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They're based around "implicit self esteem" with a total sample size of less then 400 men between all 5 studies combined. What is implicit self esteem you ask. Well assumptions based on subjective opinions of ones facial expression made by the researchers when a word pops up on screen.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:38 AM
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in one experiment, 32 couples from the University of Virginia were given what was described as a “test of problem solving and social intelligence” and then told that their partner scored either in the top or bottom 12 percent of all university students 32 Couples sample size Participants were also given a test to determine how they felt subconsciously about Study claims they read people thoughts. Truly insane. My god you're grasping a straws.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:27 AM
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Stats don't lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 09:19 PM
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You pulled post from a subreddit/Rollo then acted as if it's the bible for TRP. It's not. Most RPers will tell you that most men are inherently good because if men weren't mostly inherently good societies laws would reflect that.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:55 PM
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Self own. Women commit lots of rape of men, using the same methods. The target is too young or too drunk. It just gets redefined as "made to penetrate" or "other sexual violence" and then not prosecuted nearly as harshly or in most cases at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:42 PM
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Anyone that's truly RP wouldn't refer to themselves as RP. That's not RP that's Feminist blue pilled standpoint theory. Hench why all the blue pilled women agree with you and all the RP flared men don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:23 PM
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Hating individual other men =/= the same as hating men as a group. The later is Misandry the former isn't. Most Laws and Social standards are made by politicians who for the past 50+ years in the west have been pandering to the majority female voter base, their made by men that are doing what women want them to do. You're shifting the blame. WAWE has been study to death across many cultures and the results are pretty clear. Roughly 70% of women have an in group bias, roughly 25% aren't biased an…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:01 PM
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I don't really see this. But women are the limiting factor in reproduction. If women don't have kids then their aren't new human beings. Society can exist without the majority of man have kids it just requires polygamy. The inverse is that men who are weak/cowardly get stigmatized more then women who are weak/cowardly
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:50 PM
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Financially stable. 6 figure-salary. What discussion is needed?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 03:17 PM
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How would you feel if you didn't have breakfast today?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:07 PM
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Most guys think this because it definitely correlates. Also, even if they're not drama queens, the mere existence of their "hobbies" is a source of the drama. It's general more expensive to do A, so more financial stress, it's more time consuming to do A so higher maintenance.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 05:00 PM
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B. Easy A. is drama waiting to happen.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:43 AM
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"Egalitarian" doesn't mean equal. Pew has relationships that are 70%/30% as "Egalitarian" even though in a 70/30 relationship the 70 is making more then twice as much. 2/3rds of the "Egalitarian" have a higher male earner. Not everyone that wants to get married gets married. Divorce rates are also higher in "Egalitarian" Marriages.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:10 AM
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These are self reported stats. Women also self report that they take twice as long to cook as men do according to what you cited.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:01 AM
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WTF did i just read?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 07:13 AM
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You're right i guess white women are just better human beings than other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:57 PM
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DEI is just racism/sexism justified. DEI is a push for White Women since they will benefit from a being a women but be discriminated against for being white. Not everyone is a single issue voter.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:15 PM
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TDL Sexism is good. Men don't need to "develop" an in group bias. That's not the problem. Women need to drop theirs.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:33 PM
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No what you don't understand is Men as a group also care about BOTH Men and women, where Women as a group right now only care about women Example 1 DEI is anti male. Men voting for fairness and their benefit at the same time Example 2 They shouldn't be, this is a good thing. Stop voting for your ingroup and start voting for society as a whole. Example 3 Trump is pro school choice and giving more power to the states. The "war on boys" in education is largely misleading because it only exist in pu…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 06:24 PM
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LMAO AI If i make study and it defines Lead as a type of Apple. Then i come to false conclusion that eating Apples causes lead poisoning then my study is flawed trash. Similar if i make a study to determine which gender has high rates of NPD then i ask questions that aren't relevant to NPD like ones that measure sympathy levels, then my study is flawed trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:31 AM
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-Research shows that individuals with NPD often have cognitive empathy (they understand what others feel) but lack affective empathy (they don’t care about those feelings) (Giacomo et al., 2023). That's the best self own i've seen in awhile. That's not a lack of "affective" empathy. Not caring isn't the same as not having ability to feel. Yet the research your citing is acting like it is. You're doing the thing right here, that's refusing to have sympathy not lacking Affective Empathy. Because o…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:27 AM
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Women were allowed to have jobs 100 years ago. You get real.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:51 PM
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You can have affective empathy and say mean things. These aren't mutually exclusive. The definition of NPD here is a politicized definition. 1 it's a misnomer, 2 they redefine empathy to mean sympathy knowing full well Empathy=/=Sympathy and men show less sympathy. This is done specifically to fall in line with Feminist Patriarchy theory. I gave you my grounds for it. The definition of Empathy they use is bullshit. It's completely backwards and ACTUALLY a sign of Vulnerable Narcissism. If you st…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 06:43 PM
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Great so NPD is a misnomer glad you agree with me. People can factually know and feel how other feel, both forms of empathy and still "Say things that might hurt others" these aren't mutually exclusive. This renders almost all research on the topic is moot because the methodology is flawed. The DSM is highly political. The data is garbage because the methodology is trash.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 07:20 AM
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Men and women aren't the same. That's not "Patriarchy" that's reality. You can ignore it, it won't ignore you I think this a bit of a strawman. Never heard a RPer say for who to not care about Career or education, just that family should be put first for women. When you look at the facts and stats on this it's really hard to argue against it. Men and women are biologically different. Women's fertility drops steeply at 30 and becomes borderline impossible to conceive at 40+. Men's fertility doesn…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 10:58 PM
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The word Narcissism comes from the Greek fable of Narcissus. Only way you can come to the conclusion that modern women show the maladaptive traits of Narcissus less often then modern men is through flawed research. For example this is taken straight from the DSM V 7. Lack of empathy. Saying things that might hurt others. Seeing the feelings, needs or desires of others as a sign of weakness. Not returning kindness or interest that others show. None of these actually show a lack of empathy, they'r…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:26 PM
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That doesn't really refute what i said about what defines oneself. Virtue and behavior seems to be one of the major factors in the essence of what one is. That's not how other primates act. Primates follow the same rules as other animals, whoever takes care of the kids is more selective/pursued. For example chimps our "closest" primate relatives pair bond, the males chase status and the females chase the males with status ultimately they engage in pair bonding in which both take care of the offs…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:34 PM
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Is your "purity" not part of who you are? I can't imagine a philosophical definition of self that doesn't include ones behavior as a major part of who one is. What do you think about the whole Eggs are cheap, sperm is cheaper, time is priceless part. You claimed because Eggs are "more valuable" we are MCFC species, however in the animal kingdom in species where eggs are more valuable the female still purses when the males do the child rearing. This fundamentally defeats your entire argument abou…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:57 PM
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And, because women have the more limited valuable resource, men compete for access to women (the peacock struts for the peahen, and whoever has the biggest, prettiest feathers will be chosen). In the animal kingdom the one who raises the offspring is the one that gets "competed" for example with https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Red-necked_phalarope#Breeding The male watches the chicks and incubates the eggs and because of this the females do all the pursing. In species like Penguins that pair bond …
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 06:13 PM
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You acted like Trump cut the VAs budget he didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 09:23 AM
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https://department.va.gov/wp-content/uploads/2024/03/fy-2025-va-budget-in-brief.pdf oh look you're full of shit again Right now, the Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) is delivering more care and more benefits to more Veterans than ever before in our nation’s history, and the 2025 President’s Budget request The total 2025 request for VA is $369.3 billion, a $32.9 billion (+9.8%) increase above the 2024 He's cutting money from things like DEI programs, foreign aid and redirecting to things like …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 06:46 AM
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Speaking as a Navy Veteran it does not. In fact now that the DEI offices of the VA no longer exist the VA has 14.1 Million dollars that was going to pay for stuff like "Chief Diversity Officer" that the VA can now spend that money on other things like improving VA hospitals ect. So no in reality it's the opposite. Money being taking away from government bureaucrats and being given to programs for us Vets instead.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:47 AM
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You said illegals take bottom of the barrel jobs. They also take good jobs. Trump has done nothing to change H1B. The Dems turned their back on Unions decades ago, Trumps EOs on immigration will reduce the amount of illegals that are taking these jobs thus forcing the CEOs to hire legal employees which in the cases i was talking about would be high paying Union jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:34 AM
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I worked construction for a few years. Plenty of illegals were working jobs for subcontractors that otherwise would've been done Journeyman Carpenters, the Hourly rate Journeyman Carpenters with 5 years Experience is 64$ an hour. That's about as good as it gets for blue collar work, it's hard work but the pay is great. You should stop believing the media propaganda that's designed to benefits the CEOs and shareholders of that want to avoid paying Union wages and instead higher an illegal at 50% …
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 04:00 AM
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Yeah, it's called legal immigration, we already have that. It's definitely a bigger deal in the job market then the dating market, but let's be honest how well you're paid as a man has a big impact on your ability to date.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:45 AM
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That's because most illegal immigrants are working/dating age men, which creates and imbalanced in the male/female ratio. Illegal immigration negatively effects blue collar working age men in both the job market and the dating market. Trump position on immigration is actually really good for the "Manosphere" since the majority of them are blue collar single men.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:33 PM
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That's because this is all headcanon of the left and not something actually happening. You can see the Memo here on the official Whitehouse website. https://www.whitehouse.gov/fact-sheets/2025/01/omb-q-a-regarding-memorandum-m-25-13/ Things like Food banks, SNAP ect aren't having funds frozen. Q: Is this a freeze on benefits to Americans like SNAP or student loans? A: No, any program that provides direct benefits to Americans is explicitly excluded from the pause and exempted from this review pr…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 08:56 PM
