate. Way more young men than women are celibate
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/25 12:55 AM
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Ugly women dont get casual sex, dont get sexualized. They have sex in marriage. Hope your brain is capable of distinguishing b/w casual sex and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 05:10 PM
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Ugly women get laid in real life, Ugly men don't unless they f'n marry or pay
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:25 PM
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We understand. You're not sexually attracted to normal human males
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:24 PM
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You are not depserate to be alone, yet you tolerate abuse, toxicity and and emotional unavailablity of hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 12:24 PM
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Looks, height, body, superficial charm, money
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 11:36 AM
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Why can't he just try and find that out for himself that casual sex isn't validating? Why can't men have that option?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:21 AM
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So you're saying the men you have relationships with are ugly and inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 09:20 AM
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It is a solution. You are implying that its not a solution because his looks only pass the husband/LTR benchmark
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:43 AM
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The solution is that men like me can just have hookups and prove ourselves wrong. It can't happen because the benchmarks are insanely high
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:09 AM
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It will erase the insecurities related to sexual undesirability and need for validation, which isn't possible in marriage. Are you trying to say that he isn't hookup material so his only option is marriage / LTR? Are you trying to say hookups/FWB are only for the hottest men, so he will just fail at getting them?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 08:07 AM
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Why are you scared to talk about FWB, short term flings and situationships with tall, hot guys? Most women in their 20s are in situationships and flings with tall hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:58 AM
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Most women in their 20s want to party and hookup with hot guys than settle down with an average looking man. You're saying as if hookups are this rare thing
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:32 AM
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I was in college once. Was I top 13% of men at that point? I wasn't able to hookup once in 4 years, because the looks and height requirements for hookups were insanely high. The ugliest girls in college wanted tall handsome fit guys for hookups, ONS, FWB, flings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 06:30 AM
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I want to know the opinions of women who have done hookups and 95% of them I've come across irl and online say or demonstrate the same thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:32 AM
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Why can't you just get hookups like these women are doing? These women are saying hookups aren't special, so why can't you just do hookups and get over your insecurity? Why are you restricted, confined, pigeonholed into serious relationship mode only?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:22 AM
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Why can't he just have casual sex, hookups, FWBs like some of the other men and get over his insecurities? Like there are men who do this a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:20 AM
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Have you been to a college campus or a club in LA or Bay Area? What do you notice about the men who are with the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/25 04:17 AM
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Aren't you looks-elitist sl**s? Worshipping, chasing the biggest baddest hottest tallest loudest motherfucker out there at all times?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:38 PM
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How many she's before it begins to matter? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:36 PM
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Yesh. m0v3 tEh B@r UPTO H00kup5 /\/0w !! Imagine my audacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 07:06 PM
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Women have told me time and again, that the hookup guys are the top of the top The benchmarks for the might hookup are supreme and only the best one's are able to pass The benchmarks for husband are lower https://preview.redd.it/hdb1ud6bdvzf1.png?width=916&format=png&auto=webp&s=7a250a2476c6d836f0254b2d826413b947c3bf76
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:26 PM
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This is what women are saying See the funnel she's talking about Hookup guys are the top of top <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:24 PM
1

Then why are all 4s and 5s girls in LA and Bay Area dating 7s and 8s and hooking up with 10s? Like, I need to see young women in their 20s in a big city dating guys who are much lower than them. But I see the exact opposite And for casual sex its even worse.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:21 PM
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No. Hookups are shallow and happen relatively quickly. You don't need to know someone on a deeper level to hookup or even have a short term fling. NO woman has ever wanted to hookup with me in 35 years and I've been around 100s, approached 100s. Its because I'm below average in looks and short.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 05:18 PM
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I will hookup with her to find out if its true or not. So far in 35 years of my existence, not one woman has found me physically attractive. It happens to a good 30% of men
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:59 PM
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You said physical attraction is a prerequisite. Thats not binary thinking I'm saying I don't meet the physical attraction barrier for women in the dating scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:41 PM
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Are the LOOKS requirements higher for casual sex than for a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:10 PM
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How is that relevant if I'm not physically attractive to women? You just uttered above that women must be physically attracted and without that, personality would be irrelevant <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 01:01 PM
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What was different about these men looks, body, hotness wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:59 PM
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You said you don't need model looks for relationships. What are your looks stipulations for casual sex? Its casual sex. The purest form of sex that the most privileged supreme men can get. You are giving away your whole body to a man who hasn't proven to you, havent given all his emotions to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:56 PM
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I wonder how gender dynamics would be different if men could get sex as easily as women. I believe in that scenario we will see relationships that are truly equal
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:43 PM
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What was different about the hookup & FWB sex? They were genetically superior men you had physical attraction for that you don't have for your inferior husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:41 PM
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Then why do you have casual sex, hookups, FWB with model tier guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:40 PM
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Tell that to women who say looks don't matter. You won't because you're scared of other women
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:32 PM
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There's nothing to offer if you're not physically attractive to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:30 PM
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Because if as a below average looking short guy, I say that I'm unable to date because I don't meet women's physical criteria, I will have 100 women on social media gang up on me and tell me its because I'm a horrible human being, not looks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 12:27 PM
2

By relationships you mean short term sexual flings
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/25 11:26 AM
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Yet, women in their 20s and 30s are having casual sex so much
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:33 PM
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Chased like a sex god, you mean have a sex life and get laid every now and then without being in a big relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 09:31 PM
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The difference being funny makes is not significant in the vast majority of cases. We see too many funny men who don't get hookups because they aren't good looking
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 06:16 PM
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Have you pursued casual sex with average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 05:00 AM
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How many mediocre, below average looking funny guys have you had FWB and purely sexual flings with?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:56 AM
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Comedians get laid due to fame, not by being funny
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:55 AM
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No, the few women who were attracted to him, found him physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/25 04:54 AM
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Foreplay is something women want with very good looking handsome men who often happen to be above their leagues. These men are often just interested in pump n dump. Have you pursued casual sex with average looking men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:20 PM
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Men need to emotionally invest in a woman and center her to start a relationship. Are you talking about very good looking/hot men who can start relationships casually on equal terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:17 PM
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How do you have sex with men despite decentering men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:14 PM
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They don't want sex and companionship?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:11 PM
0

What are your looks and height stats?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:10 PM
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But women are telling men that to get casually laid they need to center women, align lifetyle/interests/hobbies/circles, impress them, pursue them and perhaps even emotionally invest in them. How do you get laid without all that "centering" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:15 PM
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Can men do the same? Decenter women and still get laid?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 07:05 PM
2

And what about sex? How do women who decenter men get sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 04:37 PM
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With each passing day, it seems like that is really the answer to everything. Everything falls in place when a man is really good looking and women begin to want sex just like men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:33 PM
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There's nothing to say. The benchmarks for men's looks, heights, physiques, charm, personality, confidence, sociability are immensely higher than those for women
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 12:28 PM
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So men need to be exceptionally good looking to live like a mediocre woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:39 AM
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Do you think looks are the answer to everything? Be so good looking as a man that you can live like an average woman
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:36 AM
0

What about so many men who are getting regular casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:35 AM
3

Who told you women who decenter men are going celibate? Its always said in context of marriage only
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:07 AM
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Right, but that would mean most men will just alienate themselves from women even more because their lifestyles, hobbies, etc diverge. So my question is, how are women doing both successfully: decentering men and still having sex with men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 10:06 AM
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Surprizing silence on this question
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 09:57 AM
2

And what are your hookup/pure-sex-fling/FWB requirement? How narrow does that get? Can you compare the looks, heights, hotnesses of men you had LTR vs you fucked casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:38 AM
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So when you feel horny and want to fuck, and if the 85 percenter approaches you, he will have to be funny and make you laugh first. But the top 5 percenter wont have to make you laugh for wanting to fuck Is that how it works? Like, you don't know if you are feeling horny and want to fuck someone before they've done a funny dance?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 08:20 AM
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If men had higher prerequisites, how would mediocre looking women with mediocre personalities have casual sex? Women take immense pride in their ability to have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:46 AM
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Why are you fixated on top 5-10% looks wise?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:44 AM
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So 5% for hookups, casual sex, ONS, and pure sexual flings. the 85% only get a chance for long term relationships after emotionally investing
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/25 05:41 AM
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Like you said, above average / decent looking but non Chad men can still get hookups occasionally and some can lead to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:28 PM
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Fucking a guy in hopes of a relationship does not work.(Scientifically it's not how men work) Formulating a friendship/getting emotional investment before sex works to get a relationship and builds better relationships which is typically what women prefer. Formulating friendships and getting emotional investment before sex only works with men who aren't attractive enough to get hookups .Attractive men just want to hookup and see where things go. And many if not most relationships grow from hooku…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:08 PM
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I think relationships/marriages are becoming more and more obsolete/irrelevant to society. Which means casual sex, short term flings, FWB are becoming more important, because single women aren't celibate. They're still fucking. Why dont you accept that men face more pressure than women to be good-looking in todays world?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:05 PM
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You women have 24 hour access to Tinder and real sex with super hot men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:46 PM
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Why do you expect men to be ok with being settled for?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:46 PM
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Why do you want the average man to worship you?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:44 PM
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Its not the same Even the women who get settled for have 100 times more options than average men
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:44 PM
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Right, and only these supreme, elite, privileged category of men are worthy enough to enjoy that fun shared/goal/activity of casual sex. I wish the worst upon women who still insist men don't face immensely greater pressure than women to be conventionally good looking. I really do
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 07:35 PM
