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Watch a video on eating pussy I think Simple Pickup had one. If you can eat a girl out and make her cum, you will be 1000% more confident afterwards and even if your stick shift performance is not up to par she will be happy as fuck, because very little % of guys know how to make a woman cum, especially with good tongue game.
/r/seduction18/03/18 12:48 PM
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Holding eye contact with a girl depend on your mood and what you are communicating with your eyes. I'll give you two examples: The beginning I would walk the club with almost no motivation, stifled, etc. I will approach but my body, voice, nothing is really on point. The amount of girls that will look at me, check me out is close to 0. Near the end when I have a girl with me and I am walking in the club, I will have women stare me down like animals. At this point I am very confident in my skin, …
/r/seduction09/03/18 01:19 AM
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How to win friends and influence people is more geared towarda businesmen, regular people, that you kinda want to do business with, be friends and are not atteacted to. Someone who you want to fuck and is a hot girl is used to people being so nice to her that once you start taking away validation and being real she gets automatically attracted. So honesty creates attraction, being politically correct creates bonds, but also friendzones. I have found out that very little of the % of people you wi…
/r/seduction04/03/18 02:54 AM
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Just googled Goodfrey Gao, the dude looks handsome as fuck, with the right picks and bio he would get 90% of matches. I can gurantee that a lot of women would be lining up to fuck him. On a side note don't preplan on anything. You are already shooting yourself in the foot before you have even gone out. Focus on the things you can change: confidence, gym, fashion, etc.
/r/seduction27/02/18 02:22 AM
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Backup response to everything: "Good thing I have a micropenis."
/r/seduction11/02/18 10:30 AM
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Go and open her directly, just introduce yourself if it goes nicely talk to her for a min or two then bring her to the guy use him as social proof and then just isolate her or just don't bring her to him. You don't owe anything to a random dude you've met. I am against asking for a light or a smoke because it's bullshit the girl knows you are talking to her because she is hot and you know it too. I see guys (good ass looking dudes too) doing it all the time and 9/10 the girls just think they lac…
/r/seduction18/12/17 06:47 AM
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Read the power of now ot new earth they talk about it. Basicalltly validation is like an endless pot that never gets filled. If you always seek it how would you enjoy the present moment, just think about this going up to every person to make yourself feel a certain way or get a certain reaction won't fulfil you in the end, because nobody can live up to their expectations. It's when you let go of them, clear your mind and are present is when you can fullu embrace the moment and women will be attr…
/r/seduction17/12/17 08:16 PM
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Great physique is great it definetly helps a lot. However I've noticed the hotter the girl is the less she cares. I know this big buff dude that I have as a wing from time to time girls will jump on from him to me, but it only tends to be average to a little above average girls. The hottest ones literally function almost the same, they shittest like a pro and scan for any microsigns of mistakes or hesitance. Of course if you are way fucked like super overweight or really skinny you need to get t…
/r/seduction12/12/17 01:55 AM
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Go out and take action dude. You've already read most than what 90% read about pickup. It's more about doing, writing field reports and then reading/watching to try out new shit. For each book you read you need 3,6 months of 3,5 days of going out hard. It's like working out, you need to start lifting hard and learn from experience.
/r/seduction10/12/17 10:00 PM
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You should think of it as making yourself laugh and the girl just grabs on to that. I say all kinds of shit like rub guacamole on her naked body, make her pregnant, but when I am having fun they are having fun. Socially callibrating is about seeing how they react and adjust to that, believe it or not a girl would be okay with you spitting a holocaust joke, maybe 1 or 2h later in the interaction, maybe after a few dates, point is the more time you spend with her the more you can say weird shit, b…
/r/seduction10/12/17 09:55 PM
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Looks have as much as everything and as much as nothing to do with your game. I am a decent looking dude and tell you this from exoeriencr the more attractive the girl is the more she looks into the signals you give out and the type of guy you are and a lot less into looks. As long as you take care of your body, fashion, you have very little else to do on the outside. From there it's finding a way to not depend on women for inner piece. It's also normal in a lot of my students I've noticed apper…
/r/seduction10/12/17 04:27 PM
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The thing is I believe you are completely right and I would think the same way in your shoes. I would say the ones with the old man and the asians are the ones that stick out to me the most. I appreciate your honest feedback.
/r/seduction07/12/17 10:28 PM
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Read the Power of Now and New Earth by Eckhart Tolle it will explain to you a lot. There is nothing wrong with negative thoughts it's the resistance that comes with them and by resisting you cause them to linger for days, months, years, even lifetime. A lot of people I've met and helped have past traumas from being bullied or mistreated that they still haven't accepted.
/r/seduction07/12/17 10:25 PM
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Read the Power of Now and New Earth by Eckhart Tolle it will explain to you a lot. There is nothing wrong with negative thoughts it's the resistance that comes with them and by resisting you cause them to linger for days, months, years, even lifetime. A lot of people I've met and helped have past traumas from being bullied or mistreated that they still haven't accepted.
/r/seduction07/12/17 10:24 PM
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As long as you believe you need money to attract you will stand by that belief. The real question that you should ask yourself is why do you believe you need money. Is it your looks, your past, what is it? You can find plenty of women that will stick around for your money but is that what you really want.
/r/seduction07/12/17 10:17 PM
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Which parts do you find antisocial or offensive?
/r/seduction07/12/17 07:06 PM
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If you want to stay the same you can attract a below average/average woman and just stick with her for the rest of your life. Think about this you want the hottest girl with the best personality it goes bothways for women. It's like saying why is killing people wrong, society just hates me, no you obviously have to get out of your mindset and be open minded. That's why it's so easy to be succesfull, because people who want to change are 10% and the rest of the 90% stay the same expecting a diffe…
/r/seduction05/12/17 10:16 AM
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For a date if I were you I would do shit I like and this makes it fresh for the girl and she can learn something about you. Other than that bro talk about whatever. If she agreed to hangout with you she already likes you so by just beeing there is enough. The only thing that kills dates is no physical escalating, a.k.a. being the man. The more you plan the more you will panic, because nothing goes as planned with girls.
/r/seduction30/11/17 01:35 PM
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Yeah you are very good loking dude. However girls don't react to looks but emotions. I've had hot girls love me and say I am attractive and less attractive ones think I am ugly or disgusting. The ones that like me they feel that way. There many good looking dudes, but you have one unique trait, yourself as a person. It sounds cheezy but if you want girls to not only be attracted but fall in love with you, you have to express yourself the way you are. All that's stoping you is conditioning that i…
