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I strongly agree with this. If I'm better than all of the previous guys, then that's the best achievement.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/23 03:14 AM
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I'm pretty skeptical of your claims of matching with 1/4 of the women you swipe on and only swiping 5%. I've never met a guy with results as good as that. You're probably extremely attractive and extremely successful. My buddy who is nearly a model and has a successful career doesn't even have as good of results. Congrats on that though, you're probably in the top .01% of men. It would be interesting to see your profile but obviously it doesn't make sense for you to show random redditors. With t…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 05:21 PM
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Women get so many likes that they'll have a plethora of good looking men. Women are more harsh as far as rating men upon first impression. There was a study to show that men overrated women initially and women are the opposite. Over time however it switches. Women get 100-1000s of likes, even the bottom 50%. The 1% swipe rate doesn't matter when there are literally tens of thousands of guys swiping. She may not be able to get with the top 1% of men but she's guaranteed to get with the top 10%. S…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 12:23 AM
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I'll need the full article to examine it, not 2 random graphs that are poorly labeled. It doesn't make sense from a common sense standpoint. If an ugly woman is consistently getting with 7s and 8s, they'll begin to overestimate their looks. I saw my female friends profile and she had 1000s of likes despite being below average looking, smokes cigarettes, and overweight. My buddy who is probably an 8 who is very successful gets almost no likes at all. Something isn't adding up. How do you explain …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 05:12 PM
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Women do focus their attention at the top, they get numerous matches and go out on dates with the top guys. There really needs to be statistics on matches and dates. Likes is almost pointless especially since women send out significantly less likes by orders of magnitude. It's bad science to even compare men and women with these statistics. Not to mention there are far less women on the app Even the ugliest women I know are going on dates with the best looking guys (I've seen it). I know very at…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 02:44 PM
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What we can conclude from this is that men and women send their likes to the most desirable options. No surprise here. In the end, women do consistently have matches with men far above their league just because of the sheer volume of likes they get. Men don't have this luxury and will have to settle with undesirable women. With hinge specifically, they don't even need to send out any likes at all. I personally think it's a flawed metric that doesn't tell the full story. Even if men lowered their…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 05:13 PM
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No way, I've seen some really good profiles on that sub that don't get many matches or likes. Even the ugliest of women get plenty of likes who are clearly in the bottom 50%. I can show you a guy who is in the top 10% and a woman in the bottom 50% side by side. I can guarantee the woman will have significantly more matches and likes. The truth is, there are many more men who send out many more likes. Many women don't even send out likes and just like what's in their feed. As stated in your last …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 04:03 PM
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This might be the only logical statement here. It's a well known fact that apps don't work for most men unless you want to settle for someone well below your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:24 PM
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That table is extremely flawed if you look at it from a common sense standpoint. The table is poorly labeled but I assume it is % of likes sent out to those different categories. It completely ignores matches. So what we have here are guys who are sending out significantly more likes but not necessarily receiving any because women swipe less often. On top of that, there are much more men than women. All you have to do is check out the hinge sub of profile reviews and you'll see most of those guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:23 PM
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Agreed, men are usually much more successful approaching in person
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:11 PM
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I've never met a man in my entire life who preferred a woman who already had kids unless the guy wanted kids but was unable to have them due to a medical issue
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 03:01 PM
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On average yes especially when you factor in the path it takes to get there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:59 PM
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Maybe it's a location thing but it's extremely rare that I see that. Most of the women I know are incredibly demanding with how much a guy should make while bringing nothing to the table. I think that's why I'm so jaded. Maybe I need to move somewhere else
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:33 PM
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Hypergamy is declining by default because women are starting to make more. I personally think the dating outlook is especially bleak for most men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 02:07 AM
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When I'm dating it's very rare to find a woman who makes more than me, and the ones who do are definitely looking for richer guys. Even women who make a little less than me shoot for guys making more than me. For women $$$ is the biggest thing they look for in men
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 01:56 AM
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It is though, on average women select guys who have more successful careers... Not sure why this is so controversial. Women get so offended by this for some reason, not sure why.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/23 12:45 AM
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What you're saying is pretty logical, unfortunately in my personal experience, most women arent comprehending that or they refuse to accept it. Most women with very successful careers are still looking for men who make more in my experience. Nothing wrong with that, but the options are more limited.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 10:02 PM
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I'm not sure that assumption is 100% correct. A lot of those women end up cheating and those couples usually get divorced. I think there are some genuine women in their 30s but you have to be extremely careful. If they don't have any baggage like kids, divorced, excessive bc, etc., you hit the jackpot.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:07 PM
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There are some genuine women out there for you, but they are quite rare. The more I date, the more I realize marriage isn't worth it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 09:01 PM
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I'm just talking about on average. Women are usually shooting for guys with far more successful careers. It's usually rare to see a successful woman with a guy who has an average career. Almost never happens. Based on that, on average, we can assume the guy has a more demanding career. You mention nurses, but many female nurses I know have a spouse who is a doctor. As time goes on, we might get to the point where women have to settle for a guy with an average career. It'll be interesting to see.…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:59 PM
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Interesting, are women going to settle for men making less than them? I personally don't see that ever happening. I think we'll see marriages drop drastically with many women choosing to be single and dating casually/sleeping around instead. Itll be interesting to see how men adapt to this changing landscape too
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:49 PM
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Well done. Perfect equivalent right here. Most women would lose their minds if they had to deal with this.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:41 PM
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Absolutely women are advancing their careers. Their options will begin to shrink drastically as there will be less men who make more than them. Let's be real, no woman wants a guy with an average career unless they have no other options. Even me who makes well into the 6 figures, I still encounter numerous women who whine I don't make enough
