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I don't think she even knows what she wants to be honest
/r/seduction02/12/25 08:01 AM
0

So you asked her but didn't really ask, did you If you don't understand the answer, you need to follow up
/r/seduction02/12/25 07:48 AM
0

Have you considered asking her? It means different things to different people so the only way to know is to ask
/r/seduction02/12/25 07:19 AM
168

Enjoy the foreplay. Embrace it. Worship her If you don't appreciate foreplay for what it is, if you only see it as a path to pussy, she'll know it, she ain't stupid
/r/seduction02/12/25 07:17 AM
1

Are you really so desperate to risk your job? Even if your job sucks, it's still desperate
/r/seduction01/12/25 04:07 AM
15

Or, alternatively, she has identified you as a sucker who will buy her airplane tickets The sucker scenario is a lot more likely if you live in Maui and less likely if in Fresno
/r/seduction30/11/25 10:45 PM
2

Nothing lowers your value more than being desperate High value men are totally cool with rejection because there's always the other 4 billion women out there
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:41 AM
35

A woman with a muscular back
/r/seduction11/07/25 12:18 AM
1

Separate sex from emotion. Go to sex clubs and get that physical desire out of your system so you have more self control for dating
/r/seduction22/04/25 08:02 AM
1

One way to think of it, the stakes are low You're not doing surgery, flying a plane, putting out fires, you're just chatting. If you screw up, nobody does, nobody gets hurt. You'll probably barely even remember it in five years. See, what happened fundamentally doesn't matter, so chill out and enjoy the moment
/r/seduction26/03/25 03:53 PM
2

That last paragraph is beautiful Seduction doesn't end with the wedding ring, you gotta keep doing it
/r/seduction18/03/25 11:51 PM
1

Better to propose a specific place and time. It's always easier if they can answer with a simple yes
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:23 AM
1

Men want women to ask. Pretty much zero exceptions to this Because women almost never do and men get sick and tired of being the ones that have to do it. And those not comfortable either get lucky and find the rare woman that does ask, or live for years in loneliness Ask
/r/seduction21/02/25 08:06 AM
2

Context matters If you send a message like that to a stranger, you will be ignored
/r/seduction21/02/25 07:54 AM
0

You can take me hot to go
/r/seduction16/09/24 02:05 AM
10

It's the same thing we always say about someone who wants to get a date with a woman - they are a person. Don't put them on a pedestal but treat them with the respect that all people deserve The fact that this person is male doesn't change this basic principle
/r/seduction09/09/24 05:43 AM
44

You would greatly appreciate the swinger and kink community
/r/seduction04/09/24 07:30 AM
2

I definitely don't want to date a woman that thinks like you do
/r/seduction26/08/24 07:02 PM
2

The best way to prove your courteous acts are not for the wrong reason is to give the same courtesies to men
/r/seduction26/08/24 08:30 AM
3

Yes it's a choice. But it's a mutual choice, you have to choose each other
/r/seduction26/08/24 03:03 AM
11

Ain't no pussy worth the stress of dealing with flakes
/r/seduction26/08/24 02:58 AM
0

Age is just a number
/r/seduction22/08/24 05:41 AM
20

The people who try to pick up their teacher are desperate people who don't have other options Find someone where a relationship would not be inappropriate
/r/seduction21/08/24 02:20 AM
4

What you just recommended is sexual harassment and it will get op fired
/r/seduction21/08/24 01:02 AM
1

A professional event? You wanna get fired?
/r/seduction15/08/24 07:29 AM
4

When I started swing dancing nearly five years ago, I expected to have fun and get it shape I did not expect to become the smoothest guy in the room at every dance party. But when you can grab a stranger with no dance experience and make it look good, you are the smoothest guy in the room
/r/seduction15/08/24 07:25 AM
1

Unreliable narrator You say that she's obsessed but then describe yourself finding her Instagram account without her permission, and upon discovering that you're blocked, creating a sock puppet account so you can follow her anyway Sounds like you're the one that's obsessed
/r/seduction03/08/24 02:45 PM
3

