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| 2 | The Breakup Post I Wish Existed When I Needed ItGood post, thanks. | /r/seduction | 08/12/24 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Got broken up with over text during a 4-month Situation-Ship. When should you have the exclusive conversation?Dr orion tarabum? | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 11:46 AM |
| 31 | Got broken up with over text during a 4-month Situation-Ship. When should you have the exclusive conversation?It could just be her insecurities, judgementalness, another guy in the picture, your height, your breathe, her trauma, her dad, etc. Unfortunately you may never know the truth. Women tend to avoid telling the truth even if you asked. I've accepted that every woman that comes into my life is here for the moment and not mine to keep. If she decides to stay long with me then great. If not, it's all good either way. Sometimes there aren't always going to be answers for life's misfortunes. We can onl… | /r/seduction | 06/11/24 03:48 AM |
| 1 | If you’re tired of the “gay bar” analogy of approaching women.. here’s an alternative!You the GOAT. Smashing thumbs up | /r/seduction | 30/10/24 09:29 PM |
| 1 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsTrue bro! Lol oh well, i enjoyed your post. Thanks for making someone else's day just a little bit brighter 😂 | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 11:30 AM |
| 1 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsTrue bro! Lol oh well, i enjoyed your post. Thanks for making someone else's day just a little bit brighter 😂 | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 11:29 AM |
| 1 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsYour fetishes lol. Not joking, i really enjoyed reading it. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 04:20 AM |
| 3 | PSA: seduction =/= basic social skillsBro why did you delete your other post. It was gold. Can you please repost it! Thanks. | /r/seduction | 15/10/24 02:08 AM |
| 48 | A relationship will not make you happy, this is whyIt's all relative. Sometimes a needy person can be empowered by a little spark from the right person but the opposite can also happen. Life is unpredictable. We just keep going. Wholesomeness is not forever. We may find it within ourselves or in others. And just because we have it now, doesn't mean we'll have it tomorrow. And if we dont have it now, doesn't mean we wont have it tomorrow. Flow like water my friend. Sometimes we need that extra thing/person/push to get us unstuck and to teach us. | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 08:07 PM |
| 2 | Joker movie - ValueYep, i just watched it and felt the same way as you described. However, it's super unfortunate. He was being human and vulnerable. What he did was not wrong. It's just unfortunate how she responded. She obviously was sick in the head but he came back to his senses in the end. That's not what she wanted. We all must ask ourselves who we want to be in the end. I've decided that if there's any woman who can't accept my human, vulnerable side, I will part with them because I believe they are not goo… | /r/seduction | 07/10/24 04:48 PM |
| 1 | I AM NEEDY, and this is costing me everythingWhether you succeed or fail because of your grit or neediness, it doesn't matter in the end. Life can end tomorrow or decades from now. When it ends, none of this success or failure will be remembered. It's the sobering truth. Now, do it whether or not you feel needy. Neediness is just another human trait in the end. We all need something/someone. | /r/seduction | 06/10/24 05:58 PM |
| 1 | How soon should I respond to someone off a dating app?Sweet spot, just the right time. | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 12:04 PM |
| -3 | How soon should I respond to someone off a dating app?Not too early and not too long | /r/seduction | 05/10/24 04:49 AM |
| 14 | Why do girls like being ignoredLooks are only an intro in attraction. Attraction involves much more. | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 11:19 AM |
| 6 | Why do girls like being ignoredNot necessarily ugly but that's beyond the point. Men and women judge for different reasons but the matter is still similar. | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 11:17 AM |
| 3 | Why do girls like being ignoredYep, same here. | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 11:16 AM |
| 38 | Why do girls like being ignoredI used to ask the same question about women but realized we men do the same thing, most of us at least. Hypocrites are we? Always chasing after that which we can't have. Ah, the grand old human experience. | /r/seduction | 04/10/24 02:43 AM |
| 0 | 3 Worst Texting Mistakes Guys Make On Dating AppsThanks bro, this is valuable. | /r/seduction | 20/09/24 11:02 AM |
| 24 | Need advice: I’m a woman and a hopeless flirtJust be yourself. Be comfortable. Only flirt with guys you're attracted to. There's nothing to it. Banter, tease, hint. | /r/seduction | 19/09/24 01:49 AM |
| 1 | Do men get weirded out/overwhelmed by sudden affection?Those men are likely insecure about themselves. As long as you're not being intrusive, being "overly affectionate" is silly to be concerned about. But there could be the possibility that they aren't attracted to you or want to invest further/don't want to feel guilty and might be their way of turning you away. Either way, it's a sign of rejecting. But if they're unable to communicate their feelings, they're probably not worth your time. | /r/seduction | 17/09/24 05:14 PM |
