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| -9 | Some golden rules from a learned naturalmissing concepts and point 1 and 2 is false reason for falseness : point 1 : by saying always smile, is by default not a natural thing to do; a true natural wiuld smile when they feel like so / something good happened point 2 : confusing frame with manipulation, youve just described a toxic manipulator... thats not what a natural would do, most especially a successful one with lots of positive reinforcement, theyd be the opposite actually, no need to manipulate or force, im okay if she likes me … | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 04:33 PM |
| 0 | Game backfired, genuine review needed.I see a pattern here, looks like you are attracted to damaged women. Well first off, there's a whole lot wrong with your "rizz". Your approach is too robotic, planned out, rational, theoritical, arrogant. You're missing the nuance that trying to be something isn't being something. That's the moment where Morpheus says don't think you are, know you are. Too little confidence is insecurity. Too much confidence is cocky / arrogant / obnoxious. Trying too hard to be confident vascillate between the … | /r/seduction | 23/03/26 02:13 AM |
| 43 | When a woman quietly ghosts you never press harder. Recognize it and follow suit.Ah dont worry bout it, it does hurt, but ultimately being ghosted is dodging a bullet. You know, there's girls that will not like you, and reject you, and will just... tell you. Its not because online worlds have normalized ghosting that its a good thing to do to people, or that it makes you sane and righteous to do. Ghosting a crazy obsessed dangerous person yeah sure, ghosting a random dude that likes you but you dont like, prolly your own problems showing up | /r/seduction | 22/03/26 09:27 PM |
| 13 | Casual Dating Biosjust fucking swipe her off fuck, you're definitly trying too hard as for mixed messages, usually comes from modernity lacking gender roles, gender roles are not all outdated bs, they did serve to define, stabilize, make people happy today its a mix of everything really you kinda want the guy to be a provider and protector like in the 50s (also is kind of base biology / thousands of years of built up attraction, this is not a matter of discussion, that's just reality), buuuut you also want all th… | /r/seduction | 21/03/26 08:59 PM |
| 1 | Active in dating, getting dates and occasional hookups… but nothing sticks. What am I doing wrong?that a successful nice date am i supposed to think im the best teacher? ^ to fine tune this, when she all over you, you enjoy it a little bit but then you flip tables, you dominate, take over, show infinite passion and desire, do whatever you want, position her, etc. now thats gonna light her up | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 06:38 PM |
| 0 | How'd I approach thisno im not an idiot actually opposite very strange how you trying to teach me exactly what u lack You should learn morals and ethics You should learn to listen to people You are thick for blaming me for your own weaknesses what is this toxic projection Anyway I label you as toxic and very little hope that changes so we done here | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:54 AM |
| 1 | How'd I approach thislooks like youre not listening when she speaks she says she wants a lover ok cool she says its not you, idk how hard to understand that is you say you dont wanna force things but you do it anyway so love is not something you wanna teach (sad), and is not something you wanna force (lonely, corrupted, fake) the move is to not do anything, treat her as a friend and actually aim for that stop manipulating and scheming and wiggling out whatever you can what a fucking loser, its because of guys like y… | /r/seduction | 20/03/26 05:37 AM |
| 1 | First Date Went Well, But She Unmatched Or Deleted Our Hinge Conversation After. Need Advice.ugh | /r/seduction | 16/03/26 12:39 PM |
| 1 | Conflicting thingsOh yeah, it could be true. But general toxic population tendencies should guide you towards giving up. She told you she not available then you meet her at the bar again, yeah right. She really likes you dude. She really grieving with all those cocks around her and shit. She likes you so much she polite you drive you away and then keeps on hunting. Its 2026, the date is talking to her, and sex same night is mandatory. Its 2026, thats what the good girls do. Its 2026, what the bad girls do is enve… | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Active in dating, getting dates and occasional hookups… but nothing sticks. What am I doing wrong?Ahufhfufh Many things to unpack Well, none of these choices really. Just better boundaries in general, and that will dovetail with the dating nicely. So what are boundaries. In simplistic terms, boundaries are things that protects you from events that makes you feel bad. This won't happen to me, is not allowed. That's a great exemple because it shows you as a high res man, at least in perception. Let's get over it, but you have the benefit of my tremendous knowledge of psychology. So the older w… | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 07:21 AM |