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 08:01 PM
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Both partners may have a job but it's usually the guy who makes much more and has a far more demanding job. There is something to be said about the amount of stress certain jobs entail compared to others and the amount of hours. Let's be real here, an average guy at an average-below average job has minimal chances at dating with minimal options. An average woman working as a bartender can still easily get with a very successful guy. I'm just stating what I've observed. Anyone can get a job but t…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:15 PM
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There's a difference between working and actively grinding and advancing your career. I have no issues with women wanting to stay at home but they really can't complain if they have to do house stuff too. Obviously it goes both ways. There are many men who are slimeballs who don't contribute much of anything either while expecting the woman to do everything.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:07 PM
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This is the most accurate answer. The equivalent would be that women are only worth having sex with and kids. Beyond that, what else do they provide? Not much. Of course you can't say that because it's politically incorrect and obvious double standards in society.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:08 PM
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We're also forgetting the fact that these men had to slave away in their 20s to build up their careers so these women can stay at home and not work. These women didn't have to develop their careers or endure that stress that comes along with it. They got to enjoy their youth and have fun. Many women prefer staying at home and doing housework too. I see nothing wrong with a woman taking care of all that stuff as long as the guy is the ATM. I personally think those relationships are awful. The ide…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 06:04 PM
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There are lots of good men left. Most women and men are average, it's not like men on average are worse The thing is, women are used to consistently getting with men way above their league. When they finally have to settle, they are left with options in their league. They don't like their options. If I consistently slept with successful supermodels and was constantly showered with attention in my 20s, I'd probably be saying the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 05:58 PM
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I wouldn't say everything he tells is a half truth. Some of what he says is 100% accurate but it's just extremely controversial and offensive. Most guys do agree with some of those things behind closed doors, they just don't say it out loud. Obviously he does say a lot of things that aren't accurate too. We just live in a society where everything is very politically correct
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 04:24 PM
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No it was just an analogy that even the most stereotypically open minded people have pretty distorted views. Notice how I said many* of his viewpoints, not all.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 07:06 AM
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I'd have to agree with this. Once I started to look better and have $$$, I can much more easily sleep with women. The reality is that personality absolutely does not matter to women unless you're a complete scumbag beyond reason. $$$ and looks are the primary factors. Everything else is BS
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:16 AM
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Not all women fuck chads and then settle with beta bucks but the vast majority of women do. That's the thing. What % can you start to generalize? I'd say like 90% and above
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:13 AM
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I'd have to agree with this. Most women in America do this. Almost everything is based on averages in the world and few things are 0% or 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:12 AM
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Even the most liberal of men I know behind closed doors agree with a fair amount of what someone like Andrew Tate says. They just don't say it out loud. You'll get canceled by society. This goes for many topics. You think those rich white liberals in Seattle aren't a little racist? I've got news for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 02:10 AM
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As a guy I'd have to agree. Most men are simps and wouldnt hesitate to throw all of their friends under the bus for some random woman. I'm personally not like that and try to avoid those types of guys, but they are out there. And yes, being an intimidating guy will help ward off these simps lol. Many guys would toss their lives into the garbage to sleep with someone, it's quite sad
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 02:04 PM
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No way, I've seen other guys post their photos and they got a 9.5 score while being completely average. I've also seen legit models get 7s because the photo was a selfie. Your best bet into how attractive you are is how many matches and the quality you can get on a dating app.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:14 PM
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I really didn't, I tried briefly but didn't have an account so I gave up. I know you need a break, just be careful Chad doesn't break her back Have yet to be cucked but I suppose the risk is always there in the future. Thankfully I'm not in a relationship. I am free to do the cucking
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:51 PM
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Lol, doesn't happen th vast majority of the time. Just rich average cucks. You're coping really hard and congratulations on retiring, but your girlfriend has fun with Chad on the side. I didn't look at that link, but if you're posting pictures of yourself trying to prove something to a stranger, you probably have cuckitis. It's always the guys who least expect it. Be safe out there bro, Chad will look after her too Also photofeeler is quite flawed as I've seen even average looking guys get well …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:24 PM
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You'll be a cuck in that scenario. Doesn't happen, 'all the time' lol. The main times are when the guy is average looking and rich. This is the scenario I've seen by far the most. Average looking rich guy with a reasonably attractive woman... it's painfully obvious she's seeing Chad who works at the front counter at the gym. Let me guess, you have a successful career and you're trying to cope with this? My advice is to get ibuprofen ready for your wife after she gets back from a long session wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:14 PM
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What ever the % are rich and average looking. Those guys are the cucks. You're essentially a cuck by default if you meet that criteria. So yeah you better prepare to share your wife with the Chad who collects shopping carts at Costco bro. Sorry man
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:34 PM
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Yeah I don't get the obsession with wanting a housewife among that group. Makes absolutely no sense when you think about the other things they talk about. The biggest thing with finding a woman with a career at your level is you can essentially eliminate the possibility of a leech/gold digger scenario. You can also appreciate they worked hard when younger and didn't just sleep around. Why some of these rich men settle for a woman who has no career and sleeps around is mind boggling
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 02:30 PM
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Yeah never heard of it. But yes, doesn't change what I said
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:56 PM
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It's not really misleading. Women will have to accept they cant get a relationship with any guy they want. They'll actually have to work for it and put some effort in. You can't just sleep around with everyone and all of sudden expect a serious relationship while the same guy is just entering his prime. Not how it works. That's just how dating works. You have to be selfish and these men absolutely should get their experience. No harm is done, they're used to sleeping around, they'll just have to…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:29 PM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:20 PM
