FoodFour4Thought Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Movie recommendations that portray real masculinity That's up to you. For example, Kramer in Seinfeld is a guy that I would consider more redpill than macho vin diesel in any action movie, just because he's authentic ,he accepts himself, he follows his own rules, says what comes to his mind, is outcome independent, lives alone, doesn't have a boss ( or a job to begin with, he just gets by). You can find redpill traits and blue pill traits in almost every scene/character of any show. But Kramer also had blue pill moments ( like when he begged that…	/r/askTRP	04/04/21 01:43 AM
2	Me(M21) and friends sister(21) have a weird relationship "I’ve slept over at there house plenty of times" That's where I got the idea that you went there often. Anyway, In the best case scenario she's trying in a really fucked up way to interact with you and in the worst case she's straight up bullying you. She probably texted you because she felt lonely and wanted attention and knew that you would take the bait , your only purpose was to give her validation ( a.k.a beta bucks), but now she gets better validation from dudes that rank higher than you( …	/r/askTRP	21/03/21 07:36 PM
3	Me(M21) and friends sister(21) have a weird relationship Well let me see if I'm making a right accessment of this situation: - So we have this dude and his cousin, whom you tchill on a regular basis and developed a really strong bond for 10+ years - Then you have this dude's sister, who acts bipolar around you, treats you like shit in real life and is cute and all lovey dovey on social media. - Then we have you, a dumbass that hasn't read the sidebar, trying to make up all scenarios in his mind because this bitch is fucking with his head instead of gi…	/r/askTRP	21/03/21 10:43 AM
5	Cardio 101 Depends. How old are you? Your body is able to recover much faster in your 20s than in your late 30s/40. Do you have an athletic background? If you did sports in your childhood/teens, specially in a competitive way, your body has developed a muscle memory that allows you to develop physical tasks and learn movements much more faster and fluid than someone who hasn't. Do you exercise regularly? If you have a baseline, it is much more easier to start with the schedule you are talking about, the sa…	/r/TheRedPill	15/03/21 08:36 PM
10	Cardio 101 Well... I agree and disagree... Martial arts ( like muay thai,kickboxing,boxing, judo,jiu jitsu,wrestling) are great ways to improve coordination, discipline, improve physical condition, learn self defense and meet new people ( you can't drill exercises alone) However,we need to establish some differences. It's not the 2 days a week jiu jitsu or kickboxing class that is going to put you lean and mean ( atleast in the 12-10% body fat range), even though the warm ups are challenging and have a mix…	/r/TheRedPill	11/03/21 01:36 PM
0	Is she distant bc she's afraid of being just a plate or bc I'm just a plate? Now you are giving me reasons to be concerned. ASD? What? She's on Bumble, she's fucking strangers and sleeping on their apartments on the first date and you are worried she has ASD? Let me tell you another thing, before you she already fucked other guys the exact same way and I doubt you are going to be her last. Why the fuck do you want her to send you essays?Are you an English Teacher? I have an idea,next time ask her to make a drawing so you can frame it in your fridge and look at it everyda…	/r/askTRP	27/02/21 11:52 PM
0	Is she distant bc she's afraid of being just a plate or bc I'm just a plate? I would give her a soft next, after waiting a few days I would invite her for a coffee or to some place where you actually can get to know her better, you two already had sex and I think that is great because it's going to take away a lot of awkwardness and sexual tension, so you'll be able to get a more objective view of the situation. I might get a lot of shit for saying this, but I wouldn't fuck her after the coffee. You'll be sending her a different messages: If you go grab a coffee and then…	/r/askTRP	27/02/21 10:58 PM
25	What sacrifices have you made to be where you are today? Life is like a cruise ship, you might've met that person on that specific stop but that doesn't mean that both of you are going to the same destination. That was maybe the hardest lesson learned that people go on their path and I needed to follow my own , wheter that journey was going to be made alone or not. Your friends are a consequence of the choices you make for your life, you know? Might sound clichê but show me who you hang with and I'm going to tell you who you are. It's not about cuttin…	/r/askTRP	24/02/21 12:24 AM
1	Need urgent help with FWB, I may have fucked up Don't forget to update! Good luck	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 07:51 PM
1	How to not let my LTR fuck with my ego? Hey dude In my opinion you shouldn't be with a girl like this, she's clearly fucking with your self esteem and she sees herself more valuable than you in the relationship. This girl is trouble and you know it. Can't you see the red flags? She belittles you, she thinks she's superior than you, she drives 4 hours to be with a "friend" she probably has already cheated on you or is thinking of fucking that guy,, she's addicted to social media approval, I bet that she probably has slutty pictures on …	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 07:35 PM
10	Need urgent help with FWB, I may have fucked up Does she know she is a FWB? My diagnosis is that she thought that you were playing it slow but that you two were in a relationship or atleast that was what she hoped for. The same way that a player of any major league doesn't like being on the bench and only being called every other game to play 15 minutes. She wants to be part of the star team and I can't blame her. If she supports you, if does things for you without expecting something in return, if she respects you and is not constantly feedi…	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 04:36 PM
3	Any other tips for getting over oneitis? I have tried FTOW and it hasn’t worked. I mean it's not like it's rocket science, you are having problems getting over oneitis because you still haven't cut this girl out of your life. If she infiltrated in your friends group maybe you should change friends or meet them on occasions where she's not present. You know why that's good for you? Because you'll be able to see who your real friends are because if they don't hit you up for a coffee or to chill at your place or if they only hit you up to get wasted on the weekends, THEY ARE NO…	/r/askTRP	21/02/21 01:51 AM
