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Are you also saying that your friend (and your future husband) have such low moral standards that they would cheat?
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/21 08:47 PM
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Are you planning on getting more than one?
/r/RedPillWomen03/12/21 08:44 PM
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Don't feel bad if you go the nursry routeif you need it. I keep my little ones at home with me till they're 3, then it's nursery for them. At that age (for my little ones at least) they needed the interaction with 30± other kids, and the nursery staff are trained professionals who know what they're doing. That is a lot more than I can provide and at that point I need the break.
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 06:02 PM
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While I have no suggestion for your weekend problem, a good solution to the daytime problem of him feeling jumped on as soon as he gets through the door is for him to do his relaxing after work somewhere else. I don't know where you're based, but if in the UK a break at the pub before coming home does wonders for everyone. Children in particular don't understand why daddy doesn't want to play with them immediately after work. Over time it' too easy for them to start distancing themselves from th…
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 04:30 PM
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The people who say this are the people with little to no experience with caring for children and running a home. On their own either of those jobs is easy, but combined it's a relentless 24/7 juggling act. These is a reason nurseries charge so much, and they don't do that and cook and clean too. Edit: also, OP, don't give up on your studies. Having skills and passions are a vital life skill that everyone should have. Raising children is temporary, once that's over (provided life is kind and you …
/r/RedPillWomen21/11/21 04:14 PM
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Not rude at all. In fact it is aways extremely rude to presume on other people's finances. In a traditional relationship the woman is an excellent cook, cleaner, accountant, nanny and a wife who prides her health an appearance. From her post all that was listed was what she expected to be given, with no indication that she had anything to offer, other than the fact she was a woman. That is considered very rude and entitled where I am from. You never make demands on other people's money like that…
/r/RedPillWomen18/11/21 07:26 PM
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A women who has no skills and is limited to being shelf stacker is taking serious risks. I would never, ever advise it. Men get sick, men get too tired or depressed to work, sometimes they die before their time. Then the woman and their children are utterly out in the cold. Never, ever limit your talents and CV to minimum wage. It's dangerous for yourself and an irresponsible risk to take for your husband and children.
/r/RedPillWomen17/11/21 02:52 PM
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I guess if you are looking at it from a breeding (sorry to put it so crudely) point of view then, yes, there is a time limit. But there is no time limit on attracting a partner, and rushing that process is an absolutely terrible mistake. Loneliness is much easier to live with than the utter misery of living with someone who is incompatible with you. Also, ditto on what everyone else said about vibrant 50 year old woman. It's all about care, attitude and joy that you maintain. None of that has a …
/r/RedPillWomen14/11/21 03:22 PM
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May I suggest that if you want money you earn it yourself before expecting it from someone else?
/r/RedPillWomen09/11/21 03:29 PM
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You put my thoughts into words perfectly. What kind of awful human treats their partner like that for something completely outside of their control.
/r/RedPillWomen25/10/21 06:39 PM
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Not what I said at all. I said unstable men who think like this are trash, and that most men are not like this.
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 02:17 PM
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Unfortunately, MIGTOW and even the men's rights movement to a certain degree has become infected with the same kind of hatred of the opposite sex that feminism has towards men. It's sad, they've become mirrors of the very thing they hate. Ultimately these kind of people end up being outcasts because they are not functioning members of society. Much like there is the stereotype of the hateful hard-line feminist who dies in a flat surrounded by cats, these kind of men die alone surrounded by piss …
/r/RedPillWomen06/10/21 11:58 AM
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This is not a good thing. What they really mean is that they're going to train men to be happy be be canon fodder for war. This is saber rattling disguised as caring for men's mental health. Because that's what men need, another war where millions of them will be massacred. The CCP have never cared about their people, let alone their men/slave labour. They're not about to change now.
/r/MensRights25/09/21 07:08 AM
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I would pay so much money to see this.
