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DiscussionFlimsy_Reaction_6090/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 06:48 AM
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Yes, without question.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:53 PM
1

You know some odd men lol. Why are they trying to change her?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:51 PM
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Whenever they say that they want a man who does whatever, just realise that they’re talking about a good looking guy not just any guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:47 PM
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I haven’t spoken to a woman outside of OLD since 2015. Where else am I meant to meet them?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:36 PM
1

Deny reality all you like, the Blackpill Is truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:24 PM
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Because it’s not always the case. Most women want long term relationships and not all of them can get the top 15/20%, in these cases they settle. Another reason could be that she is using him for money or resources. Another reason could be that she knows that he’s unattractive and therefore will simp for her and so she’s looking at exploiting him. Another reason could be that she just has low self confidence and doesn’t think she can do better.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:23 PM
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If you’re not in the top 15% of men then she likely doesn’t find you desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:19 PM
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So why do you believe that they have to find you attractive to date you? There are plenty of reasons why this isn’t the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 06:16 PM
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Keep believing whatever you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:54 PM
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Not really.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:49 PM
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Just because she’s dating you doesn’t mean she’s attracted to you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/22 05:43 PM
1

Mind if I inbox you?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 08:42 PM
0

Yes, you can date whoever you wish. It’s your life. I’ve also dated a lot of women way out of my league as well as dated/been rejected by women way below my league. It can be confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 09:38 AM
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I think some people are objectively better looking than others but still end up dating. Leagues exist to an extent.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/22 12:34 AM
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What about when men are rejected by women below their weight class?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:59 PM
1

