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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
25	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back?		Foid1376	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 03:19 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? But that's what I said. That I'm most concerned about how it will affect our relationship. How he'll see me mentally. And that the hormones will fuck with my attitude. The physical part is entirely secondary. But sex and our attractedness to each other is also a huge part of our relationship. I've always thought that putting the relationship first was most important, but most people think that makes you bad parents. I'm glad to hear from someone else who thinks that way	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 10:56 PM
2	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? I'm upvoting every bit of that except the "don't vaccinate" part. Fuck that. I like my children measles-free. Definitely wouldn't circumcise. That's just child mutilation for... what purpose do people even think it serves again? I can't remember what they say now. My husband is weirdly passionate about how kids shouldn't get circumcised lol he'll never forgive his parents for it. I'm glad and surprised that men see the nurturing side attractive. I get that it's a desirable trait—to be a good mom…	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 10:51 PM
2	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? Hm. I think I've assumed that most of the "mom"-change is hormones, but that makes a lot of sense. Yeah, that is what he said. But he's 24, and at the time we'd never really talked about having kids before. I think he thinks I'll turn into a generic "pregnant lady". I hope that when the time comes he'll come around... or at least be too horny to care if I'm pregnant or not lmao	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:52 PM
2	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? Fucking thanks for the input/advice guys. This is a hell of a lot more than I expected.	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:40 PM
2	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? I've gotten a small glimpse into the hormonal aspects of it. I donate my eggs occasionally (5–10k a round. Paid for college lol), and the meds I have to go on for those are like pseudo pregnancy. The first round I went on my husband and I fought a lot before I realized it was 100% my hormones making me a cunt and I had to eat shit. The donation cycles since then I've been much better about recognizing the hormonal hamster voice in my head and ignoring it. It's kinda like being a schizophrenic. I…	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:36 PM
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? You're definitely right. I knew this post was bordering on hamster reassurance (but it's the internet, I had nothing to lose). I do want to have my cake and eat it, too. And I'll be damned if I don't try to make it happen.	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:27 PM
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? Oh I never intended to say no to having kids if he wants to. I'm just trying to get an idea of what I need to keep in mind so I don't slip into used-up harpy-land during/after pregnancy	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:25 PM
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? That's the damn truth about the eating thing. You're right. A women only need a FEW hundred more calories a day when pregnant, not to eat "for two" obese adults lol	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:23 PM
6	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? (salutes) STFU is the best general piece of advice a woman can get.	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:21 PM
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? I haven't really heard this argument before, outside of some of the comments here: https://www.reddit.com/r/askMRP/comments/apur79/why_stay_with_an_old_woman/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share but I'm glad to hear it. (And I'm hoping he'll come around on the pregnancy sex thing when the time comes lol)	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:20 PM
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? Can't you be more on the carefree/not-a-buzzkill side and still be a good parent? (Trying not to wander off into parenting advice here) It seems to be generally accepted that "once you become a parent, your priorities change", but that can lead so quickly to the good-mother-but-not-good-wife syndrome. u/Redpillbrigade17 is right: I want to have my cake and eat it, too, goddamnit. My husband deserves a good mother for his kid and a damn good wife at the same time.	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 07:15 PM
2	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? Your opinion still counts. My husband originally said he didn't want to have kids for 10 years but I had to say, "If you want kids we gotta do this in the next few years. I don't want to be 30+ having my first kid. The female body does NOT seem to handle that well." I'm trying to play the balancing act between not having kids before we've lived our adult lives more and having them before I'm too old to bounce back, which is still super young in today's world. 30 is not the new 20 as far as our b…	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 06:35 PM
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? I've heard this sentiment before, too—I'm glad to see it validated—that women's obsessions and negativity over their post-pregnancy body end up turning their husbands off, not the body itself. Negativity breeds negativity. My husband's mom is the good-mother-but-not-good-wife type, and he knows it, too. He made me promise years ago not to end up like his mother lol Edit: What I definitely want to most actively avoid is us spiraling into the bitterness and "we're a couple bc we're parents" that I…	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 06:28 PM
3	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? And I haven't read RedPillWives. I'll have to check that out. Hopefully it's more useful than RedPillWomen	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 06:19 PM
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? This is exactly the kinda insight I was looking for. Thank you. I can see how becoming a parent could turn someone into a buzzkill, it's something we'll both probably have to keep the right perspective on. I really don't want to fall down the motherhood rabbithole of negativity.	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 06:19 PM
1	How bad do you wish you had your pre-kids wife back? Chilling my shit. Thanks for the input. Trying to get an objective perspective on the whole idea. It's really hard to tell what worries are warranted and which are the hamster running free. Edit: the mentality is what I'm most concerned with. The body is secondary. I see the way pregnant chicks and moms are, and sometimes it's like a switch went off in their brain. Women's hormones change for basically forever after having a kid. Fucking freaky.	/r/askMRP	08/03/19 05:45 PM