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The point is that there was no bonding by social structure, like marriages and monogamous families. The bonding was not only free, based on biological imperatives, but short-term. Women seeks alpha male to ensure better genes, men seek highest possible number of women to reproduce. That means that the costs of having to nurture children were socialized, while the benefits of getting the women belonged to a minority of men.
/r/TheRedPill16/08/19 08:48 PM
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I think you missed your shot. Do this: friendzone her hard (start framing your relationship like she's your nice little sister, talk about other girls you want with her), so you can gain at least social status and access to her hot friends. Or, just end it, ghost her, zero attention. If she comes chasing, just tell her you don't believe in male-female real friendship.
/r/TheRedPill15/04/19 02:33 AM
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Too low. Fixing it with proper food and TRT.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 12:41 PM
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Yes, approaching more, and by improving my social skills overall. Also, a body with more muscle and less fat is more attractive to women. Maybe you won't become Chad, but will become more alpha.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 12:40 PM
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I agree. That's why I said the pill will help you a lot with that. But, as you said, pussy ain't shit and there are things more worthwhile. My perspective is that true happiness and greatness, and living life in a virtuous way, in the Aristotelian sense, can't be achieved with just pussy.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/19 03:03 AM
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Put cameras on your apartment AND in your bedroom. You can use your on equipment to control it and keep what they record, no security company or anything. You will always have video evidence on your side. I did that myself to avoid false rape accusations.
/r/askTRP16/02/19 06:59 PM
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Life without meaningful action and purpose is the worst thing any human being can experience.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/19 03:17 PM
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A girl with this many problems and you're asking if you should stay with her? You know you should next, but you're rationalizing it to justify staying with her.
/r/askTRP08/01/19 05:01 PM
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Pay a hooker and fuck her. You'll see that there is nothing special about "losing your virginity".
/r/askTRP06/01/19 10:23 PM
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Forget the politics in a situation where politics played a major role? C'mon..
/r/TheRedPill26/12/18 06:56 PM
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Based on one thing he said in a situation that involves politics? I disagree with Peterson a lot, but let's not become feminist-like ideologues here.
/r/TheRedPill26/12/18 06:41 PM
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This a situation I call "Testing for comfortable seduction". It's a comfort test, but it's not about just make her feel "at ease" or "relieved" about you/your feelings towards you, like saying: "Yeah, baby, I love you". That's the way to familiarity and boredom in LTR, aka, path to Beta Avenue. She wants comfort through seduction. It's seems minimal, but there is a crucial difference to regular tests. When you agree and amplify this kind of situation, it can work, but AA is way more about seduct…
/r/askTRP26/12/18 12:52 AM
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What I always learn from your posts is: take risks. Faint heart never won fair lady, as the saying goes.
/r/TheRedPill24/12/18 05:58 AM
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3 months LTR? She's getting some, my friend, and it looks like it's not from you.
/r/askTRP14/12/18 08:37 PM
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We want to be hoes while we can, fuck brainless jacked assholes that treat us like shit and then find a nice loving man-wallet that truly "deserves" us, does everything for our precious existence while we make no sacrifices at all. And we don't want to be judged by doing this. Just typical women behavior nowadays.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/18 01:24 AM
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The problem is that you never know how the girl will react. Maybe she will feel closer and more intimate with you and develop stronger feelings, maybe it will dry her pussy up. However, the chances of making her see you as weaker are much higher. It's too risky. Better not do it.
/r/askTRP04/12/18 12:12 AM
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Work on your game.
/r/askTRP20/11/18 05:12 PM
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Do the same that you do with every girl, and make it CLEARLY man to woman. If she asks, say you like older women. Don't wait too much to make a move, women that age don't have time for waiting the guy to do something like a teenager at a party.
/r/askTRP18/11/18 12:20 AM
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She didn't realise she was putting her hand near your male friend's cock? Yeah, right. Tell her if she does that again, it's over, or say nothing and increase your dread game.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 09:59 PM
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Yeah, that works. There is a girl that works in the same venue I do, she's very pretty, but arrogant and bitchy. I really don't like her, so I avoid her as best as I can, literally walk the other direction if she's coming my way. Guess what, after a while she started showing up next to me, holding the door for me (which she does not do to anybody)... I realizes I had dread gamed her unintentionally lol. Women are crazy. But do not shit where you eat. Just keep it friendly and casual.
