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Focusi/r/askTRP31/12/14 06:23 AM
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Focusi/r/askTRP06/06/14 08:41 PM
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Field ReportFocusi/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 10:18 AM
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My favorite has to be “you make me feel safe”
/r/RedPillWomen16/05/21 04:23 PM
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So you don’t like his looks nor his personality... Why are you trying with this guy? Does money and status mean more to you than happiness?
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/21 07:50 PM
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My girlfriend being a prime example. She’s a bisexual girl with a massive fetish for petite things. She is quite tiny and I am quite large. The horniest I have ever seen her was when I was nutting in this tiny girl right in front of her while looking into her eyes. She also has massive power fetishes and likes it when I am rough/bossy/do what I want
/r/askTRP20/03/20 02:40 PM
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How’s your reading comprehension coming along there mate? He used it as an example, not stating that he’s a 7 and they are 5s. That said I agree with you
/r/askTRP27/10/18 03:21 AM
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80/20 is for plates. There’s no way you are gonna maintain a long term relationship if you are doing 80/20 because she will feel like you are not interested. Also as far as compliments go, if you like doing it then do it. Just make sure they are genuine compliments about how you really think. Not some half hearted shit to try and make her feel good
/r/askTRP24/11/17 11:43 AM
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Have you visited an endocrinologist instead of a general practitioner?
/r/askTRP10/11/17 06:56 PM
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Yeah definitely don’t let it rest for a week. There are so many studies showing that frequency is king for growth if you are natty so hitting all muscles twice a week would be better such as using a PPL schedule
/r/askTRP08/11/17 12:15 PM
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Oh GLO you controversial asshole. Always on point, I love it
/r/TheRedPill24/10/17 09:23 AM
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There's a lot of good advice given here but the main thing I'd add is to learn to have fun by yourself and enjoy being alone. Once you get there, sure it sucks when someone flakes but at least you can so something you enjoy by yourself and then you'll quickly get over the negative emotions
/r/askTRP12/10/17 10:33 PM
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Show interest in the person, it's not much more difficult than that
/r/askTRP06/10/17 03:58 PM
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Female game = be feminine
/r/askTRP06/10/17 02:19 PM
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Bad diet, stress and lack of sleep can all contribute to decreases in Testosterone as well as an increased fat mass
/r/askTRP09/09/17 12:08 PM
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For us, not for them
/r/askTRP30/08/17 01:44 PM
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80-20 principle still applies. It's just shunned upon
/r/askTRP26/06/17 01:42 PM
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Lost around 100 lbs over a 1.5 year period and I've kept it off for 2 years now
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 06:26 PM
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I've lost a lot of weight and kept it off using the above method. I have also built a lot of muscle mass and gained a lot of strength.
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 11:56 AM
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This is one of the most retarded and uninformed comments I have ever read on TRP
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 09:23 AM
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Actually it depends on the deficit you are running. The higher the deficit the more protein you need to eat to retain muscle nitrogen balance. For maintainance or bulk this stays true however
/r/TheRedPill20/04/17 09:16 AM
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Something TRP has taught me throughout the years is that I should never take anything at face value. That includes politics. The past election period has been a wild ride where there's been an internal conflict at the top level which they then projected onto the population and look where it got us. Also I just watched the Joe Rogan podcast with Alex Jones and holy shit is it juicy. Since I don't take things by face value I am inclined not to trust everything I heard on there. But I'll be damned …
/r/TheRedPill04/02/17 02:12 AM
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The only thing people will ever value you for is based on is what you have accomplished in life
/r/askTRP12/10/16 08:59 AM
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You kind of contradict yourself here. If you are trying to show you DGAF you do GAF. Not GAF will automatically mean you show that you don't. In no situation what so ever feel like you need to say you DGAF
/r/TheRedPill03/08/16 11:04 PM
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I live here, let's get hunting
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 05:50 PM
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It's not even left liberalism, it's straight up socialism
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 05:48 PM
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As another Swede I might just take you up on that offer
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 05:46 PM
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As a fellow Swede. A fucking men. I'm taking the first ticket out of here
/r/TheRedPill04/07/16 05:04 PM
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The thing is if you are undereating / sleeping then too much workout can become a problem. I have shorter workouts with more focus on heavy weights when I cut compared to bulk since my body can't handle as much work without energy and nutrition
/r/TheRedPill22/06/16 10:00 AM
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Then nothing to worry about, train hard, eat right and sleep well
/r/askTRP19/06/16 12:48 PM
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Everything in moderation. Energy drinks in general are packed full of crap but 1-2 before workout won't kill you nor make you fatter. In the end it's calories in and calories out so just make sure you count any possible calories
/r/askTRP19/06/16 11:54 AM
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It's generally adviced not to heat your food in a plastic container in a microwave for similar reasons
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:36 AM
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Because deficient and optimal amounts do not correspond