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So hookup material men are the most superior, elite, privileged, admirable category of men, from your analysis. They are the elite winners among men, who can get fastrack intimacy with most women. Not only that, they also have readily available options for relationships if they wish to proceed in that direction. They are they men you are so attracted to you just want these men on a primal level.. You place them very high in the hierarchy of men. Like, in your minds, these men are so superior tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 06:50 PM
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How many meet your hookup/FWB benchmark?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:28 PM
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Why the fuck is hookup still on top? Like why isn't it hookup with 15% > Be in a relationship with 10% > Marry 3% Like wtf is so special about the hookup category? Why do they need to be superior to the husbands and boyfriends? Let me ask you again. Wtf does the 10% and 3% relationship and marriage material men LACK that they can't do hookups? What makes them so inferior?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 04:28 PM
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Women dont gaf about marriage. They are happy single and enjoy their sex lives
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 11:34 AM
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While for women they would be willing to be in a relationship with 10% of men. Marry 3% of men. Happily love, respect and pour tons of energy, effort, and resources into 3 % of men. Hookup with 1% of men. Why the fuck is hookup still on top? Like why isn't it hookup with 15% > Be in a relationship with 10% > Marry 3% Like wtf is so special about the hookup category? Why do they need to be superior to the husbands and boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:12 AM
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What percentage of men in your age group meet your looks and height requirements?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:10 AM
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They litrally have an abundance of such men on Tinder
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:09 AM
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What are the looks, height, ethnicity needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:08 AM
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True. He doesnt realize that the gravy train never stop for women. Even pensioner women with a foot in the grave are consistently having sex with hot tall 25 year old boys. You women literally have it made
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:07 AM
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Dude, 60 year old women are banging hot 25 year old boys these days
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:06 AM
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Who are the men you're crushing on, lusting after and hooking up with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:05 AM
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Men face the same risks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:05 AM
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Why is every young woman seemingly obsessed with Chads?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:03 AM
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What percent of men in your age group have the looks that you require?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 09:01 AM
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Right, and now you will catastrophize the risks as "being m*rdered"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:59 AM
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Its about looks & height in the end. The men available for relationships and marriage are numerous but not good looking / hot and tall enough to satisfy their base urges
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/25 08:58 AM
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Yeah, they're not having casual sex with 90% of men Its kinda like Schrodinger's cat thing at this point
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 04:35 AM
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So you agree that incels are right about hypergamy and women being physically attracted to very few men?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/25 12:08 AM
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They are naturally good looking, hot, tall, well built, charming. Thats masculinity. They don't have to pursue you or put in effort to convince you. They don't have to emotionally invest in you. What is the effort you're referring to? They put effort into their appearance and lifestyle. Not effort into courting you or pursuing you. What about the men you have FWB, one night stands, sexual flings with? How do they put in effort to pursue you, court you? Aren't they mostly just passive? Like I'd a…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 05:31 PM
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So are you now celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:17 AM
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Why do you view equal effort in dating as demeaning to women? Have you never been attracted to a man, just wanted him, hooked up with him without requiring him to pursue you, court you, take you on dates and pay for them, emotionally invest in you first?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 03:16 AM
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But why are women's choices incentivizing men to act like women in dating? For instance, the men you and most women are most attracted to in your life, the ones you casually hooked up with, did FWB with, had hot sexual flings with, had crushes on, loved and lusted for the most were most likely passive, put in very less effort and acted like they are the prize. They were the lazy men who just expected you to come over and do Netflix and chill. Men are not blind. We are just adopting to what women…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:23 AM
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So why don't women hookup and date men who put in effort and pursue? Why do they seek hookups and flings with good-looking, hot, tall guys who can afford to be passive? Men who are lazy and just ask women to come over for netflix and chill? Why do 5% of top good looking men get 90% of all attention on dating apps? Its a culture that women are shaping. They have spoken clearly that they want who they want. Men are just adopting to what women want. Men have realized that when women are really attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/25 02:15 AM
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I'll pay for a date if its what she expects from all men. Even though paying for a date is already not equal, I'll still do it if thats a consistent expectation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:37 PM
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Women are the ones who love to party and hookup with hot guys in their youth. Men aren't taking their virginities. Women love to have sex with hot guys without commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 08:20 PM
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Most women nowadays are extremely shallow elitist and unforgiving on looks and are openly disparaging men's looks. They are openly screaming there is a chopped man epidemic, men are hard to want, top tier men are just average woman, they swipe right on top 5% of men collectively, etc. The evidence just keeps on mounting
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:56 PM
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Why do you expect men to pay on dates when you don't require it from men you find physically hot? Isn't it insulting that its all based on your attraction level? And if men are becoming averse to this, instead of recognizing our problem you frame it as men being lazy princesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:50 PM
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Do you have higher looks and hotness needs for hookups and sexual flings than for serious relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:47 PM
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Oh, and women are oftentimes "mocked/insulted" (though it is more anger) if she has a lot of sexual partners. Even though she wants to be equal to men in the casual sex department. Women are mocked for casual sex, because women who have casual sex with one category of men, often expect courting, pursuit, and emotional investment from another category of men. Men never shied away from courting and pursuit. Its only recently when they have started to notice that you're only required to court and p…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:46 PM
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Right, so you're having those low effort sexual relationships and flings with hot men, but men who aren't super hot, but still decent looking enough and who meet other criteria, will have to pursue and court you, wear their hearts on their sleeve and if they expect a low effort start and "sex first then relationship" you call are princesses?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:40 PM
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So you admit that women expect to be chased?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:34 PM
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So let me ask this, you're saying that men who want 50/50, who don't court and pursue you hard, who want to just hookup and see where things go, are incompatible with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:32 PM
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So why are you chasing the men that you chase? There have been men in your life, you were attracted to and you just hooked up with without them having to chase or court you. What was different about those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:29 PM
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Why do they frame it in a way that demonizes men?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:25 PM
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Who the hell is asking you to date someone? I'm talking about the way you are framing this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 07:24 PM
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I'm asking why do you women mock/insult men's desire to be equals to women in dating and relationships as something abhorrent?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:31 PM
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They are willing to explain and defend their claims. They are open to debate Women are not.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:27 PM
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So they want equality in dating, they don't want to solely pay on dates, they want 50/50 in expenses, they want assurance that you're attracted to them before emotionally investing, they don't want to wear their hearts on the sleeve to avoid getting played and hurt And this is in the backdrop of the hookup culture where most of you women take initiative with, chase and hookup with good looking, hot men you really desire w/o requiring any effort. Yet you twist these valid concerns of men into men…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:25 PM
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What about the 1000s of women on this sub who saw this post, agree with these statements, and decided not to post to avoid arguments? What about the several women who commented here in support of these statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:17 PM
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"Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days" What do they mean? What does this statement mean, since you feel its not bigoted?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:16 PM
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Yes I disagree with them when they say its ok for men to cheat. Men are desiring equality and balance in the dating world (which I know is not possible because women have 100 times more options)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:12 PM
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There is plenty of engagement in comments. Women just make extremely bigoted statements and shut off anyone who disagrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:10 PM
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If I say that women are way more selective and elitist about looks, find way fewer men physically attractive than vice versa, and that men face way more pressure than women to be good looking in order to get laid, why does this annoy you? I agree that this fact can be expressed in different ways and come across as whining, angry,etc. but do you agree with the underlying fact or not? We can talk about the tone later
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:09 PM
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"Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days" A woman above who wouldn't respond (as expected) interpreted this statement as "Men want to be the prize and chased" So basically you agree that its women who want to be the prize and be chased, and men are just copying what women do (want equality) ?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:05 PM
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Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days" What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 06:02 PM
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Asking you again, What the fuck does this mean in real life? Give me some real life examples from the dating process what does it mean by this statement "Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:57 PM
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Fed up with what? Dating wise you women have never had it better. You literally have 1000 times more options than average men. You are financially independent, you have sexual freedom. You can enter and exit relationships at whim. What have men done to you personally to elicit this hatred?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:57 PM
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The women who were oppressed for 1000s of years aren't here today. The women alive today aren't oppressed, neither the men alive today are their oppressors.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:55 PM
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Among the statements I listed, are there any you agree and disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 05:53 PM
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Among the statements I listed, can you share any you agree and disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 04:23 PM
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What does that mean in real life? Give me some real life examples from the dating process what does it mean by this statement "Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days"
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:53 PM
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One way would be if the person making the statement is willing to explain it, defend it, and is open to debate and counter arguments or not. As I mentioned in the OP, the women making these statements are completely unwilling to do any of the above and start insulting men who try to question these statements.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:52 PM
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Why is that? Is it because you agree with them and are afraid to support them, explain them, defend them?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:48 PM
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Among the statements I listed, can you share examples of ones you agree and disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:24 PM
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Among the statements I listed, can you share examples of ones you agree and disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:23 PM
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Among the statements I listed, can you share examples of ones you agree and disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:23 PM
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Its crazy you know that they really do agree with these statements deep down. Like, literally no woman here has dared to negate them or disagree with them. They are just questioning why we notice them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 03:12 PM
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All these statements are rooted in bigotry against and a sense of superiority over men. Can you defend these statements?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:51 PM
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Whats your question and why are you being so cryptic? Just openly explain your stance
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:49 PM
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Saying men want to be the prize is not bigotry Why do you think only women should rightfully think they are the prize? Why do you believe women are superior to men? Men just desire equality in the dating process. They may or may not get equality depending on their looks, height, appeal. But why do you demonize and mock the desire itself?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:46 PM
