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You also have to take into consideration who finds what attractive. I've been with a few women that find video games attractive because they also play video games. That goes both ways. Another point is that everyone plays video games so it's not a novelty. Doing something uncommon will give you more interest points. Reddit is also not a hobby. It's like saying reading the news or watching youtube is a hobby
/r/seduction02/09/22 10:36 AM
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When it feels right. This can vary a lot between people. I have an easy time reading people so it's never gone badly for me. Just remember that they are just as anxious and awkward as you are. If they are very anxious, I will establish honest and straight forward communication as the norm and then lead and ask them through the process. "Can I hold you" "can I kiss you" kind of deal. That makes them feel comfortable and safe. Thid might give you a crutch to work with
/r/seduction24/08/22 01:31 PM
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This strategy is not reserved only for women. We like to have doors open so we can pick our best option. They aren't trying to string you along, you give them the string. If you feel like someone isn't completely invested in you, don't be so invested in them
/r/seduction20/08/22 08:40 AM
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So, weird take. Every time my ex and I were working though a problem, crying together and taking care of each other, we would always end up weirdly aroused and it always ended in sex. My take on it is that if you use the situation to get closer and care and respect one another then that can be very attractive. On the other hand if there is no understanding, no care and respect it can be very unattractive
/r/seduction12/01/22 10:47 AM
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I want to expand on that. It's to trust: That you can do it That if you can't do it now. You'll able to if you work on it until you can That if you fail everything will be fine That if it fails you'll be able to fix it That if it fails you'll be able to catch yourself
/r/seduction23/12/21 04:04 PM
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If she is judging you by how she feels around you it sounds more like projecting than anything else. But also a dick move on her part to try to force gender roles on you
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:17 AM
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I'm a huge phychology nerd so I would just do the same back to her. But joking aside. I psychoanalyse everyone automatically. It's just function to help me know how to act around them but I try to keep it to myself. When I talking to another person about it, I appreciate it if they let me know if they find it uncomfortable. Then I can either dial it back or stop completely. If you do and she doesn't stop then that's a sign she won't respect your boundaries.
/r/seduction25/11/21 11:04 AM
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Cloud and social status can be attractive. It's sign of social skills. The amount of people doesn't matter that much. It matters more how much they like you and rely on you
/r/seduction18/11/21 08:17 PM
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If a girl has said you are too nice they are hiding your flaws behind something good about you to avoid hurting your feelings. Here's what too nice can really mean: -avoids confrontation -too shy -lack of confidence -doesn't show initiative -submissive -is afraid of making wrong moves -etc. There is nothing wrong with being nice. Women will generally describe me as lovable and really nice but I still have no problem with women. They will even talk about my niceness as an attractive feature Don't…
/r/seduction13/11/21 01:41 PM
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Here is a good one: https://brenebrown.com/videos/anatomy-trust-video/ RMRS also talks about how to be someone worth trusting in some of his videos on youtube and Charisma on command have some good videos on how to act to build trust. I recommend always getting your information from more than one source because we all have biases that can influence the information we are giving.
/r/seduction10/11/21 07:51 AM
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Exactly! In general we tend to trust people more if they are more like us. Also helps if you are a part of the same group
/r/seduction05/11/21 05:21 PM
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So mirroring refers to mirroring body languages and reactions. We mostly do this naturally so don't go too hard otherwise it gets creepy. I think charisma on command has a video on mirroring. You could also find it from other sources. If you want to observe this next time you are in a group and one person folda their arms. See how many others do the same without noticing it. That's mirroring.
/r/seduction05/11/21 03:20 PM
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I'm not really a dating coach. This is just from my own experience. My first advice would be to get some female friends. Practise is key. If they feel comfortable around you then you are doing something right. If not you are doing something wrong. Mirroring is also a good strategy. We trust people more that act similar to us.
/r/seduction05/11/21 02:42 PM
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Trust is a complicated subject. You'll need more than a reddit comment to master it but I can give you some tips. -If people see that other people trust you they are more inclined to do the same. Example:If you have female friends that trust you, other women will trust you more -Touch is also a good way to build trust. I recommend Charisma on commands video on touch. They go into a lot of details. Example: If you shake someones hand they will trust you more -One subject on trust talks about "com…
/r/seduction05/11/21 11:24 AM
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What you are looking for is for them to feel safe with you. You can also get that by building trust (being a trust worthy pearson) and by showing confidence. These aren't the only things but they've worked wonders for me. Ones women know they can feel safe around you they will flock to you
/r/seduction05/11/21 08:52 AM
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I feel like you are trying to give her an ultimatum to avoid the work. I would rather start with. "What are your feelings towards me and where do you want to go from there?" Than you can understand where she is at and you two can decide where you want to go from there. Giving her an ultimatum also sounds more like coercion than anything else.
