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I believe it does happen
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 10:43 PM
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What are you talking about? everyone looks for advice at some point in their lives (me more than others)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 04:29 PM
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It's obviously dumb. These men are giving bad advice for obvious reason... less competition and to make women angry so they don't even want to have sex in the first place. edit; Ah yes down vote me instead of debating. SO COOOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/26 02:27 PM
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I didn't read it. The appendix part also made me question if I am wrong or you are wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:37 PM
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Drop your long paragraphs. Only AI and weirdos will read them
/r/PurplePillDebate18/07/26 10:04 PM
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yes the word playtime is so gross.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/26 12:14 PM
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Im not saying just being a poet. A guy that can use words effectively/effortlessly. Think of comedians. I don't mean every women wants that. They can be slimy. Women don't really think in stereotypes. It's either, 'Is this guy fun? Can I live my dream life with him?' This could mean anything. One womans dream man is another's boring. One woman's hell on earth is another's perfect match. I like thinking this way because it makes me think soulmates exist!
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:45 PM
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Jocks are literally a male fantasy. Stop putting it on us. It's the weirdest psyops of all. Most women like poets or something
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:23 PM
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it seems they want us (and young as hell girls) sacrifice their desires. Sold off to the highest bidder (fathers) delegate women like we have no murderous tendencies if they ever tried to do that.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/25 05:09 PM
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Anyone who uses the term karen seriously/especially when talking about a made up group of people/ is null and void.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/25 06:04 PM
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Nagging is a symptom of a woman that feels trapped and doesn't see a better way out from the burden of a man that isn't pulling their equal part labour.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 05:52 PM
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You can be 'sexual' and not bother/disturb any human being with pulse.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 02:26 PM
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Ah yes, that is why countless women stay with men after being treated badly. You know what will love you and never leave? A rock or crystal. Women and children love rocks.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/25 09:35 PM
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I'm 30 this year and age feels super solid. Like every experience that happened before is amplified. Understood.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:33 PM
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You used to be able to get a fun, fulfilled and balanced life from normal jobs 😭 The whole economy needs to be re-organised! If you work full time for a corp then GODMAN you should be able to live a decent life with your partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:27 PM
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You are using the services and labour of poorer people that are foundation blocks that make your luxury lifestyle possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/25 08:05 PM
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People/strangers are free to do what they want. If you have a commitment with someone - obviously not. There are consequences. A complete stranger can date whoever the hell they want. Regardless of if they are good person or a bad person.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/25 06:40 PM
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Smart answer. And also why capitalism is shit because men wouldn't do that if resources weren't capitalised on. There's no winner.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/25 06:10 PM
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You are only able to negotiate with *some* women because they want money/lifestyle more than committed love though.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/01/25 12:43 PM
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Raising Standards also includes knowing your future husband is good in bed BEFORE marrying him.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:38 PM
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Most women don't get that treatment lol 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/25 02:35 PM
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Because as little girls we remember how being the opposite of passive was always met with negativity or insults. We do not forget the conditioning. We just learn to behave differently for public acceptance at our own expense. Never being truly happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 10:01 PM
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Exactly. Loads of us are raised to be polite, passive and cross our legs. To be a good girl or a nice woman. I learned assertiveness from my friend (he is male and raised the opposite way). For the first time ever at 29 yrs old.. life is FUN and people respect me more. I can express myself its amazing. Its such a shame men think we are passive by choice when we are raised to be that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/25 09:53 PM
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I don't know. Robin Hood as an archetype (combination of the Rebel and the Hero) is what women love the most. Everyone would prefer being a Maid Marian (already a Princess) than a poor woman who has to date up. I don't understand who the hell invented Hypergamy - probably a nepo baby.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/25 07:37 PM
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Are you sure? Maybe you commenting, interacting and clicking on NEGATIVE content aimed at men. I personally see positive content however I changed my algorithm, Being a S Worker from a young age. I used to get really negative hate all the time. Whilst watching popular online influencers getting praise. Power and hate is the social media game of making YOU feel bad. It's not how people truly feel.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 09:07 PM
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Comparing a popular person on instagram and declaring every woman has that type of support is like saying every guy is as popular as Andrew Tate. Its a ridiculous thing to assume struggling women have it easy. Because they don't either.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 07:51 PM
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it would be awesome to have a loyal stay at home husband!!
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/24 05:08 PM
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I am a full time online sex worker. Anal is taboo for a reason. Not really 'wild' just the top fantasy for many men because its taboo. And a few women, because in their head it pleases their boyfriends/partners. Its a submissive thing to give. For all genders. That is all.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/24 10:00 PM
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I feel that's a lack of understanding of the adult industry. Being someone's favourite; is different to them seeking a relationship. Most do not seek a relationship (successful men can and do find relationships) just professionals fill the gap in their soul when they are knocking on devil's door. I remember hearing someone say people are/were more likely to pay a SW before a therapist.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 09:37 PM
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I was top 3% at one point and made around 4K a month. Not sure where you get those average figures. I was very happy with my earnings, all I am saying is that these inflated figures aren't reality for the majority. Its all a stunt. However a few grand in one chunk is addictive, so people thinks its possible to reach such figures. Its a bit like a MLM. (unless you are a celebrity - its overstated to the max) The biggest have teams, twitch, someone working over time. Some even sell lies. And are p…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:27 PM
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Let's be honest - a lot of these higher than though people (of all genders) haven't tried some form of sex work because they had opportunities or got to stay at home longer. SWs all have a reason that they NEEDED to start working and not all are successful. The rich girl that decided to have an only fans is rare - that's why SWs are annoyed at actresses/musicians imitating us. I hope that makes sense! Looks aside - its obvious that in a sea of men you will pick the most attractive in your eyes.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/24 08:10 PM
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In most countries with a good welfare system - child support doesn't affect how much a single parent is entitled too. Because its not a lot and definitely not enough to live on for the average child. In my country child support is only 9% of the absent parent's wage. Men still earn more on average (10K a year more than women). For most people child support is barely enough to cover baby formula every week.
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/24 12:58 PM
