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| 1 | Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likesLmao thanks. I messaged you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 05:31 AM |
| – | Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likesYou can message it to me? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 05:26 AM |
| – | Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likesWhat does that mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 05:25 AM |
| – | Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likes5’7” is too damn short tho, come onnn | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/10/24 05:15 AM |
| 1 | If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female?That’s actually fair enough. My mind’s been changed, which doesn’t happen often on the internet, so congrats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 11:13 PM |
| – | If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female?Idk? Clubs maybe? Have you been to one? Do you know how drunk guys act in front of hot ladies? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 10:18 PM |
| – | If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female?Depends on the girl, I get out often and I’m considered up there when it comes to beauty ratings so I naturally have plenty more confrontations than the average girl. I’ve had men defend me from being groped so many times and even had one push back a big girl who wanted to beat me up. It’s hot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 10:01 PM |
| – | If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female?But your girlfriend at the time saw you protect her like that and show strength. Her love probably increased tenfold | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:52 PM |
| – | Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likesWell that does help haha. But that’s only like 30% of a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:32 PM |
| 5 | If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female?More lifting. Martial arts can be a little goofy and nerdy if you don’t have muscle | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 08:19 PM |
| – | If the problem with "nice guys" is their personality, why don't they struggle to make friends, both male and female?Because a nice guy won’t protect us and be aggressive enough to combat other men to keep us safe. Being too nice is also a little boring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 07:39 PM |
| – | Men struggling with OLD need to better curate their profile to the feminine gaze, shitty profiles dont get you likesIt’s really not that hard. We want to see a V shaped body, broad shoulders, nice hair, manly looking face, and some definition on arms. Don’t make goofy faces or trying looking too pretty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 07:38 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenDepends on the guy. Some guys are tough, but my husband doesn’t seem to care lol. He’s my little cuddly bear | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:08 PM |
| – | Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality?Bingo. Except some of what you mentioned are definitely icks haha. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:02 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenIt’s just fantasies. Just like how men have fantasies having sex with 18 year old porn stars but still love their wife. Look at my recent post, it’s on a rape fantasy page, but do I actually want to be raped? No. Yall are thinking too deep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:01 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenHe does though that’s the thing. But we’re grown adults so we laugh about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenYou think only men have kinks? Check what I posted now if you’re still a little child who assumes women are innocent little angels 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:58 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenThe only thing that matters is he’s obsessed with my tiny tits idc about what other men think about it. I’m his tall barbie doll and he’s my little cuddly bear, if he saw these comments he’d love me even more. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:46 PM |
| 2 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenI’m not obsessed. If I was I’d have married a tall dude and not someone who is only 6’0” at most with the right shoes on. I’m trying to explain to you that we marry for love not sex and are willing to marry short men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:44 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenAll my friends talk like this haha. It’s not that serious. We love our little cuddly bears | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:42 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenWell you got something right I do have a flat chest since I’m skinny af and it’s kind of in right now 🤷♀️ I’m not putting down my husband if he and I know both I love him to death. Sex isn’t everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:41 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenDid you just now realize that height matters on men? How old are you 14? Of course it matters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:27 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenWell it’s true. And 5’10” is short isn’t it? Anything 6’2” and up I consider tall. If he was 6’5” I would be the one initiating and asking for sex. I mean I still enjoy the sex but I’m more radically honest online and I admit to this. I said what I said 🤫 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 04:22 PM |
| – | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenWhat’s brutal about it in your mind? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 02:58 PM |
| – | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenRereading that I do realize it’s kind of brutal 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 01:51 PM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenTrust me us women can sense that too, which bad boys are pathetic. And confidence isn’t just all talk, that’s just someone being full of themselves. Unearned confidence is so unattractive. You’re probably a lot more attractive to ladies than you think with that kind of mindset, one way you can portray the potential to be aggressive is just by looking tough or fit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 06:11 AM |
| – | Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality?I don’t think men should avoid approaching women. Yes we might be uncomfortable but it wouldn’t be fair to non attractive men to tell them they should live by a different set of rules compared to the tall attractive men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:50 AM |
