FlareGER Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
134	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes.		FlareGER	/r/seduction	06/01/19 09:55 PM
8	Can't tell if she's interested, mind to advice?		FlareGER	/r/seduction	02/04/19 01:05 PM

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1	How much do you spend on dates? Big no. Ive had so many first dates that I can guarantee you that the best first date is not sitting In caffee or anything else. The best first date is to go for a walk. You can grab an ice or coffee to-go at some point, but, if things are going great, you usually don't need to. In that case you should split the bill. That will show if she is interested in a second date not for the money. Then, you can choose to invite.	/r/seduction	13/08/20 09:10 AM
1	How to find easy women? I don't mean to hurt anybody, but it's a fact. Most men/women on the fat side, ugly face side, or depressive side, are easier. If you can cope with that and not feel bad, then thats what you want. I personally wouldn't. And I'm not advicing you to go for this.	/r/seduction	09/10/19 08:49 AM
1	Do you know your partner's N count? You know, I have had just a hand full of partners. In general, I think from myself that I know what girls want - and am able to find out if I don't. Simply a good feeling of reading females bodies. Because of that and because of the extremely confident and open minded way I am, people assume that I've got a lot l, like really a lot of partners. Which isn't true. To questions of friends I do neither answer with yes nor no. This usually makes them think it is a "yes", but it's just their assumptio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	27/08/19 04:21 PM
1	Can't tell if she's interested, mind to advice? I don't think you've read through the thread updates or my other comments, which is fine, and I still agree that you aren't wrong. However, I don't get why you're getting so upset about it / writing in a kind of aggressive tone. The time I've invested in writing to this girl is almost zero. In fact, I may have spent at least ten times as much time replying to a few of these threads comments analizing people's opinion on the situation to take feedback and improve my game.	/r/seduction	03/04/19 03:24 PM
1	Can't tell if she's interested, mind to advice? That's kind of similar to my thoughts as well. I'm on a gym break though because of a hurt knee. But I indeed have planned something else to do that I can interrupt IF she shows up. Thanks!	/r/seduction	03/04/19 05:34 AM
2	Can't tell if she's interested, mind to advice? That's the kind of feedback I was hoping to find here and I absolutely agree with you. Thank you very much! When I wrote just an X, I ment I actually stated both where and when to meet. I agree on that I should've given her a little bit of freedom on that but I decided to dictate both because I have been in contact with those other 2 people and the only option for them to meet - either as 2 or as 4 - and go party after is Friday. Furthermore, I didn't want to seem like I got all days of the week…	/r/seduction	02/04/19 02:36 PM
2	Can't tell if she's interested, mind to advice? Probably! If she doesn't show up this Friday, you'll be right! I ofc won't stay around any longer. Will update!	/r/seduction	02/04/19 02:07 PM
1	Can't tell if she's interested, mind to advice? Thanks, but I have asked her out. That's not the point :)	/r/seduction	02/04/19 01:56 PM
6	Guys Who Only Hookup Rather than Date: How Do You Do It? I'm feeling you buddy, stuck in the same situation right there. Over the last decade I've been the kind of guy to end a long time relationship, claim that I'd like to enjoy the single life for a while. But every single time it took no longer than just a few days to get to know a new girl whom I'd end up in a new relationship with. Needless to say, most of them were a waste of time since we didn't take the time to know each other properly before committing. After the last one, same situation star…	/r/seduction	10/02/19 09:06 AM
2	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes. Thank you very much, you two! :*	/r/seduction	10/01/19 04:18 PM
3	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes. I believe we are just talking past each other. I have gotten your point as it has been stated before. You're right that - even if my friends had left and I initiated her being on my own - she probably noticed my female friends in an earlier moment and thus the socialization point had been established, slightly influenced her, and done things easier for me. However, I think the momentum gained from this I screwed very good up because of the long time and the many attempts it took me to actually a…	/r/seduction	09/01/19 07:12 AM
1	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes. Thanks, maybe you should've kept reading though. As I went back in to the club, I didnt' have any money left, nor any friends to make the "social status" be a thing. If you're struggling with social anxiety and autism, I'd recommend tackling on these problems in general and working on yourself. But dating is similar to swimming. You may just have to jump in to the cold water to learn. The difference is, your dad isn't going to through you in to it this time.	/r/seduction	08/01/19 07:45 AM