/r/seduction26/11/17 01:34 PM
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I know a dude that is Indian, way shorter than me still sleeps with hot girls. Every girl has a nitch, if you find one that really likes you yeah it's easy. However most of the time, they are neutral. I have had girls that like me for my accent, but I have never gotten laid just because of it. By nothing I mean not relying on looks, money or even status. Go out and approach in clubs, out in the daytime. Find your local rsd inner circle in facebook, you will meet some great people. You can improv…
/r/seduction19/11/17 06:06 AM
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Go out an approach. It took me around a month and a half of going all out (4-5 days per week) as a 22 year old skinny foreigner in the states with a fucked up bullied childhood, it took my business partner around 3,4 months. You won't succeed in your social life because you are perceived as a low level piece of shit or a nice guy as some people call it. There is nothing bad about this you just have to go show them you can get women and you will be in the right mindset and also have women attract…
/r/seduction14/11/17 12:52 PM
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I would just tell her you made a mistake and ask if you can redo with your sober less cringey self.
/r/seduction10/10/17 07:14 AM
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The problem is you think and react. My friend said this once, I approached this girl on the street, after that we quickly hurried to cross on the other side of the street. He was like "Dude just continue walking on whichever side you intended to walk, just act naturally". So same way instead just sit wherever, if you feel like sitting next to her do it. Really it's bullshit it's less game and more being real. Game is to teach you how to be attractive, but if you already are on the inside you can…
/r/seduction09/10/17 07:23 AM
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Physical attraction can only do so much. Seen dudes who are good looking but are clueless and others who are not as good looking killing it because they know how to communicate to the girl. If you don't have the balls to at least approach don't expect anything. The most girls that are interested will do is stare at you or come close to proximity.
/r/seduction04/10/17 09:27 PM
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That's the thing you are still talking about gaining. There is nothing to gain the confidence is already there in you. I told you dudes will spend their whole life getting money, perfect physique and won't stop to think: "Wait a second I am good enough the way I am. Everything I do will just add to the fun." Yes pickup is spiritual. You go face to face with the ego, most dudes live in the mental image of their head believing they are good with women, or everything will be ok. No they are not, ye…
/r/seduction04/10/17 04:53 AM
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I agree pickup should not be your ultimate goal unless you are trying to coach but it's a skill that will improve your life massively. Pickup for me is not about making women the center of your life but it's expressing yourself so you can attract women around your life. I am a lot more motivated now thanI was a year ago when I was at home jacking off. I've done everything focus on my career only, family, the best thing so far was learning how to attract women. This pulls out all your insecurutie…
/r/seduction03/10/17 09:09 PM
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If you can't be vulnerabke how do you expect the woman to be vulnerable with you. Being vulnerable is everything from holding eye contact for a long period of time to wording your atteaction towards her. Start communicating what you feel because nothing will turn on a woman more and make her keep wanting to see you, than you communicating your emotions clearly. Being vulnerable is how you attract and most importantly keep a woman. The way I see it there are two types of guys that are great with …
/r/seduction03/10/17 03:50 PM
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No coffee/tea or some bar after 6. You can also go for ice cream, walk in the park. Really the more simple and more places you go to the better.
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:43 AM
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Stop being a bitch literally. Life sucks for everyone. Tips to succeed Read book the power of now. Trust me this shit will change your life Meditate Go to the gym. Health, stamina and looks Find hobbies Art especially will help you get in touch with your emotional side which is key to getting women. DO PICKUP, around 90% out of all succesful businessmen have done at some poiny or still do pick up. It's vital to be able to communicate with 50% of the population, a.k.a. women. FIND AN RSD INNER CI…
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:22 AM
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Coffee after that go to the playground later at night. You bring the child out of her and she will love you for it.
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:06 AM
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Approaching a lot is good but you can also burnout. I remember that happening to me in Vegas and heard happening to other dudes there. It's more about being 100% in every set you go to. Also remember that talking to fatties, socialising with other people can add greatly to the momentum and give you social proof as well, especially in bars.
/r/seduction03/10/17 06:04 AM
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It builds up over time for sure. Lost my virginity a year ago and have been with many girls in different relationships ever since it keeps getting better and better but I know dudes that have had less girls in their life and are more confident because they've succesfully been themselves and still had girls around their life. Deep down the trust comes from you. It's not whether the girl cheats or doesn't call back, it's you trusting yourself that you are always able to find other girls.
/r/seduction01/10/17 11:41 PM
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If you fuck and you are straight and honest about what you want you wont have any issues. Problems of friendzone and other shit arrise is when men are not clear with their intentions. It's also better to be a fuckboy and get the girls, then be a friendzoned dude and eat shit.
/r/seduction30/09/17 12:17 AM
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Because if you haven't been with enough girls you don't know what you want. I thought I wanted to be in a relationship with my 1st, 2nd, 3rd until I realised I don't they just happen to be there and I happen to fuck them. I had to go through multiple girls to even find ones that are worth spending time with them beyond sex. This might not be for everyone but truth be told most guys who I've met who have had 0 success prior had to gk through this. Going through more girls helps you attract also t…
/r/seduction26/09/17 10:14 AM
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This! Messed up my first potential lay when i pushed for sex way too much. She hadn't had sex in a while and wanted to take it slow. Next time I had a virgin girl in bed literally told her on the first night I won't do anything you are not comfortable with, meant it from my hearth, we had sex and she said it felt very natural and unpreassured. But yeah she likes you the reason those girls left you was because you were probably becoming too needy.
/r/seduction26/09/17 08:28 AM
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It's not philosophy just go up to and talk to girls. You are wasting your time asking a question like this. You can define it as game, socialising or trying to stick your penis in something, bottom line is go out and approach.
/r/seduction26/09/17 08:05 AM
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If worst comes to worst and she rejects you, just say that it's completely fine and you would still like to keep it chill in class. Ironically if you do this unless she is in a relationship she actually might be more likely to meet up. This is worst case scenario, focus on the positive...her liking you to the point of begging you to fuck her after every class.
/r/seduction26/09/17 08:03 AM
