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| 1 | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?It's a desperate faked interaction not based on genuine honesty. This is just my personal opinion. You don't have to agree with it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:25 PM |
| 1 | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?It's convenient desperation. Still a turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/02/25 03:23 PM |
| 18 | Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffersHis entitlement is blinding him to what he thinks he deserves versus what he can actually get. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 03:13 PM |
| 10 | Online dating for men is really now not much worse than in person - you can be a desirable guy and still only match with hèffersTrue | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/24 03:05 PM |
| 8 | Relationships are a much bigger investment for men than they are for womenIf you are trying to fake a version of yourself that is unsustainable just to win over a woman you don't value, what are you really investing in, a fake personality? Disingenuous intentions are a recipe for failure, and she will feel the incongruence in your interactions over time, and eventually, you both will resent each other. When women say just be yourself, we mean that quite literally. You should start of being how you would be 2 years into a relationship (genuine), if you don't think it's… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/12/24 08:25 AM |
| – | Literally no man is “mad that women can choose their partners now.” This has absolutely nothing to do with TRP or men’s frustrations whatsoever and needs to stop being used as a deflection.You sound more entitled than the women you berate. You sound pretty mad and upset thanks for projecting your insecurities and low beta behavior. It's guy's like you that remind me that's it's not even worth trying to date. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/11/24 05:54 AM |
| 4 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministThis is why I'm friends with Wesley Snipes | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:59 PM |
| 8 | CMV: Men shouldn't help/physically protect women due to the risk of protecting a misandrist or a feministPreach! Wouldn't that be the dream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 10:58 PM |
| 2 | Women can have it allWell almost all the other guys were either rapist, criminals, or pedos. The only healthy guy she ever dated was my biological father. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/24 06:49 AM |
| 2 | Women can have it allYeah she sees it as a win for her as well somehow, ignorance is bliss I guess. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Women can have it allMy step dad doesn't clean the house, wash dishes, do Laundry, cook. He's basically a 56 year old grown baby that my mom has to take care of. When my mom is traveling he will let the house get to disgustingly dangerous levels of grossness. Meanwhile my mom pays disproportionate more money on bills and mortgage. I say he won the lottery with my mom, unfortunately she's co dependent on him. He's also a manipulative narc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/24 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyThere was a reason for bringing up rape it was the perfect counter to NoRoughs concluding statement. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyI'm speaking about the statement you made calling it a stretch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyI'm talking about the mightiest stretch statement you made | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyYou and I are talking about 2 different things, we're not even on the same page. I have no issues with the anecdote because its makes sense logically even if it's just an anecdote. I see an issue with the other statement that is just plain wrong. You are trying to bring up the first anecdote and trying to link it with the second statement. They are not the same they both have 2 different meanings so can't be bridged in the case of your argument. Most womem does not equal All women. Case in point… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyHe said most women not all. So it's easy to extract that some women not all women have agency. The quote implied all women, not some. These two statement are in direct contradiction with each other, literally. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:56 PM |
| 1 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyI was replying to your statement. If the woman gets raped she loses her agency. "That was the mightiest stretch I've seen." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:50 PM |
| 0 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyIt was implied with the blanket statment. "No kid happens that a woman doesn't want." This can be written in an easier to understand way. "A woman only has a baby if she chooses to." This is less ambigious and easier to see rape as the counter argument. I believe they worded it with two negatives earlier to take away comprehension from people that are less inclined to extract the actual logical meaning behind it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by societyThese guys are trying to misdirect you because they aren't able to understand the logic in their own argument. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:24 PM |
| -1 | Single dads shouldn't be encouraged by society"No kid happens that a woman doesn't want." I say Rape isn't a stretch it directly answers this statement with an exception that directly contradicts it. It be different if he wrote this istead. "Some kids happen that a woman doesn't want." This account for things such as rape so mentioning rape isn't necessary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/24 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Curious what women view as "good guys"I believe in you dictionary warrior, wish we had more like you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.I appreciate the compassion. Omg I'm so bad at league I'm basically Bronze 4/Iron 1. All my friends think I'm losing on purpose they can't believe I'm this bad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/24 02:47 AM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Thanks for clarifying I do absolutely agree with you. Ive learned many signs, but it seems I still can't tell no matter how hard I