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It's all relative. Most women are usually shooting for a guy with a career above theirs and many instances far above it. Some guys don't mind being providers but they should absolutely date younger if that's the case and not settle for a woman who is older and wants to settle. Id personally never consider dating any woman with a career too far below my own especially at my age. No way.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 05:10 AM
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So if a woman is seeing a guy does she go for it or does she risk losing it by warning him that she mainly sees him for money and that she is settling down? I'll stick to my first stance if a guy wants to gain experience but doesn't care how and I'll soften it up for the guys who want a more honest approach. In the end, every guy in his 30s should absolutely sleep around. They should keep an open mind of the possibility of a LTR only if the woman meets the highest standards they have set. This i…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:59 AM
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So me advocating that men should explore their 30s and date women to see who they like is evil? Isn't that the purpose of dating? To see who you like? So women all of sudden are entitled to marry any guy they meet after they decided they are done sleeping around? Nope, not how it works. Men in their 30s should absolutely use that time to enjoy. They have time on their side and are in no rush. Women don't have that luxury What's actually evil is a woman who only settles for a guy for his money an…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:41 AM
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Will women be honest that they are settling for a guy only because he has money and they are done sleeping around? You have to do what you gotta do in this world. I see no issues with guys playing the field in their 30s. Just tell women 'you want to see where things go...' Be open to a LTR but also play the field and enjoy your 30s. Most importantly don't settle! Men have time on their side.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 04:28 AM
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From what I've seen, most doctors are cucks unless they are very good looking. This actually goes for any profession that makes a lot of money. If you're a doctor, women will only go for you for your money but they will absolutely cheat on you with Chad who makes minimum wage. They'll then divorce you and take your money... if you're a doctor and average looking you may as well just buy hookers
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:48 AM
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Why can women say a man has a small penis but he can't say a woman is loose? Some women are indeed much looser than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:45 AM
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So why can women say a guy has a small penis but a man can't say a woman is loose? Yes, some women are looser.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:42 AM
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Yeah it's like all the idiots on social media and elsewhere claiming they have ADHD. Id say 95% of the people diagnosed with ADHD don't have it. And a lot of the people who claim autism don't have it. I guess its hip on social media to claim autism now. Yes, you're a quirky annoying moron, and no, you don't have autism. You're an annoying asshole. It's cringe with all these people claiming they have disorders they don't actually have.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:41 AM
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Yeah he's way off on that lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:37 AM
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Sounds like your friends picked wisely! Many guys aren't as smart unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 03:30 AM
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So your male friends worked their butts off to build up a career only to settle for a woman who slept around and enjoyed her 20s... she probably doesn't have a career either and is a dead weight. That's sad
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:28 PM
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And then women get upset they don't want to settle. The best thing a guy like this can do is absolutely sleep around and enjoy life in his 30s. Men have more wiggle room and time to start a family, women don't. It's wrong that society tells a man he needs to work on his career in his 20s and then settle for some woman who has no career and slept around with tons of guys in her 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 11:27 PM
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I kinda agree, although I wouldn't consider any woman LTR material if they sleep with a guy on the first date. That's just me personally. I also wouldn't consider a woman who makes me wait while they slept with other guys on the first date... I'm not a simp either.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/09/23 05:08 AM
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I've never even seen a pic of you and don't even know what your BMI is. Don't let some troll like myself get you so worked up. I primarily use reddit to shit post and troll to pass the time when my job is slow
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 12:48 AM
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Are you the one who was stalking me? I think I remember and you leave out a lot of important context. Nevertheless my theory was supported and I was probably heavily downvoted. You can still be fat and be at a normal BMI, it's called being 'skinny fat' lol. You can also be above a BMI and be extremely fit if you have a lot of muscle. I personally think BMI is somewhat flawed. that's just my personal opinion and obviously many guys and women will disagree. That's okay!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 10:55 PM
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Absolutely not. I see women all the time joking about a guy being bald or short even in professional environments. No one bats an eye and everyone laughs but you know the guy who is made fun of is secretly pissed off. You call that same woman a fat slob and you will absolutely be fired and sent packing. Even if the guy who got insulted called the woman out, he'd probably be written up for harassment. I have on more than one occasion called.out women for this and they get pretty butthurt not real…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:35 PM
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It's very obvious when someone fakes confidence as it appears quite forced. You are either confident or you're not. Confidence is more internal and the outward expression is different for different people. You can be very quiet and be extremely confident or you can be a charismatic sales person and be confident. Are you cool/calculated or a charismatic charming person? Anyone can become confident with enough hard work but people approach it the wrong way by only trying to mimic the outward manne…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:31 PM
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Username checks out
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:25 PM
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Everyone has problems and many people can work through them to the point of becoming tolerable and self sufficient. The biggest problem someone can have is lacking self awareness. There are a lot of people who wander around not realizing they have a huge amount of baggage yet they whine and claim they are the victim. If you can accept.tour problems, you are already ahead of most of the people. That's without even working on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 09:24 PM
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Oh I've seen that term, and I'm guilty of using it myself. Outside of a few spots on reddit you'd never be able to use that term anywhere in society. You'd be canceled so quickly. You can openly make fun of a guy if he's short or bald without any issues at all even in public or in the workplace. Also, unlike being fat, you can't change height and baldness.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 01:09 AM
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Nope, you can always become a passport bro lol. It's honestly not as bad as people think. You can easily find a well put together woman who is genuinely interested in being with you. The narrative that they only want green cards is overblown and perpetuated by bitter old American women.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 05:32 PM
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The thing I've noticed nowadays is that it's fine to insult and make fun of men if they are short, bald, have a small penis, etc. but fat women are praised and forced upon me by the media? People can openly make fun of men for things they can't change without any repercussion but if you call out a fat woman who has no self control, you're a bad person. I'm personal all for anyone being as judgemental as they want with dating especially. The best thing to do is ignore women if they whine about yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 04:10 PM