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Who told you redpill doesn't want debate? Men's primary claim that women are hypergamous and physically/sexually attracted to way fewer men than vice versa is pretty open to debate. Most men in the manospohere will debate this with you, listen to your counter arguments, provide evidence to support their claims.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:40 PM
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Even men in manosphere would not support men who cheat, but yes, they do encourage single men to sleep around, because its our firm belief that men who get casual sex, hookups, fast track sex, sexual flings, are truly the men that women desire. These are the men who - when they do have relationships - have them on equal terms. Again, I can explain why we believe casual sex, hookups are so important to the discussion
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:31 PM
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Why do you believe women are superior to men in the dating process?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:28 PM
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Women are physically & sexually attracted to way fewer men than vice versa, and there are a million ways women indirectly acknowledge this reality daily. You don't agree with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:26 PM
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So you are against these statements and disagree with the women?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:22 PM
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A common manosphere complaint is hypergamy and the fact that women are physically attracted to very few men. Men are more than happy to debate this
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:04 PM
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Women in comments here are literally doubling down on them. They still want to defend these statements <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:04 PM
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The manosphere have very specific complaints against women. Despite all the hatred that they spew, they are willing to explain and engage in debate. They also claim to seek equality in dating and relationships, Women's narrative is rooted in superiority over men
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 02:01 PM
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So you're being bigoted towards men and claiming that you women are superior to men If it doesn't work for men, it means they're not attractive enough. It will work for men that women find desirable. Why is the desire itself being mocked?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:59 PM
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It means men desiring equality, reciprocity and exhibiting self-respect in the dating process, are being mocked by women because women believe they are superior to men. That they are the main character while men are just supplicating NPCs. Its bigotry.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:57 PM
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I will be specific. Lets take this statement women are spewing all over social media - "Men want to be the woman in relationships so bad these days" What does this mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/11/25 01:52 PM
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Its very tiring to debate them. Its like they have memories of a goldfish. They literally say something they have contradicted a moment earlier in a different thread and you have to take screenshots to show them what they uttered. I wonder if they're naturally illogical or just creating this big psyop
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/25 05:23 PM
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How good looking are you and whats your height? I guess having a much higher body count than your wife and having casual sex with hotter women than your wife kinda equals it out in your mind. I'm sure if I was able to have so much casual sex I would be able to accept a woman's past in marriage too. But when I'm locked out of casual sex, when I'm told by women that casual sex is an immense privilege unlocked only for hottest dudes while I need the werewithal to pursue a long term relationship to …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 11:46 AM
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I created a Tinder profile of an ugly, 4'9, borderline obese, 50 year old Indian janitor lady in Chicago area. She got 1000 likes and 100+ matches in 5 days. Most matches were with young tall fit decent looking guys I had 20+ guys give out their numbers and were willing meet up. So young, tall, fit looking men are not decent matches?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 10:42 AM
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People born in EU and America truly are privileged compared to someone born in Africa or poor Latin America. They enjoy better standard of living across several areas of life. Nothing wrong with admitting it You are saying men are like people born in 3rd world vs women are born in 1st world.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 09:46 AM
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Where is the research saying men are less open to dating autistic women than vice versa? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 05:05 AM
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What does this woman mean? https://preview.redd.it/emjrljvdbewf1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=26de751924b136811d86471966028a50a66a25ec
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:51 AM
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Women don't need to be seen as pretty to get casually fucked left and right. Why are you so egoistic?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:19 AM
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They don't start with a friendship. Most relationships start with a direct expression of interest
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 04:08 AM
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Women who want relationships are still ok with casual sex if the guy is hot/sexy enough
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:24 AM
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Read again. You are being dishonest. They are responding to the claim that friendship is not required for dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:22 AM
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A mediocre looking woman get 100s of dating options. A mediocre looking man get almost zero options What common sense conclusion will you draw from this?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:20 AM
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So there are no leagues then? And the way people rate out of 10 is also totally incorrect?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 02:18 AM
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Then why are 4 times as many autistic men are single?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:04 AM
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Just a few examples I found scrolling down this thread. Women are peddling this lie a lot <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:03 AM
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Were the "relationships" with mediocre looking men non-sexual and low quality rebounds? Were you enjoying them sexually?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 01:00 AM
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How does Chad compete against you peace?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:58 AM
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Most women are extremely proud of their ability to fuck hot guys above their leagues.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:57 AM
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Majority of short and long term pairing didn't grew from friendships. You are a liar
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:56 AM
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Or maybe men are more FORGIIVING to women on their social awkwardness than vice versa?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:55 AM
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"Most of the men who make posts like this are upset that they are not good looking and charismatic enough for casual sex." I have debated this point to death with women here and they keep insisting that their standards for looks, hotness and physical attraction for casual sex are not higher than for serious relationships. Whenever I say something like "I'm not good looking enough for casual sex and my only option is long term relationships' I've been told by women I'm bullshitting because thats …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:49 AM
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Women are not physically attracted to their looks matches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:43 AM
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They are not good friends. They are just acquaintances in the same social circle. The women know they exist, they are safe and physically attractive enough. What women say here is that you need to be good friends first on a deeper level
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:41 AM
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But women are not attracted to their looks matches
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:40 AM
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Most relationships start with sexual attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:39 AM
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Because its not needed. There is no evidence that the vast majority of short and long term pairings grew from a good friendship. Its always mentioned in bad faith to men who are not physically attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/25 12:36 AM
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So women are having long term relationships and marriages with men they're not physically attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:23 PM
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True. Sadly, most women are insanely dishonest
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:21 PM
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Any nuanced deep analysis on this topic will get zero responses from these bigoted w****n Look at them typing bs rhetoric
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:20 PM
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I've been called beautiful my whole life and I've dated some barely mediocre looking guys, but they were smart, intelligent and funny and that made them become attractive to me. Were those low quality rebounds and non sexual relationships where you were just giving them a chance? They didn't last because you quickly found someone youe genuinely attracted to? These men were walking on eggshells throught the duration of these psudo relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:19 PM
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Demisexual women still hookup with hot guys
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:15 PM
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You don't need to be friends first to start dating The vast majority of gf/bf couples were not good friends first Please stop peddling lies
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:14 PM
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You don't need to be friends first to start dating The vast majority of gf/bf couples were not good friends first Most women here live in a strange world where a good friendship has to precede dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:12 PM
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You don't need to be friends first to start dating The vast majority of gf/bf couples were not good friends first
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:11 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:10 PM
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Not feel bad. Just not react negatively when men say they face immensely greater pressure than women to be good looking, charming, extroverted to have dating options
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 08:08 PM
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No. This statistic clearly shows autistic men have it worse than autistic women in dating and relationships
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 01:00 PM
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Dont be a fool. Misandry is when I say its way harder for men to get relationships and women deny the fact
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:16 AM
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You need to be conventionally good looking as a man to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 09:13 AM
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Why do they say its small? I'm below average looking so I can't have casual sex, but all the guys I know who are average in size and are able to have casual sex or just sex with experienced women say the women think its small whenever they asked for feedback. This friend is dating a very promiscuous liberal woman and he says she initially though his dick is small even though its 5.5. And the stories are endless
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 05:07 AM
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any woman who has casual sex considers 5.5 as small. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 04:17 AM
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He's more attractive/desirable than me in her eyes which is why she doesn't need him to invest heavily in an emotional bond for having sex. He's so desirable, sexy, attractive, admirable that she can just have recreational sex with him. Because I'm inferior physically and sexually, I cannot experience the spontaneity and purity of a purely lustful experience. I'm inferior and Im confined to having sex in a long term relationship only. I remain celibate for years when I'm not in a big relationshi…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 03:09 AM
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But men are told all the time when they're shooting above their league. Women point it out all the time when a guy bags a wife who's above his league. Its so culturally acceptable to point it out. So why are you scared to say mediocre, below average looking women casually fuck men above their leageus?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/25 12:44 AM
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Only super hot guys sleep with dozens of women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 09:13 AM
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So? You don't get horny and want to meet your sexual needs?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 05:30 AM
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Ordinary, below average women are not Arab princes and trust fund kids. You are just implying women are superior to men
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/25 04:53 AM
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Why can't you date autistic men then? Why do you prefer to date non autistic men if you know the are more likely to abuse or just take advantage of you? Is it because you consider autistic men below your caliber?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:15 PM
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So whats the reason why you have it so easy at getting relationships, while women absolutely hate having relationships with autistic men? And being an autisitc woman, why do you hate having relationships with autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:59 PM
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Women who are 1s and 2s get laid left and right. You mean life is harder for men and they face immensely greater pressure to be good looking? That the benchmarks are higher for us?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:47 PM
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Good looking, tall alcoholic and druggie men get laid. Just imagine how shallow and looks obsessed women are, that good looking tall alcoholic and druggies get laid way more than discplined, succesful, software IT guys in Bay Area with own mortgage earning $300K, with hobbies and everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:08 PM
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There are literally no women who say the looks standards are higher for husband And very few who say they are the same I'd say 70%-80% say the standards are higher for hookups
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:52 PM
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just one of several https://preview.redd.it/xemegroz2vvf1.png?width=1653&format=png&auto=webp&s=506a86f178286e2d2022718141ca002c98edfb6f
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:10 PM
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Sow wtf does it leave for men to play with? Can't use money, lifestyle, gifts, financial stability, favors (things that perhaps the majority of men utilize) Men's looks alone are rarely enough for women, because you women are shallow and elitist Whats left?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 11:13 AM
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Ok, so husband is not physically inferior and would have qualified for hookups back in the day. Good. Because most husbands don't qualify for their wives hookup standards. How fucked up is that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:27 AM
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Misandry is encouraged by women. Suffering and disadvantages of men are laughed at by women. What can we say <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:20 AM