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Those are self reported levels of having a positive or negative experience. They're subject to one's expectations, more women than men have unreasonable expectations and that is what causes women to report lower levels satisfaction with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/25 12:02 AM
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Saying The most Feminist sub wouldn't recommending cheating is an insane take. Basically all female spaces online tell women to break up, divorce men for the most trivial shit. They constantly say shit like "he must have been doing something wrong if she cheated" I read the story you're talking about it's quite far from what you said. Guy was making 100k a year with a "good personality, but tall and scrawny" when they met according to him. Not exactly a "loser" as you described. Basically the on…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/25 08:14 AM
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False dichotomy. Just because the man has the final say doesn't mean the woman is going to be making more sacrifices. But to answer your question. 1 and it's not a preference it's a deal breaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:43 PM
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You're literally just proving my point. Store brand wanting Fiji. Your level is what you can get, not what you want. Look there is definitely men that are fat, bald, short, broke, lack rizz ect, that aren't putting in the work, that are preventing themselves from getting into relationships. But women also reject men that are on their level all the fucking time. There is plenty of store brand water, you're just rejecting that store brand water because you think you deserve Fiji, but the Fiji does…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 10:32 PM
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Nah women reject good options all the time. Especially when those women make lots of money.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 08:33 PM
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Better analogy. They're both "Dying of Thirst" The woman refuses to drink the Store brand bottled water because she wants Fiji. The man is cool with drinking the Store brand, but the store brand isn't being offered to him. This causes single men to become bitter with single women because it makes them realize women's unrealistic expectations are a big part of why they are single This causes single women to become bitter with single men because it makes them feel like the single men aren't doing …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/25 07:50 PM
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Modern Marriage is nothing like the Traditional Monogamous Marriage, that Rome/Greece started 2600 years ago. Modern Marriage was designed by feminists and politicians in the 70s. Men originally benefited financial in the form of dowries paid by the wife/wives family, Socially in the form of tax benefits, voting rights, preferential treatment in employment and legally in the form of getting final say in financial decisions and getting the kids in almost every divorce. Modern marriage is just a s…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:50 PM
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Lack of quality women. Women don't think they have any duties in the relationship. Women constantly tell each other bullshit reasons for leaving marriages. Unequal divorce laws. The "best interest of the Child policy." Has nothing to do with the best interest of the child and is just a laundry list of things 1970s feminists thought would tilt child custody laws in women's favor. No real upside. Nothing you can't get from a LTR that you can from a marriage. Dowiers aren't a thing anymore, Still h…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 08:26 PM
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Every club i've ever been to in Cali or Vegas in the past 15 years.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/24 05:12 PM
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It's kinda crazy that "ladies night" is still a thing when there is twice as many women at the club.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:11 PM
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Then you should know the ratio in almost every club has more women, without ladies night. Ladies night is just a way to force men to subsidizes women's drinks.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 09:07 PM
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Tell me you haven't been to a bar or club in the past 10-20 years, without telling me.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/24 08:54 PM
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It's crazy how many people on here call Black Pill or Incel, Red Pill. Red Pill says if your low value to raise your value through self improvement. Focus on yourself and the women will come. That's what Red Pill teaches. I don't think women care as much about Money as Red Pillers do, but almost everything else they say about Height, Fitness, Status, Rizz ect is true. Red pill can lead guys into being single, but not because it makes them feel "Low value" but because it also teaches them to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/24 02:28 AM
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It's weird that i can just post a factual statement and you can respond to some tangent that i said nothing about. I didn't say good, bad or the other. i just stated what is., it's not a double standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/24 05:05 AM
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Women get pregnant men don't. It's a different standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:13 PM
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Most celebrity relationships are just fake to grow the persons celebrity. Particularly female celebs that have mostly female audiences, because they know you ladies eat the shit up.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 11:08 PM
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It's not a double standard it's a different standard. Double standards requires that the two things being compared are the same/equal. Men and woman play very different roles in reproduction and holding men and women to different standards isn't a double standard it's just a different standard. For example we treat it very different when 2 year old that hits someone than a 22 year old that hits someone. Nobody calls this a "double standard" because everyone recognizes that the 2 year is less thr…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/12/24 10:56 PM
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It's not about how the 1% of the female population lives. It's about the 70% of women that defend her.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/24 04:59 AM
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There were a few tribes in China, Africa and North America that only allowed women extra to own property, have political power ect. All those tribes had the same roles for men in terms of protection and doing the dangerous work, building ect. Effectively the men at the bottom were treated just as bad then they are now when it comes to things like being "disposable" It's not even something that's limited to humans. Bonobos are Matriarchal and they behave the same way, in terms of using males as d…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/12/24 06:21 PM
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There was a handful of societies that were Matrilineal. All those societies treated men and 100 fold more disposable then our supposed "patriarchal" one does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:40 PM
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You asked what purpose it would serve. The purpose it servers is reputation damage and deflecting accountability, i was giving examples. The point is realistically speaking the cases that don't get reported to the police are actually more like not less likely to be false and just slander/refusal to take accountability.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:27 PM
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You should stop watching anti male propaganda.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 05:22 AM
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Here's a list of reasons why women i've known in IRL lied about rape Good Christian girl wanted to call of engagement but didn't wanna be seen as the bad guy in the breakup. She told a bunch of people that her fiance raped her, but it wasn't reported to the police. He was fired from his job because he worked for someone that went church with them. It fucked up his entire life. A year later she confessed to her priest that her ex-fiance didn't actually rape her I used to work as a bouncer. Women …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:56 AM
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That would assume all cases that don't go to court are true, realistically speaking cases that don't go to court are more likely to be false. The less then 1% is a pants on head crazy number.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/12/24 04:31 AM
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The Women are Wonderful effect refers to the fact woman have a much much stronger in group bias then men. When controlled scientific tests are done Generally speaking about 70% of women show an in group bias towards women, 25% show no bias and about 5% show a bias towards men. On the flip side only about 15% of men show a bias towards men, about 70% show no bias and about 15% of men show a bias. T The Woman are wonderful effect exist because women are biased in favor of other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/24 12:07 AM
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The rates of obesity have been increasing faster for women then men since the early 2000s according to the CDC. More men are still fat now, but more men were fat in 1999 and the 1970s. Obesity rates are based off BMI, when they should be off body fat percentage, but data for body fat percentage isn't readily available. BMI is overly harsh on men being "overweight" because BMI doesn't count for muscle mass. Every single male friend/family member i know that goes to the gym would be "overweight" a…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/24 04:43 AM
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It's crazy that people can say "the truth is" then follow with a false statement and have that statement get upvoted.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/24 12:22 AM
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You missed a ton of your Duties. You need to protect him. You need to put his life above yours. You need to treat him in accordance with your religious code. You need to mow the law and do all the "masculine housework." You need to listen to all of his complaints in private and live a life where him and the childrens needs are above yours, but you have the "final" say. Also WTF is the bit about being sexual shy. It's Lady in the street, freak in the sheets. BTW i've known plenty of men that woul…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 06:44 AM
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The majority of them. Legit 70%+ that i meet treat men like lesser humans. Majority of female teachers, coworkers, teammates, classmates. They're just more blatant and open with it online, in person they lie to peoples faces, but their actions tell the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 06:41 PM
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Le supreme gentlemen was very much an incel nice guy. That's like the opposite of RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:17 PM
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Killing your wife because she doesn't wanna be "trad" isn't RP ideology. Not dating those type of women in the first place is RP.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:14 PM
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South Korea had the lowest birth rate in the world for more then a decade before a few thousand women, less then 1% of their population came up with a movement that nobody in South Korea has even heard of.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 07:31 AM
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Pew research has been keeping data on this in the US for multiple decades. Men have been consistently doing more paid+unpaid by a few hours a week for basic 50 years. There is basically no place in the world where LTR have a large discrepancy in total hours worked. It woman complaining to complain. Full stop. https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-6-time-in-work-and-leisure-patterns-by-gender-and-family-structure/
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/24 12:35 AM
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Make sense. Nah, woman like tall men. The average height of a man in the Philippines is 5'4", the average height of a man in Colombia is 5'7". The 5'10 guy in the US that goes to one of these countries just gets treated like the 6 foot 2 guy here. There is a whole bunch of other reason that i won't bother to list besides money.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 10:58 AM
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You've never actually dated women from "poorer" countries have you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:42 AM
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You're confusing being "traditional" with being a Virgin. These aren't the same thing. Actually reciprocating interest. Chasing guys in your league is traditional. Giving wifey treatment(cooking) right away is very traditional, despite what fake trad women on social media will tell you. Being feminine and not making arguments out of nothing. Not have unrealistic expectations.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 04:40 AM
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Have you watched daytime TV target towards women in the past 30 years? Have you watched daytime TV target towards men in the past 30 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:28 PM
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They aren't separate groups of people. Some people do both, some do neither, some do one but not the other. In my personal experience the women that complain the most, share the most. The more a women likes to gossip the more they like to do this stuff. The less they like to gossip the less they do this stuff. The women that gossip the most are also almost always the biggest Karens and complain about everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:25 PM
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100% agree. Based on my personal experience with male and female friends, women engage in "Locker room talk" more often, more vulgarly, in more detail and frequently lie/disrespect exes much more then men do. 14-18 Demo is probably an exception to the vulgar part.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/24 01:11 PM
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It's the default because it brings in the most taxable dollars, Not because it's fair or easy.