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The vast majority of guys on those apps are average looking, just how numbers work. If you go look at peoples' profile reviews, you'll see even attractive guys not getting matches. It's kinda rare to see someone who truly is ugly looking
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:09 PM
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If we're being real here, most of these guys are average looking and even some attractive guys get no matches. The truth is you need to be far above average to do well unless you want to pump/dump landwhales. That's the politically incorrect way of stating how things are.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:07 PM
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Do you blame them though? Guys have no standards and most are simps. You think a woman is going to settle for an average guy when she can sleep with Chad?? She'll settle for the beta when she's had her fun and hits the wall
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:05 PM
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Most women I know in their 30s are whining and complaining they can't find anyone or they get repeatedly pump and dumped. Women have the upper hand in sleeping around with random guys but that's about it. Men have far more wiggle room and time on their side especially if they want kids and a family. Women don't have that luxury so most have to settle. Not every woman is going to get with the chads they sleep around with...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:03 PM
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Which is why marriage is stupid in most cases especially if you're a rich successful guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 02:59 PM
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White people don't age well if they don't put sunscreen on and take care of their skin. If they do, they can look pretty young
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:58 PM
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I do have strong convictions, because redditors have a habit of greatly exaggerating things to the point where it's delusional. In a redditors mind, everyone who doesn't look like a supermodel is ugly and abnormal. If you sit at home all day I guess you don't actually see what people actually look like except what's on TV.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:42 PM
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Wtf, no way does that guy look like he would be in his 40s. Are redditors this delusional? I'm completely convinced no one on this site actually goes outside. If that dude looks like he is 45, then most people who are 45 look like they are in their 60s. There, end of discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:39 PM
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Im not sure there are many women who necessarily seek out someone who is balding. It's like a woman with cellulite, guys never prefer it but it's not really a major dealbreaker if you're mostly put together. Personally, I am balding and I haven't noticed any issues with dating since I've been losing my hair but I am tall and attractive enough that even if bald I'm still better looking than most men. It's an upfront investment, I think it's worse to be with a guy who slowly becomes bald since you…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 01:36 PM
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True, that goes for virtually any trait...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:23 AM
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The guy in that picture looks around 30. I don't know how people on reddit think but a lot of guys who are 30-40 look like shit. This guy looks far better than most 30 year olds. Most women in their 30s look god awful too from what I've seen on dating apps. Most are undatable. I'm under the impression that most redditors don't go outside much
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:48 AM
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He looks 30 years old... why do redditors exaggerate things so much? Those wrinkles aren't even that bad
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:07 AM
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If a guy can pull off the bald look, they won't really age much at all over time compared to a guy who is slowly losing his hair and looks like shit being bald. You really really don't want to be bald and fat or skinny
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:05 AM
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Id say hair is quite important but it really depends on the guys facial structure on if they can pull off the bald look. Some guys look like shit when bald and some guys don't really change that much and some even look better. Ive started to bald but I'd rather just be bald than have a hair transplant and have my dick stop working from all the meds you need to take to maintain it. Thankfully I'm attractive enough that being bald wouldn't be bad at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:03 AM
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Id say the vast majority of people cheat when they travel alone. So take that information and view it however you want
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 03:46 AM
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I don't think many guys want a virgin... they just want a woman who doesn't have a high body count which there is nothing wrong with. Big difference. The average number of.partners is around 7 so.it shouldn't be that hard to find someone with a lower count.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 08:45 PM
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It's a bad idea but most people cheat and like 50% of couples divorce. Id say most people settle quite a bit. Why would someone want to be with their current partner when they've slept with 30 others who are more attractive and better in many ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:47 AM
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Everyone says this until it's time to settle. Id say the majority of couples end of settling and obviously most cheat/get divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:45 AM
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Why is this always focused on what men can do... women have to compete with former partners who were more attractive, better looking naked, not as loose, etc. Goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:44 AM
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So you're saying its best to avoid women with a high count...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:41 AM
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Now you're putting words in my mouth... are you saying I should settle for someone I'm not attracted to? If it's politically incorrect to say I'm not attracted to older women, then that's totally fine. I don't even date that much younger. My standards are pretty low and I'm not delusional. I'm not looking to get with a supermodel, just an attractive woman who isn't obese and is somewhat fit. That's honestly all I look for as far as physical traits. I'm sorry to say, but most women in their 30s w…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 07:06 PM
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Maybe you should start by finding someone who has a job and doesn't have any severe psych issues... you can only get those desirable guys if you bring stuff to the table too. I can guarantee if you take care of yourself, have your own career, and are a decent person you'll have no issues finding a good partner. A lot of women in America let themselves go over time and it compounds when they hit their 30s. People can get angry all they want, but from what I've seen on the apps, there is absolutel…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 06:26 PM
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Well at least you can spot they are out of your league unlike most women. I'm also happy you are able to still pull it off somehow.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:41 PM
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Settle, then divorce, rinse and repeat. This sums up a lot of couples. If you're a rich average guy, there's almost no point in getting married in my opinion.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:32 PM
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You're absolutely right on your second point, but I think the wall is closer to 30 to early 30s. If you're a woman in your 30s, time is ticking especially if you want children. Those more desirable men in their 30s are wise to get with younger women. Most women especially in America, unless they actually take care of themselves go down hill rapidly in their 30s. This is just my personal opinion, obviously you can disagree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:30 PM