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Life is indeed harder for autistic men than autistic women <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:18 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:18 AM
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Life is way harder for autistic men than for autistic women. Only dishonest misandrists will disagree <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:17 AM
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Life for autistic men is hell compared to autistic women. Be thankful you're not born as a man <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:02 AM
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Life for autistic men is hell compared to autistic women <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:00 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 10:00 AM
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Life for autistic men is hell compared to autistic women <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:59 AM
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Are you scared to address this? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:59 AM
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Agreed. I will tell the feminists to fuck off whenever they try to shame men for their preferences around partners sexual past. Hell with them too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:40 AM
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<image> https://bmcpsychiatry.biomedcentral.com/articles/10.1186/s12888-025-06836-x?utm_source=chatgpt.com
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:37 AM
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There's no way a woman will judge another woman using an elite gigolo service or a paid vacation lover in the Caribbean as much as a regular john. Your deep bigotry and hate for men is expected and natural
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:33 AM
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Who gets to decide leagues? Objective beauty standards or sexual options?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:28 AM
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Its not a big deal at all, because sex dolls and robots also exist and will become the norm in future. A woman offering her body in exchange for sex to assist a man in obtaining a sexual release is the same thing. Its also called the world oldest profession
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:28 AM
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Yes, I pay for sex proudly. I'm not a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:25 AM
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But when I say I never did hookups and fwbs so I can't date or marry a woman who did that, why am I told by women I'm being small minded, past doesn't matter, and that I should be prepared to stay alone?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:24 AM
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I'm not talking about cajoling and coercing. I'm talking about offering emotional commitment, financial stability, marriage, lifestyle, favors, support etc to get laid. The disparity is relevant because women don't pay for sex and when they do, its an elite gigolo or a vacation thing for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:22 AM
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A male model on Tinder gets roughly the same sexual offers as an ugly, obese midget granny Are they in the same league?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:18 AM
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Why can't you be secure enough to not care that your BF/husband paid for sex in the past when there was a dry spell?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:17 AM
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I'm a 3 in looks. I can date/marry women who are 2s and 3s. Women who are 2s and 3s only have casual sex with 7s and 8s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:15 AM
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Were your hookup partners a lot more conventionally good looking/hotter than your long term partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:11 AM
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And thats ok because its immensely harder for men to be sexually desired. There is a great gender disparity. Women are making it abundantly clear they don't find the vast majority of men physically attractive If I were to be a purist, I'd say true desire is only casual sex desire and all other men are compensating, persuading, and bribing women to have sex. And only very good looking men are able to experience pure sexual desire. From this pov, paid sex is just one end of the spectrum. And I can…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:09 AM
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But the average man who pays for sex isn’t a monster out to harm women. I agree that the industry causes harm to many sex workers (not all), but it’s similar to how we all use products and services that negatively impact the environment, animals, or exploits certain groups of people In the moment he calls an escort and pays for the service, he’s not any different than the woman who asks a super hot guy from Tinder to come over to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:03 AM
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Women having casual sex with hot men are getting abused?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 09:00 AM
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But the average man who pays for sex isn’t a monster out to harm women. I agree that the industry causes harm to many sex workers (not all), but it’s similar to how we all use products and services that negatively impact the environment, animals, or exploits certain groups of people In the moment he calls an escort and pays for the service, he’s not any different than the woman who asks a super hot guy from Tinder to come over to hookup.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:59 AM
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What if your partner broke up with you over you having casual sex in the past?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:57 AM
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Do you only date hot men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:55 AM
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Why can't you just see it as assisted masturbation? I have gone to prostitutes and some of them were really good at providing the service. I know they don't desire me, but they momentarily created the illusion of desire. And I became a repeat client of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:53 AM
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Why do you hate men? Why do you feel hateful that men try to workaround the immensely higher looks benchmarks they are held against through paid sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:50 AM
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Is you pretentious disgust for men who pay for sex based on the fact that you're deeply uncomfortable that men who aren't good looking enough for casual sex, are able to get an outlet? Is it a form of hate and being upset? You feel hateful that men are in a way able to overcome their natural limitation and high barriers to sex via paid sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:47 AM
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And he’s got a dick. And it’s warmer than a dildo and she doesn’t have to be the one moving it. Does it need to be more for her? She’s the hole and he’s the something to put in it. When we pay for sex, we just need a hole too. Its not that complicated. Its low investment and we don't care if the woman is only doing it for the money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:42 AM
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So getting casual sex from men above their leagues despite being ugly is an immense privilege for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:36 AM
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So getting casual sex from men above their leagues despite being ugly is an immense privilege for women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:34 AM
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Men need to be good looking to get casual sex. Ugly, obese broke grannies get 100s of offers of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:33 AM
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I'm willing to use pejorative term for the man who pays for sex. He is just a human ATM machine to the sex worker. Why can't you realize that a man who pays for sex isn't necessarily objectively more repulsive than a woman who does get laid for free
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:32 AM
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Ugly women taking advantage of attractive men's low standards for casual sex are 'abused women' ? Why are they having a good laugh about it and boasting then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:29 AM
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What about freelancing escorts? Why do you hate men who have sex with freelancing escorts?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:27 AM
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Men need to be conventionally good-looking to get casual sex with reasonable frequency (once or twice a month) Wtf do you disagree with?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:24 AM
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could never have sex unless he paid for it? Never ever? No matter what he did? They can but only exactly once in a lifetime when they are 57.5 years 23 days old.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:22 AM
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Do you feel zero empathy for the fact that the benchmarks for men are immensely higher? That men need to be conventionally good-looking to have casual sex, while women's looks heights, bodies, lifestyle, personalities almost don't matter? Would you still judge a man for paying for sex knowing this disparity? The average man who pays for sex isn’t a monster out to harm women. I agree that the industry causes harm to many sex workers (not all), but it’s similar to how we all use products and servi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:18 AM
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Do you feel zero empathy for the fact that the benchmarks for men are immensely higher? That men need to be conventionally good-looking to have casual sex, while women's looks heights, bodies, lifestyle, personalities almost don't matter? Would you still judge a man for paying for sex knowing this disparity? The average man who pays for sex isn’t a monster out to harm women. I agree that the industry causes harm to many sex workers (not all), but it’s similar to how we all use products and servi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:17 AM
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Do you feel zero empathy for the fact that the benchmarks for men are immensely higher? That men need to be conventionally good-looking to have casual sex, while women's looks heights, bodies, lifestyle, personalities almost don't matter? Would you still judge a man for paying for sex knowing this disparity? The average man who pays for sex isn’t a monster out to harm women. I agree that the industry causes harm to many sex workers (not all), but it’s similar to how we all use products and servi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:16 AM
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Do you feel zero empathy for the fact that the benchmarks for men are immensely higher. That men need to be conventionally good-looking to have casual sex, while women's looks heights, bodies, lifestyle, personalities almost don't matter? Would you still judge a man for paying for sex knowing this disparity? The average man who pays for sex isn’t a monster out to harm women. I agree that the industry causes harm to many sex workers (not all), but it’s similar to how we all use products and servi…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:14 AM
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How is persuasion with lifestyle, vacation, or gifts not a problem? Golddigger type women have sex with ugly old sugar daddies. Why doesn't it elicit the same disgust in you?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:11 AM
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Men have extremely low standards for casual sex and many decent looking young men will readily fuck ugly, obese, grannies they are repulsed by but are horny enough to stick it in. These men are only tolerating these women's presence. Can you wrap your brain around it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:09 AM
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Is your disdain wholly out of concern for sex workers, or do you also just feel hateful that men who aren't good looking enough for casual sex are able to get laid as easily as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:06 AM
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Is your disdain wholly out of concern for sex workers, or do you also just feel hateful that men who aren't good looking enough for casual sex are able to get laid as easily as women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:06 AM
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How do people have sex with sex toys and sex dolls/robots?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 08:04 AM
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So you f'n agree that paid sex is to men, what Tinder is to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:57 AM
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Isn't it pathetic for mediocre looking, ugly women to take advantage of men's pathetically low standards for sex? https://preview.redd.it/oq2c9u9qntvf1.png?width=795&format=png&auto=webp&s=b59969306aca52e0e8c87ec324e8fa59881d77ee
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:23 AM
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You women say that you have different criteria for good looks/hotness for casual sex vs long term relationships. I have paid for sex because I don't have the good looks required for casual sex. However, I've still been able to have long term relationships because the looks criteria is more equitable
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:18 AM
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I'm also taking what women give in exchange for some cash
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:14 AM
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What about older European women going to Africa to have sex with tall black men with big dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:12 AM
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What makes it different from sex done for other motives than sex? Example, a woman has sex with an ugly old male celebrity not for the sex, but for the clout What about gold diggers having sex with old ugly sugar daddies?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:10 AM
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Both genders face economic hardships. Why do you single out women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:05 AM
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The average customer is not abusing sex workers. He just pays for a service and leaves Why are you demonizing them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 07:03 AM
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Good looking, hot men can get laid for free so why should they leave the dating scene? It works for them. Women sleep with hot guys on 1st and 2nd cheap dates
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:52 AM
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You still aren't. The people (men) who have friends their mom paid money to pretend to like them, are playing by harder rules I know that women who are objectively worse than me in looks, body, fitness, personality, sociability, lifestyle can get laid left and right, but I can't because the rules are harder for me Do you understand this concept? I am not objectively more pathetic than them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:48 AM
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Then why don't you date autistic men who are in the same boat? Why do look down upon them and consider them below your caliber?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 06:39 AM
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So why are you trying to reverse that and make John a bigger insult? Why not make it fair and balanced?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:17 AM
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But the average man who pays for sex isn’t a monster out to harm women. I agree that the industry causes harm to many sex workers, but it’s similar to how we all use products that negatively impact the environment, animals, or certain groups of people. In the moment he calls an escort and pays for the service, he’s just like the woman who asks a super hot guy from Tinder to come over to hookup. Its just that men need to be very good-looking to get casual sex. Women don't
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:14 AM
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Then why do autistic men struggle in dating 100 times more than autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:02 AM
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Or maybe, just maybe women are given more leeway in terms of introversion, passivity, and lack of confidence in social situations?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 02:01 AM