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:10 PM
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Male sole Breadwinner model isn't really something that existed throughout history. It's a very post WW2 1950-1960s Western culture thing. Dual income with extended family helping with child rearing has been the standard throughout most of history. The current Alimony/child support laws are a result of second wave feminism, they weren't "designed for a time where role were different and gendered" rather these laws are more recent. Historically men only needed to provide for a basic level of food…
/r/MensRights07/08/24 05:09 PM
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It's a barbaric religious practice that been passed off as something done for health.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 08:04 PM
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"They care about women being attractive" Correct. Just not the stupid stuff women tend to think about. "Fashion and makeup play a very large role in women's attractiveness" Thanks for making my point. "I do it because i want society," Correct and if you actually understood the male gaze you would understand the "unhealthy" standards are basically all pushed by women onto women.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 03:44 PM
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When's the last time you changed your boyfriend/husbands oil?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:42 PM
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It comes from idea that the "woman's chores" should be shared and the "Man's chores" are the Man's chores. The stats have shown for literally decades that on average men are doing more Paid+unpaid labor then women do. But many woman have this delusional scorekeeping mentality that frequently leads them to believe they're "doing more" https://www.pewresearch.org/social-trends/2013/03/14/chapter-6-time-in-work-and-leisure-patterns-by-gender-and-family-structure/ https://www.pewresearch.org/social-…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 09:41 PM
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So the Ratio is 4-1 for primary/sole breadwinner, after 60 years of "Equality" and you think this is evidence against "betabux" If "betabux" wasn't a thing you'd actually expect 50/50ish split.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:14 PM
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Holy shit you have zero clue what you're talking about on the Tate situation. The were literally working for him and it's one of the main accusations against him that he was paying them unfairly and taking advantage of them to make to high of a % by using the "lover boy" method.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 12:56 AM
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Why men Love Bitches is written by a 40+ year old single women that largely projects what she wants in a man as what men want. But a broken clock is right twice a day. Do say you want marriage kids ect. Don't put a timeline on it, let him lead, but make sure you like the destination. "playing hard to get" is what she wants from a man. Don't take this advice. Number 1 failure women do is not reciprocate enough. "Open jars" this kinda stuff is pedantic. Also men definitely don't like gold diggers.…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/24 10:25 AM
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https://www.statista.com/statistics/418470/number-of-perpetrators-in-child-abuse-cases-in-the-us-by-sex/ All sorts of studies been done on who abuses children and it's usually mother/father, step parent or Boyfriend/Girlfriend of mother/father. Even "Stranger" abuse normally involves teachers, camp counselors, Juvenile corrections officer. Not neighbor or friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:06 PM
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Change flair.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:58 PM
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The stats don't even support this. Stats show women are more likely to abuse children. People will tell you this is because women are around children more often. To me that's a terrible argument because me being around children doesn't make me feel like i wanna abuse them.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:54 PM
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The source of the problem in this case is women's choice in partner. It's not other men's fault that women make bad choices in partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:27 PM
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You should change your flair to blue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 05:15 PM
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Has anyone every made the argument that this wasn't case. I've only heard that men are LESS affected by it, both mentally and in the dating market.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:57 PM
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Cool story grammer/spelling police. It's not a fact that most men are addicted to porn. Estimates put that number sub 10%. The argument is about men of the past vs men of the present and women of the past vs women of the present. The discussion is in relative terms. In relative terms it's women not men who are becoming more addicted. That's the argument.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:46 PM
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You inability to except reality is comical. If the number is caused by a increase in women then, it follows MODERN women are more addicted to porn then before and men are just as addicted at their fathers were and it's nothing new. If it's caused by a decrease in men then it follows MODERN men are less addicted to porn then before and modern women are more addicted then their mothers. Either way you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 10:30 PM
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This is a myth. All the major Pornsites show Male usage declining and Female usage increasing. For example Pornhub gives end of year "stats" When they started releasing stats in 2014 it was 23% Women 77% Male. In 2023 it was 36% female and 64% male. In the US is was 15% v 85% now it's 29% v 71%. OF reported 40% of is customers are Female.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:31 AM
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When are your balls gonna drop lilbro?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 06:13 PM
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WHATABOUTTHEMENDO
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:05 PM
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We live in a cultural in which women applaud other women for doing the bare minimum. The whole "strong and independent" is just word games that make it sound like it's some sort of accomplishment.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/24 03:04 PM
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These things aren't remotely close to the same thing. Women dating "guys with potential" are still dating up 90% of the time. Women rarely "Date guys with potential" that have nothing going for them. It's usually the hot guy that doesn't have the job the woman envisioned her S/O having or the rich guy that is socially awkward or the guy in college working his degree ect. It's never the broke, fat 300 lb guy that has no rizz. Women who say "can't handle me at my worst" Are really just looking for…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:38 AM
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You're only going to be "loyal" if it benefits you in the long run. That's not loyalty.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:36 AM
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Over 25% of Marriages in the US have the Husband being older by 5years+ and the US has one of the lowest average age gaps in marriage. So yes you're wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/24 09:28 AM
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If all it took was a Sperm and an egg you'd have a point. But the reality is 18+ years of parenting is infinitely more valuable then the sperm and the egg.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:56 AM
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The irony of your post. Narcissism is the EXCESSIVE admiration of oneself. If you're a 50% woman and think you're deserving a LTR with a 20% man you're a narcissist. The problem is you're ALSO unattractive but your narcissism doesn't allow you to see that.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 08:53 AM
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You fricking destroyed those strawman.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 12:29 PM
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Guy like 90% of SA involves the victim being a child/teen or being black out drunk/drugged. The whole getting SA at knife point just isn't really a thing. He's wrong for being scared of it, but you're also wrong for thinking it's a real threat women face and not just an irrational fear. The stats don't say otherwise when it comes to DV. Many studies have 30-40% of people hospitalized by DV as males and most DV about 70% is initiated by women. Men largely don't report DV because they aren't given…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:32 AM
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The real myth is that people attack completely random people. Most violent crime is done to acquaintances, very few people around 2% will ever be attacked by someone random in their entire life and most people will walk alone at night 100s if not 1000s of time, the chances you get attacked on any random night are absurdly low. On top of that like 70% of violent crime is done while intoxicated. So as long as your avoiding the drunk person screaming in the middle of the street you're gonna be fine…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/24 11:11 AM
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Briffault's law argues that females are the sole determiners of said "transactions" conditions. So it's a bit self defeating to mention chivalry since Chivalry was created by men as a code of honor on the battlefield, women thought highly of those men and wanted to marry those men. Then those men dictated a code of behavior women needed to have to be worthy of said chivalry. https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Orders_of_chivalry_for_women "In other cases, the king or emperor is the sole male member of…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:44 PM
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Briffault's Law is the most feminist/bluepilled shit i've ever heard. Briffault's law says that female have 100% control over sexual selection and family. This just simply isn't true in animals or humans. In order to believe in Briffault's law you need to believe that no woman has ever been rejected by a man, because that man didn't want her. There was never arranged marriages in all of human history. SA of a woman isn't possible and that SA of a man is morally acceptable. That all the points in…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:13 PM
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truth matters and is unavoidable.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 04:56 AM
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Classic female bias on full display here. "Studies show women have better color sight" Willingly accepts without question "Studies show women have slightly lower IQs and worse spatial reasoning skills" This makes me feel bad so let me tell you how women are more "emotionally intelligent"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 04:31 PM
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Because the amount of men and women born each year is the same. For every lonely woman there is a lonely man. Living for yourself isn't a good thing. If you parents "lived for themselves" you wouldn't be alive. If everyone lives for themselves our species will slowly cease to exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 12:07 AM
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There is a lot of male duties there that aren't "Traditional" that are foisted onto men. Example your "provider" duty. This has never been a Traditional value men have been expected to adhere too. In fact the whole "provider" thing is actually a modern convention that didn't start until around the 1920-1950s in developed Western nations primarily. In a traditional relationship both the woman and man have a duty to provide for their kids and it's up to the man how that looks like. A woman "not ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 10:09 PM
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You're stuck in the 90s. Current year https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC10326362/ Defendant Race (Hypothesis 2) The current findings revealed that mock-jurors held less favorable perceptions of the White defendant than the Black defendant.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:33 PM
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https://ejop.psychopen.eu/index.php/ejop/article/view/440/440.html Same exact fictional crime committed. Only thing that's changed is the name. Robert gets convicted more often and harsher sentencing than Rachel. There is 100s of studies like this with mock juries
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:23 PM
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Wrong. https://ejop.psychopen.eu/index.php/ejop/article/view/440/440.html "Consistent with our hypotheses mock-jurors were more likely to find the male defendant guilty and give him longer sentences than the female defendant. Additionally, when the defendant was male (vs. female) mock-jurors provided higher anger ratings and rated the defendant as more culpable in the victim's death."