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I don't really care regardless, everyone should be able to choose who they want. I just point out things that happen. Doesn't need a solution since it's not necessarily a problem and isn't harming anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:12 PM
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You just won't be able to get with guys out of your league as easily once you pass the wall. May have to settle for an average guy unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:23 PM
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It's not a big gig until they inevitably hit the wall and wonder why they can't settle down finally
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:03 PM
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No they want a guy who has $$$ so they don't have to do anything or worry about money.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:01 PM
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It's legal in Nevada... you may get some exotic STD though.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 04:00 AM
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Interesting, what would you say about the quality of your matches? Id say I'm an 8/10, very fit, and tall. A decent chunk of my likes were from women who were very ugly and obese. I did get extremely attractive women who matched sometimes but mostly far below average women...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:57 AM
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Lol this is quite comical. Many attractive men I know are misogynistic, they just have awareness to not say their views out loud.... one of my buddies is attractive and I always thought he was liberal but behind closed doors he says some of the most misogynistic things I've ever heard. Also if you have money, many women will overlook your misogynistic views in a heartbeat and drop to their knees
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 03:50 AM
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Completely disagree 100%. That's how it used to be but not anymore based off what I have seen. I think times have changed quite a bit and it's a very recent phenomenon. I think it's mainly a dating app thing. Without dating apps, obviously uglier women don't get approached but on an app, even the ugliest of women have tons of options far far above their league
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 07:25 PM
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I think that used to be more the case awhile ago but not anymore. With modern dating and social media it's actually changed now. It makes sense that women would overestimate their looks because they have tons of desperate men chasing after them. If you use a dating app, most women can get with men way out of their league whereas men usually have to date much lower
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:34 PM
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No, I said most people fall under the average category which in my eyes is around a 4-5
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:27 PM
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If you're looking at it some a pure mathematical definition, then yes, it doesn't make sense. I'm just saying most people are average looking. Very few are truly ugly and very few are actually attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:21 PM
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Yes, I just stated that... how doesn't statement not make sense?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 01:06 PM
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Most people fall under the average category yet men believe there's a surplus of Chads out there. Men severely underestimate their looks while women are the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/23 03:38 AM
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Absolutely, so id advise doing that if you don't want to build up your life just to be safe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 04:05 PM
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Yes vast majority, not even exaggerating. Not sure what country you are from but the majority of women here in America don't take care of themselves. And even attractive women here let themselves go. I find uglier women actually put more effort into their appearance sometimes. This.myth that women are somehow perfect and guys are slobs has to be the greatest scam of the century. The reason for this is because guys have no standards and they are simps. If men actually raised their standards, the …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:24 AM
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If you're a strong independent woman you can build up your own career too... you do realize that right? It is 2023... you don't need to rely on some guy's money
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:11 AM
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Lol as if women are any better??? Id consider myself in the top 10% and am tall, attractive, fit etc. The vast majority of women are extremely out of shape and absolutely do not take care of themselves. Where did this myth originate from that women are somehow the better catch??? I'm not seeing it at all
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 03:03 AM
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Are you targeting men who are significantly more fit than you? There are people who are skinny fat. They are at a healthy weight but I'd still say they are fat. Regardless you cant make anyone like you, just have to find the right guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:07 PM
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If you're going to let a few weird people on reddit influence your life to such a degree, you have bigger issues to worry about.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:13 PM
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I think there's also an equal amount of women who claim men are misogynist whenever they say something that remotely doesn't benefit women. It goes both ways. Let's just say reddit is a dumpster fire in general with femcels and incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:57 PM
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The demographic of reddit isn't representative of reality so it's really hard to get a consensus on certain things here.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:52 PM
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People with actual autism actively work on their social skills and sometimes aren't even aware of what they are doing. I feel a lot of people are actually lazy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:48 PM
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Hot take here, women give the worst advice for dating especially for men. What men need is a solid bro as a mentor guiding them along.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:45 PM
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Wonder what women will call you for saying that, they can't call you a misogynist or incel. Many women also have these preferences. Truth is, body count does matter, not necessarily in a physical sense but just more psychologically and from a values standpoint. I will say that guys with a high count who judge are hypocrites. Its not a big deal if 2 people with low counts want to be with each other.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:33 AM
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It's really not a big deal to have a low or high body count... just find someone who is alright with either scenario. These women and men desperately trying to convince me that their past doesn't matter is bizarre... just find a guy who doesn't care. And yes, you can call me a scumbag or insecure. I'll find someone who fits my preferences and everyone will be happy
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:24 AM
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'fairly low' I have no idea what that means. Based off the numbers alone, the average lifetime partners is 7, so I'm guessing <7 or 5 would be considered fairly low... My radar works just fine a lot of the time, sometimes a few slip past my defenses and I reject them afterwards
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:19 AM
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Bro please. Just Google, "liberal woman." Basically a woman with purple hair, septum piercing, liberal hair/face (not necessarily ugly), etc. I have nothing against these women as they are generally pretty nice although can be pushy/bossy sometimes. Obviously not all liberals are like this but this is just the stereotypical look that I personally avoid
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 05:16 AM
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Give me a step by step process of how an ugly guy would go about having sex with an ugly woman. Ill take notes so I can spread your wisdom to all of the guys complaining on reddit because they aren't aware
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:21 AM
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Still not telling me how. Those women can easily get with a Chad off an app, why would they want to have sex with an ugly guy??
