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ComprehensiveFlatDistance5/r/seduction06/02/22 07:43 PM
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At the end of the first date? Usually I just say make it home safe, in person. As I’ve gotten older I no longer worry about seeing her again (maybe I’m jaded I’ve fucked a lot of women this year and only a few, the hottest ones came back). I just focus on messaging her in 2 days and setting the next date. I believe it’s good to let her wonder a bit. But that also requires discipline on your part. If I fucked her though, especially on the first date, I’ll send. I had fun, hope you made it home sa…
/r/seduction18/09/25 07:30 PM
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If you’re getting consistent action in the club, I can see how it can be tough transitioning. Honestly Im an old man 38, I can’t stand loud music, (drunk) dumbasses, or staying up too late. So grocery stores and big box stores are my clubs. So far this year 3 same day lays, and these girls were 18, 26, and 29, all very attractive. A few first date lays. So the women are there. I’d say if you wanted to transition, just start off slow, a couple hey I like how your dress matches your vibe, or your …
/r/seduction03/09/25 04:00 AM
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So is she a 1 and done or are you seeing her again? I don’t do clubs all my approaches are day game
/r/seduction02/09/25 09:20 PM
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Slow clap 👏 👏 👏 love it
/r/seduction02/09/25 03:27 PM
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My method, is 3 fold Partly illogical conversation, I make sure before I open my mouth I stop and think and say the words I FEEL like such and such. Also i drag out what I say with nonsense words Ex. I feel like you do make an excellent point. The way such excited you, and made you feel blah blah blah. It doesn’t matter what I say as long as I say I feel at the beginning of at least most of my shit. Sometimes i will just start talking regularly like man to man making jokes but i find when i take…
/r/seduction28/08/25 01:12 PM
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Ok cool, that’s a good start. My question is why aren’t you building a rotation? Why aren’t you actively dating these women and building some type of bond? Not judging but from my understanding that is the best way to get and keep having a 3some Now take ALL of this with a huge grain of salt. I have NOT had a 3some yet, but it’s not for lack of trying, but because the last girl I was with I bitched out at the last minute on all 3 she was trying to give me. They all were down, I was just too scar…
/r/seduction11/08/25 01:11 AM
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Do you have a steady girl or rotation right now?
/r/seduction11/08/25 12:35 AM
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Glad to hear, are you still adding women to your roster or just dating her. Reason I ask is because I find dating more than one woman (if you can afford it). Makes overall dating less stressful and more fun at least for me
/r/seduction03/08/25 04:03 PM
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Interesting i was at that age when i was worried about others “being ahead” now im late 30s and that though doesnt even cross my mind. Your mindset has to change, drop the thinking everyone is ahead or behind. It doesnt matter. We all live in the sea of average. Focus on what you can do now. You’re in school good. Ok what for? If it’s not in something that’ll give you good income, switch! I recommend either nursing or tech. If unhappy with school go get a trade. You won’t be financially fit unti…
/r/seduction03/08/25 04:01 PM
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Congrats do you plan on making her your gf, keeping it casual, or even part of a rotation either way awesome job
/r/seduction03/08/25 03:47 PM
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Hey thanks for commenting Bro, (I forgot I even posted this). I know when people say things like I hope it’s going well, usually the OP (myself kinda in this situation) don’t say anything because we fell off. Anyways.. It’s going well. Ive been struck by the self improvement bug. Had you said hope it’s going well last year around this time, I’d already gained 30lbs of fat since the post. But it’s going great I’ve lost more weight, lowest weight I’ve been on 7 years, I’ve kept all my muscle and a…
/r/seduction07/02/25 04:10 PM
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The best “free” seduction site available
/r/seduction07/02/25 10:17 AM
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Tf are you talking about spreading positive energy, you’re there to dominate your workout. Not give a rah rah speech at a company meeting. The workout comes first. If you’ve put in enough work on your body, and is attractive enough. Women will become stupidly curious about you. Meaning they’ll do goofy shit to get near you to have you open them up.. just pay attention if you’ve put in the work on your body enough.. and you go to the gym looking somewhat decent women will go out of their way to g…
/r/seduction06/02/25 01:30 AM
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She probably doesn’t even want you to know about her kid. If she bring him/her up ask her questions about it, but only keep it to a few, you don’t want her thinking about the kid then baby daddy then how it ended etc etc. keep it light and moving, throw in sexual innuendo to see how she’ll take it. And touch her constantly, 2 steps forward 1 step back. Other than that flow with the conversation with word association, easy. She’s just another girl bro, she’s your same damn age, she not an “older …
/r/seduction05/02/25 06:47 AM
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Models is a shitty book when it comes to learning ANYTHING about seduction. “Just be non-needy bro” isn’t going to get you the type of dating life you want. You need to know where you’re going wrong exactly in the interaction. I know you didn’t mention that garbage but it somewhat irks me when people mention that book, like specifically what did you learn from that shitty book to teach you how to run a daygame, night game, or text game interaction.. “just be non-needy bro” isn’t going to get you…
/r/seduction23/01/25 12:08 PM
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Kino…. That’s the word I was looking for on my post.
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:19 AM
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You can sexually escalate and risk losing her in the process. So if you only have an hour it’s best just to have fun… escalate a little, and set up a date at your place for the next time. You can escalate in a short time period but if you don’t have a plan in place you can escalate to the point of no return, basically you can turn her on SO MUCH that sex is expected, and if you don’t have it… she’ll never see you again. Why? Because Basically, next time she sees you there’s an expectation of sex…
/r/seduction30/12/24 07:17 AM
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This lol…
/r/seduction30/11/24 04:31 AM
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Although you didn’t say what your bf % is, you said you were “buff.” I’m saying instead of being buff focus on cutting. Decreasing the calories getting lean, it’ll make dating easier. I’m still what I would call buff… I have a lot of muscle but also a lot of fat… but as I’m losing fat and leaning out and cuts in my muscles are starting to show, I’m starting to garner more attention from the ladies. Or at least they’re responding more positively to my advances. That’s what I meant I hope I cleane…
/r/seduction25/11/24 10:05 PM
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Mm I’d say I slept with 9 women so far this year… the girl 9th girl is about to give me a 3some so that’ll be 10. And I just cold approached about 5 very attractive women this week (my types) had great conversation, most seemed solid over text I don’t think any of them are coming on a date. And I just finished a date/spent the night with a woman I consider a solid 7.5 a girl I said would be my wife. I consider myself to be a low consistent casual date getting guy. Why it took 2k+ approached and …
/r/seduction25/11/24 05:25 AM
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Hmm, I will add my 2c in this as a normal 5’11 borderline obese guy with a somewhat muscular physique. I’m 250 but I’m strong a lot of muscle… under ma fat. The laaaadddiiees ask if I lift ever so often of which I certainly say…. Yes. I’m way more fat than muscular… but if I take ever take my cut seriously I’d look like an nfl sized running back. I don’t look good with my shirt off at all Anywho I’m also an avid daygamer…. Well was, since I’ve realized I get no burning desire and a ton of flakes…
/r/seduction10/09/24 03:51 AM
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Insecure about my body didn’t take off shirt. And for then super hot ones i kept cumming too fast (way too much tmi)
/r/seduction28/01/24 11:43 PM
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Opposite for me. Last year I was 280 5’11 I take trt so I had a muscular frame but let’s be honest I was fat. I was cold approaching a ton, I’m a big daygame guy. I wasn’t getting many results. Lots of numbers no dates. But I lucked up and met a beautiful woman. Giant tits and ass pretty face no waist. Dream come true, plus she was love bombing me, calling me king and the such. We had 2 dates. She spent the night and f@&ked. Then she ghosted me.. It was a hard time. Told myself I’m never losing …
/r/seduction28/01/24 07:27 PM
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Approach every woman you find attractive. Work on improving your body, finances, facial appearance, and style as much as possible Try different hobbies and build a group (can be small) around it Travel As you get better. And life seemingly increase, showcase it on social media and dating apps In other words become the best bait possible to attract the best women Try to let go of the idea of unrealistically hot women existing. Instead think of them as little emotionally need children….. with tits…
/r/seduction18/08/23 04:32 PM
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1st date, I invite them over to my place to split a bottle of wine. If they declined I suggest go for a walk on the riverfront. Or go to what I call, The most chill bar in the world…. It’s a shitty restaurant/bar up the street from my place. If summertime, same thing, only if they decline first option bar near mine, or ice cream on the riverfront. The first date for me is to test how sexually attracted she is to me. Even if she wants to decline and go to the riverfront, I’m still escalating whil…
/r/seduction28/10/22 02:55 AM
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I’ll say this, there’s pretty small populous that have done all they could do, and not get any kind of results pertaining to women. But I’ll bite. If you did all you could and still fail, and let’s assume failing would be, not getting any dates for an extended period of time. Let’s say a year. Then a few things you could do. Look at yourself objectively, what small things could you improve on that you previously thought you maximized. Have you approached enough women, have you spent enough time …
/r/seduction24/10/22 07:34 PM
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Dorsiflexionkey, Just read this thread and I agree with you 100%. I was literally about to type exactly what you wrote. If OP has a fully-functional brain and he’s not disfigured, chances are it’s not him being “unlucky” he’s just comfortable and actually doesn’t want help or to work, he just wants a pat on his back and someone to say it’s going to be ok. He just wants attention like a woman. For you, you have to realize bro a lot of people don’t want to be saved. Don’t save em’ Now for OP, chan…
/r/seduction24/10/22 05:33 PM
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Cool so you have a high base-line….. I don’t get it why doods come on here and already know what the fuck they’re supposed to do… YOU ALREADY KNOW WHAT TO DO!!! Reverse hair loss look at more plates more dates shitz. What workout program are you running? My personal fav are anything that allows you to hit full body 3x per week. For nattys multiple day full body/week is the way to go. Nutrition: goto calorie calculator on google, what are you macros… if your too fat cut calories lose body while b…
/r/seduction23/10/22 05:41 AM
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Here’s my 2 cents…. Ya don’t hate dating. You hate the women that are going through the funnel and actually going out with you. Ok I got it Well my first question would be, why the fuck are you adding unattractive women to the funnel in the first place. If she’s ugly fat or just plainly not your type don’t approach, or swipe. It sounds like your approach and swipe anything approach is a little desperate. Just because you’re 6’3 and have a full beard doesn’t make you attractive….. a mfer whose sm…
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:42 AM
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Aw the ugly autistic feminist is mad because she knows no guy actually wants to fuck her or likes her. Yes people have fucking trauma but u don't just dump that shit on someone you just met, if you do this like this then stop, you're weird for doing it. You have no idea what dating is like for men, im sure tons of low quality guys wanna fuck u just cuz you're a woman and nothing else
/r/seduction23/10/22 04:13 AM
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This
/r/seduction20/10/22 04:48 AM
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Your place, or a walk….. near your place
/r/seduction14/10/22 09:34 PM
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2 ways. Heavy and aggressive…. Walk over and say look son!!! I saw you staring at me son!! Makes me think you wanna taste SON!!! Aye look put my number in yo phone, HURRRY UP, SON!! What time you picking me up….. look at him threateningly…. (If he looks scared or nervous) I said WHAT TIME YOU PICKING ME UP SON!!! That’s what I thought, I’ll be ready at 8. This way will work most of the time. Or feminine subtle yet still forward smooth if you catch them checking you out smile and wave. If they wa…
/r/seduction09/10/22 02:22 AM
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I used to do this….. The good -you will see that rejection doesn’t mean shit, thus making it easier to approach -you will get women who are just dtf just because you approached them correctly and they arent used to that -you will get solid numbers and some dates -can build a rotation from this -and if you do this long enough, and become good enough you will get same day lays. I’ve done it -and you will (sometimes) get those how the fuck did I get this extremely attractive chick moments. It happe…
/r/seduction02/10/22 04:13 AM
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Didnt confuse them, just didn’t care enough to be grammatically correct on Reddit. If you’re a grammar nazi and my misuse of the written English language bothers you, it’s fine don’t take the advice 🤷🏾
/r/seduction24/09/22 06:54 PM
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If you cut off your social media, it won’t make dating harder, it’d just cut off a potential source for dating lead generation. Which if you don’t have a good social media presence it won’t matter anyways. As far as previous posters concerns go, women don’t look at your social media to see that your human. They use it to screen you out of potentially dating them. Meaning.. let’s say you meet a woman in person great conversation vibes good you set a date, and like kids do today exchange social me…
/r/seduction24/09/22 03:47 PM
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Unless you’re really tall or somewhat short, I would say 5’8 and smaller, or 6’2, 6’3 and taller your few inches would make some difference but not as much as you think. The thing that would work more than increasing height. Is increasing looks. Dress more stylish, lift weights, get a great haircut.