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Why don't they date autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:59 AM
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So you get to socialize and date like normal people despite being autistic and you twist it into a disadvantage? Why don't autistic women date autistic men?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:58 AM
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But more women than men have casual sex. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:55 AM
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But thats your privilege as a woman Even the ugliest women can be sexually desired and lusted for. They can get laid easily Men need to be good-looking to be sexually desired and get casual sex. Many of us are already sexually undesired. We are only useful to women in marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:54 AM
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So whats wrong if men also want to have casual sex by paying for it? Men need to be very good-looking to have casual sex. Women don't. Thats the only difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:49 AM
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But these women are just like johns who know that the person they're having sex with considers them undesirable in many ways. So why don't you judge ugly women who have casual sex with hot guys, just like you judge johns who have sex with hookers?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:47 AM
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Are you scared to say that only women can gain experience from casual sex, but men being inferior need relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:45 AM
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The benchmarks for men arent immensely higher. Is being clean, having clothes that smell nice, treat the women as a person(not a validation tool or "this only counts if we have sex") and working to be on a good place mentally. Thats really nothing special. But thats not the reality. In the real world, women want casual sex with good-looking, tall, hot guys with nice bodies, preferably nice dicks, who are sexually gifted, are outliers in terms of charm and confidence, and are just winners in most…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:44 AM
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I'm asking who do you as a woman judge more: Whore or the John? Slut or the John?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:35 AM
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Most people don't like their work.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:26 AM
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Why were your hookups conventionally better looking than your husband?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:24 AM
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But think about it objectively. On paper, men who pay for sex aren't more repulsive than man women who get laid casually. Do you feel zero empathy for the fact that the benchmarks for men are immensely higher? Just think about this
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:20 AM
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Do you feel zero empathy for the fact that the benchmarks for men are immensely higher. That men need to be conventionally good-looking to have casual sex, while women's looks heights, bodies, lifestyle, personalities almost don't matter? Would you still judge a man for paying for sex knowing this reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:19 AM
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Most men pay for sex just because they're not good looking enough to get laid casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:09 AM
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You don’t have to like someone to want to have sex with them lol Incels are correct then
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:08 AM
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I wonder why do ugly women want to have sex with good looking/hot guys who just see them as cum dumpsters and walking fleshlights
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:06 AM
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Men need to be conventionally good-looking to get casual sex. Women don't Should mediocre and below average looking men remain celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:05 AM
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Why do women have casual sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:04 AM
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What about women who have one night stands with men who essentially use them like holes?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:02 AM
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Men have extremely low standards for casual sex, so what you call "desire" has a very low bar Do you take that into account? Men need to be very good looking to get casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 01:01 AM
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how people can defend men claiming that women/sex is only worth 50-300 hundred dollars. How much should it be worth then? Its literally free for good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:57 AM
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Why do you think men have to lie to get laid? Why can't they just be honest and upfront like women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:54 AM
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Women have casual sex too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:53 AM
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Majority of men don't have the good looks required for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:50 AM
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Ugly, obese, old, broke introverted women get laid left and right. You're saying there are so many qualifiers for men to get casual sex. They have to be above average in looks (ok, so not chads), fit, charming, outgoing, confident, have a lot going in life. What about many of us who are just unremarkable in most ways? Being unremarkable isn't a sin. Many women are unremarkable too. Should we remain celibate?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:49 AM
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What do you want men to do if they're not genetically blessed and conventionally good looking? Remain celibate until they're in a long term relationship or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:47 AM
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Men need to be good looking to get casual sex, Women don't. What should men do if they're not genetically blessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:45 AM
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But you can have one night stands and booty calls?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/25 12:44 AM
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I have been told by countless women on this forum and elsewhere that if you want casual sex, be upfront about wanting casual sex. Stop dating women like you date for a relationship then wonder why they dont want to have casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:58 PM
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At one point she was also inexperienced. She started having CASUAL SEX with experienced men and built up her own experience and became a sex GODDESS. Why can't I do the same?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:54 PM
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. In fact most of the "wild" stuff you called out in your post is much more relationship stuff than casual sex stuff, Not true for women and good looking men
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:50 PM
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Doesn't make sense. If I'm acceptable for a relationship, I should be acceptable for casual sex. Unless women are two faced, dualistic, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:45 PM
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Then who are the men millions of women are having sex now? Despite all the slut shaming, pregnancy risks etc. Why are you telling me they face all those risks when millions of women are having it anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:36 PM
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You have to be conventionally good looking as a man and meet a much higher benchmark of looks, body, height, charm, dick to get the privilege than the "relationship only" guy
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:33 PM
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All of that requires good looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:31 PM
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Oh yes, your 2 ugly friends who get laid: Pete Davidson and Jack Black
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:23 PM
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I do. I am just asking why I don't qualify for casual sex? What do I lack?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:22 PM
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Don't you think that if I have so many defects and shortcomings, I should be excluded from the possibility relationships and marriage as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:20 PM
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They just use Tinder, match with a bunch of women, and agree to meet up. They go to clubs, talk to a few women and get their numbers or take one home.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:09 PM
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Enough for casual sex, a hookup, FWB. Sex that a mediocre looking guy like me gets is based on an emotional bond.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 12:07 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/s9jry7bnrnvf1.png?width=1653&format=png&auto=webp&s=61c5eda9f4a32582b22bb9d5a21a61c405a7c91f
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:34 AM
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So why is she open to the idea of a relationship with me if I'm repulsive to her?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:25 AM
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It can start in so many ways, and it's generally a vibe, some banter, or right place/right time. It can be someone leaning up to your ear to talk to you at a club or party, or friends discussing sex until you both decide to give it a go together, or a stranger asking for a chippy chip then taking you home with her, or putting your hat on her head, or people being explicitly upfront on OLD about wanting hookups and nothing else, no "we'll see where it goes". What if I told you all these situation…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:22 AM
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Women have casual sex with raging misogynists, toxic assholes, criminals, abusive men and degenerates. Why is the mere alleged thought of women losing value from casual sex disqualifies me immediately?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:19 AM
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I know good looking men who get casual sex more than once a week. They don't put any effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:14 AM
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It also seems like you do not truly want a relationship, but are pursuing one only because you believe you cannot get casual sex, something you’ve put on a pedestal in your mind So why can't I just get casual sex? Why are women's looks standards for casual sex way higher than for a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:14 AM
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How many women need to say they have higher looks bar for casual sex before you accept its the reality? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:11 AM
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Then I won't be dating anyone. No woman wants to hookup with me casually.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:04 AM
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How does casual sex start then? Explain
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:02 AM
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I don't want to put in the immense energy, time and emotions into building a relationship at this point in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 11:00 AM
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Their casual sex partners were way better looking, hotter than me. I have been told many times by women I went on dates with upon my suggestion that we just hookup, that I'm not good-looking enough for that purpose, and they have way hotter guys available if they just want something purely physical. What do I make of this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:58 AM
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Then why do women have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:53 AM
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So you want to use women and discard them Yes. Thats what women want too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:48 AM
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The same traits that have allowed me to pursue serious long term relationships. Unless you mean women have long term relationships with men they don't feel sexual desire for
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:47 AM
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Thats the effect, not the cause
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:46 AM
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Its about how they view me as physically inferior. Not how I view them. Why are you twisting this around?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:45 AM
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Right, so why can't I just have casual sex which is shallow in nature and prove m indoctrination wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:22 AM
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But not under-confident, insecure and off putting enough to have a long term relationship with? How the hell does that make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:21 AM
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Your BF's scenario is different because 1) your bf is good looking and also compares favorably to most of your casual sex partners and 2) He didn't want casual sex despite having the option
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 10:05 AM
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So as a woman, why do you get both options - the intense, short, highlight reel AND the serious stuff / whole movie - but as a man, I get only one?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:57 AM
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I think one way to deal with these feelings is to pursue relationships with women who don't have casual sex and are "demisexual" (hate that world because too many women who call themselves demisexual still have casual sex with hot guys anyway). And that would require caring and inquiring about body count and sexual past when dating. Sadly, this will just reduce relationship options for men like me even further. The best way to deal with it would be to have casual sex with a lot of women, build s…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:56 AM
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Was your threesome and foursomes with all men? And were most of your casual sex guys hotter in a more conventional way?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:50 AM
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if he can have relationships (which he apparently seems to be able to have, just can't get past people's pasts) then there's no reason he couldn't have casual sex, since the bar is generally much lower for casual sex. The bar for casual sex is not lower <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:28 AM
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He's purposefully removing himself from casual sex considerations by only dating for a relationship Where the fuck did I say I'm purposely removing myself from casual sex considerations? I'm saying when I approach women, go on dates, the only women who reciprocate any interest in me pigeonhole me into the long term relationship box, so that's what I have to go with. These women can tell me "lets just hookup and see where things go" and I'll happily accept that proposition, but I'm not good looki…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:26 AM
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Lets say I do want a relationship (thats my only option anyway). How should I feel that this woman can have casual sex with other (hotter) men, but needs to wait and have relationship feelings before having sex with me? How can I take being physically unattractive a compliment?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:22 AM
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How can you emotionally invest in a person who doesn't find you physically attractive enough?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:17 AM
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The men with lots of sexual history that you dated; did they expect you to work harder for sex, needed more time to have sex, because you're less attractive than their casual partners?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:13 AM
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But this is totally ironic as I have been able to build serious connections in the past and still can if I put in enough time and effort. But what I've been totally failed at doing is getting casual sex How is that possible? Are you being dishonest or not telling the full picture?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:08 AM
