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| 1 | Women: what are your best dating tips for men?On the first date, treat her as your best friend. Sure, you can flirt, and I don’t mean treat her as your male friends. But it’s the first date, and you BOTH should have fun. No rush. And tell her, that you enjoyed the time with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/03/22 04:26 PM |
| 2 | There is not a shortage of single men who have their life in orderLmao speaking facts! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/02/22 04:27 AM |
| 5 | Could society collapse because of picky women?Lol fact | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/21 05:39 PM |
| 2 | CMV: Since women are attracted to “bad boys” during their 20s and then settle down with the “nice guy” by the time they reach 30, that just means that pursuing healthy relationships with women is pointless.THANK YOU!! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Do any of you not like the impact that modern feminism has had on dating, relationships and gender dynamics? Why or why not?Agree with you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/08/21 05:50 AM |
| 1 | Socially and sexually successful women are not impressiveLmao 😂 he’s way too stupid | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 02:31 PM |
| 1 | Socially and sexually successful women are not impressiveThat’s your personal problem. What do you want? Applause? 👏👏👏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/08/21 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Men should normalize wearing height extenders, as they are comparable to make-up for womenYeah, men should wear high heels! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/21 03:38 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain or debate women on here, what is your endgoal?That’s how you see it. Ask those women and they will see it the opposite way. I am not saying men’s issues aren’t important. But women were and still are oppressed. Women had to fight for their rights. Men didn’t. Women are physically weaker and can become victims. Men can too, but mostly of men. Men weren’t shamed their whole lifes for what they look, wear, say, act, etc. like women were. Not saying, men weren’t shamed, but not like women. Actually women are the ones who fight for men, who got … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:36 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain or debate women on here, what is your endgoal?Why should women be empathetic to men, when they aren’t to women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:09 AM |
| 3 | What argument here has changed your mind?Lol seems like men will use “shit testing” as an excuse if they can’t win an argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/06/21 06:20 PM |
| 1 | “Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship.How? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/06/21 01:17 AM |
| 1 | “Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship.Which women are doing it? Men always shamed women. An average woman doesn’t want to have sex with you because she doesn’t feel comfortable. No woman is making a big deal about sex like men are. Do you really think women are withholding sex on purpose? Just to be mean? Because women are so evil? Calling women stupid, because they don’t wanna have sex with you, shows how stupid you are. Sex is something special for most women because it’s very intimate and you have to trust a person. If you are in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | “Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship.No I see it right. You are just acting like a entitled Karen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 02:09 PM |
| 8 | “Stop withholding sex if you want a relationship” is not advice that is geared toward helping you find a relationship.Wow the comments are disgusting. The logic of the men here is: “if you give someone 5$, then you should give everyone 5$.” Doesn’t make sense! Many men here have a very entitled Karen “logic”. Very manipulative behavior. This is why you are single and no one has any interest in you. Idc what you think or who you are, if a woman doesn’t want to have sex with you, and you wanna leave, then please leave. You are not that special. Everyone should be able to decide what they wanna do with their bodie… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/06/21 08:00 AM |
| 1 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismxD | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 04:28 PM |
| 9 | CMV: Men are still expected to honor societal contracts while women are taught full hedonismExactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 04:19 PM |
| 1 | Do you think prior sexlessness is a common reason as to why some men might prefer younger women?Just say you are a pedo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal?I am not stopping anyone | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/06/21 12:09 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal?Eww that’s low key pedophilic behavior | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 11:35 PM |
| 7 | CMV: Older women's proposal to men their age is no different than the "nice guy's" proposal?Lol we don’t care about the men. We want to protect the young women. It’s kinda disgusting and weird when a older man wants to date young women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/06/21 11:25 PM |
| 24 | I’m confused- what makes women’s standards unreasonable?I am on Narniafox’ side. GenZedEd sounds like one of those overweight woman who would scream “fatphobia” just because someone doesn’t want to date her. Narniafox isn’t asking for something impossible. Those boys are just pissed because they are not the ideal boyfriends. And they don’t wanna change, because they know they can’t. No one is forcing them to change. But they have to accept that women are looking for someone better and they are not the ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/05/21 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.Are you talking about little girls or adult women? Because adult women are mostly sceptical, they just act nice. Learn the difference! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 06:14 AM |