/r/seduction17/09/22 01:40 AM
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I actually can see it from both ways if she came over in some shitty clothes to see a movie she probably thought it’s not really a date. So I’ll get as comfortable as possible…. Doesn’t mean she wasn’t possibly dtf. But on the other hand (in most cases I’ve had) she might not have been that attracted to you. Even if she dressed like shit, why not test the waters? (To be fair I’m on the fatter side so I haven’t done this, but will test in future) I think what you could’ve done instead of her show…
/r/seduction02/09/22 01:01 PM
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Don’t even have to be just for college, it’s a great tool to have anywhere. EXAMPPLE!!! I didn’t go on a date with this chick but this where I realized the power of daygame. On a plane with my kids my mom my sister and her husband, after my kids were distracted on their tablets. I spot a chick sitting diagonal and behind me, stripper body, leopard print shirt matching her shoes showing her belly with tattoos. I look at her shoes, tell her cute shoes, where did she get them from, I said something…
/r/seduction25/08/22 04:22 PM
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What dating apps you using?
/r/seduction23/08/22 03:07 PM
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Grocery stores grocery grocery grocery grocery stores…… I’m black, I like black women so I approached a lot at Walmart as well.
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:37 AM
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Ok so you said you had around 30 cold approaches how many numbers did you get? Did you get 30 numbers and sleep with 2 or 3 women from cold approach? I’m personally 2500 cold approaches in. I land around 30% number close, half of that respond and only about 20% of the responders go out with me. And about half of those end up fucking roughly about 55 women lifetime. What you’ll notice the more you approach the more you can gauge interest level right from the beginning. Those who aren’t interested…
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:30 AM
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This
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:03 AM
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Yep and it’s scary as shit…. Like you want me to choke you harder?? Are you sure???
/r/seduction12/08/22 04:00 AM
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It happens sometime just this weekend i was at Walmart, I saw the sexiest woman I’ve seen in awhile (5’5 caramel slim thick, wide hips lotta ass young pretty face) working she was with her coworker I approached I told the girl she was cute she said thanks. She was answering my questions but her and her coworker were giving me a blank stare so I took it on the chin, said thanks for your time and left. I’ve had women completely ignore me, I’ve even had a girl that I’ve approached before yell at me…
/r/seduction01/08/22 05:31 AM
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1 solid out of 50 numbers that are solid is pretty typical for newbies. But here’s a couple things the more approaches you do the decrease in ratio.. - I attribute that to recognizing women that aren’t interested from the onset. You’ll start to recognize patterns of disinterest. And either you’ll dismiss yourself or have her dismiss you. Here’s what I suggest (disclaimer: I’m not blackpill, but they have some truths) focus on your looks before daygame, haircut fashion, Watch bracelets. Are you i…
/r/seduction31/07/22 05:18 PM
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Don’t focus on women, focus on discipline especially in the gym, your style, building your livelihood and once in college join different social clubs. Focus and leadership and reliability. Women will flock to you if you’ve built yourself up.
/r/seduction31/07/22 04:19 PM
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If she was that interested why not skip the club and invite her straight over for drinks?
/r/seduction30/07/22 02:06 PM
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If first date and depending on age Mario cart, my favorite anime/show, my fish tank, my dog………. Anything except, come over so we can duck. If second date, let’s have wine at my place, let’s watch a movie together, Dinner at my place…….. Anything except, come over and duck
/r/seduction29/07/22 04:41 AM
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Cold approach for all of them This year: most recent, sitting at a bus stop she just got off of work. I was driving looked over saw she was very pretty, approached fucked for a month Before her approached her while she was doing Uber eats I was doing uber eats as well fucked same night Another one she was shopping in Walmart I said I thought she had big titties. Fucked same night One working at JCPenney night manager fucked for 2 weeks A few more this year from cold approaching just having troub…
/r/seduction23/07/22 11:19 PM
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Will do thanks
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:43 PM
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Keep approaching bro. But in the meantime keep self improving. And eventually you’ll accomplish the goals you’re aiming for
/r/seduction23/07/22 07:43 PM
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Was your house trashed? They were all below average, were they fat chicks? Btw Fat chicks aren’t a gimme. They might actually, in some cases be harder to fuck simply because they want to feel hot by saying they rejected somebody. Your missing big-ass pieces of the story. How below average are we talking fat, missing teeth, Bo? Why did you tell them that was your cousins place are you an 80% slob. Did you show the group any intent, light flirting, or breaking the touch barrier. Based off of just …
/r/seduction23/07/22 06:53 PM
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It is 100% none of your business. Shoot your shot, let her decide if she has a bf or not. Chances are you won’t find out anyways
/r/seduction23/07/22 05:16 AM
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I say improve your profile take better pics get in better shape do more interesting shit overall and put that online. But in the meantime take advantage of your growth and approach women in public as well. Believe it or not 8-9s (i don’t believe 10s exist) still want to fuck hot guys and will swipe on them. And as you improve the more women will be receptive to your approach. Cold approach and online dating both are sources for leads. Don’t neglect either. If you’re not the hot guy getting atten…
/r/seduction17/07/22 08:17 AM
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That’s the anxiety talking just go up and strike a conversation. The last girl I fucked before the last girl I fucked I came up to her while she was waiting on food to ubereats and started talking about our 2nd amendment rights, it turned into me commenting about her accent. To 4 hours later that night me shoving dick down her throat You just have to have courage and somewhat of a conversational strategy, you don’t have to be a male model but you have to look taken care of. I’m a fat guy, that’s…
/r/seduction11/07/22 11:48 PM
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I’m not either, but when I was actively dating, all the girls I dated i met while I was shopping, some were at work, met a few at the gas station. Just approach during your daily travels. And if you live in a major metro, options outside of bars and OLD shouldn’t be an issue ANOTHER THING- men don’t approach these days. So you’ll definitely set yourself apart. Especially with the hot ones ANOTHER NOTHER THING- you can’t just be another guy. Look your best, as best you can when you leave the hous…
/r/seduction11/07/22 05:04 AM
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3x this year for me. Have to do a shit load of approaching though
/r/seduction03/07/22 08:48 AM
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Lol 😂 this
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:25 AM
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Just tell her let me get you an Uber. Personally I wear a watch or have a clock nearby so even if we started watching a movie after I’d tell her at min thirty (so she don’t feel slutty) that I have work early in the morning so I have to go to bed, if she drove plan the next date and tell her you’ll walk her back to the car. (Edit: TELL HER, let me walk you back to her car) (Edit 2: walk her back to the car feel her up kiss her maybe get that 2nd blowjob in, i personally like to get it outside, t…
/r/seduction18/06/22 02:23 AM
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This
/r/seduction17/06/22 01:39 PM
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Start approaching women when your out and about. Dress nice everywhere you go, strike up a conversation and see where it goes
/r/seduction17/06/22 03:32 AM
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Not sure what you did to get to the point where your able to get a luxury apartment. But if you can apply that same discipline to getting in shape, becoming well groomed and fashionable, on top of approaching more. Than you should have options in no time
/r/seduction15/06/22 06:03 AM
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Next time get the number not ig
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:45 PM
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My thoughts are it’s not necessarily easier it’s just a step. Usually for me at least it’s 1 or 2 dates. Then we’re fucking. Then after the first session it’s up to her if she wants to keep fucking. I say it’s her choice because if your a man and found her attractive in the first place you’ll want to keep her around. Usually women aren’t going to want to come over and fuck all the time they want to be taken out, and shown. So if you don’t take her out usually its a few sessions then it ends ther…
/r/seduction14/06/22 04:16 PM
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2 ways you can go about it. Say hey that’s disrespectful, I’m dating your sister, I don’t want you. And tell the sister if she keeps acting that way you won’t hang around her and her sister anymore. Or you can flirt back. Tell her sister you see I’m not doing anything and your not saying anything but if you keep sitting there Letting this happen I’m gonna grab it. I would say that in front of both of them. Who knows your girl might get turned on. Tell her to come sit on your lap so you know it’s…
/r/seduction12/06/22 05:43 PM
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Anytime I see an attractive woman, anywhere really. The girl I’m fucking now I literally seen her at a bus stop so I turned around parked my car, struck up a convo, saw that she was smiling a lot so I turned on my sexuality, sat down kino’d her with me having a super relaxed body language having her lean toward me, acting like I couldn’t hear her to get her to move closer, and I fucked her later that night. Today I was dropping off a DoorDash at a school, pretty ass petite young mom was walking …
/r/seduction04/06/22 06:12 AM
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Yep honestly I don’t look the best balding muscular fat… been told I’m handsome but I don’t quite believe it. I don’t use dating apps my mouthpiece is my best asset. But I noticed when I was 50lbs lighter although I’m doing well today in the dating market (because when I leave the house I get pretty), the numbers way more solid, women I was attracting way hotter, I’m dating hot ones now but not at those levels, and the frequency of approach to date ratio was way higher. Looks matter way more tha…
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:15 AM
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It gets better, especially if you maintain your looks and have your shit together
/r/seduction04/06/22 04:01 AM
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Start approaching during the day. Such as stores gas stations cafe university or if just out and about
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:58 AM
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Hate to say it and most men will downvote it. But looks are more important than game. Especially if using dating apps
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:56 AM
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No dating apps out of shape 35yo here. All I do is cold approach I’m having the best year of my life so far. Solid rotation with cute/curvy 19yo and my main 36yo. Have another date tomorrow with a new chick just met today from cold approach coming over the house. Fucked 6 new women not including my main chick so far this year. 8 new women in the past 7 months. Also 19yo is bi-curious so she’s down with a threesome So no drought over here. You guys need to start incorporating cold approach
/r/seduction04/06/22 03:52 AM
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Something cheap that would allow you to touch her, and most importantly get her turned on is ideal for a first date. If you can’t get her straight over the house, then invite her for a walk at a park, near your place. Or a bar, near your place. If either of those aren’t an option then…. I would just move on. But the baseball game. That would be after sex type of date, bringing her into your world type of date imo
/r/seduction15/05/22 07:35 PM
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Why are you still with her?