| 6 | I need your worst pickup linesGurl you must be tired, cuz you've been running on my mind 24/7 | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 06:01 PM |
| -9 | I need your worst pickup linesI don't have awards but i would give you one of i did | /r/seduction | 15/09/24 05:59 PM |
| 29 | I entered my 30s and had one gf only and just got rejected againThere's nothing wrong with you. We want what we can't have. And there's no one on this planet that takes rejection unscathed. We just get used to it. But it doesn't mean we don't get hurt or traumatized. Be gentle and compassionate towards yourself. Nothing wrong with you. Just the human experience. | /r/seduction | 14/09/24 02:03 AM |
| 0 | Did a specific perfume/cologne + dressing combo casually help you catch the attention of the opposite gender?Anyone find something similar to Aqua by Carolina Herrera? They stopped this line. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 03:25 PM |
| 1 | So a older women possibly likes meDon't turn down the opportunity of MILFs like I did in my 20s. It's only weird if you think it is. Be mature about it. Had my first milf in 30s and boy the sex was amazing. | /r/seduction | 11/09/24 03:16 PM |
| 15 | Taking a Break from DatingTherapy | /r/seduction | 10/09/24 05:20 PM |
| 13 | My therapist says I have to try talking to girlsXanax is not a safety bar, it's a suppressant. It's like being a russian cannon fodder going into battle all coked up. Instant death and even with revives, they learn nothing and die all over again. Stay classy and go naked my friend. | /r/seduction | 05/09/24 02:33 AM |
| 2 | My 1 secret to building an effective dating profile and standing outSalute you my bro. Most of the time the post in here are whiney and adds no value but once in a blue moon, we get a gem of a post like this one. Thanks for sharing with those who needs it. God bless you. | /r/seduction | 03/09/24 11:34 PM |
| 12 | Average looking men - What is your medthod of getting laid on a night out??I feel this way too. Everyone's answer will be different. Do we fight to win even if the odds are stacked against us? There's no right or wrong answer. Somedays we'll think no and that's ok. But in the doing part, we might learn something about ourselves; who we are during those challenging times. Success or failure, you might be surprised about what you're capable of. So enjoy the process. I know it's difficult but try not to focus on the results. Success is not final and failure is not fatal. | /r/seduction | 01/09/24 01:13 PM |
| 2 | I lost the will for the game, what's wrong with me?This is the truth. We lose a part of ourselves when we engage in constant objectification. As humans, we yearn for a deeper connection with others. Sex can be a very intimate act. Constant sex for the sake of pleasure results in constant building of trust/connection and tearing of that trust/connection. It can rip us apart emotionally in the long run. Most of us practice seduction because we felt we were missing something within us and we needed validation from women to satisfy that insatiable h… | /r/seduction | 27/08/24 12:10 PM |
| 10 | What’s the most optimal way to perform exposure therapy/gradual desensitization to handle AA?Listen no one likes to hear this because it's too simple. You have to just approach. It's the only way to gradually decrease AA. The truth is we keep obsessing about the results, win or fail. That's our mind's binary thinking process. But There will always ALWAYS be failure. There will always be rejection. Accept that you're going to have more failures than successes. This is the nature of the game especially in the beginning. There's no cheat code. Go for the rejection. Go directly for it. Psyc… | /r/seduction | 19/08/24 03:22 AM |
| 2 | [Long] Learn when to walk awayUpvoted | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 12:52 PM |
| 1 | Best line to catch-up with old flame over text?Does that ever work | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 12:20 PM |
| 1 | Slept with girl talked for a few days then she just ghosts!?Amen brother, good luck to you | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 04:07 AM |
| 4 | Slept with girl talked for a few days then she just ghosts!?Thanks for this message. Exactly what i needed to read. Just came out of ltr | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 02:48 AM |
| 39 | I took a girl home after 15 minutes (she was extremely hot)You should be a film writer | /r/seduction | 15/08/24 01:43 AM |
| 1 | I’m trapped in the vicious cycle, my failures keep weighing me down mentally and messing up new opportunitiesA fool who persist in his follies becomes wise. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 01:35 PM |
| 14 | I get looks from girls, don't know how to react S.O.S.💀💀💀 | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 01:31 PM |
| 87 | I get looks from girls, don't know how to react S.O.S.Hey, I just wanted to say I really like your outfit. I'm Bob. They'll respond. You'll get the sense from their response whether they're interested or not. | /r/seduction | 11/08/24 11:35 AM |