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Child support is nothing compared to how much the main parent has to pay. Notice I say parent because single dads do exist. You don't give up your entire wage. Its a small percentage. Child support on average doesn't even come close to the average daycare fees. The majority of abortions are mutually agreed on by people with kids already. The work argument is null because both men and women work so we can tell you how childbirth compares to intense labour. What commonly happens when women don't h…
/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates04/09/24 12:40 PM
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Telling me that I 'just hate men' is a foolish way to try and win a discussion. I noticed you said animal attack, is that to skew your statics? Women are scared of men because we are raised that way by Fathers warned us against. SO you can't have it both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 09:33 PM
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You posted in purple pill 'debate' and are surprised people are using it accurately?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 07:51 PM
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Very true! It's easy to become echo-chambers to each other. I have experience this too!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 04:16 PM
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We just feel unsafe around strange men. We have to deal with them all the time. If a bear broke into my house - I'd know what to do or at least I would be okay with dying that way. If a man broke into my house - I'd be more scared. It's like asking, would you rather die from an animal attack or be r__ped and then brutally killed? We want to trust men however unfortunately have to be careful. As you never know what you are gonna get. I feel that's a better analogy. It's strange men are taking it …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:12 PM
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You probably attract more sexually submissive women with your energy
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 03:01 PM
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This is the same for everyone in the dating world. And statistically men are more likely to divorce/leave their wife who is sick than vice versa.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/24 02:55 PM
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Yes mostly men but he's had an attractive camgirl send him money before. In the community we have a different view on money and ways of worshipping someone. Its definitely not for everyone. Simp is a negative term that comes from random incels and twitch streamers.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 11:20 AM
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Why are you hating on men that want to send people money as a form of courtships or worship? Its a tale OLDER than gender norms. There's nothing really wrong with what you and your partner are doing. Its pretty normal. However this is a debate so I'm free to make counterpoints.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:56 AM
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I have a male friend that has a few finsubs for simply existing. There's a whole thing of straight guys getting worshipped financially. I personally am a Dominatrix full time. So my situation is a bit different! You have to actually meet and built a rapport with geniune finsubs. Its not a magic ticket. Just cause you see people demanding money with low effort, doesn't mean people actually send!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:49 AM
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You posted under the debate flair. I definitely read your post. In summary you want your partner to do the full 2 years and then return to work. Meanwhile you complain about women that you don't know, living their lives how they want. You want women to live in transactional servitude because how dare they demand money for nothing!! EVIL HEATHENS! lol What you and your partner agreed on is fine, lots and lots of people live that way. Its a choice. Its not 50/50 though! So the math is not adding u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:36 AM
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ahha exactly xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:22 AM
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You said you want 50/50 so you could swap the second year. Where your partner works and you stay at home. That's what I meant.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:17 AM
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A sugar daddy arrangement is transactional companionship often involving sex. The daddy in this scenario has the resources, and expects something from the sugar baby. It can get very seedy and unethical. There's a reason men choose to be sugar daddies instead of paying an escort. They want more for less in the long run as an escort charges premium by the hour.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:15 AM
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I did read your post and responded accordingly. You kind of sound entitled.. why don't you raise your son for the second year if things should be 50/50?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 10:07 AM
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Cognitive dissonance or fetishism. Some will see a skinny woman and assume. I have been there and find it funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 09:07 AM
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Vaginas don't have different sizes. It's a collection of muscles not a tube.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:59 AM
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You don't get labia minoria from giving birth. 🤣🤣🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 08:51 AM
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not how vaginas work
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:59 AM
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An ovulating woman is not "grippy". I can quote sexual research if you wish. Men that are used to their own grip might prefer a certain sensation, however I trust what feels good to me.. which is not having my cervix slammed.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:58 AM
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A tight vagina means youve either JUST given birth or you aren't sexually fully aroused. Ask your local midwife or doctor.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/23 07:16 AM
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No. I asked my partner for hair colour recommendations and he showed me a really cool style. However i think a man suggesting a woman modifies anything is absurd. If you feel comfortable with it then it's completely fine however.. There's a difference between healthily helping each other look our best vs trying to change a person. Especially invasive things like surgery. Making your partner insecure is pretty evil.
/r/RedPillWomen31/08/23 12:33 PM
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True. I feel thats quite depressing if the only reason is addiction or low self esteem. 😕 wouldn't want that for anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 12:14 AM
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I'd say using someone is way worse than an honest exchange. Regardless of gender. I know male sex workers with straight female clients. The transparency makes it wholesome if no one is getting taken advantage of.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:40 PM
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If women want to do that they'd just charge by the hour and make WAY MORE than a flipping meal. Please.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:14 PM
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Yes. The majority of my casual flings were just because they were there. That's why alpha males and people who boast about numbers don't understand. Women, especially younger women, will sleep with someone out of boredom. Honestly I'd let younger women know its not worth it. Learn how to code (or something) or make yourself actually orgasm. Eventually you'll meet someone fun to be around!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 11:10 PM
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Seriousness aside are these women dating a corpse? Lmao doesn't seem like he's able to do anything!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:41 PM
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Its a redeeming quality. You don't HAVE TO be. Free will exists 😅
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:03 PM
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?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 07:00 PM
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What? I literally said I want companionship for life. That has nothing to do with Marriage as a cultural phenomenon that changes in every society. Look up the history of marriage in England for example. It used to be a young couple would decide to be together and that was that. They would start cohabitation. Then the church decided it wanted to keep track and it became about land, power under the guise of God baring witness. It became about money and family alliance. Not love.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 06:58 PM
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Child of divorce - I would rather money and legal stuff stayed far away lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 07:55 PM
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very valid points!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:59 PM
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Socialisation. We are told from an early age that it means something. Intrusive thoughts; Does he really love me if he doesnt propose? etc etc. Why are all my friends getting married? etc Now as an adult I want to get married because I want my forever person. Tying the knot is symbolic for that. I'm fully aware about the stats. My parents divorced However I dont mind Because I'm a romantic. I want to call him my HUSBAND. Maybe others feel this way too!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:55 PM
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Advice for living a souless, lonely existence.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:49 PM
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😂
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:40 PM