tried. My last boyfriend i chose because he was the typical nerdy sht guys that seemed really nice, not a mean bone in his body. And true enough he stayed and remained super nice no red flags and then one day he confessed he has sexual feelings for my niece, and I'm like wtf do you mean you have sexual feelings for my niece she's 7 years old! Completely blindsided ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 05:45 PM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.I'm not pushing a narrative I'm speaking about the personal abuse in my life and you are replying with, yall need to pick better and take accountability. This is so insensitive, lacks compassion, shifts the blame from the perpetrator to the victim. When someone is pretending an entire personality with bad intentions from the jump, and is a master at deception and manipulation. Instead of the abuser is negligent, a deceiving communicator and no accountability instead it's the women and children f… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.My mom definitely failed me as a child, but so did her ex boyfriends, I'm holding everyone accountable. I'm not going to blame her for picking wrong, all these guys really did start of wonderful. Christian men from God who would push and try to teach values. Within a few months the beating and sexual looks would slowly buildup over time. Even to this day I'm unable to tell if a guy is genuine or not or takes weeks to months to figure it or and by then it's already too late, the abuse cycle has b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 01:59 PM |
| 1 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.I was 8-12 years old at the time, kind of hard to notice signs when you don't understand why your step dad is hitting you or if a grown man is looking at me sexually. These guys were grooming children and unfortunately my mom was supportive with all the Physical abuse. So my siblings and I would bring up some of these things to my mom and she would beat us with the belt for 30 minutes until there were no tears left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/24 01:47 PM |
| 2 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Yeah tbh every guy started off amazing, super nice, friendly. Then one day they would get physically abusive, sometimes my siblings and I didn't even know why we were getting hit. One of her boyfriend would put cereal in his room instead of the kitchen. Any time we would ask for cereal he would beat us. Another guy was super nice at first, but he ended up being an actual pedo. The common theme was start of super nice then reveal who they are slowly over time. The only guy she ever dated who was … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/24 02:38 PM |
| 16 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.You know the thought about blaming a man for picking the "wrong" girl has never crossed my mind. I dont like to start off blaming the person supposedly being victimized. I usually give them the benefit of doubt. No one asked you to kneel and coddle, just not blame someone for another person's fuck up, this goes beyond just gender. This is just simply being a humanist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 04:40 PM |
| 15 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.This is so irraitional, every woman knows a horrible man usually starts off super sweet and sincere until the fake persona he used to attract her can no longer be held because he locked her in, so now he can stop pretending to be nice. A lot of guys don't account for this imposter pretending to be nice just to get his dick wet. Women know better because we are on the receiving end of this barbarism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 04:29 PM |
| 13 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.And there it is blaming the women for picking wrong? Is that literally the go to escape goat to absolve that man of his sins. Sounds like you are blame shifting. If you weren't you would have written that much different, see how this sounds compared to your above statement. "Thats unfortunate she ended up with a terible man, don't give up there are still good guys out there." | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 04:26 PM |
| 12 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Divorce is a way out for sure. But you are now financially dependent so with being out of the workforce and unemployed with children how will you survive? This situation above perfectly describes my childhood and it wasnt a happy go lucky one, it was filled with abuse, neglect, and terror. Not saying this applies to everyone, but let's not pretend these situations don't exist. Im living proof it does. My whataboutism is relevent to the point I'm trying to make. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 04:23 PM |
| 19 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.What if you ended up with a psychopathic Christian husband that ended up physically abusing you and your children for your entire lives? While God holds him accountable, he's still abusing you and making your life absolutely miserable. It can be 30,40,50, 60 years of abuse before that person passes and you are free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 02:26 PM |
| 32 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Better than being at the financial mercy of an abusive Narc. At any point the guy starts to be abusive she has the choice to leave. It's absolutely empowering and i don't think some men like this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 02:16 PM |
| 44 | Men; if you were a woman, would you be a trad wife, or would you aim to be a “modern woman”.Exactly this i had an unbelievably horrible childhood all because my mom was jumping between abusive men just they can cover the bills and have enough food on tbe table. All at the expense of mental and physical abuse. I would never recommend being at the financial mercy of a pedophile, rapist, narcisist. Its not fun people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/24 02:14 PM |
| 1 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?You don't become trans, you must meet the DSM-5 Criteria four Gender Dysphoria if you wanted to get on Hormone Replacement Therapy if that was a goal. If your goal of transitioning just to get pussy would mean you are faking something you are not in order to reap a particular benefit. It's fake, immoral and not true to yourself if you deluded yourself into something you're not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 06:38 AM |
