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| 1 | At the point in life all my friends are settling down and is giving me some uncertainty.I agree to some extent. I guess I’m just uncertain as to the path I’m taking. When my parents, sisters, and friends are all engaged it makes me wonder about the path I’m on. I don’t know anyone that stayed single till their 30s so I’m kind of just trusting the process that it’s the right thing to do. I’m only 26... but that’s starting to feel old when I look around my surroundings. Does that make sense? | /r/askTRP | 08/06/21 05:29 PM |
| 7 | Should I end a great LTR over partners sexual past?Let me chime in. I dated a girl for 2.5 years. We were both 20 and her body count was 20 and mine was 2. This ate me to death every day causing massive anxiety. I found it repulsive but I did love her and had many amazing moments. Fast forward 3 years and now I have a body count of 20 and wouldn’t give two shits about a girl with a body count of 20. I think for a successful relationship you need to have a similar sexual past. Yours don’t match and never will. The feeling will never go away. I wa… | /r/askTRP | 03/06/21 12:20 AM |
| 1 | How to you keep your ego in check?Re read this a couple times. Very thought out advice and internalizing. Thanks for the reply | /r/askTRP | 06/05/21 12:38 AM |
| 1 | How to you keep your ego in check?last sentence says it well. I'm 25 and everything is just falling my way right now. Just have to stay humble. Thanks for the response. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 07:09 PM |
| 6 | How to you keep your ego in check?Thanks. You’re spot on. Completely different problem at hand | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 06:05 PM |
| 10 | How to you keep your ego in check?This is a good answer and something that I've considered in the past. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 03/05/21 03:43 PM |
| 2 | How to get rid of a girl that I ghosted?Sounds like a court case to me. | /r/askTRP | 24/02/21 11:10 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with loneliness?Can you tell me about the shooting club? What do you shoot and how did you go about finding a club? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/21 03:24 AM |
| 1 | Thoughts on guys painting their nails?Just own whatever you do but since you are asking the question.... | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 10:37 PM |
| 11 | Fucked an ugly chick and am pretty disappointed in myselfCan’t count to 10 without 1 2 and 3 | /r/askTRP | 20/11/20 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Great at getting ONS but not Two Night Stands. Where is my game off.Can’t be it. I’m on anti anxiety meds and fucked her for hours. I’m sure her pussy was done good. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 03:49 AM |
| 3 | Great at getting ONS but not Two Night Stands. Where is my game off.You know. This makes sense. She was super hesitant to bang in the morning but then gave in. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 03:26 AM |
| 2 | Great at getting ONS but not Two Night Stands. Where is my game off.Don’t girls want relationships? I feel like girls are always seeking commitment. Maybe the hoes just want to ride the CC tho. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 03:01 AM |
| 1 | Great at getting ONS but not Two Night Stands. Where is my game off.Yeah that’s what I’ve conceded to. One of my better lays so calling a win and moving on. Always trying to improve game tho. | /r/askTRP | 24/09/20 02:45 AM |
| 2 | My first and only girlfriend really messed my head up - does the pain ever really go?Can confirm. Took me a year and a half but then started banging some hotter cooler girls and now I feel great. Took a lot of work but can be done | /r/askTRP | 21/09/20 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Where are you guys cold approaching during COVID?What was your opener? | /r/askTRP | 06/08/20 02:48 PM |
| 10 | What was your eye-opening experience of "never stick your dick in crazy"? When did you realize it was too late? How did you manage to survive/get out of it?Is recording sex legal? It’s crossed my mind more than once | /r/askTRP | 04/08/20 07:17 PM |
| 2 | Recommended tips for smell-good products that drive women wild?The blue one or the red one. I see two different kinds | /r/askTRP | 23/07/20 05:05 AM |
| 7 | Friends hanging out with cheating ex - dropped themMy ex instantly started dating my best friend. They’re still together but since then I’ve added 10 pounds of muscle, became a bomb cook, travel and see a lot more of my friends, got a new job and make bank, bought a motorcycle, whitened my teeth and am fucking girls better. Hurt for a long time but then I realized I’m the winner so lol at her for grabbing on to a beta buck and lol at him for picking up my trash. Godspeed | /r/askTRP | 22/07/20 12:29 AM |
| 1 | How to progress with a girl that seems more reserved?Yeah this is the truth I needed to hear. Got other leads I’ll explore. Got to figure something better than ice cream that’s for sure. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 02:15 AM |
| 1 | How to progress with a girl that seems more reserved?She checked a lot of green flags off first date which makes me want to know more but I also hate the fact of falling into her frame and getting ice cream near her place. Is there a way to proceed without falling into her frame? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 01:20 AM |
