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I gotta start practicing being neurotypical before RFK jr sends all the autists to camps or whatever "Hello my name is FluidRow. I love subtext and I understand it completely all the time. My favorite hobbies are navigating social cues and making normal amounts of eye contact."
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 04:22 PM
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I always assumed any unwanted sexual contact counts as sexual assault
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:16 PM
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I always love it when a man who doesn't practice my religion tries to enlighten me about it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 02:09 PM
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ok
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:23 PM
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A guy I had a massive crush on set that as his discord status during one of our conversations and I still think about it all the time
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:20 PM
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Only female friends, modest/feminine clothing, no social media, wants to marry but neutral on kids (half a point), loves my family but neutral on country (half a point), would homeschool kids if I had any, would want to be a stay at home mom if applicable, goes to church, reads the Bible, loves children, likes to cook, natural hair ngl I'm kind of killing it
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 01:16 PM
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What would that messaging look like? "You may not want kids just yet but you'd better go ahead and have them while you can"?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:51 AM
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What's your proposed solution for these 38 year old women who haven't settled down yet?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/25 03:19 AM
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Then don't allow someone else's failing to become your problem. You decide what you put your energy towards and how much control you grant these people.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 10:29 PM
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Not talking for a year sounds pretty difficult.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 09:50 PM
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I didn't realize he made me mad. Thats wild, especially as someone who is pretty moderate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:22 PM
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How do men get their brains to be so fat and juicy and logical?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:21 PM
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Aw shucks, I sure wish there was some way to avoid following a political ideology/figure that you don't wanna follow 😟
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:11 PM
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"Make sure it's true and factual" is where a great deal of people slip up.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:06 PM
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What will they be heir to?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 08:04 PM
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But why does this matter? If someone wants something but doesn't take steps to make it happen in their lifetime, what is the impact on you personally?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:43 PM
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I just wanna address this point: "Thirdly, most children want young parents. My parents had me at 30 and I was still somewhat jealous of people who had even younger parents than mine. "I wish my parents were older", said no one ever." My parents had me at 18 years old and it absolutely fucking sucked. They weren't at all financially stable, they had no idea how to raise a child, they weren't able to get an education beyond high school because they had to take care of me. There was no benefit to …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/25 04:33 PM
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how do you have such good taste in everything
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 06:13 PM
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angy 😾
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 02:12 AM
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Yeah, I'm a size 14 and for my height I'm approx 20 lbs overweight. I don't go out in public where I can test whether or not I get approached, but in terms of matches/connections in online dating, I haven't found my size to be an issue when it comes to how much interest I get.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:54 AM
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Once in a while I'll think there's a person here who's cool but then they inevitably say something nasty/hurtful I probably need to leave this sub again lol I'm gettin agitatedddd
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/25 01:42 AM
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this place has upset me more than any other subreddit I've ever participated in I will never forget it
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:48 PM
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<image> I just really like food
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 06:42 PM
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Idk, I like eating it for at least a few days since I don't get it often. But then I'm someone who really loves cake.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 02:12 PM
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I painstakingly made my own birthday cake and ended up giving away 95% of it because so many people dropped in throughout the day on one hand, I'm really lucky to have that many people who care about me otoh I wanted more leftovers ;_;
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/25 12:07 PM
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Separate copies. Always separate copies.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 06:01 PM
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Wouldn't that be entirely dependent on the individuals/the couple in question? I don't know if there's any way to define a "goal post" for something like that. That's a bit like asking how many dates it takes to fall in love with someone. I know that for me personally, I'm unlikely to feel close enough to do anything sexual for the first several months of dating. But that's probably a longer timeframe than lots of people have.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 12:33 PM
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you're stinky
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:19 AM
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Damn, I hate to hear that about keeping your eyes open. If I have my eyes open I'll start thinking too hard about the expressions I'm making, if my face looks stupid, if I look like I'm enjoying it enough, whether I'm doing things right, what all of his various microexpressions and reactions mean, etc. I have to close my eyes and basically tune out the entire world or else it becomes a paralyzing performance analysis and dissection of my own failings.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:09 AM
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whenever I see it spelled "yoghurt" my brain hits the "h" really hard. yogHHHHurt
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 06:48 PM
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Talking to a guy who isn't involved in social media gender war shit is so relaxing. It's the first time I've connected with a man who isn't chronically online and everything feels so normal/pleasant
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/25 05:46 PM
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little muffin 🥺
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:23 PM
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I'll just stick to my amphetamines
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/25 01:22 PM
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Yeah that's also part of why I hesitate about revealing the information. If I can guarantee that it doesn't impact my behavior, there's no reason to tell, since it could be an instant dealbreaker even if everything else is going well with the guy. It's just a matter of making sure I contain it well enough.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 06:21 PM
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Is there a meaningful difference between chats and DMs? Asking as somebody who doesn't use either
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:12 PM
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Q4A: would you want to know if your partner had been in an abusive relationship? On one hand, I know talking about exes is discouraged, but I also imagine that information provides some important context about their behaviors/anxieties/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:11 PM
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Oh nice!!! It's so dang beautiful up that way. I'm a few counties south, but I went to App for undergrad so I got to do a lot of high country exploration.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 02:27 PM
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ohh we might be neighbors! I'm from WNC!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 01:38 PM
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https://preview.redd.it/gqr7le1npqse1.jpeg?width=1170&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=dc18d222570654c9c97ae318a8d8df02c944188f
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/25 03:47 AM
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Sometimes I have coyotes in the forest across the road from my house, but I don't think I've ever seen their poop. I just listen to them scream from a safe distance.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:11 PM
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a chunk of Appalachia dealt with a massive hurricane 6 months ago and we still haven't recovered from it yet lol, I'm not sure we're the best place to hide from all the bad stuff
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:09 PM
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is cat shit worse than dog shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 11:07 PM
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I'm too worried about it getting rejected. I'd rather pay extra for USPS to use their biometric scanner thing and then I don't have to think about it anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 01:24 PM
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Nothing is more humbling than a passport photo I like to imagine I'm at least a 4/10 who can clean up to a 5, but damn that picture says otherwise
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/25 10:53 AM
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algebra has "bra" in it which is indecent, I don't want my young children learning about boobies during math 😡
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 01:55 PM
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theoretically so appealing but actually a sensory nightmare i suffer eternally in this prison
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:34 PM
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we should just not teach them how to read, and then we don't have to worry about what any of the books say
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:33 PM
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we're in a sub that's almost entirely devoted to arguing about sociological studies
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 12:28 PM
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NICE. I was worried I might be asexual but turns out my brain is just so fuckin huge
/r/PurplePillDebate02/04/25 11:48 AM
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Ok but you gotta deal with the extreme forehead acne that comes with them
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/25 02:16 PM
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No, I said you, not them. How do you know none of that will happen to YOU? If it does happen, the inheritance money will be quite useful. My point is that you never know when you'll need access to a substantial liquid asset.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:46 PM
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You used the term "literally." If you didn't mean it literally, a different word might have been more effective for presenting that particular statistic.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:44 PM
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I'm trying to argue that "literally 0.1%" isn't a figure based in on any sort of meaningful quantitative measurement. It's simply your perception of a very specific demographic of women. A man said "my wife doesn't use instagram" and you seemed to imply that this was a near statistical impossibility, when in fact it is not that uncommon to meet women who do not use instagram for any number of reasons - including women who simply do not want to use it.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 05:30 PM
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What if they're super optimistic but still don't want kids
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:39 PM
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There are also conservative/traditional women who live in groups where social media use is less prevalent, there are women who lack the cognitive capacity to use devices, there are women who are concerned with the overreach of tech companies and chose not to use their services, there are women who simply don't have time/interest in social media... Any population can be "pretty close to 100%" on anything if you don't count the ones who don't do that thing. It's a pointless figure to present.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:37 PM
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How do you know the money will be of very little use to you? Life happens very quickly and includes a number of disasters, health problems, unexpected problems...what if your home is destroyed in a fire? What if your legs are amputated and you can't afford good prosthetics? What if there's a flood and you lose everything you own, and insurance only pays for a small fraction of it?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:05 PM
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There are approximately 2 billion instagram users and 49.4% of those are women. There are approximately 4 billion women on earth. Even removing "very old" or "very young" women, your "literally 0.1%" figure seems like it would be a stretch, especially when taking into account the number of women who don't have smartphones/don't have access to the internet/live in countries that regulate or outright ban social media access/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 04:03 PM
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Well it makes sense...being told you're wrong about everything your whole life makes you think that you are, in fact, wrong about everything. I constantly question my perception and disregard my instincts/intuition, because I believe my cognition is inherently flawed.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:43 PM
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In general I start to get uncomfortable when a man has had more than a couple of partners, so yeah, two is probably my threshold for the abortion situation. (And even then I'd be like "damn dude, how'd you manage to get into that situation twice?" and I'd want to know more about his preventative measures/the context of how it all happened/etc.)
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/25 03:38 PM
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they look like they would taste like jolly ranchers
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/25 12:53 AM
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ahhh i'm sorry! eat some soup and take a nap
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:48 PM
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why are you crying :(
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:45 PM
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So far my only experiences with sex have been uncomfortable and difficult. So I don't like it. I don't think it's that uncommon tbh.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:44 PM
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I can't convince myself to wear anything besides black I know some other colors MIGHT look okay...but black will definitely look good. I don't have to think about it. So why waste time/money on other colors?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:12 AM
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do people really drink milk at bedtime?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 04:08 AM
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nah, the guy I'm dating is really into chess and it's insanely attractive
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 12:56 PM
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none because I am better than everyone else (actually I just don't like tv/movies, they overstimulate me)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 02:45 AM
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It doesn't mean anything on either side. I can imagine a situation where I become a tyrannical dictator who tortures my imaginary enemies. I can imagine a situation where I have to murder and eat someone to survive. I can imagine a situation where I burn down a building full of kittens and puppies. I can imagine a situation for literally anything. None of those situations will happen. None of it means anything whatsoever. It's imagination. It's fiction. Putting stock in imaginary scenarios is ri…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/25 05:22 PM
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He tends to wake up at 4-5 every day, yeah.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 11:48 PM
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what is your favorite kind of sandwich
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:18 PM
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damn. the universe had to course correct so dramatically that it unleashed a plague
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:13 PM
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I kind of like being too old and boring for that now. the guy I'm dating goes to bed at 8:30 PM and tbh I think he's got the right idea
