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| 19 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them? | FlyHighAlways | /r/Divorce_Men | 14/10/23 01:28 PM |
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| 1 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?Thank you for sharing. You are right, i chose her. I don’t yet know why. I knew she had few challenges and now i feel like i take it on myself to do something or help anyone who has challenges or issues in their life. I guess i have a problem of thinking i can and should do something for everyone. I have a problem of letting go of things no matter what kind of toll they are taking on me. Guess i cant help anyone because i cant even help myself. It was just a fool’s paradise i was in. I need to f… | /r/Divorce_Men | 06/11/23 12:37 AM |
| 2 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?Yeah, been looking at it now. Thank you for the pointer. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:39 PM |
| 3 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?This is what is running in my head as well that if love can live without respect. You are spot on here having mental conditions. Apparently she had many including delirium as well, which was all conveniently kept hidden from me | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?Thank you for sharing this perspective. I didn’t ever question myself on why i chose this person and stayed. Guess i should have and realized why i was letting this happen. She used to say even more horrible worlds like how I shouldn’t have entered into a relationship when i didn’t have a house or a car and much more that i cant share here. This all has affected my self confidence and esteem so much that I question everything i do and find faults in them now. Thank you for sharing the pointers. … | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:36 PM |
| 2 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?Thats what i think as well. I wonder why she claims to love at one moment and turns into someone else the second. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:25 PM |
| 3 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?Truthfully, i cant even breathe when all that happened comes to my mind. Thank you for the wishes. I cant fathom to reason how someone can become such a different person so suddenly and abuse and threaten their so called love | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:24 PM |
| 2 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?No, cant live with the constant hypertension, high BP and constant anxiety on what abuse gets hurled now. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:19 PM |
| 4 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?Yeah, guess we get blindsided in an attempt to try and solve their problems that we even don’t register that we are being abused. 😞 | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:18 PM |
| 3 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?Thank you for the pointer. This opened another world for me. | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:17 PM |
| 5 | Can someone love their partner but still abuse and threaten them?You framed it perfectly. Without respect it felt more like a cage where somehow the strings were being pulled based on one person’s moods. I am sorry it happened to you | /r/Divorce_Men | 15/10/23 01:17 PM |
| 1 | Divorced at 32 - red flag?Thanks brother!! Guess thats the way!! 💪 | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 11:24 PM |
| 2 | Divorced at 32 - red flag?Well if you have great friends, definitely reach out to them. Good luck!! I’m going through the same boat at 33. I thought i was in a marriage full of love. Apparently i was just a pawn to play with, as per the wishes and mood of the mistress. Guess these days its ok to just abuse your husband, his family, threaten to divorce him just so you can make him agree to whatever you are saying and call it that you were just asking for attention and love. Or maybe i am just a wrong person myself for eve… | /r/Divorce_Men | 20/07/23 03:44 AM |
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