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You are overthinking things you had a conversation not a 3some with her sister. Just relax she can do what she wants and you can do whatever you want. The only way to keep your wits is to have fun and stay focused innerly, outside circumstances always change. Value your peace, physical body, mental health, social circle, family.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:13 AM
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Just be honest with her. Tell her you like her. "Investment" the way people use it here is when you are possesive or thinking about her 24/7. However if you are just a virgin I would say get some other girls because I felt "feelings" for my few first girls too even when they weren't there. You basically need some physical abundance to make sure you are not day dreaming.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:09 AM
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You decide whether it's better to choose 1 out of 100 than 1 out of 10 girls you meet. Of course with pick up if you do it right will have more options of the kind of girl you want. If you have never had a girlfriend before or very little experience I doubt you are even looking for a relationship.
/r/seduction26/09/17 06:05 AM
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He means this. Forget about her. Your mindset is not right, truly if you want to meet her leave it to chance. There are many other hot girls around. This girl will literally sense what you wrote down here and she would be repelled instantly.
/r/seduction20/09/17 07:05 AM
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Think of it this way, if you are too afraid of the girl thinking you are too easy for saying something that means you are attached to the result. Yes showing it is one form but saying it is just another way of showing it, ultimately you should be like an artist freely express the way you want to in the moment. If you stop yourself from telling a girl she is beautiful she will know that. Women are like little girls in dresses that want to be told they look beautiful. The only time I would not say…
/r/seduction20/09/17 04:13 AM
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You are overthinking. Just tell them what comes to your mind. The more you play games with the girl, the more she will play with you. You are going up to her because you are attracted to her, you can hide your intentions all you want, but then you'd be deceiving yourself and her. The reason why men get in the friendzone is because they never told the girl these simple worda that they are attracted to them when they met them or soon after.
/r/seduction20/09/17 01:49 AM
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Would ask where they are from, or can guess something about them. In that case she started laughing so I just said "I was joking I just thought you were cute and that's the first thing that came to mind". We then talked about what kind of music she liked and arranged a date for later. Really 90% of the girls if they are not shy/introverted they will ask you a question back even if they have a boyfriend/husband. You can keep asking what to say but it really doesn't matter. Focus on telling them a…
/r/seduction20/09/17 12:29 AM
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Two things. Rejection shouldn't affect you. Practice in front of the mirror. You are probably coming off as creepy because your are not having proper tonality and body language. Also SMILE, be happy at the very least people would appreciate that. At core you also need to be an attracrive male. I could ramble about it but there is 100000 hours of content out there. Check out rsd, 4wn, etc.
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:52 AM
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I remember going to college grounds and carrying a water cup of starbucks then opening a girl with do you like water. She was laughing and later when I said I though she was cute, she commented on having balls for approaching her. So don't overthink it, if you go up to a girl and you are attracted to her she will know, so ultimately say whatever pops up in your head. But the simplest one can be "Hi I am ____. Nice to meet you".
/r/seduction19/09/17 04:15 AM
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I'll tell you a mantra that I go by. "One is all, all is one", or you could go with "One for all, all for one". The reason is we are all connected in some shape or form, if you think of it like that you are not interfering, in fact you interacting with someone, something, anyone, let it be person, tree, dog, etc. is completely natural. On top of that talking to beautiful women is just part of a man's nature. Also say what you feel, tell the people how you feel, especially girls. You will be amaz…
/r/seduction19/09/17 03:51 AM
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You can never make mistakes if you come from the frame of not being needy. Just because someone doesn't respond to your joke text, doesn't mean she would respond to a different type of text you sent her. If I liked a chick I wouldn't stop texting her because of 1 lame text even if I have other girls in line. I am sure girls have a lot more options and would care less but I am sure they would not dispose you like tissue unless it was a random dm or 5 min interaction. Also in person if you make mi…
/r/seduction18/09/17 10:04 PM
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You are not wrong however there is a thing called callibraring to the environment itself. Say at work you might want to be super direct but even if the girl is into you she wouldn't jump on your dick right next to her boss.
/r/seduction18/09/17 09:44 PM
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After playing thousands of way to text. I'll tell you this text however you text your friends. I hate texting and normally just put out boring liners and joke from time to time. In my mindset I am the shit so why try. I also arrange my day 2,3s etc. on the spot so the text is just confirmation. If it's a long distance just tell her in person to promise each other to stay in touch. Be honest say you liked her company/vibe. If you came from the mindset of abundance you wouldn't be thinking of elab…
/r/seduction17/09/17 09:55 PM
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Start touching everyone more, handshake, hug your bros. Most dudes are not used to being physical with their mom even because of trying to be manly. Start small with girls high five, maybe holding hands, putting your arm around her. There shouldn't be reason not to touch her, she is there so why not. We as men love beauty and appreciate it. We are sexual beings and like touching and feeling feminine energy.
/r/seduction17/09/17 06:03 PM
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Go for girls that are 110% up for meeting you. Why waste time on those who are not. There are plenty that will go out and want to meet you and spend time with you.
/r/seduction17/09/17 06:00 PM
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Just practice giving out compliments. Appreciate the girl's beauty, vibe. It's really simple as saying I like your vibe, you look cute. As you progress you will communicate most of this subconsciously but right now you are surpressing your sexual intent.
/r/seduction17/09/17 05:53 PM
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I'll tell you a story. I remember seeing these two beautiful blond girls probably swedish sitting in a club outside setting next to me. This is before I knew about game or at least took action. Me an my friend were too cool to talk to them even when they kept glancing at us. I remember seeing this tall jacked dude literally walk up to them and say hi in a normal way and get rejected. Then an hour or so later this shorter, chubbier middle aged man acted likd he was tripping and just sat down next…
/r/seduction17/09/17 03:25 AM
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I've met dudes that are like you, that are probably worse than you and that are better than you. For all of them the universal thing that helped them improve the most and get some results was to approach. I have a friend who is super logical, tried explaining to him from A to Z how everyone doesn't think or care about you, showed him proof. The only thing that actually worked in his mind was when he did something. You want to step out of that paradigm of thinking your way out. Trust me dude I ba…
/r/seduction13/09/17 07:09 AM
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Talk to everyone. Wait for signals and see who is attracted to you. Then you can just be like hey I have a painting or something I can show you. I wish I was as good at game as I was when I was going to college parties. If you are chill and spend enough time vibing with the girl it's pretty easy and they are looking for a fun night too.