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How is that a red flag? Im not talking about fake nice guys.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 06:38 PM
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My partner ( a male) has an easier time than me (a female) to make friends with women. His personality is very open and non judgemental. He also defends his female friends from weirdos all the time. Just treat women as humans and understand that most women really enjoy having male friends that dont hit on them but arent afraid to be gentlemen around them. Also appreciate what female friendships bring to the table. They are easy going usually and full of support.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:37 PM
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It's not really about the sex. It's about passion and desire. I would not be with my man if he was blasé about me when we met. It's okay to be a little crazy when falling in love. As long as you are respectful and not crossing boundaries. Be excited to get to know someone! A girl just walked into your life and it should be fun. Only do things after a normal conversation is flowing and you sense you are connecting. It's weird when men are romantic or sexual out the blue without any signals. You c…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 06:36 PM
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I'm not an older woman. I have no problem with age gaps if consensual and reasonable ages. Just the men that go after super young women are creepy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:06 PM
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I'm not. Just tried of the bs on here 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 10:03 PM
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Tis the sense of entitlement over younger women I hate. I honestly do not care what people find attractive. Its weird. Date your own age.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 04:07 AM
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I didnt imagine its a reality.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:07 AM
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The comment made no sense in the realms of reality!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:49 PM
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Says who? Who drops after the age of 25? Just admit you fetishize youth and get over yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 09:10 PM
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I dont believe this story. She could probably charge for her time (if shes truly attractive for her age) and still get attractive younger customers. Ive seen it happen.. All a woman needs is to look after herself and confidence. She will find sex if she wants it. Keep believing red pill nonsense.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:32 PM
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You think being older means being average? Pretty sure theres more people in the world younger than 30. Your math aint mathing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:28 PM
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Dont date men attracted to younger women. They cant really get women in the first place. They use money or trauma to lure them in. Genuinely attractive and emotionally intelligent men date equal women.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 08:25 PM
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Doing something for work/money isn't the same as doing something for fun. I started webcamming at a young age. You get wrapped up into sex work because of money and before you know it thats ALL you know. I am now in a relationship with a man I'm wildly possessive over. If he turned out to be a cheater it would destroy me. I have to protect whats mine. Women with a high libido are passionate. It's not hypocrisy. More like living with compartmentalised/split behaviour.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 08:55 PM
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Of course! I remember being a child and loving my plushies which evolved into wanting a child to look after. Just like looking after a baby bird. When you look after a baby bird you wonder who the parents are but ultimately you care about being a good parent. Caring for an innocent being regardless of the past. I think thats the ultimate feminine and masculine thing. edit: nothing wrong with having plushies. It is cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:11 PM
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A child is a human you love actually
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 06:01 PM
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Men on here be like, 'I dont want a woman with kids but if she has plushies that is ultimate feminine"
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 04:13 PM
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Bisexual woman here - I only judge liars and cheaters. Both men and women can have casual sex. I find women are more careful when doing it. They don't cross boundaries beyond sex and being in the moment but men will play games to get it. That is my experience between these genders. If you arent manipulative everyone has a great time.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 03:09 PM
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Agreed!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 01:35 PM
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Wouldnt want to offend Italians that read this ;P
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:46 PM
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As a British/Italian person with a dash of Japanese. I think Italians are way easier to offend than British women. Mainly because Brit sense of humour is very dry and dark. Im allowed to say this because I was born in Italy and love my Italians but its true xD
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:32 PM
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British Person Here - I have tried dating in the States so I can compare due to having family that lives in California ( I now happen to be with an American but we met in Europe lmao) I really enjoyed the States for dating because I felt the guys are more traditional. Which is weird cause I'm very egalitarian. British men are very chill which can be a good thing but I need to feel pursued romantically.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:26 PM
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I was cupid in high school because I talked to every group. If I figure out someone has a crush. Give me a month to plant the seed and you'll end up together xD I must've set up at least 6 longer term couples. One of the couples is now married.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 12:11 PM
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If a woman ever shamed me or my friends for having sex - Id feel really sorry for her. We dont 'give out sex'. We have it because we want too. Shaming tactics dont work unless youve been brainwashed to think you are a bad person for having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/23 11:56 AM
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unless you are as skinny as the women you ideal then you cant speak on preferences.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:44 AM
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Im curious to see what your idea of 'not fat' are. just because I know the beauty standards are very unhealthy and people dont know how little food and a lot of working out it takes to be not chubby/average
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/23 01:25 AM
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I know a dude wrote this because women who are into 'dominant' men dont imagine riding. Also Who the fuck cares about his private life? He either loves me, and only me, or hes OUT.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:50 PM
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No he can be with the women that accept his 'terms'.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:47 PM
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if he tells you how its gonna be then he gets the boot. WHO needs thats?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/23 11:46 PM
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Its the same for women. You become more mature and have an easier time dating. You become more compassionate for others. At least those of us who enjoy being in love do. Not everyone can handle it which makes me sad because its amazing when you allow yourself to grow.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/23 06:58 PM
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Yes 😍 exactly! Tis beautiful!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:45 PM
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I watched the anime Lovely Complex as a child. If only more people watched it and got over it!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:41 PM
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Up or better than who?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:40 PM
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Im with a hot man and sometimes the controlling beast tries to rip out of me. I want him all to myself. That is why I relate and understand the poster. But imagine destroying the beauty of the person you love. The very thing you are attracted to initially should never be destroyed. That is abusive and I dont care what anyone says. So I tell my monster to shut up and let my partner exist. Id rather just work on myself and become even hotter. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:18 PM
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Leaving someone that is sexy - sounds counter intuitive. Let your partner exist!!!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/23 09:10 PM
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Red pillers regurgitate stereotypical 'truths'. Theres nothing mind blowing about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 01:05 PM
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Red Pill isnt an uncomfortable truth. Its the fan fic version of alpha male ideology. That is why.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/23 09:47 AM
