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FlowerAndWillowWorld/r/RedPillWomen19/06/15 01:39 AM
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You saying white people aren't experiencing racism today because "most politicians, celebrities, and business people" look like us is a straw man. Look around you, groups like BLM and Antifa are destroying white history (both good and bad) on a daily basis. White people have cultures, and supporting those cultures because you are a part of one or more of them is not toxic or white supremacist. Supporting and being proud of your own culture is a right that is afforded to everyone in America today…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 11:48 PM
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Yes of course, she must be a white supremacist because she's proud of being the race that she was born as(and had no control over obviously), and would like to see the preservation of white cultures and history. Just like anyone of any other race on Earth is allowed to be proud of who they are and their culture and historical background...oh no that's right, white people are the devil and everything about them must be wiped off the face of the Earth. That's not completely racist at all. Pull you…
/r/RedPillWomen03/07/20 03:56 AM
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The original point I was making is that it's completely disingenuous to say men on the whole truly love women, while women only "love" men as long as they can benefit from his resources, etc. Don't get me wrong, hypergamy is absolutely real, but very frequently a man only "loves" a woman as long as he finds her attractive and (hopefully) gets to fuck her. Hardly a man out there writing poetry or singing his heart out to a 40 year old single mother with a lumpy body. Loving someone as long as the…
/r/TheRedPill16/04/20 12:28 AM
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Yeah, peasants and mercenaries definitely never had sex. Only the noblemen were fucking all the peasant women, otherwise there would be no kids right?
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 11:56 PM
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I'd argue men NEED sex from a woman though. Don't men love women for what they can get from them: youth and beauty, sex, companionship, proof of his status? Men LOVE women until those things are gone, then they don't love them so much anymore...the next younger woman who comes along can give him all of those things much better than the last one.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/20 09:19 PM
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Look, whether you think he's wrong or right, the bottom line is, you're not a man, you don't determine what men find attractive. That attitude won't get you anywhere, except maybe wearing a foam vagina on your head at a women's march.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/17 06:00 AM
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You're misunderstanding the whole concept of peaking. He's saying teens are at the top because they are as young as they possibly can be while also being physically able to have children. A young girl will recover from pregnancy much faster and easier, and will also still be relatively young even when her own children become adults. That is ideal as far as nature is concerned. It doesn't mean that a 22 year old who is very confident and comfortable with her sexually won't be far hotter than a 14…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 11:43 PM
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You sound extremely bitter. I would also guess that woman is probably in her late 20s. There's something about her face that doesn't quite look youthful, despite the way she's dressed. But who cares? Men are still fapping to her. I really don't get why you're trying so desperately to prove that men would never have sex with actual teenage girls. They wouldn't even be marketing porn stars as teens in the first place if it wasn't desirable. And you're definitely failing to see that some men actual…
/r/RedPillWomen28/01/17 11:03 PM
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She has literally just had that baby. No one - mother or father - looks good the first couple of weeks. Oh? Are you sure about that? Clearly this woman gained too much weight during the pregnancy and is using the baby as an excuse afterwards.
/r/TheRedPill30/07/15 01:02 AM
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I'm on their hit list, but I visit both subs. As do many of the women at RPW, so they're probably on the list too. I assume it's only a matter of time before they add the RPW sub directly.
/r/TheRedPill29/07/15 09:58 PM
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I learned from example, largely by examples of what NOT to do. I spent most of my life single (lightly peppered with a few tame coffee dates), not meeting my husband until I was 26, so I had years of observing friends and my own mother to file away for later use. Just curious, would you consider yourself an introvert? Sometimes I wonder if introverted women are more likely to turn out "red pill" than other women. Introverts tend to be more careful and selective during social interactions, and al…
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/15 02:19 AM
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That makes complete sense. It's the same reason you'll hear 6s and 7s claiming they're an 8 or a 9 or otherwise making a big deal out of the 1-10 scale, but real 8s and 9s never talk about what they think their number is. They don't have to, everyone already knows they're hot.
/r/RedPillWomen22/07/15 12:11 AM
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http://i.imgur.com/wFQT9.jpg
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/15 05:13 AM
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I own several pairs of over the knee socks that stay up by themselves. I got them at Forever21 for a few dollars per pair.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/15 11:22 PM
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Well, we are talking about clothing you'd wear at home here, not necessarily things you'd wear out for everyone to see. Of course it's up to you what you're comfortable with, but I would think the majority of the discomfort would be alleviated by being alone at home with someone you love.