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:10 PM
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it feels like a recession has been about to start for the past 700000 years
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 10:01 PM
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not being able to work right now is kinda funny because I could date a man with literally any job whatsoever and it would technically be hypergamy
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/25 02:35 AM
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🎉
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 03:39 PM
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I am so fucking sick of hearing about seed oils. Or about fat in general honestly "Don't eat any fat, fat is bad for you. Actually just don't eat saturated fat, eat unsaturated. Actually margarine/seed oils are bad, you should only eat olive oil. Actually butter is super good so you should only eat that. You should put it in your coffee. You should just eat big chunks of it right off the stick. You should inject it directly into your veins. You should-" at this point it's just silly goose shit
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 02:01 PM
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I'd have a lot of conversations with my kid to try and get to the root of that because it's not the sort of ultimatum that comes out of nowhere. It's an indication that something is wrong, either with the overall family dynamic or on a personal level with them. Adopting another kid is less important than fixing an issue with the existing one.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 09:24 AM
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Ask them to add 2 shots of motor oil That feels sufficiently manly
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/25 01:48 AM
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afraid of dying painfully, yes afraid of being dead, nah. that part should be easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:32 PM
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someone calling him a 3 would be crazy I don't understand how other people's scales work
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:28 PM
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it's cute but that price is goofy
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:14 PM
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lemon make them some pudding
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 04:13 PM
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Not any single men my age in my church unfortunately, or I would have gone that route. Most of them seem to settle down in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:21 PM
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I made a cross stitch of that and hung it in my bathroom
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:20 PM
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I was really meant to be a mail-order bride on the American frontier in the 1800s. I was born in the wrong era
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:10 PM
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I wasn't really trying to turn you on but sorry I guess?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 03:02 PM
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at this point i don't even care if somebody loves me back or not, i just want someone to pour all of my affection into and if it's not reciprocated then whatever, at least i got it out of my system having to go through this lukewarm early dating stuff drives me insane. i want to do wife shit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/25 02:50 PM
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100% this one
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 07:49 PM
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you should sew all your dolls together into some kind of abomination
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 06:23 PM
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Yeah, I've always landed on "if it's not a 'hell yes' then it's a 'no'" when it comes to having kids. I wouldn't ever try it unless I REALLY wanted it with every fiber of my being. But then there's part of me that gets scared I'll finally really want it when it's too late. I don't wanna regret everything when I'm an old lady...but I also can't make life-altering decisions for that hypothetical old lady.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:55 PM
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Did you always feel that way, like even as a kid? I never had any interest in playing house/babydolls/anything motherly like that...sometimes that makes me wonder if my baseline is also "I don't wanna" and maybe I've just gotten confused by societal pressure
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:47 PM
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How the heck do people decide if they wanna have kids or not I've had over three decades to contemplate this shit and still haven't landed on an answer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 04:41 PM
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how do the guys with BMI dealbreakers assess them? Do they ask upfront or are they just trying to estimate? Like visually how would a person distinguish between a BMI of 21 and a BMI of 22
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 03:41 PM
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you might have some eventful poops later but otherwise you'll probably be fine
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:20 PM
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I had way better luck with departmental scholarships once I was actually in college
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:45 PM
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One time when I was like 13 years old I went to a movie with my friend. We were the only people in the theater. A random middle-aged guy came in and in spite of having every other chair open, he sat down right next to me I immediately moved lol. I still think about that a lot lol
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 12:22 PM
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I don't really understand what's suspicious about it. I'm physically disabled and I can't work. I may not ever be able to work again. I make less than $14k a year. I try very, very hard to be a good person - loving/kind/considerate. I take care of my family and friends and neighbors, I cook and clean for as many people as I physically can, I offer emotional support to people, I try very hard to make everyone's life easier and make the world better. I've recently met a man who's an accountant and…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 10:15 AM
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My body grows a lot of extra bone on/around my spine and it makes everything fuse up. It was an underlying condition so didn't cause problems until I was in my 20s
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/25 02:44 AM
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I'm 5'7". Not physically fit at all since I have to use a cane lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:32 PM
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how much weight do I need to lose before I'm allowed to stop identifying as fat I hit my goal weight but I don't think I can drop the descriptor yet
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 11:00 PM
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I didn't mean to imply anything. I simply apologized for misunderstanding your initial comment. There is no subtext or additional layer to the apology. I am not sure what else to do besides say that I am sorry for this issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:48 PM
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What does that have to do with my apology?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 06:28 PM
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Sorry for the miscommunication.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:08 PM
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I'm not arguing any semantics, I'm trying to understand the context of your question because the post mentioned "strangling" but you mentioned "hitting" and I wanted to make sure I understood the terms. I suspect my autism is getting in the way here so never mind, sorry for bothering you. Have a good day.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:02 PM
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I didn't claim that. I'm asking what the threshold for "hitting" is.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 05:00 PM
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Is "strangling" considered a form of "hitting"?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 04:58 PM
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I apologize, I didn't see you specify that it was only regarding adults. I assumed "people" was more general.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:45 PM
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Don't those words basically mean the same thing?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:44 PM
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I disagree that women aren't required to mask in order for people not to be put off by them. As an autistic girl in school, I was bullied relentlessly because I didn't do things normally. I was too excited about weird stuff, my facial expressions weren't right, I didn't play with other kids the right way, I was somehow both too loud and too quiet, I didn't get jokes, I didn't follow instructions the way I was "supposed" to, I had verbal/physical stims that made me embarrassing to be around. Ther…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 03:38 PM
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Sometimes that's a good thing. Like if you're using it to kill bacteria
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/25 12:02 AM
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I've always wanted one of those skeleton hand things. They look so cool
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:58 PM
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Nah, and I probably wouldn't apply for a job that had any potential for relocation. Like no companies with locations in other states or anything like that. All the places I've worked for are small/local, I wanna keep it that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:57 PM
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I still live in my hometown. Only reason I leave would be for a relationship and I wouldn't wanna go more than a couple of hours away at most. My whole family is here, and so is everything else I care about.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 11:01 PM
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It's not really wasted if you get to see fun stuff like cows or flowers or fields or trees or mountains. Or maybe cool buildings if you're into that
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:27 PM
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On the bright side when you get old you start being less and less ashamed of everything
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 06:24 PM
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lol my mom just did that a little while ago. She was like "do you think people are gonna look at the package and think about the fact that it's my poop???" and i was like "naaaahhhh no way"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:51 PM
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That's why you need toppings. Veggies for sweetness and crunch, something pickled for a pop of acid and brine, cheese/condiments for creaminess. It all balances together. Just meat and bread would be sad lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 05:43 PM
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Something about playing video games with a guy I like turns me into a fuckin idiot I'm normally (sort of) okay at FPS, but as soon as I play one with a man I'm like "what do buttons do 🥺🎀🌸✨"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 03:58 PM
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both when I was on interview committees, once someone proved they were (seemingly) normal/functional I started really focusing on the details in their answers and comparing them to other candidates
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:41 PM
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Hit 'em with divorce papers next time they have a cold
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:18 PM
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Yeah, across the board, dating is unpleasant when you're older. I For me I mean it more in the sense of the wall argument that's always discussed - fertility/beauty/etc. aren't on my side and without those, OLD has been a very different ballgame. But in general it just sucks to know you gave somebody that much time and then it ends, and suddenly you're behind the curve. Even if now you're technically a better person/prospect in a lot of ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:15 PM
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My ex left me when I got sick. We were together for 8 years and had just gotten engaged. The thing that bothers me about it is that I spent 8 years sacrificing for him - he had severe PTSD and couldn't work so I financially supported him, helped him get back on his feet, etc. And when I couldn't help him anymore but I needed the help, he split. The other part that bothers me is that as a woman, I gave him my "prime" years. We met when I was in my 20s. I was more attractive, more energetic, a mor…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:07 PM
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they are all sweet baby angels 👼
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:25 AM
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It depends on whether or not you're scared of vulnerability/intimacy/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 04:56 PM
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I get so confused by all the doomer comments on youtube videos about dating that are like "IT'S ALL OVER. NO MORE RELATIONSHIPS. NO MORE MARRIAGES. NOBODY HAS FAMILIES EVER AGAIN." How do these people not know any families? How do they not know anyone who's getting married or having kids? Where do these people live???
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:41 PM
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There are different ones, but I think the problems come from steroid-based sprays or something like Afrin that activates the sympathetic nervous system.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:29 PM
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It works really well as a decongestant, but it can cause even more congestion when it wears off and the blood vessels swell back up. So you end up in this cycle of relying on more and more of it to be able to breathe normally. Pharmacists even warn patients about using them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:17 PM
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If you do end up feeling like you can't quit, switching to a spray that's just a saline solution might help. Still clears up your nasal passages a bit, but it doen't come with the side effects or get you stuck in a cycle of relying on it to breathe.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/25 03:15 PM
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When I stick to that, it's the closest I ever get to a successful perspective change. "I can't trust the shit my brain is telling me so I'm going to treat it as an unreliable source." It's just hard to remember sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:01 PM
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now that you mention it I am in premenstrual territory, so...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 09:00 PM
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Oh that's actually really cool advice, thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:58 PM
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I genuinely have no idea how people like their appearance. I've spent years trying to be okay with how I look in the mirror/photos, but no matter how much work I do on myself, I just can't be okay with myself. Today I got my hair cut and the girl at the salon asked me if she could curl it. I said yes. She finished and told me it was pretty. Other people said it looked nice. I sent a picture to the guy I'm seeing and he said it looked good. I've been holding back tears all day because I think I l…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 08:31 PM
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I don't go swimming so I don't own swimsuits It's just "regular clothes season" for me
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 07:40 PM
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Yeah but saying "I (a random stranger online) will decide what happens to your body (with the implication of sexual violence)" is very different from "the law will dictate what the population as a whole is/is not allowed to do with their bodies"
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 04:27 PM
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worms
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:22 PM
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Every time reddit bugs out and doesn't post one of my comments, I assume that's God's way of telling me I need to shut up
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:58 PM
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live action roly-poly pudding
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 01:57 PM
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I'm not sure how many mainstream/"normal" people would be so interested in dating and gender dynamics that they'd seek out a subreddit based around debating that subject. It was always gonna be a non-mainstream crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:34 PM
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He's conventionally attractive but he looks like he'd bully me lmao. (He probably wouldn't, but in my brain conventionally attractive people = mean/unsafe)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 12:27 PM
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I've only dated guys I met through dating apps, so technically no, they weren't on my radar before expressing interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/25 02:02 AM
