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| 1 | From a guys perspective.... | Question For Women | FoolishApril | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 09:59 AM |
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| 1 | What is the real reason some men are able to have success with love and some aren’t?I think for many is self awareness, which usually comes from introversion. You're get mired not only with your own thoughts but you also get a third person thought structure from any interaction, specially a romantic one, .. perceived thought structures heavily loaded with your own biases and neurosis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/10/24 10:35 AM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyI have been on this sub too much lately , but that stops now. Stirring up shit is your description . I am not a multi billionaire and I am not 52 . It's fine. Doesn't matter.Goodbye✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 02:28 AM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyI feel you , you're calling out the hypocrisy. I'll cop up to some hypocrisy but not the hate , it's just not my nature , ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 01:52 AM |
| 0 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?Pot meet kettle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 12:37 AM |
| 0 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?Not much of a gambler myself, but I bet you get to enjoy the sweetest most fulfilling sex when you want it and how you want it, hard and breathless when you want it , soft and slow when you need it , real Goldilocks because you set up boundaries and you didn't settle or compromise ,,,, you have my vote 👍.... and never is a very pointed word. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/21 12:17 AM |
| 1 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?Only because NOT getting sex is invalidating in the first place....and hmm, scrote is as scrote does? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 11:43 PM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyI'm sorry, I meant to say the CC carousel of course. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 11:28 PM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyI see , ok sure.... I don't want to be pedantic , and I'm sure you're not doing it on purpose , but you're both implying that is what women do and what guys wish they could do.... I think what you're trying to get across is that guys are failing because they're not manning up , which ok,fair play, but I caution you , you'll just get the Dormammu treatment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 11:25 PM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyInteresting thought , "treated like women" is a nice dig , implicitly establishes dominance , implies homosexuality and performance issues on those who don't take a step back and of course the civilians love it , but how does that work in practice? Are you saying guys want to be courted ? That they want women to make the first move (bumble)?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 11:05 PM |
| – | Female vs male sexuality: A case studyAs one of the lost causes that genuinely and truly wishes not just better outcomes for young people, but fulfilling romantic lives I really, really wish we do better than personal anecdotal evidence that proves what? Ralph Maccio was invisible to you until he wasn't? What if you were taping down next to David Faustino? How would he be reminiscing about the good ol'days right now? Smh, I'm not saying nice people don't have wonderful experiences , they do and they should , I'm saying that's just n… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 10:37 PM |
| 3 | We are living in a sexual dystopiaYou realize that for one thing to be even theoretically possible , then so is it's opposite... Claiming AMALT only confirms AWALT. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 05:35 PM |
| 3 | We are living in a sexual dystopiaIf the poor would stop using drugs and commiting crimes the working poor would do much better . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 05:19 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?The basic chimp that just got laid with someone with her looks? I mean ....God no, please,dear God no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 01:09 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?And pineapples and grapefruits are something , something fruit 👏 love me a food fight! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 12:38 PM |
| 2 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?Agreed to agree 👍 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Can we talk about the day in the life of Chad comment?The rules for what exactly? Access to sex? The rules on the sex act itself? The rules on wether sex is even an option? Or "the rules of dating"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/21 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Serial monogamy has existed for a while now, but the speed at which we are serially monogamous today has intensifiedI think marriage should be decoupled from the religious component as much as possible to make an overhaul of the whole system as smooth and painless as possible. I think the blanket push of lifelong vows on people is unproductive today. Maybe, marriage should be customizable and adaptive to the changing conditions and preferences of the people willing to enter into the contract. And maybe vows can be renewed or cancelled in shorter time frames.... young and unsure? Maybe sign up for a 5year cont… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 02:43 PM |
| 1 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"You mean in post industrial western democracies? Don't have enough info to pose an opinion either way, but sure, sounds legit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/21 08:48 AM |
| 2 | Would you agree that vetting can only take you so far, sometimes your options are your options?Just pulling on your chain a little pink , I hope you're doing well this Sunday ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 07:53 PM |
| 10 | Would you agree that vetting can only take you so far, sometimes your options are your options?Many of us guys feel exactly what you're saying on a personal level , but having said that , I hope you don't let your inner voice talk to you like that, it's not cool. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 06:49 PM |
