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Flamingo-Remarkable/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 07:43 PM
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Flamingo-Remarkable/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 03:27 PM
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Yes. In post-modern times, it seems we've rediscovered how to weaponize hate and fear with a vengeance! And this time of course with the power of social media and smartphones around.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/25 05:56 PM
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Is that a real thing? I mean, in straight guy scenario, obviously.
/r/ExRedPill11/11/25 05:51 PM
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Go and try to realize a "life" with your appliance then. Try to "grow" as a "human" being as you relate to it and it to you. Try to "learn" what "love" really means. Try to make it last. Try to resist the temptations of wiping its memory clean and installing a new personality subroutine when you get disappointed with it, that sure will do you a lot of "good" and provide some "betterment" of your soul. Try not to treat it as a piece of plastic and metal when you're not in the mood, just because y…
/r/ExRedPill24/10/25 01:35 AM
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and LOL, I get a boner when I see that a new Dremel brochure is available! I guess no need to ask my doctor about that 😂😂
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 04:56 PM
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It's sickening... The very thought turns my stomach. And it would be the same the other way around(if women wanted the same). We didn't evolve to mate and bond with our creations, but to each other. And I'm not even a believer.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 04:38 PM
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What about love? Care? Companionship? Get it from other men? Wouldn't it be better for them to be born gay? 😂😂 -- Edit: So to make things clear, I go to bed with man as well; There's no extra bless in a same sex relationship, except perhaps logistical advantages; All the rest is the same.
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 03:53 PM
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By the way, that guy was all in Nofap as well... I mean, like, aren't they all(the RP bros)? 😂 -- Does it even make sense? They say Porn = Poison, and they want a pro next gen version of it? Do we even expect to get coherence out of them at this point?
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 03:49 PM
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Understand that some red pill influencers will teach potential recruitees that it's essential to lie about their views, especially if they are not financially independent yet, or even in order to keep a job or a public image for instance, so you are correct not to take what he tells you when "pushed" at face value. Unfortunately recruiters are getting better at recruiting and they've realized that it's during the first stages of conversion that they are more likely to lose someone "back to the m…
/r/ExRedPill23/10/25 02:00 PM
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Have you ever, in your young and naive days, met a girl who.... Not really, coz I'm gay. That being said... I met a guy once who was like that, he was my first, he was the one..., but he never left me coz he found a better listener, he left me coz he wasn't ready to live out of the closet. He'd rather go back to a life of pretending with a woman. I don't hate her. I just pity her. I know the kind of trouble she is in, sure he 'snaps' from time to time and seek guys out for sexual pleasure. And a…
/r/ExRedPill16/04/21 04:55 PM
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and nothing is more engaging than love turned to hatred. Now he is mgtow because he hates, and he hates because he loved. He says mgtow helped him to get over it, but the feedback loop is evident to whom pays attention.
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 09:02 PM
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He was raised in a catholic conservative family, but so was I. He has daddy issues, but so have I. That alone does not explain it. I have been brokenhearted before several times, and yet here I am, ready for the next round. I outshine him easily however in education. Not only that kind of education, the one you receive in school or college, but the one you cultivate yourself. I was always into science and philosophy, history and religion. I'm hardly influenced, while he is easily. He's always la…
/r/ExRedPill11/04/21 08:51 PM
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hahahaha! But that had a happy ending... (until Episode III at least...)
/r/ExRedPill10/04/21 09:36 PM
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I see we are on a similar path, though for different reasons. I see you like to read and educate yourself. That is amazing. A good repertoire and intellectual baggage will never fail you. You can lose a lot of things in life, but your knowledge and integrity won't leave you. That's something no one can take away from you.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 07:43 PM
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Man! Thanks for sharing this. As I said before on other posts, I'm not here because I'm an ex-RP nor am I at risk of becoming RPled myself. I'm a gay male. I'm here to learn and try to help some of my straight friends, some of whom went too deep in the RP rabbit hole. I empathize with them as much as possible, I engage in conversation, I try to understand their points of views and perspectives. Sometimes certain things enrage me, but I'm only human. I already feel I planted some seeds of reason …
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 05:11 PM
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thanks, I'll watch it as soon as today's schedule allows.