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The next one is gonna be like "the UN said that drowning puppies for fun is not a very nice thing to do, the US voted against this"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:21 PM
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I was watching a video essay talking about how much they're struggling to make friends and can't figure out how to integrate into their communities Not sure if that's accurate but it's really sad if it's true
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:17 PM
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You talk about boba a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 06:16 PM
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I hate most movies but yeah it's a really good one
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:52 PM
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Rogan 1000000%
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:02 PM
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People will see one picture of one meal and think "this is what that person eats every single day of their life with no variation whatsoever"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 03:01 PM
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Yours looks good, I'm feeling judgmental about this one though
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 02:59 PM
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I bought a shirt that shows off my shoulders for the first time in my life about to enter my wanton harlot era
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/25 12:07 AM
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you are wrong, everyone should be required to get a divorce after 30 days of marriage "but we love each other-" don't care shut up, ur done
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:48 PM
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Don't feel guilty. I just want to understand it. Why does it keep happening here? Why is that such a prominent belief?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:48 AM
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Why do men here keep telling me I'm incapable of basic humanity?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 11:45 AM
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I wasn't a femcel. The whole point of my comment was that I wasn't a femcel at all. I was in a bad place and adopted the label because it provided an external locus of control. I wasn't a femcel, I was depressed/not taking care of myself/not interacting with men. I apologize for whatever disconnect occurred in this conversation. I didn't express myself clearly or correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:18 AM
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It's just confusing to state that I had a problem dealing with depression and be told it wasn't actually a contributing factor to my difficulties. But I also understand that this isn't a productive conversation and it's foolish for me to share personal details on this sub, and I know that I am very likely bothering you. Thank you for taking the time to reply and attempting to explain more.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/25 12:11 AM
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I assumed everyone's scale was relative.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:39 PM
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I like the one where all three of them are kissing
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:38 PM
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That doesn't really clarify why what I said initially is problematic/damaging/warrants correction. But this might also be a matter of my autism getting in the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 10:33 PM
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The thing that gets me about these profiles is that I have no kids and nobody has nutted inside of me, but being yelled at for shit I didn't do never made me want to talk to these guys. What are they trying to accomplish by leading with "YOU'RE A BIG DUMB WHORE SLUT"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:28 PM
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Okay. My follow-up question: what would you like me to do with this information? What actionable point do I take moving forward? Is the implication that I have made a mistake that needs correcting? Do you feel I need to further alter my behavior in the present? The fact is that I no longer identify as a femcel and the identification was inherently flawed to begin with. If you feel my weight and mental health were irrelevant factors in that situation, what does that change about the situation as …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 07:19 PM
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Can someone give me tips on how to eat sardines I'm trying so hard to like them. I usually like fish but damn these lil dudes are strong
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:55 PM
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Give it three more hours and then I think you can go.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 06:01 PM
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I guess I'm confused about what exactly you're taking issue with. I essentially said "I wrongly identified as a femcel because I was pinning the blame on external forces, when in reality the forces were largely within my own control." I am not really sure what part of that is being debated here. Are you arguing that the factors I listed were not actually factors (even though, again, they were contributing to the overall mindset that was keeping me single)? Are you arguing that me eventually taki…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:58 PM
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I hope his day gets better
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:46 PM
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I had gotten sick and I had lost my ability to walk. I was in a wheelchair and got to a point where I was weak enough that I couldn't even dress myself. I lost my job and all my physical independence. I had to have a complex and very damaging surgery that took approximately two years to recover from. I only recently regained my ability to walk or function in the real world. I still can't use my right arm. What qualifies as an "actual issue" to you? What would make my resulting depression and dif…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:39 PM
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I didn't. That's the point though - I called myself a femcel while also not participating in the world in any meaningful capacity. I applied the label because I liked the idea of an external locus of control, because in my head that absolved me of the responsibility to try harder or to get better.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:35 PM
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Right. That's the point of my comment. I created the circumstances. Or I didn't work hard enough to mitigate the depression. However you'd like to take it.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:32 PM
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what is he angry about
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:32 PM
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Then use the term volcel if you'd rather. It's all the same to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:20 PM
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sort of, but I'd frame it more as "the highly restrictive force in my life was mental illness, not a lack of male attention"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:18 PM
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I identified as a femcel for a long time, but I was also deeply depressed/overweight/refused to leave the house or interact with any men/etc. Bit of a self-fulfilling prophecy.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 05:12 PM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 03:33 PM
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when what goes numb
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:40 PM
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I didn't mean that all men actually want rough sex. It's an incorrect belief that's causing me a lot of fear and difficulty, and I'd like to work through it so I can actually be physically intimate with a man at some point in the future without being terrified of him hurting me. Apologies if I phrased something badly.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 02:39 PM
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my ass is so fat u have no idea
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:59 PM
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I actually hadn't considered a sex therapist specifically, thank you for reminding me that's a thing (and thank you for the rest of the comment too! It's helpful to hear.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:57 PM
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Too much exposure to rough porn at a young age/reading too much internet rhetoric/hanging out in certain incel spaces where men talk about women in unpleasant ways/etc
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:54 PM
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I actually don't know how to get rid of my deep belief that all men want rough sex and any intimacy will inevitably lead to choking/hitting/pain People will be like "go to therapy" but idk how to even bring that up with a professional
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:49 PM
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yep. my only IG followers are my two best friends and my mom lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:45 PM
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COMMA SPLICE ⚠️🚨⚠️🚨⚠️
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:08 PM
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That's not a real rule when it comes to literary writing. (I'd also argue it's a barely a rule anymore in professional/academic writing.)
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:04 PM
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[drum sting]
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:01 PM
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lie face down in the middle of the floor for a couple of hours
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 01:00 PM
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"fundamental unsuitedness to life" really hits lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:46 AM
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Circadian rhythm in shambles 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:14 AM
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Everyone talks big game about how great daylight saving time is, but the fact that it's 7:05 AM and still dark out is making me 😡😡🤬🤬🤬
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/25 11:06 AM
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I'd pick A because I like kids/big families lol
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:08 PM
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Since this is a Q4A does that mean the government is forcing me to be a lesbian
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 03:04 PM
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Meditate. It helps you get a handle on your thoughts.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:48 PM
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Everyone says that but it's just not the same
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:35 PM
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I'm excited except I know I will have days where I want to go to bed at 8PM and the sun will still be up 😡 that's fuckin rude just let me be depressed and sleep in peace
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 02:34 PM
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I'm a certified 4 hater so I have some biases but also I swear every "I'm unlovable" fujoshi Plath-reading tumblr-posting Weird Girl I've ever met is a 4w5 The healthy ones are cool though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 01:12 PM
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If 5w4s are the incels are 4w5s the femcels
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/25 12:55 PM
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*are
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 06:31 PM
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the disrespect......we are sentencing you to man-jail where you will perform 50 years of hard man-labor for your man-crimes
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:45 PM
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good old-fashioned "nuh uh" "yuh huh" debate
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:40 PM
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head on a swivel
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:24 PM
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I guess it's just a matter of differing perspective. My definition of "pure" love is based in my spiritual upbringing (something like the concept of "agape," transcending both cognitive function and personal desire.) So I don't consider young love to be particularly pure...I actually think it actually takes a great deal of reflection/meditation/etc. to ever be able to achieve anything close to pure love.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 02:23 PM
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Just seems like it would be more fickle if it's under unstable conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:53 PM
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It's technically called "institutional housekeeping" when it's a commercial space.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:29 PM
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yeah that's why I did it, idk about other girls tho
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:27 PM
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Wouldn't "young love" be far more driven by hormonal impulses?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:23 PM
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What about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 01:08 AM
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It's all part of the test, you see Does he care enough to say "hmm that doesn't sound right"?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/25 12:30 AM
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exactly, this is the only reasonable way to determine if he is loyal or not
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:58 PM
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no body, the official story is that i was swimming in the ocean and got swallowed by a whale
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:53 PM
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faking my own death would work better imo i wanna see what he says at my funeral
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:49 PM
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one time i accidentally walked into the men's bathroom at the mall and didn't notice the urinals so i didn't realize it until i was trapped in the stall and heard male voices i had to hide for like 20 minutes until guys stopped coming in
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 11:47 PM
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TURING TEST RIGHT NOW YOU AND ME LET'S GO
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:04 PM
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I don't connect with stereotypical corporate guys either. For me it's the nerdy awkward types that work out best, anyone else just doesn't wanna talk about my interests/hobbies lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:02 PM
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tbh I don't know how you're supposed to say no if they spring that on you. "My skills are better suited to other roles" or something? I'd worry anything I said would come across as "I suck at talking to peple" lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 08:01 PM
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I've felt that way before but then I've historically had trouble connecting with (most) blue collar guys. Finding stuff we have in common/stuff to talk about has been hard with them so I kinda gave up.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:56 PM
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I just go into everything assuming it's fake. You're all bots as far as I'm concerned
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 07:52 PM
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i couldn't eat that many calories in one sitting without feeling like i'm gonna throw up. unless it was some kind of nutritional paste or something lol skill issue maybe
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 03:34 PM
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I use a few different skincare products that stretch several months if I'm conservative with them. In total they probably translate to about $10-$15 per month if I divide it all up. I try to buy really basic lotion...I think it's under $20 for a big one, lasts ages, I don't remember the last time I had to buy it lol. I don't go to the spa or get massages, don't get my nails done, get my hair cut about once a year.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 12:48 AM
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Do you ever have tea parties with your dolls If not, you should
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 10:23 PM
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Do you mean "exaggerate"?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:44 PM
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Staring at the floor and not making eye contact will also do the trick
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 09:05 PM
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the sun is a star though, not a planet answer rejected
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:44 PM
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what's your favorite planet besides earth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:43 PM
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I would do an AMA but my deepest fear is nobody caring enough to ask me any questions
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 06:38 PM
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what about his ass
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 04:54 PM