| 11 | Would you agree that vetting can only take you so far, sometimes your options are your options?Soo.....men aren't vending machines where you stick in nice tokens to get a loving HVM? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 06:40 PM |
| 1 | EmpathyYeah, beating up on your own straw man is very interesting , but nothing to do with the point of empathy. {I have empathy only for those individual men on a case-by-case basis who I think deserve it.} ^ This isn't it... this is evaluation and judgement , which is fine, and more honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 01:10 PM |
| 0 | EmpathyI feel exactly the same , except about the poor....Ahh , the good ol' days , when "good" people were poor , not like these scummy dirty homeless jerks we ignore today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 12:51 PM |
| 1 | EmpathySort of like believing only the 'right' battered women deserve empathy right? Sure, that's exactly what empathy means. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 12:10 PM |
| 0 | EmpathyBro, you go from being practically invisible in your 20's when your hormones are raging to feeling like a deer on season opening day in your 50's when your hormones start turning stupid , dafuk . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 11:53 AM |
| 0 | EmpathyDido , but change genders and music, so more like Cindy Lauper and Pat Benatar and spending my 20' and 30's adrift. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | EmpathyUnless you're avoidant , in which case all rejection is killer. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 11:22 AM |
| – | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"Women terribly misunderstand what "to be a man" means holistically..... From what I've read , ALL human embryos start out as female , and not until 6-12 weeks does the Y chromosome start the change , and so after this point men have but ONE purpose , and that of course is to diverge and distinguish themselves from their female counterpart. And so , as women have successfully transitioned away from their traditional gender dynamics and moved into male spaces , the men (who's only job is to not be… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 11:05 AM |
| – | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"Sure , people celebrate bachelor's like George Clooney or Bill Murray , regular guys get treated more like.... like.... an overweight woman with a "pretty face" , people feel somehow consistently encouraged to opine about your personal life and your romantic prospects before time runs out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/21 10:28 AM |
| 1 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"I think gender roles, as imperfect and limiting as they are, serve the thankless job of providing stability and reliability in an otherwise chaotic subject....no different than well delineated job titles and descriptions in a well functioning system , like say , NASA, or a professional kitchen. People in modern western democracies forget that traditional patriarchal societies don't exist in a vacuum, there is always also a well established matriarchal power sharing component in place. Sure it is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 11:39 PM |
| 12 | Traditional gender roles are not "the natural way of things", nor are they particularly "good"True enough , but the survival rates and general health outcomes of both baby and mother were greatly improved by post agricultural societies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/21 10:41 PM |
| 4 | Saying "life isn't fair" for dating inequality is the same as "life isn't fair" for economic inequality"Life isn't fair" is the go-to dismissive response people make to issues that they don't care about or don't want to solve. Because it's an uncontroversial true statement . However, context is very important. I assume by "people" you mean middle class, and I'm sure they don't hate the rich any more or less than they hate the poor... I'm sure however they resent the arbitrary conditions that created either extreme , I know I do. Jeff Bezos is objectively behaving like just any other middle aged d… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 04:46 PM |
| 2 | The brunt of disrespectful and relentless sexual harassment falls on women percieved as attainable rather than exceptionally attractive.Although at the end your point was well and acceptable , the way you got there seems a bit jumbled and straining under presumed assumptions about men and their motivations... 1- there are more than one reason guys might mock these women , think a fat schlubby dude wearing a "no fat chicks" t-shirt...2- sexual harassers are can become specialists , and your friend sounds naive due to her lack of experience and probably modest and sweet disposition.... 3- putting aside the standard position of pro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 02:20 PM |
| 1 | Podcasts like "Fresh and Fit" profit from the female sexuality they shame/criticize, and prove men's actions also contradict what they say they want.And now women know the aftertaste programing like The View or The Bachelor/Bachelorette usually has on many guys.... I've always thought of overtly narrow targeted media like the real life version of that old Applejack's cereal tv ad , where the cool young kids in the know roll their eyes at the uncouth parents that don't get it , you know , cause lame O's don't get it man! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/21 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men?And the bathroom becomes a toilet paper black hole. God have mercy on you if you live with teenagers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 11:20 AM |
| 8 | Why are single women happier than married women? If so, why do women even bother with men?Same , spent my teenage years raised by my elderly grandparents, and so had to learn to do my own laundry, and cook , started working at 16.when I was on my own and living with roommates I did notice that most of the other dudes were basically man children adrift with anything to do with housekeeping including my younger brothers ,who leaned on me. I realize I'm in the minority but, I've got to point out that young boys can't learn what they're not taught and for the most part, they are raised b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/21 11:12 AM |
