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| 1 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?Sounds like she also buys her friends drinks and gifts. Do you not? Like do people actually not get their friends gifts and offer to pay for drinks every single time you go out? With the fwb situation, a lot of the time they ARE just having fun. Those things hve to be communicated. If she hasn’t explicitly said “we are fwb” assume you’re leading her on. If he hasnt explicitly said “this is a meaningful endeavour for me” assume it’s meaningless. In a friendship don’t assume someone is flirting wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 01:11 AM |
| 1 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?If that actually happened that would be shitty. But I think I’m a lot of situations where a guy thinks this is what’s happening, the girl actually interprets their friendship innocently because they’ve been socialized to be more affectionate and empathetic than men, and have an easier time accepting affection and love without reading romance into it. Neither person here is at fault, because they’re both acting out of how they’ve been socialized, and the world would be better and the problem woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/08/23 12:08 AM |
| 1 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?No. I asked him out, he rejected me, I accepted that and stayed his friend, I started dating my husband, eventually my husband and I got engaged, “friend” stopped talking to me | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 10:55 PM |
| 1 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?I married this guy. We love each other. A guy who I THOUGHT was my friend stopped talking to me when I got engaged, which revealed that me never respected my relationship or me to begin with. He had me in the Fuck Zone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 09:35 PM |
| 1 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?The fuck zone can happen to women who are in happy monogamous relationships— if I guy became friends with her to try and break up the relationship or because they think it won’t last. That’s damaging to her | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 07:49 PM |
| 5 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?Nope, straightforwardly said I’m not interested right off the bat. Literally dating someone else at the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 06:29 PM |
| 4 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?So you agree that pretending to be someone’s friend while only ever being objectifying them is psychological abuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?Where’s the harm here | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:53 PM |
| 4 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?That’s not what ACTUAL WOMEN use the phrase to mean. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:47 PM |
| 3 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?Jesus fucking Christ. If he doesn’t want to be friends with me and just wants to fuck me he should stop leading me on. And tell me so we can stop interacting | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:46 PM |
| 3 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?That’s not what women mean when we use the term fuck zone . Because that’s not as damaging as a friend lying to you about whether they care about you or are just waiting around for you to fuck then and will ditch you if you ever get married | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: would you ever "go through the motions" to please your partner sexually?I would never want a partner who expected or wanted this. This would be discussed at the beginning of a relationship, before commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 05:43 PM |
| -4 | What’s more psychologically damaging; a guy being put into the friend zone or a woman being put into the fuck zone?The fuck zone isn’t about noncommittal guys. It’s about guys who reveal that they’ve only been friends with you because they thought you might fuck them one day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/08/23 03:30 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?If all he has to bring ti the relationship is more life experience he doesn’t actually bring anything to the relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:56 AM |
| 2 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?It’s always bad. Different doesn’t mean superior. If all he has to bring to the relationship is more life experience idk what to say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:55 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?People don’t want to fuck their kids because of incest which doesn’t apply here, and unequal power dynamics which this person seems to intentionally seek out. It’s a control thing and in a romantic relationship it’s EXTREMELY unhealthy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:54 AM |
| 1 | Do men actually like the idea of “coaching” a woman through life and why?This sounds like the literal definition of grooming | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:53 AM |
| 7 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?I remember that feeling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:48 AM |
| 3 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?Same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:44 AM |
| 4 | At what age did you first receive sexual attention from adult men?Yeah 12. My grandma “ran away” with a 21 year old when she was 9. She had her period when she came back. ETA: sorry I was actually 11. I have a really specific memory of when we lived in a townhouse area and were close with a bunch of our neighbors and my dad was hanging out in the basement and I wanted to be around the adults and read and this whole group of adult men had a full conversation with my dad about how pretty I was and how he’d have to have an electric fence around the house when I g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/08/23 04:44 AM |
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