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In Western and European History humans definitely did not mate for life. The Church just made it illegal to divorce. But it was not marriage for love whilst the church was around. And before the church, people would marry for a few years and then marry again to someone else freely. However a cohabitating couple was recognised as official due to land and stuff. The idea of a forever, monogamous love is a modern thing or something that ancient people would risk everything for even if it wasnt seen…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:26 PM
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A lot of guys already do xD
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/23 07:22 PM
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Redditors are outliers too. Thats why you shouldn't be trying to make assumptions. On another note - Red Pill just sounds like regurgitating stereotypes.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 10:03 PM
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They are sex workers. I was making a point though in response to the question. Its a very dehumanising and degrading way of viewing OnlyFans workers. As if they dont have people that care about them long term. And she's probably not even talking about genuine OF girls. These sound like Bots clogging up her favourite site.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:43 PM
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We would be more like birds probably! Mate for life because it takes equal effort and not all the burden is placed on the female.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:29 PM
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Uhm, why dont you ask the husbands that make onlyfans content with their wives/girlfriends? What is the use asking the opinion of people who know absolutely nothing about being a sex worker and what that means? It also sounds like you have a fetish for 'recreational use'. Never heard anyone describe themselves that way.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/23 08:24 PM
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From the day we are born we are told to sit a certain way and work hard. If youve never walked in the shoes of a woman then you dont know how it feels or how we had to change/adapt.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 06:32 PM
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Just ask the question yourself. People will answer. And women do work on themselves. Do you assume we are all born amazing?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 02:08 PM
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It would go badly cause strategies dont work. They create chaos and confusion. Both would have weird ideas in their head about the opposite sex. Creating a non existent relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:58 PM
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Ran through means Women that like to lay down on a cycle path and have random joggers trip over them.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 01:43 PM
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Who cares what these married men say to their wives? Every women has random married men following them and commenting or sending DMs. The actions show what they think and their behaviour is horrible. Unless they are in an open relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:58 PM
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that isnt love. Just shallow sexual attraction not based on anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:45 PM
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The notion of women comparing themselves to models etc doesnt just happen on instagram. Its the whole beauty industry.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/23 04:44 PM
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Ah a lot of married men follow me. Thats how I know! I am not just an insta thot. I am a sex worker.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:27 PM
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The algorithm on Instagram is really different for everyone based on how you use it. I use Instagram a lot so my friends know thats where to find me. I use whatsapp or phone calls only for work. Instagram is an avenue for expression in my eyes. I never doom scroll on there. Focused more on posting things I have created myself or enjoying cool looking pictures. Its a way to connect with like minded people.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:24 PM
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I dont speak to my father because he is that kind of man. Ive built a solid foundation with genuinely good men. My partner is very Masculine and Dominant in a healthy way. Loyalty and protection is part of that. Being a good person is void of gender. You know how to act right. Stop pretending
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:15 PM
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No straight woman I know has ever compared lovers to Instagram influencers. In fact most use insta just to connect with friends. Maybe meet people but rarely. I find it absurd to even compare people that way. I feel that its mainly married men that compare women that way on instagram lmao Stop basing love on internet stuff. Its pretty easy to meet someone if you REALLY TRY. Being attractive just gets you attention. Not necessarily a partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 03:10 PM
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You are just describing compulsive liars and cheats. Dont say Most Dudes as if you speak for all men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/23 01:20 PM
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If you are having casual sex with someone that isnt aware of that - then its purely trickery and deception. We all have a right to know of the sexual status of the people we are having sex with. Thats just being a decent human. Also its about consent and boundaries.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:44 PM
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Genuinely if you are going on dates then there is romantic implication? Meanwhile in casual sex theres no attachment there beyond having fun together. And solid adult communication. If you are having sex then you should be grown about it. Dating for a serious relationship is actually awful cause so many men resort to lies because often women dont like feeling tricked. If a man lied to me about his intentions and then ghosted - I would be very angry! If someone I was having casual sex with disapp…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/23 05:13 PM
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When it comes to abortion - yes men have to be accountable because the only thing that makes a woman pregnant is semen. It takes a while for a woman to learn how to track her cycles. Birth control is not an option for everybody. Just dont cum inside a woman and there wont be any abortions.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 08:34 PM
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'the idea' of sex with multiple women is great. Just like the idea of having two or three boyfriends is great.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 07:21 PM
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You assume the man with multiple wives is doing it because he wants too. It usually just secures alliances and wealth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 06:32 PM
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No one purposefully goes after a selfish person!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:55 PM
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People of all genders watch porn. This isnt a discussion about porn. You can have a very active sex life and watch porn when you want. Its not the only part of a sexual being.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:46 PM
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Porn is a whole other topic. Its like saying you would pick masturbating over being with someone that satisfies you in every way.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:37 PM
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I dont know every males sexuality but most men I know prefer someone they are comfortable in bed with. Someone they can be free with. The newness is irrelevant.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:28 PM
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Guys or just you?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:09 PM
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"Current affair partners and exes" AH YES. Lets determine female sexuality on cheaters and people that dont know that they want. Also imagine marrying someone that doesnt make you orgasm. Hubby should be the first man to truly make you happy in every way. Otherwise why would they be HUSBAND? Make your theory make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:05 PM
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A very false tale
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 05:03 PM
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I agree its not a bad thing if its consensual. Its a very valid fetish as well if one enjoys that 😁 Its actually funny cause when people assume, "porn for women" its all emotional and sensual. That is a huge misunderstanding as well. Generally women choose darker categories that fulfil their fantasies. Completely detached from reality. Something society would probably frown upon.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:31 PM
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Being fans of a boyband isnt erotic. I wasnt really talking about whether men are visual or not. I'm saying everyone has the potential to be visually turned on But the female gaze is not understood or even catered for in the mainstream.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/06/23 04:22 PM
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10 year relationship gaps between adults that have passed young adulthood is usually equal enough. I am with someone the exact same age as me but he would be at a similar stage as someone 10 years older.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:11 PM