/r/MensRights24/09/21 07:15 AM
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Funny, that's the same attitude feminist have towards men.
/r/MensRights09/09/21 03:31 PM
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My savings (and help from our parents) helped pay 40k downpayment for mortgage. While I'm building up a new business he pays the mortgage, food and bills, my income is extra. A business works well for me, hard, very hard, but a normal job would not work for me. I'm very dyslexic and I've always thrived this kind of self driven setting. My husband is a physics teacher. I have communicatee this to him. Multiple times, but I think part of the problem is that because of our different backgrounds and…
/r/MensRights07/09/21 04:28 PM
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I absolutely agree, women like that absolutely do exist, but so do a sizeable amount of women where their husbands are just not good husbands. Not all, but some, and enough for it to affect divorce rates. At no point in my post did I point out gifts that other women had gotten from their husbands. What I am describing is the bare minimum of care, love and respect that you need from your partner. I was also very careful to detail his many good qualities. Like I said, the man is a fantastic father…
/r/MensRights07/09/21 11:58 AM
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I'm going to play devil's advocate here with the caveat that I do think that men are grossly treated in divorce proceedings and in child custody cases, this does need to change. However, I have seed both from personal experience and from many friends and families that a lot of men change after marriage, not not for the better. Especially if children are involved. I'll give myself as an example here since I can't talk acurately about other people's marriages. My husband is a very smart, handsome,…
/r/MensRights07/09/21 09:12 AM
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That would ruin the surprise though. Part of what makes a thoughtful gift so nice that your partner observed you enough to notice and remember something about you that would genuinely make you happy. Strait up asking ruins that.
/r/MensRights04/09/21 04:48 PM
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You need to nip this in the bud right now. I'm talking from experience here. Stop asking for his approval on the house since he seems to have no manners. As you say, you are not incompetent, the house is your area. He needs to stay in his lane. How would he feel if you went into his workspace and started to critisise him? Do the house to your best standard and leave it at that. Stop asking for his oversight and approval. The next time he critisizes you tell him that he's being rude (you can be s…
/r/RedPillWomen21/08/21 11:42 AM
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I'm not saying what's happened to you isn't reall, I'm saying that you need to stop believing the people who say those things.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 12:39 AM
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Anyone who treats you like that is trash and their opinion is worthless. Your hight is not a scale of your worth and you are human and inherently valuable because of that.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 12:33 AM
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He married his wife LONG before he got famous.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 12:26 AM
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Someone should probably let Peter Dinklage know that he'll never find a woman then. Oh, wait...
/r/MensRights18/08/21 12:18 AM
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I guess if it makes you fee better to think that, then go ahead, carry on.
/r/MensRights18/08/21 12:02 AM
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Bull. Shit. My father is a good guy, normal income, my mother married him and would never, ever leave him. Even after his bipolar started getting the better of him and he had a prolonged mental breakdown after the death of their daughter, my sister. All three of my sisters married normal, low income good/kind men and I married a teacher who is the best father I could ever have hoped for our children. Normal good men are worth their weight in gold and any sane normal woman realises this. The prob…
/r/MensRights17/08/21 11:50 PM
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That's the same phrase feminist women say to good men they know who take issue with the phrase "all men are trash“. You're showing the same behaviour as them, and it's extra tragic because you know what it feels like when they do it to you.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 10:45 PM
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My God, stop behaving like a feminist painting everyone with the same brush. If you don't want to date because you don't think it's for you and not a risk you want to take? Great, don't. But going "they're all like that" is such a cop out excuse and obviously untrue to boot.
/r/MensRights17/08/21 10:42 PM
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I must be reading a different AITA because I'm yet to read a post where a confessed cheater is anything but utterly lampooned. A few days ago even (two days I think) I read a fantastic post where a mother who was personally against circumcision was being convinced by her circumsized husband to let their son be cut. She had taken the approach that because she didn't have a penis, she would let her husband make the choice. She was ruthlessly criticised for backing down on her beliefs and the vast …
/r/MensRights17/08/21 10:36 PM
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Great, so you're just as bad as a feminist with the side effect of turning off people who would otherwise be open to men's rights. Comments like this harm the movement. Also, your comment is just untrue. More men work in those areas, sure, but they are not exclusively male.