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:33 AM
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Humans originally ate barly no carbs whatsoever nor did we actually eat vegetables, we hunted and then ate that. This sometimes makes people skeptical as to why we need certain minerals and vitamins found in vegetables etc as they think our forefathers got none of this in their diet. What people miss it that our forefathers ate the WHOLE animal, that includes all the organs which are rich in both minerals and vitamins
/r/TheRedPill30/05/16 10:32 AM
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I'm just surprised she expects you to pay for it. Where I'm from and where my family's spouses are from, if you're wedding is not easily accessible to your family, you pay for their trip
/r/askTRP28/05/16 03:10 PM
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Creatine actually has quite a long absorption time and it has been proven to be more effective when taken about 3 hours before a workout. Other than that just taking it everyday when you wake up is good because you get a good routine on it
/r/askTRP17/05/16 12:49 AM
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Absolutely but at 6' it's ~15% it's not unreasonable
/r/TheRedPill16/05/16 01:19 AM
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The problem with bringing this up is that it's other men who perform the act and so the blame will again be put men for being rapists violent and what other else
/r/TheRedPill20/04/16 03:12 AM
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I'd say there's a semi support for it. I've seen plenty of comments on various subs showing how ridiculous people think certain policies are. That being said however, the majority of reddit has for sure been indoctrinated on the women are supressed olympics
/r/TheRedPill23/03/16 11:51 PM
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Then you also have to realize they know it's GLO and do there's no way they are going to be objective in their assessment of his appearance
/r/TheRedPill19/03/16 04:21 AM
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You haven't seen too many movies. They do always end up with crazy parties. Congratulations you are single again
/r/askTRP15/03/16 12:27 AM
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The problem with RPT is both the fact that going that hard will burn out newbies and also that newbies don't have the experience require to really know how far they can push themselves. RPT isn't just go hard. It's go so balls to wall hard that you couldn't lift a pound more
/r/MarriedRedPill11/03/16 05:12 AM
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We literally have a minister of equality
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 03:47 PM
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Do what I did. Move while you can. Next thing you know men won't be allowed to move from the country because we have to support the women with our taxes
/r/TheRedPill10/03/16 03:40 PM
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Crabs are animals and so are we. No matter how much we try to deny it
/r/TheRedPill23/02/16 02:57 AM
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I tried to look at it this way. However the tone of what she writes and how she's defending herself without even a second thought as to what was said is what makes me doubtful
/r/askTRP22/02/16 05:53 AM
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Reading through this thread and the comments I can't help but be amazed. You seem to have learned a lot lf things but at the same time you're acting like you haven't learned a thing. First of all you seem to feel a need to defend every statement made towards you and most likely this is due to hitting a soft spot. You also seem incapable of taking criticism. I will definitely say that the comments made towards you aren't exactly constructive nor goal oriented but you're still rationalizing a lot …
/r/askTRP22/02/16 02:32 AM
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Height has a huge effect on both how males and females perceive you, especially females. Being fit and ripped does a lot for you, of course but it's not uncommon for the unfit (As long as not fat) tall guy to be picked over the single digit fat % manlet. After all length, length is almost purely genetics. However your muscle mass and body fat can be adjusted
/r/TheRedPill11/02/16 12:54 AM
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It does not only come of as needy. It is needy. The reason she wouldn't answer without that first text is because you fucked up somewhere earlier and the fact that you feel the need to get her reply IS NEEDY
/r/askTRP10/02/16 11:21 AM
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Sex is a lot more about the psychological part than then physical stimulation for women. Of course some stimulus is needed but making the girl your bitch is what's gonna make her cum most in the end
/r/TheRedPill12/01/16 03:13 PM
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This so much. Add those this the fact that if he's like most other TRP readers he might have been BP for a very long time and therefore not have had the chance to sleep with many girls. Not only will the grass be greener but that feeling of loss might be with you
/r/askTRP23/12/15 02:14 AM
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Flat bench is also one of the exercises during which most people use improper form. Also I wouldn't take to much of the advice of an IFBB pro if you're doing it natty
/r/askTRP06/12/15 08:43 AM
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Yeah we still met and sex was still regular but it was the first time I actually felt a girl was worthy of an LTR so it took some time before I adapted to it however. Like I said since then the relationship has been problem free
/r/askMRP26/11/15 07:07 AM
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The last part about ignoring hits me so hard. I am not married but I'm in a LTR since quite a while back, now at the start of our relationship she would get upset about some weird things that I just couldn't understand why but I realize now that when our relationship started I was still in single mode of no texting except for logistics etc and my girlfriend is from a place where texting is LIFE pretty much. Once I started texting her more it all stopped and the relationship has been problem free…
/r/askMRP25/11/15 08:38 PM
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Like others have said keep the dread going. Being Swede myself I know having female friends as a male and the other way around is generally accepted even hanging with each other alone while in a relationship. DO NOT ALOW THIS. If you can get her to accept that while you still do so that's free dread right there but how "fair" that is can be argued. Other than that if you keep working on yourself and put your needs over her you're already ahead of most guys in Sweden.