/r/RedPillWomen19/07/15 11:11 PM
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I'm an atheist, and I was not raised with religion. My parents were raised Catholic but wanted their kids to have the freedom to choose our own path. Finding red pill concepts was new to me and yet familiar at the same time. It just clicks for me.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/15 04:21 AM
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Thank goodness, that sub is a godsend.
/r/TheRedPill17/07/15 05:25 AM
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A lot of guys really like that bit of skin showing between the socks and the skirt. Plus it still covers your legs for warmth while leaving him easy access for fun times.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 06:31 AM
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Not going to lie, I feel like most men would hate a dress + leggings. A dress shows off your legs, and leggings show off your butt. But both worn together hide your legs and your butt. You could probably get away with it in the winter, but a better alternative might be a dress with high socks, like this.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 06:05 AM
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Just search on these sites by lowest price and look for dresses made of a jersey knit material (like a t shirt). You'll get feminine, affordable, and comfortable all in one.
/r/RedPillWomen16/07/15 05:54 AM
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I think you're right, at some point I need to just back away and leave him be. I guess I tend to get caught up in thinking that his bad mood has something to do with me even when I know deep down it probably doesn't.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/15 01:38 AM
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Sometimes I try to mollify him by explaining why it's not so bad or it has to be that way, and he hates when I do this. You know what, I think I do this sometimes too. I never really thought about it, but now that you said it I can see how it probably comes across as mothering him.
/r/RedPillWomen20/06/15 01:18 AM
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Same goes for "I'm a 9." Hardly anyone is a 9, and it's hard to be objective when you're talking about yourself. Anyone who has to say it out loud definitely isn't a 9. Someone that beautiful doesn't need to convince anyone of it. (I don't believe in 10s, no one is perfect.)
/r/RedPillWomen17/05/15 05:18 AM
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Oh, I feel this way all the time. Sometimes I just want to get it off my chest too but I also realize that 95% of people will just think I'm being a bitch. It's so ass-backward. But I don't vocalize any of this stuff to anyone except sometimes my husband (and even then it's more a conversation about ideas rather than "this specific woman is a train wreck").
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/15 08:01 AM
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She's a female typist.
/r/RedPillWomen07/05/15 11:05 AM
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2 non-virgins who start a relationship with bad sex are probably always going to have bad sex because one or both of you is just not that attracted to the other. Poor technique can be mitigated by great attraction, but not so much the other way around. So just communicating and working on it doesn't really work that well in this situation. A man with a virgin woman who is probably not good at sex is often forgiven because some men enjoy teaching a woman how to do it, or value that she's never be…
/r/RedPillWomen27/03/15 07:11 PM
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My number is very low (2) but to be honest, I would prefer it to be one!! My count is 2 as well, my husband and one man before him. I don't think there's too much wrong with one or two before finding the man you want to marry, that's just life. Most women will not be able to perfectly filter for their best choice on the first try, it's just not realistic in today's world. And like /u/Ojisan1 pointed out the real damage doesn't start until after 1 or 2. Then again, seeing just how much lower the …
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/15 05:36 AM
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You can find some old ones online too. Here's some good ones: Victorian era The Ladies' Book of Etiquette, and Manual of Politeness 1920s Book of Etiquette, Volume I Book of Etiquette, Volume II And of course Etiquette by Emily Post
/r/RedPillWomen16/03/15 12:30 AM
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Ding ding ding ding. You said you make significantly more money than him. He probably feels like you don't need him/admire him, but he stays because you make awesome money and it makes his life comfortable. You not feeling sexually satisfied by him only makes him feel more worthless to you. Are you helping him pay for school? I would not be surprised if he decides to leave you when he's done.
/r/RedPillWomen14/03/15 08:18 PM
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As far as makeup goes, don't over do it. It's becoming a trend to over do it. Most of the youtube beauty gurus and a lot of women over on makeupaddiction for example over do it. Just because there is a unique product for every inch of your face doesn't mean you have to use all of them at the same time. Your skin is the most important part of a youthful look. So wear your sunscreen and moisturizer, and take care of any acne you might have so you have a smooth base. When you put on makeup, make yo…
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/15 03:25 AM
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Men don't "contribute" to the trope, they're just telling it like it is. The only way to get your man to stop treating you like you are nagging and controlling is to actually stop nagging and stop being controlling. As far as other men talking about women this way, clearly they don't have many positive female examples in their lives. It's up to us to change this perception because we are the ones creating it. But since it's unlikely the vast majority of women will come around to red pill ways, y…
/r/RedPillWomen09/03/15 03:22 AM
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I don't think the ratio is as skewed toward men as one might think. There seem to be quite a lot of women using reddit in general. But yeah that's what I'm saying, it's going to be way harder for a woman to take the red pill because most of them think feminism is the red pill. Women tend to be much more firmly rooted in the fantasy than men. Hence why TRP exists in the first place.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 09:10 AM
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Which is pretty ironic considering those things are exactly what they think they're combating by following feminism.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 09:04 AM
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I agree, fat acceptance is infuriating, and the way it and feminism seem to be latching onto each other is just unbearable.
