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| 3 | I've cold approached around 200 or more girls these are my resultsWhen I started I could barely speak for 5-10 seconds before running away so I honestly have improved a lot I was one of those forever alone guys | /r/seduction | 12/09/16 01:06 AM |
| 1 | I have never managed to reach a hook point how can I reach a hookpoint?I'm very new I've only done like 50 approaches so I will just keep doing them | /r/seduction | 21/07/16 09:46 AM |
| 1 | I had a chance to have a threeway but chickend out did I make the right choice?Yeah I told them I was inexperienced but they though I meant inexperienced as in I haven't tried being a Dom | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 03:13 AM |
| 1 | I've done around 50 approaches in one month and I haven't managed to even kiss someone what should I do?I struggle to keep her interested in me I also don't really know how to escalate | /r/seduction | 18/07/16 03:10 AM |
| 1 | All the numbers and names I have gotten are flakey how do you prevent flakes?Ok | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 09:48 AM |
| 1 | I've been rejected around 25 - 30 times without any success did any of you go through this when starting out how did you keep motivated?Could I get your number | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 03:31 AM |
| 1 | I've been rejected around 25 - 30 times without any success did any of you go through this when starting out how did you keep motivated?Ok I will always go for the close then I haven't been | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 02:02 AM |
| 1 | I've been rejected around 25 - 30 times without any success did any of you go through this when starting out how did you keep motivated?In a month sex kissing or solid number is success for me | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 01:29 AM |
| 1 | I've been rejected around 25 - 30 times without any success did any of you go through this when starting out how did you keep motivated?Solid number sex or kissing | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 01:28 AM |
| 1 | I've been rejected around 25 - 30 times without any success did any of you go through this when starting out how did you keep motivated?I get flakey numbers and names no sex or solid numbers | /r/seduction | 08/07/16 01:27 AM |
| 1 | For a while now, I've been recording and sharing audio of my approaches with a close friend. Has anyone else tried this? I recommend it.How did you record it sounds like an interesting idea | /r/seduction | 27/06/16 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Is doing 365 approaches a year enough to become extremely good?No I mean is one approach on average a day enough to get really good? | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 10:52 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman, friend and self improvement partner in Melbourne Australia.Sure pm me your Facebook name and we add you to the group currently 4 members you would make 5 | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 10:11 AM |
| 1 | You know what the real beauty in learning game is to real noobies like meI don't know where I started simple pickup gave me a lot of confidence though | /r/seduction | 24/06/16 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman, friend and self improvement partner in Melbourne Australia.If you don't get the pm let me know and I will send it again | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman, friend and self improvement partner in Melbourne Australia.If you don't get the pm let me know and I will sent it again | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 11:57 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman, friend and self improvement partner in Melbourne Australia.Guys this is fucking epic I will pm you Edit I don't want to give away information to a reddit account we will cover more information like that as we talk when you see my pm | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 11:29 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a wingman, friend and self improvement partner in Melbourne Australia.Guys this is fucking epic I will pm you Edit I don't want to give my location away to a reddit account we will cover more when we get to know each other through our pms | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 11:28 PM |
| 2 | Is it true that progress is exponential?I know I'm approaching people on average at least once a day | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 11:10 PM |
| 1 | What do you do if you cold approach a feminist who gets very angry? I'm quite scared of this happening hearing of false allegations and being shouted at would be terrible.I've approached at least one girl a day on average as I approach a couple a day when I'm out this just a minor fear I have | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 11:09 PM |
| 2 | How do you pick up girls when you are out with your family?19 but I want to approach a attractive girl every single time I see one. I've even done it when a girl is with a guy who looks like her boyfirend in case he isn't. | /r/seduction | 23/06/16 02:42 AM |