| -2 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenYou’re being punished for not being confident and aggressive. We like nice guys who are confident and have an aggressive urge to protect us. But too many nice guys are shy and weak, so we turn to the bad boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:48 AM |
| – | Q4W: Are you aware that most young men these days are deeply ashamed of their sexuality?It honestly depends on whether we are into the guy. If he’s attractive and has other positive features like height, confidence, etc. I can assure you we will not think you’re a disgusting pig. When it’s a guy we have zero interest in it is really off-putting and makes us uncomfortable. I wouldn’t call you a disgusting pig but I would thank you for the compliment but be uncomfortable and come up with an excuse to leave the situation. It’s like a visceral instinctive reaction I can’t control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Women who are open to being approached, how exactly would you like a guy to go about it?It depends on the guy. If he’s tall and attractive please approach, idc how lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:37 AM |
| 1 | When you're dating a guy who's a long term / serious prospect, how do you decide whether to hook up with him first or delay sex until you're both serious/exclusive?It depends on the guy. If he was tall and attractive I would probably want to hook up because if he leaves me at least I’d have enjoyed great sex lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:34 AM |
| – | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenCould it be that we don’t actually select poorly and it’s all in your head? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:32 AM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenYou sound short. lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:30 AM |
| 1 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenSo you’re asking us to be gold diggers? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:28 AM |
| -3 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenIt’s not really the narcissism or sociopathy that attracts us, it’s the confidence. It just so happens that good guys generally aren’t that confident while the bad boys are, so we swoon for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:26 AM |
| -4 | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenWe’re not concealing we’re just saying that looks aren’t everything. Yes being 6’5” muscular, sporting tats, having a nice face, etc would be great but we can’t all have that. There’s very few guys who check off all those boxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:25 AM |
| – | There is nothing wrong with not being selected by womenThing is most women eventually do end up marrying average or below average guys because there’s very few guys who check off all the boxes. I know because I’m one of those women. My husband is 5’10” and doesnt work out much, while I’m 5’10” and skinny. Would I have preferred he be 6’5” and full of muscle? Sure, and the sex would’ve been amazing. But I fell in love with the dude, and amazing sex isn’t all that matters. Sex is only a small part of relationships for most women | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?Being rough and fulfilling my rape fantasies. Check my profile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/09/24 12:53 PM |
| 1 | What does someone finding you attractive feels like?I feel validated and like I’m on top of the world tbh. It also gives me a lot of power. People are so much nicer to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 10:12 PM |
| 1 | Women: What do you bring to the table?We’re hot and we bring the vibes, at least I do. If you guys want us to bring more to the table then make those demands. But at the moment yall take anything, whilst we ask that you are perfect. We all base it off the dating market. Obviously for us it’s so easy to find a guy that we get to be a little picky, same can’t be said for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?You sure talk like you’re part of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 09:57 PM |
| 0 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?Sure be alone and wallow alone in your room. Have fun with your hand while we ride dicks of other much more capable men who aren't insecure enough to distrust us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 07:17 PM |
| 1 | Sam Bankman-Fried's girlfriend Caroline. Um, what?How tall are you? What's the circumference of your biceps? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 07:12 PM |
| 1 | What conclusions should a guy make if he noticed women getting interested in him only after his major life milestones?Sounds like you're obsessed with me ;P | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 07:02 PM |
| 2 | What conclusions should a guy make if he noticed women getting interested in him only after his major life milestones?We have the same problems at 50 and even worse. Its hard to have a 24 inch waist at 50, to have tight skin, and all kinds of other problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 07:01 PM |
| -1 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?The world was created by the top 1% men that benefits them and women, at the cost of 99% men… those men that created this world don’t care about other men, they send them to war | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 01:28 AM |
| 3 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?Oh he knows. I tell him that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 01:26 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?What will be done exactly? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/09/24 01:25 AM |
| 1 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.Sent you a message | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 09:03 PM |
| 3 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.Sorry if it came across as mean. I’m just trying to be honest unlike most women who will say sweet words to make you feel better but then do the opposite in real life. You deserve the truth. My cousin is autistic and he was able to break through his social awkwardness and even made it a quirk through things like dry humor and self deprecating humor but didn’t let it define him and get to his head. That’s also possible. A lot of girls dig that. He’s actually quite popular with the ladies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 08:20 PM |
| 3 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.Some are. Those are the few guys most of us try to get with. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 08:17 PM |