/r/MensRights15/08/21 06:57 AM
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Question: how do you think it makes you masculine?
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 10:04 AM
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Yup, that about covers it.
/r/RedPillWomen06/08/21 09:43 AM
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He's quite traditional but doesn't want the label of officially dating? That strikes me as more "I don't want a lable so I can take everything and give nothing". I could be wrong, but I would need more info. Have you slept with him? These deep conversations you have, were they conversational ramblings or did you come to an understanding of sorts?
/r/RedPillWomen05/08/21 06:26 PM
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This exactly.
/r/MensRights05/08/21 01:23 PM
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Men are logical when it comes to their own needs, they don't always apply that logic to how the other person could react if they were in their shoes. It would be logical for this woman to see her male friends proposition as profoundly disrespectfully and conclude that he is neither a true friend or a potential partner. He knows that a casual hookup is not something she is interested in, so he has just displayed that he either didn't listen or didn't care. Either of those conclusions make him a b…
/r/RedPillWomen02/08/21 08:22 PM
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Being cautious and outright not trusting someone is not the same thing though. You SHOULD always be cautious around a stranger (male or female) and if you're a woman you do need to be careful around strange men precisely. To think otherwise is foolish and dangerous.
/r/MensRights02/08/21 06:00 PM
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Guess that's why redditors think I'm a guy 🤷🏻‍♀️ On the long list of dumb things a young person can say, it could be so much worse.
/r/MensRights01/08/21 07:03 AM
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They might be able to make good sperm, but the involment of men in everyday family life is absolutely crucial for the development or healthy well adjusted children. You could be the most spectacular mother on earth, you could still NEVER replace the very unique contributions a man can bring to raising children with you. Boys and girls need healthy father figures, not just walking sperm doners. I guess what we're really arguing about here are the valid reasons to go to war. You're saying that men…
/r/MensRights20/07/21 11:14 PM
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"Delicate, fertile and non combative“ If you're a first time mother who's never given birth, maybe. But but unless you're that one in a million lucky woman who has a unicorn birth and sneezed the bay out while laughing, there is nothing about birth and after birth that will leave you soft and delicate. I've had 4 gallbladder attack, two kidney stones and walked 200k in three weeks during my life, it paled into comparison with the pain of childbirth and the physical and mental hardening you have …
/r/MensRights20/07/21 10:38 PM
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That's a fair assessment, I think.
/r/MensRights19/07/21 02:57 PM
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I'm afraid this is where I'm going to have to dissagree a little. I come from a family of only girls (seven) and now have only three sons, and it's been fascinating all the subtle differences that make them harder initially but SO much easier overall. When they're little the sheer amount of physical movement they require daily to feel happy is staggering. They're little tornados and they NEED it to be happy and content. It's exhausting, but much easier than little girls because where you need to…
/r/MensRights19/07/21 10:32 AM
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Read the room, dude.
/r/MensRights13/07/21 02:35 PM
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This is such a good way of explaining it. Need to remember this next time.
/r/MensRights11/07/21 11:19 AM
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If you read the article, it appears it was his choice, but he died before they could make a baby.
/r/MensRights26/04/21 07:41 PM
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This. Play shitty games, win shit prizes.
/r/MensRights17/04/21 10:20 AM
9

Glad they're still getting stick for this.
/r/MensRights07/03/21 08:04 PM
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Oh, seriously? Fuck off Amber, you don't have the talent or the charisma to pull this off. You're a B movie actress at best.