| 1 | I'm planning on going to a bar for the first time to hit on girls do I have to drink will I be shunned by not drinking and just hitting on girls?Ok I would be solo | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | What's a cheap device I can use to record audio of my cold approaches?Ok is there a good app I don't have much space so I can't really use the normal camera. | /r/seduction | 22/06/16 02:02 AM |
| 3 | How do I escalate with women without offending them or coming off as a predator?Take it slow you may stuff it up a few times but you will get better at it each time. You could let her lead physically slightly and let her respond | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 11:58 PM |
| 2 | Something that really motivated me a story from Owen from RSDI don't expect to be as good as him but I know if he can get 1000 girls I can get 1 | /r/seduction | 21/06/16 05:38 AM |
| 1 | I plan on going to a night club for the first time I have no wing man and I don't know what to bring what should I bring? Also I have no game but that is why I'm going so I can learnAnother question should I drink or be sober | /r/seduction | 20/06/16 04:37 AM |
| -2 | Why do a lot of you have your interactions filmed?I'm serious are there fake allegations and stuff | /r/seduction | 18/06/16 03:52 AM |
| 1 | I have found a simple scientific reason which reveals why the best way to learn seduction is approach as many people as possiblePlease read it shows a psychological effect that you get conditioned to do what works. This is not click bait this is relevant to the way we can learn through a brute number of attempts. This is just a concept of how we learn, the article is not its self linked to seduction. | /r/seduction | 17/06/16 07:56 AM |
| 1 | How do you deal with constant rejection from girls? Have any of you come from having no ability to getting girls?19 | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 11:16 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with constant rejection from girls? Have any of you come from having no ability to getting girls?It's mainly about my status I'm a student but don't have a job or licence that will be something I have to do | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 01:19 PM |
| 2 | How do you deal with constant rejection from girls? Have any of you come from having no ability to getting girls?Yeah I built some connection with a girl and got even her surname so I knew she wasn't lie. but then failed I agree the key is to connect before getting a number I'm not good at that though my skills haven't developed. | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 11:31 AM |
| 5 | How do you deal with constant rejection from girls? Have any of you come from having no ability to getting girls?I can get numbers but nothing happens after I get the number | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 11:06 AM |
| 1 | Big noob. Where I currently am with day game what should be my next focus?True I don't know if I've done 13 but that's just a guess I should keep getting ou there | /r/seduction | 16/06/16 05:06 AM |
| 2 | second field reportI will fix it then sorry I actually have a disability | /r/seduction | 13/06/16 07:51 AM |
| 2 | I'm going to start approaching people that I'm not even Intrested in to improve my social skillsI will still talk to attractive people, but if there's no one around I will try and talk to anyone a 50 year old man for example. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 11:47 PM |
| 1 | If anyone started with nothing no social skills, no life and is now successful with a gorgeous woman I am Intrested in your story as someone who is only starting to leave that position I would love advice on what I should be doing?Ok man that's why I'm trying to get my shit together, after being a porn addict and loosing interest in girls, I can say my biggest motivator is girls. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 11:33 PM |
| 2 | If anyone started with nothing no social skills, no life and is now successful with a gorgeous woman I am Intrested in your story as someone who is only starting to leave that position I would love advice on what I should be doing?That's the idea I'm getting to make conversation when ever possible | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 11:31 PM |
| 1 | If anyone started with nothing no social skills, no life and is now successful with a gorgeous woman I am Intrested in your story as someone who is only starting to leave that position I would love advice on what I should be doing?Yes that's how I said it I had to learn it as a teenager as well due to disability | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 11:30 PM |
| 1 | What are some materials that you would recommend to learn basics?For clarification I mean books, videos, podcasts anything really preferably free. | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 12:36 PM |
| 2 | If anyone started with nothing no social skills, no life and is now successful with a gorgeous woman I am Intrested in your story as someone who is only starting to leave that position I would love advice on what I should be doing?Edited it for you thanks for teaching me how to say that phrase. I have poor English skills | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 10:52 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you expirenced people not liking you for trying to learn seduction?They were real people in my world they were people I met in my class they know I'm a virgin I told them I said I'm flirting with girls to practice and eventually get a girlfriend they know I have no expirence. I wasn't bragging I thought they found it funny but they didn't. I'm starting to interact with them minus the one which blocked me in a way that won't offend anyone but the damage has been done. I will invite the one which blocked me in a few weeks I think. I don't think I can fix these fr… | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 08:10 AM |
