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Field ReportFlying-Toto/r/seduction23/07/26 10:22 AM
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ComprehensiveFlying-Toto/r/seduction21/04/26 07:33 PM
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Field ReportFlying-Toto/r/seduction24/03/26 05:54 PM
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ComprehensiveFlying-Toto/r/seduction02/06/26 10:13 AM
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Yes, kinos mainly
/r/seduction23/07/26 10:47 PM
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I avoid to be like that
/r/seduction23/07/26 06:59 PM
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Yeah, quite a (very) slow process here (first time for me). I didn't text her during the whole 2 weeks. We just exchange some message at the begening but nothing more after. I will see her today, on the night shift.
/r/seduction23/07/26 02:14 PM
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Last month (after the 2nd date) I ask her to go out (we were at work). She refused by saying she was busy. After I took my distance from her, making my life at the job and outside. During this time I was colder but she started to come back to me (she’s the shy, introverted type). Me, M28, she, F21. And then comes the text message and the story I wrotten.
/r/seduction23/07/26 12:05 PM
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How when majority of people are hidding their own history ?
/r/seduction04/06/26 04:59 PM
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I can touch her without any special difficulties. I touched her hips (by surprise by coming behind her) bute has never shown any negative signs. It's the same when I tease her by tickling her. The only thing I never touched are her hair and the back of the neck (very sensitive area). Okey so with you first exemple, I'm quite familiar: easy technic to start physicall contact. I'm very confortable with that point. Scalp massager, very nice (I had one in time). I tried this technic with an other gi…
/r/seduction04/06/26 12:21 PM
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It's seems your reply is no longer here.
/r/seduction03/06/26 06:52 PM
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Quite a different point of view that, as you said it, goes against 3/4 of the way people think about seduction and how to manage the game. I will keep your advice in my mind and think about it. But because I hate to be too much "verbal" I will see. BTW "and putting your hand on her thigh after she seemingly wasn't keen on even holding hands. Man, that hand-on-thigh gimmick is a huge step and there is nothing--zero--subtle about it. Don't try this at home, kids." You mean this in positive or nega…
/r/seduction03/06/26 01:10 PM
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All the time I heard "A woman will never hold it against a man who calmly accepts his desires: on the contrary" For the "Not yet" signs (two time) you mean the handle and my hand on her tights ? So how to handle de situation now ?
/r/seduction03/06/26 11:37 AM
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Okey, I see what you means so. How I could know if I passed (or not) the attraction stage ?
/r/seduction03/06/26 11:30 AM
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Not sure to totaly understand the meaning of your question (I'm French). But if you want, I can make a recap of the situation from the begening.
/r/seduction03/06/26 10:07 AM
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Personnal time means "Out of the job" so. So not that easy but I will give a try
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:59 AM
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Quite hard at work place haha
/r/seduction03/06/26 07:42 AM
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Okey received. However, how handle the situation if she refuse (again) for a date ? Should we got a talk about the situation and clarify the relationship between us or just simply freeze out ? Or simply try to kiss her and I feel the opportunity ?
/r/seduction03/06/26 06:41 AM
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What could be your tips to illustrate that point ?
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:46 PM
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The "I'm not sure" was about concerned a reminder of an appointment that had been sent by text message a few days earlier. After that, I kept my distance a bit, not necessarily going over to her but instead waiting for her to come over to me (physically): which she always does Typicall exemple, after my job I took a rest at the office with my headphones on my ears. At this time she was at the kitchen with some colleagues. 5 minutes later, she came to me and take the seat which was next to me, to…
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:37 PM
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Noted. I don't know if she's a PDA as you describe or maybe she lacks of experience. But because she's young (and she looks younger than it's true age) and I don't know how to handle the situation.
/r/seduction02/06/26 03:29 PM
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Let's see, and let's not fucked up this second date as the previous one.
/r/seduction22/04/26 02:33 PM
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She accepeted. I will see her friday
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:23 PM
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I just told her "Okey, but do not wait too much. Cookies will disappear quite fast" It's a private joke.
/r/seduction22/04/26 01:08 PM
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She just replied "Oh, I'll have a look" It's litteraly her answer...My god, I'm gonna suicide myself (joke). Smells pretty bad.