/r/RedPillWomen05/03/15 02:06 AM
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I'm 27, white, middle class, from the U.S. I'm currently a student in a STEM major. I've been married for 5 years. I've never slept around, I married a man I've known since high school and started dating shortly after. I was raised by both my parents who were happily married for 25 years until my father unfortunately passed away. I'm sure my parents' healthy relationship helped me to see that I had no reason to become an "independent woman who don't need no man" in order to be happy. Clearly my …
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 10:32 PM
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~1/10th the subscribers in half the lifespan, pretty sad. But getting women to take the red pill is an even bigger battle than getting men to take it, and that's saying something.
/r/RedPillWomen04/03/15 09:29 PM
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Not to mention a lot of guys over there are still firmly in the anger stage. Of course they seem like a bad choice now. There's a big difference between them and men who've made it to acceptance.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 02:08 AM
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I wouldn't say I enjoy seeing other women flirt with my husband, but I know that he enjoys it so I let it slide. The fun part is when the other woman is visibly bothered by your presence, but you don't seem bothered by hers. It makes it very clear who has the upper hand.
/r/RedPillWomen03/03/15 01:32 AM
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Like others have said, oil cleansing(or in my case Pond's cold cream which is the same idea). If she has dry skin this will be a big step in the right direction. CeraVe in the tub is also an excellent moisturizer, totally deserving of the praise it gets over at skincareaddiction. Also chemical exfoliants are worth a try. The before and afters I have seen in terms of clearing up acne and redness are amazing. I've only just started using them myself so I can't give much personal feedback at the mo…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 11:59 PM
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I didn't go to college straight out of high school. Instead I got married and didn't go back to school until I was 25. I didn't know what red pill was back then but I've never been more grateful to have been smart enough to end up following this type of path all along. I don't think it's even necessary for women to go to college. We should go if we want to, but we should be encouraged to marry sooner rather than later. Our generation can serve as a useful warning to future young women about the …
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 11:33 PM
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I as a man prefer innocence and naivete to experience and cynicism in a woman. I imagine the biggest thing is the cynicism though, not so much the experience. If a woman lets her life experiences make her bitter and cynical, then it doesn't matter how good she looks for her age she's going to put men off. But if she's optimistic and can see the good in things and others, and looks great for her age, well that's not so bad is it? Of course a man will still look at her younger counterparts first a…
/r/RedPillWomen02/03/15 11:04 PM
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It's funny how blue pill women want us all to be perpetual victims isn't it? If we're victims and it's always someone else's fault, then we can never do anything to change our situation in life. The truth is they're too afraid to admit that truly empowering ourselves means facing our own flaws and actively changing.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 06:17 AM
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I'm nearly finished reading the Surrendered Wife myself, and that book is full of excellent advice for your particular situation. Get it ASAP. It will help you see what you need to change and why, and also show you how just you changing yourself is going to change your husband's behavior all by itself. A lot of what he is doing is a reaction to the way you treat him.
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 05:47 AM
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I think you really want us to tell you it's all going to be okay between you two. It's really not. You're not fully accepting your own actions. You say you know what you did wrong, but then you turn right around and try to pin your behavior on him somehow. clearly he was willing to put in the effort. Was he though? If he cheated on you and broke up with you several times, it seems more like he was either being stupid or you were essentially a bad plate for him. Now that I understand and agree wi…
/r/RedPillWomen25/02/15 04:56 AM
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Well, I wouldn't feel too bad about the high school engagement if I were you. High school + LDR = it was never going to happen. You should ask yourself why you're afraid of marriage. Sounds like a fear of commitment too. This sort of thing is like a self fulfilling prophecy, you're afraid of men leaving you so you keep them at arms length to avoid pain, but they end up leaving you anyway because you won't get close to them.