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 10:12 PM
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See the problem is you're expecting women to use logic and not emotion. The second question is phrased in a way that makes them feel like their S/O is a loser. The First question is phrased in a way that makes them feel like a golddigger.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 09:47 PM
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"Their partners" Yes, their long term relationships in which they value the men for something other then just looks. Look at their short term relationships to understand what they actually find attractive, it's very narrow, plenty of dating app swipe rates and survey studies of what women find attractive in men that all contradict your feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/24 03:28 PM
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Doesn't matter It's not jealous or insecure. It's accepting reality. By definition it's actually insecure to let them go to the club. I don't seek validation from other women when i'm in a relationship. If my woman didn't want me going to the club without her i wouldn't. It's called having mutual respect for each other. Nope, It's selfish to put your desires above the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:33 PM
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Seeking validation from anyone that isn't your partner is cheating. Drinking lowers inhibitions which increases the chance someone will make a poor choice. A woman that behaves that way is just a selfish shitty person unworthy of a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 04:19 AM
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In the overly broad way you'd likely think of "oppression" yes they've been "oppressed". In the truest meaning of the word of the word nope. Society has never really been hostile to women as a group.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/24 11:12 PM
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It never was. It's just revisionist history that you were taught that makes you think that.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 05:53 PM
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A 70% increase from the baseline isn't a few percent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 07:03 AM
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Multiple studies have shown both Men and Women rate peoples "personality" higher when they find the person physically attractive. [Insert Hello Susan meme here] You'll also get a lot more opportunities to work on game, flirt and your social skills if you're good looking. This is becoming more and more the case with online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 12:42 AM
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Ask any woman you know to name one thing they did wrong and one thing their partner did wrong in their last relationship. Bet 80-90% of the women will answer something like "Ignored he was a piece of shit with red flags" for something "they did wrong" It's an attempt to move accountability from themselves onto the other person. Instead of saying something more like "I was too needy" something that places blame squarely on themselves. Another way women do this is they say things like "I've never …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 04:21 PM
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"Talking about female leaders in the past when women generally had less rights" At this point not really sure why i'm responding. Like WTF is this comment. He was convicted of murder not fraudulently giving someone pills.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 09:46 PM
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Yes, because you're a women and crimes women commit are always downplayed. Women abuse kids at MUCH MUCH higher rates, you're probably looking at arrest or conviction rates, crime victimization surveys generally find women do 65-85% for the abuse more the double at the lowest. Women are just much more likely to get away with it. Being around kids doesn't more often doesn't make you more likely to abuse them. That's again just yet another excuse to downplay women's violent behavior. Plenty of fem…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:20 PM
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Even if it was 1 in 5 or 1 in 10 it still would be hard to argue women aren't more violent when given the opportunity. Could also talk about child abuse rates, elderly abuse rates, rates of starting wars as leaders ect. Men aren't more violent just bigger which gets them punished more when acting violently. Cause women to have Abortions. The link is about a man that's doing 13 years for tricking his GF into taking plan B. With the idea that him causing the abortion is murder. But we just let wom…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 03:04 AM
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You just quoted where i got it from. 11.2 per 1000 for 2020 alone. That's PER year. 30 years of age range, if 2020 is the average that's 336/1000 a little over 1/3rd in a lifetime. Only because we give women a pass on everything. When men do it it's murder. https://www.cnn.com/2013/09/10/justice/girlfriend-abortion-case/index.html
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:18 PM
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Statistically speaking the US has 1 Abortion for every 3 women. For people that view abortion as killing. It's really really hard to make the case that women are less "violent" The reality is women just get away with shit men never would. I'm 40 and i've never actually seen or known of a man to start a physical conflict with a woman if that man wasn't on drugs or mentally ill.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:05 PM
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" The trope of the idiot husband/dad scolded by the wife who is always the smarter of the couple. Imagine the reverse " Jefferson isn't the reverse. He isn't portrayed as smarter and constantly scolding Darcy, in fact Darcy is constantly scolding him.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 03:09 PM
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Jefferson was a jobless, incompetent loser.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:07 PM
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Neither of those are like the troupe OP is talking about. In those shows both of the people in the couple are dumb in different ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 11:00 PM
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Because he didn't claim any of those things in the OP
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:47 PM
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Both the logic and the math in that first link is god awful. How does someone like that hold a PhD. You can't simply add 3.3(married) to 2.9(Divorced) and 2.9(Widowed), then average it out to 3. All those groups are different sizes and you need to take into account for their different sizes when coming up with their average. " Aren’t the experiences of the people who started taking the drug and then, through no fault of their own, could not continue taking it, also relevant? " By no fault of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 11:39 PM
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First fact is based on OKCupid data dump from when it was the most popular online dating site with millions of users. Women rated 81% of men between zero and 2 on a scale of 0-5. Second one is based off Tinder swipe rates. Women on swipe right(accept) around 5% of the time. By comparison Men swipe right about 45-50% of the time. The fact that more men use then the app then women probably skews the numbers a little bit. 3rd fact is kinda bogus/half true. Basically during the pandemic men's "sexle…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 09:46 PM
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> Not really, fathers rarely ask for custody. When they do they actually have more chances of actually getting it then women. Because the court system is stacked against the breadwinner and in favor of the caregiving parent. Which means men fighting for custody are often just torching their money. So they only fight for custody when they have a chance of winning. Like i don't understand how people still make this argument. This shit has been debunked since the 80s
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:26 AM
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90% of women's preferences are shit they were "bullied" into by social norms/social media. Women say all sorts of stupid ass shit they hear on social media as their "Preferences" The best example of this is the "6 foot preference" Despite the average height of women in the US being lower then that of women in the EU. Women in the EU have a lower height preference(about 5'10") then women in the US. This is because women in the EU are often using CM and not feet and inches. So they use 10CM above …
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 02:13 AM
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No it literally isn't and never was. You just refuse to accept reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/23 01:40 AM
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Yes it has LMAO. It's like you can't even read. You said for the same work/job. The link you posted explicitly says that isn't true. It's NOT For the same Job/work. https://www.payscale.com/research-and-insights/gender-pay-gap/ For the same job/work there is a 1% pay gap. Which basically proves men are being heavily discriminated against, because in white collar jobs women and men are on relatively equal footing, but in many blue collar jobs having greater physical strength is gonna make an "equ…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 05:27 PM
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Being the largest voting demographic is power. By definition it's not patriarchy. Your not enlightened your wrong using your own cited definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 02:06 AM
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Bro that's a lot of bad info you just posted. Most of this stuff like the pay gap was debunked before you were even born most likely.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:53 AM
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Women are the majority of voters. Pretty weird to say Men hold the power in government.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:48 AM
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Yeah because in "capitalism" you have a Fiat currency printed out of thin air by fractional reserve banks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:46 AM
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Western Society is Gynocentric. Men and women have very different roles in human reproduction and because of it men are viewed as disposable, while women are viewed as innately valuable to society due to being the limiting factor in reproduction. As such men must DO something important to become valuable to society and women regardless of how trash they're are considered valuable. In the past society recognized this and gave men advantages in opportunities to allow them to more easily become val…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/23 12:45 AM
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They aren't collectively dominant over the males. Bonobos males do the majority of the leading.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 03:06 PM
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" but female bonobos collectively dominate over the males and the alpha female is the alpha of both the females and the collective " Isn't a true statement. The females don't control the males and often follow the lead of the males. Bonobos are really best described as egalitarian. They also aren't peaceful.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/23 12:53 AM
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Chimps have shown "Sigma" behavior where males straight up don't participate in the hierarchy at all. Chimps have shown a wide diversity of behaviors in terms of hierarchies. This is just a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 09:46 PM
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(left) Would give a chance 2/3. Definite mental issues with those 2. Definitely Fat and below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:36 PM
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Science doesn't use the term Alpha. The term is dominate. There is no dominate female in chimp societies. Bonobos aren't Matriarchal. Male and Female babies show different behavior while still in the womb. Male babies tend to kick more and when female babies are more active it's because the mother has higher Test levels then normal. Male and Female brains also show differences before they're even born. Gonna guess this guy is an author trying to sell a book. Probably a political hack masqueradin…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 08:13 PM
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"Traditional" as in something that started in the Romanticism era AKA the 1800s Europe/NA. The "provider" role is something contrived in the past few 100 years, isn't really traditional or natural. It's social conditioned. For the most part when we were hunter gatherers men hunted and the women gathered. Women were providing just in a different way. You're not "Traditional" if you pay on the first date you're scared to be rejected for going against social norms
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:30 PM
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Masculinity are traits that men have that women usually don't. Typically stuff that i would associate with is stuff that belonged to the male gender role throughout history Protecting Building Risk taking/ Facing fears directly "Providing" and "Chivalry" are things that often get thrown out as Masculine that really aren't. Women had a different role in Chivalry and women historically were providers too, just in a more gathering rather then hunting nature. Those 2 things are really relics of past…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:16 PM
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That answer is terrible WTF. Literally a bunch of lies and hatred and none of the positive qualities.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 12:16 PM
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Man the standards for women's looks are so freaking low if she isn't mid.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:46 PM
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TL. You're implying the Chad Cock Carousel started in recent years. When in reality it started when the BC pill came around and reached the levels it is now in the 90s. 100 years ago 85% of women were virgins on their wedding night and the age of first marriage was 5-6 years younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/23 07:18 PM
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Truly amazing that you can deny stats cited in your own source.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 09:30 PM
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Apparently you honor him by threatening to use state violence against him.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:19 AM
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It hasn't though. It's actually declined in the past 10 years. If you look at the breakdown of the data in the 25-35 age group has the lowest % of female providers. Child support isn't rare at all. No it's because teenagers are brats and rebellious and it's much easier for a man to instill discipline in a teenage. Learning to pack lunches and taking more of an active role isn't hard, it's easy for a man to step into the caretaker role it's not easy for a woman to step into the disciplinarian rol…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 10:18 AM
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Our current Laws were written based off what feminists in the 60-70s wanted. They're designed to give women what they wanted from marriage laws and take away all the things men wanted from marriage laws. That's not gender neutral. The Pew article doesn't help your argument. Perhaps actually read more then just the headline. No it doesn't. Kids that are raised in single father households do much better in terms of education, jobs, jail, not being addicted to drugs, obesity, having healthy relatio…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:40 AM
