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As ugly as this advice sounds I agree… my child is 10 now and we have the closest relationship. I share 50/50 custody with my ex and I get him week on week off. During the weeks he’s with her he’s on FaceTime or on the phone with me when he’s not in school. He calls me while I’m at work and keeps me on the phone for hours. We play video games together over Xbox live while he’s there. I say all that to say we spend a crazy amount of time in contact with each other. But I know in my head the amoun…
/r/Divorce_Men01/06/26 11:42 PM
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Love to hear it man. I’m almost there. A few drops of sadness creep in every now and then. The first year was difficult but as I learned more and more about female nature and understood why she did it, it hurt less.
/r/Divorce_Men04/05/26 08:41 AM
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How are you doing now?
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 01:05 PM
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I’m talking about the use of AI.
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/26 03:33 AM
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Does anybody else see it🙄? It’s everywhere. It’s like nobody is putting in effort anymore and it makes me sad. I’m not talking about OP. OP is doing the right thing.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 10:53 AM
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This one’s simple. You’re being set up. If you’re going to let the boys sleep in your bed maybe read the room and at the least put on some clothes.
/r/Divorce_Men21/01/26 02:10 PM
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He may not be AI but he’s definitely using AI to respond to most of these people. It’s wild that people can’t even take the time to at least try to clean the AI slop up from their messages.
/r/Divorce_Men01/01/26 01:11 PM
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Quit that second job before you start to divorce. Make yourself as poor as possible prior to divorce(best advice my sister ever gave me). Your wife has probably been checked out for a while but hasn’t been able to make it about you yet. You gave her the slightest bit of excuse and she’s probably about to run with it. Get ready to be the villain in her story. Take care of yourself man.
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 03:53 AM
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Taxes 🤷🏿?
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 01:58 AM
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I feel you. My wife told me 3 times she wanted to leave then got mad at me because I showed her the unlocked door and didn’t chase her through it. It’s been a year now and she’s still an angry little woman using our kid as a weapon at every turn. I was hoping her AP would make her happy but he seems to have left her. Now I’m praying she finds somebody to occupy her time so she’ll leave me alone. Why do they stay so angry for so long….
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 09:51 AM
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I mean….did she like her at first but then changed on you? Cause sometimes women are like that. They just change on you and expect you to change too but you don’t want to lose your girlfriend and then your wife gets all pissy cause you don’t change. Tell us your story.
/r/Divorce_Men24/10/25 08:26 PM
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Because………sex
/r/Divorce_Men12/10/25 05:37 PM
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Smart man!
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 03:40 PM
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Eric, it’s like I(45M) wrote your post. Just like many of us I’m sure. I used to scroll through Reddit and see all these busted up relationships and think how lucky I was to have the wife I did. My ex and I had 14 years of the most peaceful and fulfilling marriage you could ask for. You could count on one hand how many times we had serious disagreements. I was the breadwinner and had a stable job the entire time while she jumped from job to job, career to career. She would always talk about gett…
/r/Divorce_Men11/10/25 11:52 AM
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I’d be interested to see how this question would play out in a askwomenover30 vs a askmen of any age sub. I imagine the answers would be waaay different.
/r/Divorce_Men22/09/25 09:09 PM
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Do not leave the house! Let her leave if she can’t handle her emotions but DO NOT LEAVE YOUR HOUSE.
/r/Divorce_Men16/09/25 01:40 AM
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Keep pushing bro. It’ll go away with time. It’ll come in waves, just acknowledge the emotions let them pass and keep moving forward. Since you have no kids there’s no reason to look back. Block her everywhere you can and go sit at the bar and have a beer and some chicken wings. Count your blessings. I’m in the acceptance stage as well, not sure if she cheated because I didn’t hang around the disrespect long enough to find out but we have a kid so I don’t have the luxury of cutting her off comple…
/r/Divorce_Men07/09/25 08:17 PM
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RP may be the cure but disrespecting your fellow man when he’s down for no other reason than to make yourself feel better is a shitty trait to have.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 03:37 PM
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A lot of these people were married pre red pill YouTube. A lot of these people were comfortable for a long time and the algos hadn’t led them to red pill. A lot of people don’t know still to this day what red pill is. So to call everyone a cuck is a bit crazy. I’d put money on the majority of the people calling people cucks were or are themselves cucks and insecurity has taken hold of them to the point where they feel the need to comment on random posts.
/r/Divorce_Men03/09/25 02:15 PM
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Know that when you visit that sub as a man, do not engage. They will shame, call you out your name and have you banned for daring to give your “toxic opinion” in their safe space. Women are special creatures.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/25 11:49 AM
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I’m still working it out. So far things have been working in my favor. I’ll get into my story when this is all done. Don’t want to accidentally give my stbx and firepower. But in short, back in December she started in on me with all the key words from the internet. Financial abuse, emotional intelligence, narcissist, blah blah. That’s when I knew I had lost my wife to social media. Nothing ever came from the financial abuse accusation because her discoveries told a complete opposite story. I’ve …
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/25 03:53 AM
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It’s crazy how this exact scenario plays out over and over again. I’m reading these posts and could easily insert my own situation perfectly. It’s like all these women have the same exact playbook. All the key words like financial abuse and narcissist. What killed me was my wife was yelling about me financially abusing her and I found out in her discoveries that she had a large sum of money in a secret savings account 😅 named “Exit plan” all while still trying to extort me for money. Why can’t t…
/r/Divorce_Men29/06/25 07:36 PM
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Sounds to me like you’re in the best position to be in. She doesn’t want you to talk to a lawyer because she knows it’s what’s best for you. Talk to an attorney asap.
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/25 05:39 PM
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Man the cadence of this post sounds very familiar. Like I can’t quite put my finger on it but I’ve seen it somewhere before. Like, it was written by the collective mind of the internet. Anyways, I’m going through the same thing and the shit sucks. I feel for you bro. Like I keep telling myself, it gets better with time. Just stay occupied.
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/25 12:59 PM
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It’s why I’ll never do it again. Ever.
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/25 06:43 PM
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No truer words. Scorched earth……
/r/Divorce_Men17/04/25 08:10 PM
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Thank you
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/25 02:52 AM
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We need more positive posts like this. Congrats!
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/25 11:45 AM
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Yeah but the longer he stays the larger a bill He’s making for himself when the inevitable happens. Pay a lot now vs pay a hell of a lot in a few years…
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/25 05:28 PM
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If she’s in the hope game you buying her a gift is just going to give her more hope. Prolonging the process. It’s ok to be an ass sometimes.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 10:55 PM
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Stay broke. Take that 6k and get an attorney. Find a decent local attorney and do as they say. It sounds like you’re not in as bad of a position as you think you might be.
/r/Divorce_Men13/02/25 03:10 PM
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Going through a divorce now. I’ve been laser focused on keeping my Peace. Never knew how valuable it was to me until it was wildly disrupted. I picked up reading as an escape from her chaos and I had no idea id love it so much, all she wants to do is fight. First book I read was ‘No-nonsense Buddhism for beginners’ by Noah Rashets. I’m not religious at all but this book helped get me started on my journey. The next book I read was ‘The Alchemist’ by Paulo Coelho, that was just for fun. Just fini…
/r/Divorce_Men04/02/25 08:55 AM
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