| Upvotes | Title | Category | Author | Subreddit | Date (UTC) |
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| 1061 | 👏 | SCROTES MAD | Forest_Fanatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 10:02 AM |
| 442 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinions | MINDSET SHIFT | Forest_Fanatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:00 AM |
| 261 | Women had no history—so they were told; so they believed | MINDSET SHIFT | Forest_Fanatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 01:49 PM |
| 2 | 👑 FDS for the win | MOOD FOR LIFE | Forest_Fanatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Truth 👇 | STAY WOKE | Forest_Fanatic | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 09:35 AM |
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| 10 | Has anyone else had this pop up on their Instagram feed being promoted by influencers? I don't even really know what to say. It appears to be a new dating app with a "bedroom feature" where you select your preferences.I can already forsee that if a man r-apes or k-ills a woman he meets on this app, he'll just trot out her profile to show that she 'chose' to participate in these various abuses, and then use it as 'proof' that she consented. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 09:06 AM |
| 2 | Always, ALWAYS check his phoneWould it be ok to send you a PM for some more info about this topic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 10:31 AM |
| 48 | FDS is, in and of itself, a revolution; and we need to be cognizant of that.Agree 💜 And a shout out to all the amazing women on here for being so supportive, funny, kind, wise, knowledgeable, generous and fierce! 💪🙌💅🔥 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 04:06 PM |
| 8 | Spot OnYes, 'why are men' indeed... 🤢 It was also a great reminder that trash will never turn into treasure. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 02:31 PM |
| 2 | "Why won't women date me? I'm a NICE guy!"Every man on OLD when you tell them firmly that you aren't interested: bUt pAtRiArChy ToLd mE I aM EnTiTLed tO mY dReAM wOmAn JuSt fOr ExIsTiNg!!! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:57 PM |
| 5 | You shouldn’t have to teach a man how to be in a relationshipPlus parenting another adult is NOT sexy. And men wonder why their bedrooms are dead... 💀💀💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 01:47 PM |
| 226 | Never try to change a man.This is spot on. I've also noticed that men seem to EXPECT those first five things as being pretty much mandatory for women to provide him with (bangmaid, madonna, chef, giver, therapist). That means even if you decide to do them, he still doesn't view you as being anything particularly special. Meanwhile, the bar for men is practically under the ground at this point. Fun fact: stop doing the first one on the list because he's decided he doesn't care to 'act right' and, even if you still do the … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 12:53 PM |
| 38 | Spot OnThis is SO true. When I was younger, in my first professional job, I had a 25 y.o. male flatmate, who also worked in the same professional field. He slept on a mattress on the floor, did not wash his dishes or clean anything ever, his bathroom (luckily separate to mine) looked like he threw mouthwash randomly in the air and tried to catch it in his mouth and then spit it at the mirror 🤢 and, here's the kicker, he left every Saturday to drive to his mum's place with two giant laundry bags and cam… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 11:15 AM |
| 1 | Liar, LiarMy whole marriage was built on lies and the man I married was a narcissistic liar As someone who was in also in a marriage to a narc, for almost 13 years, I can agree and empathise with everything you've said. Lying, for them, means absolutely nothing at all. It's like breathing. They really don't care and genuinely see themselves as the victim. It's quite scary to be involved with someone like this and the mental gymnastics they do are truly mind boggling. That's why it's so hard when you final… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/06/21 05:09 AM |
| 26 | Weekly FDS Check-inI am not enjoying becoming rapidly more aware of how surrounded we are by misogynists ..as if it's normal that women live like this. Yeah, you've pretty much summed it up. Realising the extent to which we're surrounded by absolute misogynists and having people think that's 'normal', has been a big one for me in terms of explaining why I'm feeling the way I do these days. For example, our government here are a bunch of entitled, old, rap-e-y, white men and it's downright depressing. Women here ha… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 02:54 PM |
| 33 | It's ALL men.We're fighting back, I'm fighting back. We won't be quiet, we won't stay small. We're going to be LOUD. You're not listening? You never were. But she's listening, I'm listening, they're listening, we're all listening to each other. Talking to each other, helping each other, protecting each other. My fellow women and girls together. We are strong. Right here with you! And I tell you what, I'm definitely listening, and so are almost 30 other women I've told about FDS in the past few months alone, … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/05/21 03:59 PM |