/r/askTRP23/11/15 07:01 PM
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If you can learn to not pity yourself but instead just hate the things that you can control (such as your weight) you'd be surprised at what you could do. I found TRP when I was 19 (21 now) and back then I was 290 lbs more or less. I lost about 100lbs and put on muscles as well (6'1). Completely turned my life around, I now live in another country alone at the age of 21 learning my 4th language as well. You can do anything you want if you're willing to work for it.
/r/askTRP26/09/15 09:09 AM
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Considering your age just get into it. Even if you don't lift (which you should) your hormones a long with the martial arts training and a good diet will give you a great look
/r/askTRP26/09/15 09:04 AM
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Like everyone else already said shave it. Other than that I have a friend in a similar position and what he does is put on that shit eating grin and then just says touching is 1 dollar / stroke
/r/askTRP26/09/15 08:56 AM
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As I learned more about RP and worked on myself I found I moved more and more away from the whole love thing and now I'm in a LTR (I live in a place where you can actually do that) but I'm still realistic in that I want to fuck this girl. She's a very cool person which is why she's allowed go stay in my life but if the sex stops so does my attention. That tingly feeling of "love" I used to have I never feel anymore but I'm happier now that I know how it works instead of the old me and those worr…
/r/TheRedPill22/09/15 06:52 AM
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"Starvation mode" aka storing belly fat as defense has been proven false over and over
/r/askTRP15/09/15 12:14 PM
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Make this a post if you haven't already. This is some really solid information here and it needs to be seen more.
/r/TheRedPill13/07/15 05:23 PM
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She's actually quite good at it but Korean food is not very rich in protein for example
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 05:18 PM
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Funny that cooking is on there. My girlfriend is a terrible cook when it comes to food that actually contains the macros I need so I tend to do all the cooking
/r/TheRedPill07/07/15 12:26 PM
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We've always said rep weight and 1rm weight to separate them where I'm from. Also x plate lifts have always referred to x amount of 45s on one side of the bar
/r/TheRedPill05/07/15 05:59 AM
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Thank you for this comment. I'm having some problems with my girlfriend right now because she keeps getting mad that I don't message her and sometimes don't reply to he messages. Because of situations we meet maximum 2-3 times a week and in the culture here texting is huge but I don't do it at all. For me it seemed like a stupid reason to get upset about but I realize not I'm not giving her enough attention and that's the problem, she doesn't get her regularly needed validation and it's driving …
/r/TheRedPill04/07/15 02:35 PM
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I used to think the same but then I realized it was because my mother had conditioned me to think so. But then again I'm sure you have your reasons
/r/TheRedPill22/06/15 06:10 AM
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Do not wish for an easy life. Wish for the strength to endure it.
/r/TheRedPill23/04/15 04:54 AM
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But you start off hot to rinse and then change to cold for the rest of the shower?
/r/TheRedPill21/04/15 03:08 PM
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You are absolutely correct as been stated on TRP many times. Women despise weak men. If you are sick always try to make it seem less than what it is. Never tell them about old weaknesses even if they are now no existing.
