| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 13 | Financial Responsibility and Head of Household | Flat_Use3665 | /r/askMRP | 13/12/20 01:33 PM | |
| 11 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to Spouse | Flat_Use3665 | /r/askMRP | 02/11/22 10:19 AM | |
| 4 | Need Some Motivation Or Advice | Flat_Use3665 | /r/Divorce_Men | 26/02/21 03:40 PM |
| Upvotes | Comment on | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to SpouseOk will do waiting on an appointment with a doctor, everyone is like 2 months out | /r/askMRP | 10/11/22 11:19 AM |
| 2 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to SpouseThanks | /r/askMRP | 03/11/22 12:18 AM |
| 4 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to SpouseThanks | /r/askMRP | 02/11/22 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to SpouseI wish but not really. Most businesses like mine end up selling for just the cost of the equipment and maybe 50k above at most. That is what I would like to work on though making it run without me there. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/22 02:56 PM |
| 4 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to SpouseI like your advice and where you say that I am in life seems accurate. I do have a sound financial plan. I spent alot of time reading r/financialindependence. That helped me develop my plan and really get some stability under age 30. The only issue is I feel it messed with my head all of the focus on numbers in the future and getting out of the rat race. What you described they call "The Long Boring Middle" . That's how it feels as I have set the foundation and now have nothing to do, but work s… | /r/askMRP | 02/11/22 12:33 PM |
| 4 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to SpouseThanks for the advice. It has not been a serious consideration yet. I am still working on it through all the natural ways I can try. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/22 12:10 PM |
| 6 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to SpouseYes I am lifting. Just got back in the gym after ordered no exercise for 2 months after surgeries. I got a real therapist in person. I do not think the hospital has much to do with the depression just trying to pinpoint the catalyst that sent me in this direction as I spent alot of time there the last year and was pumped full of alot of drugs during my stays. Before that I was a go getter and enthusiastic about my career My sleep has been bad recently. I keep a regular schedule, but lately have … | /r/askMRP | 02/11/22 12:07 PM |
| 3 | Dealing With Depression And Appearing Weak to SpouseNot yet about a month in with doctor trying diet and exercise. Will consider soon. | /r/askMRP | 02/11/22 11:46 AM |
| 1 | Financial Responsibility and Head of HouseholdShe has just no been put on medication this week. After she finally agreed to give it a try after years of it being recommended by a professional. She has had trouble seeing her regular therapist due to covid. She has blamed it on me stating that my "abuse " was the cause of her depression. But in reality I think her depression is the cause of me saying things like. "Get outta bed" "What kind of example are you setting " "Why is there never any food cooked it's not healthy for us or our kids" An… | /r/askMRP | 26/12/20 02:59 AM |
| 1 | Financial Responsibility and Head of HouseholdShe recognizes that there is a problem , but thinks it's from me not being available enough. She thinks when I try to have a regimented day and a budget that I am being ridiculous. She seems to never be satisfied with what I buy and there is always the next thing that will take half a weeks pay. She has mental health issues for sure. She has actually been receptive to taking orders in the past week or so. She really won't do anything for me in regards to laundry , cooking dinner, making a cup of… | /r/askMRP | 26/12/20 02:36 AM |
| 1 | Financial Responsibility and Head of HouseholdNo she's lazy as hell or either can't handle it. I have taken off the past 10 days to move and get ready for Christmas. She pawns the child off at her moms whenever possible. Even when at work at this point I stay local and supervise so I routinely stop home for lunch or even take them out for an hour or so. She definitely had post partum and I think is still depressed. Her outlook on life is so terrible. She admitted that she "has such a terrible image of herself" and can't get past that. I hav… | /r/askMRP | 23/12/20 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Financial Responsibility and Head of HouseholdThanks for the reply. I'm getting fed up and considering kicking her out after Christmas. It will we the third Holiday with the baby that is complete shit because she can't manage normal life. I'm good on the common law , but would have trouble getting her out of my house which she already stated she would not just leave. I've tried reconstructing whatever frame there once was in a week and stopped DEERing to the best of my understanding of it. Often just exiting the situation for lack of respon… | /r/askMRP | 23/12/20 01:23 PM |
| 1 | Financial Responsibility and Head of HouseholdI think I'm to blame for not properly gauging her aptitude and just making the assumptions that she would rise to the responsibility of parenthood. I could say this is her fault , but I have to recognize my error. I am curious if her laziness will improve and she will effectively carry out orders if I become a strong leader. Now before the baby I was a dick. We spent alot of time drinking. If she was on my nerves or I took a trip I would ignore her sometimes and she would hunt me down not to arg… | /r/askMRP | 15/12/20 02:52 PM |
| 2 | Financial Responsibility and Head of HouseholdThanks for the comments amd criticism. I'm not sure how to get her to understand and follow this vision. She does not understand finances. That's my job. She cannot tell me what to spend, but complains we never have enough when we eat out everyday amd go shopping. I just bought a house . 250k . Its below our budget. Fully redone. I wanna be here for 5 years and keep it as a rental. She wants to re do it. There's no need. I know I should be seeking validation , but for what reason would there be … | /r/askMRP | 13/12/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Financial Responsibility and Head of HouseholdFailed to mention she smokes pot all day which there must be a constant supply of and any hint at cutting back or saving money or a cheaper alternative to some item is met with anger. | /r/askMRP | 13/12/20 01:57 PM |
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