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Women are continually evaluating their emotions and their relationship. What a man did last week means nothing in the present moment." Women need MEAT and they forget they ate it. Exactly this.
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 04:01 PM
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Yes. I got divorced. Went single...lost weight, made money etc. Then hit bumble, that was a FULL TIME fucking job in itself. I have met the most broken women on dating sites. Their ulterior motive seems to be free meals, vacations and looking for a guy with the most money and least brains to pay their bills for them. I'm not their daddy, I want a partner not a daughter. And they don't like that. I've been happily single for almost 10 years. Everything you want or need can be found on the interne…
/r/Divorce_Men12/08/22 03:59 PM
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This. Your wifey’s friends and family aren’t your friends. If anything happens they’re taking HER side. This is one of the main reasons I don’t really see a point in getting emotionally close with another person. What’s the point when it’s all a facade, and unlike last time, this time, I know it.
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 04:36 AM
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Yep. I had a bird like this many moons ago. That’s called “Emotional Manipulation”
/r/Divorce_Men10/08/22 04:34 AM
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Reads like a book. Yep. That’s how it usually happens, you got, got brother, we ALL did.
/r/Divorce_Men09/08/22 09:07 AM
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Definitely!
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 04:54 PM
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Guess you can say you weren’t “hittincervix” 6 months in ..🤭 (Sorry I couldn’t help the pun) Yea, that’s how it normally happens, I don’t know a SINGLE guy who served that didn’t get cheated on. I don’t believe in much, but I do believe in patterns, strange.
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 04:52 PM
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Title reads: 32 y o blind side divorce “My wife after our third child slowly started losing her mind. Believing I was cheating, selling drugs etc. meanwhile I was working 50-70 hours a week trying to support our family of five and start a business. After months of this extreme paranoia we had a fight. She called the police. Temp ro as bail conditions. One month later she files a separate dv ro. One month later she files for divorce. “ Looks like she planned this. People don’t just lose their min…
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 02:06 PM
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Funny how when that career ends that “Love” ends..hmm..🤔
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 01:59 PM
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“ all while fucking your best friend who you let stay in your basement because he got in a fight with his wife, leaving you homeless in the middle of winter. All of your stuff, you dog, your dreams, your pride, your feeling of self worth, your will to live.... Kiss it all good bye.” Oddlyspecific 🤔
/r/Divorce_Men08/08/22 02:46 AM
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Don’t be confused. You posted this ina divorce forum, most people here are going to tell you to call it quits..🤦‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/22 10:36 PM
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Yes, OP, THIS is the answer. How would you feel if the shoe were on the other foot??
/r/Divorce_Men04/08/22 07:23 PM
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Because women can’t be pleased.🤦‍♂️ Are you new??
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 02:29 PM
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“Just lease them if you feel like sex and carry on.” Amen
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 02:25 PM
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If you don’t mind me asking, how long where you guys dating/married?
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 11:36 AM
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Holy shit;You rich bruh??🤦‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 02:02 AM
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There’s a lot of holes in your story, hard to give you sound advice bruv.
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 02:01 AM
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Stfu
/r/Divorce_Men01/08/22 01:41 AM
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I’d rather staple my nuts to a park bench and cover my ass in fire ants than ever do this shit again.
/r/Divorce_Men31/07/22 03:54 PM
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“my story, in short, I met my STBXW after she divorced from an allegedly abusive marriage. ” 🎼Don’t save her, she don’t wanna be saved. Some would say that this is your karma for playing Captain-Savea-Hoe.. But since I don’t like kicking a man while he’s down, I’ll say this. If you’re NOT happy with your choice in lawyer you need to find a new one. This is one of the most important battles of your life, don’t fuck around.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 12:39 AM
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You again with you spam?? Piss off you little wanker. Trying to capitalize on our pain. Smd.
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 12:32 AM
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Lol. Escorts are overrated. Most of them really don’t want to do the job they were assigned, as SOON as she gets what she wants, that costumer service goes out the window. Not to mention the ones that rush you 8 mins into the session, and argue with you, accusing you of “holding in” your ejaculation in an effort to “prolong” the session even though you already compensated her for the allotted time and are no where near the session being over. Or STD’s/ if you’re smart having to wear a condom kil…
/r/Divorce_Men20/07/22 12:16 AM
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Yep. This right here. You can read em’ like a book.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 10:09 PM
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🎡
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 10:03 PM
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Lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men19/07/22 02:56 PM
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Username checks out 😔
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/22 06:27 PM
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Ok boomer😌
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/22 02:11 AM
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“Just being able to live my life without constant fear of criticism is such a relief.” This.
/r/Divorce_Men11/07/22 12:24 AM
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Wtf? How old are your parents?? 100?