/r/askTRP20/04/15 03:40 PM
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There are many great points in the book but it should however be said that the book should be read with some sceptisism as the book has been "softned" to appeal to the masses. The underlying message however about becoming vulnerable could be read as becoming confident instead and that by itself will definitely help you
/r/askTRP20/04/15 07:11 AM
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As a person born and raised in Scandinavia the only difference is our males are pussy whipped AFCs
/r/askTRP13/04/15 10:14 AM
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Life's not only about getting laid but until you realize that you won't find your way
/r/askTRP13/04/15 10:11 AM
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Spot on! Swedens classical moral panic is the main reason I moved to Asia. Oh and Sweden is on the top 10 (maybe top 5?) of most gender equal countries in the world but you know PERRTREARKY N STUFF so extreme feminism is rampant and ever growing.
/r/TheRedPill05/04/15 09:46 AM
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I'd say the way people answer on question 2 truly determines how far they've come on their RP journey and if their answer is anything other than B they still have learning to do. There was someone who mentioned handling contacts and that it's your boss not your friend. That doesn't mean your boss won't lose respect for you if you fail to deliver a promise rather than standing up for yourself and getting your current task done first so that you may give the next one your full focus
/r/TheRedPill05/03/15 01:12 AM
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I'm usually not one to care about the stupidity that is feminism in North America but this is just ridiculous
/r/TheRedPill09/02/15 03:34 PM
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If you are beginning with little to no previous knowledge I recommend going on r/fitness and reading the sidebar there and then to pick on of the starting programs that they have. They work for sure and that's why they have been put there as to help beginners. Do not however be afraid to mix things up a bit to what fits you best. We all respond differently programs / diets etc. Consistency is key, fight on!
/r/askTRP03/02/15 08:46 AM
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Notice how GLO didn't make a single remark to grammatical errors but instead pointed out that the paragraphing was terrible? GLO just like many others on TRP are well aware of the fact that we have a lot of subscribers whom are not native to the English language.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 12:40 AM
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Watch Elliot Hulse's videos is something I can recommend. He talks a lot about energies in our bodies and draws a parallel to how depressed people have all their energy bottled up in their head and their thoughts. In other words what he says is if you work out often you are forced to move that energy into the body. That's when you started getting relieved of thoughts. I myself used to be depressed all though not to a level of feeling like everything was lost and working out did wonders for me.
/r/TheRedPill30/01/15 12:33 AM
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Story of my life
/r/askTRP28/01/15 01:13 PM
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If you really only do it to feel good and there are no covert contracts then you should be able to give to other people. People who need it more, will appreciate it more and who you won't "disgust" and "turn off" with that kind of behavior.
/r/askTRP26/01/15 04:17 PM
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When this happens that's a huge sign of disinterest from the girl. If she's interested she'll suggest another time / place.
/r/seduction14/01/15 12:06 AM
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I'd say you kind of come of as a bit butthurt when you just say don't come over. Make your intentions clear and say I want to be with you alone next time. Stay no contact for now though.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 04:15 PM
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Since I have no idea what the insults were I can't really assess the situation properly but part of "game" is something called "negging" which is pretty much pointing out negative things about the girl in a joking and non butthurt way. Sometimes this includes simple insults such as jokingly laughing at something they say and then going "god you're so stupid" etc.
/r/askTRP11/01/15 01:20 PM
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This is exactly the reply I wanted to get. I feel like things did go wrong and that I have things to work on. Right now I'm writing notes in shit tests that I know I failed after reflecting upon it so I can study my mistakes. Thanks for the constructive criticism
/r/TheRedPill03/01/15 11:50 AM
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I definitely think there's a lot of truth to what your saying and what I did. After reflecting upon the situations more I could think of something I did that would come of as childish.
/r/askTRP02/01/15 02:35 AM
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This was a big controversy sparked by feminism in Sweden and as a result men started to spread out even more. Funniest part is in Sweden people rather stand than sit next to strangers anyway...
/r/TheRedPill24/12/14 08:37 AM
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It's like that in Sweden too
/r/TheRedPill23/12/14 04:17 AM
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While I see where you are coming from and agree it's a mood killer. That's just how women are for you. Happens to me all the time too, you work past it and they WILL enjoy
/r/seduction21/12/14 04:34 AM
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If it's Sweden you're in then TRP will work more than wonders. Source: born and raised Swede
/r/TheRedPill20/12/14 05:35 PM
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Oh man this is worrying to me. For the last almost year or so I have been getting morning wood maybe once or twice a week at maximum. I still get a random hard on every now and day during the day and have no trouble getting it up but general motivation has been hard. What has kept me going I guess is the 30kg weight I've lost while gaining muscle and strength at the same time.