/r/seduction15/05/22 03:47 PM
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She’s flat out not interested, move on.
/r/seduction13/05/22 02:06 PM
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Sounds interesting, I would say this instead of coffee start offering to take them on walks that way you show your charisma, and you can sexualize with kino, which would be hard sitting at a Starbucks. Or if you have your own place invite them straight over for coffee or wine
/r/seduction09/05/22 04:27 AM
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How do you approach?
/r/seduction07/05/22 06:16 PM
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There’s more questions that need to be asked are you in-shape? Visible abs? Is she fat or unnattractive Do you smoke drink, watch porn, jack off? Lot of things it could be -maybe you don’t find her attractive, despite what you say -stop masturbating -start working out -change your diet -stop rawdogging
/r/seduction03/05/22 03:03 PM
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Happened a bunch of times, not a big deal. Just say ah, shrug and leave. Only a problem when they don’t tell you
/r/seduction02/05/22 01:38 AM
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Women want a top-tier man everywhere, gotta change your mindset my guy
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:53 AM
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My Philosophy is simple when it comes to women, if you make yourself a catch…… women will fall in line. Meaning if you make yourself that dude, you can have any kind of relationship you want I define that dude as someone who looks, dresses very well, great shape, has game, has money (not to trick, but to provide great experiences) and a group of friends that respect him. And some local status (meaning he’s good at some shit and show cases it) That means once you build yourself into that dude. Yo…
/r/seduction29/04/22 05:14 AM
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Seem like a dream, until you put in the work looksmax, hit the gym, get your shit together, and start approaching/using apps…. Becomes a reality
/r/seduction29/04/22 03:59 AM
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Much rather a main chick, with side partners, especially if she’s bi
/r/seduction28/04/22 10:31 PM
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Hi exhibitionist here, I would’ve let her suck me off right on the dance floor especially if it was busy, just a quickie would’ve been ok. Even if you fucked her. It could’ve just looked like you were dirty dancing. I’ve fucked a ton in public, Yea you could’ve spent the night in jail but to me it’s all about the memories. Btw I haven’t went to jail for fucking public Give it a shot go to an r-rated film and play with her in the theater. Or go for a walk in the park take her behind the bushes. I…
/r/seduction27/04/22 04:44 AM
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Be
/r/seduction23/04/22 05:49 PM
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She has bills, lungs, goals, dreams, aspirations applications…. Maybe she wanted be a ballet dancer who knows. I get it she’s a human. OP has a problem. He can’t get past his girl’s ugly O face. Post nut clarity kicks his ass. To make it worse EVERYTHING else about her is great including the body… Now OP seems like a nice guy. I’m not. I can see his face scrunched up every time he seen her post o face. He doesn’t want to hurt her feelings so he tries to look away as quick as possible. I understa…
/r/seduction22/04/22 03:30 AM
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This
/r/seduction22/04/22 12:26 AM
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Hit from the back and make it an open relationship, keep her around as fwb
/r/seduction21/04/22 11:53 PM
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That comes from the mystery method: And that’s not true. If a woman very attracted to you can sleep with her in the first hour. If your more tradition date 1: hour walk date 2: dinner 1hour the back to your place so 3 hours date 3 if didn’t hit date 2 invite over to your place so 3-5 hour’s traditionally Non traditional hit first day or second date so 2-4 hours
/r/seduction21/04/22 05:20 AM
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I’m a guy who absolutely loves daygame so I’m going to have to come at this from an anectdotal standpoint. To me there’s two ways you can focus on getting better with women. Going out failing over and over, getting courses until you’ve found the right system then implemented it. Then coast so basically go from a low level to a high intermediate level, put most of your time and focus on becoming great with women…. That’s me I can fuck about 5–10 women a year if I choose, with about 40 or so Lukew…
/r/seduction20/04/22 04:49 AM
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If you’re a whale tell him before hand that you like him, and see if he’s interested, because he might not know how to let you down. If your attractive (not a whale) in any combination, cute face, nice body, maybe your face isn’t that cute, doesn’t matterand he’s spending time alone with you. Then if he’s not brave enough, when you sit next to him put your leg next to his touching. Then about 15 minutes into the movie if he hasn’t taken initiative, grab hand lift it up, lean into him and put his…
/r/seduction18/04/22 11:28 PM
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This, have to learn to say less.
/r/seduction16/04/22 04:10 PM
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I’ve only been rejected very badly once funny story. I approached this girl twice. Both times we were on campus and this community college. See her sitting at a computer so I walk over introduce myself we have a 5 minute conversation flirting she seemed interested I ask her out she asked how old I was I said 30, she said she’s 18 so she’s out. I said that’s not an issue we can still vibe, she said nah, and I politely left. Fast forward 2 months later, I saw a girl…. Blond hair very pretty dark s…
/r/seduction15/04/22 06:55 PM
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Hmm, I’m actually about to write up a report on the 30 approaches I did in about 8 hours 4 weeks ago in a big city. For that day… and just to preface I’m 5’11 barefoot, above average in face and muscularish, way more fat than muscular build butterball with muscular arms 265lbs of lean mean fat and muscle. But for that outing 30 approaches 15 #’s 6 agreed to a date 2 including the hottest one wanted to fuck (sexting) other wanted to date. Eventually went on a date with one, couldn’t close because…
/r/seduction15/04/22 04:58 PM
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I’m 5’11 as well I’ve approached well over 1000, the 6ft thing doesn’t matter nearly as much as you’d think. Us 5’11 can manipulate our height with boots, thick shoes or even inserts to make us 6+ if need be. But what matters is how confident you seem, grooming, how you dress, smell, are you in great shape. Yea if you’re 6’2 or 6’5+ you won’t need as much as the other things because you’ll just stand out, you’ll just need to not be a weirdo. But if your 5’7-5’11, you have some work to do but not…
/r/seduction15/04/22 03:16 PM
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Op have you set a date yet? If you haven’t why not?? Get off the phone and tell her to come over
/r/seduction12/04/22 12:24 PM
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Nah I don’t agree with this at all, she has nothing to go off of. She doesn’t have anything to find you interesting, and she also knows you don’t know anything about her The only way she’ll like you here is if she finds you highly attractive just off of looks Get numbers like this and it’s a guaranteed flake
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:26 AM
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This is what you should say instead. Hey I thought you looked interesting Had to stop you thought you looked cute Keep up the empathy theme I like that Keep the investment line I like that Start throwing a time constraint in so she knows you won’t be there all day. Hey I’m about to leave in 2 minutes but I thought you were cute hi I’m yellow_squeezer Stop high-fiving I can see a lot of women can see that as corny or cringy. Instead to break the touch barrier ask her if she works out while touchi…
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:14 AM
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Wow you are almost like me I don’t have any pics of myself yet I’ve approached I would say 2K-2500 women, I don’t do any online, and I’m kinda socially awkward. I can talk to anyone individually but if it’s a group of more people I’m quiet. Crowds make me nervous hmm weird. Op I’ve recently approached 30 women in one day I think you should read it I’m about to post it here soon
/r/seduction12/04/22 01:06 AM
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Probably but for a select group of people….. I believe there was a party like that for vets. They’d come in get tattoos beers and blowjobs as a thank you for their service. If I find the video I’ll link it
/r/seduction11/04/22 01:38 PM
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How many approaches have you done if you did 500-1000 then yea maybe you need major tweaks But if you did less than 100 than guy, you haven’t approached enough Are you only nightgaming or are you daygaming as well? I think we need an example of your approaches to see where your fucking up, if your fucking up really. What’s your opener Are you conversational and vibing with the girl Did you close with intent on going on a date? We need what a typical conversation and approach looks like. Then we …
/r/seduction10/04/22 05:33 PM
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Yea…. I must’ve misread I thought he left it on her doorstep and he saw she had it on her panties. Wow I really misread that… that’s creepy not gonna lie. Yea just…. Hmm 🤔
/r/seduction09/04/22 02:38 PM
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You’re not going to be contacted by the police but you need to go and introduce yourself. And since she already knows you want to fuck empathize tell her you were nervous joke a little about the letter, tell that’s how things work where your from. She’ll be hooked then, she’ll more than likely will find that cute start talking to her normally for few minutes then ask her for a date right then and there. ask her out for a walk later. All isn’t lost my guy just go and shoot your shot again, than i…
/r/seduction09/04/22 12:27 PM
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Fucking soft-ass gen zxywabc generation….. dude your fookin 19, 19!!!!! Change your thought pattern. Think of like this how many 19yo in this generation, assuming they aren’t a basketball player or football player at your school are getting this far with women. You guys (gen z) have a record high virginity rate, why because you guys don’t act like men, you don’t look like men, and you take small things like a rejections like it’s something that is critical to whether you live or die. Bro if you …
/r/seduction08/04/22 05:11 PM
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Shes checking out, probably another dude, just let her call you. If she doesn’t have sex again consider it done. If she calls back after that, think of something creative to make her get back in your good graces
/r/seduction07/04/22 03:51 PM
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Hey thought you were cute I’m …….. Normally I don’t do this but I thought you were cute I’m…..