/r/RedPillWomen03/02/15 01:42 AM
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You don't have to believe in feminism to get screwed over by it as a woman. It's everywhere, and all young women in the U.S. at least grew up having that garbage spewed at us daily. You don't think that has an unconscious affect on the type of person we turn out to be? Isn't this why this subreddit exists?
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/15 12:30 AM
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Menstruation doesn't have anything to do with moon phases, that is a myth.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:25 AM
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Yeah I get what you're saying. Even in magical girl anime, even if the men are portrayed as like a protective older man type, they still usually can't do much of any protecting and do a lot more floundering around because they're so weak compared to the girls magic. I tend to chalk that up to the nature of the genre though, not that they have to be weak because they're men.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 09:56 PM
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Sweater tights are a decent option too if you can find them.
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 08:00 AM
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Every film aimed at women is designed to be feelgood or to sell you something. Neither tell any truths. Stick to pre-1950s films and anime with a largely male target audience. What's wrong with anime targeted towards girls? Granted a lot of it is your typical convoluted love story, but there is also girls' anime that focuses on friendships, teamwork, and working hard for the things you want. The magical girl genre is great. So are the shows about singing idols(but only the ones specifically made…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 07:52 AM
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It's not that you're aging very much(you're still in your prime), it's that you've gotten lazy. So eat healthier and get to the gym. Go to /r/skincareaddiction and figure out a good routine for yourself if you're somehow already seeing wrinkles. If you want to age gracefully you can't be lazy. The way you'll look in 10 or 20 years is a direct result of how well you take care of yourself now. Remember that beauty products are not a cure all, and that a good diet and plenty of exercise will do a l…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 07:22 AM
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I often see people over at TRP saying that these things are the man's fault for not keeping her under control. It's true that those types of men really need to step up, but I'll never understand why it's entirely his fault that a woman goes off about something stupid. Him keeping frame is not a 100% guarantee that she won't act crazy. She has a responsibility to treat people with respect too. Even if she doesn't actually respect the guy for whatever reason, it doesn't mean she's excused from tea…
/r/RedPillWomen14/01/15 05:57 AM
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Same here. The swearing is one thing, but I also catch myself saying "man" a lot(I assume because I only had brothers and grew up with guy friends). I've even let "dude" slip a couple of times over the years. It's awkward, I'm not proud of it.
/r/RedPillWomen13/01/15 12:25 AM
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Sounds more like your relationship just sucks and isn't giving you what it should. So dump her. You can have sex and fun with other girls too if that's all you want.
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 09:34 AM
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Going to the gym regularly ≠ "muscular physiques" which I assume by that you mean big swole bros. It's important for every self respecting person to stay in shape, and unless you have some other outlet for regular exercise, a gym is the best way to do that. I can tell you don't exercise.
/r/TheRedPill15/12/14 12:57 AM
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It's funny you say that, I ended my last friendship with another woman because she tricked her boyfriend into getting her pregnant by claiming to still be taking the pill when she wasn't anymore. She expected me to be okay with that. I don't want to completely write off other women for friendships, obviously there are some cool and intelligent girls out there. But they are very difficult to come across out in everyday life, as we all know. And women you've known for years will let you down by pu…
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 03:31 AM
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I was officially embarrassed a long time ago. I don't think there are words to describe the level of embarrassment I feel each year this downward spiral continues. Ashamed doesn't even cover it. Mortified?
/r/TheRedPill14/12/14 03:11 AM
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Eh, I'm skeptical of what /r/SkincareAddiction thinks about drinking more water. Usually that place is full of good advice, but I feel like they just deny this thing because it's dietary advice which they frown on so people don't get their feels hurt. Drinking more water and cutting out sugary drinks can't hurt and only has benefits, I see no reason why those benefits wouldn't show on your skin. Even if it's just looking fresher and more awake.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/14 01:32 AM
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I know exactly how you feel about noises. I really enjoy quiet and the smallest noises sometimes can really annoy me. Have you heard of listening to white noise? It's really good at blocking out other noises without being an annoying sound itself or too distracting like music can sometimes be. http://simplynoise.com/
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/14 08:40 AM
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Long hair is attractive because it's a sign of long term good health. A woman who has clearly had long term good health is someone who will be relatively easy to get pregnant and have healthy children. Long shiny soft hair = SHUT UP AND TAKE MY GENES! Procreation status: mission accomplished. Short dry dull brittle hair = Gross, stay away from my penis, I don't want your fucked up flipper babies.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/14 09:19 AM
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