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Weekend plans are more solidified and I guess that inflexibility plays a role. Vs going out on a random Tuesday and bringing home some women after bars close for a few beers and just seeing what happens because they literally had no other plans.
/r/seduction21/08/25 03:35 PM
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Anecdotally I was in my best shape when I was between jobs. I could sleep 8-9 hours a night, work out for 2 hours daily, meal prep, etc. Also, because you don’t have to be up at 6:30am on a Thursday, you end up going out on non-weekend nights where you run into lots of service industry and other non-9-5 women. I have had WAY more success out in the wild on random weekday nights than any weekend. These factors accumulate.
/r/seduction18/08/25 12:58 PM
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If she doesn’t want you to kiss her by the end of the first date, do not bother planning a second date. Exceptions to this rule exist, of course, but it’ll save you a ton of time, money and frustration.
/r/seduction16/08/25 01:49 PM
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Genz doesn’t drink and has no money for $9 IPAs and $17 cocktails. IG is a perfectly legit way to garner interest, for little money and time investment.
/r/seduction24/07/25 04:28 AM
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100% of the women that have said this to me have not adhered to their word.
/r/seduction29/05/25 11:05 PM
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Sounds like you have a very understanding partner, which is half the battle man. Mine just cried and told me I wasn’t attracted to her. This was 20 years ago and it still gives me anxiety. shrugs
/r/seduction12/05/25 02:42 PM
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One example! How profound an argument. Truly astounding.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:20 AM
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Women’s humor: “my vagina __ !” Hey dipshit maybe think before you speak.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/25 01:14 AM
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Braces, LASIK, gym, skincare, good haircut, clothes that fit. We have many avenues for aesthetic improvement.
/r/seduction28/03/25 11:52 PM
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Thank you, I don’t understand why this concept is so hard to grasp.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/25 04:20 PM
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For anyone who has never had a phase where they were actually conventionally “hot”… It’s amazing how much more funny you are, how much uninterrupted eye contact you get, how effortless it makes literally all aspects of dating. If anyone has truly had a glowup, the difference can be jarring… but it’ll for sure motivate you to never let yourself slip.
/r/seduction27/03/25 02:47 PM
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I do just fine man, just going off my observations.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 01:12 AM
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You’re replying to a woman FYI.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/25 12:45 AM
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He isn’t pretending. He has become that man… not sure why this is such a difficult concept.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 10:20 PM
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It’s not a charade… it’s a man understanding that women like fit bodies, high earnings, interesting hobbies and clothes that fit. Men who self improve to this degree are never just doing it to make dating easier… that simply becomes a side effect.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:09 PM
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They want to avoid making the mistake or miscalculation of thinking someone is worthy when they are in fact not (the criteria of “worthy” varies from person to person, mind you). By advising men to “just be themselves” they’re saying “it’s easier for me to evaluate you if you aren’t pretending to be something you aren’t.”
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 09:07 PM
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No. A man who realizes “be yourself” actually means “be the literal best version of yourself your genetics and social capacity allows” will go to the gym, foster a career, involve themselves in interesting hobbies, develop a passable fashion sense, etc. THAT guy isn’t taking “be yourself” literally. The guy who plays MTG, refuses to shower and talks about Naruto at happy hour is the one who women are saying “be yourself” to.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:48 PM
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No, schlubby losers looking for advice on dating hear “be yourself” and take it at face value (and thusly don’t take the necessary self improvement steps). You have it backwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:34 PM
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They want you to “be yourself” so they can more easily see that you’re an unworthy mate. Those who see through the bullshit and be the best version of themselves pass this test, while schlubby losers take it at face value and thus self-eliminate from the dating pool. Pretty genius, really.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/25 08:25 PM
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The definition of friends is “platonic energy”.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 08:22 PM
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Guys don’t just wake up one morning and think “hey my friend Lisa is hot and sweet and smart… we should date.” He knew that shit from day 1. Now it’s just a matter of negotiating how to stay friends until Lisa wises up and reciprocates that romantic interest. But she probably won’t because he’s been friendzoned and she sees him like a brother. This is a massive contradiction.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:20 PM
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“Be her friend first.” “Don’t be her friend if you really just want to date her.” Fucking which is it
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 07:03 PM
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My experience with women over the years (50+ partners) is that they care about the performance a LOT more than you’re indicating here. No amount of communication or reassurance can overcome the disappointment when they ask you to rail them and you can’t perform. This is from decades of experience with women of all ages / experience levels. They are not the understanding empathetic angels you imply they are. They will belittle, bemoan, compare, and lament.