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Why not utilize her experience within a casual sex arrangement and then upgrade myself to have casual sex with more women, so I can also match her history, get upto her level and become a SEX GOD? And then one day, she will accept the challenge to my absolute best sexual partner. Whats wrong with this?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:04 AM
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How is it a weird thing if casual sex is something my GF/wife only does with men way better looking than me? How is this not insulting ?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:02 AM
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Lol. Thats what I've been screaming on top of my lungs: That women are more physically & sexually attracted to their casual sex partners than their husbands and LT partners. That the benchmarks for good looks, height, body, sexual ability are way higher for casual sex than for LTR and marriage
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 09:00 AM
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I have been trying to have casual sex for 15 years (I'm 35 now) and been only given the middle finger by women. I was explicitly and implicitly told be several women I went on dates with that I should'nt be expecting casual hookups because if they wanted that they could easily pick tall, good looking, hot guys and the only reason they agreed to date me was to prospect me as a long term guy. I have tried clubs, dating apps, even went to sex/kink clubs and these environments are immensely competit…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:56 AM
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If they are highly sexually experienced, have experimented with a large number of partners then they'd be incompatible with me for a serious relationship because I havent experimented with a large number of partners. I will happily have casual sex with a highly experienced woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:47 AM
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So its nothing vile for men to desire casual sex too. Wtf was the purpose of framing it as being replaceable and used & thrown out if women are also enjoying it? Because you have been raised differently and haven't learned the skills that would get you casual sex? If I can have a serious long term relationship with a woman, why am I not acceptable for casual sex to the same kind of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:45 AM
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2 partners a year is a lot for men, maybe not for women. You can just get in and out of short term flings upon whim. The vast majority of men get maybe 5 relationship options in a lifetime. Amazing how privileged women are isn't it?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:40 AM
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I know that you're an extremely dishonest person trying to gaslight me with the choice of words, but I'll ask you Why are women having casual sex then if its such a vile thing? Why is it immensely harder to be the man who's replaceable, doesn't matter and is thrown out after use? It should be easier to be him, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:37 AM
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What is this woman saying? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:32 AM
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So its not because women have way higher looks benchmarks for casual sex than for long term relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:29 AM
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What if they are short term sexual flings where the guy is hot and she says "Lets just hookup and see where things go" I've never had such a short term fling.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:27 AM
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The women who have casual sex surround themselves with good looking, tall, genetically blessed, sexually gifted, big dicked men. They live in a different eco system which is immensely competitive for men You go on Fetlife and you see every woman demanding a 6'4, broad, large dicked guy to fulfill their fetishes and desire for rough play. They are extremely upfront about the physical attributes they want and they can be ugly, obese and old themselves You go to dungeons and sex clubs and you are l…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:23 AM
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If casual sex is such a huge risk and very few women are having it, why does it give every woman the ick if men care about body count and sexual past of women they intend to marry?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:17 AM
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Women with low self esteem get laid left and right. How is that possible? Why do you need high self esteem in a man if you just want to fuck?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:14 AM
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He'll only be jealous if he has to pursue you romantically. I'd have zero jealousy of the sexual history of a woman I'm having casual sex with. She is allowing me to build my own sexual history
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:13 AM
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Are you going out, are you charming, extroverted, fun to be around, If I'm not charming, out going and fun enough, why would a woman consider me for a long term relationship or marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 08:11 AM
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So whats the reason why I can't get casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:35 AM
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My obsession is an effect rather than cause. The obsession is irrelevant because whether I'm able to get casual sex or not totally depends on my looks
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:34 AM
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The purpose/intent of both is same To have casual sex without strings
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:32 AM
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So why are women having casual sex and who are they having it with? Whats different about those men?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:14 AM
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Single women in their 30s and 40s and 50s are giving up on marriage and happy having casual sex. Why do you mock me for being only 35 and wanting casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:05 AM
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The superficial traits determine our success in dating women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:03 AM
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Tall women don't want shorter men than themselves. Short men will happily hookup with taller women
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:01 AM
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Your male partners don't consider you sexually inferior for casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 06:00 AM
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So whats the difference between the men she has/desires casual sex with and me? Why can't I simply be that guy?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:59 AM
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Wouldn't you be only interested in relationships with men who are good-looking/hot enough to have casual sex anyway? Why would you even consider a relationship with a man who isn't good looking enough to have casual sex in his life?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:52 AM
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So if she's attracted to me, why can't I have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:48 AM
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So you should know that way way more girls than guys have done some form of casual sex be it ONS booty calls, fuck buddies, Tinder/Bumble hookups, short term flings, situationships, sex at house parties, etc. This is common sense
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:45 AM
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Ever lived in a college town?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:00 AM
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So would it be ok if I ask women if they have casual sex or not and only pursue relationships with ones who dont have casual sex? Who always require a high degree of investment from men before having sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 05:00 AM
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What would you say to this woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:56 AM
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Why do you have "disconnected sex" as a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:50 AM
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I am told caring or asking about a woman's sexual past is misogynistic and gives women a major ick. I am told that literally no decent guy cares about it in 2025 And most women have had casual sex nowadays and have had dozens of partners by 35 <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:50 AM
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And if she's not having casual sex with you, it doesn't have anything to do with looks or attraction or any of that. It very well could be that you are not on her radar for that. It absolutely does. If the man is conventionally good looking, she will have casual sex with him and then see where things go. Why do you think I'm not able to have casual sex? Its just because of looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:45 AM
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So what kind of men did you have casual sex with? Were they not the super hot masculine guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 04:38 AM
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Are your looks and hotness benchmarks higher for casual sex than for relationships?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:50 AM
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What would you say to this woman https://preview.redd.it/isz004jiflvf1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=1e3b3af48a4765ff5e2908b1b80df57c86aeadff
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:43 AM
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What would you say to this woman? https://preview.redd.it/fq32wjvfflvf1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=c7d4bd6146449caf940ed748fdcd435d6ffa1c2c
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:42 AM
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What will you say to this woman? https://preview.redd.it/y2j8ehvzelvf1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=8009156f5fb817ba68c3ffd5ac0c0c7886e6bd8d
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 03:40 AM
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So why is the expectation on them to accept the super high body counts of their girlfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:59 AM
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Look at what this woman is saying. What will you say to her? https://preview.redd.it/haw3aatd5lvf1.png?width=875&format=png&auto=webp&s=dc64ffd3ae512b65c3e86d625bae70c89249ad4b
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:46 AM
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I'm disagreeing with him and saying they are not more sexually desirable to women If they were, they will get a lot of casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:44 AM
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The performative boyfriends of liberal women Why they never got casual sex, hookups, FWB? Why is their body count much lower than their gfs and wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:42 AM
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Are they getting casual sex or not?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:41 AM
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With hotter guys, were you more eager to give head regardless of recirpocation?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:30 AM
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So how are abusive men better than incels in women's eyes? Whats the lesson here for incels? That they'll gain more acceptance by women if they became abusers?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:28 AM
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What will you say to this woman? Just tell me <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:24 AM
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So you agree that women have way higher looks and physical attraction benchmarks for casual sex than for LTR and marriage? Literally women here continue to bullshit thats not the case
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:10 AM
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I'm saying men don't have to like or respect women to want to use them for a sexual release. Why are you so proud of women's ability to get casual sex easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:09 AM
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Because men need to be exceptionally good looking, tall, masculine, big in size preferably, to get casual sex. These men's personalities and politics doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 02:06 AM
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Why don't you need them to be performative?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:56 AM
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Why don't these men have high body counts themselves? What are they lacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:55 AM
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Why do you have casual sex with men who aren't performative then?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:54 AM
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Why is his body count way lower than yours?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:53 AM
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Then why don't these performative males have high body counts of their own? What are they lacking?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:52 AM
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What kind of men do you have casual sex with?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:51 AM
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The perfomative Alpha does it to get laid casually. He has a high body count. He can get casual sex, hookups, sexual flings, FWBs, etc. The peformative liberal boyfriend does not get casual sex. He does to be acceptable to just one woman. Why do you have casual sex with chads and alphas?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:50 AM
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No, the performative male never got casual sex and his body count isn't high. Men need to be very good looking, very tall, genetically blessed and masculine to get a high body count. The performative bf only get serious relationships where's is is heavily invested He has to mold himself to your lifestyle and interests, not the other way round. She dresses the way she wants. Not to fit into his ideal or fit into his social circle. He dresses and styles himself to fit into her social circle and he…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/25 01:47 AM
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No. I have approached countless Their looks, height, body, penis size requirements are elitist. Women only want casual sex with good looking, hot men regardless of their own looks
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:15 PM
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So why it easier for me to get LTR's than get casual hookups and sexual flings? Because the looks, charm, sexual ability benchmarks are lower for LTRs and mediocre looking men like me cannot pass the other?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 03:06 PM
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So you mean being enjoyable to be around and GREAT in bed isn't a requirement for a long term relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:53 PM
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So what should men do if they want "casual fun sex" if they are not genetically blessed?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 02:38 PM
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What should men do when they're not married or in a LTR ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:34 AM
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A lot of women settle on looks and height in their 30s to get married. They date and hookup with hot tall broad guys throughout their 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 11:29 AM
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Is it because you never do casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:02 AM
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Is it because you never do casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:02 AM
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Is it because you never do casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 10:02 AM
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What if doesn't have the desire or energy for the promises atm and just wants to be the casual fuck buddy. How should he go about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 09:56 AM