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 11:52 PM
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“ You seek out only the answers & the specific responses that you want to hear …..even if it’s all untrue. Then any response that you don’t like personally you attack and say “that’s not true” or “where’s your proof” or some other nonsense like that. ” Welcome to Reddit🤷‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 03:29 PM
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Yep. That’s how it always goes.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/22 03:17 PM
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☝️
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/22 09:33 PM
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What was it?
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/22 06:29 PM
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The only thing that’s stopping you from booking up are your “morals” 🤷‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men03/07/22 11:30 PM
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Maybe she did have a penis and felt welcomed, this world is getting progressive nowadays 🤷‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/22 04:14 PM
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This.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/22 05:04 AM
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Escorts are overrated. Most of them really don’t want to do the job they were assigned, as SOON as she gets what she wants, that costumer service goes out the window. Not to mention the ones that rush you 8 mins into the session, and argue with you, accusing you of “holding in” your ejaculation in an effort to “prolong” the session even though you already compensated her for the allotted time and are no where near the session being over. Or STD’s/ if you’re smart having to wear a condom killing …
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/22 07:26 PM
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Part-time whore but full-time clubber.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 08:11 AM
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Women are like Pit Bulls, once they bite down?? It’s over.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 07:59 AM
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You got got, we all do.
/r/Divorce_Men06/05/22 07:57 AM
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I’m angry right now. I don’t walk around like this all the time.🤦‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 01:54 AM
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Hangry. It’s what happens when they run out of rug to munch.🤷‍♂️
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/22 01:41 AM
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“ Eg. Orthodox Jewish men and the “get”.” Unaware; aware me🤔
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 11:01 PM
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You’re an idiot.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 09:56 PM
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Everyone has either own individual personalities. That being said, both men and women have innate qualities and traits due to gender and also societal standards, expectations and experiences. In other words women have tendencies that men don’t and vice versa.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 09:21 PM
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No. I don’t. But I do think both men and women have certain tendencies.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 09:14 PM
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Ok, dude, what are you trying to get at here? Do you have a legitimate question or are you here to incite shit?
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 08:57 PM
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I think you need to learn how to read.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 08:38 PM
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What made you call quits? You were so close😩😂
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 08:27 PM
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Mine said the same. “You treat me so good, I’m not happy, I don’t know why🥺” It’s a game you can’t win. I’ll still DATE, but marriage? Common law? Naw.. I’m good.👋
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 07:35 PM
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LOL, WELL SAID
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 06:27 PM
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“They each have varied degrees of kindness but this spectrum at best just translates over into how hard they will fuck you when they decide they're done with you... and you'd better hope it isnt inversely correlated. Oh and the criteria for deciding their done with you, even dumber. "Because you say mean things"” 100%. I couldn’t have said it better myself; when they “decide they’re done with you”, and when they do.. There’s nothing you can do about it. Such a clown game and a fool’s errand chas…
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 05:47 PM
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Learn to read.🙄 Your reading comprehension sucks. That isn’t just relationships/long term. It’s dates, summer flings, one night stands, escorts, friends with benefits etc. as well.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 04:47 PM
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This is true. Men are also assholes. Problem is.. that’s not really my point. I’m jaded and the odds are stacked against relationships (for both genders). Ask your parents how many tinder matches they had at age 20? They’ll probably think you took a hit of ACID before coming over. They won’t be able to answer because it wasn’t relevant when they were young. The world has changed, society has changed, and in turn dating has changed. There’s no going back now.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 02:35 PM
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That’s where I’m at. Fuck contracts. Why do I have to sign paper work to be with you?🤔
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 02:19 PM
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What is an “incel”? Is it a word you use when you don’t like what someone said in a poor attempt to Insult them? Look up the word, fool; wrong context. Second. You have yet to debate anything I said in the post, I’d be more than happy to expand my thoughts and have a civil debate with you, who knows, you might even change a few view points of mine🤷‍♂️ But, if you don’t have anything of quantifiable value to add? Then please GTFO of my thread.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 02:01 PM
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There ARE good women. I’ve met them. Not all men are perfect nor are all women. The reason why this rant came across this way is because I’m a straight man who only dates women. I feel your pain, sending a prayer your direction.🙏
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 01:52 PM
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Facts.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 10:58 AM
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Yeah maybe.. The problem with pros are, a lot of them don’t want to do their job. As soon as you give them what they want, they’re trying to get you out of there as SOON as possible. Sure, there are some that love/do their job. But al most of them really care about is the money, and it’s not like I’m fat, ugly or out of shape either. It’s just the way they are. Hustlers.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 10:57 AM
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Maybe. But I’m confident on my beliefs now, I have a lot of experiences to compare notes to.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 10:54 AM
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Yep. Exactly. I can’t be bothered to do the song and dance for some rancid hole in between her legs anymore.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 10:53 AM
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Only time will tell. There are women who will stick with you through shifty times. Problem is.. You gotta be fucked up to really know. All I know is to love a bitch is to roll the dice and the odds aren’t in your favour.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 10:52 AM
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This.