/r/seduction19/01/25 09:10 AM
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Modern techniques are pretty solid and you can continue to have your viability assessed.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/24 03:02 AM
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I got a vasectomy years ago. No dangers there.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/24 01:55 PM
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/endthread
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 10:14 PM
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The men having successful relationships in their 20s have no need for TRP… and I personally know many successful 35+ men who married 25-27 year old women. We aren’t talking about 20 year old children here…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:36 PM
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It’s not that we are waiting until we are 30-40 to date younger women… it’s that we didn’t attract women our age when we were in our 20s. We weren’t given the time of day, didn’t develop dating experience, didn’t feel loved or appreciated… the self improvement, career progression, maturity, building your body and mind… these things take time. TRP (I only acknowledge the self improvement and human nature aspects, not the Tate-era misogyny) isn’t ruining dating in my opinion. It’s giving men an un…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/24 03:17 PM
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Looks are the most important quality if every door you come across is locked.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/24 05:11 PM
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I’m in a state that just let a teenage die because two ERs turned her away (complications from a miscarriage).
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:49 AM
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My brother in Christ, denying women their healthcare rights and body autonomy is not going to get anyone laid. Hope you boys enjoy dry shitty handjobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 05:12 AM
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You have no idea how much of a game changer having a vasectomy is in this handmaid’s tale ass world we’ve found ourself in. Shootin blanks and bedding skanks babyyyyy
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/24 04:02 AM
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Those douchebags have little trouble finding their long term partner (when they choose to). If you poll 100 men, 90+ will vote to be the fuckboi who gets to have his cake and eventually eat it too. I cannot fathom why this is so hard for people to understand.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 05:14 PM
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I meant don’t sleep with them again :-)
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 11:27 PM
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Am a man. Idgaf what you look like when you cum, I only care that you get there. Your makeup probably isn’t on at that point either, couldn’t care less about that. If you’re having fun, I’m not going to be thinking about your past bf’s hypothetical dicks, I’m going to be having fun right there with you. I sure as shit won’t dare about your body hair or pubic hair. Sure we might both be having these negative thoughts but those should completely melt away when you’re actually in the moment. We all…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/24 05:44 PM
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How your friends feel and choose to communicate on a subject you have no personal experience with… seems like a quarter measure at best. I’d never take advice on sex from a bunch of virgins and spout it here either.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:54 PM
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“Looking good” isn’t comparable to “feeling sexually desired by”. Not even in the same solar system.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:51 PM
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If you’re asexual your opinion is completely devoid of any relevance in this conversation.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:47 PM
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So 80% of women should pick the top 20% of men? Just making sure I’m hearing you correctly.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:45 PM
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Newsflash: “normal men” are routinely the ones who have never had a woman express physical attraction to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:41 PM
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Please link to the post you’re referring to.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:37 PM
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If you’re a man who has never once felt lusted after, you approach marriage as “being settled for” because you can only get sex (the thing that makes us feel sexy) through long term monotonous commitment. Of course you’re going to be jaded. And sadly, a LOT of men have never once felt lusted after by a woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:33 PM
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No man wants to be settled for. Every man wants to be physically desired, as in, desired not by what his bank account balance is, or how stable his family is, or how good he is with children. Desired by his hard work (gym, active lifestyle) as much as his innate genetic gifts (height, build, hair, dick). Many men interpret “marriage material” to mean “I’d settle for you once I’ve exhausted my fun phase, but for reasons other than my lust for you physically.”… because we understand that is the re…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/24 07:23 PM
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That last one will get you so much ass if you play your cards right lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/07/24 06:33 PM
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This. Looks + hobbies (that make you interesting) >>> all else.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:58 PM
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Men don’t need to accumulate more male-dominated hobbies if they’re struggling to date. They need to volunteer, join run clubs, get a dog, do yoga, dance classes… you know, stuff that isn’t 99% other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:57 PM
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Have hobbies, but you still need to be attractive/desirable on top of that. Women will grow tired of the hot tall guy who has nothing else interesting about him, sure. But “hot/tall” will still be the first bullet point of compatibility. Hobbies is probably #4 behind income and age. Be hot AND interesting and you’ll have no issues in dating. If you can’t be hot, be interesting and rich. It will give you a leg up.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 05:54 PM