| -1 | Women tend to make bad decisions in regards to their safety. They are too lenient with dangerous men and too cautious with safe men. They have standards which actually rewards pushy guys and pushes away respectful ones.Op is just a desperate misogynistic idiot, who thinks all women are dumb and need to be protected. Maybe that’s the reason why he is single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/21 06:12 AM |
| 1 | There is NO correct way of approaching women without potentially coming off as creepy or intrusiveI am a woman and even I am scared, that other women (stranger) will think, that I am a creep or flirting, when I am genuinely just wanna make a compliment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/21 11:39 PM |
| -1 | Q4M: Can you post examples of photos of an average guy?How tf is Jonah Hill below average? He is definitely above average. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/21 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Women of this sub, would you be okay with your bf not finding you pretty but being attracted to your personality and character?If he only had eyes for me and if he wouldn’t constantly remind me of my ugliness, then I wouldn’t have a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/21 10:17 PM |
| 2 | CMV: FDS women will never be as happy as red pillers. RP'ers work towards being the ideal mate, while FDS primes women to be a nightmare partner.Are you posting this, because you can’t post this in the FDS subreddit. Lmao stop being so childish and bitter and move on. Of course YOU are happy in your relationship, but is your wife too? FDS users wouldn’t even consider men like you as their partners, because you are below them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/05/21 09:19 AM |
| 1 | If being poor/low income is what makes a man a loser in women's eyes, is there a singular (near) universal thing that makes women a loser and undatable in men's eye's?Every man is a loser in women’s eyes; not only the poor ones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/04/21 04:57 PM |
| 2 | How can so many women be this delusional about men past the age of 30?Lmao true | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/04/21 10:43 PM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Take whatever you want 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:59 PM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Not gonna discuss with an obvious troll. Try harder, sweety. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/21 11:57 PM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?When people tell you to use your brain. They are not joking, you should really use it. Maybe that’s why you’re not really successful, because you don’t use your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 11:51 AM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Or maybe you can’t read and understand. I wrote in my comment that it’s weird to ask such questions. Maybe try using your brain. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 11:22 AM |
| -1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Lmao this was a rhetorical question. I was on your side and agreeing with you on your first comment smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/04/21 08:12 AM |
| -5 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Ok...? Did I say, it’s ok, to ask men for their height? Everyone has their preferences. No one has to date anyone, if they don’t want to. But I can understand how hard it must be for short men to date. But blaming the society and all women will make your situation worse. There are plenty short men who are dating. Finding a partner isn’t easy for anyone! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 08:03 PM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?OP is a poor poor victim of this terrible society ☹️ Don’t you understand how much he is struggling because ALL women are horrible! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:25 PM |
| 0 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?It’s weird to ask how tall someone is, but it’s also fucking weird to ask how much someone weights. Who the fuck does that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:23 PM |
| 1 | Why is it more socially acceptable for women to want stereotypical men than vice versa?Who said that? Stop trying to be a victim and date whoever you want. Nobody cares! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 07:14 PM |
| 1 | [Q4All] Why do women simultaneously like being "strong" women, but also enjoy being physically small, dainty and weaker than men?You do realize that women are speaking of emotional strength, like being independent in their life and careers? I don’t know any woman who wants to be physically stronger than their partner. Idk why you asking this question. Doesn’t really make sense to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/04/21 03:44 PM |
| 2 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?Agree with you. Idk what’s u/estrojennnn’s problem is. Looks like a dude who is trolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 08:18 PM |
| 0 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?“BuT nOt AlL mEn aRe LiKe ThAt” | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?Exactly! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 08:14 PM |
| 0 | Do women underestimate the strength of smaller men?No. Because I know that men are built stronger than women. But for me personally, I think everyone is stronger than me. Doesn’t matter which gender. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/04/21 08:13 PM |
| 3 | Women having casual sex are mostly disqualified for LTRs by men that have never had casual sex.Maybe it’s you and not the virgins | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 12:20 PM |
| 1 | For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?Not throwing anything around. Just telling facts. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/03/21 08:52 AM |
| 10 | For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?Do you really want an answer or just want to argue? Are you salty because you are not the ideal type of men for women? FDS women don’t want a man who does everything and they don’t have to do anything. Of course they would give too. It’s for women who had bad experiences with men and now want to work on themselves. You are very biased and misogynistic. FDS isn’t a religion where every member follows every rule strictly. No one expects a man who does everything. They just want a man who treats th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 08:44 PM |