/r/seduction07/04/22 11:53 AM
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Next time insist, we’ll only be at my place for a few minutes. Come check out my patio. As a matter of fact the next date you have shouldn’t be public make it a date inside movie and wine. This was great only thing I’d change is walking to the couch and introducing yourself, and stating your intent. Hey thought you were cute had to say hi I’m…. And although it worked this time I wouldn’t do ig unless you have a kickass page it’ll only decrease your value. But for this approach you did awesome. N…
/r/seduction04/04/22 10:09 PM
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Walmart target mall…. Yoga class…… planet fitness…. Pet smart McDonald’s. They’re everywhere
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:17 PM
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Yep that’s pretty much my motto if you can make them giggle you can make they booty jiggle.. Im a fat ass I like food too much it’s my biggest vice, and yea I’m not natty but I’m fat with a muscular build, so If decided to take a cut seriously I would come out looking somewhat like an nfl linebacker. but I’m a monster in the gym, ever since I’ve been working out and meditating. It’s like my ability to daygame and attract women naturally have gone up dramatically. And I don’t even see visible res…
/r/seduction04/04/22 06:06 PM
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Yea honestly I was trying to relay that I used to think things like that would help. Now I approach and whoever likes me, like me, and if they don’t who cares. I used to think, that I needed to be taller because I felt small in my former work environment I worked around trees, and women flocked to them, a smallish dark time for me But seeing videos of people running on surgically lengthened limbs made me say fuck that. Working on my business meditating approaching my ass off, hitting the gym lik…
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:39 PM
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https://youtube.com/c/PlayingWithFireDating
/r/seduction04/04/22 05:11 PM
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I’m currently building my business been doing 20k revenue 3-5k profit monthly and starting to scale quickly should be 10-15k prof. 30-50k rev end of the year and I also DoorDash/Ubereats. If I could do it all over again I would would’ve finished my degree right out of high school. Honestly I was going somewhere with that first part but lost track and now don’t want to erase it, anywho. I too say from time to time when I get my money better and a six-pack I’ll go approach. I’ve had my struggles w…
/r/seduction04/04/22 04:45 PM
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She’s not necessarily a “low self esteem” woman. She’s probably used to dudes saying shit like that to her, being unoriginal and she’s tired of it. Or she could have been on her period. But I doubt it’s because she doesn’t think she’s beautiful, you, if you are interested in her need to step your game up. Me personally I wouldn’t call her beautiful, I would say hey I think your cute nice to meet you I’m flatdistance. Women give ALL KINDS of reactions to that shit. Most of them being confusion mi…
/r/seduction04/04/22 03:38 PM
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Yep, it’s rare but if the approach is going smooth enough, you should be standing close enough already. say I can see something in your eyes let me look, tell her, her eye color is interesting, get close and give her a light kiss. I’ve never kissed during a daygame cold approach but I have felt on a sexy security guards ass, talked to about fucking bdsm style within the first five minutes of meeting another. And fucked girls later in the day from the approach. But situations like that are rare S…
/r/seduction04/04/22 01:45 PM
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Who did you take?
/r/seduction04/04/22 12:21 AM
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Put a blind fold on her put her in handcuffs, put her on her stomach with her ass in the air, and eat her out from behind. Don’t let her cum. At least that’s what I would think that she meant
/r/seduction03/04/22 06:39 PM
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It’s a sign that she doesn’t want you to leave, or in a way making it harder for her to leave. Usually when a woman isn’t interested her feet will keep moving away from you, she’ll keep walking. But the next time you’re out, look at the women immersed in conversation with a man. A lot of time one leg crosses the other. It’s unconscious but it’s a sign hey I’m here listening intently
/r/seduction02/04/22 02:39 PM
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Call it out…. Look I’m not gonna let your titty meat distract me today ok daddy’s a practicing Christian, you’ll have to wait your turn, look her right in her eyes when you say that shit. Don’t have to use that line but. But playfully call it out, let her know your looking and that you like what you see. As much as feminists complain they’re human and not/nor want to be in some cases a man’s sexual object, when the man they find attractive flirts with them they become putty. Every girl I’ve appr…
/r/seduction02/04/22 01:29 PM
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Ah ok… hmmm you could get her to fly to you. Just sporadically message her and tell her to come to you for vacation. Keep the energy up. Keep telling her daddy has her chocolate, if you do that she’ll get so turned on she won’t have a choice Not 100% sure if it’ll work. But if she’s doing this much. She’s probably interested enough to hop on a flight. Also….. are you talking to other women?? If not you need to talk to other women. It makes her of less importance, and increases your ability to ta…
/r/seduction01/04/22 03:13 PM
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If you don’t want to see her, I think you’re lying btw, then tell her no….. if you want to see her then Tell her you can get some chocolate when you cum to daddy
/r/seduction01/04/22 02:51 PM
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I like how all the reasonable answers are being downvoted must be bitter older women. I’m 35, I’ve fucked a 20yo earlier this year a 19yo last year, 3 years ago I dated an 18yo for a few weeks. My personal believe are if they are consenting adults they are fair game. Women will shame, and some men too, but mostly women. All you can do is date who your attracted to, let the haters hate, you only one life, no one can live it but you. Side note: although 18-23yo are fun to fuck, i personally find I…
/r/seduction31/03/22 07:12 PM
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So 2 ways you can handle this if your cabinet is full… and your already dating chicks just let her keep flirting she’ll be a nice back burner. I’m always cognizant about potentially shitting where you eat, and I like my space so again if I was in your position and I was fucking other girls than no I wouldn’t go for her. Buuuuuttttt, if you aren’t fucking other girls and you can care less if you see her everytime you go to the gym than yea make her part of the rotation. Here’s how you do it if yo…
/r/seduction31/03/22 04:15 AM
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I’m not really sure if this is an intensity issue. I thinks it’s a few things I don’t think you have many experiences with women. Why because you said love at first sight, and your 100% sure she doesn’t have a high body count. Men who have a lot of experience with dating know every woman’s body is and shall for ever remain a mystery it truly doesn’t matter because she’ll never tell you what it is anyway. Also love at first sight really goes away. Have you been in any relationships, have you slep…
/r/seduction28/03/22 05:01 PM
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Have to decrease the threshold. It’s going to feel weird but first you have to approach, and ask for the time. Then ask for directions then start throwing in some intent, hey where’s Starbucks, cute shoes Tell yourself I’m only doing 1 approach and I’m asking for the time that’s it. You don’t need a boot camp I can get you over that threshold for free
/r/seduction28/03/22 04:40 PM
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Of course you can my ex’s male friends used to do that shit until I told her to cut em off. If she let you get away with it have fun. But you have to keep the endgame in mind is calling her dear or babe gonna get you any closer to the pussy?
/r/seduction25/03/22 05:03 PM
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Gahdam…. Are you into women or men. I want to respect your terminology but it’s kind of confusing. So I’m going to speak only in terms of women and men. So as a woman are you trying to pursue women, or men. As to be more helpful in critiquing your approach because believe it or not the strategies recommended on getting the results you want do change based your targets gender. Let’s take Demi and semi and all that out of it for now because it doesn’t help get what you want. Which is someone you f…
/r/seduction22/03/22 10:44 PM
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It matters in terms of execution, i was assuming you were a girl approaching a guy, then yea in this being forward and saying call me would work 100%. I also thought you were a guy approaching a girl for the first time then i wouldve went ballistic and told you all the reasons this approach was wrong. But women on women it’s a little more complicated more steps involved. Conversation, vetting to see if she’s interested. Is this your first approach? Also….. not sure what a Demi female is.
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:41 PM
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Are you a guy or girl?
/r/seduction22/03/22 09:33 PM
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It’s only been a day you should be fine
/r/seduction21/03/22 06:26 PM
1

Actually that is great advice, start slowly talking and showing interest in other female coworkers
/r/seduction19/03/22 08:44 PM
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Your welcome fellow stranger anytime
/r/seduction15/03/22 05:03 AM
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The more you can cut off the fat and make it about the date the more successful you’ll become in dating. Text message isn’t supposed to be fancy. It’s simply a means to securing the date. Now I read your earlier responses when she said busy…. That honestly is a toughy. I think you were right to exit the convo. Now what I would do is give it two days than re-engage, like this You: sexy Ryan gosling meme happy Thursday Her: hey You: how’s your thirsty Thursday Her: great, yours? You: just finished…
/r/seduction15/03/22 03:58 AM
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Are you quoting old YouTube pick up quotes I’ve heard that somewhere I have to be honest. If you’re not contributing actionable advice just quotes from a random pua YouTuber…… wait I think it was ams yea ams…. bro really. You’re not being helpful. I think what you really meant to say was don’t try to converse over the phone just focus on getting to the date which I agree 100%
/r/seduction15/03/22 03:43 AM
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Change your approach. Stop getting the number off of “let me get your number I’ll text you later,” or “we should hang out soon what’s your number.” Instead a specific time place, day and what your going to do during the interaction, then number close. Texting should ‘mainly’ be reminding her of the date. The text should simply be you telling her this. “cool meeting you at work, see you Monday Starbucks 6pm. -zociety 😉.” That’s it. Getting more detailed than that invites chaos and women are alway…
/r/seduction15/03/22 03:38 AM
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I’ve been rejected 1000s of times it’s part of the process my guy
/r/seduction13/03/22 04:17 PM
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This just happened to me last night went to see Batman with a girl I met earlier that day while daygaming. Halfway through the movie was pretty much massaging her lips through her jeans….. After the movie was over I ask her if she want to have breakfast with me, she said when, I said when we wake up. She was saying yes, but I told her I just have to get my room. Then her yesses, became all the reasons she shouldn’t, after 10-15 minutes of deliberation with herself and me telling her just come fo…
/r/seduction13/03/22 03:17 PM
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Hmm sorry to hear that. I would go get help. Go to Playing with fire. And have doods who have results check your shit. Maybe your doing a lot of things wrong and you don’t know it
/r/seduction12/03/22 05:41 PM
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Get to a low bodyfat %, then do a lot of professional activity photos so for example playing beach volleyball with your friends, riding a motorcycle not posing but being active. Mix that with some casual/slightly sexy photos shirtless staring into the camera. With some being in a suit staring away, others showing off your fashion sense. NO BATHROOM SELFIES Have it like a theme first pic sexy casual, 2nd activity, 3rd sexy, 4th activity, 5 casual, 6th activity. Hire someone to make a great sexual…
/r/seduction12/03/22 02:59 PM
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You know what’s more disgusting….. oatmeal with raisins in it 😕
/r/seduction11/03/22 09:50 PM
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Yes, yes you should. Why?? Not because of practice, but because you’ll have someone that you can keep around as a fuck buddy, it makes you less thirsty for ass when you go out with other women knowing you have something at home, in a way it makes you more attractive. That’s it. Take her out from time to time but definitely DEFINITELY tell her that you are seeing other people, and that you aren’t sure if your ready for a fully committed relationship, that how you avoid getting seriously fucked up…
/r/seduction11/03/22 05:27 AM
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How did you lose that much weight in 8 months I’m stuck at 259 keto plus intermittent fasting. Did you just keep up with every single calorie?
/r/seduction10/03/22 11:24 PM
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Had to address the anti-choosing signals guy first but to you OP. If they’re putting themselves in your vicinity that’s their way of saying HEY, HEEEEYYYY, HEEEEEEEYYYYYYY!!!!!! Notice me. Simply say hey how’s your day going and just focus 100% on vibe and saying what comes to your mind…… no filter, unless it’s extremely depraved….. then definitely say it 😈. Do that for 3-5 minutes then tell her she seems cool let’s split a bottle and movie at my place. Set up a time then, and take her number…..…
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:24 PM
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I have to be honest I’m a huge daygamer and I used to think like you. Choosing signals is just a cop out to avoid approaching. More like waiting on choosing signals is a cop out. I’m slowly getting away from that thought. I too believe that if you find a woman that is so beautiful she stops you in your tracks you are obligated to go over and speak. But that’s not the issue. His issue is women in their own way approaching him and he doesn’t know how to handle it. I’ll tell you what AMS said and I…
/r/seduction10/03/22 09:15 PM
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In what way does that sound anti-women?