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I’ve had over 50 partners in life and no matter how many times I get them off with fingers/mouth at the end of the day they all still say “now come fuck me”. I’ve yet to meet a woman who isn’t into PIV, no matter how good you are at the other “legs of the stool”.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 05:24 PM
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They don’t have a dick lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 02:37 PM
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You’re one woman. How many women have you dated? Some of us have enough experience over a decade+ of dating to know what women actually prefer (if given the choice)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:35 AM
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The first guy is going to have confidence and self assuredness from an early formative age, so this is a pretty false dichotomy. Also you can change your mood and disposition much easier than growing 8” of height and overcoming your dick insecurity. Also most women are picking the first guy 9/10 times lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/24 01:32 AM
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“It’s easy for a woman to be a slut. It’s difficult for a man to be a stud” pretty much sums up this whole subreddit lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:55 PM
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Most women will not stick around to teach someone the ropes after about age 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 05:53 PM
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He was told “not the greatest”. It is unknown what was actually discussed. But what I’m describing is what women talk about, not what he experienced directly. Men don’t go into THOSE specifics, unless anyone would like to argue that point…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:35 PM
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If my fiancée was spilling negative/unflattering details of our intimacy with her friends, imho it’s enough to call it off. You need to be able to trust your partner, and trust that they’ll come to you first with any concerns about the relationship. He had his suspicions and they were rewarded, though he probably overreacted a touch. Men do not talk to each other about intimacy with their partners in such a manner. The expectation should be that women behave similarly, but it is common knowledge…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/24 03:25 PM
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“Being smart and interesting” will get you nowhere unless you already possess strong masculine physical attributes. They are an extremely lethal combination, however, and will help someone want to stick around or go the distance. There are exceptions, but they are rare.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/24 02:39 PM
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As a tall guy, a LOT of women think height and penis size are correlated. Like… a startling amount of women. Just adding that to the pile of social stupidity surrounding women and heightism.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/24 09:37 PM
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If you didn’t know, Reddit has been gearing up for an INITIAL PUBLIC OFFERING aka to be sold and traded. They’ve been aggressively banning subs and users and will continue to do whatever they can to make this platform more Advertiser Friendly. You’ll start to see more soft language used to avoid auto moderation (ever wonder why YouTubers avoid or bleep out curse words, and words like “kill”, “rape”, etc? This is why.)
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 06:48 PM
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You are today. Threads like these will be the first to go once IPO and extreme content moderation are in full swing.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 05:31 PM
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A classic misunderstanding of what TRP is trying to convey. If you put in the work (which takes time) you can see some tangible success in dating down the road. A lot of men don’t fully hit their stride professionally, financially and even physically until their mid30s. And plenty of men 35+ can attest that once your house is in order, dating becomes exponentially easier. Having your own place, owning your own cool car, having a nice wardrobe, and having the expendable income to date isn’t somet…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:38 PM
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It is how we operate, but the difference is that we are transparent about it. Women are brought up being taught that their appearance matters immensely; men are not afforded the same lesson. We are never told that our looks are what define us, when that is the single strongest determining factor in romantic success.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/09/23 03:36 PM
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No where in my statement did I imply that intimacy only refers to sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 06:55 PM
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It’s never just about “a bit of sex”. It’s about being genuinely desired by someone. Experiencing love and lust. We are social creatures who require intimacy to feel whole. I would’ve gladly sacrificed some of that scholarship money or musical acumen if it meant being a more complete person, knowing how to navigate relationships and accumulating sexual experience in those formative years.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 05:28 PM
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It is possible to be accomplished while also miserable. The bitterness comes from so much time wasted wondering where you’re going wrong or focusing on the wrong things. Our time and energy are finite. It’s like turning 65 and realizing that you never actually invested your Roth IRA funds, and instead let them sit idle and missed out on decades of compound interest. No amount of “late blooming” can help you catch up on what you feel you lost out on. Its a difficult concept to truly convert into …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:37 PM
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I’ll bite: Prioritizing scholastic success and cultivating hobbies over looks/fitness. Was valedictorian and could play multiple instruments but garnered zero attention from the opposite sex until I started lifting and eating right, getting braces as an adult and getting my severely deviated septum fixed. If someone had sat me down at age 13 and said women will never give a shit about your grades or your hobbies, I might’ve at least considered redirecting some of that energy into more social act…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/09/23 04:16 PM
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