| 1 | For a legit HVM, what does he get out of dating an FDS woman? What's in it for him?Well said 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/03/21 08:34 PM |
| 1 | Why does society ignore the fact that 80% of murder victims are male???? I want power, money and freedom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 07:15 PM |
| 4 | Why does society ignore the fact that 80% of murder victims are male?We are talking about male victims. (Or at least, my friends and I are. And I read online about it. Maybe you should search better) Men don’t want talk about it, because they are ashamed of it or they don’t get taken seriously. More men should talk about this problem. But most men just sit there and wait for the women to talk about their problems. Although many women already talk about men’s problems and take them more seriously (more than men do, in my opinion) it is not really women’s job to ta… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/03/21 06:45 AM |
| 8 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offVery well said | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 2 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offAgree | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 09:39 PM |
| 1 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offThen stop running after hot girls and run after someone who is „your level“ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 09:38 PM |
| 1 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenhttps://mobile.reuters.com/article/amp/idUSTRE5AB0C520091112 https://amp.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2020/mar/30/the-men-who-give-up-on-their-spouses-when-they-have-cancer https://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2009/11/091110105401.htm https://www.oprah.com/relationships/why-men-leave-sick-wives-facing-illness-alone-couples-and-cancer | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 06:57 PM |
| 5 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenBecause women in western countries have fighted for it. And still are fighting. You laugh because you feel attacked. https://www.bustle.com/p/13-simple-things-women-couldnt-do-50-years-ago-in-the-us-66601 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 04:33 AM |
| 0 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenYou hate women who have rights ;) And like a said: poor girl who has to marry you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 04:21 AM |
| 5 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenYou really think men have it harder? Lmao you serious? No they don’t. You should read more about it. And don’t be bias. We both know, that both have it equally hard. But if you really want to be the victim, it’s fine to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 04:18 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenYou think a woman is only worth when she is a mother and housewife?? Am I communicating with someone from the medieval? Dude, are you sure that you even into women when you hate them so much? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 04:13 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenTrue, men will work more difficult jobs. Women on the other hand will have it even harder to get any jobs. Women get judged more and have to prove more, even when they are little girls. You can google it too and learn more about women’s struggle, because there are many things. Women have it harder in some things and men have it harder in other things. And try to read correctly. I didn’t say, women have it harder than men. Just that men don’t have it harder than women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 04:09 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenLmao you think that’s the reason why women divorce? Nope! The reason can be many things. And why do women divorce nowadays more than before? Easy, because women have rights now. They didn’t before. If women in your country had the same rights as western women, they would probably divorce more (too). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 04:01 AM |
| 1 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenNah that’s not all what he said. He said, you shouldn’t respect a woman who has many sex partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 03:57 AM |
| 3 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenThat’s an effect. Doesn’t mean the society thinks like that. Men don’t have it harder than women. Show actual studies, not some Wikipedia articles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 03:56 AM |
| 2 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenLmao what are you talking about? Look dude, I never had any sexual experience with anyone. Because that’s my choice, not because a religion or men told me. And the difference between virgins and other women who had sex is.... 🥁.... NOTHING! Why are you so afraid of women who had more experiences in bed than you. Are you afraid she will compare you to other men? And why are you being sych a hypocrite? You think it’s not ok for a women to sleep around. But it’s ok for men? Guys here don’t need you… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 03:50 AM |
| 10 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenShe is poor because she has a husband who is misogynistic and judge a whole group of women because they don’t live their lifes like HE wants them to live it. Poor because you think a woman should be like a slave and behave and dress like you tell her. It’s funny how guys like you say they want a modest woman, but then will go and look after half naked women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 03:39 AM |
| 14 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenNot true. Men will most likely leave their wifes for something better. If a woman has cancer, a man will leave her most likely. If a man has cancer, a woman will stay by his side. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 03:34 AM |
| 6 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenLol in what world are you living?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 03:32 AM |
| 7 | Men are just as “shallow” as womenPoor girl who has to marry you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/02/21 03:30 AM |