/r/seduction13/09/17 06:06 AM
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Hot girls are easier to game. She will show you directly if she likes you. I am not even kidding the hottest girls I've slept with were super easy to pull and have sex with. They can give you shit yes. Also keep in mind that the 10s are hard to pull from cold approach because they will stick with men from their social circle that are attractive, safe and confirmed not needy. The problem with a random guy on the street is he might be faking it. Atteactiveness is also extremely subjective. I've ha…
/r/seduction13/09/17 06:03 AM
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Bro move away. Find roommattes if you have to. This clearly screams lack of social circle and lack of enjoyment with yourself.
/r/seduction13/09/17 05:49 AM
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If you see her outside of class approach her. Ask her about the material then a little about her. Just be like hey aren't you in class blabla you can talk some shit about the teacher. If you are good at reading signs you can tell if she is into you here and then if not wait it out. After that you can say hi to her in class chit chat. Don't rush anything college is all about making friends and slowly building it up. In class if you want to talk to her unless you are sociall with everyone I wouldn…
/r/seduction13/09/17 05:47 AM
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It's not luck. It's glimpses of your true self. You think that it just happened but it's really what you attracted to yourself. If you accept this to be you it will happen more often, why not have things served on a "plate". People who make it seem effortless dont swim against the river, they paddle with a boat on it.
/r/seduction13/09/17 05:38 AM
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This is your problem dude you think too much. Go out and approach, all the research in the world wont help you unless you surpass those logical barriers because true heart doesn't come from the mind. Your thinking changes with approaching and looking innerly but it will always be hard. I could give you 10000 reasons why you are good enough but unless you go and experience it for yourself you will never accept them.
/r/seduction13/09/17 05:34 AM
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Just say you feel nervous. She knows it, if you are honest she will like you for it. Just say you thought she was cute as you get better just you saying hi and eye contact would be enough to tell her hey I want to fuck.
/r/seduction13/09/17 05:31 AM
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Your problem is you haven't approached enough. If you have you will start loving a girl once you've went past sex and realize she is worth hanging around. A cute girl you see in class is just that. I had the same problem in college. What I did was go on a rampage now I just focus on the girls I am sexualy active with.
/r/seduction13/09/17 05:30 AM
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You go for fashion that fits your personality. I've seen dudes that wear the hipster accesories like bracelets and rings but are total geeks and doesn't fit their personality at all. Say for those dudes I would recommend a watch, some chinos and a shirt that stands out a bit. I flear floral shirts, long t shirts with ripped jeans and sometimes add rings and necklaces, I am creative and more free spirited. Girls who don't like will think I an gay, girls who like might also think I am gay but at l…
/r/seduction12/09/17 02:53 AM
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I have a goofy attitude and can get away with a lot. Just stare at them and be sikent create some silence and sexual tensiob. You just need her to know for a bit that you have a dick and that's all. I always tell guys play your streanghts, if you are a nice funny guy make her laugh all the way until she is sucking your dick. I still make chicken noises when I have sex and I did those in the beginning wheb I meet the girl. Basically you are just giving her a preview of how you will be in bed. Som…
/r/seduction09/09/17 06:16 PM
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This is the truth. We are millions of years of dna of kissing and fucking. We already have everything that we need inside to attract and know what to do next if we listen deeo enough. All you are doing is natural.
/r/seduction06/09/17 06:45 PM
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It's how people date that it's weird like sitting across from the table, going into an interview mode. Take a girl to the play park and go on the swings on something and tell me later that you and her weren't having the time of your life.
/r/seduction06/09/17 05:36 AM
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They are not rules but guidelines. If you are dude who sends 50 texts per day it's good to have a "text game" guideline. All these things are made to tweak your personality. I am a really goofy dude as soon as I added literally a touch of sexuality it was enough to make girls attracted. My general guideline is don't be afraid to try new things. Keep tweaking, you will have a harder timw getting results if you bang your head against the wall doing the same stuff. Really if you didn't get girls by…
/r/seduction06/09/17 04:26 AM
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Night time girls will flake a lot. She can meet other guys, she could have been drunk, etc. I would go for the pull and almost forget about numbers unless it's a girl you almost fucked or had an amazing connection and terrible logisticks. Daytime you can have a lot more solid numbers, especially after an instant date. Also trust me attractiveness has nothing to do with fucking the girl. This one chick showed me a picture of a dude in the friendzone, he was a good looking dude, maybe more than me…
/r/seduction05/09/17 08:07 AM
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Big things are: Surround yourself with the right people. This will cut learning time and motivate you more, imagine how you are with gym buddies Go to a big city if you aren't in one already. I can't emphasize how much this can help. Girls in some cities are just near impossible to game. Moved from Columbus to Pdx and I've had 0 results from night game and had ti resort to dg pretty much. Moving to Vegas soon to change that. Logistics. Get a place close to the clubs/city. This can pretty much do…
/r/seduction05/09/17 05:58 AM
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After you get rejected play it off in a fun way. When I get rejected I am normally like is it because I am foreign? Also maybe joke that you are rich. I like falling on ny knees a lot too when I am walking on the street approaching at night time haha. It's like this dude smile any time you get rejected it's good, now you can go and find someone who you like and they like and appreciate you.
/r/seduction03/09/17 09:30 PM
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I did both. I only got results from nightgame for a while though.
/r/seduction02/09/17 08:34 PM
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It's not what you do but where it comes from. If you need her to like you then even by you just sitting there and doing nothing you will still be needy. If you honest to god not give a fuck even by you falling on your knees and begging her to marry you would still not be needy. What I am getting from your text especially last part is. I want to fuck you so I will keel changing my plan until I can fuck you. You decide on something you pull through. Don't let her ask you to go to disneyland or som…
/r/seduction02/09/17 01:26 AM
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Want to say that was equally as fucked up but a lot more beneficial. I though I was way above others in my mind it made sense that they were the ones making a huge mistake. This was and still is bad but it's better than laying down and crying. Later I discovered my calling doing art (which after that I switched with game) that really also made my self confidence boost through the roof. Really the people that end up getting bullied and have fucked lifes are normally the people that have the most …
/r/seduction01/09/17 02:59 AM
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Don't have a plan. Go and let the conversation unfold by itself. I've noticed when I was thinking about it too much it got too mechanical, I still might have fucked the girl but it felt like a chore.
/r/seduction31/08/17 10:32 PM
1