/r/seduction22/04/26 12:05 PM
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I did that yesterday at almost midnight (she is on night shift). I replied to her last message and then told her I’d like to see her again this weekend outside of work + private joke Maybe not the best sms game. Still waiting EDIT: "Oh, I'll have a look" It's litteraly her answer...My god, I'm gonna suicide myself (joke).
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:42 AM
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She is quite shy/introvert. We are working on the same company. At the begening, lot of eyes contact. She always stayed close to me and she was waiting for me so that we could have a meal together. I suggested a date in March, and she agreed. It was a bit of a mixed bag; I sent out mixed signals. For some reason, I was not excited to see her (don't ask me why). But when we are working together, I’ve got a bit of a crush on her. The more time goes by, the more I like her. Even so, she hasn’t chan…
/r/seduction22/04/26 08:31 AM
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Just that or something else with ? Because she's upset about her job tonight and she's too caught up in it for me to get her to change the subject
/r/seduction21/04/26 08:19 PM
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Even she seems quite introvert/shy, she seems to have a double personnality. In the job (we are in the same company). Very serious/discret. Does not speak that much. But at the same time, she is like a bundle of energy.
/r/seduction21/04/26 08:14 PM
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What you would suggest as the sentence because I would like to date her (again) on a visit. Also we were talking about cookies last time (I did some for me, and for her as a gift). She quite appreciated. I told her that if I baked another batch, I'd let her know.
/r/seduction21/04/26 08:00 PM
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I did one date with her last month. It was okey. Kinos, eyes contact but I also sent her some mixed signal (I didnt felt very good) so, I think I confused the situation. But still, on the job, she stills around me/stick to me. She is quite shy/introvert. Last week I ask her if she was free for something outside. Unfortunately she had to travel to see her parents but she, on the same message, said I could be possible this week (I'm currently texting her).
/r/seduction21/04/26 07:40 PM
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Ah sorry, by kiss I was meaning "to kiss on the cheek" not the the KC (kiss close) to close a date. And alos "There was no real attempt to get physically close to her, apart from a bit of kino on her hands. I’m not going to lie, during the date I wasn’t attracted to her at all. I didn’t feel any spark at the time (her outfit and the glasses I’d never seen her wear before put me off straight away)."
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:56 PM
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Well done, you can read more than two lines /s Joke a side: Yes I have one. So what is your tips.
/r/seduction25/03/26 02:21 PM
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You mean, stop de message or the physicall contact ? For the physicall contact, at least I would like to keep the current state and not back down.
/r/seduction25/03/26 12:05 PM
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Physicall contact remain on hands (KINO) and on her hip when I kiss her to to say hello to her. I didn’t go any further (because of work), otherwise I could have lingered over her shoulders, the nape of her neck and her hair. So I will continue to Freez Out message and only keep IRL contact.
/r/seduction25/03/26 11:56 AM
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Thanks for the reply. Yeah for the movie, because we cannot agree of the film, I was looking for some other activites when she suggested going bowling. Fail on my part. So I might be on the Friend Zone know (but I would like to get out) I will try so stay I’ll try to keep my distance, but I’ll still maintain physical contact. What do you think ? Also, no message from me as that would be completely counterproductive and come across as needy.
/r/seduction25/03/26 10:17 AM
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The main things, and because I rely mainly on "Actions speak louder than words.", she never replied to my suggestions to go out after our first date. And as far as I’m concerned (and perhaps I’m wrong), I get the impression that this says a lot about how interested she is (in other words, not at all). If she’d been open to it, I could have taken things further physically (KINO, taking her hand and, if the opportunity arose, kiss. I’ll think about how best to bring this up. We’re meeting again th…
/r/seduction24/03/26 09:55 PM
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Communication (lack of) is the main point of my story. By the past I was way too verbal. The first time, the women was so in love that she “forgave” me (let it slide) for that rather awkward blunder on my part - I kissed her and said "I loved you" on the second date like an idiot - So know, I try to keep my emotions in check and remain as neutral as possible. Actions speak louder than words. I will be okey with reject, my ego will be hurted but, that's life. I was rejected 2 months ago by an oth…
/r/seduction24/03/26 09:22 PM
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