So does Androids built in contacts app and I'm guessing that iOS does too
/r/seduction02/08/24 12:28 AM
3

If she's venting it means she's an imposter
/r/seduction31/07/24 08:14 PM
13

Looks have nothing to do with compatibility. By approaching almost no one and using a shallow criteria to decide who you do approach, you are condemning yourself to a life of loneliness. And it's worse, since those 10s are approached by everyone so you're way down her list before you even start The way you get a date with your future life partner is by going on lots of dates with people who aren't. That's the only way to know, is to meet them. So date a ton and when you find that someone, you're…
/r/seduction29/07/24 08:47 PM
0

It's not about you and she doesn't know you well enough to tell you what's bothering her Maybe a family member is sick. Maybe she's having trouble at work. Maybe she has an expensive car or home repair to deal with We all have these things happen and people just aren't as interested in dating when they do
/r/seduction27/07/24 06:41 AM
5

Don't read The Game without reading his follow up book The Truth, where he describes how The Game harmed his ability to form meaningful relationships
/r/seduction23/07/24 07:18 AM
1

If you're bad at texting don't do it. Use it solely to set up an in person date as soon as possible
/r/seduction23/07/24 06:22 AM
1

Not even during the opening 10 minutes of Up?
/r/seduction23/07/24 06:15 AM
1

Learn to be good with everybody and you'll get good with women too
/r/seduction23/07/24 06:03 AM
70

Ironically, your statement "invest in yourself and study something for a greater good" is something that everyone here tells people to do here every day, but I don't think I've heard anyone express that idea as eloquently as you just did
/r/seduction23/07/24 05:58 AM
1

Just enjoy the ride
/r/seduction20/07/24 01:07 AM
2

You mean she didn't show up for the date? Or that she's not texting? Those are two completely different things
/r/seduction18/07/24 03:19 PM
2

I don't see any reason in your post not to try again on a second date
/r/seduction18/07/24 02:57 PM
7

So one of your comments suggest that you're in a nonmonogamous relationship Which is fine by itself But what you're trying to do is get your neighbor to cheat. And cheating is not nonmonogamy, it's failed monogamy I'm also nonmonogamous and if I discovered that my wife knowingly fucked someone that was cheating, my opinion of her would drop dramatically Cheating is not part of nonmonogamy and cheaters are not welcome in that community
/r/seduction15/07/24 02:00 PM
4

Social media is what people do with those that they hope to ignore Lots of people have Facebook and Instagram accounts that they almost never use Always get phone numbers
/r/seduction15/07/24 01:29 AM
1

Everyone here has been giving you the same answer Why are you choosing to ignore them?
/r/seduction15/07/24 01:22 AM
1

You have another 50 or so years of adulthood, so know it's not too late. It's quite common for people to fall in love and get married in their 80s But people are not likely to love someone who hates them, and this post and your comments show an utter hatred for women, and for most people, it's probably pretty obvious You need to take a break from dating and fix yourself. Learn not to hate others, and more importantly, learn not to hate yourself
/r/seduction14/07/24 10:59 PM
0

Generally speaking, a man afraid of being a "victim" of metoo is the kind of person who made metoo necessary. You appear to be someone that has no respect for women and doesn't see them as people. Autism or not, that will scare people away
/r/seduction14/07/24 10:45 PM
17

Both ways are wrong Correct would be "will you join me at Sainte Marie winery this Saturday at noon?"
/r/seduction10/07/24 02:42 PM
-3

Or, a brother. People have brothers
/r/seduction08/07/24 01:36 PM
-2

I'll also add that a woman's sex drive goes way down if she feels that she has to do all the work. She ain't gonna want sex if you never do chores around the house
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:36 AM
12

You ain't meeting people downtown, that's mostly office and people are there to work. Go to Capitol Hill or pioneer square, that's where people go for fun, and I'd say that the streets are more crowded in those neighborhoods. There's a big park on E Pine in Capitol Hill that always has a great crowd
/r/seduction08/07/24 03:08 AM
19

Stop feeding the incels because this is how they think
/r/seduction07/07/24 06:01 AM
15