| 0 | Are all women disgusted whenever a man opens up or is vulnerable? Like subconsciously?What a dumb question. Of course, you just had a shitty gf. You don’t need validation from anyone. It seems to me, that YOU lost hope in yourself after the shoulder surgery and felt insecure (which is normal). How ONE woman treated you has nothing to do with how all women are smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 07:17 PM |
| 5 | Men should adopt women’s mindset when it comes to dating and relationshipsOP, you are 100% right! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/02/21 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Women feel the same way about men they’re not attracted to as men feel about gay men.I understand what you are saying and I agree with you. That’s why it’s important to build a healthy relationship with yourself, so you won’t give a fuck what others think about you. And at the same time, it’s important to teach the society (aka us all!), that all men are humans. For many hundred years, men were blamed when they behaved like humans. If they didn’t act like certain way or achieved certain things, they would be blamed and “man”-shamed. Fortunately more men get aware of that problem… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/01/21 03:40 AM |
| 1 | Women feel the same way about men they’re not attracted to as men feel about gay men.And the reason why some women don’t wanna date you, has mostly nothing to do with you. You aren’t the center of their lives. They could be many reasons why they don’t wanna date you. And it could be even that they don’t have any reasons why they don’t wanna date you. And you know what? They don’t have to. You aren’t entitled to anything. And same goes for women. You could be the hottest guy in the city but that doesn’t mean, everyone wants to date you. Welcome to the reality! For example: I thin… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/01/21 07:13 PM |
| 1 | It's not that women are saying being nice is arousing, it's that they are saying they don't like jerks or assholes, but end up with an asshole anywayI think: - mentally unstable women like assholes. - just because someone is confident, doesn’t mean he is an asshole - maybe you think you are nice, but actually aren’t | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/01/21 08:30 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI didn’t imply that your wife was cheating. Lmao, dude I don’t even know her. So I thought you were calling yourself out that you had cheated on her. I got so confused, why did you even bring the cheating part up lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 08:02 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerAre you saying you cheated on your wife?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerWhat do you mean with “doesn’t cheat”??? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 11:07 AM |
| 1 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerMaybe your wife doesn’t want to sleep with you because you take it for granted that she works in the house (even if it’s less than you do).🤐 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/01/21 12:08 AM |
| 5 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerBecause it’s not the reality. No one said, that men don’t to anything, just that women do more. You don’t even see the things or don’t know how much time and effort a woman put in them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerDoesn’t matter if you pull this out again and again, when this is BS! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 01:51 PM |
| 81 | Women rapidly lose interest in sex once in a stable relationship or living with a male sexual partnerI think it had something to do, that women have to do some much more. Clean the house, look after children, work. While most men (especially those who don’t have a higher level of education) just only work. Most men (and this my and almost every women I know experience) don’t know or better: don’t care about cleaning and doing chores (unless they’ve been told to do it, like a child). And this is very unattractive to a woman. And the women don’t have much energy (after years). If the man doesn’t … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/01/21 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Despite men and women being roughly equal in population, attractive men are seen as scarce, why is that?I think women put more effort in their appearance. Hair, skincare, makeup and clothes. Of course not all, but I don’t think I need to say that. No, women are not pickier than they were like hundred years ago. Women have more rights today and can be more independent. Today it’s more accepted when men wear makeup (I mean compared to like ten years ago). Maybe more men will be lucky, if they can wear makeup. If women would care about their appearance just like men, I’m pretty sure men would be pick… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/01/21 03:42 PM |
| 0 | CMV: It's absolutely possible for older (40+) men to bang younger (<25) women, but the only ones doing so are guys who have always been sexually successful since their teens/early 20sThanks! This is so creepy. I hate men like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/21 04:35 AM |
| -1 | TruthJust imagine the genders would be swapped! More women do date “not attractive” men. Men are the “visual” gender. I know it’s satire and I laughed at this post, but still there are some salty guys in the comments, who are annoying. Stop being so hypocritical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/21 07:22 AM |
| 15 | Do not get in a car with a man you are fighting with/breaking up with. PSAANOTHER TIP: My sister had few blind dates. She always takes one or two friends with her. The friend(s) just says Hi to the guy and leave them alone. While my sister is on the date, her friends do other stuff. And after the date they will meet again. Idk if it’s weird for you. But I don’t think it is. I am talking about blind dates / first dates! Imagine a first date in a shopping center: my sister would have a date in a restaurant and her friends would be shopping. She does it: a) to be safe an… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/20 10:19 PM |
| 5 | Men making us feel ugly but they have hair on their shoulders they can brush with a comb, pot bellies, receding hairlines, pubic hair face beards, bad oral hygiene & dandruff flakes on their clothes. My standards have become much higher because of this sub. No more 🤡I think I have to vomit 🤢 ewwww | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 07:10 PM |
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