| 5 | Active in dating, getting dates and occasional hookups… but nothing sticks. What am I doing wrong?Hard to pinpoint your actual problem with this text. It's kind of too self-centered. It's almost all what you think about yourself, or what you perceive them to be. Maybe list me conversations, details, something objective... Even thought I cannot pinpoint your problem, for certain u have a problems with boundaries. No, you're not filtering too hard, you're not filtering enough. You sleep with a girl you call a 6, you exhaust yourself enduring some toxic bitch for a night. You need better bounda… | /r/seduction | 15/03/26 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Ethical Non-monogamyBy default the human is not monogamous. Monogamy is a culture thing, not a reflection of biological drives. To do this ethically you need to let her know early, and let her decide if shes cool with that. Along with all the bs it comes with, jealousy, communication needs increases, more careful about std, stuff like that But overall if done extremely well, it would bring u closer to what being a human really is. Monogamy is just culture, really. Also notice that it also needs to be forced into mo… | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a wing? How did you find your wing?I actually can hardly believe you think that. You be better to learn about what imma say because the next step is labelling you stupid and unworkable. While it is true that strenght is not as necessary and valuable in the modern world, it doesn't change much. It still is. Would you rather have a skinny lanky guy as ally in a dark alley, or a beefy jacked guy. (Ok so even thought its not as useful as before, it still is.) Now the crown jewel. It litteraly does not matter because that's what we're… | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you have a wing? How did you find your wing?since the dawn of time, where the more powerful strong man could defend the tribe from animals and other tribes, hunt mammoths and stuff i dont like your question, and the mandatory word comes out from your own assumptions no its not necessary, yes its better also fun thing : ideal male body type is not as beefy as you might think, and uh, its really not necessary at all, if anything its for sure a bad thing to hold yourself to those standarts but for you im suspecting youre just not willing to … | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 09:41 AM |
| 14 | Why does it feel like when I’m tipsy my confidence is through the roof? And how can I get into this state of mind while sober?its a dishibitor so u wanna dishinhibit yourself so proly something like physical exercise looking at her incremental consistent social interactions get wet do it and willing to look bad and make mistakes looking at her im saying more as a mindset thing, all thise inhibitions are in -your- head, how do I look, what she thinks, can i do this, thats all you stopping you (inhibition) so by looking at her, its not just looking at her, its also putting your attention there btw sober u is probably bet… | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 09:27 AM |
| 1 | Tonight I'm going out with 7 hot chicks. Any tips?be friendly and generous... thats about it, maybe more social than usual... the true mistake would be to leave them and hang out in a corner uoure littersly already in theres not much to do but to live it, enjoy, and if u really want a tip, lean towards the girls giving you more cues of interest protection / fun / body language / friendliness | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 09:18 AM |
| -3 | When a girl goes to bed with you but says no to sexYou need to stop being an asshole. She told you no sex just cuddles and sleeps, that needs to be respected, not going on reddit trying to find a workaround, you fucking jerk wtf They are other situations where i wouldnt have said other things, but in this exact situation, it dont matter her reason thats what she established, clearly said, put her own boundary; and now youre a disrespectful ass, ynworthy of trust | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 09:15 AM |
| 1 | ApproachComplimenting is good. Yes you can. Ideally a precise compliment that you genuily like and struck you. Ideally a no agenda one. But no you should not ask them to know if you can compliment them thats like so submissive and so... hm... too something, its just obviously bad. Your social iq and iq looks very low. | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 09:08 AM |
| 2 | Feeling friendly vibe after first dateYeah well imma point something Look at the chronology of what you said we make out she rejects me cuz im ugly (????) Thats self hate, why would she make out with a guy she finds ugly, and then leave him on a stray cuz he ugly Well first fix is quit this shit. You got all these lies inside your head. You lost a girl cuz you ended the make out for some presupposed social rule about no sex on first date, thats bonkers. also lets do it slowly does not mean lets play ps5 for the next 2 weeks idk i th… | /r/seduction | 14/03/26 09:02 AM |
| 1 | How to heal trauma around shame of expressing your sexualityi think youre smart and on the money actually takes a lot of awareness and understanding for someone to say what you just said to heal this well, long term closeness w friendly, enthusiastic, caring, loving, fun people | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 03:46 PM |
| 1 | idk what to say when a girl reciprocates/is into meTiny and constant lobster wins. Well my advice, well. You need to see the problem you're having there, as like -the- thing to work on till its solved. You need to see that its a huge fucking problem, you didnt put a finger on some small little easy to fix thing here. I basically have to liquify you, and remodel a new you. That's some core shit you hit on. That's a long journey. Theres nothing you can possibly do in a day to fix this. Thats like, nervous system rehabilitation level. Thats not eve… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 03:32 PM |
| 3 | Do you have a wing? How did you find your wing?Having a wing is infinitely valuable. It's better than you think. It's easier to realize that looking back. A wing brings in social proof, emotional stability and opportunities. It's more than just a guy that went to a bar with you. Also the quality of the wing is directly proportional to the quality of opportunities he gives. Also calling it a wing is a bit of a psycho move, it'd be better to call him a friend and see him as such. A jacked up guy thats a natural with women and is socially savvy… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Do you say something bad about yourself hoping that the other person will say "No no, you are awesome!"yea comes from fear or desperacy or loneliness or narcissism id call that backhanded fishing for compliments "for those who feel so unloved and unlovable, the next best thing comes in form of acting in such a way to receive pity... because when you receive pity, it feels a little bit like love" T.S. | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 08:32 AM |