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If your SO turned into a Kafka bug would you still love him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:18 PM
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I figured he could just stick it in his car. We'd be driving between places, not walking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:12 PM
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If you've been talking to a guy for ~3 months before meeting (it's long distance), is it okay to give him a gift for your first "real life" date? I want to give him a succulent because he said he doesn't have any houseplants and he'd like to try taking care of one. But I don't want to be weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/25 03:03 PM
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Does AI guzzle cum?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 08:54 PM
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hmm
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:53 PM
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no I'm one of those people who almost had a 4.0 except for one fuckin French class and I'm bitter about it It was the only thing standing between me and perfection
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 04:02 PM
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I was so close to that, but then I got an A- in Intermediate French. I'm bad at languages :(
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:57 PM
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Everyone does, I'm emotionally and mentally stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:54 PM
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I skew my range in favor of older (35-55)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:52 PM
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Too young for me but otherwise yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:46 PM
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"Don't text too much early on" is weak and pitiful "Send each other multi-paragraph infodump essays about your special interests/hyperfixations" is the way
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:55 PM
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the subs for wholesome hobbies are full of them why aren't you looking there
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:30 PM
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I try very hard to be a robot who is removed from silly shallow biology, but damn, "man lift heavy thing" gets me every time 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:43 PM
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Oh. No I was just born unlucky lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:07 AM
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No I was just born ugly
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:05 AM
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What if you're in a terrible disfiguring car accident
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 03:04 AM
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Okay. You live in a very different world than I do.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:58 AM
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I don't think people in their 30s are doing so great tbf
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 02:47 AM
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Not a turnoff at all
/r/PurplePillDebate05/03/25 01:48 AM
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his dad gave me the bush so he needs to stop worrying about it
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:24 PM
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"the person who said they didn't take a shower or wipe their ass for 6 years might be trolling about it"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:21 PM
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I just personally enjoy the feeling of a poopy butthole let's not kinkshame
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:19 PM
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Yeah you're right like I told the other commenter I actually haven't taken a shower or wiped myself for 6 years You've all got me figured out
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:16 PM
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Pretty much except I don't have a bandolier
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:15 PM
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You're right I actually haven't bathed or wiped myself for 6 years either 😞
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:14 PM
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Well good thing I washed regularly and thoroughly
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:11 PM
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Did I say I didn't shower for 6 years?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 07:10 PM
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Yeah. Who was gonna see it and care? God? Ghosts?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:55 PM
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nah I don't have that kinda money. Gonna have to do this the old-fashioned way
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:53 PM
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I haven't shaved any part of my body since 2019. Gotta start doing it again now that I have a guy to impress. I'm not looking forward to this process.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:51 PM
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I have an explanation for most of my nausea but otherwise I am nailing this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:34 PM
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men aren't ready to hear this
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:33 PM
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SMOKED GOUDA
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:32 PM
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If his BMI ain't at least 29 I don't want him ❌
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 06:15 PM
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I just found a little roasted bug in my bag of veggie chips Makes me wonder how many of these I have inadvertently eaten over the course of my life
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:23 PM
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itt men acting like they'd wither away and become dust if they had to eat cheese and tomatoes
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 04:14 PM
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"The whole batch of 18 was destroyed while being shipped from one clinic to another." Damn, do they at least give you a refund for shit like that???
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:35 PM
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I get what he's going for, but it's kind of a stupid thing to say to someone who's up to their eyeballs in pregnancy hormones
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:29 PM
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I think it all depends on how people metabolize their experiences, or what they actually do with their baggage. I'm an older woman and I've been through some pretty difficult situations (romantic and otherwise). Those difficulties have refined me into an individual who is more empathetic, more patient, more openly communicative, a better listener, more curious, more reflective...but I know it can easily skew the other way for people, if they don't make the choice to examine their baggage and fig…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:04 PM
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He'd make a good match imo. I do most of that stuff daily.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:15 AM
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I pretended I had a 10+ inch one and I got normie too
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/25 02:14 AM
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are you guys going to meet up and have sperm competitions
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 11:00 PM
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that's the joke
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:36 PM
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second
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 10:04 PM
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In my 30s. Normal weight but disabled/have a spinal deformity, as a result I am invisible to most men (never been approached before or anything like that.) I've started dating a guy who seems to think I'm pretty, but it took me a long time to find someone who can tolerate my body.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 07:24 PM
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Actually yeah, he was using nicotine gum before we first met then he gave it up and went back to smoking a lot
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:14 PM
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I was with a smoker for a while and I could barely kiss him because the smell was so bad. I couldn't figure out how to get over that part
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:02 PM
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I got downvoted a while back for saying people are selected for extraversion in almost every aspect of society lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 04:00 PM
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Because I have functioning eyeballs to compare myself to standards of beauty, and I'm not naive. I know how men act around pretty/sexy women and it's a far cry from how they act around me.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:54 PM
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Because I'm ugly lol. But I have a traditionally feminine personality - nurturing/caretaking/submissive/quiet/all that stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 03:46 PM
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I've never posted there lol I just lurk, but based on the vibe I'd imagine it's relatively safe from that!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:39 PM
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Hey now...I'm a low-value woman and I'm traditionally feminine. The metric isn't that simple.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:35 PM
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oldhagfashion is so good
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 02:32 PM
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While I'm not arguing that both genders are not equally clueless (they for sure are), my question is: are these two types of cluelessness equivalent when it comes to the sexual pleasure of your partner? Is a male's sexual pleasure dependent upon his female partner correctly identifying and manipulating the foreskin? For me, the criticism is understandable when a sexual partner is unwilling to identify or interact with the anatomy that lots of women depend upon for orgasm. Likewise I think it's j…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:19 PM
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"Basically torture" - is it really that hard to buy someone a gift card or something? She's just talking about being the only one who didn't get a gift, not about dragging someone through the whole ritual
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:48 PM
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Oh you were being sarcastic Autism wins again, my bad
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:26 AM
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I wasn't trying to talk shit. I was just answering a Q4W. I'm sorry if I said something upsetting or rude.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:18 AM
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I don't know, I've always been up against my insurance company denying everything and requiring prior authorization. At one point after a potential real diagnosis was finally discussed, my doctor said they'd be unlikely to approve an MRI so he was hesitant to order it. I had to get sort of pushy to make it happen. The insurance company also refused to provide certain treatments even after my official diagnosis. Maybe it all depends on which company you have.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 09:14 AM
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At least in the US I think lots of doctors are also up against insurance companies not wanting to pay for "unnecessary" imaging/tests, so they probably try to avoid them as much as possible. Medical care is all just a big pile of shit sometimes lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:13 AM
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I was told that I couldn't move my neck because I had "extreme anxiety causing a functional movement disorder" when actually my bones were fusing together from severe arthritis. Which they could have determined with imaging but they just didn't wanna check I guess I don't know if it's specific to women, but it's really fucking annoying to have an actual physical problem get pinned on mental illness
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 08:06 AM
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u can do anything if u believe in urself ✨
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 01:03 AM
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I never have been. I think it depends on how much women go out/how much they make themselves available...I assume it's a pretty wide spectrum with more extroverted/open women who go out to clubs/bars/etc. getting approached fairly frequently. I'm not sure there is any meaningful "in general" estimate.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:57 AM
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Yep
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:44 AM
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Asparagus and okra!!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/25 12:09 AM
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They are the third best vegetable
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:49 PM
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Idk I didn't feel it for a guy when I saw his pictures, I just thought he might have potential, but then I felt it pretty strongly when I actually saw him for real Does that count as "developing over time"?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:38 PM
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Is Bad Batch good? I liked TCW but haven't given it a shot yet
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:39 PM
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Can I just opt out and not talk to anyone ever again
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:38 PM
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I'm honestly not sure what mine have been. I didn't kiss anyone until I was well into adulthood, haven't done much sexually, only ever had enough to drink to feel kind of tipsy which freaked me out so I stopped. I also don't really know how to flirt so I don't do it lol. I've been through lots of heavy/painful stuff that was pretty formative though. Injury, illness, poverty, people I love dying, that kind of thing. That helped me grow a whole hell of a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 10:35 PM
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It isn't important to me. None of that stuff sounds fun to me lol. I'd rather be doing something quiet and calm.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:25 PM
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People with breeding kinks are so fuckin funny to me. "Oh fuck yeah sex for its biologically intended purpose hnnnggghhh-"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:18 PM
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I refuse to accept that as an S
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 09:04 PM
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I have tried so hard to figure out what bungee 8 says and I can't do it. Read in Ynarish???
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:24 PM
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I read this as you asking guys what their own bodies are like and it makes the answers really funny
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:22 PM
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We all know too much about each other
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 07:19 PM
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Yeah, I try to do a lot of pre-selection to make sure it's a guy who could conceivably like me. Can't be out of my league, can't have a life that seems too active/exciting, can't sound too good to be true, has to be clearly putting effort into finding someone, etc. It's not worth opening that door because I've heard too many horror stories about how it ends.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:48 PM
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I have a spinal deformity and I pass on men who I assume would reject me or seem like they'd be rude/weird about it, even if I'm attracted to them. Not so much pickiness as "this isn't worth getting into because I don't think he could handle my situation."
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 05:44 PM
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Okay but can they still march and fight when they're 4 inches tall
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 02:08 PM
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We can both sit in silence. He won't care if I'm not sexy/flirty. He won't get mad at me for being autistic and not emoting enough. 10/10.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:42 PM
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I don't have access to that information
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:34 PM
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Make them bug-sized and I will put them in a terrarium fitted with fixtures for their enrichment and feed them small seeds and chunks of fruit
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:23 PM
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I'm 5'7" so can't relate I was thinking more like...heavy labor/industrial jobs/military jobs/etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:13 PM
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gonna get lung cancer 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:12 PM
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I'm a good writer and I'm just mid. Not even quirky/unconventional 😢
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:10 PM
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That feels like it would come with a lot of logistical consequences so no