| 2 | The Best Way To Meet Women Based On Your Personal AttributesOnline dating... Zero success with tinder. Forever alone meme😢 | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 05:52 PM |
| 1 | [35M] Struggling with Dating After Separation—How Do I Get My Groove Back?I think you asked the questions you know the answer too. You kinda know what you need to do but are looking for confirmation? | /r/seduction | 09/08/24 04:46 PM |
| 11 | How do you not become bitter?I've been there. You're not wrong but you're not right either. The universe is a shitstorm of chaos and you were randomly dealt the hand you have. You may have a shitty chance compared to others. Your chance might not even be worth trying but deep inside you know that the only thing worth achieving is the things you fight for. What you need to do is pray for the courage to face the challenges and to see it thru regardless of how shitty your odds are. Because you're worth it, what you desire matt… | /r/seduction | 27/09/22 04:05 AM |
| 1 | Any recommended books to destroy neediness?This is a huge paradox but accepting your neediness and being okay with it is the way to "destroy" neediness. | /r/seduction | 12/09/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | Men in relationships, how do you continue to flirt with other women when they ask you “do you have a girlfriend?”So I went to college and studied this subject for years. I'm so glad someone finally asked this question. I can now contribute my knowledge to helping someone else. That being said, there are actually two ways to go about this. The first way is to break up with your girlfriend and then tell the other girl you're single now in a flamboyant flirty way with a high pitch tone or 2) first tell your girlfriend that you want to flirt with other women, grab some popcorn and watch as she breaks up with y… | /r/seduction | 10/09/22 12:01 PM |
| 2 | Can you live a happy life without women?Hey bro, I can relate. I was there once. To answer your question, there is nothing wrong with how you feel. Many men feel this way and many more are unwilling to address it. There's no easy answer nor an one size fits all answer. The things other men preach to you are not wrong but they are not completely right either. I dont care what anyone says, experience is the best teacher. You can only learn so much from watching and hearing. One must - do - and experience it for themselves. Every person … | /r/seduction | 25/08/22 03:25 AM |
| 2 | I miss her so much that I became depressedGive yourself time to let go and heal. She is just a human being after all. Obsession is not healthy for the mind. | /r/seduction | 12/08/22 09:32 PM |
| 1 | More important than a woman's reaction to you is YOUR REACTION to their reaction.Been my experience | /r/seduction | 05/08/22 03:57 PM |
| 2 | medication to help talk to girls?Being vague here but dm me for recommendations. Read philosophy, zen Buddhism, self-improvement books; speak to a therapist on consistent basis (if one is no good, find another, jump around until you find a good one), join support groups with others who are experiencing similar challenges, overcome, forgive, let go of traumas, resentments and fears; find a hobbie you love, exercise, pick up a sport; self-reflection, what do you like to do? Who do you want to be? What are your goals? Your princip… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:53 PM |
| 1 | medication to help talk to girls?Hey bro, sorry to hear your pain. I was there once, similar family background and awkwardness. This came from a place of fear, lack and feeling of not being good enough from years of abuse. The good thing is that there is hope. It took me many years of self searching and asking questions to get to a point of self acceptance. Today, I am able to speak to women without any alcohol, drugs or dependence on anything. You're on the right path by asking questions. This means you want to grow. Many peop… | /r/seduction | 30/07/22 12:33 PM |
| 11 | “What is it bout’ men?” -Amy WinehouseSomewhat agree. There's a wide array of personalities. People have different taste and attractions. The question is how far are we willing to go to be "loved"? There are numerous options such as supplements, plastic surgery and manipulations we can conduct to get people to "love" us. But at some point one has to ask themselves if it was all worth it. Every answer will be different. I know this might sound cheesy but what we're all chasing/in search of is already there within ourselves. We just h… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 10:59 PM |
| 51 | “What is it bout’ men?” -Amy WinehouseI'm a man and when I was younger I received similar compliments from older women that kinda made me feel uncomfortable. However my story is a bit different being a man. I was shy, didn't know how to flirt and was not confident. I've learned over the years to accept myself for who I am and how I look. Attraction is relative. There will always be women attracted to me and some that are not. That is somewhat out of my control. But what I can do is be positive, take care of and love myself. Nowadays… | /r/seduction | 16/07/22 03:22 PM |
| 28 | My cold approach story!Quick, someone make this fake story into a movie. | /r/seduction | 13/07/22 02:56 AM |
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