/r/seduction10/09/21 01:30 PM
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I recommend school of attraction on youtube. He has some great content on the topic. Both for online dating and cold approach. He also has a few courses on it that have been getting good reviews but I haven't tried any so I don't know it my self
/r/seduction08/09/21 03:19 PM
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Either you become better at the game or pick a new one. There has and will always be competition. Different platforms just have different games
/r/seduction08/09/21 02:32 PM
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It means she might be interested but she doesn't know yet. Maybe she isn't ready to wait for you but might be interested if she hasn't met someone else.
/r/seduction11/07/21 12:52 PM
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Find a tailor. If you find clothes that almost fit but are to big in some areas, you can get them to fix them up for you so they fit you better. RMRS has loads of videos on it
/r/seduction24/06/21 02:07 PM
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I'd recommend dance classes, choirs or something similar. Don't go straight for asking everyone out. It will quickly mark you as an outcast. Focus on the activity and gaining friends first
/r/seduction07/06/21 02:29 PM
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Hey, I'm 27, living at home with a few mental illnesses Mental illness is never a deal breaker but how you deal with it could be. If you accept you flaws and are working on them then that's a plus not a minus. Living at home is worse then not but also not a deal breaker. If you are lonely, sex isn't going to fix that for you. I'm guessing you are looking for a relationship but I would recommend finding good friends first. If you have good friends that show you love and support you, you will neve…
/r/seduction25/04/21 09:48 AM
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Needy people are all the same. Their gender doesn't matter
/r/seduction31/03/21 02:40 PM
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Man here, I don't find most women attractive. My body is very selective when it comes to attraction
/r/seduction18/03/21 09:45 PM
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There is nothing wrong with being friends with her. Most of the girls I've dated started as my friends. You just have to make it sure she knows you are interested in her. The classic "I really like you (insert personality trait) it's very attractive" worka wonders to get you there.
/r/seduction01/02/21 03:30 PM
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It depends on what you mean by the word friendzone. If it just means that you two are frienda and nothing more right now then you can jump in and out of the friendzone. If you mean the popular use of the word "This girl doesn't think I'm attractive but likes me as a friend" Then find another girl that finds you attractive and wants you
/r/seduction01/02/21 02:32 PM
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Why do your genetics matter? The only thing that should matter to you is what you can change and improve.
/r/seduction27/01/21 12:30 PM
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You don't get less desperate by being with girls. You get less desperate by understanding that you don't need them
/r/seduction03/12/20 10:20 AM
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I don't approach girls at the gym. Everyone should be able to go to the gym without being bothered. If I wanted to approach a girl in the gym I would give her my number or snapchat and tell her I would like to flirt with her outside the gym.
/r/seduction12/08/20 09:17 AM
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A good thing to remember is that we all need to suck before we get good at something. Just enjoy the learning process. Also that girl sounded like a red flag. You dodged a bullet
/r/seduction14/07/20 07:14 AM
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Test the waters. People can tell you all they want if it's cold or hot but you won't know until you dip your toe in it.
/r/seduction14/06/20 10:59 AM
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I think it depends on the situation. If I'm only looking for sex than I'm only offering sex. If I'm looking for more than sex I will offer more. Dating is often just finding someone that's looking for the same thing as you
/r/seduction12/06/20 03:37 PM
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I could probably help you more if I knew what your situation was but here are some general tricks. Eye contact can do wanders. By utilizing eye contact right you can indicate that your are interested in them and that you want them to come to you. Pick your targets. Don't go for people that aren't looking for anyone
/r/seduction09/06/20 11:03 AM
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I don't understand, why do you think men think the only way to get women is money?
/r/seduction07/06/20 10:19 AM
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I think you are making the "friendzone" a lot bigger than it is. You can litterally get out of the "friendzone" with one sentence. I've dated a lot my friends and the "friendzone" has never been an issue.
/r/seduction07/04/20 10:35 AM
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