| 3 | How do I give my girlfriend a seductive massage after a stressfull day?I think you would be best off finding a video guide on YouTube or pornhub | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Where do you draw the line on where flirting with girls is rude?"I've never approached a girl in my life" I wouldn't worry about thinking you will be rude, try because given you have never approached someone. I think you would be into much fear to approach someone when it is rude to do so hence I would go for it | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you expirenced people not liking you for trying to learn seduction?I've never flirted with them or tried to pick them up although I did sort of use them as councillors I guess. I've been way to intimate with them discussing my past addiction with porn I private messaged one about if she needed help to stop watching porn I'm there to help and explained porn addiction. she is the one who implied I'm a creep I think I offended her also when I said I only go for the best girls (I meant girls I find attractive) as one of them said I bet you only got her number becau… | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Have any of you expirenced people not liking you for trying to learn seduction?I think your right hopefully next time I see them in person they will be fine | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 06:43 AM |
| 1 | As someone who is 19 how do I make sure a girls I flirt with during the day are at least 18?Oh yeah I know that, the reason I didn't date her is she felt to old for me. | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 03:51 AM |
| 1 | As someone who is 19 how do I make sure a girls I flirt with during the day are at least 18?There is a lot of stigma around being over 18 and seing someone who is under 18 as a 19 year old, I don't want to date anyone under 18 for that reason, 17 is still to young in my opinion. | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 03:45 AM |
| 3 | Have any of you expirenced people not liking you for trying to learn seduction?"This is frightfully vague" one female friend she doesn't want to talk to me again and says I'm implies I'm a creep one says I'm a negitive 4 at least implying I will never be with someone and said she doesn't care if I l like her as a friend as long as I don't try and kill them that's what I meant by them seeing me a psychopath which is rediculous I would never hurt a fly I get really upset if I think someone else is upset one told me to stop being flirty with girls nothing wrong with saying th… | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 03:42 AM |
| 1 | As someone who is 19 how do I make sure a girls I flirt with during the day are at least 18?Perfect explanation thank you | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 03:30 AM |
| 1 | As someone who is 19 how do I make sure a girls I flirt with during the day are at least 18?Yes the other week I thought a girl was 19 and she was 23 imagine if I thought a girl was 19 and she was even 17 it would be considered weird in society and she would be in different places in our lives most likely. For reference I'm not looking for just sex I'm looking for a partner so age difference is a big deal. | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 02:00 AM |
| 1 | As someone who is 19 how do I make sure a girls I flirt with during the day are at least 18?Would saying something like are you at uni or where are you studying/ working be a good idea? | /r/seduction | 09/06/16 01:29 AM |
| 1 | Day Game Super Challenge - 50+ Missions For NewbsFirst time woman was really happy I put my arm around her and took a pic second one girl felt awkward but took a pic with me, note I didn't do anything else but ask for a picture with the first girl as it was my first time flirting and didn't know much what else to say afterwards. When I said I skipped to like day 28 you can see that here I was not following a challange that is just how I progressed. https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/4m03v4/looking_for_a_girlfriend_first_field_report_f… | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 12:58 PM |
| 1 | Day Game Super Challenge - 50+ Missions For NewbsYou know what's funny, I started with day 13 the very first time I tried to flirt I asked a random girl if I could take a selfie with her but I haven't progressed much since then unfortunately. Actually I then went to day 28 asking for girls numbers instantly | /r/seduction | 08/06/16 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Does "Will you go out with me?" work?A lot of people haven't kissed at 17 I'm 19 and bisexual and still haven't kissed | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 12:31 PM |