| 5 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.Yeah we generally have nothing in common with autistic men other than the illness. Our lives and expectations are completely different. To be honest I really feel for autistic men, I think it’s one of the worst illnesses to have if you’re a guy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 08:10 PM |
| 3 | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.What’s incredible? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 07:45 PM |
| 0 | What conclusions should a guy make if he noticed women getting interested in him only after his major life milestones?Apparently every guy though?? Like all I have to do is lift my legs like I do in my profile picture and there will be a line of desperate guys lol (including the type of guys I’m into) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:49 PM |
| 0 | What conclusions should a guy make if he noticed women getting interested in him only after his major life milestones?Ah yeah because I want a strong dominant masculine man who’s driven I’m a dummy ok. If you listen to advice by women like me you wouldn’t be playing with your hand every night | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:37 PM |
| 0 | What conclusions should a guy make if he noticed women getting interested in him only after his major life milestones?Yet you support a man for president who is rich and driven and has a wife who most likely chose him for that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 06:28 PM |
| – | As a man with mental illness, you are worse off in the current datingmarket then a woman with the same issues.So I’m a slightly autistic woman and I can confirm that it has zero impact on my dating abilities. In fact I think it might not even be a bug but a feature. Men notice me more than my female friends so maybe it even helps? At the same time I will admit to shutting off men that are like me from my dating life. I feel for them, but I want to be with extroverted men with whom my social skills can improve. Shy introverted men do nothing for my libido, my vagina sews itself shut whenever I talk to th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:50 PM |
| 0 | What conclusions should a guy make if he noticed women getting interested in him only after his major life milestones?Not greedy at all, just have standards. I can’t settle with a man who isn’t driven to move up and make more and more money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:35 PM |
| -2 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?If I went to a random bar and lifted my bare feet high in the air there would be 50 desperate guys forming a line to kiss them. If the hottest guy in the bar was flexing his muscles maybe 1 or 2 women might approach him but that’s it, that’s the difference. For us things like education and career are optional to survive, we can always find someone to take care of us. Do men have that power? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 11:59 AM |
| 1 | The fight for Equality has become a weapon to sideline most menYou do have a point. It’s why a lot of us women date older guys. Why? Because they’re more financially established and moved higher up the corporate ladder. I do admit that even though my salary is 80k, I don’t want to date a man that makes any less than $80,001 yearly lol. If we made less that standard would be lower and we’d probably date younger guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 11:53 AM |
| -2 | What conclusions should a guy make if he noticed women getting interested in him only after his major life milestones?That you’re finally worth it, and that’s a MAYBE. We want to see you driven and constantly improving yourself. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:55 AM |
| 11 | q4w: what advantages do you think men have over you in dating? Why?They literally have none. For us dating is like going shopping, for them it’s like going on a job interview haha. I could get laid in the next 2 hours if I really wanted to and it’s 1:53 am here. Meanwhile many men are virgins even in their 20s. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:54 AM |
| 1 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areSorry, maybe it’s just me. A lot of women think like this but won’t admit it in real life. The more you know the easier it gets. We’re not better than men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:49 AM |
| 1 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areMost women won’t ever admit this in real life. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 05:48 AM |
| 1 | The reason men are so obsessed with virginity and sexual performance is because most women areI know I'll get a lot of hate for this but knowing a guy's virginity is important. The bigger his body count, the more desirable he seems to be to women, and the higher his status. And I want someone who's desirable. It's like with applying for jobs, you want to hire the person with the most experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 04:13 AM |
| -2 | Why do girls make the biggest deal about getting approached/hit on, even when done respectfully by a guy they find attractive?Ok I will be totally honest, it's because for us dating is like shopping, for yall dating is like a job interview. Deal with it. We, especially us pretty ones, literally have hundreds of guys coming up to us. We might find you hot but if there's something minor or an ick that we don't like... NEXT. Height, breath, the way you walked up to us, voice (manly enough?), also we really do have a desperation detector, we know if you're desperate or shy by just the tone of your voice and body language l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 04:06 AM |
| -1 | Were you more physically attracted to your hookups/situationships/fwbs compared to your more serious partners?I'll be the one to go against the grain... honestly my hookups were much hotter than my husband lol. That's the only thing I wish he'd change about himself. I also found myself having more passionate sex with my hookups. It can sometimes be a chore with my husband because he really needs to do a lot to turn me on. That's ok though because I didn't marry him just for sex, he's a lot better in other aspects. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/09/24 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Truth being friends with lots of girls may also be a negative. Especially if none of them are attracted to you.I would say I agree with this. Coming from a girl, when I see a guy with tons of female friends it just screams feminine to me. And #2 is definitely true. When one of my friends in our group slept with an international student we talked about him for weeks. We never talk about our close male friends like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/09/24 11:51 PM |
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