/r/seduction10/03/22 03:00 PM
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Sounds like either she was shy, and was tired of playing games so she wanted to show you she wanted to fuck….. or it’s for another guy. Either way your response was the correct one because all she wants is validation. A nude sent to you doesn’t mean anything. It means in that moment she was sending someone a sexy pic in no way does it translate to fuck me now. You got the pic now don’t treat it as a big deal confirm the date either the night before or the day of…. Pick out something cute for our…
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:51 PM
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Only a few times, honestly the last time was when I was daygaming 5-6years ago. I approached a young lady great body pretty face invited her over to split a bottle of wine that night. She came by in a see-through shirt with no bra (which I though was kind of weird since it was our first date). I think for both of us it was a real date, wasn’t initially transactional. I asked her out and she found me attractive. Her Body was waaay better than I originally thought. Gigantic ass small waist c/d per…
/r/seduction10/03/22 07:01 AM
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When I way younger just to show off to the guys I would show the nudes that girls sent me, I wouldn’t send it to them just show it on my phone. Now I would never show a woman off to them 1 don’t need the validation anymore. And 2 Because you never know when one of those women will become your gf or wife. Becomes awkward knowing you showed her shit to your boys. But honestly none of the women who sent me nudes ever showed there face in the photo. But to answer your question. It’s just another way…
/r/seduction10/03/22 02:02 AM
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You’re worrying about the wrong thing mate. Set the date fuck her. If she has this dude in her life keep her around as a fuck buddy. All this is assuming she finds you attractive in the first place. Don’t overthink it. Or if it bothers you too much move on and date someone else.
/r/seduction08/03/22 05:36 AM
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She’s showing heavy disinterest period. If a woman has a boyfriend and she finds you attractive unless she really likes him/or her if she’s a lesbian, she won’t bring them up and you won’t know about it. But if she is bringing them up, 1 she actually has a boyfriend and isn’t interested 2 doesn’t have a boyfriend and isn’t interested 3 or the rare occasion VERY RARE, she has a boyfriend…. She tells you, she likes you, but now that she told you anything happening between you isn’t her fault, beca…
/r/seduction23/02/22 11:45 PM
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Hmm Your 5-7, a little on the short side but thats not that much of an issue, 6-pack abs, and a law degree, have fitted clothes that shows off your physique. I’m assuming you groom well (let me know if I’m wrong) Are you in a big city? You’ve tried all the dating apps but you get zero matches Do you do cold approach, if you do then I think you’d do very well I think your biggest issues is you simply aren’t presenting yourself in the best light, and taking advantage of every source you have avail…
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:52 PM
1

How tall are you?
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:15 PM
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Do you approach women in public? Are you on dating apps?
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:08 PM
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So essentially you have your shit together, correct. Are you in shape? How is your fashion?
/r/seduction23/02/22 02:05 PM
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Hmm I say vet a coach first for example if the coach doesn’t have any other source to confirm he’s legit maybe former clients, and he’s charging an obscene amount of money then no don’t do it. But on the other hand. Yea you could learn everything for free on YouTube but in some cases you don’t want to trail and error everything, you want to get to the point of competency then mastery efficiently. I say if you want to get great at something hire a coach cut the learning curve There are ways to ve…
/r/seduction22/02/22 10:20 PM
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Thanks 😊
/r/seduction22/02/22 04:23 PM
1

Sounds good I’m rooting for you
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:45 AM
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This is my most controversial opinion on dating if you aren’t near the best version of yourself don’t even bother dating for the time being. The roi just isn’t there. I say take a year or 2, work on yourself get muscular learn fashion, make money in order to do different activities. And use that as leaverage when you go out in the dating world. Make yourself into your own hero and women will want to join your quest. But you do what you want I’m glad I could help.
/r/seduction22/02/22 07:42 AM
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You said your brother is pimping 100s of girls then he’s fucked 42. I’ve fucked 40 women it’s not that much. Why do you care so much? First thing you have to work on your mindset. It seem like you haven’t accomplished much in your life and that’s why this is bothering so much. You seem like you might be young and it’s ok. if your older still not a problem same thing applies. Couple thing that I don’t find true in my eyes especially when it comes to the black community which I’m from, not sure wh…
/r/seduction22/02/22 05:25 AM
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I’m an advocate of using multiple sources in order to maximize your results. Just like you have to message a bunch of women on the apps, you have to cold approach hundreds if not thousands of women in order to have “successes” so no don’t get off the apps. Use cold approach and apps as well. I would say for me at this moment i am 5’11 but I haven’t worked on myself as well I could. Im overweight and I have a startup business. That im just now starting to make some coin in. But here’s the thing. …
/r/seduction22/02/22 03:04 AM
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Who approaches one woman per day? I would average between 3-5 sets per day before work. 15 on the weekend. Some years less some more, I did it roughly for a few years. You can get 1k sets easily Edit: I don’t approach at this rate anymore, but for a few years I was
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:47 PM
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Ditto I’m black approach well over 1k women I’m wondering what exactly he said as well
/r/seduction21/02/22 05:11 AM
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My thoughts exactly
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:12 PM
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Not a keyboard jockey I was actually out in the field approached over 2K girls. This is what I notice at 5’11 270 I would get some numbers no dates. At 220 19% bodyfat more muscular frame got a shitload of numbers and a shit load of dates. Most women just aren’t attracted to fat guys bro Stop approaching, focus solely on the gym and fashion for the next 6 months to year maybe year and a half if you’re extremely out of shape. You’ll get all the girls you might’ve missed on and then some if you ju…
/r/seduction19/02/22 09:02 PM
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Ah hmm interesting pretty girl with big titties looking for the red flags here, I’m not seeing them. I mean you could potentially be crazy, we’ll see. But I have a few more questions Are you looking to start a family soon? Or if you find out you’re a butter face you’d consider going the donor route? A little confused about that part What makes you think you’re a butterface? Do you have a specific type of man you’re looking to attract?
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:36 AM
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🤔
/r/seduction18/02/22 04:22 AM
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What exactly are you trying to find out?
/r/seduction18/02/22 03:51 AM
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Why do you get the Instagram and not the number. If she offer her insta- tell her you don’t have one and take her number. Or if she says she don’t give out her number say thanks for your time and walk away. If your Instagram is solid like Austin Dunham or any other male ig model then yes give it out. But if you’re a regular dude FUCK NO, don’t give out istagram, got it? You have to realize that daygame has a very small hit rate, just like all forms of game you have to put in the work, it’s heavi…
/r/seduction17/02/22 05:02 AM
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Hmm are you deformed? And have you actually maximized your looks as in gotten in shape, and fixed your style?
/r/seduction16/02/22 04:33 PM
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No if she seen you in person or online then you could have kept the banter at a minimum, just showed some attraction. Set up the convo to see if she was as interested and set up the date. This is a special case. You don’t know her. You have to get more information before setting anything, unless of course you like blind dates. So the only thing I would take from this is if another chance like this presents itself. Get her comfortable but for your sake know who your meeting. As in what does she l…
/r/seduction12/02/22 05:04 PM
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Should’ve asked to video chat, or talk on the phone. Could be a 300 pound whale you were talking to. As for the flakiness. Women just do that sometimes(assuming she was a woman)
/r/seduction12/02/22 04:35 PM
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Say hi, compliment her on something that isn’t readily obvious, like hair eye color, fashion, shoes…etc
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:13 PM
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Playing with fire Alex
/r/seduction12/02/22 03:08 PM
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What are you trying to get done
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:45 PM
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Good fucking answer bro
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:44 PM
2

I generally find single moms to be hornier
/r/seduction11/02/22 09:16 PM
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Go to Walmart target or any big box store, and approach the first girl you find attractive. Keep it simple with a normal conversation. But always end it with you seem fun we should hang out sometime soon Hire a photographer join playing with fire (look them up on YouTube) and make an awesome hinge, BLK, ChristianMingle (yes ChristianMingle), and tinder profile. I don’t do night game I like my mornings too much so not sure about that Edit: Shout out to you. You did the work first. I actually did …
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:51 PM
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I screamed NOO!! When you gave her a goodnight hug. Could you have invited her back to your room to play uno. Anything, any type of excuse would have worked…. Trust the close calls always hurt the most
/r/seduction11/02/22 03:45 PM
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Dammit man you should have asked the first girl on an Insta date. But you already know that. For being a novice you seem pretty aware of your mistakes keep it up, and you’ll be killing it in no time
/r/seduction11/02/22 01:39 PM
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Here’s my story: I picked up one that was working at the porn shop. I had her show me some toys. Started cracking jokes she laughed. Asked her what her favorites were. Started dhv’ing telling her I’m into the handcuffs and bdsm. Then I said I know you’re at work but what do you do for fun when you’re not here. She said oh, I have a boyfriend…. I said BULLSHIT, i bet you say that to all your customers so they stop hitting on you.. I’m different. She laughed we talked more. Asked what kind of size…
/r/seduction11/02/22 05:17 AM
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Never ask a girl out on Valentine’s Day unless you’re already dating her. It shows that you have no one else and that’s unattractive. You did right by moving on. Maybe’s, we’ll see, soon…. Always remember this, if it’s not a yes, It’s a no. Women don’t like confrontation so they’ll give you a soft blow in hopes you’ll get the point. Next time you encounter a maybe call it out immediately, make her say yes or no. So if your texting And you’re like You seem cool we should grab some sparkling water…
/r/seduction10/02/22 02:10 PM
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Appreciate it honestly I’ve been on keto so long I don’t have cravings at all. You can put a cake in front of me and I won’t touch it. So I’m debating on instead of making it an all day cheat day. I’ll just keep it at a meal. I know i feel great when I eat correctly Thanks for letting me know.
/r/seduction10/02/22 07:07 AM
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Awesome man let’s keep it up until we have that dream body we want. 8 pounds in a month is a great starting point I’m aiming for that every month for the next year or so.
/r/seduction10/02/22 06:38 AM
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Saving your post for motivation, I just got back into the gym this week, ketoing for 3 weeks although I’ve lost 6lbs since 2weeks I feel like it’s moving slow. I’m kicking ass in the gym. Cardio on point. Keto is on point haven’t been tracking calories yet though 😕, so I probably eat too much. My face is already above average but I’m fat asl now. I noticed the women I like, in my current state just aren’t attracted to me, no matter how much ‘game’ I feel I have and it’s time I do something about…
/r/seduction10/02/22 05:38 AM
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Sounds good man
/r/seduction08/02/22 08:56 PM
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Hmm I was actually going by the picture hmm. Then i just now read the paragraph. It sounds like to me that she was interested during the zombie game thing that was your shot to get a solid date set out. My initial suggestion, was that I was going to have you banter a bit back and forth to get know her more and have her prove herself to you, now that I’ve seen that you’ve done that, at least the banter part, you should try to direct every conversation towards a meet up. You didn’t ask her out to …
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:54 PM
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Most people here are novices it’s the blind leading the blind. The places I’ve found to help me get my shit somewhat together with women was amazingly enough YouTube. It started with RSD. Then RSD Jeffy. Bought his execute the program for $20, that’s how I learned how to text. RSD Todd taught me how to cold approach. Now I look exclusively at John Anthony Lifestyle’s, and playing with fire shit. But besides YouTube, the posts that affected me the most; that’s hidden in these archives on seddit, …
/r/seduction08/02/22 05:25 PM
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Is she your coworker? And how much do you talk to her? How much do you know about her -She’s interested but I’ll tell you how you can turn it into a date
/r/seduction08/02/22 01:02 AM
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Have you tried rotations? Great relationships with multiple women?