So what you are saying is that so few women are attracted to you that the few that are, you have decided aren't women?
/r/seduction07/07/24 05:56 AM
1

Taking a break is probably smart. But when you return, do it smarter Alcohol has nothing to do with game. Go to the same places but stay sober Set time limits for yourself. Have an alarm on your phone that beeps at 2 and when you hear it, go home Get more friends to hang out with so you're not so desperate for attention Do contact sports or partner dancing for a healthier outlet for your need for physical touch
/r/seduction06/07/24 08:46 AM
0

Yes looks do matter but it is common here to say that they don't and it is a completely reasonable thing to say Mainly to establish that anyone can improve their chances no matter their appearance. And of course, there's a lot you can do to improve your appearance too The alternative, that only looks matter, has terrible results where a man doesn't even try and then starts blaming women for his own failures So it's much better to err in the looks don't matter direction
/r/seduction06/07/24 08:41 AM
2

Birth control - her responsibility Natural birth control - her responsibility and it doesn't work Pull out - doesn't prevent infections at all and sucks at preventing pregnancy Anal - doesn't prevent infections at all (and may be a higher risk) So I stand by my statement that a refusal to use condoms is putting the responsibility for everything on her
/r/seduction05/07/24 08:10 PM
4

So you want the woman to take most of the responsibility and face most of the consequences. That's what it means to refuse to use a condom
/r/seduction05/07/24 07:58 PM
5

All that and not even a single mention of condoms, which tells me a lot about OP's attitude We need to take responsibility too you know
/r/seduction05/07/24 07:53 PM
2

Cheaters cheat because they are liars. A liar won't start telling the truth just because you're attractive
/r/seduction04/07/24 10:55 PM
1

It sounds like that you're not really decided on whether you want to focus on your exam Switching your time from Instagram to hinge isn't really doing that
/r/seduction04/07/24 03:22 PM
2

A delta male So you're a blues musician from Mississippi?
/r/seduction04/07/24 02:43 PM
16

I go to dance socials all the time and this is not true at all
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:34 AM
7

Garden stores and wineries
/r/seduction02/07/24 12:34 AM
1

I would have given a link to Abba's Does Your Mother Know an up vote
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:28 AM
22

Don't play games and be upfront with what you're looking for Older women are usually sick and tired of the stupid games that young people play. They know what they want and they want straight answers
/r/seduction01/07/24 05:26 AM
1

Okay, I take that back, those are solid hobbies. But 3x as many men as women? I'm not buying it My first suggestion is switch your dance lessons to ballet
/r/seduction29/06/24 06:20 PM
2

Then you need better hobbies
/r/seduction29/06/24 07:53 AM
64

You're hanging out with the wrong people Find a place where your kind of weird is appreciated
/r/seduction28/06/24 07:57 PM
7

Arrange a meeting so you can know if they're boring in person Some people talk and text completely differently, and some people simply hate texting. Someone being boring over text tells you nothing about them Use your texts to arrange an in person meeting
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:22 AM
4

Have you tried not giving them plan b?
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:20 AM
2

I can assure you that most people born in the USA your age are working lame jobs and driving old cars I think you'll be pleasantly surprised as to how well upfront honesty will help you
/r/seduction17/06/24 07:00 AM
0

I just gave you multiple examples of how it's not about money. Those people with fewer resources (I assume this means less money) are probably doing all the things I mentioned, which like I said, don't require a lot of money Nobody is interested in someone with no hobbies no matter how rich they are
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:18 PM
1

A lot of that PUA shit is manipulative and abusive. When those popular books came out in the mid-2000s, the sexual assault prevention offices at colleges actually sent out warnings to women about these books Women are sexually assaulted a lot and always on the lookout, so many are away of the manipulative and dishonest techniques they describe Think carefully about the books you have been reading and the techniques they describe. You might be sending off red flags
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:06 PM
1

These are usual phrases because they're true
/r/seduction12/06/24 03:00 PM
4

Anyone who has a great job, beautiful home, hobbies that they love doing, and is healthy and physically fit meets the "everything they desire except the girl" criteria. You don't need to be a billionaire to have those things A great job isn't measured solely by the pay check A beautiful home can be a small apartment that you take very good care of A hobby you love doesn't have to be expensive, it could be something that saves you money like car maintenance Physically fit doesn't require spending…
/r/seduction12/06/24 02:58 PM
12