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:09 PM
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I want that keyboard
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 12:07 PM
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I'm kinda wholesome
/r/PurplePillDebate02/03/25 11:00 AM
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Being impregnated by anyone is my worst fear. Maybe that means I view every male as an irrelevant beta male.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 05:48 PM
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An interesting facet of it for me is that I have been told what I "should" find attractive (think stereotypical Chad-types) but I never experienced any sexual attraction to that type whatsoever. So when men talked about "raw attraction" or immediate sexual interest and connected it with "all women are attracted to Brad Pitt" or whatever, it sounded fake to me. Then I met a strongman powerlifter type who's shaped like a rectangle and suddenly my brain/body were like "OH, that's what attraction fe…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 03:09 PM
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Charisma doesn't add depth or substance to a conversation. It just adds polish. That's how I usually figure it out - is the person actually saying anything that's indicative of critical thought/reflection, or is it all surface-level? In the case of shyness/social anxiety, I think it still applies. Separate what they're saying from the delivery and analyze the content.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:35 PM
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Tbh I don't associate with many guys. But he's the most attractive one I've interacted with in a long time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:31 PM
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I've had the best luck with guys who are smart in areas that I don't naturally enjoy. Someone who has high visuospatial intelligence, is more competent in mathematical thinking, is a better strategist, etc. I just don't have the patience to apply myself in those areas anymore, so I can let the guy take the reins and compliment him on it a bunch. I think that makes it feel less competitive when I'm back on my own intellectual bullshit lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:26 PM
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I can't be an IQ hypergamist because I'm too smart, I'd have no dating pool 😔Gotta settle for all these dum-dums
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:12 PM
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If you're the only person they've been with then you're both the most attractive and also least attractive by default.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 02:07 PM
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I actually kind of understand raw attraction now because I think I experienced immediate sexual attraction to a man for the first time in my life That's growth
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:28 PM
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It's very easy to not write mean words about people and it's very easy to not hurt people in real life. Anyone who does either is exhibiting a weakness of character
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 01:12 PM
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I was talking to a guy who had a chlorophyll allergy - not pickiness, but it meant he couldn't eat anything green. Very few veggies/herbs, lots of fruits weren't an option. I didn't get the ick about it because I think that's fake shit, and I felt very sorry for him...but I did decide I probably wouldn't be able to make that relationship work. I want to be the one who does the cooking/meal planning and not being able to use produce or herbs would have been incredibly depressing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/25 12:44 PM
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In my case I think it's because a male family member had sex with me when I was 3 years old. That kinda messes you up :)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:58 PM
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This is what I wanna know too.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:56 PM
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Just be more precise with your next hypothetical. Live and learn.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:55 PM
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I never feel raw attraction for anyone but I'm still very low maintenance and frugal. I'd rather just hang out with a guy and play video games than go somewhere impressive. I don't think those things are connected.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 02:23 PM
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1
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:15 PM
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Not ick, that's preferable imo
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:43 AM
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I would wonder why he was rhyming
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:40 AM
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Openness 96, conscientiousness 35, extraversion 27, agreeableness 94, neuroticism 77
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:40 AM
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First times can be kind of painful if you aren't properly aroused/prepared for them. Plus I have a lot of joint/muscle issues the guy will have to be very patient with, I can't just do wild athletic sex and I can't trust men I don't know to understand that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:27 AM
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How are you supposed to guarantee a stranger doesn't physically hurt you
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:18 AM
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The thought of my first time being with some dude I've only spent a couple of hours hanging out and who I barely even know is terrifying, sorry lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 11:13 AM
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Now that I think about it, for me dressing modestly is probably an old habit from growing up fat I've lost a bunch weight over the years but I still gotta keep all my shit covered, can't have anyone examining or thinking about my body 👎
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:55 AM
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Yeah I dress like a grandma and this is accurate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:47 AM
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I dress modestly all the time but it's mostly just because I hate drawing any attention to myself. I'd rather fly under the radar.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 03:12 AM
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That stuff about them being "harder to quit than heroin" is just goofy I quit mine cold turkey, had some brain zaps/dizziness and cried a lot for a couple of weeks, then I was fine. Easy shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:33 AM
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I prefer my attraction to be medium rare
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/25 01:30 AM
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2025 is the year I finally learn how to be sexy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:53 PM
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Mix of some nerds, some southern evangelical church guys
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:21 PM
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Okay. Do you like Pokemon
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:19 PM
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All the guys I know seem to be in the 1-2 range
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:16 PM
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I'm ugly 🤢
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:12 PM
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I don't think you'd like intimacy from me very much
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:11 PM
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If I had to judge men based on how they acted in ppd comments I'd never willingly interact with them because I'd assume they all violently despise me but actually you probably do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 08:08 PM
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I hope your stuff gets better!
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:46 PM
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Can't wait until a guy tells me that 😔🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:42 PM
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Treatment for what
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:40 PM
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Yeah I can handle the cross-dressing but if he was saying "mommy" in front of the server or something I'd probably kms So B
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:17 PM
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I'm sorry I oppressed u
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:41 PM
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Is he saying "mommy" where someone else can hear it
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:40 PM
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Visual kei pilled
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 06:34 PM
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Hey, very sincerely, thank you for this. I do not often see very genuine comments in this sub and I really appreciate this a lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:31 PM
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Maybe. I wouldn't know, I've never experienced a dick before lol. Outside of handjobs and stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:28 PM
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yyyeeeeaaaaahhhhhhh there is that
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:05 PM
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Never penetrative sex. Plus I had some bad shit happen as a kid that makes my feeling towards sex very complicated.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 04:00 PM
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I have to figure out if I'm sexually attracted to anyone period. Some days I am. Some days I'm not.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:58 PM
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Sometimes I do, but I also don't know him very well yet so I am kinda scared of the whole concept
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:57 PM
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It's "am I low libido or am I a closeted lesbian" hours again I really gotta get this sorted before I go any further with this guy
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:56 PM
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How do you breed AI
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:37 PM
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I guess that makes sense. So you select for women who sleep with you on the first date?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 03:33 PM
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Another question, how will you know if a woman is experiencing raw attraction or a different type of attraction? Assuming the attraction all leads to her having sex with you - what separates them that you would experience from your perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:34 PM
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Yeah but my point is that's a very basic "adult responsibility" that you managed to miss. Other people might have checked first. Adult responsibility stuff isn't always easy to keep up with. And mine was out because of a hurricane but you're right, I should have repaired the entire city's grid myself 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:25 PM
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This is all like a different world to me, it's really interesting. I just wouldn't ever think about this stuff. But then I don't have much of a sex drive so maybe that's why
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:23 PM
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"Adult responsibilities" bro didn't you just go 5 months without realizing you had to pay your utility bill...?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:19 PM
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Why is it bad if a woman is deeply attracted to you but it isn't raw attraction? What are you losing out on? What changes about the dynamic of the relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 02:18 PM
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I've never felt attracted to someone I hate, because I hate them lol. They aren't attractive to me if I hate them. They are unattractive. If I see someone with good features and I don't know them well enough to either hate or dislike them, I may categorize them under "aesthetically pleasing" but there is no sexual component behind that. Any sexual assessment is entirely dependent on other assessments, it just will not occur before I have additional information about their viability as a partner.…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:42 AM
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It's the same as regular attraction I don't feel Raw Attraction or Extra Special Super Duper Fancy Attraction or Attraction: Tokyo Drift or whatever the fuck It's all just attraction
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/25 07:32 AM
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A man just told me Happy Valentine's Day. I've done it, PPD. I have begun my ascension. I will never forget you.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:31 PM
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the PPD tribunal will tell you the same thing
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:26 PM
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I'm never funny
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:10 PM
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A f-f-fallacy???? In the daily thread??? In the most intellectually rigorous of debate spaces???? Oh!!! Oh!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:04 PM
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Women in Afghanistan will be happy to know they're having the easiest time ever (in before "I'm obviously not talking about them," once again the definition of "women" in PPD is comically microscopic)
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 01:02 PM
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aw shucks I was gonna cheat today
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:02 PM
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Me: modern psychology is way more rigorous and accurate, I'm glad the field has grown and improved so much, the older stuff is a little silly and doesn't hold up well, I do not put much stock in it Me reading Jung: HE'S SO RIGHT!!!! HE'S SO RIGHT!!!!!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 11:59 AM
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But then shouldn't "both" be higher than it is for men? Only 20% in "both" while spontaneous-only has 75% is what I find so confusing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 05:46 AM
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Idk I'm gonna be a fuckin wreck when my grandma died because she practically raised me, I hang out with her every day, I cook dinner for her and eat with her every night. She's a huge part of my everyday life
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 03:46 AM
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You misunderstand me. I am an ugly little garbage goblin who does not consider my physical appearance nor my aesthetic in any of my choices. You would throw up if you saw me in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/25 12:03 AM
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I have never really thought about my visual presentation tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:21 PM
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I made country ham and biscuits for dinner and now I think I need to drink 1000 gallons of water
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:09 PM
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what aesthetic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 11:07 PM
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I don't shave but I also really don't want to be eaten out or anything. The less contact the better tbh
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 10:25 PM
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It's not too clear for me. I'm disabled so I'd have to find a career that accommodates me, which might be difficult. (But he says he's not bothered by the disability, which hopefully means he also understands the earning potential issues.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:19 PM
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I lived without electricity for 2+ weeks after a hurricane last fall and that's the thought that kept me going lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 07:00 PM
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now that I think about it, that might have been the steak guy before he got banned PPD users all blur together in an amorphous blob
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:55 PM
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I keep thinking about a few days ago when you commented saying you're really normal in real life and I just struggle to believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:33 PM
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That's asking a lot from me tbh, but I'm trying my damnedest
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:29 PM
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I'm nervous for the guy I'm talking to to figure out how little money I have He knows I don't make as much as him but I don't think he knows just how big the gap is. He was talking about getting dinner with family the other night at a fancy place and he ordered lobster/steak. My below-poverty-level ass could never
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:25 PM
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I don't understand how there are men who don't have responsive desire If their partner starts kissing them/touching them they're just 😐 ???? They don't respond at all and only want to initiate spontaneously?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 06:17 PM