1	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes. Thanks for pointing that out. Tbh I know they could've been a big support. Specialy one of the friends I was with, was quite big on height, confident and experienced. But I prefer to do things myself, or I'd probably think I don't deserve it.	/r/seduction	08/01/19 07:40 AM
1	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes. Thank you. Odds are size may have had some influence indeed. I'm barely 5'8" but this girl is also maybe just 5'4". But I can also tell you I've had quite a few girls that were way bigger than me. I don't struggle being extremely confident, it's usualy the first step that I struggle with where my heart beat goes crazy. On the other hand, I also know friends that don't mind approaching girls, but get all sweaty right after and screw themselves up overthinking about what to say.	/r/seduction	08/01/19 07:38 AM
1	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes. Really sad to hear it didn't work out, but I'm proud of you! You'd be thinking about her and not having taken the chance by up until these days! GG	/r/seduction	08/01/19 07:31 AM
1	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes. Germany, somewhere in NRW! :) In the bigger cities, there will be at least one bus passing by an hour. In small towns, you're screwed up like anywhere else though :)	/r/seduction	08/01/19 07:28 AM
5	Here's what I learned last night: JUST DO IT, even if you don't have what it takes. Thanks for the kind words friend! I don't mind the quantity, I just hope I don't let the one slip through ;)	/r/seduction	06/01/19 10:43 PM
1	DM a girl with mutual friends on FB in new city advice? The good thing of Facebook is, you constantly get people shown that "you may know". You can always say she was shown in that list and the name caught your attention :) to click on and look at her profile isn't stalking ;)	/r/seduction	06/01/19 09:57 PM
2	I need your help guys... This. You've stated yourself everything relevant. You know, she knows, she still there. There is nothing but yourself preventing you from moving forward.	/r/seduction	06/01/19 09:05 PM
2	Where are some good places I can go solo and have a good time? Honestly I moved to a new town and that's what I did: I looked on Facebook for a town-group and asked if someone in my age range was up to going out and making new friends. That's absolutely it. You get to know new people. Maybe cool. Maybe friends. Maybe not. But you end up going out. From here, it's just a question of eye contact and moving forward to talk to girls.	/r/seduction	06/01/19 09:03 PM
1	DM a girl with mutual friends on FB in new city advice? How's your relation to said mutual friend? You could get at least basic information from him, or even a hook up in the best case. Other than that, odds are pretty slim that you "happen" to meet her. So just be straight forward and confidently tell her. You saw her profile because of mutual friends, you're new in the city and want to meet new people. She seems cool to hangout with. She'll let you know the one or the other way. Thats it bud!	/r/seduction	06/01/19 08:58 PM
3	Did this date go well last night? I'm not sure Id personally call it just a good date. As you say, things in general went quite well. At the end, you did end up making out, so there's that. If your goal wasn't to end up in bed, it was a good one. Not because of the few downsides but because of the way you talk about it, I assume there weren't too crazy vibes in the air. You just went good along. How things actually develope you will obviously know within the next date or the time you're apart. Your best choice is to give it a chance and see …	/r/seduction	06/01/19 08:53 PM
1	What do you respond when she asks you about your relationships Ahh should've stated this, haha. Well, let her take guesses, argue on these guesses to see what's her opinion / reaction on certain things (f.e. what if you had hundreds or what if you're virgin). If you like what she says you may reward her with vague tips. But even if youre virgin, behave confidently although without lying	/r/seduction	25/11/18 08:55 PM
1	What do you respond when she asks you about your relationships Well you're not telling her for a reason. Probably because you two are not that close to each other yet. That's something quite private that you don't walk around telling everyone. Eventually you will tell her when more trust has been established. ^ this	/r/seduction	25/11/18 08:47 PM
0	U.K.) what’s did she mean by this? That's not what I ment. It's impossible to determine if it was good or bad since you didn't get all context.	/r/seduction	13/08/18 02:00 PM
0	U.K.) what’s did she mean by this? It kinda doesn't make much sense to me. There was probably either other relevant content which you didn't mention or notice, or she just attempted to express something in a bad way, probably because of the alcohol. The moment is gone, don't think about it too much ;)	/r/seduction	13/08/18 01:56 PM