| -4 | What to say when a woman proposes or insists on meeting halfway for a date?meeting halfway? this red flag like wth, youre not exchanging your son to a drug cartel for 2 millions so it has to be done with day'ight and witnesses... so what to say, you say yeah right... and then you never talk to her again no sex = red flag resistance = red flag not going to your home for a mysterious or invalid reason = red flag flag flag flag, flag them disinterested girls, so that you are too, at last, free you gobbled up so many lies to be here saying this | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 08:26 AM |
| 0 | Great first date, kissing, positive texts… then she ghosted after I asked for a second date. Now she texted again. How should I respond?text this : thanks (+ tiny hook about whatever) Hi name (too formal) bla bla bla (trying to shove in everything you're thinking about) rock climbing not sure if youre ready (potential assumptions, huge pressure, meta look at the relationship state and her interest level) i have few things in mind (creepy / can be interpreted different ways) lmk when to call you (subserviancy) so everything in ( ) is negative while you are correct to point a finger that your neediness is potentially wrong, it doe… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 08:19 AM |
| 6 | Videos of pickup through smart glassesdont think picking up girls in kenya is helping anyone with anything ever lol wth | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 07:43 AM |
| 1 | Daygame trouble with AA and Volumeyour problem is how your parents raised you I dont know what they did bad, but they did something bad. So you wanna know whats your problem, well idk, but look over that angle is where youll find answers as to do things better, you should look at smaller quests right now you be like "I need to approach a girl. I need to approach a lot of girls. I need to shoot my shit." I suggest smaller goals. "Today, I'm going to X to do Y. If I exchange a smile with a girl, that's a win." That's it. See how l… | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 07:42 AM |
| 0 | ConfusedPffffff well your problems : lack of social awareness (she was not interested all that much, you should have known that by the micro cues she must have left out and that are missing in your story anyway, to me, yeah you were creepy, at least creeping her out you def come out as obsessive and low status, which is sadly a pretty accurate representation if reality As for the fix well ; for you specifically you need smaller moves small, tiny, positive social wins over the long term is important for … | /r/seduction | 11/03/26 07:28 AM |
| 1 | i am 25 and i finally realized that game is just about removing frictionyeah thats all fine and good and happy it helped you i tried ai too, it has its advantages, but ultimately I did notice that my natural presence was much higher value and higher valued by girls than whatever post mod ai bs I could come up with so keep that in mind that its more of a "bequille" (its a french word not sure of the english term, but youll understand ifnyou search out) | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 02:59 PM |
| 1 | Women become assholes when I pursue their friend after they rejected meNo im actually not a nice guy, im just the true nice guy, which is : I like to be kind and loving if I can help it / situation warrants it, not the manipulative version that girls hate. Sorry girl, you're wrong! You being guarded is wrong. You're kind of saying "hello! im a damaged girl, been damaged by a male before, and now all subsequent males have to endure my bullshit until they prove themselves worthy of my cheese, but really there's no cheese! you're just damaged! Straight up : You being … | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 02:28 PM |
| -2 | Women become assholes when I pursue their friend after they rejected meI already agreed with the thing okay like, I understand and feel the wrongness of approaching the second chick, I get it. I'm still saying you're hostile. (hostile) ------ (you are here) -- (neutral) ------ (warm affectionate welcoming) Maybe this graph helps you understand that Im not calling you out crazy hostile, just hostile. I'd even consider being neutral as hostility in this context because it doesn't have much hooks and good easy follow ups, and kind of should be screened out as disinter… | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 02:20 PM |
| -5 | Women become assholes when I pursue their friend after they rejected meStop projecting your bs on the world. Im bringing you clarity. You are better to stop being so hostile towards strangers. First, you're attracting the very thing you don't want. May I remind you that approaching a group, and more so a group of girls, is actually a terrifying endeavor. If you're any kind of hostile here, well you are the problem, you are closed off, and categorizing someone as "other" is already an unloving thing to do. So who's left. Well there's only the narcissists and the del… | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 04:38 AM |
| -1 | Women become assholes when I pursue their friend after they rejected meWhen you say ´invader to the group' you're coming off very selfish and hostile, and nothing bad as happened yet. Other than that agree with the rest. I mean it's not even a women thing, if a girl did this to me, I'd feel awful being chosen second place, if thats even a choice at all. | /r/seduction | 27/02/26 04:06 AM |
