Flaming_S_Word Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	How do you sleep with multiple women without feeling guilty? If you are casually fucking multiple women A. Without explicitly discussing your intentions to do so BEFORE she gets in your bed, and B. while having a sense that she really is looking for commitment, Then I'd say you SHOULD feel guilty, that's healthy. It's be sociopathic not to. Lots of women are traumatized by fuckboys who feign sincere interest. Their insistence to do so is at once, understandable (as men most of us are invisible until we earn sexual respect, and it's intoxicating) and yet i…	/r/seduction	23/07/26 07:29 PM
2	Do you think women that want casual relationships are a minority? It's regional and trained. If they're in SF and see all their girlfriends are boss bitches with casual poly BFs, they'll 'want' the same. After a few years of psychological burnout they'll often realize that was a mistake and go back to prioritizing commitment. Particularly once they're losing options (aging etc)	/r/seduction	17/07/26 06:08 PM
46	Is the life of promiscuity worth it? Hedonic pursuit is not the mark of a fulfilled life. This sub pushes back against sexual exclusion and frustration with game - plausible deniability and display of selective cues to build emotional response and optionality. It doesn't make the women involved better people - but until society teaches women to protect themselves this decay will continue regardless of your personal decisions. But rather than game (endless and exhausting - wouldn't you prefer more time for other skills?) you might b…	/r/seduction	12/04/26 09:57 PM
0	Why is getting into a relationship significantly easier than finding a hookup. It's all stories we tell ourselves. IME girls' bar for relationships is higher than for hookups - and they'll give you more (but expect more). Don't believe all the nonsense on here about making a life goal out of racking up notches. If you find a good girl who's interested in committing, you can escape the rat race. It's all perspective.	/r/seduction	18/03/26 03:27 PM
2	How to handle girls shoving their ass into me at the club ngl first time a girl grinded on me I laughed out loud and stopped dancing. Had NO clue what the protocol was. Poor girl.	/r/seduction	11/03/22 11:40 PM
1	[deleted by user] This will get lost in the comments, but: Social Momentum, and Social Proof. Social Momentum = Talk to anyone. 'Flirt' with everyone. Guys, girls, doesn't have to be pretty. Be silly, friendly, simple. "oh nice shirt dude", "smile Hi I'm flaming_s_word, what's your name?" You'll feel safer, they'll smile, you'll smile, you'll start to feel like you belong more. As you feel that, confidence goes up, you stand straighter, you're having a better time. Social Proof = As girls start to see you being f…	/r/seduction	19/01/22 07:30 PM
20	On average, how many women do you sleep with in a year? Username checks out	/r/seduction	27/12/21 06:54 AM
17	I’ve built up enough resentment for at least two lives through texting We all feel the sting of rejection, dude - And yes, it sucks. Not saying this is for everyone, but what helps me is expecting most matches to fail at each step. Totally a numbers game. This removes the soul-crushing 'personal failure' aspect for me, because it's just how the game goes. Less sting. Initial swiping? If I work up my profile and photos nicely, MAYBE I'll get 10% matches. (With a low effort profile I am not attractive enough to get more than 2-3% matches.) First message I send? 30% m…	/r/seduction	06/12/21 06:02 PM