| 2 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?Wow I was downvoted for complimenting your comment, shows the level of depravity we are dealing with here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/24 01:02 AM |
| 1 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?The Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) defines gender dysphoria as a significant difference between a person's expressed or experienced gender and the gender they were assigned at birth | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:48 PM |
| 1 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?Thus is one of the most disgusting comment I've ever read. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:37 PM |
| -2 | The male to female transgender rate as well as suicide rate in the US is around 3x higher in men than women. When will society simply accept that men have it much harder?Reading your comment is so refreshing I agree with you 100%. This subreddit mostly feels like the blame game and "Listen to me I'm louder," it's nice to hear a good take. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 02:23 PM |
| 5 | As a red pill or purple pilled man, what do you think about feminism?As a woman from the west I'm pretty happy so far with feminism. How has the west been declining since feminism? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/24 01:53 PM |
| 1 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateThese videos are terrible, it's taking women when they are at their most vulnerable and making fun of them with distasteful humor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 04:03 PM |
| 1 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateChad's provide a lot more than just sex. There never a reason to be jealous of anyone, you should be happy with your own life regardless of how other are experiencing theirs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 07:47 AM |
| 0 | The Reason Why Single Women Are So EntitledIm a non monogamous polyamorous women sharing people in relationships is right up my alley. You can't just pull fake statistics and claim I'm in agreement to them, absolutely not. I definitely don't want a real long term monogamous relationship you are absolutely right about that. I'm perfectly happy cucking it up to top men and I still have my freedom it works out for both of us. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/24 07:46 AM |
| 1 | The Reason Why Single Women Are So EntitledIt's not overinflated if the demands is there, that's just what the value is when factoring the demand in the equation. If most men weren't so desperate there wouldn't be such a huge disparity. You guys cause womens value to rise, then get mad when women equate themselves to the rightfully risen value by your own desperation. Instead of accepting the current value you instead try to lower her value by complaining on Reddit. Yall(those that share your belief) are actually living in an unrealistic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 01:43 PM |
| 0 | Women generally don't want us men to try to be friends with them, so it's up to us to act accordingly and listen to them.nOt aLL wOmeN! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 01:31 PM |
| 1 | This is the wrong way to teach about empathy.Not dumb enough to fool average people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/24 01:26 PM |
| 6 | Women generally don't want us men to try to be friends with them, so it's up to us to act accordingly and listen to them.No we prefer to do our own thing, men just get frustrated when they don't get their way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/24 06:14 AM |
| 1 | The fact that the majority of blue pillers not only downplay but outright deny that women have become delusional in their standards or that there is a serious issue in dating is a huge red flag and tells you they are not interested in an honest debateI've been called out as having delusional standards by lower status men, but can consistently land men that meet my standards (chads), then is it really delusional if it's not only attainable, but pretty easy to achieve consistently? This isn't delusional, but reality. I really think a lot of men on this subreddit are just jealous that these women aren't looking their way because they can't compete with Chad. You won't call out Chad so instead you call out women and try to convince them to lower… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/24 03:57 PM |
| 1 | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Is different to me. Paying for sex and hooking up are not the same thing. Paying for sex screams desperation while sleeping around signifies a high sex drive. It's more about the mentality than the act itself. I'm talking about the Psyche. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 04:04 PM |
| 1 | How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it?That's a good point | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 04:00 PM |
| 1 | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?It's not about pre selection. A man dates 100 women in one month, but has a horrible personality. Or A man is a virgin. He is a great guy with good values. To me the Virgin wins, even if they didn't dare before just based on quality of character. It's situational. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/24 03:59 PM |
| 6 | A root cause of the issues in dating today is that dating advice is not balanced for pro-social menI've been to the middle east before it's not a fun place for women, two tours to Iraq changed my entire perspective on the Patriarchy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:28 AM |
| 1 | A root cause of the issues in dating today is that dating advice is not balanced for pro-social menSociety was broken long before feminism. Everybody has a box of how they believe a good functioning society is, but that is just one version. Honestly I'm happier after the feminist movement than before. I do agree feminism did get a lot wrong, nothing is perfect unfortunately. You can't expect a beaurocracy to tell you how to think, that is something each person has to figure out on there own. Everything has to be validated that you learn otherwise is just speculation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/24 06:25 AM |