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:08 AM
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You still didn't answer my question. If it's so easy how does an ugly guy do it... what's the process?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:05 AM
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They are usually more open about that stuff, dress a certain way, have your typical liberal look. There's more to that and it's not extremely cut and dry but those are certain things. Of course they can always change. They could certainly lie about it and there's a chance I wouldn't know regardless. I'm not sure why a woman would want to be with a guy who is turned off by her body count, but I guess its a risk I'll have to accept.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 04:04 AM
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No it's not easy. The average number of partners in a lifetime is like 7. Please tell me how an ugly guy can easily have sex? I'm genuinely curious. I can then make a book and sell it for good money with your advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:56 AM
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Women who have slept around a lot are easier to pick out and fit a certain stereotype. I won't go into the specifics but you can certainly point them out with some accuracy, definitely not 100% though. After you're dating its much easier to tell too. Why would a woman want to be with a guy who would be disgusted by their count anyways?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:55 AM
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I disagree, sex does take effort to get as a man. Certainly not an accomplishment for a woman at all. Even far below average women can do it whenever. It's the reason why men who have a lot of sex are praised because their success naturally allows them to do that more. Sleeping with far below average women isn't much of an accomplishment either but also takes some work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:49 AM
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I think it's some insecurities deep down and looking for validation for a lot of people. Some people also feel the need to sleep around so they don't feel they are missing out. Some genuinely enjoy just sleeping around although this isn't what I see most of the time. I don't think there's necessarily anything wrong with that, but why am I given flack if I reject a woman who has slept around a lot? The average number of lifetime partners is around 7 last I read so I'm not being that unreasonable …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 07:21 PM
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Based off experience those actual nice guys do end up with awful women who settle for them, usually the woman is way below their league too. Being a nice guy is possibly the worst thing you can do if you're a guy. Even when pursuing a career, those guys have some trouble. More guys need to be confident and a bit more arrogant. Also most men need to drastically raise their standards dating wise.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 04:21 PM
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Social media is to blame. Standards are through the roof of what type of life you should be living
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 03:43 PM
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Mice.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/09/23 01:56 AM
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Yes, that does happen. The women who get older don't have that luxury, hence why we so many older women on reddit whining they can't find someone suitable. No revenge fantasy here. Just tired of all the older bitter women who get mad at guys for dating younger.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:54 PM
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You're making absolutely no sense. Most of those guys do reasonably well in their 20s too but now that they've got a great career too, they don't have to settle for a woman in her 30s. You're making the false assumption that these men were rejected in their 20s too... some were but many weren't. Even the ones who were rejected can still date younger once they hit 30 because men do far better with age. Time is more unforgiving to women. Having used dating apps, most women in their 30s look awful …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:46 PM
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I don't care if people have kids or not. There's too many people as it is. Probably good to have less kids to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:25 PM
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You're coping so hard. It's a well known fact that women in their 20s are far more desirable than women in their 30s. If a guy in his 30s has access to both, of course he'll choose younger. When they were younger and more fit, they were chasing more desirable men who probably didn't want a LTR. As they get older and their dating value goes down, they'll have to settle for those undesirable guys. In what world does a woman in her 30s, unless she's taking care of herself really well, have the choi…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:23 PM
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Strong cope. A lot of those guys are successful and of course they'll choose the younger woman, it's a no brainer. Trust me, those undesirable guys you describe have a much harder time getting with younger women... what you said absolutely makes no sense. As women get older they'll have to settle for those guys you didn't want for decades lol. I see it all the time. Why would younger women choose those types of men? Younger women choose the best older men.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:12 PM
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Yeah I havent seen much consistency but I will say that women with children in a stable relationship seem to be the happiest. Women without children who have nothing going on in their lives are absolutely the worst.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:07 PM
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The people who feel the need.to convince others why they don't have kids are usually miserable.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:06 PM
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How big is the age gap though. I don't see anything wrong with a guy in his 30s pursuing a woman in her 20s. That seems to be the combination that triggers older women the most. 40s and late 20s isn't even that creepy either
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:03 PM
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Depends on how young, but it's mainly bitter older women who are angry their dating pool is choosing the younger hotter women. It's pretty rare for someone to date someone who is young enough to make it creepy. When a guy in his ,30s dates women in their 20s that seems to trigger women really badly in their 30s. If you're a guy, don't let these bitter old women guilt trip you into dating them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:56 PM
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Lol people can change, but there's nothing wrong with rejecting someone with a high N count. I've done it a few times. And your past absolutely does influence who you are today even if you are changed. The real answer is to find a guy who doesn't care about it rather than whine about their preferences
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 02:26 PM
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We're not talking about just sex though... we're talking about a relationship. N count is important to many guys for a LTR whether they like to admit it or not. A hookup, not so much.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:31 AM
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I think the main issue is that women want a traditional relationship but they also want to keep all the benefits of more modern norms. Women essentially cherry pick what favors them. My dating philosophy is to keep everything equal which is why is only date women with equally successful careers. Creates less confusion and I've never had an issue with this. We both support each other and pay equally.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:06 AM
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While we're on this topic... prepare for the downvotes... I think woman should know if a guy is inexperienced... but I think men should also know a woman's body count. No double standards
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 05:02 AM
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The biggest issue here is that people can't be objective and everyone lacks self awareness. You cannot say anything factual or logical on reddit without hurting someone's feelings. The most controversial topics on reddit are usually accurate but people get too offended to admit it
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:59 PM
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The key is to get wealthy and not let women know about it. If you show your hand, you've been exposed and you'll now have to figure out the gold diggers which is extremely hard. There's a high likelihood the woman will cheat and steal your money. You have to get wealthy but be discreet about it. If you're looking for pump and dumps, absolutely go and buy those nice cars and flashy items.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:56 PM
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I disagree, it takes 2 to tango personality wise. It's pretty rare for someone to get into a LTR where one person hates the other's personality. I personally wouldn't want to be with a woman who wants me for my money and I avoid those women like the plague. Id realistically only date women who make as much as me or if I was 100% certain she wasn't a gold digger. Most women who only get with a man because of his money end up cheating anyways.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 04:53 PM
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So here's the deal, you're asking women on reddit who fit a very very very specific demographic. The results where are going to be severely skewed and not representative of reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:39 AM