| 1 | How to progress with a girl that seems more reserved?I did attempt to have a drink at my place. Like you said she knows what I want. Perhaps do a little push. Get ice cream, give her a ride back on my motorcycle then wait for her to text again? Not sure I want to push to get in her apartment if she’s avoiding mine so heavily unless I get signals on date two. All my plates are sluts but maybe I’m just not high SMV to make her a slut for me. Thoughts and critique? | /r/askTRP | 21/07/20 01:15 AM |
| 5 | What are your go tos for “entertaining” people when you bring them over?Stealing this one. More than just drinks but less than dinner. Beautiful second date | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 09:04 PM |
| 1 | What active measures can I take to prevent any possible false rape accusation with ONS’s and plates?Wise words and really sound advice. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 02/07/20 02:33 AM |
| 2 | What active measures can I take to prevent any possible false rape accusation with ONS’s and plates?Couldn’t she just deny the fact that any of that happened? Who would believe the guy | /r/askTRP | 01/07/20 09:33 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to think about your ex everyday even though you don’t want her back?This is brilliant. Thank you. | /r/askTRP | 17/06/20 07:51 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to think about your ex everyday even though you don’t want her back?100% spot on. I have an ideal of her but she isn’t who I want. Chemicals are fucked up tbh. We’ll get through it. Just a chapter before the good chapter. | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Is it normal to think about your ex everyday even though you don’t want her back?Good question. Prob took me 9 months to realize she’s nothing special. Also helped getting some hotties and knowing I can do it. Thank you weight room and sun. You got this my guy. Stick to your guns. She just weighs you down | /r/askTRP | 16/06/20 11:10 PM |
| 1 | Failure to internalize TRP after 4+ years. Can therapy help?Asking for personal help. My biggest issue is finding a sleep schedule. I thought cutting alcohol and weed out completely would help but I can’t fall asleep, especially when I know I only have x hours to sleep. I feel the pressure the fall asleep. I try meditation before bed but mind still goes back to its racing tendencies. I do about half on this list. Journaling is another step I need to take but I’m regards to not being able to sleep whether I slept 10 hours the might before or 4, I can’t fa… | /r/askTRP | 27/05/20 08:40 AM |
| 1 | Is it OK to pay for taxi during quarantine to bring girl to your house on the first date?I’ve done it twice. Fucked the one and spun her for a while. The other looked ugly and I didn’t want to fuck her so I sent her home kindly. Note that she’s prob crazy if she can’t afford 10 bucks so wrap it up. | /r/askTRP | 19/05/20 08:13 AM |
| 12 | Smash on first date then no response?Lack of abundance. Got excited and thought with my dick and now I'm hamerstering. Live and learn | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Smash on first date then no response?The latter | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 11:05 PM |
| 2 | Smash on first date then no response?Sounds good. So you typically never text after a hook up and let them come to you? Makes more sense honestly. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Smash on first date then no response?Yea, but why wouldn't they want to go back for more? How do I turn a ONS into a plate. That's where I am struggling. | /r/askTRP | 15/02/20 10:29 PM |
| 3 | What conversation topics are best to talk to women about?R for recreation too | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 04:04 PM |
| 1 | What to do about acne?Pea Protein?Does whey cause acne? | /r/askTRP | 28/01/20 03:56 PM |
| 1 | How did you make yourself interesting?What would you suggest if I don't really have a burning passion for something. I try a lot of new things but not sure there's anything I'd call my passion. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/20 06:27 AM |
| 1 | Suggestions on what home gym products to buy?Get a gym membership | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 06:41 PM |
| 3 | I suspect my wife is cheating on me, how do i find out if she does?Does having hard evidence change the way the court goes at all? | /r/askTRP | 17/01/20 04:43 AM |
| 7 | Thoughts of LTR with other guys bothering meI was in your exact shoes. Less you know the better. My n count was 2 and hers was 20. I wasted so much mental energy on it. It eventually took its toll and I ended the relationship. Now I've fucked plenty of women and n count doesn't bother me anymore. I still don't want a whore but I understand reality and knowing that I've gone around the block as well helps with any jealousy. With all that being said, date her she sounds like fun and you learn a lot in relationships. Don't let her past bothe… | /r/askTRP | 27/12/19 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Oneitis always there even after one year of huge progress. How do I just move on already?The latter. Bumble/Hinge/Tinder | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 09:31 PM |