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I just dont think we are less visually stimulated. Its probably a more individual thing. I know guys who prefer the fantasy and dont watch porn. Gendering this kind of thing isnt based on the nature of sexuality. The idea of men being more visual is socialisation. Western women dont have much options for visual stimulation in the media.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 04:02 PM
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Men are socialised to be visual. Its not that women cant. I started with Erotica but read Smutty manga for women as well that had drawings alongside the fantasy. You can get turned on by the idea, the fantasy, the feeling and sound. But women are definitely visual. Just in a different, less objectifying way. Its not in western culture to have female orientated porn.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:52 PM
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You are describing very specific women. You probably arent even noticing the women you wouldnt sleep with.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/23 03:42 PM
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True. Its still impressive when all of us use technology but dont really know HOW to use it. If you get what I mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:24 PM
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Whilst meeting someone at work is a norm. There are alternative ways to meet people. I am self employed and dont have co-workers. You have to get creative when meeting people. Just being normal with a bit of an edge will get you a long way. The reason passport bros are successful is because having an accent/a foreign nationality gives them an edge. .
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:18 PM
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Software Engineers are more desirable than Doctors in this day and age. But who am I? Just a girl on Reddit attracted to hooded men that know how to code. (downvote me for making a joke. That is very sweet. There must be a lot of bitter doctors on Reddit)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 06:02 PM
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Every married person I know had time dating around. You need experience to get better at love usually.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:46 PM
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I'm very visually attracted to people of all genders. I particularly like men. I stare at my partner all the time. (not in a creepy way lol)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 03:02 PM
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Ah but the island of Lesbos is inhabited by mythical nymphs!
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 02:41 PM
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No its not. Most people that are having sex or 'mating' are in long term monogamous relationships. People do go through single stages but that is not usually the goal.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 01:17 PM
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If people knew why they fell in love with one person over countless other options - then you would have solved one of the biggest mysteries known to mankind. If you go into dating treating it like a meat market then yeah - probably youd pick the best option according to society. But you probably wont love them as deeply as lovers do.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/06/23 12:43 PM
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Im guessing you never learnt about self control? Women have a sex drive we just dont unleash it willy nilly 90 percent of the time. The world might not be able to function if we did.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:22 PM
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its funny cause it would be a bigger compliment if your partner had everyone in the world And then wanted to keep you and only you cause you are so good in bed. But not everyone has such skill that comes from experience. 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:18 PM
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Boggles my mind as well. But Alas - Males cannot be ran through.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/05/23 07:11 PM
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At 18 as a woman you get a lot of short term attention. Usually from creepy older men. Closer and after thirty you attract way better prospects and have way better sex. If there is a wall I dont see it.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/23 08:31 AM
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Jesus was a Virgin man and hes worshipped by millions. I wouldnt say that its a bad thing to be a virgin man. Try being a sex worker and see where the true judgement is.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:42 PM
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Rating someone is abysmal and you should never do that to yourself. Can I ask you.. What do you find attractive in someone? And Why?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 07:32 PM
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Anyone whos actually been in a genuine relationship knows this question is null. People find each other attractive that is why they date. You might not agree and thats why you arent dating said 'ugly' person.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/23 06:52 PM
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You have to bring it up! A real conversation. Explain why its important to you. Hopefully he will open up to you and get down to the problem.
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 10:21 PM
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You've got an excellent best friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:50 PM
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We all find the same stuff fun. Always remember... Marketing, divide and conquer. It Keeps the focus away from the fact we could build a better world regardless of gender and sexual orientation. I'm into stereotypically feminine things but my partner plays with women who are really good at stuff that are considered 'masculine' things. Hes said that women play and code way better that is why he works and plays with mainly women. I respect it even though Id rather just exist xD
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:41 PM
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I think thats why a lot of women dont like pick up stuff. We know what we like and we dont need to be manipulated into it.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 09:16 PM
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It might be helpful if you dont share work woes with your partner if you dont want them to give you unnecessary solutions and just go up to him for a long hug and sink into their energy when you are feeling stressed. Only really talk to them if you want to hear their perspective. However calling it tough love and that your emotions tilted by his words does concern me. What is he saying exactly? Sounds like hes being harsh or something
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 08:39 PM
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Love it 🐱‍👤love warriors
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 07:20 PM
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Judging women for their bodycount makes you a pushover and makes you seem insecure. Not very hot tbh. A guy that actually attracts women is attractive cause hes not a judgemental person. Having boundaries is healthy part of a relationship so people arent confused its not about judging someone over something like sex. There are way more important qualities in a woman than that.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:35 PM
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Its a requirement to change and improve yourself in order to become a better lover. If we all stayed entitled then naturally that is not very attractive. It goes the same for both men and women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/23 01:24 PM
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If hypergamy was real - Id happily be the second wife of some rich dude. TOO BAD! Daddy Satan wants me to be in a monogamous relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 02:50 PM
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Why is women having what they want 'blue pill'? If anything I see it as red pill after puritanical insanity. People are free and unfortunately some want women trapped in order to fulfil their waifu desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/23 01:40 PM
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also the imagination. Cant stop that xD
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/23 01:00 PM
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Very true.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/23 03:12 PM
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I would metaphorically send him to another galaxy if he got off on another woman. He can watch porn but he wont have the time or energy to do so.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:49 PM
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Being a liar isnt going to attract an authentic relationship. You're gonna have a way better quality relationship by being honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:15 PM
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If a women I date hasn't been having sex, it's because she doesn't like to. EXACTLY!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:12 PM
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Nerds/Geeks are sexy and good at holding a conversation. Im a former sex worker and get bored with most men. If hes got a brilliant mind then it triggers something in me that could move mountains. A lot of men forget that sluts are just explorers of every experience possible.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 02:07 PM
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Sexual Harrassment has NOTHING to do with being horny. Also men are not more horny than women. That notion is absurd. Sex Drive is relative to the individual. I am a bisexual woman and women want to have regular, wild sex just as much as men.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:47 PM