/r/askTRP01/11/18 04:19 PM
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That's because there is an aspect to just approaching that shows courage, confidence, aka, alpha traits. But it's random, sometimes it happens, sometimes it does not. Depends on the girl, how she's feeling at that moment...
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:46 PM
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Public places, malls, streets in general... Daygame.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:17 PM
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Great job on the tests, but this looks fragile just by the long distance thing. You should demote to plate.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 09:09 PM
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This looks bad for you, and the first red flag is she complaining about a freakin bag of chips. And then you made it worse by bombing the shit test. Something is missing in your frame, 99% chance it's Dominance. How's your lifting? Have you put on muscle recently? Testosterone levels? Check it. From your chips outburst, it seems you're stressed. Maybe from work. Not good. The musical hobby is a good thing, work more on it. It looks like you have become too comfortable and familiar to her, one of…
/r/MarriedRedPill18/10/18 08:59 PM
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You need to increase the Dominance level of your frame.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 08:40 PM
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Depends on the situation, it's random. A guy with great game is the one that can calibrate in any situation. But overall, in daygame, the interaction can't be long, 5-10 min. When she starts giving you IOI more frequently, you either move her to instadate (preferable) or get the number.
/r/askTRP18/10/18 12:43 AM
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One of the most incredible things I realized when I started was how many girls are fine with it and give you a good response. Not all, cause that's impossible, some won't even look at you, but more than most guys think. And, obviously, there more you improve the more IOIs you get.
/r/askTRP17/10/18 08:57 PM
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Good point. Thanks.
/r/askTRP09/10/18 11:02 PM
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Get good grades. Participate in extracurricular activities that add value to your "professional career". Lift, build a healthy body. Start learning new abilities: musical instrument, some kinda of martial art, another language, drawing... Read books. Try building social circles. If you do this, when you are 20 you will be way more alpha than 99% of other guys at 20.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 10:15 PM
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Don't talk to her, don't even look at her. Don't give her any validation. If she passes by you or comes close to you, turn your head to the other side. Show ACTIVE disinterest. Every interaction with every girl is a frame battle. You can only win this one by totally ignoring her.
/r/askTRP02/09/18 12:31 AM
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There's plenty of IOIs there from what you say, but you need to be careful, she could be giving you those to make you validate her. Just vying for attention. To be honest, what I would really do is say something like: "You're really adorable, too bad you have a boyfriend. But we can't risk our friendship/social circle". That way you're one step ahead and her reaction will give you lots of answers. But you need to say it in a very casual way, be nonchalant about it. If she rejects you, you're alr…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:43 PM
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Withdraw attention a little more heavily. Don't talk to her for days. If she chases, maybe you're good to go. Then ask her out for some ice cream in the most casual way possible, like your just friends going out to talk. If she says yes, escalate heavily, if she is ok with that, than go for the kiss. Or you could stop having oneitis for her and not risk ruining your social circle. She's not worth it. Social circle game is hard, it's difficult to set a man to woman frame after the first impressio…
/r/askTRP23/07/18 08:00 PM
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You need to develop what I call "high-value actions". These actions need to be the foundation of your life for the foreseable future. What are high-value actions? The ones that improve your mind, body and social skills just by you engaging into them. Lift (Body) Read (Mind) Meditate (Mind) Healthy eating (Body) Game (Social skills) "Jobing" "Jobing" is the way I call improving on your professional area. It's a special one because it doesn't really fit in any of the 3 categories (or maybe fits in…
/r/askTRP29/05/18 05:21 AM
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He strikes me as a blue pill alpha. Blue pill alphas know many of the "ugly" truths about women, but they never connect all the dots to get to the bottom of it, aka, they are not RP. So they still believe some of the blue pill lies about women, while displaying alpha behavior based not really on clear information (RP), but on the direct experience of being naturally good with girls. A friend of mine is like that. He's tall, good looking and has good game, but when his girlfriend broke up with hi…
/r/TheRedPill22/04/18 05:54 PM
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The ugly truth. Also why I don't believe in marriage.
/r/TheRedPill24/03/18 06:26 PM
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I suggest you try some sort of spiritual cleasing. Buddhism is what I'd strongly recommend. Start with meditation and reading buddhist scriptures. I did that and my life improved dramaticaly.