The entire concept of alpha male is based on flawed and outdated science about the behavior of wolves. Initial research concluded that wolves social structures had an alpha male, but that is only true of wolves in captivity. In the wild, the asshole behavior involved in alpha males doesn't exist because the other wolves can simply walk away In other words, the alpha male only is in charge in prison. For people who are free, it's much easier to walk away from controlling assholes The black pill a…
/r/seduction03/06/24 07:16 AM
5

You suck at dating because you hate everyone You need to figure out why and fix yourself first
/r/seduction29/05/24 01:47 PM
0

You said that every woman wants to be approached first three sentences after describing women that approach you first
/r/seduction29/05/24 01:45 PM
-1

Just respectfully to the other person and act like yourself. If something was a shit test, then you know they're a shit person who isn't worth your time
/r/seduction04/05/24 07:01 PM
1

So what you're saying is that you're cheating on both of them
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:06 AM
3

I'm also in an open marriage and it's usually something like "have fun getting railed honey" That is not a joke, it's true
/r/seduction02/05/24 05:05 AM
3

Use your skills to meet and connect with lots of people. Most will be friends and nothing more. But one of those might be true love. But you won't find her without meeting and getting to know lots of people
/r/seduction01/05/24 04:36 AM
1

Two teenagers get horny, sleep together, a priest decides to use them to end someone else's fight, and then they both kill themselves? Not a good love story
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:08 AM
6

The first 8 minutes of the movie Up
/r/seduction09/04/24 04:06 AM
2

Because you don't want to be the guy in the middle when husband has a fit of jealousy and their whole marriage goes up in flames If they've done this before and are experienced, that won't happen. But newbies are another story
/r/seduction07/04/24 03:15 AM
1

Did you ask?
/r/seduction07/04/24 02:46 AM
1

Compliments her looks can be acceptable if it's something in her control and something she hasn't heard before Bad: You're beautiful Rad: I love how your hairpins are little insects
/r/seduction07/04/24 02:39 AM
6

You should flat out ask them if they want you to join. The kink community teaches that obsessively and if they experience in this world, they know this. They will also not be mad if you misread things and will give you a simple no, with no harm to your friendship On the other hand, if they aren't experienced in this, you definitely don't want to be their first
/r/seduction07/04/24 02:33 AM
2

Personally, I schedule the date, maybe send a reminder message the day before, and that's the full extent of my texting
/r/seduction26/03/24 04:36 AM
1

It could be meant for someone else. We've all put things in the wrong box
/r/seduction20/03/24 06:01 AM
8

Keep it simple "Let's go to the bedroom so I can fuck you"
/r/seduction18/03/24 07:31 AM
2

Royal Caribbean has the best on board night clubs that I've ever seen, with themes every night and the crew starting the night with choreographed dance routines Carnival offers the shitty DJ that did your cousin's wedding
/r/seduction01/03/24 08:05 AM
1

Based solely on age, for the 20s age range, Carnival is best as it has the youngest crowd. Royal Caribbean and Norwegian are okay, there will be some 20s on board but most people will be older, lots in the 40s and 50s Avoid Holland and Celebrity who cater to an old crowd and are quite gray. Any luxury cruise line will also be all old people because young people don't have that kind of money. For that reason, short cruises are younger than long cruises. 3-4 day cruises have the youngest crowds bu…
/r/seduction01/03/24 08:03 AM
2

Older women are the best. Seriously, they are so much better than young women, they don't give you bullshit and they know what they want You missed out bruh
/r/seduction18/02/24 05:21 PM
12

Pick something that's less fancy and lower pressure, like an afternoon coffee shop date
/r/seduction11/02/24 05:32 AM
2

You can't know So take comfort in the fact that if he is lying, it means he's not getting any
/r/seduction11/02/24 05:30 AM
1

