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And apparently, bringing up male issues “undermines women!“ In their view, it does. And in reality too. If men are seen as victim, they can't be the boogey man feminist uses to excuse their misandry. And if you bring women hurting men ? Even worse, they'll have to think even more before playing the victim and blaming men for every problems in the worlds.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates01/06/26 09:37 PM
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"Okay… so why are they seeking out prostitutes and sex workers, women who they know do not love them, instead of y’know, typical shit that lonely hopeless romantics see out? Like romance novels, art about love, music about love, video games, movies, romantic hobbies, SOMETHING. There’s a ton of male-centered romance crap out there." Because it's different and solve different need... You understand that video game, or music isn't the same that sex ? And here we are talking about OF, not prostitut…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 01:24 PM
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"Men loneliness" isn't a lack of sex. It's a lack of feeling loved and desirable. OF give that. It's false, but for these guys it's better than nothing. And giving money is a bonus for these guys, because they felt rejected so much they internalized that, so they think so less of themselves that they think the only thing they can give is money. Transactional love seems more stable. And the people who argue that it's a good thing are just dumbass or heartless. It means they think that all the pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/05/26 12:50 PM
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While I agree with the sentiment, I don't think it's the correct answer. Neo-feminism is a problem because of that. But previous feminism hadn't this problem and was great. Having a radicalisation of men would just create additional problems. The best thing would be having people wanting equality acting more often as a separate group than feminism, while keeping a true equalitarian view. Sure, it'd be harder because of how social media works, but I do think it's the correct way.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:21 PM
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Your part of the problem. The "men's problems should only be solved by men" is asking for the radicalisation of men. Feminism didn't win their fights just thanks to women, but to men too. In a democracy, even more in a false democracy like what we have, having less than 50% in your side isn't enough. And I thought that feminism was for equality ? And now it's not, it's just for women ?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 10:15 PM
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You are talking about hypothetical point, we could say "and we woudn't be surprised if women where marching on the street asking for the innocent men to be killed". It doesn't bring anything to the discution... your "what if" is as much an argument that any other "what if". Only that you are persuaded you are right and we should accept your words at face value even when reality prove the inverse...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/26 06:12 PM
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1) It's not because we don't have a lot of chances that we should accept everything. If you can't even understand this simple thing... 2) How dating being horrible for men is a self inflicted problem ? In the dating scene, women has the power, and men has lower standards than women. 3) I HIGHLY doubt that people believe it's faster to be in relationship than ask for sex.. it's just a fact. 4) it's just your illogical point. This doesn't show at all than men are as picky as women. It's not becaus…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 03:20 PM
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Shocking news ! But the dating scene for men is horrible. So yes it's a number game. Having 71% of rejection is not a "losing number" for men. You really don't understand how hard it is for men searching for someone. Men are constantly rejected. And while women prefer relationship, thing is that casual sex is still nice and something some men seek because it's important for them. And it's faster to ask directly for sex than trying to get a relationship, and waiting weeks to be rejected... And yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/26 09:04 AM
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The problem is that your example for a women getting with an abuser is "the abuser is SO good it's undistinguishable of a non-abuser" But in reality it's not the case. In reality there are lot of red flags that they purposefully ignore. Sure, for people who end up with perfect abuser who can do the perfact dance and manipulate someone perfectly, this is not a skill issue. But the same for people who have huge difformity or has outside difficulties (like geographical, or being led on by manipulat…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:43 AM
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This sound stupid because your example is wrong. When you get murdered in the street you don't have a say in it. And I don't know this killer, but it seems he attracted his victim first and brought them in his house. In this case, yeah, if you KNOW that Wayne Gacy is a killer, his MO and still follow him willingly in his house... you have a part of responsibility... They are still victim tho, just not blameless.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/26 06:09 AM
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It's not because they hit on you that they just wanted to fuck you and never were your friend. At the contrary, for lot of guys, hitting on a friend is because they really like them as friends and want to pass more time and have a deeper relationship with them. Wanting to be "more than friend" doesn't means not wanting to be friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/26 09:52 AM
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While I do think men have it harder in the dating scene, I don't think that women don't have any problems either. Because of the current dating trend (aka, because women don't do the first move) women are more likely to be approached by assholes or worse. Because women are often less powerful (physically), the direct threats these assholes bring are even more important. So the "choose the correct person" is harder for women than for men. Because they are more likely to pick a bad person. Now I d…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:46 PM
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OP doesn't blame women in his post. And, until someone prove me wrong, women are part of society. It's funny to me how when it's a societal issue, women are suddenly powerless and without any agency. I'm not saying that it's women faults here, it's more nobody's fault. But it's tiring to always see the same excuse...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 03:30 PM
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This is because feminism try to paint men as being purely independent and which can't be influenced by society : Recognizing that men are, like women, product of society and their education, education where women have power because women are often the person at home, teachers or any works in contact with kids. Which means blaming women and feminist don't want that. Plus the "patriarchy" thing where, even though feminism say they know it's not really "every men", think in their logic it's "every …