| 33 | FDS has helped me transform my life"I’m empowered and I seek so earnestly to remain on this path. I spend so much time on this sub in the mornings to fuel my days and at night to unwind" I do this too ☝️ I'm finding it helpful as a balance to the sheer volume of patriarchal crap I encounter literally everywhere throughout my day. Welcome and I'm so happy for you! Congratulations on thriving in graduate school 💐 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 01:21 PM |
| 20 | The entire purpose of porn is to degrade.His idea of a personal DDoS attack? Scrotes are clearly mad this sub has so many followers posting truths. Die mad 👏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:56 AM |
| 108 | 👏She has a lot of these and they're all freakin' hilarious 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 11:49 AM |
| 49 | What are some physical/“sex-life” related red flags you’ve developed after encountering FDS?Said “we can use a pencil if you like”. Use a pencil for what? To write down all the reasons you fucking suck at this? Sis I'm dead 🤣🤣🤣💀 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:35 AM |
| 16 | What are some physical/“sex-life” related red flags you’ve developed after encountering FDS?Yes, this!! Men: mY lOvE lAnGuAgE iS pHySiCaL tOuCh - as long as ALL physical touch leads to sex. I think what they mean is - 'my pee pee's love language is physical touch' and 'my pee pee' = 'me' so, same thing right?! Can this whole 'physical touch' love language just freakin die already. its been co-opted by men to guilt us into thinking we're withholding harpies if we're not offering them their 'love language'. Can't even get a 2 minute massage without them wanting it to lead to sex. Everyth… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/04/21 07:23 AM |
| 6 | FDS, thank you for existing.🙌 Totally agree. I laughed at the "everyone here is sane" part 😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:52 AM |
| 28 | Internalized Misogyny ✊🏾 how have you personally been affected?That experience sounds like a complete nightmare. I hate how they also throw in the whole 'women are your competition', just to make sure you don't even think about coming together collectively against this oppressive shit. I hope you are somewhere safe now and where you can be your true, amazing self ✨ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 11:38 AM |
| 15 | Red Flags From My ExGenuine people never ever share things so personal to them to strangers or someone they have just met This!!! I was selling a couch in the online classifieds just before Christmas and a guy messaged me, bought it and came to pick it up. Afterwards, he sent me a text saying he was 'so glad' to have the couch, blah, blah, blah, as it was 'so relaxing', unlike his having been 'abused as a child' 😶 and then went into details. Like wtf. Dude, I was just selling a couch, not advertising free therapy s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:31 AM |
| 8 | Red Flags From My Exit made me so drained and depressed myself. He always talked about himself and never asked about me Hugs to you 💜 Totally agree. Everything is about them, and their mental illness is an excuse for ANY behavior of theirs that you dare to call out. It's completely draining. I did have to laugh though because, towards the end, he finally saw a therapist a few times (at my insistence) and said the therapist called him out for being an abuser and told him he was being verbally abusive towards me, whi… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:15 AM |
| 16 | FDS, thank you for existing."My peers who were once feminists turned into conservative women telling me I'll miss out on all good men if I don't get married before turning 30" Yeah, I bought into this crap. Didn't end well. Would have been far better spending that time leveling up and doing the things in life that I wanted to do, instead of catering to a NVM and going backwards in life. Glad you found this sub as, I agree, it's so great to be surrounded by supportive women 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 10:00 AM |
| 38 | Internalized Misogyny ✊🏾 how have you personally been affected?Yes, it sucks doesn't it. You grow up without a voice because, after a while, you become too scared to voice a dissenting opinion. And you think, 'why bother because I'm apparently always wrong anyway'. I'm sure your experience growing up in Saudi Arabia would have been so difficult. Many hugs 💜 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:49 AM |
| 21 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinions😂 This is gold | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:38 AM |
| 8 | This is why we need spaces like FDS, where men cannot insert their biased opinionsI love this ❤️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 09:34 AM |
| 106 | Internalized Misogyny ✊🏾 how have you personally been affected?Growing up being told that my opinions/thoughts were wrong... unless a man agreed with me or thought of it first 🙄 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:15 AM |
| 35 | The Female Dating Strategy Podcast: EP. 6 - BDSM. Kink. Sex Work. Polyamory. ENDGAME: CANNIBALISM.Yeesss! Love these podcasts Queens ❤️ "Endgame: cannibalism" - Freakin' hilarious 😂😂😂 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 06:04 AM |
| 9 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexSorry to hear - I feel this. My NVX told people the same. He neglected to mention to them that he rarely brushed his teeth, had ED from porn use and needed viagra, and only wanted to have performative porn sex. Any time I would refuse sex he declared that meant we were now 'room mates'. Because apparently sex is the only thing that makes something a relationship 🙄 Ugh so freakin childish and self-absorbed. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:11 AM |