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Let's just say most men and women are average and fit within that category yet they all whine that everyone else is below them. Newsflash, you are within the same category! Most men and women want the people in the top 10%.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:33 AM
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This easy, women shouldn't settle on a guy who is a deadbeat and have a kid with them.... the women in these scenarios are usually dead beats too. Takes 2 to tango.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:28 AM
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That could be a possibility too, doesn't mean what I'm saying is false. Didn't you catch the memo, everyone on reddit is truthful and no one trolls
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:32 PM
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You can be successful at something and still point out things that are true. Sometimes the truth can be ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:06 PM
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Yeah this is false. I am peaking in my 30s. I am objectively more attractive, more fit, successful, etc. My dating pool is significantly better now than when I was in my 20s. I can routinely get with women in their 20s who I couldn't get with when I was in my 20s. It's amazing how many women cope with the fact that they hit a wall in their 30s
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 11:35 PM
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No, they're below average. An average to slightly above average guy can easily get with a younger woman and not have to pay for anything. Unfortunately women just hit the wall at 30... but, if they take care of themselves they really don't hit a wall. Most women don't take care of themselves and let themselves go. It's better to just bankroll and become a passport bro than settle for someone you're not even attracted to. Eventually most men will cheat if they aren't attracted to their partners. …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:47 AM
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Nah, the only guys who are complaining are far below average. Any other guys can get with younger women. Even if you're an ugly guy, you can just become rich and date younger too.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:33 AM
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Nope, they do. The ones who complain are the ones who are sitting on reddit with no career or prospects. Of course they'll have to settle but even then they can go overseas to find a younger woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:27 AM
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I choose women who take care of themselves and value health. Those women who prioritize that age well and it wouldn't be a big deal. If someone let themselves go, I'd absolutely dump them. I've met women who look phenomenal in their 40s better than most 20 year olds but they value their health.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:26 AM
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False. Those average men in stable careers also have access to women in their 20s especially if they take care of themselves. Might not be as much as a more successful guy but they certainly do. If men have the option, they'll always go younger if possible. The wall absolutely does exist. A big reason to blunt, is that most women are slobs especially in America and don't take care of themselves so they look awful once they hit 30. Id rather be single for the rest of my life than settle.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:21 AM
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100% agree. As a guy who is in his 30s id never settle for most women in their 30s because most don't take care of themselves. A small percentage of women do look good in their 30s and 40s but most go downhill a bit. Fortunately I'm aging very well, look young, and am fit. If you're an average guy you will have to settle though
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:10 AM
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I disagree. Wall does absolutely exist when you're trying to get with quality men. Why would a guy get with a woman in her 30s when he has options who are in their 20s. Whether people like to admit it or not, beauty/attractiveness is one of the main things men look for especially when they have options. Women on average look worse in their 30s compared to 20s. Some women in their 30s look great but definitely not the norm from what I see. A guy who is successful in his early 30s also has time to…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/23 04:08 AM
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Women who get with guys due to their money or if that's a big focus tend to have worse relationships from what I've seen. If you're a rich guy, you absolutely don't want to be using your money to attract women unless you want to sleep around.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 05:43 AM
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Would be a literal midget walking through any town in the Netherlands
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/23 03:46 AM
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It's very serious. If you're not 6'11", you're essentially suffering from dwarfism over there. Even that is kinda short to be honest
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 07:39 PM
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I disagree with your last point. I think people should be as picky as they want even if it doesn't make sense. It's a bizarre thing when people whine about others and who they personally want to date.. guys complain women want chads or tall guys. Women complain when guys don't want fat women or high body counts.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:05 PM
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This is mainly a dating app thing. When a woman who is below average is consistently getting with guys what out of her league, why wouldn't she think she's a ten? After all, she has the data (matches) to prove it. Guys tend to severely underrate themselves for the opposite reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:03 PM
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6'2" in the Netherlands is basically a dwarf and a genetic condition.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:39 PM
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Literally going outside and touching grass is good especially when it was just mowed.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 03:33 PM
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I don't think you are understanding. Dating apps are obviously real life, that's not what I'm arguing. I should word it a bit better and just say approaching in person vs online dating. When people say real life, they really just mean approaching women in person. People aren't actually suggesting that dating apps are a simulation
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:26 AM
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I'm saying that's the average and what most guys can realistically get. I have gotten with women more attractive than myself a couple times. Id consider myself a solid 8 just on looks alone. A lot of my likes are from women who are in the 4-6 range and it gradually gets smaller and smaller as you go up. The problem is, I'm competing with 1000s of other guys for a very small percentage of the pool if I wanted to be with a woman in my league. If I improved my photos I think I could do a bit better…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 05:24 AM
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Dating apps are better for the sole reason that they are more convenient since you don't even need to leave your house and you can have more options potentially. Other than that, approaching in person will give you access to higher quality women. If you're a guy you usually can only get with women 2-3 pts below your league id say on an app
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:56 AM
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It's not just unattractive people. Even guys who are above average don't have any luck from what I've seen. It's not a coping mechanism, it's just simple numbers. On an app you're some random profile being judged next to 1000s of other guys. Of course a woman is going to choose the most attractive option, it's a no brainer. You approach in person and you can separate yourself and show off your personality. If real life was just like a dating app, you'd have 100 guys approach a woman at the same …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:53 AM
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It's just simple probability
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:48 AM
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No, the average man. It's a bit of an exaggeration that every single guy isn't having sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 01:26 PM
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You must have a low opinion of women if you think they can't handle improving themselves.... What guys should do is stop thinking about sex 24/7 and raise their standards significantly
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 05:18 AM
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The advice given to men includes going to the gym, making more money, confidence, personality, social status, etc. As far as women? I guess you just show up and be somewhat attractive and have a tolerable personality. I'm not hating on them, that's just how dating is. Men are held to a much higher standard. I'm not necessarily mad about it because I'm insanely competitive but I'm also not going to date someone way below my league. I know my value.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:35 AM
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Men should be improving all of those things to increase their chances but the best way is to do it for themselves and not to date more women. On a side note, why are there rarely any discussions on how women can improve themselves? Everyone always assumes the dating pool for women is bad especially on apps but realistically the women aren't any better at all from what I've seen and the dating pool for quality men is extremely bad.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 04:09 AM