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Familiarity does not breed contempt. My fiance blew up my phone all the time thats one of the reasons I want to keep this one. Obviously you need to be sure she likes you back before you show a keen interest.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:39 PM
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A.... promotion? For What? Do you have them all on payroll or something lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:31 PM
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Wow. He sounds like a catch! First word that popped in my head is the phrase, 'community dick' No hate on poly people but nothing feels good or natural about this weird dynamic he has going on.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:26 PM
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I guess men might view it as a hopeless numbers game or options. But for me as a woman it just make it harder to feel any real connection to any of the messages on the dating app. Ive had one long term relationship from OKCupid and his first message was in all caps. I found it funny and I like the strange ones. Basically if he can make me laugh over messeges thats a real feeling I can connect with and that wins my heart fast. A lot of guys forget to be-friend you and just make it sexual and deta…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/23 12:18 PM
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Dont listen to them. You are high value based on your character. Most men understand that women have to take on the responsibility of a pregnancy and aren't going to hate for being the parent that stayed. Not every guy is gonna be okay with such conditions. And thats FINE. Hopefully the right one - your soulmate will come along and love you both. I would fully love my partner and their child. It just makes sense if you truly love someone
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 01:20 AM
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I agree no one should be pressured. In a weird way its a blessing. Although you have to be careful of perverts - its the kindest man that will take on the entire unit. I would date a single dad because I think children are awesome. To have a chance to make a childs life better? It all depends on how much the parents care on making things as easy as possible. No resentment and bitterness. No money issues etc
/r/RedPillWomen24/03/23 01:15 AM
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Bit useless having a capitalist alpha male if he cant survive an apocalypse lol 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:08 AM
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All these relationship dynamics sound manipulative. It doesnt have to be that way!! And it all depends on the individual. If someone hates the toxic nature of money - then her idea of an 'alpha' isnt going to be a rich dude
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:06 AM
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Sex doesnt have a different function for men? How do you think we have survived as a TRIBAL SPECIES for millenia?!!!!! Why do you brainwash yourself this way.... apart from physically making babies all genders have sex for various reasons. But healthy individuals understand the social consequences of being a psychopath about it. My political alliance is Anarchism so I dont agree that women are naturally drawn to goverment. What happened is that we lost the sense of community.. so if shit hits th…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/23 01:00 AM
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Yes because I have experience. Despite what people say - virgins arent likely to be more loyal. They have the whole world to be curious about. Its the people that have tried it all and then decide; 'Yes I want to keep this one' that can be most trusted.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:08 PM
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Security? I mean most of us dont want to be constantly stressed that our partner is gonna leave
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:06 PM
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its the entitlement that sticks and repulses people from having random sex with strangers. Sex with strangers isnt necessarily fulfilling. Thats why most people dont do it. And why are you telling me, as a female, what female sex drive is? Yes we can use sexuality to get resources but thats the demand not the causation. Read any female made erotica and youll see that we create pretty wild stories that have nothing to do with capitalism. Freedom is sexy not necessarily money.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 08:03 PM
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Maybe a lot of women havent had a sexual awakening but in my experience women want it just as bad
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 05:18 AM
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Why is achievable happiness considered a fairytale?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:50 AM
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Men dont naturally have a higher sex drive. Thats a myth. Its just womens sex drive is controlled by potential pregnancy and other anomalies. We will either get slut shamed through the cahoots or simply arent the active persuers of sex. Doesnt mean we have a lower sex drive
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:43 AM
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why cant we want our person all to ourselves and viceversa? Forever committed? I think thats beautiful.. Is it really impossible?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:39 AM
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From men we want loyalty and orgasms. (assuming one is attracted to a man). Not all women will agree with me - you have to ask the one you want
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:12 AM
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Women want peace beyond endless wars and problems We want love and not forced competitiveness that fulfils another's ego. We want to eat figs on a beach, or in a meadow. Basically what little girls do before we have to wake the hell up and realise the world is ruled by psychopaths.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:06 AM
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Ideally yes. But how many of us have ideal lives? Why judge women for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 04:00 AM
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As a half white/half japanese woman... I wholeheartedly disagree. Black women have the most feminine features and most guys I know agree. I'd say its just not as easy to date interracially and honestly a lot of men dont have the emotional intelligence that would impress you. They shoot themselves in the foot by saying stupid stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 10:26 PM
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sex is healthy when done consensually and safely
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 09:50 PM
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everyone was a virgin at some point. it just takes trying sex and often you dont end up with that person forever. You are just mad if a woman doesnt choose you to try it with first!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:22 PM
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and why should we control ourselves? to meet your huge ego? When we can be with and love a guy that isnt a judgemental weirdo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 08:20 PM
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Women have a sex drive and sexual instinct so NO we wont keep our legs closed and by default if you want to be someones first then they are no longer a virgin so its just weird backwards logic
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/23 07:25 PM
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manic pixie dream girl trope
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 01:08 AM
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We tend to show interest pretty quick and love is on the brain; its called being a fool for love cause you dont always know they are gonna catch you If you fall head first on your face it will hurt but time will heal the wounds and then youll get back up again
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 12:59 AM
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Do you consider all the times you didn't want to do it but felt pressured or coerced? Men experience this too when they are young they don't know how to say no. Body counts are reductive and don't mean anything. When a guy asks me I say I'm not sure. But in a group setting I say 12. (I worked as an escort so the number is way higher probably but I don't care to remember. I don't count unnatural sex... just the people I actually liked and felt something with)
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/23 07:43 PM
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What if he can make everyone laugh?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:38 PM
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Game implies women can be 'unlocked' as if we have no autonomy of our own. I have had sex with guys for lots of different reasons. Including boredom one time. (the date was terrible for both of us)
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 08:34 PM
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You can only really find out if someone is a cheater after you start a relationship with them unfortunately. You will find better :) and it has nothing to do with you cause you can't make someone cheat. Thats a choice and you'll meet someone that matches your values for real.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 08:09 PM
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oooo yes!
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 07:56 PM
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I like eyeliner on men. Looks hot. Makeup has been for all genders since the beginning of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:37 PM