Interesting perspective, I have Asperger’s myself and am looking at helping them with dating. Are you on the spectrum yourself?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 08:44 PM
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Sure, but why would you need confidence for that? When you go up to them what would you say?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 05:18 PM
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You can sleep with whoever you like as long as it’s consensual, but it’s a better alternative than having nobody attracted to you like the majority of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 02:17 PM
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Then there’s your problem, your standards are very high. If you go for attractive men they’re going to have options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 01:21 PM
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Well it is true if you go onto online dating. Maybe you’re just going for the attractive men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:46 PM
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But the thing is is that every woman has sky high standards now due to having unlimited options. I don’t blame women, I blame men for being pathetic and having such low standards. Men’s dating value keeps lowering whilst women’s keeps rising.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:20 PM
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But most men struggle to get sex or even a partner, particularly with the advent of online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:15 PM
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Many men will sleep with ANYTHING, what is hard to understand about that? Are you seriously saying that there aren’t men who will sleep with anything? There’s a reason why ugly women get countless men on online dating when the reverse never happens. Why would I pay for sex? I don’t need to. Explain why there are so many male incels now?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:06 PM
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Women don’t really need to approach though.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 12:04 PM
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Your standards are too high in all likelihood. Any woman can get a man. Most men are very desperate with zero standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:45 AM
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Explain then why do ugly women still have countless male options?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:04 AM
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I don’t feel it’s true, I know it’s true. You’re probably a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:00 AM
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You clearly have never been on online dating then. Why then do ugly women still get countless male attention on online dating whilst the opposite never happens? Most men have no options. Men can’t really afford to have high standards unless they’re attractive. Either you’re a liar or you’re just going after very attractive men with options.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/22 09:00 AM
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Men also are far more likely to find a wider range of women attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 04:22 PM
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Or if you’re qualified.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 02:45 PM
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Most men on online dating are lucky to get anything is my main point.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:58 PM
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Most want at least a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 11:14 AM
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Yeah but it’s really crap advice. If I was struggling why would I want to hear that? How would that help my situation? I suppose people want comfort rather than the cold hard truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:29 AM
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I was talking about you texting her to arrange something. It’s best to message her within 24 hours after the date now.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:23 AM
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Why would this make you feel confident? It’s meaningless advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:14 AM
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It’s not true, but okay. If I was struggling with dating and somebody said it to me I’d laugh in their face probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:13 AM
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Yes I believe that some people are completely unattractive to everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:13 AM
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Men don’t really use online dating for validation as it normally does the exact opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:12 AM
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Average men are lucky to get two matches on Tinder, so that’s unlikely. Women are the opposite. They’ll get hundreds of swipes and think they’re attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:10 AM
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Lol okay, your obviously very clued up on men and dating…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 07:09 AM
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In all cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:26 AM
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Define validation. Most of the women on Tinder just want to boost their egos for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:25 AM
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And what do you mean by validation?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:22 AM
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Becoming better looking, making more money and working on your game are all pretty solid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:21 AM
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Even average men on these apps? They’re looking for validation? Most are lucky to get anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:20 AM
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They do if you’re a woman on online dating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:17 AM
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They do if you’re a woman on online dating lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:17 AM
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Some things will work though.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:17 AM
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Again only the top men get lots of matches and attention on apps. Try being an average man on Tinder and you’ll see.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:16 AM
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So even average men get lots of validation/dates and matches on these apps? It’s actually the opposite of what is said on here?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:15 AM
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Surely you have some?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:02 AM
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Nope, you’ve got to improve your lot as a man if you want to date. It doesn’t just come to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:01 AM
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They must have just been the top men. Most men on online dating are very desperate. Why do you think it’s vast majority men?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/11/22 12:00 AM
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So what solutions would you have for men who can’t get dates/sex? You haven’t listed any.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:59 PM
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I did get work done. Although deformed women often don’t want deformed men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:49 PM
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And yet it still happens. What is the solution for them? What can they do?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:48 PM
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Or maybe their standards were too high? Out of literally hundreds of desperate men they couldn’t get one?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:47 PM
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Why do they leave them then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:43 PM
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Some have asked hundreds/thousands out and have gotten nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:39 PM
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I gave you my reason. I was semi deformed before and I got NOTHING. Now I’m actually decent looking and my results shot up. My personality has never changed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:38 PM
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Because they find men easily on them and they get enough attention and validation irl. Why do you think there are so many men on there?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:37 PM
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They did, they just realised they weren’t good enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:20 PM
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Lol keep telling yourself that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:13 PM
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Sometimes a combination of all or just one.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:12 PM
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Most of them aren’t good enough. They’ve already tried, so your advice is poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:11 PM
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Give examples.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:05 PM
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Not at all, it might be a pity relationship. For example she might be using him or just likes the power dynamic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:04 PM
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Trust me I used to be semi deformed. Nothing worked until I got it fixed.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:01 PM
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Nope, any woman can go on online dating and get swarmed. Only a few men get that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:58 PM
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Usual reasons: looks, status, height, etc
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:57 PM
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They might date them but they’re not necessarily attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:57 PM
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What advice would you give them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 10:56 PM
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I don’t think I’ve seen average guys with hot girls, maybe one or two max. Many men are struggling with dating now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:23 PM
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Damn, brutal. I sincerely hope that you’re wrong and you do find someone great.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:59 PM
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I don’t know, I’ve seen some plain Janes and below average women rejecting men far better looking than them loads of times recently. I don’t believe that there is someone for everyone either, some people are just buggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:53 PM
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Men’s desperation coupled with online dating and social media is changing that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:45 PM
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Some will still be left out. Does looks hypergamy factor?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 08:31 PM
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What advice would you give to men who can’t get laid/a date at all?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:59 PM
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Women tend to have unlimited dating options, whereas men need to be attractive to have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:39 PM
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They were more voluntary than involuntary. Exceptional cases.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:38 PM
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Yes I agree.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:37 PM
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Most men don’t have a choice. Is dating easy for most men in your opinion? Explain rising inceldom for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:36 PM
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I fail to see how men have it easier in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:36 PM
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Yeah it’s better to just go for women you find attractive. I corrected my jaw, I was semi deformed before. I can send you pics if you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 07:35 PM
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Hope sells better than the cold hard truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:03 PM
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Ironically I’ve found attractive women <7 much easier to get with and nicer generally. I very rarely would go for unattractive women other than a quick thing. I’d put myself as decent looking, but I’ve had some cosmetic work done too. That plays a huge part.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:02 PM
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Who do you think has it easier in terms of dating? Men or women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:55 PM
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Yes, good point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:54 PM
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I agree with you completely, I’ve always said it was a cop out. People would rather be sold hope than the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:54 PM
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That usually a case of the woman using him, she won’t be attracted to him. How do you think a man could get sex in your opinion? How easy is it?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:51 PM
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Even then the ugly women and overweight women still have very high standards due to men’s low nature. It’s not even women’s fault it’s just men being pathetic. I don’t blame women for it. The modern dating market is just going back to Darwinism imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:50 PM
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I don’t know, I’ve seen some very homely women get countless attention on these apps. They’ve even gotten boyfriends from them, whereas their male equivalent would be incel. If they were attractive they wouldn’t be rejected all of the time. They weren’t just cold approaching too. Yes, I believe that most men struggle with dating despite putting in effort. Women on the other hand have it very easy in dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:33 PM
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Online dating will tell otherwise. Women still get countless men on there despite being ugly. The dating market is as it is due to men’s pathetic standards. Look at the amount of simps for example. Men are pathetic.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:30 PM
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I made another comment you Wally.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:27 PM
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There isn’t someone for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:24 PM
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Most men have low standards to begin with and take who they can get. I think you’re thinking of women here, this seems to be more the trend for them. Very high standards when young but will drop them as they get older.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:23 PM
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Well sometimes people settle for whatever is convenient for example, that certainly isn’t healthy. I’d rather be single than have that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:09 PM
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Women don’t struggle at all on online dating, what are you even talking about? Even ugly women get countless men on there. They struggle despite putting in effort. I’ve known men who have approached hundreds and got nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 04:08 PM
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Struggling means to generally find someone who is attracted to you and you can find dates or sex easily. Most men don’t get this. Many people use online dating for long term now, not just hookups. Men just struggle to get either on them unless they’re very attractive which is my point.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:55 PM
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As in most men struggle to get anything with dating. How aren’t most men struggling exactly? Most men struggle to get dates or find women interested in them unless they’re actually attractive. I was using online dating as an example as it’s a form of dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:50 PM
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They won’t find someone attracted to them, they even acknowledge that.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:45 PM
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I was pointing out that there isn’t someone for these people…they’re attractive to NO ONE.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:41 PM
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What reasons would you say they struggle in the modern day?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:39 PM
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Most men struggle with dating and sex, only attractive men get it easily. The fact that this is the case is because now that women have a choice and don’t need men they realise that most men don’t measure up. Do you believe that most men have it easy in dating? Most men can’t get anything on online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:38 PM
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Women are the pickier ones due to sex being more of a burden/risk for women. Sure, some high status men were the choosers in some settings, but overall that isn’t true. Look at how many men struggle with dating in the modern day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:20 PM
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And yet many men are struggling in the dating market today.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:18 PM
1