/r/askTRP12/03/18 08:37 AM
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Agreed. Let me show you an infield that illustrates perfectly what I'm trying to say. It's by ex-RSD Todd. The first 15 minutes or so are golden. Check it out: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DwPsp6ePcdk
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 08:11 PM
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Interesting post. I believe rejections (at least the first ones) are like a modified version of a shit test, 10x stronger. So if you pass this "shit test", the girl will see a lot of value in you. A girl once told me something along the lines "If he can handle my attitude, I'll like him. That's hot in a man". That led me to believe that until a certain point in a interaction, the girl is trying to reject you, even if it doesn't look like it. It's what I call "active shit tests phase". If you can…
/r/TheRedPill12/02/18 07:55 PM
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You're thinking about it through the masculine logical lenses. Wrong. Women are emotional, their thinking process is not the same as men's. So when you say "you could tell she was genuinely happy", you're thinking she made a logical and rational decision to feel "genuinely happy". Wrong again. It's was only a few weeks ago, but her EMOTIONAL state has changed. End the relationship, say it's not working for you or whatever. DO NOT TRY TO JUSTIFY OR EXPLAIN WHY. Just end it and leave.
/r/askTRP07/02/18 08:13 PM
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Raise your SMV and improve your game.
/r/askTRP20/12/17 10:47 PM
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Economics in One Lesson is a great book. The austrians remind me of TRP, no one wants to hear what they say, but they are usually right.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/17 06:11 PM
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Tell her you need to talk in person. Hold frame and tell her you like hanging out with her, but it's not working for you. Don't apologize in anyway. Don't talk too much. Leave as soon as possible.
/r/askTRP30/10/17 05:12 PM
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I learned almost everything about game from them.
/r/askTRP17/10/17 06:10 PM
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No, you shouldn't. You need to ignore her.
/r/askTRP10/10/17 08:45 PM
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This sounds, looks and feels bad. Considering the marriage is one of the most important decisions you'll ever make, should you make it knowing the situation sounds, looks and feels bad? Weird? Iffy? Uncomfortable? Probably not. Also, you're just 22. You still have long ways to go and a lot of things to do as a man. My advice: don't get married. Ever.
/r/askTRP30/09/17 03:56 AM
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It's always best not to say anything. Don't say "Yes" or "No", you really ignore and move on. But I know this is not entirely realistic. Sometimes you're kinda "forced" to say something. The thing is, the girl's reaction will depend on how she sees you, aka, your frame. So every situation is different, but, in my opinion, it's always better to say "No" than "Yes", and at the same time, try as hard as possible to not give her any sort of validation. It's hard, and it takes practice to find a bala…
/r/askTRP29/09/17 12:41 AM
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Who gives a fuck what she did? It doesn't matter if she responds or not or if she rejects you or not. If a text or just a "read" by her part bothers the guy in anyway, good or bad, the guy needs to work on abundance mentality. And that applies to all forms of game. If it bothers you that a girl ignored you, you're in the wrong frame.
/r/TheRedPill25/09/17 09:04 PM
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I will, thanks.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 01:42 AM
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No, she asked me about TV series, not watching with her. About the orbiting thing, maybe you're right. It took me too long to try and close. But I'm absolutely positive she's attracted to me. What I'm gonna do is make a definitive move and see if she up for it. If not, time to move on. I've spent too much time with this. Thanks for the advice.
/r/askTRP22/09/17 01:13 AM
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I ignored her for the last few days and gamed other women in front of her. Today, I went to study in the same place as always, she was there. I didn't initiate contact, she came to me, big smile, for a hug, I politely obliged, no clear demonstration of emotion from me (and she noticed). Guess what, sometime later she text me asking me about watching TV series online. She never ever texts me, specially out of the blue like this (actually we don't text at all, very rarely, cause I'm not a needy be…
/r/askTRP22/09/17 12:12 AM
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Quick update: I did just that and she already starte chasing me again hahahahahahahahahaha. Incredible what solid frame can do.
/r/askTRP21/09/17 07:32 PM
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Good point. I will do that for sure.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 02:37 PM
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I thought the same thing about being too dramatic. It would make me look weak. I should not say anything, but act, which in this case means ignoring. I also should distance myself a bit and game other girls there (I actually do that already) so I don't get too attached.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:30 PM
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I don't study with her, but in the same venue. Which means I see her almost everyday. But in this same place there are other women, and I made sure that I talk to this other women and that she sees it.