/r/MensRights30/11/20 10:46 AM
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That's what I was thinking. I keep seeing the same terrible stories posted again and again (like that teacher who raped her student and got away with community service). Yes, it happed and people should be outraged...but I swear, I see it posted on this sub EVERY other week. And the comments are always so defeatist, angry and you get the impression the commenters are leading a stagnent, angry life. Theres no direction for how to change things, protest, petition or direct that anger usefully. I'd…
/r/MensRights03/10/20 06:28 AM
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That's fantastic news!
/r/MensRights26/07/20 06:46 PM
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I'm a woman. She behaved far worse than a cow, an absolute trash human would have been a more appropriate term. She doesn't get to behave in such a dispicable way, accuse an innocent man of horrendous behaviour that she herself is guilty of, tar the reputation of REAL abuse victims and not have accurate words used to describe her behaviour purely because she is a woman. The only reason she is able to get away with this is BECAUSE she's a woman, and as such I will use a gendered insult. I will no…
/r/MensRights18/07/20 04:06 PM
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I just looked those up and they are gorgeous.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 01:29 PM
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Men never get given flowers and I wish it was more common. Hope Johnny drags Amber to the cleaners. It's an incredible testament to his character that his ex's (even Vanessa who he left for that phycotic cow) are willing to stand up for him.
/r/MensRights18/07/20 10:32 AM
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That right there is an utterly savage and dignified reply. I'd like to think I could have been so civil, but I'd probably have told her to fuck right off.
/r/MensRights31/05/20 03:46 PM
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Thats so good to hear! Well done!
/r/MensRights23/04/20 06:16 AM
2

Death penalty.
/r/MensRights06/03/20 11:41 AM
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Ah yes, I forgot, every man ever who has never been cut has a moss-covered penis that occasionally supports small insects.
/r/MensRights03/03/20 09:48 AM
8

That's such good news.
/r/MensRights17/02/20 09:46 AM
8

Don't argue with crazy. It just validates their argument and drags you down into the mud where they have all the experience.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 06:56 PM
2

Good! What an absolute cancer of a human.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 01:12 PM
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Seeing my dad treated like shit everyday for years by the feminists at his work.
/r/MensRights14/02/20 11:34 AM
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Thanks for the link.
/r/MensRights12/02/20 09:15 AM
3

Circumcision at that time was VERY different to the kind practiced today. If I remember my history correctly the "modern" version of circumcision was instituted 60-80 AD. The previous Mosaic practice left a mark that could easily be hidden, nothing was removed or cut off.
/r/MensRights14/12/19 02:56 PM
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Just reading between the lines here, it sounds like these women you describe frighten you because you're afraid that's how you'll turn out when/if you get married? Perhaps a better way to word you post would be to ask the mothers on RPW how they would advise you to vet for a good man? And how to organize your mind, house and life when pregnant and postpartum so that you don't fall into that trap. I'm sure some of the ladies here have some fantastic suggestions.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 06:32 AM
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If you find a solution to this problem, let me know. I'm in exactly the same boat. 12 year age difference, a virgin when we married, and damn, the sexual rejection hurts so much! Can't say I've ever thought about cheating, but I did start trying chemically suppress my libido with every tea and supplement I could get my hands on. I know that's not healthy, but at the moment it's the only way I can cope.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 03:39 AM
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This. My jaw just about hit the floor with that comment. ​ Any SAHM who is doing a good job (or trying to) has very, very little free time on her hands. Between mending our home - which involves some serious, heavy DIY - raising my son, cooking dinner, growing some of our food and making sure I exercise every single day, I barely get so much of an hour to myself. And that hour is MINE. I already spend every other waking hour on my family. If I don't have that hour minimum to shower, rest and rec…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/19 03:23 AM
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Yes! THIS 👆 That book is a goodsend to help decluter your house and your life. I found it helped me mentally sory out why I would make impulse purchases and showed me how to be really contented with what I own and love.
/r/RedPillWomen12/03/19 09:29 AM
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