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Hopeless
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:22 AM
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Do you have anything to say besides meaningless platitudes like anything of actual substance? How is someone giving you a child giving you nothing? The situation your talking about is the women refusing to give a man something they both want because he won't allow the state to put a gun to his head.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/23 12:21 AM
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No divorce laws aren't gender neutral. The current divorce laws in the west are VERY lopsided to the partner making less and women choose men who make more very disproportionately. Men spend less time with the kids because it makes more sense for the person making more to work more and the person who makes less to do the majority of the unpaid child care. Like if person A makes 100k and person B makes 40k, it's gonna make a lot more sense for person B to drop hours at work to take care of the ch…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:14 PM
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1) why do you need that title from the government 2) How is it "Honoring" him if you both want kids? Why do women do this thing were they act like they're giving something up to obtain a mutual goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:03 PM
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Not joking. I know a bunch of reasons you could say, but i don't know which reasons you believe. Kinda hard to have a debate if you wont take a position.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 11:01 PM
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So much wrong with this post 1) Yes divorce laws changed based on country/state. But everywhere you go in the West the laws are massively tilted in favor of women 2) Men don't pursue custody because the laws are setup to give the child to the woman, so men are put in a position of wasting a bunch of money just to lose custody anyway. And before you says "but when they fight for custody they win like 50% of the time." Yes and in the times they don't fight for custody they would lose 90+% of the t…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:13 PM
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All the legal protections regarding child support apply regardless of being married in most Western countries.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 08:00 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/23 07:57 PM
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Every single one of you know what a "nice guy" is after don't play dumb. It's not a secret, stop gaslighting, you take advantage of them, you know full well what these guys want. You just know you can get what you want from them without giving them what they want, so you abuse the fuck out of them then cry when they grow a spine and finally ask you out. Not being a nice guy isn't about being a "Bad boy" it's about demanding respect for what you offer
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/23 09:30 PM
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https://aella.substack.com/p/who-took-my-big-kink-survey It's mostly Liberal people from western countries surveyed. I've seen a few other surveys like it and they have typically the same thing. Most people are subbies, women are slightly more subby. Both Women's and Men's typical most popular things are softdom stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 04:47 PM
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Do you unironically believe women are more Loyal and less Selfish? Even kind is iffy.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:43 PM
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So Women want a fantasy man at all times and men want a fantasy women in the bedroom only. Also you're project on what women like in sex https://i.redd.it/tegfh72g5up91.jpg Edit: Less women watch porn because it's easier for women to get sex, due to the fact men have higher sex drives.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 03:30 PM
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What's hard to understand. According to these people. Breaking up because you wanted different things is bad. Them staying together and her doing whatever she wants while it makes him miserable is good. It's a pretty clear message. Men aren't allowed to have feelings or opinions and emotional abuse against men isn't abuse because men aren't allowed to have feelings or opinions.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:37 PM
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A lot of women would lose weight
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 02:56 AM
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A man that is willing to date 7 years younger can't do so at at 19. A man that is willing to date 7 years younger can do so at 35. A woman that is willing to date 7 year older can do so at 19. A woman that is willing to date her age at 35 will struggle with the men her age that want kids, because those men will be chasing the 28 years olds. Men's dating pool grows, women's shrinks. It's really that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:49 PM
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People will tell you that this only effects certain men. But that's not true. Women typically date older and Men typically date younger. So as you age a woman's dating pool shrinks and a man's dating pool grows.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 04:19 PM
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"5'10" " See you exposed yourself really hard here. Despite the fact that Europeans women are taller then American women. European women have lower height preferences 5'8"-5'10 is the highest swipe right rates in Europe.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 02:42 AM
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Loaded question. We don't care if you need us or not. Our purpose in life isn't to be a females slave despite the fact you modern women that it is. Also you're out of touch with reality when it comes to manual labor jobs. Boys need the school system to not be run by feminists that hate them. Fix divorce/child custody laws. Old Divorce laws make no sense in the era of no fault divorce. No fault divorce shouldn't be an option for those with children under 18. "Best interest of the child" has shown…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 01:05 AM
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oof, your hatred of men cuts deep. She's not a surfing influencer, she is a law student who has an IG filled with bikini photos that have nothing to do with surfing. Again how could he know things about her before they dated?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 11:25 PM
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How could he know what she was really like before getting into a relationship with her? I've been known as really big flirt in the past, i would always stop being a flirt once i got into a relationship though.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:08 PM
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He isn't. She is. He asked her to change, she refused so he broken up with her. He found a new woman that wasn't doing that stuff. He married the new woman and they just had a kid. After Johan and the new woman had a kid, the surfer woman went to IG and posted SS of edited texts of him asking her to not post IG bikini photos.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 09:06 PM
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Didn't know anything about this. But from what i read it's something like this. "If you feel this way, you shouldn't date her" - women Breaks up with her marries another woman that suits what he wanted. "NOOOOOOO you can't do that it's emotional abusive and controlling for you to go after another women because you GF refused to respect your boundaries, you need to stay with her and let her decided your boundaries" - Women Talk about projection.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 08:42 PM
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Name 3 things besides physical strength that women are worse at then men?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 04:06 PM
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"It's the current year" Men can't ensure paternity biologically and our lizard brain will always be telling us loyalty above all else. You can cry all you want about it, but not accepting it is only gonna hurt you in the long run.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 12:02 PM
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You know what you're right women aren't worse at anything. They're just superior human beings in every regard and believing anything else is just sexism against them. I truly see the light now.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 10:21 AM
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That's not the reason the study gave It would be foolish of us to believe all the "neutral" gossip was accurate and didn't include private info. It's a reasonable assumption to believe that SOME of the "neutral" gossip done by the woman was actually harmful and even based off that study they gossiped negatively more often because of this. Besides lets not act like simple common sense based on what the genders enjoy in terms of entertainment doesn't give away that women like Drama and gossip more…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:29 PM
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Women are human beings with agency. It's not Men's fault if they make worse decisions long term post divorce. What matters is the laws. The laws are heavily sexist against men. Women aren't entitled to having their ex-husbands make smart financially decisions for them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 05:10 AM
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This study you linked is for Germany and uses data from when Germany was still split in East/West. It has nothing to do with modern American divorce law. Women are human beings with agency. It's not Men's fault if they make worse decisions long term post divorce. What matters is the laws. The laws are heavily sexist against men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 04:52 AM
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The one where a women robs a man a statistically much more common since like the 70s. Alimony made sense before No fault divorce. It makes zero sense at all with modern marriage laws. My step father is still working in his 70s because he spent 2 decades supporting his ex-wife who became an physically abusive alcoholic in the middle of their marriage.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/07/23 03:08 AM
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Why should we remove the assumption that gossip itself is negative? If we should why should we then be allowed to categorize gossip in a negative category? The study argues that "Academics shouldn't make value based judgments" But if that's true we can't make Value based judgements for Pos, Neg and Neutral. "My exes favorite sex position is doggy" That's a neutral statement. But it's private. It's negative gossip despite being a neutral statement. There is zero reason for us to believe that "neu…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:37 PM
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" These guys sell courses of common sense "
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:05 PM
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"every woman's son is her betrayer and also the inevitable rapist or exploiter of another woman" Jabba the Hut
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:18 PM
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This study is garbage it, says academics should "remove value judgements" then they immediately make value judgements. You don't need to be making negative comments about someone to be violating privacy. "Neutral" gossip is still very often negative.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 09:02 PM
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You said you were a traditional woman. Doing charity work is part of being a traditional woman. If you like a date you have with a man you're supposed to make him something(Lunch, Knit a scarf ect)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 07:58 PM
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"i'm a traditional woman" What charities do you work for? What do you normal make a man after a good first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:43 PM
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Nah it's worse. We both want sex. Men don't wanna be used as an ATM by women that don't even like them. Simply solution always split, don't pay on the first date ever. If she "didn't bring money" that's her problem. Onto the next one.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:37 PM
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Do i like women on the whole? Not really Have i liked a woman? Yes Modern dating for men is like sifting through piles of dirt to hopefully find some buried gold.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/23 06:10 PM
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" There are no gender differences in actual IQ. " This is politically correct nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 05:08 AM
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To come to this conclusion, researchers led by Stacy Yen-Lim Sim of Bowling Green State University surveyed 161 university undergraduates 161 whole students. Yeah that's definitely worth projecting onto society as a whole. You're definitely cherry picking at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:58 AM
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On the "muscly side" That level of delusion is wild. Phelps was putting down 8000-10000 calories a day was like sub 8% body fat(being sub 10% is unhealthy) in those pics while doing like 6 hours of high intensity cardio and weight training every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/23 04:43 AM
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In reality it points how delusional most women are. A dude that's a 7 hot and a 3 Useless out values 85% of the women on the market and he's in the no go zone. Pure delusion.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 04:29 AM
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Universal delusion matrix
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 02:36 AM
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Your flair says RP but all your comments say Incel. Yes. That's exactly how women work social media. They're mostly fake as fuck. Women don't have options they have the illusion of options. Their DMs are full with guys that just wanna fuck them but would never commit or 50 year old divorces hitting on 23 year olds that the woman would never go for. Men that fap and watch porn don't lack options. They lack the desire to chase shitty women. 80% of those sexless men can looks max and get sex. They …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 12:39 AM
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I said generally. There isn't a large forum or subreddit or anything like that for men that sit around and complain about women all day. There are niche communities that do it. But TwoXX has 13.6 million members and it's 90% single women crying about men. Nothing remotely close to that exists for men. Because much fewer men are unhappy being single. Casual sex is easier then ever for the average man to get, is it harder for the average man to get laid then then average woman? Sure, but an averag…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 10:03 PM