Almost zero experience, I kissed a girl once when I was drunk before, I had a very very healthy mindset right from the get go though. I had been through bullying and all kinds of shit before that.
/r/seduction30/08/17 09:45 PM
1

Bro the more you wait the worse. I've fucked girls on the first date saying guys wait 5 dates or something to kiss them. This is bullshit you go full on right from the get go. It's creepier when you hold your dick in your hand and decide to show it after 20 dates, than to just go for it.
/r/seduction30/08/17 06:27 AM
1

Don't freak out. I was a virgin until 22 and found some wings from the rsd inner circle and lost it in a month. It happened the moment I stopped carrying, I wasn't thinking myself as a virgin but a cool dude who girls liked, I was hooking chicks left and right. You don't want anyone to love you, you just want to be with someone so you can love yourself. Go out do game, find out what you don't like about yourself, very important is to find like minded people. You will get laid eventually, trust m…
/r/seduction30/08/17 06:25 AM
1

Go to the rsd inner circle on facebook just write it with the name of your city and go out with them. That's what changed my life meeting the right people. I can never stress this enough it will also cut years of bullshit in pick up.
/r/seduction29/08/17 02:13 AM
2

Most people live their life not doing a job they like, not spending time with people they like, focusing on things they don't want. On paper you might be a very happy person but unless you look deep down and really see what drives you, you wont be happy. People who are very well off financially dont become happier most of the time they just numb off the feeling of sadness enough to not feel almost anything (again this is not universal). Start by accepting yourself being a virgin, don't let it be…
/r/seduction29/08/17 02:08 AM
1

When you are going up to someone you are going there because you are interested in that person. When you are talking to that person about anything at all you guys are there to feel each other out. Talk about the things you want to talk about but try to make it relatable, imagine adjusting the radio signal on the car to match the radio station. Once she starts to get know you and like you more you can expand. You see it as small talk I see every word exchanged as a piece of us as cheeky as it sou…
/r/seduction29/08/17 01:51 AM
1

Think and find out what's really affecting your self esteem. You can fake confide ce but it's only patching an apendix with a bandaid.
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:20 AM
1

I can already you are being too logical by asking exactly after how many. This varies from person to person, it's just really letting go dude and being comfortable. The further I am going in game the more I am unlearning pick up and learning how to be more genuine.
/r/seduction24/08/17 08:19 AM
3

It's how much they matter to you. Really a hot guy will have more receptive girls, but a guy who is not as good looking but doesn't care and is confident as hell won't have as many girls hooked into him immediately but he can overall fuck more girls. I've seen dudes that are not that great looking but are a lot more natural and you just get in frame of mind around them, I don't care about how I look, if the girl enters that boom she can be attracted. But if you go up and are like she is out of m…
/r/seduction21/08/17 07:31 PM
1

It's the point from where it's coming from. Always bring fun. Sometimes the vibe of the club and tbe girls themselves are low vibration and aggresive but it's still up to you to not be affected by it.
/r/seduction20/08/17 01:14 AM
7

You have to tease and make her chase. I call it pushing buttons, say she is too young, too innocent, too asian this might seem rude or whatever but it gets the girl aroused. I am a very happy and cheerful dude but say offensive shit all the time, I will tell you straight up it makes their vaginas wet. Also if you are planing to seduce aim for night time, not morning coffee that's when people have family meals.
/r/seduction20/08/17 01:13 AM
3

Don't. Find girls that value your time and want to hangout with you.
/r/seduction17/08/17 06:07 AM
1

I would ask her straight up if she is intimidated, tell her you feel like she is distanced and you want to fully experience her for who she is. Also keep escalating physically, I thought a girl was not that into me all the way until we made out and I made her put her hand on my dick.
/r/seduction17/08/17 06:04 AM
1

Swing on the extreme, do a smile that feels fake and forcing, then you will find a good middle point. Also do you approach, what's up with the fucking waiting who looks at you or back.
/r/seduction17/08/17 05:51 AM
11

Then don't. Dudes that are short and live in the garage and smell like farts will fuck them for you. Really dude just go out and let go, you have to drop that perfection ego. Try to find ways to make a fool of yourself as much as you can. There is a fuck ton a videos about this, but basic gist is act like and idiot wherever you can.
/r/seduction16/08/17 06:51 AM
15

Completely agree dude. I've been going through similar thinking myself meeting girls that are very "innocent" but then turns out they were sexually oppressed for guys not knowing how to treat them to get them aroused and most of all experience you. All this random bullshit, buying expensive dinners, spending a fuck ton of money is just this external shit that gets in the way of you and her experiencing each other. One of the best dates I had was eat a quick appetizer and then go and play in the …
/r/seduction16/08/17 06:32 AM
2

Always have standards for how a chick should look, act and be. If you can pull and fuck models that you think have settled for you, good job, I've never heard or seen anyone do that. Your uniquiness is what makes you and it can't be offered by anyone else, just being able to express that is enough for not for the girl to settle on you, but for you to settle on the girl.
/r/seduction11/08/17 09:44 AM
2

Find wings that do game, they are one of the best people I've ever met, completely replaced my previous social circle. Next if do actual game before you talk about what game is. Your are doing the number one mistake most people do is judge and assume before trying and experiencing. pmo_pmNO said the rest.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:30 AM
1

