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Flynnjacklepappy/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 04:35 PM
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Flynnjacklepappy/r/askMRP31/05/18 02:17 PM
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OYS 18 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 179, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 42, Kids, 2 boys: stepson is 18 and our son is 14. Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 BJJ-single stripe blue belt, kickboxing, yoga, running, keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x3), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x3), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Da…
/r/MarriedRedPill07/01/20 01:22 PM
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OYS 17 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 179, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 42, Kids, 2 boys: stepson is 18 and our son is 14. Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 BJJ-single stripe blue belt, kickboxing, yoga, running, keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x3), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x3), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Da…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/12/19 08:13 PM
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Between the job and classes Stop making excuses. It’s loser mentality. I get asked by coworkers, friends, and strangers regularly about my diet and exercise. They usually respond with “how do you have the time?” or “I just don’t have the time.” You make the time. light lifting Pussy!
/r/askMRP13/12/19 04:57 PM
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Thanks for the guidance. I’m considering a late 70’s-early 80’s Chevy pickup for my first. It’ll be helpful with future projects. Actually saw an ‘86 yesterday that I need to inquire about.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 05:05 PM
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I told her I was going up and she should join me for some fun. I went up, read and went to sleep. I agree with u/man_in_the_world here. Strike while the iron is hot and take her upstairs then. It’s hard to get there but you need to view this as she missed out on the fun, not you. If you want to read and go to sleep that’s your choice, she chose to miss out. It’s a different mindset of abundance that we aren’t accustomed to coming from a low sex relationship. Be careful of the covert contract her…
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 01:59 PM
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Switching from Stronglifts5x5 to a PPL program I do this with a core split as well.
/r/MarriedRedPill11/12/19 01:15 AM
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I guess I’m confused but I think I used the wrong measurements in my post . I’m taking Testosterone Cypionate in a 200mg/ml bottle marked 1ml. I was taking 0.6ml and now I’ll be at 0.4ml. If I understand you correctly I should take 0.2ml twice a week? 20 units on a 1ml insulin syringe. Thanks for taking the time to help. I want to get this right. Surely I didn’t misinterpret my doctor’s instructions and take too much. Any chance I’m just processing the test efficiently?
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 11:45 PM
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OYS 16 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 179, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 42, Kids, 2 boys: stepson is 18 and our son is 14. Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 BJJ-single stripe blue belt, kickboxing, yoga, running, keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Da…
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/19 09:39 PM
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I accepted early on that the problems in my life and relationship were my fault but I wasn’t sure how or why. I think meditation has really helped with this lately.
/r/MarriedRedPill04/12/19 02:57 AM
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OYS 15 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 179, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 42, Kids, 2 boys: stepson is 18 and our son is 14. Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 BJJ-single stripe blue belt, kickboxing, yoga, running, keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Da…
/r/MarriedRedPill03/12/19 09:08 PM
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OYS 14 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 179, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 42, Kids, 2 boys: stepson is 18 and our son is 14. Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 BJJ-single stripe blue belt, kickboxing, yoga, running, keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Da…
/r/MarriedRedPill26/11/19 09:56 PM
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You don’t have a clue what anger is yet. If you do the work and read the sidebar it can change your life. You are in the right place for that. I spent several days in a complete daze from seething anger when I discovered the knowledge contained in the sidebar material. You have been lied to by the world and every female you ever met. Use that anger to push harder in the gym, lifting heavy weights. Stick around here, read the truth in the sidebar, post in OYS, lift, take your beatings, and learn …
/r/MarriedRedPill20/11/19 11:16 PM
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I’ve been trying to shut down the imaginary conversations I have with other people but I see what your saying about having one with myself. Pep talk time, I’ll try it. Thank you.
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 08:33 PM
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OYS 13 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 181, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 42, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 18 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 Keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. In process:…
/r/MarriedRedPill19/11/19 06:16 PM
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3000 calories. Mmm, breakfast.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/11/19 07:05 PM
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OYS 12 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 181, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 42, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 18 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 Keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. In process:…
/r/MarriedRedPill05/11/19 01:29 PM
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https://youtu.be/xYCygJVx_gg
/r/askMRP03/11/19 03:06 PM
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Don’t be scared of squats and deadlifts. Just do some research and get your form correct. Then keep it correct. Focus on form at first and don’t go too heavy until you have that dialed in. I was muscling through incorrectly at first and pulled something doing deadlifts. Was scared of them for awhile but started doing them properly after seeking some advice from a trainer and now I love deadlifts.
