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Wait….you guys are meeting men who are charming, take good care of themselves, are responsible and have goals???? I can’t even get to that point.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/02/22 01:24 AM
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Gross. Jagger has 8 children with 5 different women. Looks like 4 of his children are the same age/older than Melanie. Barf.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/01/22 09:09 PM
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This was such a pivotal time in engineering development. It’s sad to think of what those bright and intelligent women would have contributed to engineering advancements - both in the technology itself but also in continuing to encourage and foster the development of women in the field.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 07:03 AM
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Their “memories” are often twisted reworking of reality to gaslight you into believing their version of the truth. When I had an ex do this to me, I had to work hard to maintain my version of events. His joyous occasion was my hurt, embarrassment, and pain. Don’t give this guy any attention. That’s what they want from you because attention is a type of control.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/11/21 10:20 PM
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This is a good point. When deciding to have a child with someone women should always think about the possible situation of having to raise the child alone/away from the original partner. Having a child together creates a strong link between people that you can’t always completely escape but it shouldn’t feel like you are locked into/trapped in a relationship because of the child.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:35 AM
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Thank you for typing it out even though it makes you feel ill. I firmly believe it’s imperative we share these things with each other / our community so we can see how much we relate to one another. I too feel physically ill when I think about my exes and how I allowed myself to be treated. No more.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/10/21 05:32 AM
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I truly hope each one of us can have at least one person in our lives (as well as be the person for someone else) who we know we can call, no questions/judgements who can come help us if we called on them in a situation like this. No “you’ll work it out”, no “these thing happen” just “I’m here for you, I’m on my way, do what you need to do to be safe, I’m coming.” We have to creat safe spaces for each other to say and hear these cries for help.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/09/21 05:47 AM
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Jamie from Outlander
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 12:56 AM
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Ugh yes. In a relationship with an MVM and am really struggling with my current feelings on the relationship.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/07/21 10:11 PM
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I’ve personally experienced this mostly from overweight/unfit men. Like, dude - I’m at a healthy way and actually pay attention to how I fuel my body - you just sit around getting fatter and fatter and have no idea about nutrition/calories.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/07/21 04:07 AM
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Yup! For some people marriage is a protection, for others it will be a liability.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/07/21 03:28 PM
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I find this adorable AND I’m jealous! :-)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/07/21 10:23 PM
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Ugh I was just chatting with my best friend about what o could have achieved in life without the 10K hours spent thinking about boys/men that didn’t even care about me. And now I spend time thinking about al that time I spent thinking about them!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/07/21 04:17 PM
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The mistakes!! I’ve literally had to convince myself it’s ok for men to fail. It’s not my responsibility to make sure they have their sh*t together.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:14 AM
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Excited for this podcast!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 10:53 PM
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It’s funny because I used to have the perspective that these standards were “high maintenance” when in fact they reflect general decencies of life and good relationships. That term has been twisted to categorize completely rational standards into over the top expectations.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:58 PM
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Thank you for sharing. In my maybe 6mo here, this is the first time I’ve seen someone admit their own porn addiction. Reading all the post about porn sickness made me ashamed to admit that I had my own issues with it, and I’ve been able to nearly completely move away from it. I know that we as women aren’t exempt from having to work on things about ourselves but this topic felt especially taboo to discuss given attitudes towards it expressed on this sub (which I do agree with).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/03/21 02:54 PM
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I’m learning more and more about how we as women tear each other down rather than lift each other up, and this type of language is a good example. I’ll admit I’ve said this about other girls/women without considering their personal past experiences with men that grossly neglected, abused, and let them down.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/03/21 04:18 PM
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Yeah, when a relationship ends, it’s ok to let yourself grief the loss of the truly nice parts of a person and partnership. From what you described the relationship itself was not the best one for you to flourish in as a person. Grieve and then grow, and as you start to see parts of yourself blossom from the freedom, you’ll appreciate all that you are gaining.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/03/21 04:24 PM
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This is so true. I feel like I’m getting better at the part about demanding what a deserve, but being able to walk away? Starting by doing so in little bits by reclaiming my physical and mental energy for things that don’t have to take that from me. If someone doesn’t get the hint there, then it’s time to walk away from it all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 06:50 AM
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Thank you for articulating this. The amount of mental and physical energy I except in a relationship pulls so much from my personal potential. I look back at my “best” years personally and professionally and realize it was because I only had myself and my goals to focus on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/03/21 05:55 AM
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Yes. One of the most important things my mother ever instilled in me was to protect yourself financially (and this came from a woman in GOOD relationship with a HVM (my dad)). You never can know what might happen and she made sure to learn business skills and set aside her own money and make Investments for her future. As I’ve gotten older I’ve realized what a gift this lesson was. No one (thru malice or thru fate) can take what I’ve worked for.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/21 06:01 AM
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Yes! I recently poured (lol I initially spelled it “poored” which is also sadly and technically correct haha) my life savings into my little house and it has given me the greatest relief. No relationship can take this from me. And if one day I do decide to purchase a home with someone, I am not selling this house to help. This is my guarantee that I have a place to live in my hometown for the rest of my life if I want to - or I can sell/rent it and do whatever else I want to do with my life.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/12/20 03:08 PM
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And today there are still many women in less secure /lucrative careers that rely on a husband’s job for their own health insurance. That’s wild to me that if a someone had an underlying health condition they might risk staying in an terrible and potentially abusive relationship for the health benefits. Universal healthcare will help free this segment of the population.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/11/20 06:59 AM
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