Go up to a girl and say straight up I thought you were attractive/cute. It teaches you to flirt and she already knows what's up so it's a good way to starts for someone at your point. I would always tell this to guys, realize your number one issue, say physicality, then go night game and be physical from the get go, spin handshake boom, handclasp.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:24 AM
0

Aim for building comfort. I used to have this problem and still do where I attract them in the moment, but open up barely. If you have a strong connection of her knowing who you are, your passions it would help to see you more as that hot guy who is a photographer that likes dogs and has a sister, than that hot guy that was like any other hot guy.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:22 AM
3

Dude approach, you don't have time to worry and decide on the moment whether the sun is aligned with the moon.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:19 AM
2

Personally I disagree. Never settle for less bro, it's like whatever you keep around is whatever you think you deserve. My wings and friends that I've noticed that have gone for girls below their league tend to think lower of themselves. I was literally a virgin 7months ago and have a higher sense of entitlement then them, a lot because I never settled for a girl that I don't find hot, even if I am stuck in a rut. Not having feminine energy around you sucks that's why it should force you to go o…
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:18 AM
2

If I were I would more cold approach and figure out social cues more before you start gaming friends in social circle.
/r/seduction11/08/17 05:08 AM
1

I want to also add start looking at people, like even random people on the street and wait for them to break eye contact. You can also easily tell who is what, how confident, relaxed. You will also find an ioi of a girl, it's rare but it will happen and she will probably be down to hangout.
/r/seduction11/08/17 04:45 AM
1

It's simply accepting yourself. From that point on improving. A lot of people are just emotionally closed off to the point where they experience 0. Now you don't need to be emotionally open to fuck girls, but if you are not it's just like living life empty. Start looking deep inside how you feel. This is also how you bring your best game. I call it the innate intuition, no amount of technique will trump your ability to feel what the person is feeling next to you. The girls that you will end up s…
/r/seduction09/08/17 09:50 AM
1

I remember talking to this beautiful stunner, she was a gorgeous girl. I was literally in the zone that day, statement of empathies, self amused, I was hooking lots of chicks, But this one girl she was so serious, no matter how much I toned my jokes it wasn't working, I was giving her a chance. I don't know how far I could have gone but I knew that after 10min if I toned it down anymore I would not be myself. So I just got up and left, no big deal. Now not all attractive girls are like that, the…
/r/seduction07/08/17 11:58 PM
2

Just write down your interaction and learn from it. You can pay/torrent or find free infield online. However to be honest most people can feel the hints it's just we don't pay enough attention to the moment and don't listen to our gut enough. I would suggest doing creative endeavors like music, art, writing, it helps bring out that intuition more. I remember that dudes like Max and Julien did music, Jeffy does writing, etc. all harness that creative side that I believe had a major impact on brin…
/r/seduction07/08/17 11:52 PM
2

This is the simple fact. Most people live a boring live where they don't interfere or experience anything. If you want epic shit in your life you literally have to go through epic hardships. Making people uncomfortable is the least of your problems, if you are not making some girls dislike you, you will never find ones that really like you. There are always people in life that you will get along with and ones that you won't, no amount of game will ever fix that.
/r/seduction07/08/17 11:42 PM
1

It's like this looks will help initially in the interaction. I know a dude that literally girls asked him to come back, but since he had almost no game he didn't really hook. On the other hand seen shorter less attractive dudes hook because don't give a fuck and end up fucking the girl. Girls feel and experience what we do. If looks matter to us it matters to them. It's as simple as that, yes some girls will reject you and that will always fucking happen, but if you bounce it off and go on the n…
/r/seduction07/08/17 11:39 PM
1

I would firstly and foremost contact an rsd inner circle in your city from facebook. Just write city name and rsd inner circle and it will pop up, I met 90% of the people that I hangout with now from there. Start a momentum, meet people, experience and look and look at rsd products like the natural or pimp are a good start.
/r/seduction06/08/17 11:40 AM
2

I completely agree dude when you become so smooth it becomes unnatural, especially in cities/places where there is a clear lack of alphaness and masculine intent.
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:21 AM
1

Take her to a place close to you. Best dates are ones where you go to multiple locations and then your place. We as guys always think that we need to do this and that to impress the girl, it's literally just you, she wants to see, meet and experience you.
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:12 AM
2

Don't just be attached to results. You can screen and ask: "Are you madly in love with anyone right now?". But don't be attached to the outcome. Even if she does you can still enjoy the convo and boost your state. Success is not about results, it's about setting landmarks: Say you want to have longer interactions. Also make sure you are not being too friendly, if you are being alpha they will state they have a boyfriend within the first 5min of the interaction 90% of the time.
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:09 AM
0

Bro it's not the line. You can go up and say your name, compliment on an item they are wearing, go direct, doing it right is communicated through within itself. Just be confident and do it and you'll succeed, the more lines you think off the less authentic it becomes and the more you will stress about it.
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:06 AM
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Just go up and say: "I thought you looked cute so I wanted to say hi, my name is blabla". Attraction is mostly in body language and eye contact, I almost never state my intent but just by going and saying hi and having strong body language and laser eye contact, they know I want to fuck them.
/r/seduction02/08/17 06:00 AM
2

What do you mean bro just go to a venue that's close to your house, heck just go get coffee, go for a walk a park near you and babystep to your place. Also I am not getting if you are trying to fuck the girl or have a girlfriend. I live in a city 30min away from the main city, my only choice is to pull to their place or drive back home which will likely freak the girl out on an instant pull, that's bad logistics
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:38 AM
3

Look into wings locally. I was in the same boat when I was 22, started doing game and lost my virginity. Trust me I am a skinny dude who had 0 experience with girls. I also had a hard time making even friends with girls. You can babystep, but ultimately what needs to be done is go out to bars, daytime and cold approach. That's how you became confident and social. Look at RSD Tyle and Luke they are not attractive at all but fuck the hottest chicks. Also start going to the gym.
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:32 AM
1

Do it. If you can't just ask for where is the starbucks or even the time. For some people it's good warm up and shit but for me even after doing this for a while I get out of my head only when I do the first approach. Also find wings that helped me out a lot. But in the end bro it's just practice.
/r/seduction13/07/17 08:24 AM
1