/r/MarriedRedPill23/10/19 04:49 AM
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are you waiting for your allotted time to pass so you can move on to the next checkbox? Shit, I’ve been doing this. Glad I read this today.
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 06:39 PM
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OYS 11 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 181, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 42, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 Keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. In process:…
/r/MarriedRedPill22/10/19 03:48 PM
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Yeah, I can see that. It just feels weak to continue “rewarding” her when I’m not interesting in how she behaves. It may be a stretch to call it a reward since she doesn’t value my time or attention anyway but I’m trying to adopt a mindset that will progress me towards dropping the codependency. I have conflicting feelings of wanting to do things without her but I feel almost compelled to be around her and I know it’s unhealthy. I’m working on making decisions without considering what type of re…
/r/MarriedRedPill17/10/19 12:35 PM
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OYS 10 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 180, Fat 14% married 15 years, she’s 41, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 Keto for years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck. In process:…
/r/MarriedRedPill15/10/19 12:26 PM
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Dick bleeds from overuse. Humble brag?
/r/askMRP13/10/19 02:57 AM
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Lots of good advice here already but I’ll add this. If you are having imaginary conversations in your head about how this will play out later with her, stop that shit immediately. Do the things that need to be done and forget what she will think or say about any of your work. You’re over-thinking things. I do this too so I know where you’re at in your head. It only becomes as complicated as you make it and the more time you dedicate thinking it over the more confused you’ll be. Focus on the task…
/r/askMRP13/10/19 02:44 AM
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I agreed that she must find it tough drinking her tea and having a smoke, all with a smile This is passive aggressive, not A&A. Making shitty comments like this will only hurt any attraction she may have for you. The conversation ended there anyway because I was on my way to workout. Should’ve ended after the first word out of her mouth. Don’t DEER about working out. Invite her along if you want but fuck what she thinks about you going to the gym. You’re better off STFU until you can grasp A&A. …
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 09:40 AM
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OYS 9 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 181, Fat 13% married 15 years, she’s 41, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 Keto for 3 years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill08/10/19 09:11 AM
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Until your sense of identity and self-worth are solidified (i.e. feeling good about you because of what you are/do, not how people feel about it) trying to tend to your "needs" is going to lead you astray. This is what I needed to read today. Thanks!
/r/askMRP04/10/19 02:31 PM
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OYS 8 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 179, Fat 13% married 15 years, she’s 41, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 185, DL 225 Keto for 3 years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, an…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/10/19 11:15 AM
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Start posting now. You’ll gain the most knowledge and guidance in OYS. It’s the closest thing to real-time coaching you’ll get. I didn’t OYS at first and it hindered my progress.
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 06:07 PM
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OYS 7 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 176, Fat 13% married 15 years, she’s 41, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 155, DL 225 Keto and intermittent fasting Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, and Meditations by Marc…
/r/MarriedRedPill24/09/19 02:31 PM
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In the moment ask yourself if you want to feel like that. If not then let it go. Be in charge of yourself. This is key for me and has helped a lot recently. Meditation has helped with this in particular.
/r/askMRP22/09/19 10:28 PM
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You mate guarding against a weak and sickly old man? She’s got an orbiter and if she doesn’t want him around she can deal with that. Or you’re trying to fix a problem that she doesn’t want help with. It’s possible she was just talking to you about her day and you fucked up by responding with anything except “that sucks”, “interesting”, “how about that”, “really?”, or just simply nod your head. If you are new at this then limit your responses to these unless she asks for your opinion or for your …
/r/askMRP19/09/19 02:04 AM
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OYS 6 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 176, Fat 13% married 15 years, she’s 41, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 155, DL 225 Keto for 2.5 years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, …
/r/MarriedRedPill10/09/19 08:22 PM
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You can OYS without apologizing. It’s an art There’s a lot I haven’t figured out yet but I got this one down. It feels more honest and requires more thought than just a weak “I’m sorry”.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 11:40 AM
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You got titties? Fuck, this had me laughing hard.
/r/askMRP09/09/19 05:01 AM
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Thanks for the insight. This really helped me see some things more clearly.
/r/MarriedRedPill05/09/19 12:39 AM
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I actually think I might have been more of a shitty comfort test but was unsure so I didn’t want to mislabel it. I don’t have a purpose in not telling her all about my day. I don’t get the feeling she really cares about what I do most of the time and I haven’t volunteered the information. If she asks about my day and is really interested I have no problem telling her. It feels like I’m seeking her validation if I just ramble on about what I’ve been doing. In this case she didn’t even ask.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 08:11 PM
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Not going to lie, I got a little choked up with the “Thanks, Dad”
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 06:44 PM
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OYS 5 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 176, Fat 13% married 15 years, she’s 41, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 155, DL 225 Keto for 2.5 years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck, …
/r/MarriedRedPill03/09/19 06:32 PM
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Swing and a miss.