| 2 | [18M] Never had a girlfriend. Don't know how to. Any help?That's what it would be I guess try looking at this do it slowly and in the right order and you will not look like a perve https://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/1sy4wq/escalation_ladder/ | /r/seduction | 03/06/16 05:23 AM |
| 1 | [18M] Never had a girlfriend. Don't know how to. Any help?Were you physical at all or just verbally I talked to my female friends about sex all the time I didn't think I was flirting with them | /r/seduction | 03/06/16 05:18 AM |
| 1 | As a bi guy where can you learn to pick up men? Is there a sub reddit or guide here?I'm getting the idea that if I'm in the mood for men I can just go to a gay bar get drunk strip down into like minimum clothing and let men lead, kino and fuck me yay😂😛. | /r/seduction | 02/06/16 11:13 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a girlfriend first field report from a noobThis was my first proper attempt before this I would ask girls if I could take pictures of them and say it was a dare from my friend that's how I started with confidence. I then went on to talking to random people at my bus stop. I later asked a couple girls out but poorly this is my first attempt which I just went up to girls straight away and typed the interactions down to read and reflect on. Think of this as my first attempt in actually seeking out women not just having random conversations.… | /r/seduction | 02/06/16 07:04 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a girlfriend first field report from a noobI did have there full attention before saying it. I usually said a few words first. I thought maybe I should chat for 5 minutes first rather then less then 10 seconds like I did. I didn't even ask for a name or give mine which I think is a mistake. Yeah I've learned not to talk about this stuff now. I agree that my social skills will improve the more I do it | /r/seduction | 02/06/16 05:35 AM |
| 1 | Looking for a girlfriend first field report from a noobTrue the old saying that you don't shit where you work, I'm working on one skill at a time that attempt I focused on having little to no approach anxiety, next time I will focus on conversing. | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 11:47 PM |
| 1 | Looking for a girlfriend first field report from a noobIt's from my condition as I can't write, I didn't start learning any English skills until I had access to a computer when I was like 14 sorry about that. I will spend more time writing my posts so that they are formatted better although I think they still will be poor even with a lot more effort I will give it my best. I thought she was my age or younger, ok so tease and make it seem like she is the one with the problem if she brings up a potential problem. I will attempt to remember this but I … | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 11:43 PM |
| 1 | Occasionally during the day when I see a cute girl I will flirt with her I get numbers but not dates.Ok | /r/seduction | 01/06/16 07:04 AM |
| 1 | I was born with severe developmental dyspraxia is anyone with this condition sucsessful at seduction how should I act differently to the rest of the seduction community due to the traits of the disorder.What wrong with asking if i need to flirt differently to compensate for a disability I have I cant drive, write drop things all the time ect ? I didn't understand your statement that's all😊👍 | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 08:24 AM |
| 1 | I was born with severe developmental dyspraxia is anyone with this condition sucsessful at seduction how should I act differently to the rest of the seduction community due to the traits of the disorder.No professionally diagnosed also worth noting I was prescribed Ritalin but my parents never gave it to me | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 07:45 AM |
| 2 | Is it possible to go from introvert -> extrovert?Yes I used to be an introvert now I'm extraverted | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Occasionally during the day when I see a cute girl I will flirt with her I get numbers but not dates.Ok good idea for anti flake | /r/seduction | 31/05/16 05:10 AM |
| 1 | Occasionally during the day when I see a cute girl I will flirt with her I get numbers but not dates.Ok I will do that | /r/seduction | 30/05/16 12:54 PM |
| 2 | Is this a good plan for improving my skillsI only go for the ones I find attractive? | /r/seduction | 24/05/16 10:41 PM |
| 0 | Was I being creepy are my friends rightI mean in the middle of class offering the girl I'm talking to my arm | /r/seduction | 15/05/16 03:40 AM |
| 1 | I'm a 23 year old hugless, kissless, dateless virgin who lives in a really small town with few places to meet people, let alone women. What can I do to make relationships not only with women but just make friends too?Just talk to women maybe they will make the first move | /r/seduction | 13/05/16 01:21 AM |
| 1 | I'm new to flirting need adviceShe said she liked me but said she didn't have time for a relationship it's too late now it's been a few weeks what should I do in that situation in the future I feel like respecting the fact is the right thing to do now I'm thinking she just wanted to bang but I was talking about a relationship we met and were talking in a university lecture so I didn't think that was a good spot to convey sexual interest | /r/seduction | 12/05/16 11:03 PM |
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