/r/seduction07/02/22 07:07 AM
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Yep that’s what I’m doing now, just don’t want to fall off on my journey
/r/seduction06/02/22 11:24 PM
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Thanks for the advice that’s pretty much what I’m doing. Using Jeff Nippards high frequency full-body program. I ran it before, got a lot of strength gains. Right now I’m focusing on hypertrophy and losing body fat
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:29 PM
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Nah back then i was In decent shape, but I never took getting in shape seriously.
/r/seduction06/02/22 10:18 PM
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What was the text thread? Tell her …only if your into that sort of thing Or send …? Or send. Skeleton waiting on text reply meme. Call her out don’t apologize Or start a new thread. Good morning, how’s your Sunday going
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:51 PM
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Did you tell her to use her mouth? Tell her to help you out and suck it.
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:45 PM
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Two weeks at least, then if you have to watch it keep to once or twice a month. Eventually phasing it out completely
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:44 PM
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I don’t know man…… I think it’s better to admit that most of the things men do are in pursuit of puss. We have too much testosterone flowing throughout our body to just turn it off and say ah we don’t need pussy we need to just focus on ourselves, just to feel better about ourselves, nah. I say start off making yourself better and admitting it’s in the pursuit of becoming a better you, in order to become more attractive to women. It’s healthy and if used right motivating, and it works. Most men …
/r/seduction06/02/22 04:05 PM
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Being conversational first, then stating intent is the best way to go
/r/seduction25/01/22 06:39 AM
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Boyfriends usually don’t say much
/r/seduction09/01/22 04:58 PM
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Viagra. I take 2 before intercourse last all night Without it.... I still get hard at 90-80% and get soft halfway through especially if I’m doing all the work. Consider pumps before she comes over. Makes dick bigger and easier to draw blood into you dick How old are you. Are you on test. If not get your blood checked maybe it’s hormonal levels But if you decide to go more natural start meditating. And realize if you can’t get hard maybe it’s because she’s too hot. Make it a small thing. Make a j…
/r/seduction02/01/22 11:09 PM
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Good shit, did you have time to pull her off to a secluded space with just you and her or was it just a quick conversation?
/r/seduction05/12/21 07:04 PM
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No that’s not what the game is all about stop generalizing. 1 this is (supposed to be) a judgement free zone, so if OP wants to fuck a girl with a bf, I have no problem with that. If you do sorry, bad shit happens, hope you get that handled. 1b. I’m here to make it easier for it to happen again not judge. 2 yes invite her. She has a bf she more than likely doesn’t want to be seen in public with her side dude. 2b. Straight over the house DOES NOT equal sex. She can say no anytime she wants and fr…
/r/seduction28/11/21 04:11 AM
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Ok so you met girl (who gives af about the bf). Conversation escalates to (her) sending nudes. And you complimented her on them but the last time you complimented she stopped responding.... honestly sounds like she’s a time waister and just looking for validation and she got it from you already. Don’t get me wrong it’s ok to talk about how sexy she is but it’s better to put the focus on you being dominant. She has to earn compliments. Focus on what you’ll do to her, slowly working up to it. Comp…
/r/seduction27/11/21 07:32 PM
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I posted a few books for you but the main source of info is you have to go and field test When you see a girl that is attractive go and say hi, found you attractive Do that a bunch of times eventually you’ll start to get numbers learn text game. Point is the best way to learn is in the field. These sources although some of them are great are just mental masturbation if you’re not executing on their info. I’ll tell you a cheat code though... if your not already focus heavily on getting in shape a…
/r/seduction24/11/21 10:16 PM
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Book of Pook (YouTube) mystery method (some of that shit still applies) Models to a lesser extent just overall becoming a better version of yourself Playing with fire. (YouTube) Hands down best place to learn text game
/r/seduction24/11/21 05:17 AM
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Send a message like “It’s ok if you’re nervous” She’ll respond sorry didn’t see that last message. If she doesn’t respond just reopen her in a few days
/r/seduction22/11/21 07:11 AM
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20’s I averaged about 5 new partners Every 3 years 30’s averaged 5 new partners every year I’m 35 and most of the women I’ve had in my 30s are more attractive than the ones in my 20’s
/r/seduction16/11/21 05:25 AM
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Ah
/r/seduction06/11/21 04:18 PM
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I do a ton of daygame and these results are typical almost regardless of the interaction women will still flake. And way less than 10% of numbers convert into dates just reality. As your conversational skill set gets better the more you will convert #s to dates Of course you’ll also recognize when women just aren’t interested as well so that in itself could contribute to better results Have you experimented with sexuality during your daytime interaction. I’ve seen a higher number of responses if…
/r/seduction06/11/21 06:19 AM
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I’ll try to untangle your previous comment then tell you what I would do in your situation btw it’s 1 am where I am so I’ll try to make this quick What I read is I’m busy. I’m seeing weddings and I want to marry her (from the original post). 2nd part of that was I don’t want to lose her to another guy. Hence the friends getting pregnant and all (at least that’s what I got from what I read) Now here’s what I think. You are busy grinding true. But you don’t know her reality. And in all actuality i…
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:54 AM
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Sounds like you’re creating excuses for her
/r/seduction04/11/21 06:35 AM
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Don’t separate them. Instead talk to her per usual Since you already have casual conversation. Say this. in the middle of the conversation -honestly you seem pretty interesting, we should split a bottle sometime soon. ...I would normally show empathy and say I know your with your kid but i find you attractive and had to meet you. But since you already casually converse with her ask her out the way that I told you. Don’t have to acknowledge or show empathy for asking her out with her son there IM…
/r/seduction31/10/21 02:47 PM
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Stealing this
/r/seduction30/10/21 04:49 PM
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Hey I’m going over to get some water want to come with me. And just walk around
/r/seduction27/10/21 08:35 PM
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I’m curious have you been with a lot of women? (Oh your a woman) sorry didn’t realize until I read further down
/r/seduction26/10/21 12:47 AM
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Doesn’t matter, I tell women all the time I saw you from all the way over there and had to come meet you. Stop over analyzing
/r/seduction06/10/21 02:55 PM
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Ross dress for less, I love black women so that’s a great store for me, target is ok, someone suggested Whole Foods. Usually just 2 shopping centers near you and hit those up for around 5pm, 3-4x per week
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:42 PM
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That’s a pretty good size I wouldn’t keep it to just Walmart, I would make it big box store. Grab a cart and just slowly walk around. It’ll feel weird at first but once you start getting good interactions from the women there you won’t care
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:07 PM
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Like sunshine said 10 out 15 isn’t typical, and I have a ton of daygame experience. But I know what to look for and I can tell by voice inflection body language, eye contact whether or not a woman is interested. Side note the body language part is not choosing signals, it’s after I opened her, and we start talking and how she’s responding to me Those 15 usually don’t include the women who I approached and just weren’t interested. From the jump Those 15 are like good interactions then at the end …
/r/seduction27/09/21 08:04 PM
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Look in your comment section the dude sunshine is better than me I would follow his advice. To me it depends on the size of you city. If you live in a moderate size or large size city 500k+ you can do it everyday Or if you live in a smaller city like me 100k+ I would keep it to 3x sessions/week max Session would be choose 3-4 stores a time I usually say 3-5pm would be the busiest hit all those stores. If no women were present leave and come back after you hit the other stores. When I go in the s…
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:16 PM
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Gotta be honest man I doubt you have 1000 lays thats rare But As a man who does a fuckton of daygame, your approach to it seems sound, and if you do between 20-30 approaches 5x days per week 2-5 lays per week do seem practical... maybe you have slept with 1000 women I’ve never structured my sessions like that. I would do it 1 to 2x per week and hit 3 stores per session. Usually high end I would approach 15 women per session come away with 10 numbers. I would stay in the store for roughly 10-15mi…
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:45 PM
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Should’ve made it sexual sooner..... something along the lines of make sure you wear that sexy devil costume for our dinner date About the phone call.... that’s tricky, I would’ve still said I’ve got to go then said what’s your number I’ll text you to set up that date. And handed her my phone.
/r/seduction27/09/21 02:34 PM
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As far as convo goes, I open all of my sets direct Hey thought you were cute had to come over and meet you before I continued shopping, I’m flatearth (always say this loud enough with super direct eye contact and a sexual smirk) Side note: I don’t think direct openers are the best way to get a woman attracted or get her# Why? Because it puts her on the spot she doesn’t have enough information except looks and confidence to go off of to give you a chance (and I usually dress somewhat shitty) So w…
/r/seduction27/09/21 05:25 AM
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Exactly..... easily the most underrated places to daygame. Damn near pulled a super thick ig model at one. Long story I’m curious about your put food in the basket approach. Sometimes I grab a basket sometimes I don’t but I don’t put anything in it I usually just do a short walk around
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:48 AM
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The only thing about Walmart is if you plan on visiting multiple times try your best not to hit on the workers, some of them be young and super thick. Just keep it at the women that comes in there. But if you absolutely have to. Just hit on one and then a few weeks later, another one don’t want a reputation.
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:41 AM
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Yep that’s where at least 50% of my lays and my #s come from, can’t even go to my local Walmart’s my face is too well known
/r/seduction27/09/21 03:35 AM
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I’ll be honest the women here won’t tell you they are attracted to looks they’ll say it’s more of how you carry yourself. Which is true to an extent. For me when I go to the gym I feel better and I feel more sociable, so my verbal game is tighter. But...... Even though I feel better and more sociable my dating life was night and day between 5’11 270 me and 228 me. When I was 228 no change in style multiple dates every week. 270 me cold approaching lots of attraction some numbers no dates. Could …
/r/seduction25/09/21 01:18 PM
1

Ever consider pe? Not surgical but pumps and stretching
/r/seduction15/09/21 05:07 AM
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Get 4 Aim for 5 6 start lifting and getting in shape work on fashion 7 start approaching bishes regularly maybe buy a dating coach 8 take professional pics for dating sites 9 throw 1-3 away
/r/seduction12/09/21 01:15 PM
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Yep, I have periods when I don’t approach, and I just focus on self improvement. But honestly when I’ve approached 2 girls a day for a few months it would turn into about 5 lays in a 6 month period. Even more when I was in better shape Every guy should do this, good shit OP. I started back re-approaching everyday last week I’m going to keep it up. For the guys that’s asking all these questions here’s a few nugs Women will not blow you out. They will reject you politely by saying I’m not interest…
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:51 PM
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I think this dude (op) is trolling
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:25 PM
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I’m smelling a troll post
/r/seduction10/09/21 02:25 PM
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Hmm instead of choosing to self improve, you choose to bitch and Moan about height. Nah it’s not your height that’s turning women off
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:08 PM
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Lol why did I read your comment like, did write this?? This is definitely something I would say OP!!! your fucking 5’8 Are you are you physically fit? I don’t mean like skinny, like are you muscular? How about your style, do you have a good skin care routine, do you stay well groomed. Do you have a good fashion sense. How about do you have good hobbies? Are you well read? Can you talk about various topics? Can you bullshit your way through a conversation if needed Do you have game? Can you cold …
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:40 PM
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Even if you have a big dick don’t send pics of it even when asked. Why because women don’t like to have the curtain pulled back all the way (it makes you seem desperate weirdly enough). They enjoy the slow reveal and tease more than anything Do this instead get some gray sweatpants. Get you full on or half-chub and just start taking seductive pictures. Better yet if you could set the time and make it seem like someone else was holding it. I you don’t have a lot get a banana stuff it. Put on pj b…
/r/seduction09/09/21 11:12 AM
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How tall are you op?