You don't really have a social media account until you use it So saying that you don't have Instagram isn't really a lie
/r/seduction11/02/24 02:29 AM
2

I've learned to always treat a potentially sarcastic statement as an honest one If it's not sarcastic, it means I'm giving the statement the respect it deserves But if it is sarcastic, I'm always giving it the respect it deserves, which is none. Sarcastic statements deserve zero respect
/r/seduction08/02/24 01:00 AM
19

The type of car doesn't even matter. No mention of your car early on will have good results Teeny subcompact? Nerd or cheap Fancy sports car? Overcompensating or just lying Big pickup? Uneducated redneck Practical sedan? Boring Minivan? Cheating on his wife Don't talk about your car. Nobody cares about your car
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:27 AM
7

That's a whole lot of messages without even attempting to set up a date One day isn't all that long and you're not necessarily rejected yet. Pick a time and date, pick an inexpensive restaurant or coffee shop, and message her "hey would you like to meet me at restaurant this day at time" Do not send any more messages that don't involve scheduling a date
/r/seduction07/02/24 08:21 AM
10

Nah, the problem is that she's a flake
/r/seduction07/02/24 04:04 AM
2

Wait, did she trash your plans for something else or did you not make plans in the first place?
/r/seduction07/02/24 12:20 AM
146

Worth noting that some people are forgetful, so I like to send a "I'm looking forward to our date tomorrow" text the day before. It's reminding without reminding, and it's not conversation but part of the scheduling process. Part of scheduling is ensuring that people meet the schedule
/r/seduction06/02/24 04:04 PM
17

Coffee does not sober people up. Only the passage of time, and that takes hours
/r/seduction05/02/24 01:40 PM
16

There's an honest approach. Places are always changing so ask about something that might be different than before. At the gym: "Did they move the cleaning spray?" Train station: "is the E train still on platform 3?" Notice how both questions show that you're familiar with the place Other places are so big that you certainly haven't seen all of it. A history museum: "I've never looked at the Japanese history section, how is it?" At a library: "Where do I find the government archives?"
/r/seduction29/01/24 07:50 AM
1

Liars, manipulators, and stupid people absolutely do exist Are these people that you want to date? If you're honest, you'll filter out the lists and only honest people will be left
/r/seduction29/01/24 04:21 AM
9

Anyone into talking about cryptocurrency is not very smart
/r/seduction28/01/24 06:58 PM
20

Don't listen to that loser. Your writing is solid I've been on Reddit long enough to know what bad writing looks like and your post is not it
/r/seduction28/01/24 06:57 PM
5

Don't play games. Be straight and honest with people
/r/seduction28/01/24 06:55 PM
1

I'd say it's not a great idea but not for the same reason as everyone else In relationships, of all kinds, there is a tendency for men to neglect all the planning required for life to work with the women forced to pick up the slack. And they get sick and tired of it Working out the details means that, A, you are willing to put in the work and, B, you're not gonna force her to do all the scheduling and planning if you wind up in a long term relationship So step the fuck up
/r/seduction28/01/24 10:05 AM
0

It absolutely is a good identity because there are so many people that don't work on themselves. So many people pay zero attention to fitness, fashion, posture, social and mental health. You're doing a lot better than most because you are paying attention
/r/seduction07/01/24 08:57 PM
2

For cptsd? Lol
/r/seduction07/01/24 06:41 PM
1

You say that you have no identity But at the same time, you tell us that you have worked on yourself a lot and turned yourself into an attractive man. What exactly did you do to work on yourself? Because it sounds to me that this is where your identity lies One thing that I think would help on these first dates is some radical honesty. Something like "I was severely abused as a child and it left me broken. I've come a long way but I still struggle a lot with socializing. I often mirror other peo…
/r/seduction07/01/24 06:40 PM
-1

Number 3 is the biggest one I get sick and tired of always having to make the first move
/r/seduction19/12/23 12:22 AM
28

If her text was all business and professional, I wouldn't be flirty back. A professional text like that is setting a boundary However, if the text was personal, consider that a green light. Suggest meeting up at a local restaurant, and suggest a specific time date and place
/r/seduction24/11/23 06:44 PM
10