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There are plenty of sites other then Reddit that would allow that. They don't exist because single men don't generally sit around and complain about woman all the time. Because unlike woman most men are actually happy single. Women on the other hand are happy single till like 28ish then they start getting depressed and desperate. So they go on sites like reddit and complain that men are the problem instead of taking responsibility for their actions. This is something RP gets wrong. Getting sex f…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 09:13 PM
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False premise. Women aren't happier single. Where's the male equivalent of TwoX or NHGW subreddits? Oh that's right there isn't one. You know why? Because guys that are happy single spend all their time on hobbies. Half the time girls that are "Happy" single are actually miserable and the spend a bunch of time complaining to each other that men are the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 03:40 PM
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Did you actually read this? These were fake students. The teachers assumed the fictional boys would be better at math, cause shocker boys score better on math tests and girls score better in English. That's an ASSUMPTION not a bias. Assumptions come before evidence, biases come after evidence. In the study you linked teachers gave girls slightly better grades for the exact same work. Your study show teachers are biased towards girls, despite assuming boys are better. https://stemeducationjournal…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 08:56 PM
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there are many studies done that show teachers favor boys in certain subjects No there aren't studies that show this. You're just making shit up No there aren't studies against female leaders in fact there are studies that show using fictional candidates with the exact same description. People are more likely to vote for the one with a female name. Correct the study was fake... did you not read. the point was to gauge people reactions. Women were only suspicious when the fake study said men were…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 10:29 PM
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I'm not wrong. There have been literally 1000s of studies on this, they aren't all about agreeable or less intimidating, in fact most aren't... The recent one i read was used fakes studies about art and lying. They gave half the people a fake news story about a study said men were better at art and men were more likely to lie. They gave the other half of people the opposite. Then they asked people how they felt about the studies, women rejected the studies that portrayed them negatively but beli…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 11:38 AM
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No, 1000s of studies on this. Generally called the women are wonderful effect. Women have a really strong in group bias. Men actually have a slight outgroup bias towards women, stemming from the protector role.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 03:47 AM
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>Impossible to be attractive over 30 Never heard anyone say this >Wombs are gonna shivel Massive embellishment. But it's true by 35 a woman's fertility drops a ton and by 40 it's really dangerous to have kids. >Women like cat's and wine And? Have you not meet 35-45 year old women that wanted a man but ended up single. They're some of the most bitter and depressing people to be around. Just because you like some things doesn't mean having JUST those things will make you happy. The single mother m…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 12:08 PM
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Women get pregnant. Men don't. Biologically men can't ensure paternity so they value loyalty more. Biologically women can't provide and protect for themselves when 8 months pregnant, so women value those traits more.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:43 AM
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Yes, but guys that say “Makeup is evil and deceptive” are talking about Makeup. Not grooming standards and eating right so your skin is healthy. You also assume average dudes wouldn't go for ugly or mid women. You're wrong. I don't wear makeup and i don't have sunken eyes. Sunken eyes are usually a sign of dehydration and lack of sleep.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 09:39 PM
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Cherry picking. No data. Having nice skin and feminine grooming aren't makeup. The character in the video has a flat face, an awkward smile and sunken eyes. It's clearly designed to be below average.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 08:09 PM
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If you have 100 men and 100 women and 90 of those women wanna chase after 20 of the "bad boy" men. That leaves the other 80 men to compete for the remaining 10 women or to change who they're and become the "bad boy" themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/23 07:11 PM
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You failed to address both the Brain activity and connectivity. Personality does change, Briggs-Meyers hasn't been determined to flawed, some people argue that it's flawed i disagree. It should be inconsistent because personality does change. This is just hand waving because you don't like the results. Men that unjustly use violence are a very small portion of the male population. Moreover they're frequently the products of single mothers, which is female leadership. So i don't feel like this he…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/23 12:34 AM
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Lust is definitely an emotion that men are more consumed by, but there are plenty of negative emotions that are more common in women, jealous being the one that first comes to mind. I know it's the current year and this triggers some people but, there is a bunch of evidence that shows women are more emotional. We know which side of the brain regulates emotion and women's is significantly more active. Women's brains are more connected left to right, men's are more connect front to back, which mak…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 10:23 PM
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https://bfi.uchicago.edu/wp-content/uploads/BFI_WP_2019120.pdf Do states experience more peace under female leadership? We examine this question in the context of Europe over the 15th-20th centuries. We instrument queenly rule using gender of the first born and whether the previous monarchs had a sister. We find that polities led by queens participated in war more than polities led by kings.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:26 AM
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Women "think" more with the emotional portions of the brain then men do. Lust is just an emotion.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 06:18 AM
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1% of Sex offenders in jail are women 13% of Registered Sex offenders are women 20-25% of victims report female perpetrators
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 05:55 AM
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There is plenty of material out there about how stress affects the genders differently. But the quick rundown is, men get more stressed out when exposed to the same factors but men can cope with higher levels of stress before breaking down. If you ask the genders who is more stressed out women will say they experience higher stress levels even though they have less measurable physiological effects, like cortisol levels. . Emotional validation lowers women's stress a lot but not men's, when women…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 04:20 AM
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Love how nobody ever has a counter argument against anything RPers say. Just beta shaming langue.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 10:30 PM
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Man that's some alternate history. The RP first started getting used by MRAs when they first started gaining a lot of popularity in like 2012 after some videos went viral on YT https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YiRasOrIoYQ The RP for the dating scene first started getting used by Author Rollo Tomassi in like 2013
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 07:54 PM
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"1% of men do bad things, Therefor men bad as a group, women good" Classic BP comment. 77% of divorces are initiated by women and the number 1 reason men initiate divorce is their wife cheated on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 06:34 PM
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First off you're wrong AF saying they don't act that way. I'm not even convinced it's less often in a modern society. "It's Inherently less damaging" Why? Cause i don't think it really is.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 12:30 PM
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Because for every 19 men that have a want marriage there is 20 women. That means is there isn't a man that wants marriage for the 20th women. No, the Pew numbers are based off ALL men and All women. 5% more women want marriage then men and it's been that way for a few decades at least. Women have less RMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 02:41 AM
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First off the "Men don't need to talk about it part" was about the therapy angle. Men do speak up about it. You know what happens when they do? Nobody fucking cares. I know from personal experience being a 14 Y/O that got his dick grab by a chain smoking 30 something female athletic trainer at my school. You know what happened when i told other teachers/counselor and my parents, not a damn fucking thing. I've had my ugly ass 40+ year old female boss get all flirty with me at my first job when i …
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:12 AM
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The article says dating again women in the US want relationships slightly more. Pew has been doing these studies every few year for decades and it's always been this way. Women don't have more RMV they have slightly less, on top of that because women have narrower attraction standards paired the fact men are more willing to date down means men have more bargaining power in relationships. Women think they have more RMV because men are more horny, but that only matters for SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 01:00 AM
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Hi sir. It's not internet talk. You're delusional. Sexual Harassment of men is just deemed okay by most of society. Men don't need to talk about it. That's not how most men want to deal with issues. Men need society to stop treating it as acceptable. Whenever and man brings stuff like this up it gets belittled and met with "But it happens to WOMEN MORE"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:37 PM
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Implying that when it happens the other way around the consequences don't matter. That right there is the problem.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 10:29 PM
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I don't believe your story at all. But yes being Agreeable is one of the best traits a woman can have.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/23 04:45 AM
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https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/it-s-man-s-and-woman-s-world/201407/who-craves-relationships-more-men-or-women It's close, but all the data says women want relationships a little more. Women confuse their SMV with RMV. It's not the same.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:54 PM
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of people eating themselves Wut?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:35 PM
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Job and school achievement don't effect quality of life? Divorce laws don't effect quality of life? Stop it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:32 PM
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The men that women rated as below average weren't actually all below average. When you take that into account the most attractive men were getting 100x the messages of the least attractive and the average man was getting 1 messages for every 5 the most attractive men were getting. For women it was 25x and 3.5x respectively. On top of that most people both men and women were messaging people primarily above their attractiveness, however men were also messages women below them, women for the most …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 02:28 PM
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Cool so my blessing I can build muscle easier and don't have periods. Society is less concerned about me be sexual active. I have a longer time to start a family. The disadvantages are I'm expect to work harder at my job, i'm gonna get worse grades in school for the same work, my teachers are gonna enforce more strict behavior standards on me, the divorce courts are rigged against me, the criminal courts are biased against me, media is constantly tearing me down, I'm born less flexible, I'm goin…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:34 AM
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No i just blame feminism for the problems feminism caused. Do you only use shaming langue or do you ever have an actual point?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 08:21 AM
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You're talking about Sexual Market Value. I'm talking about Relationship Market Value. You're confusing the 2. Men want sex more then women, but the same isn't true for relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:50 AM
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Yeah that's just not true. A man that takes care of himself will be attractive to the opposite gender till he is 50, can't say the same for woman. Your value just goes down a lot faster when it comes to looks. Not that it really matters when most marriages are late 20s early 30s.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:45 AM
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Something doesn't have to be a protected right. For it to be legal. Again my Father's mother had a bank account in the 1950s. She didn't have a cosigner. She had enough money that she bought her own home. My Father-father die when he was very young. Some banks discriminated against women, but it wasn't something all banks did. No the comment i was responding to say women couldn't divorce their husbands prior to 2nd wave feminism(60-70s). This is a lie. Moreover what you linked also proved women …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 04:23 AM
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No, you can't just change the numbers to suit your agenda. The numbers you're reporting aren't in your link. It's not 16. That's 13. They did it yearly for until like 2013-14. No thousands is a really really small sample size. When you're talking about 100s of millions of dating age people inWestern countries. More importantly it doesn't say you want it to say that people are delusional about their attractiveness the data you presented shows people view themselves more towards the middle. Nope, …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:58 AM
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That isn't true. ECOA prevented banks from being able to discriminate. Most banks already allowed women to have bank accounts. There was a bank in that started in 1919 called the First Woman's Bank of Tennessee. Women have had bank accounts in the US since we were British colonies. Verdit: You're wrong. 1857 was long before Feminism of the 1960-70s. They could also divorce their husbands. She said they couldn't Verdict: You're wrong You have to be a delusional to think this was commonplace and t…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 03:45 AM
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Didn't say 90% did. I said IF 90%. It's probably more like 80% Yeah it would change dramatically, but woman still refuse to give up their "standards." So you would have a lot more single people, never married people and sexless virigns under 30... Oh wait that's already happening because men have been doing what you said for 10+ years now and it's not actually fixing the problem. Society holds woman to zero standards none nada zip and it's a huge fucking problem. Women rarely get held accountabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:59 AM