/r/askMRP28/08/19 01:35 AM
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I'd get butthurt when she refused and then after a number of shutdowns I'd stop initiating coz I was butthurt. I can relate to this. I did the same thing thinking eventually she would realize I wasn’t asking anymore and come around. Big covert contract and I’m sure you can guess how it turned out. My problem is I place too much importance on sex with my wife. Let’s be honest, it’s only one of my problems and a display of low value. The abundance part is tricky and trying to fake it has failed me…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 08:21 PM
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I need to get here. I’ve removed initiating in the past but it has been from a place of being butthurt.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 01:04 PM
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OYS 4. Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 176, Fat 12% married 15 years, she’s 41, Kids, 2 boys- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 155, DL 225 Keto for 2.5 years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, started reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving…
/r/MarriedRedPill27/08/19 12:59 PM
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Be careful about creating covert contracts based on your conversation with your wife about her lack of desire. Your situation may be different but in the past I’ve had those talks with my wife. She listens and seems to understand. She even shows more desire and interest in my sexual needs, even for a couple days or a week. It would end though. Back to baseline within a week.
/r/MarriedRedPill21/08/19 08:21 PM
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Thanks. I knew I handled it wrong. She kept pushing and I got caught up with her feelings that seemed like she was a little hurt by it. I probably didn’t keep it playful enough and lost any frame I started with. I’m working on not caving to her feelings but I haven’t got it all figured out yet. I really was having fun with it at first but didn’t have the strength to endure when she turned it up and kept pushing.
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 05:20 PM
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OYS 3. Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 176, Fat 13% married 15 years, she’s 41, 2 kids- stepson is 17 and our son is 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 155, DL 225 Keto for 2.5 years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, started reading The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuc…
/r/MarriedRedPill20/08/19 12:19 PM
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OYS 2. Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 176, Fat 13% married 15 years, she’s 41, 2 boys 17 and 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 155, DL 225 Keto for 2.5 years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, just purchased The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck Physical: I downloaded…
/r/MarriedRedPill06/08/19 11:36 AM
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I’m sure it’s all-inclusive. Meals, pegging classes, the art of apologizing seminar, happy wife happy life morning meditation, and blue pills for everyone. I’d skip.
/r/askMRP05/08/19 11:33 PM
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WTF did I just read?
/r/askMRP01/08/19 12:54 AM
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Thanks for the insight. This makes perfect sense now. I forget to apply “right now” to what she is saying most of the time.
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/19 03:35 PM
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I remember thinking at the time that it probably wouldn’t happen. She has a history of saying that and not delivering. So next time? Escalate to immediate action. If not practical ignore the statement. Sound right?
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/19 11:51 AM
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OYS 1 Age 41, Height 6’1”, Weight 178, Fat 13% married 15 years, she’s 41, 2 boys 17 and 14, Lifts: Squat 225, Bench 155, DL 225 Keto for 2.5 years, intermittent fasting during cuts Reading: NMMNG(x2), WISNIFG, MMSLP(x2), MAP(x2), Saving a Low Sex Marriage(x2), The Rational Male, The Way of the Superior Man, The Book of Pook(x2), How to Win Friends and Influence People, Do These Pants Make My Ass Look Fat, Bang, Day Bang, just purchased The Subtle Art of Not Giving a Fuck I’ve been reading, lurk…
/r/MarriedRedPill30/07/19 10:45 AM
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Mine’s a 51. Looks like I have work to do. Truth is I already knew.
/r/MarriedRedPill27/07/19 03:52 AM
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I know i know read the sidebar Then reread it. Whatever you think you’re lifting it’s not enough. Lift more weight and more often.
/r/askMRP25/07/19 07:07 AM
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As if he’s ever experienced a wet pussy.
/r/askMRP15/07/19 02:12 PM
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On the other hand it’s my body and I’ll put in it whatever the fuck I want. Tell her or not, this is the correct attitude.
/r/askMRP23/05/19 09:53 PM
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Outcome independent
/r/MarriedRedPill10/12/18 06:11 PM
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11 hour day, just ran 3.5 miles, 35 degrees outside. Commit and do it.
/r/askMRP10/12/18 05:27 AM
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Listen to the wise words passed onto you here. STFU and keep reading. You still have a lot of work to do if you are even thinking of telling your wife anything. She doesn’t care what you say, at all! Do the work and make the changes. Actions make all the impact, words don’t.