Well, at least you're not still in high school The big question here is does she know you have her number? And does she want you to have it? If the answer to those questions is no, then texting her would be a bad idea. You'd be better off trying to arrange an "accidental" meeting someplace
/r/seduction24/11/23 06:39 PM
20

Ask yourself whether it's the sexual energy or the social energy that is exciting you If it's social, there are other outlets. You could get into music promotion, or theater production, or maybe a job in sales. All of these activities are all about meeting people and establishing connections. Many of the basic skills are the same
/r/seduction24/10/23 06:02 AM
2

The problem is that you fundamentally don't understand what insecurity is "By always doing what the other person wants" - this is not insecurity "It gives them the opportunity to control me" - also not insecurity "I encouraged the girl in class to make fun of me " - only someone secure in themself would do this. An insecure person is never okay with this "Do they want someone who's themselves and confident but doesn't care about them as much as me" - these two statements have nothing to do with …
/r/seduction23/10/23 12:41 AM
7

This attitude pisses me off I am so sick and tired of always needing to make the first move
/r/seduction17/10/23 04:48 AM
2

How will this person see you on day 2 without having a way to contact you and arrange a meeting?
/r/seduction09/10/23 02:08 PM
13

I've read some of your other comments and I would say that my version is far more accurate than your other posts You're in therapy, you're working through your issues, according to you, you're gradually getting better. There's nothing wrong with telling people that
/r/seduction08/10/23 08:49 PM
15

Or you can say "To be honest, I've really been struggling lately, but I'm working on myself and I can see myself getting better" The way you frame things makes a huge difference And blatant lies is not a good idea for anybody
/r/seduction08/10/23 08:26 PM
1

The second question is a legendary level of cluelessness, because the where to your question is everywhere The reason you see women in nightclubs dancing while holding a drink is because it's not safe for them to leave a drink unattended Women don't walk alone down the street at night because so many get assaulted There are parts of the world where a woman can't even ride a train without getting groped Women who turn down men on internet forums routinely get threats of rape and other violence in…
/r/seduction03/10/23 06:59 PM
1

It may be because you described it as a personal dislike instead of the manipulation that it is
/r/seduction03/10/23 05:46 PM
6

Markovitz and Strauss popularized the term negging in top selling books that they released around 2005-2007. And tons of men read these books and started doing it at the time Sexual assault prevention groups posted signs on college campuses warning women of this new trend and also offered classes on how to recognize the signs I guess what I'm saying, is that if sexual assault prevention groups are trying to stop your behavior, you just might be in the wrong
/r/seduction03/10/23 03:30 PM
10

Negging is a type of emotional manipulation where you insult them to erode their confidence and also their assertiveness, with the goal that they'll no longer say no when they should
/r/seduction03/10/23 02:41 PM
30

Oh Jesus Christ, one of these negging assholes Men are constantly sexually harassing women. Men are sexually assaulting women. Men are making women unsafe in public places. And men are the ones who need to step up and call their fellow men out on this behavior to put a stop to it Your friends called you a bully because you are a bully. They are reluctant to introduce you to other women because they know that women aren't safe around you because you proudly use emotional manipulation against them…
/r/seduction03/10/23 02:36 PM
1

By Chad, he means Pete Davidson
/r/seduction11/09/23 02:02 AM
4

I see that the comments are full of men who have never done as you suggest
/r/seduction08/09/23 02:34 PM
1

So, what we have here is a post that is Sexist Factually wrong
/r/seduction28/08/23 07:29 PM
1

Learn to enjoy meeting people and it doesn't matter if your cold approach works or not. I've cold approached people who revealed that there was no chance of romance or sex in the first five seconds but kept chatting because most people have interesting stories
/r/seduction08/08/23 12:25 AM
2

Women on dating sites don't trust men because of people like you You're making this harder for everyone else
/r/seduction16/07/23 03:58 PM
2

There is absolutely zero correlation whatsoever between what someone looks like and how good the sex is. And for those looking for a long term relationship instead, it's even more true Judging on appearances is a fool's game
/r/seduction14/07/23 07:09 AM
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