Do the hand of god. So give the hand out towards her and if she reaches she "consents". I would then just whisper in her ear, you can communicate that way easier and it's sexier.
/r/seduction09/07/17 02:35 AM
0

Just compliment on someone's shirt or something or open with a show that you've watched. If you are bring more fun people will like you for it. I've gone out alone a lot recently and most of the time I make friends with people in the line to the bar. Don't listen to dudes you can't do that here or there. If Tom Cruise came up to you would you say no. Exactly it's your sense of entitlement.
/r/seduction09/07/17 02:33 AM
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Girls are not that bad. I have found that girls tend to be more lenient than guys. If you do a half ass approach expect them to reject you, if you are clear with your intentions, a lot of the times they will commend you on your efforts whether they like you/don't like you. It's the truth I am much more of an asshole when unattractive women approach me.
/r/seduction02/05/17 05:20 AM
1

Makes the jaw stronger and keeps away the stinky breath.
/r/seduction02/05/17 05:15 AM
1

Bro you can think of yourself as a saint and never tarnish your image and stay a virgin or go be ugly/weird and get laid. Literally for every girl that I fuck there are 10 that find me unattractive or weird.
/r/seduction02/05/17 05:15 AM
1

I am skinny too, women don't really care that much about your body. It's like they do and it helps, but I have had many times where girls latch on to me right next to my well shaped fitness friends. Groom well, get a good haircut, you will be above 80% of most men. You are also tall, there is literally no excuse for you to not be better bot physically and intellectually, it's ironic but shorter guys tend to be a lot more balsy, whereas I've noticed guys who are closer to hollywood's ideal tend t…
/r/seduction02/05/17 03:20 AM
6

I will quote myself. I've gamed for around 3 months. I was a virgin a month ago and I am 23. Now I've slept with more girls and hotter ones than pretty much all of my friends who have no game. You haven't missed out on anything. The moment you start taking action you will get closer. You are in your prime, RSD Jeffy is over 40 years old and still pimping. So stop mentally masturbating and go outside. Keep in mind I came from a school where I was bullied and abused up until I was 16-17. Know that…
/r/seduction02/05/17 02:18 AM
1

I feel that you are focusing too much on the when and how as opposed to just standing and enjoying the moment. You will find a girl that you will like and click but it will take time. I am an advocate of time. The more time the better, before she decides to invest. That's the problem with a lot of marriages these days people jump the train way too fast and get divorced after a year or two, because you don't legitimately spend the time to get to know the person.
/r/seduction01/05/17 09:52 PM
4

It's same man, when they are younger they might be slightly more attracted to just outer appearance and dating the "cool kid", but other than that women are women. To answer your second question it's logistics. If you can do it. However best thing you can do is befriend the friends and then if the girl doesn't have to drive them or lives 3h away, take her to "pizza" and tell her friends that you will be back in 10min or that you will drop her off at point A. If you can't leave with her now, numb…
/r/seduction01/05/17 03:46 AM
1

If they say that it's either: A) They are not used to prioritizing meetings with boyfriends B) Are not that interested In this period you just have to keep seeing more women. If you have multiple girls to be honest a day/week, even a month would not seem that much. To be honest I am also feeling neediness from the way you write and if I was a girl I would really feel pressure when meeting you if you have such high expectations. It's good to be serious and all but I believe that if you let go for…
/r/seduction01/05/17 03:40 AM
1

For girls it takes longer to build a connection. They will fuck you but for them to invest and want you as a real boyfriend it would take months. I think you also have too high expectations. I click with my best friend but it's because we spent 10 years together growing up. You can't expect the same from someone you've just met, yes it can happen, but very rarely and on top of that you don't necessary know each other completely yet. To have a connection with someone is to be honest and open abou…
/r/seduction01/05/17 12:27 AM
0

All of these are problems that come from men and society. It's because men give them so much validation and entitlement that they feel that way. Also yes a lot % of people in the states are overweight men and women including. Also these problems it seems to me are because of the women you interact with. Yes lot's of girls are politically correct but that's again because of boring men. Often times they are still attracted but are confused and don't know how to react. Just be a man, don't judge, f…
/r/seduction30/04/17 09:45 PM
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To get a girl to go home with you you need: Comfort Attraction Make her chase Make it seem spontaneous First of all the more time you spend the more likely you will pull. If you spend 3 hours with a girl she will most likely ask you to go home with her. Second she needs to be attracted. Third you need to make her chase by giving her positive and negative spikes, stepping away, not seeming too available, this is the least necessary factor but helps a ton. Last but not least, make it seem spontane…
/r/seduction30/04/17 09:30 PM
2

I would check your RSD inner group for your city. Just google rsd inner circle plus city and find it on FB. Groups can be intimidating since you have to open the girl then focus on the group and then on the girl, so it's this balance that is hard to achieve. That's why wings are good to have they can entertain the group/friends.
/r/seduction30/04/17 09:23 PM
1

If it was me I would drop her. I like girls who make definite plans, if they flake once okay, if they flake I second time I call them out and if they are super apologetic and want to make it up I let them go with it. Most of these girls are conditioned with orbiters around them and have no respect for your personal time. This is not because they are sluts or stupid it's social conditioning. I've done with this with hot girls and very hot girls. The girls who flake tend to be within the 18-21 ran…
/r/seduction30/04/17 09:18 PM
2

Go out and act like an idiot. Clap in public. Say random shit in bars just so they can blow you off. You are scared how people will react to you. You will become confident as you approach, have more girls, but ultimately face the fact that you don't have to be perfect.
/r/seduction26/04/17 08:05 PM
1

Just go to clubs and don't drink. Personally I think they are a lot more fun than daygame.
/r/seduction26/04/17 08:01 PM
1

I approached girls in clubs. I owe a lot of success to meeting people who also do game and learning from them. I also went very hard at it going out 3,4 nights a week, on top of daygaming constantly. I was honestly a decent communicator and I am a very cool and fun guy and know that people felt great around me, the only thing missing was being confident in pulling and physically escalating, after I worked on those two everything went in place.
/r/seduction26/04/17 07:08 PM
2