/r/askTRP20/09/17 01:28 PM
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True. This is why any kind of LTR are always more beneficial to women. Also why I don't wanna to be in one ever.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/17 07:09 PM
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Don't be nice and polite 100% of the time.
/r/TheRedPill23/06/17 04:47 PM
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When she says things like this, you need to remind her that you're able to walk away anytime, you have options and she doesn't control you. So you answer like this: "Yeah, I feel the same way sometimes. Just the other day I saw I really hot girl, and wanted to go talk to her..."
/r/askTRP18/06/17 02:55 PM
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The real key factor is body fat. Muscular body can help, but between muscular guy with ugly face and handsome skinny guy, women will prefer the latter. Moral of the story: don't be fat!
/r/TheRedPill18/05/17 04:03 AM
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Don't answer: "it's okay, I like thick girls". She might think you really calling her fat. And calling a woman fat is basically a girl saying you've a small dickl, aka, attacking her "honor" (remember that a girl's persona is directly attached to her looks). Not pleasant to hear. Treat like a shit test, agree and amplify: "Yes, you just gained 20 pounds right now in this very second, maybe you should go the gym right now!" Something like that.
/r/TheRedPill16/05/17 08:53 PM
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Don't give her any sort of validation. No "Hello", "Good morning", "Good night"... Nothing. Don't even look at her (this is hard but force yourself too). Eventually, since you work together, she will notice that. Just don't give a fuck about her. Women feed on validation, don't give it to her, if you do, you lose.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 05:31 PM
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Bang her again and then next her.
/r/TheRedPill08/04/17 03:39 PM
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I assume you know/have studied Austrian Economics?
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 10:21 PM
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If a girl do as little as look at you for a few seconds, there is interest there. Basically anything she does concerning a man directly is validation/interest. If the guy knows to identify this, he just needs to work on that, like you did.
/r/TheRedPill01/04/17 08:10 PM
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Argentina was VERY rich, but that was like 100 years ago. What has happened in Latin America in the past 15-20 years (I'm Brazilian, so I see this first handed) is that the left dominated most of the countries here for this period, and, like always, they have destroyed them. Argentina, Venezuela, Brazil, Bolivia are all in a terrible situation right now. You could even call what's happening in Venezuela a humanitarian crisis. It has reached the point of people searching the streets for food.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 05:09 PM
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Chile. Brazil is not developed.
/r/TheRedPill27/03/17 11:41 AM
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Always keep it simple and short. And never ask things like: "Is that ok? Does it work for you?". I'd say something along the lines: "I'll see if I can step by", "Kinda busy, we'll see". This way, you will keep her wondering, that's always good. Then show up whenever you want.
/r/TheRedPill22/03/17 11:27 PM
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Maybe your game isn't good enough. I'm overweight as well, but I worked HARD on my game for the past couple years, and I've banged some pretty hot chicks, of the kind that usually fucks guys with Chad-like appearance. I'm good looking, though. At my job, I'm know as "The Danger", cause of my sexual reputation lol. Some women, whom I see basically everyday are very attracted to me, even some that have boyfriends (it also helps that every other guy there is horrible at talking to women, and most o…
/r/TheRedPill01/03/17 11:07 PM
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The same thing, but certainly in a more extreme way, is how women are attracted to criminals. Once I did a work about personality disorder for college, studying about serial killers. I focused on Ted Bundy. The guy kidnapped, raped and killed young girls. When he was in prison, waiting for the chair, he got married and had a child with a women who insisted to the end that he was innocent. He received thousands of letters from "admirers", most of them female, of course. And that's just one guy. T…
/r/TheRedPill28/02/17 09:12 PM
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You're an idiot, that's why you are in this situation. Dump her and suffer for days, believe me, it's gonna be good for you long term. Read the sidebar, then read it again. Then read it all another time. Buy The Rational Male by Rollo Tomassi. Read it. Stop being a pathetic weak "man" and become a real one.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/17 08:06 PM
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I admit I laughed in some parts, dude "When i'd get there I also insisted on paying for dates and shit too because i'm fucking courteous, and also a complete moron apparently". LOL. It reminded me of SO many stories similar to this, from my experience and from others. My advice: read the sidebar. Read everything you can about women, learn game, learn about social dynamics. There are tons of great content about that for free on the internet. It's really eye opening. Good luck!
/r/TheRedPill26/01/17 06:23 PM
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