Yeah, okay. You’re right. These guys definitely have women interested in them…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:17 PM
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Around 80% according to the same study. Women being the choosers it isn’t surprising.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:16 PM
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Certainly not everyone, some people are fucked in that department and nobody finds attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:15 PM
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What does it even mean anyway? It’s vague as Hell.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:11 PM
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Bro I’ve known guys who are universally unattractive to women, there isn’t someone out there for them lol. They acknowledge that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:11 PM
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Like?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 03:10 PM
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Actually men outnumber women in the world. If you’re a straight man then the numbers are against you. Also only 40% of men who have ever lived have reproduced. Not everyone can.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:15 PM
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Most women will find a man. Estimates that only 40% of men who have ever lived have reproduced. Why is that? Evolution wouldn’t work if this were the case.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:12 PM
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Exactly. There are more men than women in the world. I’ve seen statistics where only 40% of men have ever produced. What happened to the remaining 60%?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:08 PM
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I don’t believe it’s true, mathematically it doesn’t make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:06 PM
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If you’re a straight man for example and only date women and yet there are in fact more men than women in the world where does that leave you? Some people are just not meant to pass their genes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 02:05 PM
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There are loads of attractive women, whilst attractive men are rare. I’d much rather be an attractive man than an attractive woman though. Men also have a far lower standard for female beauty than women do for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:46 PM
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Very good points, you summed it up better than I could. I will use that in future lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:39 PM
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In fact there are actually more men in the world now.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:38 PM
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Not in the West there aren’t. Some men are just buggered, incels are just the losers of the species. Incels have existed since the dawn of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:33 PM
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How?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:17 PM
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Yes, I agree. How can it possibly be true?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 12:03 PM
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Good point. There are so many variables.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:50 AM
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I strongly disagree. Some people are just buggered.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:32 AM
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I really don’t think there is.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:31 AM
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Personally I believe it’s mathematically impossible for there to be someone for everyone, how many people have died in history as virgins or unpartnered? Some people are just buggered and not everyone can pass their genes on.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 11:31 AM
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Why aren’t men attracted to virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:55 AM
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There’s a difference between having a fling/ONS with a high n count woman and actually marrying her…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:54 AM
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Unlucky for them then.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 09:27 AM
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I did.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:44 AM
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Well then he’s foolish and has low standards. All that matters is whether she’s attractive, pleasant, can hold a conversation and is fun to be around.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:39 AM
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Weird and weak men.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/11/22 05:37 AM
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Women looking for men yes. Although in Indian culture it might be different. Western culture nobody cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:34 PM
1

