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Men shouldn’t hate any of these things. I looovvee sluts lol Do I respect them like I do women who are wifey material in my book? No, but only incels and men who aren’t strong in their masculinity actively hate these women. Those men are weak, probably feel inadequate in general or jealous of bitches. They likely don’t have access to the same options as men who don’t have excessive issues with women. It’s unfortunate and unnecessary.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:25 PM
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lol I think this depends on the guy. For some, yes. For many of us, getting younger women is often easier as we pass 30. That has been my experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:21 PM
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If I have any version of this, it’s asking, “So what made you swipe right / agree to come out with me?” I go from there and may flip it back to them to put them on the spot after some back and forth chit chat, “Now I want to know why you think I was drawn to you?” Throughout the date you can chisel through a chick’s mind and get an idea of what she has to offer from multiple questions vs just one. It happens naturally if you’re listening. Even if I’m just trying to hit it, I can learn a lot thro…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 12:06 PM
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The perceptions here are too black and white and divorced from reality. No one who grew up privileged thinks privileged people don’t commit crimes or that there’s a big divide where “bad boys” are only criminals from low income neighborhoods. What? Lmao You’ve used a lot of annoying terms here that remind me of high school, but I’ll humor you. I knew plenty of privileged guys who sold drugs on college campuses and at parties. They were never arrested because police don’t patrol privileged commun…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/25 11:55 AM
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I’d agree with it not just being women actually. This whole thing could have been also phrased as “if society accepts women’s preferences, it’s fair to accept men’s preferences.” It definitely is a cultural creation that has been reinforced by self-policing men as well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:21 AM
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What’s the power dynamic that automatically happens with an older man? Seems like all the preferences you have issues with are men’s hmmm
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:14 AM
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Idk about that. some women have an issue with the attraction itself
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:12 AM
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….ok then
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 03:03 AM
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Most men are attracted to young women, sorry to break it to you. Men just learn to ignore their preferences or choose to prioritize other preferences beyond the physical or sexual. They’ve literally done studies on this. It’s just part of being a human animal and it doesn’t change unless you socialize norms that cause men to self-police.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:57 AM
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Well yeah - my entire point explained is that is the privilege women have. They can talk openly about liking or preferring almost anything aside from another woman’s man without being shamed for it. And sometimes not even that. I don’t think that’s a problem actually - the debate is whether or not that’s fair or hypocritical
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:53 AM
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Interesting thoughts and thanks for being thoughtful about this! My question is what does predatory mean here? Is pursuing romantic and sexual relationships with people you find attractive predatory only when men above a certain age do it? Why or why not? And interestingly enough, people often do acknowledge a good digger component that is common but not exclusively true for all young women. They’re not nearly as demonized.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:51 AM
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How is this related to the debate?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:47 AM
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Sure, who says you can’t? It’s a debate.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:46 AM
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It’s okay. Several people are also not actually engaging with the debate. Nothing in this debate was about freedom. Thanks for chiming in anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:45 AM
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Whoa - how am I trying to hurt people with my choices? Also not angry at all. Still confused about how you think this is revenge.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:43 AM
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How are young women automatically damaged by older men’s interest?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:42 AM
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Are you going to answer the questions or engage with the post debate or nah? This isn’t only about a 19 yo literally about to turn 20. It happens with guys dating 25 year olds too. Don’t be dense
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:40 AM
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This questions mentions nothing about legal issues. I specifically said there are non, so not much to say in reply to this. Thanks for contributing though. Just noting though: Most men would be viewed as bitches or pussies if they freaked out at every mention of a guy being successful, tall, fit, etc. But it’s socially acceptable for women to openly shame and ridicule men who admit the common preference for younger women. This is the reality I’m talking about.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:39 AM
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Why do you consider it revenge? That’s how a lot of men feel about women liking tall, wealthy men. I don’t agree that most men or women are acting out of revenge. I think women naturally want bigger, taller, wealthier men and men naturally want more feminine, smaller, younger women. I don’t think revenge has much to do with it for most of us. I think the guys need to suck it up and be the best version of himself he can be and get his money, fitness, and social game up. I wouldn’t blame women for…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:34 AM
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It’s not even comparable but you can pretend it is. But you can engage with the debate. In principle, do you think men who accept women’s preferences should have their preferences accepted as well, in line with what most men and women find attractive?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:32 AM
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Also, if you think most men would date inappropriately young, as most men do prefer younger women, then you’re admitting that you know most men don’t want women their age. You already know that we don’t want what you’re describing. That doesn’t seem to matter to you though. What about women in their 20s? Is it different if he goes for 20 year olds?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:31 AM
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Should women also be demonized for their preferences as well then? Like poor women who go for men out of their income bracket and men who are much taller?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:28 AM
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If she’s about to turn 20 does it matter or is it also 20 something’s for you? Also, what do you think about the actual post
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:09 AM
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Can’t speak to that and can’t know who would or wouldn’t. So for those who happen to date young and wouldn’t go much younger, myself included, should women accept that and stop shaming?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:08 AM
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/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:07 AM
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And some men think it’s exploitation for women to value men for financial security or objectifying to focus on height they can’t control. there are negatives on all sides we could highlight. My point is if one side has to accept things they don’t like, the other should as well. What do you think?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:06 AM
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The post says both should accept each other’s preferences. Agree? Also, men do accept them because there’s no culture wide shaming campaign around women liking tall men in the same way as it exists for liking young women. Not even close. There’s some push back, but most men swallow it and accept their lot and most men and women aren’t heavily policing women’s preferences the same way
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:05 AM
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You knew I would bring up the same thing you brought up? 😂 No idea about black pill and you haven’t presented any stats. Feel free to post stats that conclusively prove all or most women choose older men for money. But what does the failure rate and SOME women’s interest in money have to do with the post though?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 02:02 AM
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Men are definitely demonized more for this, but you make a good point. It’s still far more controversial for one of us to openly say young women are better vs. a 20 year old saying she likes older men. The level of scrutiny is definitely more concern than outright shaming like it is for men.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:58 AM
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I think my post is pretty clear and nowhere did I mention anything about my ability to pull anyone. This is literally something you just pulled out.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:56 AM
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You must have very limited experience with women and social groups in general. I’m quite comfortable but most of my family is poor and I grew up seeing dirt broke older men pull much younger women. Money is definitely not the only reason this happens. I’ve seen too much to believe that
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:54 AM
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Who said anything was stopping anyone?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/25 01:46 AM
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