| -1 | How would you react if your son was accused of SA, and he denied it?You protect yourself girl, these guys won't know how it is unless they experienced it themselves. I've been screwed over by every single guy I ever met besides one. Do I think all men are bad, absolutely not. Do I think a lot of men are bad, absolutely. I feel you on the burning stove analogy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:20 PM |
| -3 | Should average men complement their dating life with escorts?Relationships and escorts are two different things. Relationships are supposed to be genuine whereas efforts is a paid service to make you think you are getting something genuine. It's a trick, imo dating a guy that's willing to be with escorts is not worth dating. Is rather be with a guy that had sex with over a hundred genuine women in real relationships than a guy that pays for just 1 escor, because it shows the type of mentality and desperation he has, huge turn off. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/24 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Women are poor communicatorsYour welcome, enjoy! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Women are poor communicatorsYou may not believe no one has issues with this, but it's true. Many people struggle with this and I said it was a "Micro Facial Expression," and "Body language cue." Not a social one specifically. The problem is there are many men that can't pick up on if someone is stressed out unless they are told. You may be able to do, but it doesn't mean everyone can. It's not just men, this is universal across every race, culture, gender. There are generally more men that are worse at picking up on micro … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/10/24 11:01 AM |
| 1 | Women are poor communicatorsYes it took me about a year to get really good. I served in the U.S. Army and I had a secret clearance so there was a potential for espionage from enemy forces. I needed to learn how to read facial expressions and body language because we ended up getting a mole and they got intel that got a lot of my friends killed. The mole even pretended to be my friend and I fell for his whole routine. Thinking back on the situation there were many times I would have suspected him of ill intentions if I had … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:49 PM |
| 1 | Women are poor communicatorsSure there are books on amazon too. Emotions Revealed, Second Edition: Recognizing Faces and Feelings to Improve Communication and Emotional Life https://a.co/d/5TwYWhk Start here, then check out some of his others. It's like a superpower once you learn it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:35 PM |
| 1 | Women are poor communicatorsLike I said voice isn't the only means of communication. Reading my mind would be me giving you zero body language/verbal cues and expecting you to k ow what I'm thinking in my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 07:50 PM |
| 5 | Women are poor communicatorsWrong I don't expect men to be mind readers, I only expect men I plan on dating to be able to read non verbal cues. This is a preference and I don't hold men that I'm only friends with to this standard. Verbal communications happen naturally, but I need my man to have both. A man that can't do this is automatically friend zoned. This is essential for communicating efectively for me and leads minimal arguments based on my history. Also i dont expect anyone( man or woman) to read my mind, if I'm n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 01:58 PM |
| 0 | Women are poor communicatorsIt's pretty realistic when a lot of men i speak to have this quality. I would never date a man that doesn't have this. It's not they need to know every single thing, but they should be able to tell how your feeling through body language. Spoken word has its place, I'm not saying a remainder should be 100% based on non verbal cuts, what I am saying is if a man understands how it works, it adds another layer of increased communication. It's not arrogant, immature, and unrealistic. This is a very r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 12:31 PM |
| 5 | Women are poor communicatorsForgot to mention that I was horrible at reading social situations as a child and it wasn't until Dr. Eckmans books did I realize this was something that can be learned. Now my social life is phenominal, also a lot of rape cases happen because the offender didnt know how to read non verbal behavior so this is helpful in that regard as well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:44 AM |
| 5 | Women are poor communicatorsDon't blame woman for your own poor communication skills, you can also learn to be great at reading non verbal cues. Everyone can learn this. https://www.paulekman.com/resources/micro-expressions/ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:29 AM |
| 0 | Women are poor communicatorsI agree 100% being socially intelligent is what makes a man not creepy. A man can't be supportive to a woman if he can't read a non verbal cue. How can you show empathy and support to a woman who's having a bad day if you can't even tell she's not doing well because you can't read the misery on her face. In my opinion being able to pick up on social cues is the bare minimum. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/24 11:17 AM |
| 2 | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areThere is definitely truth to what you are saying my sister has a very inviting bubbly personality especially with a first impression. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 10:44 AM |
| 1 | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areTheres clearly a disconnect with what men on this subreddit think is reality. Somethkng just isnt adding up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/09/24 10:42 AM |
| 3 | "Men would fuck anything" is just female fantasy for them to feel more attractive than they really areI dont believe that my sister is 37 years old and obese and super hot attractive men are all over her she gets attention from every guy every time she goes out its actually hilarious when I read these messages on reddit from beta ugly men | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/24 03:10 PM |
| 1 | Why do women still put in so much more effort in relationships instead of staying single?You are a rare one that's awesome I'm glad you and your girlfriend are able to compromise that's definitely a good thing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/21 03:44 AM |
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