| – | Low Sexual Desire Is A Healthy Response To Lacklustre SexHaha , this purple pill keeps getting blacker and blacker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 02:01 PM |
| 7 | Kevin Samuels Discussion ThreadNah , I'm 51, and at my age I've seen all these gurus come and go,( yes, even Oprah for the womens) They're always all Billy Badass when they insulate themselves in their home turf and play by their private rules (rules they change at their convenience) but as soon as they come out in the open and in-depth qualified scrutiny gets applied to their views and theories they fall apart... or they become gameshow hosts like Steve Harvey. If popularity equalled quality then we'd all still be rocking a … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 12:35 PM |
| 9 | Kevin Samuels Discussion ThreadHmm, he's a gaslighting grifter living off men's insecurities? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 11:50 AM |
| 1 | It would be a lot more productive if instead of just saying all men suck, women were more actively validating men who do try to improveI've always wondered how the sexes act like each operates and evolves independently off each other, like separate countries with delineated borders, and then somehow negotiate business and peace agreements, you know, and that's how babies are made....The truth is that we are literally the same, same motivations , same outcomes..... and I think collective choices in mates directly affect the quality and make up of said mates .... Sort of how after years and years of hunters and fisherman taking o… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 11:29 AM |
| 2 | South Park perspective: the inflation of women's looksJust thinking out loud . No deep thoughts here ✌️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 12:49 AM |
| 2 | South Park perspective: the inflation of women's looksWonder how many of us went filter? what's a filter?🖐️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/21 12:16 AM |
| 1 | Men dont respect womenI think this is a perfect example of how we all labor under the burden of the narrative that our narrow perception encourages. I don't have to read the whole thread to predict that a good number of men will point out how unfair and lacking this view of interpersonal relationships between the sexes break down. Basically , men are hammers and therefore all they notice around them is nails . And the same goes for us men , believing all women are sex crazed/frigid golddiggers that warship that one g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/21 05:03 PM |
| 11 | The new show 'Sex/Life' is one of the top shows on Netflix worldwide (US, UK, AUS, etc) since it's release. Is the extreme popularity of this show with its female audience, similar to best sellers like Twilight, 50 Shades of Grey and other media, yet another example of open hypergamy?Kid rock used to tell a joke that went something like "When a guys best friend shows up with a beautiful , sweet attractive girl by his side, his friends go 'damn, I'm going to get me a girl just like that'... but when a girl shows up with a handsome, attractive, successful guy by his side her friends will go. " Damn , I want HIM."" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/21 01:19 AM |
| 1 | Men who complain or debate women on here, what is your endgoal?Although your query comes of as a self serving ,straw man filled rant, I believe most here can see the looming problem of birth rates below replacement levels as a real challenge to the economic and social well being of not only this country but the world in general going forward .... also, the people in these forums are basically self segregating on the topic , it's called "Purple Pill Debate" not "Female Dating Strategy" or " Eyebleach". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/21 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?First , what? second huh? And third this is 2021 when everything is global, when China owns over a trillion in American debt , not 1776 or whatever 'good 'ol days'you jerk of to in your historically accurate larping costume. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 02:07 AM |
| 3 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?Cleveland steamer? hahaha😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 03:38 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?What they're talking about is dehumanization of people trough distance and the pyramid shaped power hierarchy that gives us few billionaires , many of us 'enough to live comfortably' folks and millions upon millions of forgotten and ignored that live and die in abject poverty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?Although your critique is valid on the surface, it also misses the point of acceptance and inclusion , of the power balance between a majority towards a minority..... to many of us on group A dating is not fun. period full stop.Forcing a square peg into a round hole is not only possible but expected but it will never be anything else but a forced fit. Like forcing ADHD kids or extroverted jocks sit and read quietly for hours...it can be done , it's good for them , mature well adjusted people can… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Q4All: How are we supposed to take dates seriously if they're sleeping around?Firmly belonging to group A myself I caution judging to harshly behaviors we don't identify with.....in spite of our own peculiarities,at the end of the day we're all looking for the same thing , to be acknowledged , accepted and loved , but if we're going to have an adult conversation about it perhaps we should primarily critique ourselves and our behavior.For example group A is more likely than not to be mostly introverts and so we're more likely to labor under specific self sabotaging behavio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/21 02:25 PM |
| – | How is playing video games and watching porn holding modern men back?I hear you brother... perhaps ' bottomless void' is a bit too emo or whatever 😂🤷♂️ it's easy to judge our younger shallower selves from the comfortable perch of 'maturity' and maturity really means that the longer we live the wider our perspective , the more clearer the patterns of life come into our awareness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 06:30 PM |