| 6 | How do you come to terms with the lightswitch effect?Yeah I struggled with this. Had a 2.5 year LTR, broke up with her, then she immediately dates a beta orbiter and says she loves him. Never heard from her again. I still think about her often and it is tough to deal with, but I am also not the same person that I was when this happened. Just use the pain and anger to better yourself in every way i.e. hobbies, gym, gaming women. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/19 05:09 PM |
| 3 | Knowing the n-count in LTRsSo you'll be dating a 17 year old that's about to leave for college. You have unrealistic expectations. Get a higher n count and you won't care to know theirs. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Knowing the n-count in LTRslol. You better not ask then. | /r/askTRP | 04/12/19 03:53 PM |
| 1 | Success is the best revenge, but now I want my still somewhat oneitus to know about it. Is this normal/how to not give a fuck?Whore indeed | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 10:51 PM |
| 3 | Success is the best revenge, but now I want my still somewhat oneitus to know about it. Is this normal/how to not give a fuck?Nothing indeed. | /r/askTRP | 20/11/19 09:47 PM |
| 2 | If all girls are sluts deep down, is there even an LTR worth having ever?Yikes, exactly my biggest fear. What caused the divorced. Sounds like she was all green flags. What were you overlooking or was it simply put that marriage is difficult? | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 03:52 PM |
| 5 | If all girls are sluts deep down, is there even an LTR worth having ever?Your chic's friends are apart of your 'monogamy team". Woah... never thought of it like this, but this is such a huge factor on "girls night out" or when you are not there. Wise words all around | /r/askTRP | 05/11/19 12:31 AM |
| -21 | LTR of 3.5 Years that "loved" me to death cheated this weekend. Why and how to pursue?Didn't cheat. Just gamed girls like married red pill suggests | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 12:03 AM |
| 3 | LTR of 3.5 Years that "loved" me to death cheated this weekend. Why and how to pursue?She told me | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 11:21 PM |
| 1 | LTR of 3.5 Years that "loved" me to death cheated this weekend. Why and how to pursue?She cheated Saturday. Came clean Sunday night | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 11:18 PM |
| -16 | LTR of 3.5 Years that "loved" me to death cheated this weekend. Why and how to pursue?Trying to keep the abundance mentality. I moved an hour away temporarily so figured I should go on dates and work on game. Glad I did so. | /r/askTRP | 21/10/19 11:14 PM |
| 2 | Developing a physical passion that isn’t the gymAwesome. Helpful, been checking the subreddit all this morning. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/19 02:16 PM |
| 2 | Developing a physical passion that isn’t the gymI've been looking into boxing. BJJ didn't do it for me. I think I want something a little more primal. What should I look for in a gym/instructor and any other tips for someone that has literally never thrown a punch or taken a punch. | /r/TheRedPill | 25/09/19 03:59 PM |
| 38 | Where were you in life at 25-29?I understand why you ask the question but it doesn't matter where we were when we were 25-29 it matters where you were at 25 and making sure you're a better person at 29. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 01:46 AM |
| 1 | How to let go of hatred from past Oneitus and friend that got together?Oof. At least i know thing could have been worse. You say it hurts and stings. I understand the growth the came from the situation as i am realizing my growth as well but does the sting ever go away/do you still think about the situation often? | /r/askTRP | 28/08/19 12:46 AM |
| 1 | How to let go of hatred from past Oneitus and friend that got together?Out of sight, out of mind. If only it was that easy. No contact with either in months, no social media, nada. Just always in the back of my head - could be due to loneliness and lack of mission. My "mission" right now I guess is to hit 190 in the gym and land a new job so I am always trying to network. I am not sure what my larger mission in life is yet; perhaps this is the answer that leads to more questions. | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 03:51 PM |
| 1 | Thinking about exOof. I'm in the same boat pretty much but my ex decided to date my best friend. Regardless, I broke up with her so she could do whatever she wanted. I don't have much advice really. Fucking girls helps temporarily, but I think what both of us need to do is find a plate that is actually fun to be around and LTR material. LTR girls are a rare occurrence and tough to find, but once we develop feeling for a girl instead of fucking their brains out and they are hotter than our ex's I think we will be… | /r/askTRP | 02/08/19 02:44 PM |
| 1 | Oneitus remains after gather better plates, lifting, new job, etc.Thanks for the reply. So there's no contact, no looking at her fb or social media. Nothing. By seeking validation what I mean is that I want her to want me... Can't really explain why as I don't actually want her back. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 04:23 PM |
| 1 | for those who have; how did you go from Beta to AlphaCan you elaborate on doing things guys your age would never imagine doing? Also what YouTubers did you find most influential? Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 10/07/19 08:09 PM |
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