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Women have always been attracted to attractive men. Read any Jane Austen book. Before the invention of the internet... its just back then they were forced to marry to have access to basic necessity.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 04:27 PM
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date someone your own age and there will be no problem cause you will develop signs of being older together over time.
/r/RedPillWomen01/03/23 04:12 PM
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ha sounds like a fun trip! Making me want to grab a flight in this instant XD
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:26 AM
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But what about what women want? A billionaire is not an automatic catch - I wouldn't date one unless we had an extremely rare connection and he would need to be the exception. I'd rather date someone poor based on my values. So honestly your rating system doesnt really make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/23 03:16 AM
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Good. Some men can create psychopath levels of suffering. Who has time for that? Lets read some reviews and see whether he's worth it or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:44 PM
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If you ever read Victorian etiquette books you'll see why lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:43 PM
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If you assume that marriage automatically benefits women you are wrong. Plenty of women have this arrangement. It's easy to love your child and marriage isn't a necessity for that. People complain about single mothers all the time. Its way easier to raise a child than put up with a man you don't love. If you don't want to marry that is you choice. But if she really loves you chances are she won't be okay with you expecting just 'loyalty' whilst other women are happily claimed. She will marry the…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:26 PM
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Liars liars pants on fire exists for a reason!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:21 PM
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its not sustainable cause the lying is giving you a heavy heart and by default you are judging her. Not a sustainable place to love. And at some point you will have to come clean. Imagine she was doing the same to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 09:17 PM
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Agreed. You instantly feel more attractive after travelling. Specifically a ton of walking and exploring. Meeting random people etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:28 PM
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Do you really think its that easy finding someone you can stand to be around for more than an hour? It really doesn't have anything to do with looks or being a 'jock'. But people who do physical excersize/have a passion do tend to be happier which in turn is more attractive. For all genders.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:24 PM
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No? Some men just don't want relationships and even if they have a hot as hell girlfriend they cheat relentlessly. You are completely ignoring the character of people.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:21 PM
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No its not. Unless they are into cyborgs. Love is still stronger than anything you can download on your phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/23 08:18 PM
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Doesn't matter how hot you are. Love is created with action, it's not something that exists in the void. If you are the hottest person on the planet that still isn't gonna get you love if you don't talk/interact with anyone effectively. Where is the ROMANCE? xD
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:48 PM
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Unless the "Chad" is poly then its not really love if you are dating multiple people. Takes A LOT of time and energy to have someone fall for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:31 PM
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yeah love is a mutual thing ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 06:26 PM
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Lol, $100-$300 sounds like a terrible deal. You can easily make more doing a few hours on cam. Why would a single mum want to have sex for this one way street deal? But I'm sure you can find a naive woman who doesn't understand the local escorting rate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:45 PM
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literally biology. A males pheromones are way more intense and have effects on the brain on those around them. I'm a bisexual woman and I can tell difference. A woman's essence is enchanting. But a man's essence is like a drug. Look up the hormonal/chemical of sperm - it literally has effects on the receiver.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/23 07:11 PM
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Fun...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/23 07:01 PM
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I mean... it most likely wasn't because of machoness. But rather they would see no reason to be there for you emotionally/like a therapist if you already have an SO. It's like investing into an empty pit. A man who cheats or isn't faithful wouldn't be a good way to spend time for most women..
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/23 06:10 PM
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He's got to like MILFs first of all (cause then when you have your kid he's gonna find you even more attractive) and staying/getting fit benefits everyone. More energy and comfort
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:08 AM
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Thats crazy to me cause surely you'd want to be at your physical peak beauty wise if you find the person for you!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 10:04 AM
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If marriage is for children then whatever the sexual peak for men is. From my experience men have the most energy early 20s.. Marry your own age and problem is solved.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 09:58 AM
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Because my other half is a man ;) And I like how men are in general. I think every woman needs male friends and vice versa. There's many different types of love including friendship love or familiarity. The opinions of bitter/hurt people isn't the truth.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:54 AM
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are you male or female? And you can orgasm in many ways
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/23 03:28 AM
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My vagina only gets wider when I'm truly turned on. Cause 'tight' sex equals bruising. Honestly I worry we live in a society that doesn't understand female sex organs. Including women themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:33 PM
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Penetration can definitely make a woman cum if you've already overtaken her mind, body and soul. Kind of like a demon or an angel.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:32 PM
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If you are talking about genuine love.. Many women like dreamers and men that talk about the stars and almost impossible feats. Rich men are the only ones that can afford to do things the working class can only dream of. But it is definitely not everything and you can have just as much fun with a poor man.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 02:27 PM
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Some men think they can buy love then turn around angrily when it doesn't work. Or maybe they got used by someone. Which happens to people of all genders. That isn't the majority of men. Plenty believe in real love and romance. Where money doesn't become a thing unless you literally need it to have a roof over your head. Then you'll figure things out together.
/r/RedPillWomen04/02/23 02:16 PM
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You don't have daddy issues. You are looking for something completely realistic that many men fail to meet. You will experience that beautiful connection because it does exist just don't believe mens words or lies. Don't fall in into traps and shift through the BS to find that person.
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/23 05:19 AM
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That's not really coercion. It's more like when you feel unsafe to say no cause the person can technically do it anyway to you(through strength) despite the boundaries you put in place. EG/ Waiting for a monogamous relationship or a roomate that doesn't respect your space
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 04:23 AM
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He gets to go home to you every day. Sounds like a winner (also if you want to keep it juicy sounds more like you need some more excitement outside being a mother. Being a Mom is a sensual essence in itself. However we all need variety)
/r/RedPillWomen27/01/23 01:06 AM
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Its reaffirming you had the same experience! Remember what feels good not really how people perceive you. Including your boyfriend. If you feel sexy he will get the benefits by default <3
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 09:19 PM
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Yes its possible as long as both people are consciously not trying to play games. Over the years I've learnt that it's less about the dynamic but just who they are as a person. In a real love relationships these things fade away with a proper man. A good guy will probably treat everyone right and fairly. Which will reflect in your relationship. They won't be perfect - everyone fucks up sometimes. But they will have a moral code. And love is a beautiful feeling when you meet the one for you. A fu…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 08:06 PM
3