| – | How is playing video games and watching porn holding modern men back?I think us guys should be honest with ourselves and accept that any vice, by it's very nature is harmful not only to us but to the people around us that need of our time and attention and at it's core is just a coping mechanism , usually a cheap and easy distraction that attempts to fill that bottomless void inside. But it isn't the only vice, and just because women don't partake on these particular ones of porn and or videogames in significant numbers doesn't mean that they don't have their own… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:28 PM |
| 0 | Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONYes and yes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/21 02:08 AM |
| 1 | Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONIf we still lived in small hunter gatherer groups this would absolutely work, the problem is that in large scale societies there needs to be order which begets an institutional infrastructures . These institutions were rightfully dismantled by the sexual and social revolutions , even today with no alternate replacement to fill in, so today people are floating rudderless in increasingly uneasy waters .....we need to create new social infrastructures that naturally bring people together even in sp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 09:44 PM |
| 1 | Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONYou didn't find him unattractive at first blush though, these guys are saying that that is the difference that makes a difference if that makes sense. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 08:59 PM |
| 4 | Women have insanely narrow standards when it comes to PHYSICAL ATTRACTIONThat has always been the male mating strategy , you get conditioned to spam the opposite sex in order to score a wife or girlfriend and when it does happen , then your supposed to end this behavior cold turkey once you reach your goal of 'the one' .... the question young people are asking themselves is " all this and for what?" cost benefit calculation....I think the current sexlessness situation has more than one or two causes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/21 08:24 PM |
| 6 | Are women progressively dressing skimpier by personal choice or by social influence?And the fact that a well fitted suit is a blatant status symbol is just a coincidence I suppose huh? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 08:34 PM |
| 3 | Are women progressively dressing skimpier by personal choice or by social influence?I think both men and women misunderstand what we find attractive to each other... personally I've felt infatuations to a variety people for a variety of reasons, from their hair, their skin complexion to even their voice... when I was younger, I had a crush on a girl that was a bit over weight and nothing special but she had the sexiest voice, I still remember it 30 years later... can only imagine what women find sexy in general but I don't believe it's so terribly different but what do I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/21 08:17 PM |
| 0 | Why do so some men on here believe that women not wanting to date or have sex with them means they hate them?Why is it that when girls and immature women use fantasy and hyperbole to express their feelings (drinking boy tears,dolls kill,kill all men etc.) it is deemed cutesy and harmless , but if boys or immature men do it, we must psycho analyze the evil out of them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Why do so some men on here believe that women not wanting to date or have sex with them means they hate them?The common denominator of two? It's literally a coin toss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/20 04:43 AM |
| 1 | Young men are not being "radicalized" by random men on the internet; their views/opinions are much more so being forged by what women themselves directly say on social media and other public forums.He's a daddy figure to the young and immature that feel like they are missing out.He is literally the personification of "patriarchy", the bad along with the good. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/11/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | How does being romantically unsuccessful make one wrong or discredit them?This makes me think of Gulliver's Travels in that it's a matter of perspective.But really a better analogy is the economic argument , but on a global scale.So the "normies" are liberal democracies and autocracies that benefit and gain from the status quo , have historically benefited and gained and will likely benefit and gain from established systems . The mgtows , radical feminists , incels , femcels ,etc. they're the third and fourth world countries that think or feel as if the status quo doe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/11/19 10:45 PM |
| 2 | What do women get from this sub?Full disclosure , I'm not hardcore MGTOW!! either myself, I get turned off by overt misogyny and casual xenophobia that gets indulged sometimes , which is why I turned away from the main MGTOW and onto this one instead , though I don't read religiously , I think it's mostly guys venting , perhaps you see things differently , which is fine. The thing is , I myself follow r/truefemcels for example , to get a different perspective than my own , to perhaps see my blind spots if you will. But as per … | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/01/19 06:53 PM |
| 0 | What do women get from this sub?I quite honestly subscribe for the voyeuristic pleasure of seeing the batshit crap you guys believe. ,,,,,,. ∆ this ∆∆ | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/01/19 06:16 PM |
| 2 | What do women get from this sub?Just some friendly advise regarding your smugness about "rare flat earther" types , karma is a right bitch and although I wish you well , I truly do , I hope you don't find yourself a middle aged single mom? dating in today's reality , trying to date men of any substance that still adhere to the old scripts you and your husband bought into. You might find it a little more challenging than you remember . Feminists did very well for themselves challenging the establishments expectations of women i… | /r/MGTOW2 | 07/01/19 05:55 PM |
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