/r/seduction09/09/21 09:58 AM
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I would look at the ones in which he talks to Melli manaco or whatever tf her name is. You’ll see how he actually acts. His style is super laid back. I think with the way he vibes but also having a somewhat structured approach. And basics hygiene decent level of fitness style. you could kill it.
/r/seduction02/09/21 08:00 PM
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Lol he is a bit annoying yes, but it’s his lack of structure and his ultimate focus on vibe and he doesn’t mention this use of low levels of vocal tonality that makes me think there’s something there maybe something that can be somewhat adopted when approaching. Just have to ignore all of the bravado and just pay attention to the lessons.
/r/seduction02/09/21 07:50 PM
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Not sure where there are some posts on here that recommend good books. My suggestion would be models, the book of Pook, influence, by Robert caildini, and the mystery method Although reading is important, in order to get the most optimal results I suggest following good YouTubers, getting fit, getting style on point. And executing Alex PWF for text. John Anthony lyftstyles for overall structure. And tykwandoe for learning how to vibe
/r/seduction02/09/21 02:56 PM
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I’m going through the same thing in a way. I’ve approached well over 1000 women. Recently I’ve been getting a lot of meh energy. It takes the wind out of my sails for wanting to continue to approach. But here where I’ve fucked up at. I let myself go I’ve picked up about 50 pounds in weight. I don’t feel as well, I don’t get as many positive responses when I approach. When I was in better shape I was getting multiple dates per week. (I didn’t know how to properly set dates so they rarely converte…
/r/seduction02/09/21 01:02 PM
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It took mystery 10 years because he was doing all the split testing himself, he didn’t have anything to go off of. But as far as today’s pua’s I think because of all of the right information out there, it should take you 1-2 years of maximal etfort to get really good at this just my thoughts
/r/seduction02/09/21 12:37 PM
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No all of them weren’t charismatic. But they all are are willing to put themselves out there and talk with anybody Here’s the point. You can’t change your height. Unless your willing to get surgery. Focus on building everything else and see what your results will be first Maximize the other aspects of yourself style game body and if possible your personality Will height be a determining factor for a lot of women yes For all of them no If your fat, or out of shape, don’t have game, or good style,…
/r/seduction29/08/21 01:13 PM
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Have you maximized everything else about yourself? Interesting hobbies, game, fashion, maybe learning how to carry a conversation Yes height does play a role in attraction I’m 5’11 and I was down for about year because my 6’4 muscular coworker attracted the newest hottest girl without seemingly doing anything, and a 6’9 other coworker had young women around him all the time. Thought we’ll height must obviously be the highest determining factor. Another coworker roughly my height 6-6’1 had all so…
/r/seduction28/08/21 11:32 PM
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Women like to use there imagination, like to be teased If you have enough meats. And ONLY if she requested it send her a pic of you in gray sweat pants
/r/seduction26/08/21 02:05 AM
1

Have you tried it before?
/r/seduction25/08/21 10:30 AM
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Split test and find out. I personally have told a few women that I thought they had big titties as an opener from cold approach. Me: hey excuse ms Her with her 😒face: yes (here we go again) Me: can’t think of a proper opener so I quickly look her up down and say: don’t punch me but I thought you had some big titties, I’m Edward Her: 😂 you’re crazy (shit test) bet you say that to all the girls Me: yes, but really only the ones I could potentially like Her: 🤣🤣 my name is Jessica Me: big tittied Je…
/r/seduction25/08/21 04:34 AM
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4 years ago Met a girl at her job she was working for Panera bread. I was deep into a daygame session. She was working the counter said She was cute along with some other shit I don’t remember. Told her I was there studying, she came and joined me on her break. She clocked out we walked around about 30 min. Told her she should come over so we could “watch a movie later” she agreed. 3 hours later she came over, one hour after that my dick was in her mouth
/r/seduction21/08/21 06:15 AM
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Ok Sorry to say bro gotta call her out if she didn’t respond. The correct way to go about it would have been yesterday. A funny callout I don’t know if you have a pet or fish or some shit that she know you have Say joe really misses you, sad pic of your fish (this would’ve been optimal) Or, a funny picture, anything that calls out that she hasn’t responded to your text and that expect a reply. My go to is will Ferrell pic (I respond in 15 minutes, and you must’ve died from excitement because it …
/r/seduction16/08/21 06:39 PM
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closes eyes, and shakes head (not reading your giant wall of text). Mfr why wouldn’t you tell her if she responded to a simple good morning text hey let me call for 2 min, just had to ask a question. Especially if there’s a language gap. But, you’re right about the text hey sexy, that’s a good text opener Bro your making this harder than it needs to be. Calling out women over text isn’t needy, it cuts the bullshit. Once you’ve texted enough women and isn’t worried about losing her due to her thi…
/r/seduction16/08/21 06:10 PM
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So let me get this straight first you set the date a week away from meeting her. Why didn’t you set it sooner such as that night or within the next 3 days. Women have a lot of shit going especially if they’re attractive Why did you send a message on Sunday with something she couldn’t really respond to? Wishing her a nice day doesn’t mean anything it’s something she could easily ignore. So having reread your shit. It’s not certain that she’s going to flake you still have a chance And You’re right…
/r/seduction16/08/21 07:21 AM
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Send, I’m getting flakey vibes here Or send. Your not gonna flake are you? Basically call her out. If she doesn’t respond move on, I’ve been calling girls out recently it won’t always get the date but most of the time it’ll get a response or maybe concerns they might’ve had, that you can then address, Definitely don’t play it cool
/r/seduction16/08/21 03:45 AM
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Your welcome
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:37 PM
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Yea man as far as the population thing thats not really an excuse if you live near a major metro. I literally live in a city of only 100k 3 hours from the nearest 1million city. When I started burning out my city I went to other small cities within an hour or 2 distance to game. Got to want to get good at this bad enough. Wish I lived near a major or bigger city. As far as not know what to say couple things you could do. One vary your opener see what works best for you. Mine is thought you were …
/r/seduction11/08/21 05:07 PM
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Are you in a small college town? Or are you part of a small city that’s part of a bigger metro?
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:51 PM
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I can try my best to give advice honestly at the moment I’m just focusing on building my business and getting in shape, so dating and cold approaching isn’t something I’m doing frequently at the moment just approaching women i find highly attractive so I am a little rusty. But I do have 500+ cold approaches under my belt so there’s that give me a sec to give you a proper response
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:40 PM
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I don’t know man try cold approaching at least 2 women per day for the next 2 weeks by the 10th day you’ll see that approaching a woman with a man next to her isn’t a big deal (as long as she doesn’t seem romantically involved with him)
/r/seduction11/08/21 03:07 PM
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No she was in the isle there was a man that about 6ft from her. I gave my usual opener of how I thought she was cute had to approach. Noticed the guy was still hovering, inspecting the groceries, I started touching her. He was still there said who was she there with. She said her dad that’s him. I looked his direction kept talking and touching got her number and left. In my experience the most solid numbers I get from daygame are the one with a man in set. The dad ones don’t make me nervous the …
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:26 PM
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I have, dad usually just stayed away and kept looking over
/r/seduction11/08/21 01:09 PM
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Glad to hear it man, my problem is I can’t put down the fork. How did you get to the point where you could?
/r/seduction09/08/21 05:20 AM
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See a lot of people don’t like my comment it is what it is 😂
/r/seduction24/07/21 04:31 PM
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Try testosterone replacement therapy. Speaking from experience got strong fast. Went from struggling with 225 for 5 rep, squatting 275 for 2-3 good ass-to-grass reps curling 90 for 10. To After 5 months trt 315x2 380x2 squat, curl 120 15 reps. Family says I look bigger regular people asked if I’m natural. Honestly couldn’t tell you If I got bigger because I’m 22-25% bf. But it might be good starting point.
/r/seduction12/07/21 03:09 AM
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1 same day bj close, and one close call. Bj close met her at her job walked with her on her break she came over that night. Other one saw her walking home from work (she worked at a restaurant close by) so I pulled over and acted like I was looking at houses to buy and inquiring about the neighborhood. Struck up a conversation went for a long walk and talk heavy petting. Then her ex bf came by her house because she promised she would help him with an application. Went from being on to her potent…
/r/seduction29/06/21 04:43 PM
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Not to mention the husband will tell the wife that the op told him when he confronts her. Could lose his job over some bullshit. Yea he should just leave it alone
/r/seduction18/06/21 05:51 AM
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Lol 😂
/r/seduction18/06/21 05:48 AM
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Hell yes bro
/r/seduction04/06/21 02:54 AM
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Ask her if she likes wine If she says yes. Say cool let’s split a bottle at my new place. Or on my romantic balcony
/r/seduction30/05/21 03:40 AM
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Grocery store always been my favorite place. Depending on the city you live in a big city could have a 30-50 stores go crazy
/r/seduction28/05/21 02:44 AM
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That’s a pretty direct approach.... I use that a lot when I want to be lazy or I just want to get it over with, or she’s like my kids teacher and she has room full of kids. I believe approaching women that way puts them in a bit of a fight or flight stage. They could like you and want to date you but being that direct would cause them to give an automated response and most of the time it’s I have a boyfriend or a no, just my theory based on my cold approach history. Here’s what I would do instea…
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:45 AM
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That’s a pretty direct approach.... I use that a lot when I want to be lazy or I just want to get it over with, or she’s like my kids teacher and she has room full of kids. I believe approaching women that way puts them in a bit of a fight or flight stage. They could like you and want to date you but being that direct would cause them to give an automated response and most of the time it’s I have a boyfriend or a no, just my theory based on my cold approach history. Here’s what I would do instea…
/r/seduction23/05/21 03:43 AM
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Target Walmart Starbucks gas station grocery store..... one place I haven’t met anybody yet, online Edit: don’t be a bitch you see a pretty young woman go approach. If your a fat pos get in shape. If you’re full time worker make a point to get in shape start trying to look your best when not at work and approach 2 women/day.