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Physical attractiveness can only reach a certain point for many guys. Your potential is limited by that. Personality and confidence can always be worked on. If you use dating apps, personality/confidence are pretty much non existent. I think there's a certain threshold of physical attractiveness a guy must reach to have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 03:57 AM
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It's easy, if you want kids, find a woman who wants kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:33 PM
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Not if you're a smart man and make her sign a prenup.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 02:40 PM
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Some guys use dating apps...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:55 PM
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Chad doesnt even leave his house lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:54 PM
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Not if you're using dating apps and cold approaching someone...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 01:53 PM
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If the guy isn't providing any support then yes, he would be a Chad although another idiot. A Chad isn't going to get with someone who has kids anyways, so it's a moot point. Hes got way too many options. The second guy is almost guaranteed to be a beta. There are of course exceptions to everything but its not common.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:44 AM
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The guy is a Chad if some woman let him do that... He's an absolute idiot and the woman is too for letting someone with a shitty personality do that, but he's still a Chad. Just a dumb Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:37 AM
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I think Chad is a bit of a hyperbole in this situation but the idea is still there. This is just what I've seen in general from personal experience. A Chad is a Chad regardless of what their personalities are like. There are good ones and bad ones, smart and dumb.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:30 AM
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The guy isn't a Chad because he has to provide support to someone else's kids with nothing in return. The previous guy's value definitely went down but he's probably doing ok. Anyone with kids is going to struggle dating. A somewhat analogous situation would be a rich guy who treats his wife poorly but then gets with a younger more attractive woman and gives her everything. The younger woman in this case is the 'chad'. The moral of the story is if you're more attractive, you're not going to have…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 05:19 AM
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If the woman is only having sex with you because you're providing some financial aid then that won't last long term. A woman who is truly into you will like being with you regardless. You think this same woman was requesting money and support from the Chad she had kids with??? Absolutely not.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:55 AM
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What if the woman isn't good company and an awful person? Do you still pay for that date? That's the big difference. You know your friends are good people who have your back. How about some random woman you don't know?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:52 AM
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I agree, I use reddit to troll and say weird shit. In person I am highly successful and a normal guy. It's super bizarre when people want others to act civilized and PC on reddit.... No, that's what I do in person lol
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:37 AM
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I don't give a shit people can do whatever they want with their lives. I personally wouldn't be with a woman like that though
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 03:23 AM
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You're right, a lot of men would do that. It's an interesting thing when a guy goes from not having any options at all to suddenly having numerous options. I honestly wouldn't blame the guy for leaving and upgrading especially if he was already unhappy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/08/23 03:48 AM
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I have asked different people, received objective feedback, and do reasonably well on dating apps despite being extremely picky.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:07 PM
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Yes it's why I as an 8 gets likes from 4s on dating apps despite having absolutely nothing in common with those women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:49 PM
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It's actually the other way around for me. I think athletes are far smarter than the average person. I think it's more of an insecurity and stereotype on your end but that's just my opinion and from what I've seen from others.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 01:01 PM
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Having high status is a double edged sword, on one hand you are successful and can find more dates but many times you just attract women who want to use you as an ATM and find no other value in dating you, I've seen it way way too many times. The best scenario is you meet a woman in an average job and then work your way up to the better job with the same woman by your side.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:23 AM
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Why not athletics? Obviously that's just a personal preference but I wonder why?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:15 AM
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When your life is significantly impacted in a negative manner trying to improve yourself. As you begin to make improvements your results increase rapidly but it begins to level off to a certain point. Once your results start to level off, it's a good time to self reflect
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:12 AM
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Imagine if your penis was like 4 feet long and you could use it as an actual sword. That would for sure make up for lack of height.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/08/23 04:05 AM
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Why the hell would I drink coffee at 6pm? I drink it in the morning to wake up, not before bed. Wouldn't it make more sense to do drinks if you're wanting to go late? I don't like spending a ton of money on women I meet off a dating app so I prefer coffee, plus if the woman bails I usually drink my coffee anyways and start my day
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:44 AM
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Lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:32 AM
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I was admittedly a beta growing up but had the mold of an alpha. I was tall, attractive, and stronger than most of my peers. My psychological issues held me back a lot. I had lots of women approach me but I was too much of a beta/introverted. Now that I'm older I'm thinking of just sleeping with a bunch of women to make up for my lost time but it goes against my values.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:31 AM
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15%??? Bullshit. The top 20% of men can't even get with an overweight 4 off tinder.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:27 AM
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How the fuck are you going to make a coffee date last long enough into dinner? Jesus Christ. Also, I will say it's better to initiate touch and just risk it even if you're unsure. If a woman isn't receptive she isn't into you regardless but it's worth a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:25 AM
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I'll take things that never happened for $800 Alex
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:23 AM
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Have no idea but I'd dump a woman who discloses anything like that. If she had a high body count I'd also reject her. That's just me and my preferences. No need to get angry! Not saying every guy should do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 03:19 AM
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If a guy states the same thing, he'd be called and incel or insecure. Gotta love the double standards of reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:43 AM
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Does it really matter if he's jealous or not??? That's his personal preference. Why the desperation to force some men to change on their views... just find another guy who doesn't care. Id personally reject a woman with a high body count and I have before. You can call me an incel or whatever you want. I have personal values and consider yourself lucky youre not stuck with a guy who is mad about it. I will say from personal experience that many many men are insecure or don't like their partner t…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:41 AM
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People should be able to select and reject anyone for any reason they want even if it includes a high body count. I don't get why women get so angry if a man has this preference... Just find another guy lol. Stop trying to force your preferences on other people. If you're a guy who absolutely cares about body count don't feel bad for it. You can always reject the woman if she has a high count or isn't revealing it. You won't get arrested for it and you're not harming anyone not matter how much w…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:35 AM
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Why are men who have low counts so demonized for wanting a woman with similar values??? I get that men with high body counts are hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 01:30 AM
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