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 09:53 AM
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YW! I wish I had this kind of awareness when I was 24. But no... I was so arrogant and self-centered.... Too sure of myself to doubt my own preconceptions of anything. I suffered too much because of that. People saw me as child prodigy and latter on as a boy prodigy and finally a very bright young man, therefore I was spoiled. There was so much outside validation that I never took the time to doubt myself. In my late 20s things were going south for a while, so I took the courage to seek professi…
/r/ExRedPill05/04/21 09:49 AM
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Depending on what you mean by "under fire". We cannot attack it head on, it will only make red-pillers more entrenched and reactive. I don't have the magic solution, but I believe all out war is a bad idea.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 11:09 PM
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I've read your post. congrats! You are really on a good path towards emotional awareness. You have already fought uphill battles and won. You have already realized for instance, how your mind can play tricks on you and how to hack your way around it, how human cognition is sometimes flawed, and how we need to pay constant attention to this fact. You make a fine addition to this group, and I hope you're here to stay. Many young men can benefit from your knowledge, patience and experience.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 10:56 PM
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Post-modern ideologies are as fascinating as they are damaging. Post-modernity itself is fascinating! Even as I hate being all the time subject to it's products. If I had the chance, I'd research RP in an academic framework as well. Once the job is done, countless people can benefit from the results, including future mental health professionals.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 10:41 PM
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but I still feel like my mind is still poisoned by this red pill mindset. https://www.reddit.com/r/exredpill/comments/mgjhtl/this_video_resonated_with_me/ Maybe this post can be of some help.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 03:23 PM
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you hit rock bottom in some form or the other with your life, that's when you start living. Yes, failure, not success humanizes people. I can't remember who said that first, but must have been someone very smart. TRP does not focus much on the internal experience of coming to terms with your emotions and strengthening them. It sees vulnerability as a thing to be avoided like the plague. Yes, actually, recently some guy was mad on this subreddit asking around why we so often recommend therapy, co…
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 03:13 PM
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If that's true, they're taking advantage of people's disabilities to grow their ranks. I'm disgusted.
/r/ExRedPill04/04/21 10:12 AM
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It seems to me it's already too late. When he's calling you "simp" for instance, in his mind there's already a wall between you and him. He's "awake" to the "truth" and you're not. However not everything is lost, the only way to work this out is a long-term strategy. Access to this subreddit and people on it is an invaluable resource. Read, read and read, learn, learn and learn. My RP friends are not impervious (at least not yet) to external rationale, and I'm using it as part of my arsenal, and…
/r/ExRedPill03/04/21 06:10 AM
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If you want to keep an analogy true to 'The Matrix' the RP movement is actually more akin to the Blue Pill offered to Neo. It's an easy way out of reality. It's a belief system that will keep you "out of harms way", you avoid/minimize contact with women, downplay their importance and preach having a relationship with one is the last thing you want coz it will end up badly. The world is not an easy, safe nor fair place to be. The true Red Pill is to face reality, try and get involved, fail, be hu…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 07:07 AM
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Coz there are actual people that have studied mental health for years and are more qualified than people on the net to help you? It's the same think as asking "Why most people take their cars to a workshop instead of fixing it themselves?" -- Yes there are people who can fix their own cars, but most will make a mess of it or will not even know where to start.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 04:26 AM
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Therapy does not make other people respect you or to give you basic decency. With therapy you work on you, not on others. Are you sure you tried it for years?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 04:22 AM
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And you should move away from people that call you the F word for not harassing women. I don't like to use terms like "toxic this, toxic that", but I think it applies here. If you could see with my eyes, it would look insane to even stay in touch with such fellas. You may need better company and better friends, or/and the ability to strongly assert yourself against such kind of thing.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:51 AM
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I'm not sure I get you. What I mean here was an example of how there are people that are sexually unreachable/unavailable to us, and that's just OK. I enjoy their company just as much. I care for them just as much. And also that there are people in my universe who just don't seem to get it, just as there are people in your universe who would call you a "beta cock" for being a confidant to a female without extracting sex from her. What my gay friends mean to say sometimes is something like "...ar…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 03:41 AM
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Be careful about your self-love and self esteem. I read here something like "well... for the moment that's ok to let them verbally abuse me, as long as I learn how to be like them, then, in turn, I will not only get the girls, but I'll get to verbally abuse/talk down to others too." -- There may be also a validation issue involved.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 02:49 AM
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let me tell you, there are these cute, pretty and hot straight guys at work, at the gym, in my building in my neighborhood, they really tell me a lot, they really tell me some deep personal stuff sometimes, like their mental health stuff, how they're doing with girls, etc..... We play sports, we go out to have beers.... I don't think they'll ever have sex with me, tho I would love to have some with them, and my gay friends all keep questioning me for hanging out with those fellas, sometimes in d…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 02:32 AM
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If the RPled talk down to you like that, what further evidence you need you're dealing with a cult or a sort of religion/ideology, just like radical feminism? What else they need to do to you to make you run away from them and never look back?