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How does it suddenly become sacred when women are having casual sex without second thought with hot guys who see them as walking fleshlights?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/10/25 12:11 AM
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Men need to be very good looking to get casual sex. What should majority of men do?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:34 PM
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Why do women have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:33 PM
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He just wants casual sex, just like you do. He's just not good looking enough to get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:30 PM
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Because only very good looking men can get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:27 PM
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How do women have casual sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 07:26 PM
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So you agree that getting casual sex is an immense advantage to women are confirms the blackpill, incels, 80/20 and other concepts?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:59 PM
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Men need to be very good looking, tall, fit, charming to get one night stands, hookups and booty calls. The ugliest women have 1000 men on Tinder willing to have sex. Why are women putting no effort, why they have no patience to get a real relationship, why are they so cheap and desperate to go for this low hanging fruit of casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:58 PM
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Men have low standards and will fuck anything that moves. Men will have sex with women they are grossed out by in social, romantic, intimate contexts What does it say about women who take advantage of those pathetically low standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:07 PM
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What does a woman having one night stands, Tinder hookups, and booty call demonstrate to you? Lack of discipline, patience, desperation?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:05 PM
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I am going to bookmark this to shove it in the faces of 100s of women on PPD who deny BP, 80/20, hypergamy and other concepts
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 12:02 PM
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We never see this. What we do see is ugly, oebse, old women regularly hooking up with tall handsome fit young men
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:25 AM
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How can ugly women have casual sex with hot men knowing they just see them as cum bucket and fleshlights?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 11:24 AM
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Who do you judge more? Women who have casual sex or men who pay for sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:19 AM
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Nope. Repulsive women get laid left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/25 10:18 AM
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Thats makes no f'n sense. Most men end up in LTRs and marriages, so why isn't creepiness and weird red flags mattering there?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 10:36 AM
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You said that you love nice cocks but thats not enough reason to get into a relationship, so how are you finding out guys have nice cocks before getting into relationships with them? For women, the benchmarks for men's good looks, hotness, height, body, good dick, sexual prowess for casual sex, ONS, FWB are way higher than for serious relationships. Casual sex guys are superior in that sense
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:34 AM
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So what makes a cock nice to you? Long, Thick, extremely hard, curved, a certain aesthetic? Also, do all your long term relationships meet the benchmarks for casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:21 AM
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Why do women seem to have a memory of a goldfish when it comes to this topic? Most of you women constantly laugh that men would fuck anything that moves For moments like these I keep screenshots of other WOMEN handy https://preview.redd.it/uasl75cjmtuf1.png?width=2152&format=png&auto=webp&s=5210bcf0f34ca4d4c868993ebf7fd31d3bbf8351
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:12 AM
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50 year old men aren't fucking hot 22 year girls who are friends of their daughters. The gender reverse scenario is everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:09 AM
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assortative mating doesn’t apply to short term relationships? Assortative mating absolutely doesn't apply to casual sex, hookups, ONS, and FWB See what these women are saying https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:08 AM
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Just listen to women https://imgur.com/a/dual-mating-strategy-afbb-women-have-way-more-physical-sexual-desire-casual-partners-than-husbands-mc3C1he
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:07 AM
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Look at who below average and ugly girls are having casual sex with
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:06 AM
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One of the traits men want in a wife is a woman whose brain isn't COOKED from casual sex with studs, pornstars, athletes, chads, male models, gym trainers, musicians, big dicked guys, etc. Such a woman is not suitable for an average looking man who didn't get much casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:04 AM
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Casual sex is ok, but I think the question was about emotionally investing in such a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:02 AM
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Whats a nice cock?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 06:01 AM
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Because most men don't get casual sex
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:45 AM
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I wouldn't emotionally invest in such women. They had casual sex with other guys, so why can't they have it with me if they're interested in me?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 05:44 AM
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You just said earlier that casual sex is an extremely high risk for women so only makes sense if the guy is absolutely hot and physically and genetically gifted
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:52 AM
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How do ugly obese women get 1000s of hookup offers on Tinder then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:33 AM
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But you know that men need to be conventionally good looking to get hookups, but women dont'
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 02:22 AM
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Why isnt it a turn off for men fulfilling the bulk of financial responsibilites?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:44 AM
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So she doesn't want equality in the relationship and always wants to be the pursued main character? The intense pursuit and effort men give early on are required to secure a relationship. Its not sustainable. Most men want equality and to feel relaxed in a relationship just like women do. The fact that you want men to walk on eggshells all their lives shows how much deep seeted disdain you have for men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:42 AM
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So women are less suited to monogamy than men
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:40 AM
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So women are less suited to monogamy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:40 AM
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Many aspects of the hookup culture aren't the most sustainable choice for the average person. For the average man you mean? Average women can get casual hookups till retirement age
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:39 AM
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Since you're an Asian woman, I'm assuming you only do casual sex and hookups with non Asian men, yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:38 AM
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How much have good looks got to do with it? The casual fuck buddies are young hot guys, so it probably opens up the animalistic side of women thats not possible with average looking husbands no matter how helpful they are. Theres a reason why women say their casual sex standards are way higher than standards for marriage. You are truly more attracted to your casual fuck buddies than husbands
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:35 AM
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Why do women discourage men from seeking casual sex then?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:32 AM
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Why do you women treat the man who wants a genuine relationship worse than the casual fuck buddy?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:31 AM
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You women are just proving that the man who wants a genuine relationship is treated worse than the casual fuck buddy. The more he does, the more you raise your expectations and keep gaslighting him he isn't doing enough and is expecting too much sex. Its a battle the man will always lose
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:30 AM
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Women marrying men who don't meet their hookup/casual sex looks benchmarks is the root cause. When relationships and marriage grow from casual sex, FWB, hookups, these things don't happen
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:28 AM
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Then why do most men get married but struggle to be the casual lover, hookup, FWB, side guy of women? Why are casual lovers so privileged? Most men would kill to experience being casual lovers.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:26 AM
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If they don't look at sex like men do, why do they enjoy casual sex with hot young guys they barely have connection with? Oh, those are privileged men you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:24 AM
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why are women marrying ugly men?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:20 AM
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What do you think of women on PPD who insist their casual sex standards aren't higher than marriage standards and husbands are always a subset of hookup worthy guys?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:19 AM
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So women marry unremarkable men they aren't physicallly attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/10/25 01:18 AM
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Can they enjoy casual sex with hotter younger women after divorce, just like women in their 40s and 50s do with young boys in their 20s and 30s?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 03:27 PM
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How many times will we see men bleating about paying for a date and therefore expecting sex in return? Why the hell can't women expect sex from husbands in return for doing all the chores?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:57 PM
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Why can't women act like men with average and below average looking men? Why do they only act like men with super good looking/hot men only?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:56 PM
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Hmm, so moving in together is the real culprit
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:48 PM
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They're not saying they won't have sex with them because of it. They just want to avoid dating them to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:46 PM
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So women don't resent their hot toxic asshole boyfriends they love to fuck anyway?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:44 PM
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Why do you think men don't have this burning sense of injustice over uneven division on financial responsibilities?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:41 PM
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Until she sees a hot young pool boy and cheats with him. Then it becomes a stress release for her because there's physical attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:39 PM
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What if she realizes he's too a child and is looking for a mommy? So many older women don't mind mommying a good looking younger lover. Physical attraction is the real issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:37 PM
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How do so many women love sex with their hot toxic assholes boyfriends?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:36 PM
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How come men don't feel the same way when they are financially exploited in a relationship? Have you ever heard a man say "My wife sits at home all day, does little housework, I pay all the bills and pay for all the outings, so I no longer want to have sex with her" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:33 PM
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They are saying the absolutely dont give a fuck about personality and character when it comes to casual sex. The bigger the asshole he is the better. Women can perfectly fuck men they don't like as people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:30 PM
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Why tf are you spinning a worst case scenario in your head? Most husbands complaining about sexless marriages aren't leaving skid marks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:29 PM
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Why do women love sex with hot toxic assholes so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:27 PM
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So why are only women lying that they can't desire sex with someone who wronged them in some way?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:25 PM
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What are these women saying? https://preview.redd.it/34aj8ng2xouf1.png?width=1280&format=png&auto=webp&s=f2186353abd22536f6744fcc571326e0d990195f
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:23 PM
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How can these husbands in sexless marriages become more like the casual lovers?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:17 PM
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wtf does this mean? https://preview.redd.it/qpzujouwvouf1.png?width=702&format=png&auto=webp&s=ffcb3828bcdfdd28a106808b9827421997346df1
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:16 PM
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For women? Sex is a mixed bag. Giving it and taking it are very very different. With men they're not physically attracted to. With good looking, hot men, women just love sex and initiate it and need zero emotional bond and effort from
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:15 PM
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What if the guy is really tall and hot? Close your eyes and think about it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:13 PM
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I'm asking why the F it doesn't kill men's libido when they're under pressure?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:04 PM
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How does that not apply the other way round? Say a man is expected by his wife to do uneven amount of financial labor and she also does less than 50% of household work. You don't hear men in this situation stop wanting sex with her
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 02:01 PM
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How come women enjoy sex with toxic men so much then?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:58 PM
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Right, so you agree that men who aren't attractive enough to get casual sex are also unattractive to their wives?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:57 PM
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Why it doesn't create pressure for men?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:42 PM
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What do you mean "capable of sleeping around" ?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:42 PM
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Funny how some husbands say the more chores they did, the more defensive their wives got - like she sensed it was just “for sex.”