/r/TheRedPill16/12/14 02:24 AM
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Her SMV is most likely to low to attract guys like him and therefore he becomes unattractive. Full on hamster
/r/askTRP29/10/14 03:06 PM
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I'm moving to Seoul for a year on Saturday to study the language and try and find a job to stay eventually (If I like it) What I'm learnt so far is that it's hard to get by with English only. However the younger generations are extremely wellcoming of westerners while the older generations are sometimes even "hostile". Also everyone older than you, even by 1 year should be treated with utmost respect
/r/TheRedPill29/10/14 01:32 PM
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Hot, ugly, fat, boring, fun. I define women in my head by my general thought about them. It's no more complicated than that.
/r/askTRP17/10/14 11:25 AM
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You'd think it ends there but nooo. Here in Sweden about 50% of the people are socialists and except you to pay for just about everything THEY want.
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 09:05 AM
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I'm hauling my ass out of here as fast as possible. Starting with studies abroad
/r/TheRedPill16/09/14 07:49 PM
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I work at a bank here in Sweden and I actually had a customer in today with citizenship in both countries. He said that Sweden has become a mess lately and that he was even considering as far as to resign his citizenship. Sweden gets a lot of praise because people here have a "good" life. Basically it's almost impossible to crash yourself so hard you become homeless and you can get help whenever you need it. (you just have to wait for months and months). What's not considered however is how HAPP…
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 11:18 PM
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While FP consider themselves liberal it would honestly be offensive towards actual liberalism to call FP liberal. Klassiskt Liberala Partiet (KLP) is way closer to actual liberalism and is in my opinion something that we could sure make more use of in this country.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 11:15 PM
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If you would as much as hint at that here in Sweden you'd have at least 5 feminazis on your ass within the second. Unless you want everyone to come here and you want to pay 50% taxes because you've worked hard to become a CEO and earn a lot of money you're both A a racist and B an egoist. Welcome to fucking Sweden.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 11:12 PM
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Take in as much as you can for a few days. Build your own opinion and your own thoughts on how and why things work. Use this to eventually explain why you agree/disagree with posts and comments. Eventually more experinced RPers will give you their thoughts on it as replies. And start lifting. TODAY.
/r/askTRP15/09/14 09:12 AM
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It may have seem sarcastic but when I wrote I am all for a little insanity I meant that I do it.
/r/askTRP11/09/14 07:49 PM
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You are still going to the gym over and over.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 04:14 PM
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Funniest part about that quote is probably that to some extent that's what your doing with your lifting, but hey I'm all for a little insanity.
/r/askTRP10/09/14 07:10 AM
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You start seeing it as a challenge. Someone whos more attractive than you has an easier time with women. Your job is to out game him and pull the ladies
/r/seduction08/09/14 12:15 AM
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Which is why you should take a moment to think about it. Do this everytime someone adresses you and it will become a habit
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 11:50 AM
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Look them the eyes silently untill you know what to reply and how
/r/TheRedPill24/08/14 06:57 AM
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I have 2 tips for you. 1 stop drinking so much that you get emotional, TRP is about self improvement and heavy drinking is very self deteriorating. 2 ditch that group of shitty friends, If you feel that you cant be yourself around them because they will judge you then they are shitty friends. Be a man
/r/trpGAME23/08/14 09:19 AM
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Logged on at work just to link this shit: http://imgur.com/gallery/ve29V1x
/r/TheRedPill28/05/14 05:41 PM
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Sweden
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 01:05 AM
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God am I happy I live in a country where men can say no to parenthood either through abortion or you don't have to pay unless they can prove you were ok with getting her preggo
/r/TheRedPill09/05/14 12:35 AM
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Depending on how far you go while on them. If you stop at a level that is quite easily achieved as a natty you'll have no trouble at all maintaining it as long as you work every muscle once a weak and keep your diet clean enough.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:35 PM
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free weights with basic heavy compound movements will benefit newbies the most. It works multiple muscles so you will become stronger in general but you also don't overwork the muscles the same way you do when isolating so you'll have an easier time keeping up with training
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:31 PM
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Read what I wrote below, also your body reacts differently to different kinds of sugars/fats/proteins/carbs
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:28 PM
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Easier for the body to break down as it contains less substances compared to the above example of chocolate.
/r/TheRedPill04/05/14 10:27 PM
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