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates18/05/26 10:58 AM
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I still don't understand... Yes there is a difference between statutory rape and forced rape... But I don't see the logic after that... My example is about statutory rape because the person I respond to use it as a justification to accept forced SA against men. My post is saying : "you think it's okay to act like that toward boys because you think most of the time it's just statutory rape. Then if it's statutory rape towards a girl you should be okay too" It's to highlight that if you are for or…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 10:08 AM
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What's the point you want to prove with this question ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 08:31 AM
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Since when "they want it" is a good justification ? So if a teenager approach a teacher and want sex, it's okay because the teenager wants it ?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/26 07:25 AM
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"idgaf if feminism loves or hates men." This is dumb. If feminism hates men, the final result will be rotten for men, with subtle things which will create huge problems later. Like we can see right now with the growing maculinism and manosphere that I blame feminsm for. And being right or left doesn't means you should be feminist or not. It's two different things.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:19 PM
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Problem is that society judge you and what you do. If you want to live in society (and we are social creatures) we need to learn the expected rules. The "just trust yourself and don't listen to other" is problematic in three ways : 1) it's makes you learn slower than if other people can teach you or help you. 2) it makes you diregard other people inputs, which can make you go deep into the wrong direction. 3) it's the typical "toxic masculinity" harshly judged by society nowadays, doing it yours…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:10 PM
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"I doubt anyone uses the term “toxic masculinity” anymore." I see it used often. And if someone call themselves "feminist" it's near certain they'll use it. "You say that young men are seeking a “model for conduct” 👀 what do you mean by that? Why do young men need so much guidance?" Same reason lot of women ask for women in high position to be a "role model". Society nowadays only say what a men must not be, with often contradictory directives. "Just be regular humans" is not enough for a man. B…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 11:03 PM
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But they all agree to refuse misogyny in their group, while allowing misandry...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 05:26 PM
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It works. Only they forgot the "obvious" be pretty, rich and stable
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/26 01:57 PM
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You just take the worst and the worst and try to generalize it... >_> I don't see you say : "men have it worse because they must fight in war when they are children". You are just arguing in bad faith here...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:23 PM
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LOL. You edited your message. I answered you when you just said "so basically it doesn't" which could be just a "no". And how my answer is an insult ? You answered "no" and answered "no" back. So I'll answer to your edit : I just explained how feminist force us to think under a gender's prism. It's far far harder to not think under a gender's prism when something force you regularly to think under a gender's prism. Near impossible if you are really often forced to think like this. Because humans…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:21 PM
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Thanks for the answer. I do think it's really the case tho. It's harder before they are adult, but once you are an adult, both are acceptable.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:10 PM
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In this case it's not. He give a data with the argument that this prove more mens prefer to be women than the inverse. And that more WTM go back to being women because being a woman is easier than being a man even though they would have prefered to be a man if it was equal.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:06 PM
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*and have to pay pension for 18 years even if they didn't wanted the child.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 09:04 PM
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Yeah... so your argument to someone who show a realistic explanation is just "no, trust me"... Sure... We should trust you more, who bring nothing at all than u/No_Switch384
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:44 PM
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Than what could explain that ?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:33 PM
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It say things in both men and women. It says that some men can be exploited. And some women can be the exploiter... So... like eveything... You can find every type of people in a group big enough. Is it usefull tho ? dunno.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 08:28 PM
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Thanks finaly a real answer !
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/26 07:47 PM
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lol, no you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 08:57 PM
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As I said : The feminism see everything under the gender's prism in their definition and logic. If you want to talk about your problem, or help peoples, feminism will be brought into the discutions. And if you don't use the gender's prism, these people will be offended and it'll be very hard to talk with them. And you'll not understand how people can say they are for equality while actively dismissing and rejecting men. And most of the new papers and studies are now under the gender lens. (Thank…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/26 07:17 PM
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The problem is that you can't do that because of feminism. I know because this was my framework before the neo-feminism. I never thought in a gender lense. But it makes communication with feminist impossible and it's everywhere, even more if you want to talk about your societal problems. And it makes it very hard to understand some people stances and you can hurt people without knowing it. So, yeah, if you don't have any problems in your life and don't care about helping people you can keep easi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/26 10:42 PM
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