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 02:03 AM
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If someone talked like that to me, I would answer: "I can't quit being a fggot, coz I'm an actual fggot. I was born one. I mean, the real deal, the real McCoy. I like man you know? I like to suck dcks and fck ass*s." -- Now, joking aside, I would recommend lifting weights to anybody, regardless of gender and sexuality. I would recommend personal grooming as well. I would also recommend learning some seduction tricks, like these: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Tvne48F0Eqw -- Nothing out of the o…
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 01:55 AM
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I sense resentment and confusion, be careful there, we here do not pretend nor claim to have all the answers, however RP people do. If you go their cultish and ideological way and you may no be able to look back... or, when you do look back, you may already have made a mess of yourself and unable to trust people(especially women) again. You won't find any truth owners here.
/r/ExRedPill02/04/21 12:56 AM
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This is how you make reactionaries on an industrial scale. Woke people force other people to do this kind of thing, than they complain about the rise of the manosphere, right-wing populist leaders and so on.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 03:36 AM
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I think you know the kind of feminism he is talking about.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 03:31 AM
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I think you know the kind of feminism he is talking about.
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 03:30 AM
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Yes, I agree. Wanna get the MGTOW mad? Say that to their faces... Enjoy their reactions and rationale, it's quite the experience.... hahaha
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 03:29 AM
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There are some seeds that once someone has found a way to plant in you, ohh boy.... It will grow into a huge tree with deep roots like a malignant tumor. How you're going to extract it without doing further damage is the big question. He's really haunted by RP, and I feel so sorry for him. It's so evident, even tho he desperately wants a way out, he can't find his path. For what I've seen from my friends, it's easy to OD in RP stuff. Sounds like a cocaine or heroine adict begging for a way out a…
/r/ExRedPill01/04/21 03:22 AM
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I'm not accusing you of anything nor am I saying you said anything. I'm just point out that people(not necessarily you) will do it, given the chance.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 11:22 PM
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He's in a delicate position. Let's be constructive with him, shall we? Pointing fingers won't help. And I'm a latino.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 09:57 PM
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The condescending behavior.... that is just so interesting! MGTOW go almost like that "this is how they(women) work, you can't blame them for that, it's in their nature(biology)... but you must be aware of it all, if you don't they're going to bring you hell".
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 09:31 PM
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Most of the women subreddits I read give me mental health issues and insecurity about being a man, I feel like they constantly want to make me feel guilty about being a man and accepting that I am a piece of shit human. If you go full MGTOW, it will be the same but you would be the one making them feel guilty about being a woman. Do you want to be like that? I guess no. I guess you're better than that. Evidence of it is the fact you came here to open dialog before going full red pill.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 09:29 PM
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The condescending behavior.... that is just so interesting! They go almost like that "this is how they(women) work, you can't blame them for that, it's in their nature(biology)... but you must be aware of it all".