/r/askMRP09/06/18 05:52 PM
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i don't know how niave you are with the bj thing, but it is not exactly hard to 'suprise' finish in her mouth. This is simply brilliant! Best advice so far.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 09:32 PM
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It sounds like you have a good understanding of MRP and are applying it well. I like the way you think. You sound like me, get a little good feedback from a positive change I’ve made, push it harder, and look for the next area to improve. I too need to work on stronger male friendships. Keep posting your progress. It’s nice to hear others succeeding at this because it just fucking works! I’m excited for you.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 09:14 PM
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Sounds like you are getting some good results from RP. Don’t forget this is about you and don’t base your progress solely on her actions but reap the rewards when they come. Keep up the good work!
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:52 AM
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It doesn’t sound like you are working Dread. I only needed to lightly introduce competition anxiety to my wife and she started showing concern about her appearance. You didn’t mention your sidebar reading so I’d suggest you start there. Dread at step one and don’t skip or rush this process. Don’t assume she will follow your lead to get in better shape if that is the only thing you are improving. You have work to do.
/r/askMRP04/06/18 12:20 AM
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Agreed, you got lucky. Take the money and run. Stop calling her and texting her. Don’t reply to her either and stop answering her calls. It’s hard but this one is a lost cause. I agree with others, assume she was cheating and who gives a fuck why, she has issues. You were in her frame and she didn’t care about the relationship at all. Start lifting and forget this chick, fast! Hard to hear, bud.
/r/askMRP03/06/18 11:50 PM
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It’s amazing how therapeutic it can be when you hit and kick a heavy bag. It feels natural. Sparing is teaching me eye hand coordination and I’ve noticed quickness in other areas from training. You don’t have to get hit in the head a lot to get something out of it. Regular body shots from a good kick boxer has toughened me up. I can recall many times going to kickboxing or BJJ with a frustration from something else in life and always leave calm and focused. It clears my head.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/18 11:02 PM
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Sucks when you have to take a break from BJJ. I’m nursing a fucked up finger ATM but with tape I can work technique in class and roll with some caution. I like your strategy and advice on sharing with your wife. I’m work on getting better and I agree with your points. Work in progress and we all have our strongpoints and areas to improve. Thanks for the feedback.
/r/MarriedRedPill03/06/18 10:54 PM
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It took me a long time to grasp many of the concepts here. Going your own way is just about being active and independent. These are healthy for yourself and necessary to keep from becoming codependent in my opinion. I’m not going my own way to spite my wife or anyone else. I have just found hobbies that I enjoy and have become comfortable doing them alone if necessary. I enjoy the company of my wife and would like for her to join me sometimes but before I took the red pill the only thing I did b…
/r/MarriedRedPill02/06/18 03:49 AM
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I got snipped last November.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/18 02:20 PM
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I’ll focus some time rethinking this. Thanks for the insight.
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/18 02:19 PM
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No disagreement or rejection that I can think of. There are some things I didn’t understand or believe at first but I’m learning that most of what I read here is 100% spot on. AWALT holds true so far. I originally thought my wife didn’t shit test me, she does. I thought I would have pushback about going my own way but she actually looked relieved when I first started doing things for myself. She has since lightly protested occasionally when I’m “going to Jiu Jitsu again” but I still go after a s…
/r/MarriedRedPill01/06/18 05:01 AM
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I’ll try to keep it simple but make no promises. My son has a friend whose parents we have been social with for about a year. We’ve been invited over to their house and we’ve been out to the bar with them as a big group. The dad works out of town sometimes and I work an odd schedule so I have made plans with the mom in the past for us all to get together, for the boys, or coordinate meeting at school functions. Around Tuesday I mentioned to my wife we should take a yoga class on Sunday but like …
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 11:31 PM
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I drink beer a couple times a month socially. I’ve cut out the after work and mowing the yard beers though. I was nervous about BJJ at first too. Just get in there and get started. You won’t regret it. Find a good gym, most offer a couple free classes. Don’t be afraid to try out several before committing to a place. Most BJJ guys I’ve met are some of the niciest guys around, but killers in disguise. Be respectful and listen. Tape them fingers. I’ve had a couple light injuries in my hands but not…
/r/MarriedRedPill31/05/18 08:29 PM
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Fuck yes I do! I lift that pussy right up on my dick.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 04:42 PM
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Thanks for the help. I have some OYS material in it so I’ll put it there. New guy, first time, and this is a tough crowd.
/r/askMRP31/05/18 03:24 PM
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