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I don't know how I'm supposed to feel lust/raw attraction for any guy before I actually get to know him I know I'm not the norm but I still don't understand how the norm works lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 05:10 PM
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women 😠 men 😠 little fat birds eating seeds ☺️
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:34 PM
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I'm like a 2. With social anxiety yes
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:30 PM
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All the Teto posts are making me happy
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:36 PM
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that party sounds amazing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:22 PM
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I imagine this would be more dependent on individual temperament than on gender
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:21 PM
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I don't think I have ever encountered that specifically but I am very attracted to men who are deeply focused on their hobbies/passions
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:35 PM
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They'll never stop me 😤
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:19 PM
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I'd get that if it was actually an opinion, but it's usually just me sharing dumb little stories about my life in daily
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:19 PM
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downvotes here confuse me because I never know if I actually said something stupid or if people are just mad at me for existing
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:10 PM
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"But these studies showed all women having physiological arousal to virtually any kind of sexual response" I'm saying this is not accurate for all women. I rarely experience any physiological arousal to anything sexual, if I do it is when I am asleep/dreaming.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 01:05 PM
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All my male friends are either elderly (in which case I probably met them through church and they're my friends because I like them as people), or they're married to my female friends (so maybe I wouldn't know them without the mutual connection, but again, I like them as people.)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:45 PM
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I told him, he said he liked me but wasn't ready for a relationship (but apparently he was lol, I now recognize that is just the male version of friendzoning)
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:36 PM
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Today is the anniversary of finding out that the guy I had a massive crush on for 2 years had decided to become a Passport Bro and met someone in Vietnam I cried a lot. Kind of embarrassing in retrospect lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:14 PM
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How am I using my friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:09 PM
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yeah he had just had his wedding 😔
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:05 PM
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Damn. He managed to be both my favorite person here and my least favorite person here on a nearly daily basis
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:05 PM
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They don't usually experience physiological arousal at all though
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:01 PM
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The "choose better" stuff makes me kind of sad because my first relationship was a very bad one. I didn't know what lovebombing was, I didn't know the red flags were that bad, I was just happy that somebody was willing to be with me. By the time I realized it had gone to shit, it was hard to get out of because our lives were very intwined. Maybe other people are just born knowing all that stuff or something, but I don't understand how you're supposed to identify manipulative behavior before you …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:31 AM
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Lol same. I'm likely to cave at the first hint of disagreement
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:12 AM
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Nah it would be funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:10 AM
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I'm getting to know a guy from TN right now and his accent is so, so good. I'm from NC and I usually cover my own accent up, but talking with him brings it out lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 03:00 AM
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If we both like cooking then that means I'll have to wash dishes after they cook. Versus me doing all the cooking and them washing all the dishes, which is in fact the ideal dynamic
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 12:11 AM
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Do you like legos 🫦
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:48 PM
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Who would do better on the dating market: the paperclip from Microsoft Office or that purple gorilla spyware from the early 2000s
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:24 PM
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what about asexual women
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 10:05 PM
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Do you like cheesesteaks
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:42 PM
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Ah yes. It was very frustrating when they did not do the sport well.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:41 PM
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General Kenobi
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:35 PM
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hello did you see the sports game
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:32 PM
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idk how to talk to neurotypical men. "How about this weather we are having, did you see the sports game"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 09:17 PM
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Maybe getting upset with a stranger about their mask and trying to start a fight about vaccines isn't what they mean by "put yourself out there"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:40 PM
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btw how is your wife doing
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:23 PM
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Good god that price. Does it make the food cure cancer or something??
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:16 PM
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Exactly. If we all just thought them and didn't comment, we'd probably all be a lot happier.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:11 PM
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Everyone in PPD should start thinking our arguments and responses to each other
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:07 PM
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Replying telepathically? Using body language to convey his Extreme Logic?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:02 PM
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You really just say words sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 08:01 PM
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You just said he was "using logical arguments"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:59 PM
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What argument is he presenting? He's not even saying anything
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:58 PM
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No
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:52 PM
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I didn't know anyone was talking shit about my pussy 😭
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:26 PM
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"The juice isn't worth the squeeze" is a good thing for both men and women to keep in mind
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:13 PM
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Roommate pooping with the door open would be wild
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:10 PM
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Deaths/illnesses I get but idgaf who's getting married or having a baby or whatever. I'll say congrats in person but that's it
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:09 PM
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Left-leaning subs are like "DOGE is selling everyone's identity on the dark web and the GOP just declared it legal to hunt poor people for sport" and right-leaning subs are like "GULF OF AMERICA 🦅🔥🦅🔥🦅🔥 GULF OF AMERICA 🦅🔥🦅🔥🦅🔥" This country feels so fuckin goofy right now
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 07:06 PM
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that much snot sounds like a medical issue
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:59 PM
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you never know, you might get lucky and find one of us mids who never got pumped and dumped
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 06:52 PM
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Yes, it's a point I see frequently from pro-natalist individuals. It was just very unfortunate wording.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:54 PM
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"Women will be replaced by ethics" really implies that the second category is not the first. "Ethnics" will replace "women," therefore they are not "women" (or they would not be replacing them.)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:39 PM
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idk dude, I generally consider ethnic women to still be women...but if you wanna consider them something else, then I guess I can't stop you. But it's fuckin weird.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:29 PM
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did you really just use the term "ethnics"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:10 PM
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I'm saying I can't have children so if you're upset about how I'm personally making your children's life harder in the future, sorry, I don't know how to solve that particular problem apart from erasing myself from existence I never said anything about women or pickiness but believe what you'd like
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:03 PM
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i'm infertile so you can just execute me i guess
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:52 PM
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tits out for the holy sacarament of marriage. as it should be
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:45 PM
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be nice enough to people that they say "hey do you want to hang out sometime"
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:44 PM
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Is that what she wore for the wedding
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 01:41 PM
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It's ok, I actually don't process emotions, I just pretend like I do
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 03:14 AM
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I know 😔 Hang in there, lil buddy
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:39 AM
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She had a hysterectomy, sorry. You're too late.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:28 AM
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I'm an only child
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:20 AM
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I'd argue that men's sex noises are equally dumb. Humans sound very cringey during sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:16 AM
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Then what does it mean if we don't make any noise
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/25 02:12 AM
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🫡
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:15 PM
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It is very brave for you to use blue pill flair again after the cruel and unusual punishment you endured
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 07:12 PM
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I disagree that "any smart woman will be a career woman." I'm highly educated but ended up unable to continue my career due to severe chronic illness. It's not always a matter of mental issues or laziness. I have tried to compensate for my situation with domestic skills - cooking/cleaning/nurturing/etc., because I do understand that I need to bring something to the table. But there really is no issue with my intelligence or mental capacity.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 06:35 PM
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You just gotta have a can-do attitude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:43 PM
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I had a funko pop on my desk at my old job, it worked wonders for making me the IT favorite
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:41 PM
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Okay I see. It's a whole carefully cultivated experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:40 PM
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We actually have several million holes if you count pores
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:39 PM
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Why are you announcing that you're gonna say a thing and then announcing that you said it Like why not just say it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:27 PM
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Conservatives be like "history and tradition is very important except when it's a name I don't personally enjoy 😿"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:23 PM
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same but it's one I've decided I have to live with. Too hard to find people here who don't do it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:20 PM
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lmao damn that wave-off from the first guy was brutal
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:17 PM
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I'm tired of changing the names of shit
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 02:10 PM
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Yeah I'm not saying whether it's right or wrong, just that he does in fact have access to information
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:54 AM
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He is probably basing it off your comment history
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 11:50 AM
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Yeah, I'm watching it now. I need to get him to explain more of it to me. I have fun with the stuff in between matches and I've gotten attached to some people, but the action itself is always disorienting for me
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:41 AM
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I have tried so hard to get into WWE because a lot of the guys I've liked have watched it, but god it's hard I don't get it. I just don't. It's so loud and so confusing and I want to go to bed...but I'm gonna power through and watch it/talk about it with this boy 😔 maybe I will finally learn to love it
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:33 AM
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Why do you think it's over my head?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/25 01:05 AM
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Right, but you seemed to be talking about narrative depth and complexity.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 11:31 PM
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I would not pick that as my example of a particularly thought-provoking or impactful film but you do you
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:52 PM
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How are you gonna make 3 kids in one year
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 10:49 PM
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Okay that makes sense. My ideal is a 9ft tall Minotaur but I would accept shorter non-Minotaurs
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:35 PM
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Getting that specific is kind of crazy Like what makes 6 inches so much better than 5 inches
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:29 PM
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11 is such a good number wtf are you talking about???? It is so much better than 10???????
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 09:26 PM
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I remember back in the day when bandit and smarmy and a bunch of other "cool kids" had a private server history repeats itself
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:59 PM
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It would make me laugh a lot but I am not a good standard for measuring such things
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 07:23 PM
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Calling any nose "bad" is weird to me. The range goes from "really attractive" to "normal/unremarkable"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:36 PM
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Hooked nose, hawk nose, broken/crooked nose does a world of good for a lot of faces
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:11 PM
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YEAH
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 05:03 PM
1