How?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:33 PM
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Again, her money has no value to me and adds no value to her. I have my own money and can provide for myself. If you can’t do that then that’s your own issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:43 PM
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And yes I would be quite embarrassed if my wife was providing for me. It would be pretty pathetic and pitiful.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:32 PM
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Why though? What use is she to me other than money? As I’ve said I’ve got my money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:30 PM
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Why though? As I’ve said her money adds no value to her. All that matters is whether she’s attractive and is pleasant. My money is my money and her money is her money.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:28 PM
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Women still want men to earn more than them. Money raises a man’s value, but it doesn’t for women. Quite the opposite really.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:56 PM
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And you’re the guy trying to convince me earlier that I should pick a higher earning woman over one earning less lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:52 PM
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Okay bro.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:49 PM
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Hypergamy is the act of women marrying or forming relationships with men who are of a superior status, either in looks, education or sociologically. Socioeconomic status refers to class or social standing. Women wane men of higher status generally speaking.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:43 PM
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Twice isn’t too bad, never more than that imo. Sometimes I might do it if I forgot to say something earlier for example.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:29 PM
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True, although both can be born from insecurity. Not saying all women who wear makeup are insecure by any means but many might feel they can’t be pretty without it which is sad. I guess if you’re under 5”8 as a man it would be pretty tough too.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:24 PM
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Yep, as long as she’s attractive and is kind and pleasant to be around then I don’t care. As long as she’s not a brass or stripper Ofc.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:22 PM
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I never said they were, but women often expect men to be making certain figures and won’t consider men unless they pass a threshold. Men generally don’t have this.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:18 PM
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They do tend to. Hypergamy isn’t a bad thing, it’s just women looking out for their own interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:11 PM
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I don’t have anecdotal evidence. Give examples of men having high standards for female beauty, in fact it’s a common trope for people to complain about men having too low standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:09 PM
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If it’s only an inch then it’s fine imo. Also makeup can be extremely deceptive.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 09:00 PM
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There are some who think that, they’ll say things like “I’m a …, I’m a real catch”. It’s rare but I’ve seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:58 PM
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Okay, but some women seem to think it does.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:45 PM
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Not necessarily. A woman’s career doesn’t make her high value lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:44 PM
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I can make my own money and provide for my kids. I don’t need to rely on someone else. I don’t see how her making a lot of money makes her more attractive. Again I don’t really care about that.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:43 PM
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I’d pick the better looking one and the one who is more pleasant and feminine.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:38 PM
1

Honestly I don’t care, I look at whether she’s physically attractive and kind/pleasant. As long as they’re not a stripper or brass I don’t really care.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:37 PM
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Generally a woman’s career/income adds nothing to her SMV.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:25 PM
2

Yes, my friend would like to know…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:22 PM
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Exactly.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:17 PM
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One inch is fine, but any more than that is risky. Although is it any different to women wearing makeup or high heels?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:17 PM
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As a man I’m not really bothered by her income, I don’t think most men care in fairness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:15 PM
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“Wait three days to call/text”. This no longer works with social media/online dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:12 PM
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Yes, why? However I’m decent looking, in shape and effectively a millionaire. I can afford to be picky. Most men aren’t picky at all though. I don’t see your point.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 08:06 PM
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Most men have to take what they can get and have no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:58 PM
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Most men have to take what they can get and have no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:58 PM
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Most men have to take what they can get and have no standards
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 04:58 PM
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The ironic thing is that most of the women wouldn’t date the male version of themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 02:37 PM
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Care to provide examples to the contrary?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 01:08 PM
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For example you get ugly women and plain Janes getting swarmed with attention on online dating, the opposite never happens. Women will reject men purely because they’re not X height.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 12:57 PM
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It’s not what I claim, it’s just a fact. The majority of men can’t afford to be picky with women. Men’s far higher libidos also play a role. You get plain Janes and even ugly women being swarmed by men on dating apps whereas the opposite never happens.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:27 AM
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The difference is that men have a far lower standard for physical attractiveness for women than women do for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:24 AM
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The relationship I’m in now is pretty ideal imo. The girl I’m with is pretty, feminine, makes me coffee each morning and cooks for me, is intelligent with a good job and is very helpful with helping me start my first business. It’s still early days but it’s promising.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 11:10 AM
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Women have high physical standards for men, men have much lower one for women.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:58 AM
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It absolutely does, but face is more important. Try and improve your entire look.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:51 AM
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Or maybe they have very high and unrealistic standards for men themselves which are never met?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:48 AM
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Mostly down to hypergamy and men’s dating value getting lower and lower in relation to women’s.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/22 10:38 AM
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