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You're just coping. Women's physically attraction to men starts to fall of in the mid- late 40s Men's physically attraction to women starts to fall off in the mid-late 30s. Men's physically attractiveness to the opposite gender just has a longer shelf life.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:53 AM
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OKcupid not a dating app. It wasn't a study the old CEO just decided to dump all the data for fun when it was the most popular dating site. The company had no vested interest in the matter, in fact it probably hurt them in the long run. Because it gave the Tinders of the world a bunch of data to create algorithms with. Dating site data is much more honest because people have no social pressure to lie.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:48 AM
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It's only 10 years old. But it's millions of people vs 1000s That didn't exist in the data. It was in fact the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:48 AM
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You're numbers are just made up. They don't exist in your link. The graphics you provided aren't true at all. You can't just assume people who didn't rate themselves did it for no reason and since you don't know the reason you can't just exclude them from the data. Over 50% of the people rated themselves average. For both genders. Saying people massively overrated themselves is very dishonest. Most people to towards rating themselves mid, that's what the data actually says. The OKCupid data is l…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:41 AM
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55% vs 16% That's a very small % considering the single never married wages of men and women have been at relative parity for the past few decades. Maybe i was wrong to say extremely small, but that seems like only 10-20% which is still small compared to men. The number is definitely lower in the single population. It's gotta be one the main driving forces in what keeps women single. According to the link it's actually more common in the older generations for the women to be outearning the man. …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 01:25 AM
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I mean the data in your graphic isn't the data in the link. The Data in the like doesn't have 3 Categories it had 1-10. Only 50% of Men in that age range rated themselves a 6-10 which was the same as the women. Not 55% like your graphic says. Also women in that range rated themselves in the 8-10 range 12% of the time and men only 11% of the time. 1% more men rated themselves as a 7. Women had a slightly higher opinion of themselves in the link. The graphic is lying about the data in link. It's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:51 PM
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Yes, but how many of them are OK with being the higher earner? How many of them are okay being the "breadwinner" in the traditional sense? How many are even okay with splitting the bill on a date?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:20 PM
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Women unionized delusion. Perceived value vs actually value. The rest of your comment proves the point. You think you have more value because you're a woman. You don't, you just think you do, you think you have more options you don't, men's end up in a scenario where they have to opt out of the market or potential settle because the woman he's on par with are delusional waiting for their build a bear man that's above her in the dating market. TBH men actually have more value when it comes to loo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:15 PM
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That graphic doesn't fit with your link. But none of that is really off between how the genders view themselves. Few % more women said they were 8-10s few % more men said they were 6s. Nothing really noteworthy. Meanwhile the OKcupid data shows Women massively underrate men.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 11:00 PM
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False women were allowed to have bank accounts Women were allowed to divorce their husbands if they abused them, had drinking/drug problems, cheated on them and half a dozen other reasons. They just weren't allowed to say i'm bored bye i'm taking half your shit. But neither were men. Sex part also isn't true, from a legal standpoint. But it was expected from a societal standpoint. But then again a man was expect to work in a coal mine to support his family if he had too or die in a war. Women we…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:49 PM
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There aren't plenty of you that think that way. That's the point. It's an extremely small minority of women that want an actual equal relationship. What most women want is all the freedom with ZERO of the responsibility.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:44 PM
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He's not wrong. You can say "Not for me" but if 90% of women do this that means only 10% of men can get something that's not that. You're effectively blaming individual men for not taking accountability. Taking accountability for ones own actions won't fix the problem. Society used to hold women to standards. It needs to go back to doing so, individual men opting out doesn't fix the problem of too many good men for too few good woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 10:41 PM
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It actually doesn't that's why it's only 20% men. Men in the very same OK Cupid data basically created a perfect bell curve for how they viewed women. It varies much less amongst women for reference it was only 7% men in the "hot" and 12% average to above average, so not even really 20%. Men rated about 25% of women in the "hot" and another 25ish percent in the average to above average category. Before you go to the "oh well women care more about personality" bit. When women messaged first it wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 01:33 AM
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Not what i think at all. I think women have narrower views of what is attractive. Your comment pretty much describes exactly what i think. Women have like 1 each type and most of types are based of height or muscle. Every one of you likes Tall and/or muscle and none of you have a wide range. Men typically have a wide range of types. Women don't and most women's type includes muscle. Which is why RP get in the fucking gym. The "bear" type isn't gonna be that high of BF. About 20%ish which is in t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/23 12:00 AM
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You keep saying "Impose your will" that's not true, it's wrong. That's not how a 51/49% relationship works. "What happens when your set on a course of action and your wife is adamantly opposed" This question lacks context. But again in a 51/49% relationship i would allow her to have her way quite often or come up with a comprise. In 100/0, the 100% is getting their way always. Like take for example the house scenario described if i really wanted house C, but that was one of the ones she hated. I…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 10:43 PM
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If you don't listen or care what the other party has to say it's not a 51/49% relationship. You keep repeating this same statement. It's not true. It's a disgusting lie. Not what i asked. I asked what happens when you disagree on who is more affected. Let's say you were looking for a home and you had 6 options. You both hated 2 options each and instantly ruled those out. Of the other 2 options she likes A more but is okay with option B, you like option B more but are okay with option A. You both…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 08:45 PM
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No, 51% control isn't the same as 100% control. With 100% control you don't listen to or care what the other person/party says. Who decides who is more affected? What happens when you have a disagreement on who is more affected? There is no such thing as a 50/50 relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 06:27 PM
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Total control means 100%. Having the final say doesn't mean the other person doesn't have a say. Someone has to have the final say and if it's not the man it's the woman. By your own logic that means you feel you're inferior to your woman and vulnerable to abuse. But then again if you see things my way that authority =/= total control. Then you don't actually view the person as inferior, rather i'm just well aware men have an easier time ignoring their emotions and it makes them better at making…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:14 PM
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You seem to be under the impression RP men have trouble finding women that want to be around them. You'd be wrong. Most RP dudes have an easy time finding women that want to be around them, what we can often struggle with is finding girls that are worth being around. Modern society has convinced many women to have absurd standards. So for women all you really have to do is drop those absurd standards and you'll find someone. It's not really the same for men, because men don't have those delusion…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 01:25 AM
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>I can't imagine Well if you can't imagine it it must be impossible. >Always right Nope that's not what Submissive means in this context. Being submissive doesn't mean mindless obeying at all times. Having the final say or expecting someone to understand that NOW isn't the time to argue isn't the same as always being right or wrong. This one isn't even really debatable. You're just trying to obfuscate the meaning of submission to make it seem like it's something it's not.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 12:58 AM
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Women became the Majority of Voters after WW2 in the US, Canada and most of the EU. They also could've outvoted men after WW1, but many women chose not to vote. The graph you cited is a % of those alive. Women live longer then men and after a war the life expectancy gap is larger then normal. Older women effectively voted for Teenage boys to go get shot fighting in Vietnam. Women could own Bank accounts before the ECOA was passed. My 95 year old Great Grandmother had one, it wasn't uncommon. The…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 04:16 AM
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This is just a straight up lie BTW. For most of human history Women had all the opportunities and less responsibilities. The version of "gender roles" your talking about basically only existed in Europe and colonized countries between 1200-the mid 1900s. Most of those gender roles also didn't start until the 1800s during the Victorian Era. What's actually unfair is using this as an excuse to mistreat and discriminate against boys in men in modern society that had nothing to do with these rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:56 AM
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Women Are Wonder Effect. Science has kinda proven what you're saying since the late 80s early 90s. Women have a really high level of in group Bias. Men have a slight outgroup bias because they're more protective towards women and children. On top of that Feminism has convinced a large portion of society that it's actual bias towards men, resulting in even more extreme biases then we have naturally.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:45 AM
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I've never actually known a single man that shoots his shot exclusively out of his league. Where does this happen? Can you provide some data or even an example? Typically the men complaining about this kinda stuff are average to slightly above average dudes that can't get with average to above average women because she's delusional and holding out for a top 5% man.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 03:04 AM
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Hey you Lion don't chase the Gazelle. Hey you Gazelle don't be so easily caught. Which of these makes sense? As you said yourself, Women are more then happy to have casual relationships with a small % of men. Men opting out and shaming the men who don't won't change anything. Society needs to go back to holding women accountable for shitty behavior instead of this 2nd/3rd wave feminist notion that blames all of women's mistakes on "Patriarchy"
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 06:35 PM
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Man that's some wild cope on your part. He didn't say all women were doing that. He said that's all that's really necessary. It's not like he's wrong either. Women can get by with just eating right and not having poor hygiene. In fact a lot of the stuff your wife is doing would make her unattractive to most dudes. That's some high maintenance nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:09 PM
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Lot of anger and accusations. Nothing substantive. You dug your gave apparently, enjoy lying in it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 04:44 AM
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Touch - Yes Hug - sure Kiss/Cuddle a friend? Nah You two shouldn't be friends.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 02:25 AM
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Precisely why you'll die alone and unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:03 AM
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"White"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 01:01 AM
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Being nice for rewards is still in fact being nice. Don't expect to be treated nice for long if you don't reward or reciprocate it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/23 12:24 AM
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Your negative view of the opposite gender is your problem. Your inability or lack of desire to provide value to a man will prevent any man from wanting to provide value too you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:41 PM
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No woman ever chooses to be alone every single one of you will say "for the right guy" until you're dead. The irony being 90% of the time your attitude is what keeps "the right guy" away.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 10:05 PM
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/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 09:52 PM
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"Hey you! Yeah you. Person online that i've never meet and only know you disagree with me. Let me tell you your entire life story and future. See you're a loser and i don't need to debate you because of it" Damn lil bro you're mad AF
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:49 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/shorts/cs2E2nWNS6Q Every boys mother tells them to be nice. Then when they're nice, women friend zone them. Then they stop being nice and women start liking them. You can be mad all you want but that's how it works.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 07:29 PM
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Dodged bullets in more ways then one
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:07 AM
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Bro but like if he lives the war he gets to go back to working in the coal mines. Men had so many privileges.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:05 AM
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Charlie Sheen plays his uncle in the show, him and his dad live in his uncle's place. His uncle is a player in the show and is "dating," hooking up with a different girl each week. He's imitating his uncle in this scene.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 04:01 AM