He looks like the tsundere otome option
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:56 PM
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Men don't like average women Women don't like average men It's over for averagecels
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:55 PM
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Yeah, I'd honestly be a little worried if he was falling all over himself to skip work and meet me ASAP. We talk a lot every day, play video games every few nights, etc. so it's not like he's completely phoning it in. He just seems like a functional adult with responsibilities lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 04:10 PM
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I've spent about a month talking to a guy who lives a few hours away. We haven't had time to meet up yet - we're tentatively looking at spring, once he finishes his busy work season. Today my friend said she feels like he's "not prioritizing me" because he isn't pushing to set something up in person sooner. Maybe I'm missing something but why is he supposed to "prioritize" someone he hasn't even met yet over his daily life
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:56 PM
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high school was an actual nightmare
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 03:49 PM
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use an air horn on them
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:49 PM
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The number comes from UNICEF but it doesn't matter, you've convinced me, the world is not so bad, thanks for the debate, have a good one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:38 PM
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A gold star sticker
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:35 PM
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😔
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:35 PM
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I'm not mean enough to get banned
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:35 PM
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Yeah this is a new one
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:32 PM
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You're right, the world is not so bad. Idk why I was concerned with starving children ahahah
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:30 PM
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I have received one single "be civil" in my entire PPD tenure (beginning approximately 2022) I'm not saying I'm the perfect user, but I'm very close
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:21 PM
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Saying the world "is not so bad" when 45 million* children do not have the food they need is insane. But perhaps you feel differently and view it as a great success. In which case, congrats! The world is beautiful and perfect. 🥳 *edit because I initially read 36 million, turns out it's higher
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 02:18 PM
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Yeah, I'm already kind of ugly so getting uglier won't change much. Neither will height. But becoming more confident and charismatic would change a whole lot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:31 PM
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then why don't you stop running it with women and fix it
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 01:14 PM
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An estimated 45 million* children worldwide are malnourished. *edit because I initially read 36 million, turns out it's higher
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/25 12:50 PM
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Which one got banned 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:59 PM
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I get the Steaks confused
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:56 PM
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why are you happy about that
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:09 PM
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are you ever happy about anything
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 08:07 PM
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what happened last week to make everybody leave
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:55 PM
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I will never understand how people enjoy taking pictures of themselves. How do you look at them without being consumed by self-loathing
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:24 PM
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I don't use Instagram and I'm too autistic to be friends with anybody
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/25 07:16 PM
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his waist looks very fragile
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 02:01 PM
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😔🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:58 PM
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If you're in the "talking phase" with a guy are you expected to acknowledge Valentine's Day or can I just pretend it doesn't exist
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:57 PM
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what if you were an ugly woman
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:53 PM
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Do you like any baked goods? I can provide those as extra incentive
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:10 PM
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My new life goal is to get on this list
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 01:08 PM
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damn
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:36 PM
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That's a pretty serious thing to compromise your boundaries over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:30 PM
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you can practice on me if you need to, I'm very mentally ill and I give good constructive criticism
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:23 PM
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Which then leads me to the question: if someone is that terribly worried about asset protection, isn't marriage is a poor choice for them to begin with? They could save themselves a lot of trouble and just not do it at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:19 PM
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All the ones on the left look like children. Identifying as an incel that young is crazy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:07 PM
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I thought inheritance was already considered separate property? Or maybe it depends on the state/country. It is here.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:03 PM
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how much money do people here make to be so concerned about prenups I grew up working class, I'm still surrounded by working class people in real life, and I never hear anyone breathe a word about prenups. I always assumed you didn't mess with them until you had several million worth of income/assets to worry about Are you all actually millionaires 😳
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 11:56 AM
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I don't. I'm not sure if I'll ever have one so it's not worth the energy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 04:14 AM
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I have to have a mental breakdown every 30 days
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:37 AM
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I mean, regardless of who you think I am, I've only had one boyfriend who I lived with for 8 years and we broke up 5 years ago. Now I'm talking to a new guy after several years of being terrified of OLD. And I'm hoping it actually works out but I'm scared it won't - hence my original comment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:34 AM
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But Valentine's Day is on a Friday. My church will be closed :(
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:32 AM
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Autistic 👍
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:31 AM
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I'm sauropodax lol, idk who the peepee/poopoo fetish person is. I just picked this to make fun of pills in general
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:29 AM
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I had a boyfriend I lived with 5 years ago but idk if I've talked about that here. Maybe I have?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:19 AM
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🤝
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:05 AM
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If things do not work out with this man I am going to hurl myself into the sun
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/25 12:01 AM
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You have thousands of what
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 11:58 PM
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idk but I hate them because now I gotta try to live up to that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:46 PM
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He was a cummelier 🤌
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:44 PM
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aww that's kind of sweet
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:35 PM
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I knew a guy who kept a cum towel under his bed and never washed it I've always wondered why that is. Laziness? Sentimentality?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 10:32 PM
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bake a pie for my elderly neighbor who has cancer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:22 PM
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Hot. I'm a freak and I don't like cold drinks lol, they're too stimulating
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:12 PM
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that's a lot of throw up
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 04:11 PM
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Yeah, I see no reason to sit near a table full of men if I don't need to. It's not a "gender war" thing, I don't have any ill feelings towards them. I just don't want to invite any attention or conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:20 PM
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tbh I wouldn't want a guy to kiss me after eating me out, I just don't like the idea of it. And so I wouldn't expect to kiss after giving him head. It only takes a few seconds to run and rinse your mouth out so... (But that's also a boundary I'd probably mention prior to the oral, to avoid a moment like this)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 03:15 PM
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Yeah, I watched some extreme stuff when I was probably too young to process it correctly. It made intercourse look like something that was meant to hurt and be rather violent.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 02:23 PM
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I would have been a lot better off if I'd done that lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:51 PM
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Not sure yet. Met a guy who is taking things very slowly and is understanding. Might still panic once we actually try, but I hope that now I am aware enough to be able to work through that panic.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:48 PM
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I'm realizing that watching too much porn when I was younger is part of what caused my fear of/aversion to intercourse. It always made it look very painful and extreme.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:42 PM
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So for people who don't want to have sex, do you think it's a matter of their desires and needs not aligning? Like they do actually need it and just fail to recognize it?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:07 PM
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can men not go do pilates anymore
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 01:00 PM
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once you settle into a major you really do get to know the professors well. the upper-level classes tend to be smaller and allow for good connections
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/25 12:50 AM
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A great deal of classic literature is fiction. It's ridiculous to act like there's nothing of value in novels.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:18 PM
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can't relate, there is nothing better than a very excited/earnest/borderline cringey dude who lets me be excited/earnest/borderline cringey back at him
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 11:02 PM
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The one in the blue and the one in the green, yeah. Red/purple aren't my type.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 10:55 PM
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Okay but why did "girlies" become a thing versus just "girls"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:54 PM
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why have people started saying "girlies" so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 06:52 PM
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Could be. A significant portion of people experience depression/anxiety/etc. Not sure if there's an effective way to screen for such mental conditions based on profiles alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:33 PM
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A guy I had liked happened to match/message me when I was really depressed so I ignored him, assuming he'd just move on to somebody else. He double messaged me a few days later saying he'd really like to get to know me. I felt better by then so I apologized for not answering and explained I was going through a rough patch, then we started chatting and had a really strong connection. I really like him so far. That initial match/message was just terrible timing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 05:29 PM
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I have never left a restaurant review in my life and I probably never will
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:56 PM
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Not necessarily, I have met a lot of guys who haven't, and several of my female friends haven't. But I tend to talk to nerdy/shy/awkward people.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:42 PM
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How are you supposed to avoid the subject though? I've had a lot of people point-blank ask me if I've had a relationship before, at which point I feel like I have to say "yes, it lasted this long and we broke up for [insert reason here]." I guess I could say I don't want to talk about it, but that seems weirder?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 04:36 PM
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Right. So to me, it makes sense to wait and meet someone when I know I'll be able to say all of those things with my mannerisms and facial expressions. Versus meeting someone when I will be too nervous to say any of those things, or constantly questioning all of my natural mannerisms and expressions to a point where I refuse to use them. A person who is a stranger meets a very abridged and edited version of me in real life. A person who I have already established a connection with gets a more au…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 03:24 PM
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But when I know someone, I am my full self around them. So why not get comfortable enough to showcase my full self prior to meeting them? Instead of just showing them my weird "you're a stranger and I don't like you" side?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:38 PM
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I never understood this line of thinking. I'm far more myself in written form - I actually share my thoughts/feelings, compared to in person where I am so concerned with "performing" appropriately and people-pleasing that I am basically a robot with no personality. When talking to a stranger, I can comfortably share far more of myself in multi-paragraph texts/phone calls/etc. than I can in person. But maybe others are the opposite.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 02:30 PM
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Maybe I will start asking all the people I meet who live in my town if we can pretend we live three hours apart
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:28 PM
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Just about decided I'll have to stick with LDRs because they're the only way someone will talk enough before wanting to meet. If someone wants to meet after a few days of messages, I have trouble convincing myself to go because I don't care about them at all...staying home is easier. If someone wants to meet after 2-3 months of talking? I'm climbing the walls with excitement about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:06 PM
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I was in the Harry Potter fandom with that author back in the day lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 12:52 PM
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What level of "fat" are you talking about here?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/02/25 01:25 AM
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I'm already B lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 08:29 PM
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just compromise on attraction and you can still end up in a relationship with someone who is a stable/functional adult ez
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:46 PM
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Easy yes, I'd wanna be able to plan my life around it. And if it happens to be like "you're gonna die tomorrow" then oh well, I'd just order a bunch of fancy food, get drunk/high, and find somebody to hook up with
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:16 PM
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does that mean lesbians are more sexually attracted to stupid women?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 07:04 PM
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wait do people actually think about strangers like that??? like contemplate their sex lives in that much detail?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 05:04 PM
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are you okay
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:59 PM
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I'll make my partner happy but I can't think of a good reason to go around making random men happy
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 04:57 PM
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SF seems to really like thighs
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 03:00 PM
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I just go to sleep in my bedroom
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:33 PM
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😔🙏
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 02:27 PM
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oh hey I was wondering if you were still here
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:31 PM
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I'd say that about most men too
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 01:29 PM
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sure
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:48 PM
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It's the daily thread.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:45 PM
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this sub makes me realize I hang out with highly inhibited individuals
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/25 12:38 PM
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you could throw that like a discus and give someone a severe injury
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:07 PM
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unironically I think we could be friends irl but you'd be that type of friend I'd always be real worried about lol. like "I get it" but also "are u good"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:15 AM
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"I have tried to approach everyone here in a respectable and friendly manner"
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:10 AM
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I like that you are doing bullet points now
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:08 AM
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What's the term if you're female
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 04:04 AM
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How do you know your thoughts don't seep through your pores
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:37 AM
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who is that funky little dude
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:10 AM
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Is there a term for only being attracted to someone who is attracted to you? It's like my brain won't consider a person attractive until I confirm their interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 03:06 AM
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Probably 0, I don't really look at people out in public. I only assess people's attractiveness on dating apps and such
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/25 01:23 AM
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Him asking permission for everything/never telling me how he feels would make me sad and make me worry that I'd done something to make him not trust me, or to make him think that I was emotionally volatile. So I'd start overanalyzing my own behavior and be really worried about every single reaction I had around him...then I'd be the one shutting down and not telling him anything. Probably wouldn't work out well.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 08:52 PM
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Damn I wanna make that but it always sounds too overwhelming
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:48 PM
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she just like me fr
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:44 PM
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https://youtu.be/fShlVhCfHig?si=HSrs1V8pnuUfoLm2
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:38 PM
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what
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 07:35 PM
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It's probably bc I'm emotionally stunted
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:46 PM
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Like I said in the other comment, I've just always gotten along with older men better, idk. Men my age do not seem to want the things I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:43 PM
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Yeah, I've just always gotten along with older men better than I do with men closer to my age. But the 20 year gap seems to be my outer limit of having stuff in common.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:42 PM
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Youngest is 35, oldest is 56.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 05:38 PM
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If a woman hasn't had hookups before, how do you judge her degree of attraction to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:23 PM
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If you want ann actual explanation that isn't just "women dumb," for some people the human brain gets addicted to the pattern of high highs and low lows. The bad moments amplify the good moments, those good moments cause a dopamine spike, and it becomes a kind of reward cycle where nothing quite feels as good as the good moments with an abuser, because they were offset by so many terrible moments. Roller coaster effects keep our brains engaged because it wants to crack the code of the pattern in…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 02:18 PM
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lmao the only thing I know about LTG is that he got absolutely bodied by Brolylegs and threw a tantrum over it
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:26 PM
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I was actually thinking of unglamorous kitchen jobs for hotels and such. Poverty level is around $15k/year for an individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 04:08 AM
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there are non-racial slurs for her to select from
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:17 AM
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yes they both look like they'd call me slurs
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:15 AM
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then why does Ken keep his pants on 🤔 explain that one chatgpt
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:12 AM
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does having her ass exposed like that help her fight better
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:04 AM
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Pastry chefs and bakers make ok money though...or at least not what I would call poverty level lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 03:02 AM
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you could tenderly feed her baby bird style
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:27 AM
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dating someone who is fat/losing weight when you are also fat/losing weight is kind of fun so many of our conversations are about all the food we can't eat lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:15 AM
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Are you Catholic?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/25 12:06 AM
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I can't help it if I eat vegetables and go outside sometimes
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:29 PM
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126 Chad/Stacey wow all this time and I never knew... EDIT STOP DOWNVOTING ME YOU ARE ALL SO MEAN 😡 you can't even let me enjoy being Chad/Stacey for one second????
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 10:28 PM
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you are so young. you should be in daycare where are your parents
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 09:47 PM
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but that's still an interaction. How do you avoid that?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:38 PM
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what if you go to a restaurant and a waitress asks you what you'd like to eat/drink
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:35 PM
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doing ur part for team natalism
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:22 PM
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well good luck and congrats on the baby
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:19 PM
1