/r/seduction06/05/21 04:31 AM
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I can't knock the mm buuttt, I see it as a crutch more than anything. Use it sparingly, and focus more on developing your own style. it comes off way more natural
/r/seduction11/08/20 04:35 AM
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Welp not many people make it to 365 days of field reports. 1 day of field reports is tough, I know. But you made 58 days and thats awesome. If you write more field reports cool. I think it's time you start writing them for yourself anyways, we've seen enough of your journey to know you'll be alright.... That is unless you got a girlfriend.. then youll he back in a year asking for advice again. Anywho if you write more field reports awesome, can't wait to read them. If not, I enjoyed reading abou…
/r/seduction05/08/20 02:19 PM
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When you approach alot of women, it'll happen from time to time that you'll get a major blowout. All you can do is take it on the chin and keep approaching. Develop a who cares type of attitude, your critics, what other women think, hell even the women youre approaching, their opinion is irrelevant. Keep doing what your doing.
/r/seduction04/08/20 10:42 AM
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No troll but when the girl is attractive and she's very receptive....I do to. When that happens time to wrap it up get the number lightly set the date get outta there
/r/seduction01/08/20 04:28 PM
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This is awesome. Also did you continue to try to escalate or did you just try to escalate once,and then stopped
/r/seduction22/07/20 07:10 PM
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I would start throwing in time constraints. Like Im on going to be here a few minutes, but I just had to say your gorgeous I'm...... Women appreciate it when you let them know you won't take up a lot of their time. And for me it gets me way better results
/r/seduction19/07/20 01:51 PM
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Interaction 1 FUUCCCKK YEA!!! I know every interaction is organic but try to break down the elements of this interaction that got you the positive results, and apply them going forward. Awesome job man
/r/seduction17/07/20 05:24 PM
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Totally agree with everything said here
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:18 PM
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IDK man, women have no issues being approached by a man whom they find attractive regardless of what they are doing. I have success (#'s) approaching women who are in a rush. But to be frank I'm a 5'11 decent looking, fattish/muscular caramel skinned black guy. OP definitely is having some issues that we can't see maybe he's talking too fast, or too low, maybe his body language needs work, or even wardrobe, whatever but I don't think he should avoid the street because everyones in a rush. I thin…
/r/seduction16/07/20 09:16 PM
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The girl that I'm trying to make part of my rotation flat out doesn't kiss unless I play with her pussy, and turn her on completely lol. But seriously for some women kissing is sacred, it's like the last step, as in you can have them butt naked, sucking your dick, fucking them and they just won't let you do it. It's weird but it happens. That's how the girl I'm try to make a rotation peice is, I can do everything but kiss. It is what it is. But honestly In your situation I would have went for th…
/r/seduction15/07/20 09:52 PM
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Awesome job sticking through with it. You have to remember this is just the beginning the part of the journey the more you stick with it the more positive changes you'll see. My only suggestion would be to start recording your conversations and break them down. Get a friend to start vid recording you. That way you can actually see where you might be fucking up. Or even what you can change. Good luck bro can't wait to hear about your first lay from day game
/r/seduction14/07/20 03:50 AM
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Have you made any recordings, or videos of the conversations? So you can go back and fix smaller issues?
/r/seduction08/07/20 01:06 PM
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First off CONGRATS BRO 34 DAYS IN!!! Over 150 approaches so proud bro keep it up. I have a book recommendation for you I think itll help you out a bit. Daygame Mastery Nick krauser, I've been reading it. (I haven't implemented yet, my approaches are London daygame light, but mostly winging it) but it's the best book I've seen on breaking down cold approach specifically street game. Personally because of this book I'm going back to the drawing board and coming up with a structure on how I approac…
/r/seduction02/07/20 01:17 AM
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Not sure if your doing this already and I haven't seen it mentioned yet. But start taking cold showers it'll help you, in my experience, be more free flowing. I always point to the fact that your using the London daygame model, but the model is mostly a guide, kinda like checkpoints to the ultimate goal of laying your subject. So you need more improv (free-flowing convo) on your way to the next checkpoint. I know it's a little woo-woo but cold showers will help you in that department. Try it jus…
/r/seduction24/06/20 04:59 AM
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Glad to hear it, honestly I'm not brave enough to make a post, but yes alot of men put the cart before the horse and they have to slow down and realize everything they want, especially when it comes to the opposite sex they can have they just have to be more focused on the their purpose than getting pussy. Good luck to you man, cant wait to hear more about your journey
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:49 AM
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So, do you have your shit together? Any good hobbies? Are you a boss at your job? Do you travel? Are you in Good/Great shape Working on building your business? .... answer these questions not for me, but yourself. If you've already got your shit in order well: travelled, groomed, professional. Have your degree. Or building your business then please ignore what I'm about to say. But here's the reality. Cold approach is a MASSIVE waste of time if you don't have the rest of your life in order. I'm …
/r/seduction21/06/20 12:00 AM
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These infeilds keep getting better. But can I offer an unwarranted suggestion. It might be time to avoid the question after the the stack (the are you such and such? question). And just keep stacking instead, I would say something cocky like down worry I like black pirates, you can bring your eye patch for our first date. Something along those lines. Then go into vibing. I wouldn't want her thinking too much. I would just hammer her with spikes. Almost no questions just statements making light f…
/r/seduction19/06/20 10:21 PM
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This is actually a great screening process if they are attracted enough to you they will message or call. If not they won't. Once you've done enough approaches you realize it doesn't matter if you take her number or not. If she wasn't attracted she'll either give you a fake number, she won't respond to your message or she won't pick up. But honestly you'll be surprised how many women will actually reach out to you when you start leaving your number with them. To those reading this make sure to c…
/r/seduction14/06/20 05:09 AM
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Unfortunately I live in a city with 100k people. I've approached well over 500 women and ive approached the same woman on numerous occasions. 3 solutions lose weight get in shape boosts confidence significantly so when you do approach the same woman twice they won't recognize you and you really won't give a fuck, like when they say you've done this before, just say that means your special. This is what I'm working toward 2 start approaching in another city close by. When I schedule day game sess…
/r/seduction14/06/20 04:59 AM
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I understand choosing signals. But here's the thing 1 would you rather look for a choosing signal, be confused, and say was that a choosing signal? Should I approach? Nah that wasn't a choosing signal and move on. Or would you say fuck it I find that girl right there attractive, I'm going to say hey. To me waiting for choosing signals is just taking a cowards way out. What if she was looking at her phone or talking to friends, or shopping... Oh and you thought she was hot. You gonna hope that ch…
/r/seduction13/06/20 03:38 PM
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I love it man the more sets you go through the more positive results your going to get.
/r/seduction13/06/20 01:33 PM
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Nice, it's awesome seeing how you're progressing so fast, completely becoming free from outcome. I bet when before you first started you'd never thought that you would chase women down the street. This is awesome. Your sets remind me of the sets that I usually have, especially when I'm in the zone. You keep doing these and you will be a master of this in no time, keep it up 😁. Rooting for your mastery
/r/seduction12/06/20 08:38 PM
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Awesome job man, your inspiring me to get back out there keep it up
/r/seduction11/06/20 09:13 AM
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This is awesome I'm seeing you get more comfortable London-day game model. Since I'm too lazy to structure my interactions and study the model, I usually just wing it wirh a bunch of spikes with very little conversation, but youre starting to encouraging me to utilize it. Few observations. 1a. Obviously not all of the girls that reject you are in relationships. So to me that means that while your in the midst of vibing they're making a decision about going further with you. Which I believe means…
/r/seduction09/06/20 07:07 PM
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Awesome job, approaching when you don't want to is the quickest way to mastery
/r/seduction04/06/20 10:35 AM
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They switched to becoming self-help but rsd Derek still does game
/r/seduction03/06/20 07:24 PM
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So you use the London daygame model or just winging it
/r/seduction02/06/20 04:34 AM
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If diligent enough he could both daygame and build a hobbie
/r/seduction30/05/20 09:40 PM
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Sounds like fucking excuse to me. That's just a story your telling yourself so you don't have to go out and approach. Just like the other guy said women don't give a shit about covjd 19 they're still going on dates and sleeping with the guys they like. If it's that much of a concern to you stay in the house go on tinder and say no out of respect for your safety I don't want to go on a date with any women. Or get a mask and go out and say hi to a few women. I still cold approach with my mask on h…
/r/seduction30/05/20 09:36 PM
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Good luck man. Once you get through your first and second sets. Youll feel exhilarated and want to keep going
/r/seduction29/05/20 12:53 AM
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Had to chime in you need to tell her to CUT THAT SHIT OUT. And if she don't comply leave her. She's a new girlfriend, there'll (?) always be other ones
/r/seduction27/05/20 06:03 PM
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Ditto I've done plenty of practice, with no life improvement, no focus on getting in shape improving income or becoming a more interesting,.... Just 100% on cold approach and learning how to speak and game women verbally. It worked I've slept with a few women. But I didn't get the best ones, they didn't stick around, and the hits, meaning the women I've slept with were few and far between. A 2 year journey 12 women riddle with a lot of cold streaks. Point is "game" or as I desribe it, your mouth…
/r/seduction16/05/20 09:55 PM
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Lol yes there's some truth to that. I know almost exactly what to do, full-body routine eating right, low calorie intake sleep All of the shit. Fashion sense, having an interesting life not focused around women is about 80-90% of attraction when it comes to game. The rest can be filled in by having a good mouth piece. Eh youre right I really don't need advice. I jusf need to implement it.
/r/seduction16/05/20 09:09 PM
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I just had an evil thought, 7 months kept popping up in my mind, like holy shit this relationship is practically brand new. Still discovering new possibilities 😈. Tell your sister to come here right now type thoughts. Dude your situation is awesome, honestly I'm more interested in learning from you than telling you anything about your current situation. Disclaimer again: Take it from a borderline incel (I approach alot of women, but I'm just not good with hanging around alot of people). I get p#…
/r/seduction11/05/20 04:03 PM
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Hey, I'm a 5'11 fat guy decent muscular base but I have a lot of body fat. Not rich, just started my own business, and in school. I've cold approached roughly 3-500 women, slept with between 10-15 in a 2 year span. I want to increase that number, meaning I want more consistent "relationships" more plates My questions are did you write any field reports If so did they help you, and how so? Was getting in shape the biggest factor?
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:41 PM
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Love when the grammar police come and talk shit, like you forgot your semi colon in this sentence, like your about to turn in an English paper. Anywho disclaimer: I've never had a 3some before, and honestly it sounds like you should post this in a reddit where the top players exist, those that have these types of good problems. I do have a few questions though. Is she hot (the sister). Have you tried slowly introducing the idea when your fucking her, or going down on her, starting it off as a jo…
/r/seduction11/05/20 12:18 PM
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Appreciate it I don't text everyday. I try to play the whole I'm not interested in you so I'll message you every few days after the initial text to raise your interest level card. I'm going to change up my tactics a bit and just play it more by feel rather than a set of rules. I never tried building comfort i always go for the date and when they don't accept it I move on, always an either or. Now I think I'll try when I get a set of numbers just trying out different ways of building comfort to g…
/r/seduction30/04/20 07:20 PM
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What's your take on texting until you get her out. I daygame alot and when take the number I usually don't get the girl out. Do you keep texts intermittent, like maybe once or twice a week until you can get her out. Or do you send her something fun and funny, then when she responds say hey, let's go for (an activity) tonight. Texting, and too much physical escalation during the date are my two main weaknesses, also btw awesome post
/r/seduction30/04/20 01:20 PM
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