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| 1 | The goal for today - approach 1 girlI have had plenty of women say exactly the opposite, usually shortly after I've hit on them in public out of the blue. Depends on the woman; depends on the man. There's a saying: "women don't hate being approached. They hate being approached badly." | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 06:22 AM |
| 1 | The goal for today - approach 1 girlI recently realised that I still have approach anxiety at a certain level of attractiveness. So, I've made it a goal that every time I go out I have to approach at least 3 girls I consider "intimidatingly attractive". Every time I do it I'm reminded that these girls are no different to other girls. The interactions aren't different, at all. It's clear to me that the fear I feel is a nonsense. The problem is that what you can realise intellectually that something is a nonsense more easily than yo… | /r/seduction | 16/05/18 06:10 AM |
| 1 | What is being needy?I generally think of it as a continuum, with being a stalker at the negative extreme. The closer to stalking your behaviour is, the needier it is. For instance, take texting. There was a stalker recently who sent 65k texts in the space of a few days to the target of her fixation. The more your actions are the actions of someone fixated on the person you're interested in, the needier they are. The trick is to want someone, but not to need them. If you want someone, it's only disappointing when th… | /r/seduction | 15/05/18 11:29 AM |
| 3 | SICK OF ITThis is very normal. It's a good thing. When it stops being scary you know you're not pushing yourself anymore and you need to go a bit further. Just remember that if you approach and you're open, smiling and calm, most people will respond positively. | /r/seduction | 12/05/18 12:04 PM |
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