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IT'S NOT POSSIBLE FOR WHAT YOU'RE SAYING TO BE TRUE. NEITHER GENDER CAN HAVE LOWER OR HIGHER N COUNTS. THEY HAVE TO BE THE SAME. The 50th percentile of women have higher N counts, because women are more selective and most of the N counts are going to the top % of men. I assure you if you have an N count of below 20 like 1/4th of those women have higher N counts then you unless you're like 18.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 11:19 PM
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Nobody says this. This is a strawman. Yes, but statically speaking their are more obese, fat, out of shape women. Your N count isn't even high lil bro. It's not possible for women to have lower N counts on avg. For every N you have some women also has an N. You can't get an N without someone getting an N off you. You're naive and believe lies women tell you. All men and women combined had the same N count when it comes to hetero, it's not possible for it to be any different.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 10:54 AM
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There has been plenty of studies that show Women have a "Bar" for attractiveness that needs to be meet for any of that other stuff to matter. Female attraction is also much less diverse it's really just Hyper masculine or Pretty boys. "but but i've seen good looking women with ugly men". The dude is almost always Mid not ugly and she views it as settling. Also, exceptions don't make the rule. Women are the less attractive sex. Higher obesity, less in shape statistically. Not that this matters. "…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:52 AM
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Economy isn't zero sum. "Sexual market" is. Wow that took 2 whole seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:22 AM
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What can a man do fix is "underlying problems" when he has his children taken away by the state and his ex-wife in divorce court. Men typically become depressed when society takes away their ability to deal with the underlying problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:43 PM
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"Support" offered Ignore your problems and take these mind altering substances to make you feel like your problems don't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/23 10:14 PM
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None of what you said is true about the income. There are no statistics to back up those things. They're just the comments of people who blindly defend wamen. And? To what extent? Any reason you left that out? Impossible. Also marriage outside of race doesn't always increase the chance of divorce. The most common one for passport Bro is WMAF which have lower divorce rates then WMWF.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:31 AM
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If you think those percentages are high you should check out the divorce rates when the woman starts making more in the middle of a marriage, has double digit N count, interracial marriages or marriages of people who make less then 40k vs people 100k. 18% for 5 year and 39% are extremely low numbers compares to other factors.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 02:00 AM
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Lot of strawmans and factually incorrect arguments. TRP never says to ignore women in your 20s. TRP says to prioritize Career and learning how women actual act, not to ignore them completely and be a kissless virgin at 30. The avg age of a first marriage is 28-31 most western countries, most women don't seriously date until their mid 20s. If the age gap of the average marriage is 4 then that means men should wait till their late 20s early 30s to start seriously dating, their will be plenty of wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 12:06 AM
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Where does the name Victorian come from and who was the Patriarchy that enforced some of the most strict gender roles on society that viewed men as morally inferior beast of burden whose sole purpose in life was to take both all the responsibility and all the blame, so their "oppressed" wife could stay at home with the kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:32 PM
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I still can't get over people thinking Victorian era genders roles being "patriarchy" it's truly baffling.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 11:10 PM
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And the bar for what causes discomfort is much higher if you're attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:57 PM
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Physically attractive man here. You're projecting. If you're hot enough many women will legit walk up to you and tell you bluntly they wanna fuck you, more bluntly than a man would ever even think about doing if he was initiating. Being Introverted also doesn't = being a "pussy"
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:54 PM
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All of the benefits, none of the responsibilities! Also any man that pays on the first date or opens doors for a women like this isn't Masculine. They're Simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:30 PM
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Over 60% of divorces that are initiated by women are Financial(mainly she started making more money) or No fault as the reason. Of The top 3 reason men initiate divorce 1) She cheated 2) She has substance abuse problems 3) She is Physically abusive. They combine for a little over 50% of the male initiated divorces. Women leave for fickle reasons that are good excuses for leaving a dating relationship, but things that aren't good reasons for leaving a marriage. Men leave women because of good rea…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 03:06 PM
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Women are only physically attracted to 20% of men isn't a slow drift into absurdity it's a statistical fact from studies and OKcupid data. In fact it's actually worse then "physically attracted" because 80% of men are rated as below average. 80% of men don't even meet a woman's "average" man standard. On scale of 0-5, 81% of men were rated as a 0-2 according to women on OKCupid. Only 7% of men were rated a 4 or 5. Women have a really really fucked up view of what average is in a man.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/23 12:26 AM
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No all men prefer non-promiscuous women. Some men are just to cowardly to admit it. Perhaps you need to stop lying to women and trying to convince them to make a poor choice. Look i get it you have low self esteem and can't compete with other men so you need to convince women to be 304s and lower their SMV otherwise you're never gonna get any. But i don't have that problem and i'm not gonna lie to them so you can get a pity fuck weirdo. The birth rate going down "trend" is a lie. The birth rate …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 03:19 AM
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Most people that have sex DO have kids. Everyone has the biological desire to have kids, saying you don't is like saying you don't have a biological desire to eat or breath. I'm not telling women what to do with their bodies, i'm explaining why the potential consequences of their choices exist, they're free to make their own choice, they aren't free to tell me or men what we should want and doing so is incredible toxic mindset too have.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:01 AM
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Sexual Dimorphism includes behavioral and cognitive traits. This is the only real reason men want women with low N counts. We CANNOT ensure paternity so our biologically impulses are always going to be pushing us towards woman who have demonstrated loyalty and restraint in the past. Women also want these things, just to a much much lesser degree because you can always ensure the child is yours. This is why men don't care about your N count when it comes to a hookup but do care when it comes to l…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 11:27 PM
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The desire for purity in a sexual partner is a dimorphic trait. Women can always ensure paternity biologically, men cannot.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 10:58 PM
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Man the strawmanning is real on this sub. I don't like dumb women and i don't value looks all that high. Give me a chick that's a 6, loyal and not drama over a 8 any day of the week.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 08:43 AM
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Yeah i don't infantilize my nieces, i wouldn't infantilize a daughter. She wouldn't be acting like this by the time she is dating age. If i'm having this conversation after she's already in a relationship/dating i've already fucked up. Much prefer my daughter to date Red over blue. It's the same thing Red is just more honest and more likely to be focusing on improving themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 06:02 AM
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Why does my dating age daughter have the IQ of a toaster?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/23 03:46 AM
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LMAO Strawman a buzzword. It's not hate, it's not misogyny. It's being real. You seem to be confusing RP with Incel. RPers don't have problems getting women, this is some blue pill cope. RP men can have problems finding marriageable women, because they basically don't exist. It's not like we find marriageable women and they reject us it's that they just don't exist because of the way society has raised them.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 11:16 PM
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Nobody says that at all. This is just neurotic behavior on your part. The idea that society doesn't care about rape or female suicide isn't real. It's something you made up to justify your lack of empathy towards men.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 10:58 PM
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It's like you're responding to something i didn't say
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:38 PM
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No. Also strawman on the wallets part. No. The point of the RP is to be able to see through emotional manipulation toxic women use. As well as identify what women actually find attractive. RP has been around and growing for well over a decade. It absolutely enables you to attract more women, but again attracting more women =/= creating good marriageable women. The problem is most modern women have been fooled into thinking men having boundaries is "horrid behavior." Men like me don't have proble…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:36 PM
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Taken more seriously for no other reason then the sex they were born as. Embellished and blue pillers refuse the best solutions and actively encourage women to engage in drunken parties which are the place it's most likely to occur at. DV? Women we got a massive problem with women hitting men in because they think men shouldn't be allowed to hit back and feminist organizations have been promoting a false narrative around it for decades. You're proving his point. Men's issues get brought up and y…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:26 PM
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Red pill Techniques work. But they don't make marriageable women appear out of thin air, doesn't matter how good you're at dealing with women if ever women you meet is recreational use only.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:14 PM
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You seem extremely angry and defensive about logical arguments. Resorting to sarcasm an blatantly false statements as a coping mechanism. Me improving myself and getting off the internet isn't going to change divorce court laws Me improving myself and getting off the internet isn't going to change the feminist run education system that treats young boys as defective girls. It isn't gonna address the gender grading gap or the lack of support structures that don't exist for struggling boys but do …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:07 PM
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What about when the younger one is pursing/initiates? I was the head of security at a small amusement park when i was 28-31. I frequently got flirted with, hit on and even asked out a by a few 18-20 women that worked in other departments. Is it creepy if the older person says yes?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:33 PM
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Women's attitudes towards dating/marriage are one of the biggest problems facing western society. The divorce rate is 10x what it used to be 70 years ago. Divorce is one of the single biggest factors in the health of the next generation. The first step to fixing a problem is to correctly identify it. The end goal is for a large portion of society to correctly identify the problem. Only then can we have a productive discussion on how to fix it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:22 PM
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Dating app data in the liberal cities show the same patterns... it's not a conservative thing. Men don't care about your education because basically no men are looking for a woman to support them financially. On the other hand your education/career often means you don't have time or aren't willing to do the things men want from women. Mainly taking to off work to have kids. It's not about "reducing women to a lower social standing" It's about women's unwillingness to provide men with things they…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 09:14 AM
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This is outright false. Most dating relationships now start online.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:53 AM
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Misleading stat. Dating app data shows the higher educated a man the more likely he is to get a response from women when messaging. For women higher education =/= more attractive to men, for women it peaks Bachelor's and after Bachelor's it lowers the chance a women will get a response(when she messages first, so there is no confusing or saying BUT SHE DIDN'T WANT HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE!) It's not simply people date the same or roughly equal education levels. It's also not projection many women …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:42 AM
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As a dude that's received lots of/constant female sexual attention i don't think most men would feel the same way you fell. I certainly didn't.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 12:18 AM
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He was/is well above average looking. You're kinda making the OPs point. He was/is tall and in good shape, with healthy skin ect. But since he has a goofy smile and big nose women see him as kinda Mid. When in reality he's like top 20% or so in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 10:04 PM
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We've known women have higher physically standards since the advent of internet dating. OKCupid released a bunch of data over a decade ago. Most women tend to rate very few men as "highly physically attractive" they rate average men around a 4 out of 10. Men other the hand have a much wider range of "highly physically attractive" and rate average women about 5.5 out of 10. 5.5 being actually average on a scale of 1-10. The newer swipe right/left apps like Tinder also show the same patterns in sw…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 09:43 PM
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