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:52 PM
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Sometimes the relationship just wasn't meant to be. What I mean by that is, it just wouldn't work. As you get mature and walk your way trough several relationships, you'll realize that in terms of satisfaction, it works more or less like a job. If it's not working, you can fool yourself and try and try to make it work, in the end it will be only hurtful to you, and you'll be wasting your time, part ways and just move to the next one. However, getting to this kind of awareness takes experience, a…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:39 PM
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Yes, I believe RP is a symptom for a problem not a cure. And if you won't treat the underlying problem as it should be, it will only get worse. Evidence to that is the amount of sheer fanaticism the RP guys are bringing to the social media platforms. That says much more about them, and their state of mind, than it does about women. And they are the whole time in denial about it. Wanna bet? Try and talk a RP friend into trying therapy and listen to what they throw back at you. In my experience, t…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:27 PM
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What I mean is, you can take the 'Alpha' thing and distort it anyway you want, use it for a whole lot of coach crap, pseudo-psychology and pseudoscience. It's the same thing people used to do with quantum physics, full of abstractions as it is by nature, one can take advantage of people's ignorance of it to profit from it or you can have people using it to explain the unexplainable and justify things to themselves, and how come you not agree? It's science, they will say, eager to throw great nam…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:17 PM
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I already have access to the Microsoft fan boys in real life for quite a long time. In virtual life, I come here to hear from the Apple fan boys. Now, that's just an analogy. But it is what happens. Also, I have access to the RP mythology as well. An access quite easy to have. In fact nowadays is quite difficult not to stumble across RP philosophy and rationalizations. Difficult it is, to stumble in something like this subreddit, witch is worth it's gigabyte size in gold, it's membership count i…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 08:06 PM
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is some Uber magic abstract thing that it isn't. Yes, so is the 'Alpha' thing.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 07:58 PM
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I've come to think that showing empathy(it doesn't matter if it is sincere or not) is a huge advantage to success with women. Being gay myself, I cannot take advantage of that of course.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 07:54 PM
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An interesting theory. Sure deserves further considerations.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 07:38 PM
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a majority of them have been emotionally burned by romantic partners and interests countless times. Bingo! That's it. But not necessarily countless times, even once can be enough, depending how big is the fall. but almost everyone in the community is a beta male, attempting to learn how to attract women The most fanatic RP guy I know, actually self identifies as a beta(whatever that means!) and is in love with pickup artistry. What bothers me is the fact that he's actually an attractive young ma…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 07:37 PM
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I actually read testimonies here of guys coming to hate their mothers and sisters because of RP. I remember a guy wrote this even was a driving force in his reasoning behind contesting the whole RP philosophy in the first place. But I do not disagree with you that loathing and contempt for women can begin at home, with you and your mother.
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 07:23 PM
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At least one RP guy that I know(the most fanatic I know, actually) has serious dad issues. The other ones may have as well, it may be just a question they haven't brought the issue up with me yet. Not every RP will tell you they're RP and then go on talking about all of their other issues as well. But take me for instance, I have dad issues as well, and I'm not RPled(maybe due to the fact I had a strong role model in my grandpa??? who knows!), in fact I never came even close to being. I'm here j…
/r/ExRedPill31/03/21 07:17 PM
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So relationships have been hard for you to find? Yes. It's frustrating. Has been for I while. What if I tell you that 10, 12 years ago, when we were all in the closet, and homophobes were everywhere, it was easier to have fun with a guy? We used webcams, internet chatrooms, SMS, payphones(as a mean to stay anonymous) and almost every weekend I managed to have a sexual encounter, either in my town, or driving a few miles to the others around it. I'm a country boy, so it took some time to get out …
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 05:20 AM
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but then again I'm pretty sure gay men swipe as liberally as straight men do. Oh yes! you betcha! after all it's the same strong stuff running in our veins (Testosterone). I'm sure it's hard to find a relationship though Yes, take that straight frustrations on Tinder and just multiply them by the amount of people that do matches on you. most of those guys probably just wanted me to be a bottom Would you be surprised if I told you that's not how it works most of the time? ;-) But back to testoste…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 03:12 AM
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But I think with the advancements of online dating and social media, women now have tons more options than before. Yes, but you see.. I'm a gay male, and dating used to be much much easier before smartphones, Instagram and Tinder. It's incredible how many issues young straight men and women face nowadays that are also issues we gay guys face. That's why I come to this subreddit and other ones that are more straight people's turves. Something is broken, and I don't know what it is yet, but straig…
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 02:29 AM
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Have you guys noticed that most mgtow are ephebophilics? They are as deep in ephebophilia as they are in pickup artistry. (at least that's what I gather)
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 01:51 AM
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I don't know how old you are, neither how old your mum is, but, older generations tend to view/caracterize/regard women as weaker more vulnerable and fragile than men. I simply do not create an argument over this with older people, it's not worth it. Do you have a sister? When you have one or more, it's not uncommon to feel overprotective of them. The same goes for daughter(s). I know my sis is quite capable of defending herself, but I'll still be overprotective of her. I remember once, we were …
/r/ExRedPill13/03/21 01:30 AM
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