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:40 PM
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Wtf does it mean? Give me a real life scenario where the husband acts like a child
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 01:33 PM
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Because not being able to have sex is causing even lower self esteem than having casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/25 08:21 AM
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Why do you pigeonhole men into marriage and tell them marriage is the only way they should be able to meet their sexual needs, meanwhile women have casual sex, hookups, short term flings, FWBs, etc?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 10:25 PM
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Why is the woman always hoping for more in a sexual situationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:05 AM
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Expectation on the woman's part always ?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 01:04 AM
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There is very strong anecdotal evidence. Any guy who was known to have a big dick was sleeping around and never struggling getting casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:38 AM
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You can ask any guy with big dick and he will tell you he gets casual sex easily.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:08 AM
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More options, less effort, ability to get rosters of FWBs, being the side guy, being the guy women cheat with, being offered sex, being passed around by women, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/10/25 12:08 AM
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The value of sex is contextual If the guy is super good looking super hot, sex suddenly becomes something to throw away. If the guy is normie mediocre in looks it becomes the most valuable thing and he has to earn it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 10:44 AM
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Then why arent you having casual sex with him? Why does he need to form a relationship first and put a ton of effort unlike the hot guys you fucked casually?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 05:19 AM
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Because today, women are only approaching a handful of top tier hottest men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/10/25 03:14 AM
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We hear a lot from them here - guys who opine at length about how it's perfectly reasonable to want a wife with no experience, so she won't compare his dick unfavorably to someone else's, while also opining that men need casual sex. Why would a woman who has had lots of casual sex with good looking, hot, sexually gifted, charming men marry a man who is mediocre and inadequate in all those areas? Do you see how your statement is redundant? Why would such a situation even arise in the real world?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:27 PM
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I'm asking you a simple question; Why do guys with big dicks get casual sex so easily?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:22 PM
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If he can't get it it means he's unattractive and inferior. Why would a hedonistic woman marry an unattractive inferior man?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:20 PM
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They might be married, foo I'm asking how many of them are married to good-looking, hot, fuckboys and chads who were as promiscuous as them if not more?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:19 PM
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I assume that men with big dicks are more likely to be confident because of how men view men with big dicks. You women are really living in your own universe and come up with the most asinine take on sexual marketplace. Men with big dicks are confident because of how women REACT to big dicks. Women are way way more likely to offer of casual sex if the guy has a big dick
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 11:16 PM
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See, how normal and prevalent casual sex is
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:29 PM
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But these liberal men didn't have fun years of their own. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:28 PM
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But he can't have his own experimentation, hedonistic phase?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:27 PM
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All those former party girls end up marrying the extroverted, fun, handsome guy. Would strongly disagree with this one. Majority of promiscuous slutty girls are not ending up marrying the hot fuckboys.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:26 PM
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Are you married or intend to marry in future?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:24 PM
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Not necessarily Women who are apparently monogamous today were free in the past
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:23 PM
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If you don't like casual sex, then you have sex for the emotional bond or some other bullshit.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:12 AM
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Why aren't those men offered sex just like men with big dicks are? A big dick is a selling point in the casual sex market Why isn't a small / average dick a selling point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:09 AM
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Why does it help the guy who puts 8 inches? Is it because women aren't attracted to dicks unless they are big?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:08 AM
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Having an average pussy, ass, boobs are a selling point. Why isn't an average dick appealing to women?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:06 AM
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Why can't men with smaller dicks get casually laid as easily as guys with big dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 09:05 AM
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What about women that like small / average dicks? Why aren't they on social media talking about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:29 AM
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Then why don't I get zero likes from women on hookup apps if I mention I have 5.5" but the guy who mentions 7.5" gets 100s ?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:29 AM
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Then why do women who have casual sex get offended that they are beneficiaries of men's pathetically low sexual standards?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 05:27 AM
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Most men dont have casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 03:06 AM
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Other guys are nowhere near as prolific and only appealed to certain women. Big dick guys have universal appeal in promiscuous women Why? Also, big dick alone is a selling point. A woman will find out this guy has a big dick and will reach out to him. Why is average sized dick not a selling point?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 02:17 AM
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Why is average sized penis small to women who have casual sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:58 AM
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Then why are men with big dicks so sought out by women and they can get laid on demand? I have known guys with big dicks who ended up fucking ALL women in their circles as women gossiped about them
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:21 AM
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Go through the comments
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:19 AM
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Why are average women objectified but not average men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:19 AM
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When you want casual sex, what dick size do you want ideally?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:17 AM
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Why do women with small breasts get 1000s of sexual offers on dating apps then?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:17 AM
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Its EVERY woman who likes CASUAL SEX Its not that hard to understand
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:16 AM
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Average women get 1000s of sexual offers on dating apps. Average men get zero
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:16 AM
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Average is 5.5 and its considered small by every women who likes casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:15 AM
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I'm talking about women who want sex for the sake of sex. Can you wrap your head around that concept?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:14 AM
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When you want casual sex what size do you find the most appealing?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:06 AM
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Every woman who likes casual recreational sex, hookups, FWB prefers gymbros. Why is that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:05 AM
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Is there any woman on the planet who likes casual recreational sex, hookups, FWB and likes smaller dicks?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:03 AM
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Because women who don't have those traits still get laid easily. Men with average sized dicks dont get laid easily
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:02 AM
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Because EVERY woman who likes casual sex, hookups, recreational sex wants big dicks
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:01 AM
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I have 5.5" fully erect and thickness is kinda in the middle Literally every woman I've asked (including hookers) have said it is kinda small. You can literally show a fully erect average sized penis to a woman who has had many partners, who has casual sex and she will be "meh" about it. Real life is very different than Reddit. Specially if you're in a casual hookup scene, kink community you immediately get the feeling that every woman is after big dicks. Every guy with a big dick is sought afte…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/25 01:00 AM
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So if its not a bad thing then you agree women are immensely privileged compared to men since they can get casual sex so easily despite being mediocre
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 01:23 AM
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So below average, over weight, dumpy women are more desirable than below average, over weight dumpy men?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:11 PM
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What does this mean then? <image>
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 08:10 PM
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Why are so many women having casual sex then? Just read the comments and you'll find so many women talking about casual sex like it isn't a big deal. More young women than men engage in casual sex. Why? If casual sex is so risky, we should have a very small number of outlier daring women who have lots of casual sex and a much larger number of men getting some action.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/25 01:52 AM
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How the fuck do below average, short obese old women get casually laid left and right, if men are also equally shallow? Why do only men need to be good looking, tall, fit, charming to have casaul sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:58 PM
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So only the hot guys can get casual sex. The rest of us are limited to getting laid in relationships only Meanwhile, you women get both options
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:57 PM
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ALmost every woman irl also says the looks benchmarks for casual sex, hookups, FWB are a lot higher than marriage. Having seen women's dating patterns around me, their fuck buddies and hookup guys were almost always more attractive/hotter than the men they ended up marrying. Its an unmistakable pattern, specially if you look at non white women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:48 PM
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Lol, ok. Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:41 PM
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who are these women? https://imgur.com/a/womens-casual-partners-are-way-more-physically-attractive-sexually-superior-to-long-term-partners-husbands-latter-are-inferior-arent-attractive-enough-recreational-as-evidenced-from-responses-TViyiCJ
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:38 PM
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So some men are not hot / good looking enough for casual sex but can be considered for a long term relationship if they put in enough effort?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:36 PM
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In open relationships, its the woman who's fucking around while the man is usually the Nesting partner who barely gets action with other women on the side unless he's good looking. The gender power imbalance in poly community is absolutely insane
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:34 PM
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They might be super good looking outlier men. Most men have to curate their lives and personalities around getting casual sex to get lucky every now and then. Women can be ugly obese old boring and still laid left and right without second thought.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:32 PM
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Weird. Most men I know who are dating or married absolutely care about sexual past No guy I know wants to wife up a former slut
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:31 PM
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Because you are privileged as a woman and can compartmentalize casual sex and relationships. Men need to be exceptionally good looking, hot, superficially charming to get casual sex so their ability to get casual sex gets tied with self worth. Women can be ugly obese old and still get fucked left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:29 PM
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Men need to be focused on casual sex to get casual sex. As a woman you can get casual sex like its second nature. Why is it so hard to understand this?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:27 PM
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Those are MARRIED couples, doofus Will you stop bullshitting. We are not idiots and wont let you conflate married men with fuck buddies Tell me about your fuck buddies
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:24 PM
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Why do you need "EFFORT" from some men but not others? Like, you're either attracted or you're not, right? Why the fuck do you need effort if you already know who you want to fuck and who you dont?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:22 PM
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Below average looking and ugly women don't have casual sex with their looks matches. Its common knowledge. Women who are 2s and 3s have casual sex with guys who are 6s are above.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:20 PM
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Why the fuck are the looks, height, youth, body, hotness benchmarks for the fuck buddy way higher than for marriage?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:13 PM
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Because she's dishonest and desperately wants to gatekeep the discussion on casual sex. She thinks casual sex is an immense privilege that only women and super hot men should have and the rest of men should only strive to be supportive long term providers and husbands to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:12 PM
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You know its such a fucked up mindset that you women have. You will never hear a man say "I can fuck hot girls quickly, but with average looking girls, I require a lot more time and effort from them before fucking them"
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:08 PM
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Good looking, broke men are fucking women left and right
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:04 PM
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Old grandmas have 1000 offers to casually fuck on Tinder from young men in their 20s How is that possible?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:02 PM
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If you, as a woman, uphold a system of elitist sexual hierarchy where men must be exceptionally attractive to get casual sex, while women can be mediocre in every way and still find sex partners easily, why would you expect men - who are already sexually marginalized - to not care about the sexual history of the women they want to marry, given that marriage or long-term relationships are often their only viable options?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/25 11:01 PM
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