| 17 | Women become assholes when I pursue their friend after they rejected methis whole type of scenario has far less weight than you think truth of the matter is if she wanted to be with you she would, and if she wants her friend to step away and get you she can you are most likely underestimating her friends' abillity to read her/know her, and you are probably also out of touch to you reading her accurately... so to you it might soubd like they bitches, but to them it might be well we kinda "told" you 7 times and now it comes out "real and obvious" I mean dont get me w… | /r/seduction | 26/02/26 10:26 PM |
| 2 | High maintenance girl during a low point in life? What to do when your pick up worked…I mean first lets get real, a girl cost money, like all the time. In the non gold digging way u know, like putting gas in a car to go see her, paying for her dinner and yours.... Like even if you strip all her money needs from you, you still need money to be there. So go take care of your finances for yourself, and it will dovetail nicely with the ability to get women. Like the technical ability to be there, be free, and do something. As for the insta girl, seems like you are judging here and as… | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 12:13 PM |
| 1 | The “Bad Boy” Wins… But Why?The confusion comes from the definition of the words. The truth is : Nice guys own Bad boys all day every day The nuance is, modern terms has assigned the term nice guys, not to actual nice guys, but to men who are nice in order to get something, sonthey're not really being nice, they're just being manipulative and willing to please and craft bs in order to get something. So nice guys arent being nice at all, theyre just weak, lying, crafting social scaffoldings in order to extract what they wan… | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 11:28 AM |
| 1 | How to stop letting fear of rejection stop me from approachingI suggest you go learn about calibration timings and nervous systems. Its too easy to get lost in superficial concepts that are true only after you're calibrated and in a nervous system trained to be attracted by love and people that likes you. Basically, start small, stack small wins. Be social. | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 11:02 AM |
| 2 | What is your opinion on Blackpill/Looks Matter #1The black pill is simply false, and if anything, it has been proved time and time again that if there is such a thing as the black pill well its the women that should eat it more often. The confusion is not that it's all bs, it's that they lack nuance and priorities of concepts. Yes, to some degree looks matters to everyone, and you will have less chances looking like a beat up homeless with no arms and no legs, but as far as getting a hot girl, the chiseled jaw and six pack isnt on top of the l… | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 10:54 AM |
| 2 | It’s Actually Pretty Easy To Get GirlsNot worth reading, the comments are far smarter and on the money Also it's in reverse just by the title, getting a girl to like you turns you manipulative, tense and whatnot. Seeing if you like a girl puts you in a way to see if you do like her, and ironically makes her have higher chances to like you | /r/seduction | 21/02/26 10:48 AM |
| 1 | How do you not get discouraged in this scenarioShe lied to you and rejected you That two valid reasons to feel hurt Its okay to stop trying for a while after that Build urself back up, you didnt die, do something smaller that is not that high stakes for you, maybe just send a friendly comment to a guy, build back positivity, safety, truth, good feelings, that kind of stuff Small wins =- momentum =- bigger wins As for admitting complete defeat. Imma condense a real story that happened to me. Got rejected by girls. Received enthusiastic invita… | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 08:59 AM |
| 1 | Is being known as the womanizer of a group a bad thing?The true answer is nuanced Yes its good, generally speaking, to be known for whatever you are Yes it's good to be known as the guy who gets girl, as any other labels are good, friendly, nerdy, whatever You'd be surprised at how I send you blank state in a new city, your leverage is much less than whatever reputation you hold, and things would seem harder/rarer However (and this is big) What you got going on precisely is absolute terrible trash, its unacceptable The girl that jokes "be careful ar… | /r/seduction | 18/02/26 08:27 AM |
| 5 | What are guys supposed to do if girls are simply not interested in them?It's difficult to map out the reason you're in a bind. Seems to me to possibly be down to desperation, or sone sort of defeat, aka why do the stuff it its going to fail. Well that doesn't help. You're already starting in the wrong foot. So let's start with the easy part. You stop approaching women you aren't interested in. Kay. Easy step. Makes you a good person. That litteraly is a not doing something that you arent all into in the first place. So yeah now you gotta stop this thing where you ma… | /r/seduction | 14/02/26 02:11 AM |
| 2 | How to pass the exclusivity shit testYou're an idiot. That's no shit test at all. You want the line? Alright, I'll give you the line. "Yeah, I'm not really looking for a relationship right the now, you're not really that important to me and I really wanna keep fucking other girls, so if you're okay with that and allow me to be free then you can stay and have some fun." The "I just want to keep seeing you" In this context is a big fat lie that makes you a player, but not any kind of player, the bad kind they warn eachothers about, a… | /r/seduction | 04/02/26 10:55 AM |
| 1 | Does “perfect game” actually guarantee attraction?Yes, true game guarantees attraction, but the real game is not what you think. What you're referencing as game here is actually manipulation. | /r/seduction | 30/01/26 11:38 AM |
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