I was a virgin a month ago and I am 23. Now I've slept with more girls and hotter ones than pretty much all of my friends who have no game. You haven't missed out on anything. The moment you start taking action you will get closer. You are in your prime, RSD Jeffy is over 40 years old and still pimping. So stop mentally masturbating and go outside.
/r/seduction26/04/17 04:59 PM
3

Sex will happen, whether it be now or later If a girl doesn't like you know that it's good for both of you. Never judge a girl for having sex early/late, it's her decision and if you judge you don't deserve any girl Bring love and happiness with game, people are sad with their lives and might try to transfer that negativity to you. 5.Don't make the girl the centre of your world, make her revolve around your reality and not hers.
/r/seduction25/04/17 10:13 PM
1

It doesn't matter how you/her interprets it, all that matters is that this is the ideal for a man to woman communication and sex can happen easily.
/r/seduction25/04/17 09:37 PM
5

You: Blablaba Her: Blablabla You: Blalbabal Her: Blablal You: We should hangout over coffee. When are you free this week? Her: This Tuesday and maybe Wed. You: Alright how does Tuesday 6.30 at X Coffee sound? Her: Great meet you then! Literally this is how 99% of my text conversations go with girls that are actually interested in me and we end up having a baller. If you gamed her badly when you met her no text will save you, if you did well she will respond to pretty much any text you send her.
/r/seduction24/04/17 01:20 AM
3

First of all always go with the mindset they are single. Secondly you fell into her frame by asking her: "Do you have a problem with younger guys?". This communicates you are reactive and not confident enough yourself. You should have followed with "You are too young for me" or you could play it off like: "Oh I am so young, I just held a girls hand yesterday at my prom". Being young, old, short or whatever is fine if you accept it yourself. If she is still being bitchy about the age you could ha…
/r/seduction24/04/17 01:17 AM
1

If a girl likes you ask her out. Just do 3,4 sending of texts of funny stories and basic questions. The simplest you go the better. If you had sex you already have extremely high chances of seeing her again.
/r/seduction23/04/17 10:09 PM
2

First of all never say anything. If she avoids just say something funny like: "Yeah I know I am a germaphobe too, need to make sure you washed your lips first.". Read on how to know if the girl wants to kiss you and how to prepare her for it. Being on a one on one date with a girl, even if she is super shy if you hit her with some strong eye contact and a little of kino is always enough to make her want to kiss you. Also you will never lose a girl by physically escalating, but you can by not doi…
/r/seduction23/04/17 10:05 PM
2

Every girl requires different amount of texting. The best you can do to compromise is to call her. This will build a little bit more comfort, but again don't do the 1h calls. But yes if you have abundance and are busy you would not spend 10h per day texting. With that said a lot of guys here will tell you what to do. However decide by yourself what your boundaries are and always fucking stick by them. If you do this I guarantee you that you will have more girls to hang out with and more girls th…
/r/seduction23/04/17 09:59 PM
2

Was considered one of the ugliest kids in my high school and had never been with a girl. Up until 3months ago, I realized women find me attractive. Yes I am tall and good looking but it is a lot about how we perceive ourselves. I also started to take care of my fashion, hair, body and skin a while ago. Mark Manson had said that men are lucky because by changing their haircut, body and attire can go to being pretty attractive, whereas women are mostly stuck. I've also met lots of guys blowing out…
/r/seduction21/02/17 07:34 AM
15

Went to a bar and had a spoon from eating yogurt. Opened girls with "May I spoon you". Literally, everyone was laughing their asses off and loved me.
/r/seduction21/02/17 04:42 AM
1

I sincerely do not believe this. People who have companies and own a business are not necessary gods at pick up, but qualities are very similar, when it comes to communicating, stating intent, etc. Either this guy has been extremely lucky to get this far or something is off. Also how is his business flourishing when he is watching House all day>
/r/seduction19/02/17 10:37 PM
1

If you are passionate about it talk it. Imagine meeting a stranger and asking them to talk about their passion, their eyes light up and they start getting you excited by them just talking about it. I would just say talk about it what you like. Oh baby whenever I see that combustion it makes my heart beat go to 150. Now this is some random bull shit but you get it, just be passionate and spread that passion.
/r/seduction14/02/17 08:53 PM
1

RSD Tyler had said that there were these sets that are super nice and will boost your mood. You just happened to fall on her (of course she liked you). I try to find these girls all the time, they have this amazing calming feminine energy that really boosts your confidence!
/r/seduction06/02/17 12:00 AM
3

Text her and realize that unless you were really solid and spent hours or pulled, most girls will not text/respond/agree to meet up.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:58 PM
1

Dude listen on my first dates I read all the shit online and really it was just freaking me out. For the date have a clear plan on pulling. Literally, lead and the girl will like it. Know that since she is there she is already invested and interested in getting to know you, act as if you were meeting a buddy and talking about whatever. Don't be afraid to fucking escalate do it, it comes natural, don't overthink it.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:56 PM
2

I think it depends on the girl yeah. I've talked to chicks that are smoking hot but not super excited or fun. I just prefer ones that are very social and carefree. My thing is lots of dancing and movement I just think we say much more with our bodies then our mouths.
/r/seduction05/02/17 11:50 PM
4

Just go out and meet people. I found lots of wings at the RSD inner circle in my city. Yes also improve your life, but don't listen to western society saying you need money, a good job, etc., just keep working on yourself while improving your social skills. Reading and learning are great, but social skills are a thing of their own too. The only way you can learn is by putting yourself in more stressful situations every day. Literally try to talk to a new person, cold approach, etc. I am also goo…
/r/seduction21/12/16 12:27 AM
1

If you rely on external factors to do what you do that means that you would have to do them all the time. Say if you are really social when you are high if you happened to meet a really hot girl and you weren't high you would fail. It's the same with meeting them during the day and stuff, unless you are high all the time no point in my opinion. That's why I don't drink or smoke, just learn to have fun and remove anxiety without it. It's good to chill and drink or smoke once in a while, but I don…
/r/seduction04/12/16 10:06 PM
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