Flappy44 Archive

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3	The myth that young women will lust after 45 year old men in their apparent ‘peak earning potential’ 🤪 Even the older women I know, including me, don’t want to date men our age! So many younger, hotter men are interested in older women now, so why would we settle for unappealing, limp, bitter, and no fun? And if WE don’t want the old losers (no matter how much money they claim to have), why would a woman in her 20’s want him??	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/05/21 01:03 AM
87	Why Pickmes hate FDS I’m 56 and don’t feel this way at all. Please don’t write older women off! Every older woman I know has a demanding career and is extremely strong. We grew up when sexism was barely noticed, let alone challenged. You have FDS and #metoo, all we had was our instincts and determination (which all of you have, too!). Bullying and discrimination were rampant when we grew up. Porn wasn’t nearly as ubiquitous so that was a plus. Some older women won’t understand you, but most of us will. Many of us ar…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/04/21 05:24 AM
1	Homeless men: an example of how men twist the narrative I agree with giving homeless women food but not money. Like men, the majority of homeless women panhandling on the street are mentally ill and/or addicted. I long ago decided not to enable a drug habit by giving money to anyone.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	19/04/21 06:55 AM
13	Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration date Getting older is a gift. I’m 56 and have never felt sexier, wiser, more self-aware, or more beautiful than I do now. Never had a problem finding husbands, lovers, or boyfriends and never will. The attention from men doesn’t stop at this age — if anything it increases. But men aren’t my focus the way they used to be. I am. It took time and experience to reach this level of peace, and I wouldn’t go back to my 20’s, 30’s, or even 40’s for anything. Any man who thinks you expire at 30 is a loser you…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 05:43 AM
23	Friendly reminder: we don’t have an expiration date Getting older is a gift. I’m 56 and have never felt sexier, wiser, more self-aware, or more beautiful than I do now. Never had a problem finding husbands, lovers, or boyfriends and never will, but I’m my priority now. It took time and experience to reach this level of peace, and I wouldn’t go back to my 20’s, 30’s, or even 40’s for anything. Any man who thinks you expire at 30 is a loser you wouldn’t want to date anyway. My sex drive is higher than ever and I’ve got hair to my ass. Past my prime…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	17/04/21 05:35 AM
46	You don’t know him yet! Why it’s important to emotionally detach yourself from him during the early stages of courting him Ask questions. Know in advance how much you’ll reveal and what you’ll say when asked about past relationships, your career, family, etc. Keep it light and general and listen to your body for clues about who he is. It’s a first date and he’s a total stranger. Take care of yourself. You don’t owe anyone answers, insights into who you are, or anything more than small talk for several dates at least.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/04/21 06:31 AM
31	Yes, the economy is bad. That doesn't mean you have to be a free prostitute. I’ve scrubbed toilets and cleaned motel rooms for a living and it’s honest work you’ll never look back on with shame or regret. You’ll think, I busted my ass and did what was necessary while preserving my dignity and precious body. I didn’t whore myself out to lvm. You’ll never have to worry about pics of yourself spreading around the internet or becoming part of some loser’s porn pathology. Honest work where you keep your clothes on is queen work, no matter what it is!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	01/04/21 06:38 PM
27	Women deal with so much shit I just finished watching a documentary about the Night Stalker serial killer in CA in the 80’s and also read about Charles Ng, another mass murderer from the same era. Horrifying beyond words. All I could think was, wtf is wrong with men?? Can you imagine if a couple of women teamed up to create a dungeon and kidnap whole families to torture and murder like Ng and his accomplice did? And there were countless others just like them? The outcry would be deafening. Obviously testosterone plus social…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	30/03/21 08:36 PM
69	this is such perfect advice. a man who loves you will never play games with you or your feelings, because he wouldn’t want to risk losing you. if you’re starting to question your relationship, it’s time to go. Men who string you along, lie to you, pretend to be into you, and use women are terrible, full stop.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/03/21 06:22 AM
16	Online Dating After FDS-Bootcamp I never knew there were so many ugly men in the world before OLD. Literally thousands of men and barely a handful who don’t look unstable, unemployed, creepy, and genetically inferior.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	27/03/21 05:50 AM
6	Anyone else feel like the pandemic has really given them the space to Queen it up? I think the “normal” world can be hard for many of us! Especially if we’re not extroverts. Time alone to think and plan and level up is so important.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	20/03/21 05:53 AM
32	Things men do we should start copying (alternative title: What hanging out with boys taught me) Agree with number three 100%. In my view, I don’t owe anyone directions, a hello, a response, or eye contact unless I know and trust them. Ask me for money? You might as well be speaking to a brick wall. Make a rude or sexist comment? Bounced right off me and I didn’t even glance in your direction. Strangers are no one to me and they don’t get through my personal force field unless I choose to make contact and it serves me in some way. My first priority is self-protection and personal peace. I d…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	10/03/21 06:57 AM
70	Beauty standards are a prison. To me, one of the most radical realizations I’ve ever had was that no woman needs to look beautiful, ever. I don’t care what men/society say, beauty is completely unnecessary. The more women who realize this, the better for all of us. We don’t need to be pretty to be happy, feel sexy, accomplish what we want, and enjoy our lives to the fullest. In fact, the desperate search for beauty only stands in the way.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	24/02/21 08:00 AM
8	Reminder: The Wall is a lie men desperately try to project onto women to disguise their own pathetically lackluster lives. I’m turning 56 today and I’m not even close to hitting this alleged wall. Respect and care for your body, refuse to let lvms judge you or waste your time, and I promise you’ll realize that the wall is mythical bullshit that doesn’t exist.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/01/21 07:27 AM
42	Got the proposal just shy of our 1 year anniversary! Cheers to never settling 🥂 It sounds like you’re very clear-eyed about it. I’m 55 and the vast majority of women I know in their 40s and 50s are divorced precisely because people change so much over time, when under stress, and as the honeymoon period fades. But I do think that women who follow FDS are more likely to choose wisely from the start and set strong boundaries early on, which helps give the relationship the best chance possible. Congratulations!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	26/12/20 05:00 AM
139	My marriage is coming to an end and I told my husband something today that I wish I knew years ago. And even if he does understand, he may act like he doesn’t just to keep you from “winning” or making him feel small. Most men have no idea that acknowledging and respecting boundaries is a strength, not a weakness.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	25/12/20 05:14 AM
97	When he thinks he's worth 3 minutes of orgasmless sex 🥴 : Letting him pay is about more than him paying for dinner. It has nothing to do with “equality” or “fairness” or “I make as much or more than he does.” It’s an indication of his character, financial situation, upbringing, manners, and belief in recognizing that a woman is worth respect and effort. Also, men are not expected to pay for a different outfit on every date, hair, mani/pedis, makeup, perfume, etc. When women the world over make the same amount in terms of salary AND enjoy the same power…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	21/12/20 03:41 AM
2	Has anyone told a real life friend/family/acquaintance about FDS? I’ve told all of my friends, most of whom are divorced women in their 50s. Also shared with a friend in her 30s. No qualms about telling anyone I know.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/11/20 06:49 AM