what if you're at the grocery store and the only cashier is a woman
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:18 PM
2

be civil
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:17 PM
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How do you know you're gonna get her pregnant
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 08:16 PM
1

what's your wpm
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:56 PM
1

nah I'm gonna be culled way before they get to that point, trust
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:54 PM
1

my childhood self really agreed with you on that one. I used to gag trying to eat them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:54 PM
1

I think I would clog up the plumbing
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:51 PM
1

how are they gonna have the money to keep me alive, that's my question
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:50 PM
1

who said anything about a funeral? just throw me in a dumpster
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:49 PM
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I don't know what they'll want with my frail pitiful husk of a body at that point but I guess they can have it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:47 PM
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Maybe. I'm not judging anybody for rolling over and dying, but I don't gotta do it with you
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:45 PM
1

cornbread and soup beans✨
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:44 PM
2

do more finger exercises
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:42 PM
2

daily reminder that we are all slowly dying and nothing anyone says here actually matters
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:38 PM
1

That's wild, I would think more than 1% of humans are capable of jogging.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:33 PM
1

Yeah exactly. You want me to throw it out? "This shit's only gonna get me an extra three days...guess I'll trash it"
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 07:32 PM
1

It's about as good as tuna or any other canned meat imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:53 PM
1

It's good to have on hand in the event of extended power outages or societal collapse. I lived through a natural disaster using this stuff lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:31 PM
1

canned chicken is not so bad why do people talk shit about it
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:24 PM
1

what do i need to do to make bottom level -200000 karma comments
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:22 PM
1

yeah I just thought using the whole "if a girl can't jog with you" thing as your metric for dating is funny when lots of people can't jog for various reasons.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 05:14 PM
1

what does that have to do with a girl who doesn't have legs at all
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 02:08 PM
1

what if she's thin but doesn't have legs
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/25 12:36 PM
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"I will leave a woman if she's an asshole" - I'd hope that would be a very normal standard/boundary
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:52 PM
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I always see this set up as a comparative thing between current partner and ex-partners, but never any explanation for women who have no ex-partners but still don't experience raw attraction for their partner. What's the assumed reason for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:50 PM
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Makes me wonder if asexuals/people with low libidos have some disconnect in terms of sensory processing.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:48 PM
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So what's regular non-raw attraction? "I am attracted to you but do not want to have sex"?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:35 PM
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why do people keep using the phrase "raw attraction"? what's the difference between "raw attraction" and regular attraction? (or "cooked attraction"???) what qualification is the word "raw" providing?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 03:29 PM
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Yeah I'm just taking "I think people should be able to say what they think period" to an extreme because I think it's funny
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:24 AM
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I get it...but it would kind of suck if you were just minding your business out in public and some stranger came up to you explaining the horrendous manner in which they'd like to murder you, and instead of being like "hey don't say that" people were like "well they're entitled to say what they think!" yeah they're just thoughts, but also that makes your day way less chill imo
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 10:02 AM
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you can always just go say things on other parts of the internet if they aren't letting you say them here
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:52 AM
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yes, anyone who disagrees with me on anything should be forcibly silenced
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:46 AM
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even your parents? aunts/uncles? grandparents?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 09:35 AM
1

wtf kind of gym is that
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:20 PM
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Right, we're saying the same thing. People who take stuff for granted don't realize how important it is until it's gone. Unless you think people think it's important but also take it for granted at the same time. Which I guess is possible
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 07:17 PM
1

Sometimes you have to lose shit in order to realize the shit was important and that you need to try harder next time.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:52 PM
2

laser accuracy down to every last word
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:50 PM
2

Okay. Why won't you be vulnerable around me? Why won't you communicate with me? Why won't you take out the trash? I don't feel like having sex right now, or ever. I don't understand why you hate me. Is it because I'm too fat?? Why were you looking at her??? All my other friends are married, when are you going to propose?????
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:27 PM
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I'm whatever you want me to be baby
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:12 PM
2

You gotta do more fun stuff and have more novel experiences
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 05:09 PM
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I will always judge people for enjoying weird piss stuff, even when I am in a nursing home.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:24 PM
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Why is her mouth open
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:58 PM
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Okay, I'm just saying there is some implicit bias in society overall that isn't always accurately identified.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:57 PM
2

they don't get to wear sick robes
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:55 PM
1

I don't believe people will directly identify extroversion as a desirable trait but I do believe there is a "halo effect" in place similar to what is seen with attractiveness. "This person is a good person" when in reality they are just outgoing and well-spoken. You see this in workplaces frequently - extroverts are (often) seen as inherently more competent simply due to their ability to verbally process and to sustain energized interpersonal connections.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:50 PM
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I want to be a Catholic priest who hears confessions but instead of pardoning them I say "bro that's fucked up"
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:45 PM
1

I was born without a respiratory system so please check your privilege before you post 😒
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:41 PM
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Our society rewards extroversion on every level, unfortunately
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:37 PM
1

You should hire an attorney
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:34 PM
1

I am beginning to suspect I accidentally committed identity theft
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:30 PM
1

just make fun of whatever you want to make fun of. people will probably think you're an asshole for it but who cares
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:28 PM
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Can't relate. The mods came to my house and gave me a big kiss on the forehead for being nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:21 PM
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you tell me "be civil?" oh! oh! jail for mods! jail for mods for One Thousand Years!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:18 PM
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They don't scream but they become more verbally abusive every time they grow back.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:19 AM
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Yeah you're free to do whatever you want with it
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:16 AM
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They won't get any bigger than whatever you have right now. The size does not impact the volume of their voice.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:14 AM
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Would you rather have your facial hair be made out of talking worms (they say rude things to you) or leave a thin layer of pudding on everything you touch (it attracts ants)?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 03:11 AM
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If someone would cuddle with me it would regulate my central nervous system thus fixing all my problems
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:41 AM
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Have you considered expanding your criteria to include 18 and 22? I know it's hard to imagine but it might be worth a shot.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:31 AM
1

yes ofc
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 02:25 AM
1

cmv [fart noises]
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/25 01:42 AM
3

it's because you say weird shit like this
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 09:33 PM
2

hell yeah
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:31 PM
1

how far down pants 🤔
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 06:29 PM
1

down where
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:50 PM
1

😌
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 05:10 PM
1

yes
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:23 PM
9

It's funny how this place is so detached from what I experience in the real world. Nearly everyone I know is part of an average couple. Mid women dating mid men. Awkward overweight nerds finding other awkward overweight nerds. Women who haven't had sex outside of their LTRs. Couples who stay together through difficult situations. Mixed gender friend groups that don't dissolve over interpersonal romantic conflicts. This place is a different dimension.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 04:17 PM
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why are you so concerned about a chronically ill person getting a pet
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 12:58 PM
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