FluForThought Archive

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6	Lurker Callout Thread Female Purply In a relationship Favorite thing is just learning about this all. Didn't know red pill black pill was a thing. Makes me see a few people I know in a whole new light. (am pretty certain a friend has taken the red pill & is in the anger phase...for the last three years) Don't know anyone.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 11:28 PM
2	Men are just as “shallow” as women Off tangent, but shorter nerdy uglies have standards too. I've worked in an industry that caters to a good deal of those men and they have very specific, if not more rigid, standards than your average man. Thus, the near nonexistent amount of sex they get.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 11:17 PM
1	Attraction and Apex Fallacy I think both but in different ways. Women do want their men to hit all those points, but are willing to sacrifice a thing here or two to get a decent median across the board. If this was a game, they're looking for all-rounders that can be used in any given situation, even if they're not OP. The things they sacrifice are directly related to what they want out of a relationship. At the same time, if a man is able to score "high marks / above average" in any one of those "traits" listed, attractio…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 07:24 AM
2	Women who make the first move are more likely to end up with men who they actually find attractive No brainer. Of course I'm going to be more assertive with men I find more attractive. Others were only tolerable/likable if they were putting in their 100%. Conventional beauty has less to do with it; if I find them attractive, that's enough. And again, the "first move" doesn't have to be all-out "let's fuck/let's date/let's go to a movie." Plenty of times I made the first move, but the guy mistakenly thought they did because they asked for a LTR first.	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 02:26 AM
2	Feminine women and masculine men..Can it be too much of a contrast? Family dynamics have a lot to do with these things, and I feel for you. My dad wasn’t like that but I hail from a country where gender roles are still prevalent. (Men rarely allowed in the kitchen & uncles sitting around chatting while aunts made food & cleaned, men expected to earn more & pay more etc.) I was pissed when I went to college and boys still expected the girls to wash dishes & cook & clean. Girls would compete over how well they could act the housewives to college-aged idiots who wi…	/r/PurplePillDebate	08/02/21 02:16 AM
2	Feminine women and masculine men..Can it be too much of a contrast? My solution was to keep our distances. I don't believe it's a matter of masculinity/femininity; it's more power dynamics & preferences, more former than latter. I believe you're speaking of people who assert their dominance, however naturally or forcibly. I've met a slew of men who fit your description (artistic/ yoga & meditation / culture / ..okay, not belly dancing lol) that were also hyper-masculine. They can be just as domineering and assertive. Unlike what mass media likes to perpetuate, b…	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/02/21 11:01 PM
1	Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women. And that's valid. I personally prefer vulnerability on both parts, if applicable. It would be great if life gave us sweet lemons, but things happen, and I like my partner being open with me when he's going through hardship (and vice versa).	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 07:42 PM
1	Women who tolerate male vulnerability absolutely exist, but average men lack the time and options to be able to screen for these women. A bit off tangent but: nearly all my exes have cried in front of me at one point, for various reasons. Not once was it a turn-off, except for the two who were obviously looking for a mother figure. Some men aren't truly vulnerable, but enjoy being coddled. You can say the same with women; some people just want ideal parent-surrogates that will also fuck them. Now related to the post: I agree. It takes time to build trust. No one should sacrifice their emotional integrity just to test the waters.…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/02/21 08:56 AM