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 07:10 AM
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🤣👏
/r/Divorce_Men26/04/22 07:02 AM
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Good lucky my brother; I just said a prayer for you u/pilotbrown16 may thenLord be with you Monday🙏
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/22 07:08 PM
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Woah. That’s fucked. Please tell me you’re doing better since then..
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/22 06:37 PM
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What?? Wtf happened man?
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/22 05:21 PM
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FUCKERSSSS💪😤✊
/r/Divorce_Men16/04/22 05:19 PM
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Bingo! Someone give this guy a medal🥇
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 07:36 PM
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Facts!
/r/Divorce_Men11/04/22 07:35 PM
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r/divorce_men is for men, feminist not allowed 🚫
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 11:43 PM
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Does your mommy still tuck you into bed and feed you warm milk? This ain’t no “pill” shit. This is real shit. Where in any of the comments or OP did I lie? Just because you want to remain ignorant didn’t mean the truth still doesn’t exist.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 01:41 PM
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Fuck em’😤
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 05:44 AM
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True. I’m getting there. Let me have my moment sir.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 05:20 AM
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Didn’t bother to check what sub you stumbled on huh? Of course I’m bitter.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 04:54 AM
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That doesn’t sound right. There are men who are 50 and older who still go for runs regularly and maintain an active life. I hope you can find a route of exercise that works for you friend.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 02:35 AM
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This. Don’t be trying to play hero. You might be doing more damage than good. Go get proper legal counsel. Good luck.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 01:35 AM
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Why is it impossible? Are you 90?
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 01:29 AM
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Facts. I just fucked one last night.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 01:16 AM
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I’m not running from love, if it finds me I welcome it with open arms. The truth of the matter is, MOST women you meet won’t be the one for you. That’s just being realistic; that being said, women by nature like to play a lot of games.. games, games, games. How many times have you invested time into a woman thinking it was going to go somewhere only to have wasted your time? And not through any fault of your own either. This is exactly what I mean. If you find the one you think is for you? Cool,…
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 01:10 AM
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The time you take to strategize a strategy to get to the cheese, I can guarantee you, you could’ve gotten a shit load of other things done. Other things that actually yield a ROI instead of entering a rat race to please someone who can never be satisfied.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 12:58 AM
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“ any debt you aquire will be your responsibility, and debt your wife acquires will also be your responsibility.” Don’t shoot your self in the foot.
/r/Divorce_Men10/04/22 12:44 AM
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Yes.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 06:11 PM
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Correct.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 02:42 PM
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Didn’t read the thread I see.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 02:12 PM
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No thank you. You’re free to do as you’d like, as for me? I’m done.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 01:15 AM
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haha, I love that.
/r/Divorce_Men05/04/22 12:11 AM
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It’s always a risk of STD’s, but if you wrap it up you’re probably going to be fine. As far as the law, you gotta be smart about it. Do your research. But yeah it’s always a risk. But once you find a few girls who are legit, it’s literally life changing. Why waste time chasing pussy, when you can get direct access to it.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 06:58 PM
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Exactly. A lot of guys don’t want to admit it, but that pussy comes with a price tag. You are ALWAYS paying in someway or another. Like say, you have a fwb that “doesn’t cost you anything”🙄. In that case, I guarantee you, you’ll be going places, doing things, and inadvertently spending money that you wouldn’t have spent otherwise. Would you take yourself courtside to a sports game for the fuck of it?? Yeah? You “would”? Okay, well I’m that case, would you take yourself courtside to a sports game…
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 11:14 AM
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I’ve tried. I’m sick of the bullshit and the games they play. There always bullshit, and you’re always investing time; time I no longer am willing to waste just to feel some pussy.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 02:06 AM
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That’s great; but that is rare. In my experience, that’s how it starts, but as time progresses the girls usually want more. Plus there is a time investment there, I doubt they’d be okay with you setting up a time, having sex, then walking out right after.. So it all depends on what you’re looking for.
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 02:04 AM
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I don’t know about you, but I’m tired of the “games” these women play.🙄
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/22 01:26 AM
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As the saying goes there are no”losses” just lessons. Every time I’ve been rejected in some capacity it’s ALWAYS worked out for my betterment, even if it didn’t see it as such in the moment. Learn from this. If you don’t mind me asking, what was the “misunderstanding”?
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/22 09:21 PM
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