4	Coworker - how to hold myself back from laying the pipe It's not rude. It's assertiveness. Just say no or you accept her ride but set boundaries ( use powertalk and cues to make her understand that you don't want to have sex with her), but that's a more tempting and difficult ride.	/r/askTRP	17/02/21 01:34 AM
14	Coworker - how to hold myself back from laying the pipe Let's think this through out: In what ways will fucking this girl benefit you? Pros: You empty your balls Cons: You will intoxicate your work environment and decrease your chances of success over there; the time that you should invest in pursuing your purpose you are wasting with a skank with a boyfriend that could also find out and beat your ass; Even if you fuck her and she ends up dumping the other dude it's a matter of time until she does the same shit to you and you'll end up seeing her eve…	/r/askTRP	17/02/21 01:03 AM
-2	TRT in your 20s? Cut the porn and masturbation, the ED was caused by that. Maybe even do a full reboot ( 90 days without any sexual activity) to detox your fucked up brain receptors.Go read "Your Brain On Porn" and some stories on the nofap subreddit. The doctor will prescribe you drugs to treat the symptoms but won't cure the disease.Pills are not going to cut it in the long run and you are still too young to be diving into TRT.	/r/askTRP	16/02/21 01:21 AM
32	How do I navigate my LTR taking a bartending job without losing frame? Don't overthink it, you are here playing all the scenarios and asking on reddit what the best powerplay is like you are in a LTR playing 4d chess for the rest of your life. I've seen a bunch of posts on asktrp of dudes talking about how much alpha they are and how much frame and abundance they have..dada but they don't have the assertiveness to make a fucking decision regarding their relationships and rely on strangers opinions to fabricate their persona so that their significant others can beli…	/r/askTRP	15/02/21 10:58 AM
1	Need some quick valentines tinder advice Facetime her to see how she looks and ask her out, don't give her attention on tinder, just close the damn thing.	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 10:38 PM
3	How to be a non self-destructive asshole? Physical activities: - Martial arts, specially the ones that teach you how to fight like: brazilian jiu jitsu, wrestling, muay thai, kickboxing, full contact karate, judo or if you want to learn how to mix it all together: mma. It will increase your confidence, discipline,you will train your ego because you will constantly learn and teach something with every person you meet, you will learn how to defend yourself, you will meet women and men of all ages because those sports require training part…	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 08:47 PM
3	How do I handle my controlling mother? That's a good major if it has classes like accounting, calculus, statistics... see if they also teach you how to work with excel and a little bit of coding wouldn't hurt you also. Don't cultivate that victim mentality, diamonds are made under pressure.You are not a product of your environment, your environment is a product of you. You need to think in the long run, don't fuck up your future because of your ego, being a full time worker and a college student is a very hard task, you will be free …	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 03:19 PM
2	How to be a non self-destructive asshole? Just make sure you are the end goal of all and constantly work on yourself( lift,eat clean, learn new hobbies and skills, go on no fap, take cold showers, read a fucking book. Women are not the prize, they are the consequence of the purpose you give to your life. Focus on finding a purpose, study TRP sidebar and be aware of female nature but remain authentic, confidence and carisma come from a place of loving and acceptance within yourself. If you're interested I can give you a list of hobbies a…	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 01:27 PM
2	DO NOT revert back to your BP ways of old when you find success within TRP, here's an example as to why that is Yes, you lost frame in that relationship my man, yes you should've seen the red flags: daddy issues, depression, party girl, being tatted up( check aaron clarey red flags video and don't stick your dick in tatted up whores), it was obvious that she wasn't mentally stable for a LTR. She felt attracted to you while you kept up that "tough confident i don't care about your feelings type of guy", when you began to fall for her she suddently met your true side and wasn't attracted at all, because you…	/r/TheRedPill	14/02/21 01:14 PM
6	Ltr wanted "space" and a break" Man, are you trying to convince me or convince yourself? It's okay to have feelings for a girl that you've been 6 months with, It's not weakness my man, you might display indifference but you are not indifferent. Forget all the advise..just take a look deep down inside yourself and try to understand how you feel, get off the phone and the computer for a few days and take time to figure everything out,take a hike in the mountains or go to the sea... You know, this is not a game of chess where you…	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 12:20 AM
3	Ltr wanted "space" and a break" If you have options and are banging other chicks then why should you care about your ex intentions? She's probably trying to poke back at you to see how you are doing, or maybe she went to see if the grass was greener on the other side of the fence and now she's trying to come back to you because it wasn't... or maybe she just wants a smash. I would advise you not to contact her back because I'm feeling a little bit of investment on your part ( not necessarily oneitis) but she's fucking with you…	/r/askTRP	14/02/21 12:02 AM
6	How do I handle my controlling mother? Hey man, if you are thinking of taking a STEM degree or any degree with calculus,atleast my advise to you would be attend college nearby your household and suck it up for a few years, I know this is hard to say and it's a toxic/hostile environment to be living in, however it would allow you to take your bachelor's degree, you would have time to develop yourself( get big, get a driver's license, learn a few skills and save some money while you are living with them) that way when you emancipate fr…	/r/askTRP	13/02/21 11:14 PM