| 16 | There seems to be an influx on men on tiktok spreading messages that you must have sex before marriage etc for “compatibility”. As someone who doesn’t want to, this just reeks of a LVM tactic to coerce women into sexI agree - men's definition of 'sexual compatibility' is completely different to a woman's. I can pretty much know if I might have 'sexual compatibility' with a guy, without having to have sex immediately (like these scrotes continually push for). Do you not respect my boundaries? Do you neg me in any shape or form? Do you think sex ends with you having an orgasm? Are you not interested in a woman's pleasure? Do you watch porn? Do you not even know or respect me as a person? Do you only shower on… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/04/21 05:00 AM |
| 27 | Online dating programs you to settleThis paid app sounds amazing... 🤦🏼♀️ Plus 'spontaneous walk meetups' is something only my dog would be interested in. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:32 PM |
| 36 | Online dating programs you to settleThis made me laugh! I do wonder what the app one step above "not quite rock bottom" offers.... Men who can spell, have jobs AND wipe their own butts??! 😂 That's the problem with these apps because they make you start to think that men who fulfil just the BASIC requirements of being an adult, might somehow worth a date because of all the other LVM trash profiles surrounding them. I agree, not worth it. Delete with extreme prejudice! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 03:14 PM |
| 7 | Blocking and Deleting Closes the Drawbridge to Your CastleYes, it completely grossed me out. I guess it did answer my longstanding question of "I wonder what sort of people would want to specialize in treating feet...." 🤦🏼♀️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:55 PM |
| 78 | Online dating programs you to settleYep. If you have any kind of standards at all... then there's no matches to be had for you on those sites! 😭 They should just rename those app's the 'pickme-lvm matching service'. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:49 PM |
| 242 | Online dating programs you to settleI feel this - oof! Swiped through every man on Bumble and then came across the profile of my NVX declaring himself to be a stand-up guy (he was not), possessing academic qualifications (he did not), stating he was working in a certain 'caring' profession (he was not) and was also financially independent and owned a home (he did not). You cannot vet anyone on those sites, let alone think anyone is a HVM just from the profile - scrotes just straight up lie. Deleted the app. Never again. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 02:42 PM |
| 11 | Blocking and Deleting Closes the Drawbridge to Your CastleI managed to smash my toe pretty badly when I was on a business trip a few years ago so, after a few days of pain, I looked up a local podiatrist and went in the same afternoon. Filled out their new contact forms with the receptionist and saw the podiatrist. He seemed very professional and confirmed it was broken. There was no other personal conversation exchanged, other than he asked about my occupation. Went back to the hotel and got a text later that night around 10pm saying "Hi this is your … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/04/21 11:31 AM |
| 41 | For female lurkers in denial: Be cognizant of your (toxic) relationships. I know it can seem impossible, but the first step of handling a problem is admitting there is one."It's simply too painful to acknowledge , even to ourselves, that we've been taken" - this is true but, even if you don't mentally acknowledge the bamboozle, your body will instead hold this pain and your physical health definitely suffers. I convinced myself for a long time that it was better to stay because it really 'wasn't that bad' - cue daily migraines, debilitating back spasms, autoimmune flare ups, hair falling out, joint pain, weight gain... Plus any time I would questioned the bamboozl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/21 02:09 AM |
| 21 | Weekly FDS Chat/ Check InI just wanted to post a comment about how thankful I am for having found FDS. I actually found the sub quite some time ago but didn't initially join - just visited most days to read the handbook and all the comments. It really was eye opening, and liberating, to read other women's posts about things I have felt for SO long, but was told were completely "crazy". Gaslighting and abuse really severely affects both your physical and mental health, but it's just so hard to see it when you're deep in … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 11:26 AM |
| 29 | Out of curiosity, what’s the special flavor of scrote from where you’re from?Funnily enough, in country Australia we also have a LOT of 1's... who strangely love Trump even though he has nothing to do with us....... wtf is up with that! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 12:14 PM |
| 15 | Out of curiosity, what’s the special flavor of scrote from where you’re from?I laughed at the 'raggedy fingernails'. Not sure where you're from, but this SO sounds like Australian men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/02/21 12:02 PM |
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