Hey, once you change your diet and lifestyle - just eating clean, small portions and waaaay more cardio. Lifting weights won't make a significant difference if you still have fat you don't want. Honestly thats the only way to be slimmer is by moving a lot and sweating a lot. Walking/cycling everywhere, having passionate sex where you are on top more often and just dancing moving around more. But honestly; its just important to be healthy than some unrealistic goal. A lot of what is considered 'a…
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 07:45 PM
1

Not really. I know women who were in one long term relationship. Then jumped in the deep end
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:25 PM
3

Not true at all. People stay attached either based on love or toxic reasons. Rarely does it have to do with how good you are in bed. I was stuck to a guy who used to do planking missionary. And ghosted/left lovers who were great in bed!!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:20 PM
4

Is that a joke ?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/23 08:18 PM
33

Youre acting like women can't get punched in the face or statistically murdered by men for being rude. A lot of men use their physical strength to hurt women when they can't win or have their way with words.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 09:34 PM
-2

Maybe in the context of a party or a bar but actually going home with a stranger isnt that common. I used to go clubbing twice a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 07:43 PM
0

Chances are if you approach a random stranger you will be rejected.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:36 PM
-2

No. Creepy means you lack the ability to 'read the room' so to speak For example be a sex pest or not listen to the word no. Plenty of superficially attractive men have done creepy things to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 04:33 PM
12

Well they are angry these women don't want to have sex with them. They know the value of sex and the emotional fulfilment it can give you. Their anger makes them see it as a bartering tool or whatever weird pseudo-science they've coined to explain female sexuality.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:17 PM
4

Exactly! People acting like love is easy to find and automatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:05 PM
2

Not true. Maybe she is just mirroring the conversation and is open minded either way. If she matched with both then she most likely finds them both attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:02 PM
1

already have that's why how I know
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 07:54 PM
0

He's still got to be a decent person. Low inhibition x Empathy is the best. Sometimes its hard to tell with these guys cus they know the right words to say. Its consistent actions matched with love and affection. You don't want one that does it with everyone romantically though. But it is truly a sexy trait in a man if he is witty and clever.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 01:37 AM
-1

The men we have relationships with are in relationships with us. Often for many years. SO they aren't getting tons of girls. Just the few they date long term?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:01 AM
13

Like a mum not their literal mother. My partner is very masculine, he thinks about keeping the house clean just as much as I do. In fact we are each other's motivation. I'm just saying it goes both ways.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:35 AM
5

You'll be surprised to find the men who have sustained long term relationships (Between 4 to 8 years plus in my age group because I'm 27) are waaaaaaay more understanding than those who haven't. In my experience.
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 12:26 AM
3

I think (if you like him) you should just be honest so you can meet a person who you won't want to hide from. That includes expressing why you did what you did and how you were just looking for love. I think most people won't judge. I found my best relationship by just being honest about my past. Which included sex work - something I hid previously in other relationships . He wasn't happy I had to do that to survive at the time (in a protective way) but never judged me. So don't worry too much. …
/r/RedPillWomen12/01/23 12:21 AM
17

that's what bangmaid means... when a man expects sex and chores from women to take care of him like a mommy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:14 AM
1

Confidence and charm just shows that he wants you. I think men also like when a woman is confident in her love instead of worrying about the relationship. Being insecure or acting weird. Also, its not about money for most people. Unless its a specific desire of an individual. Most people want to be as stress free as possible. If he is relying on you financially.. eventually if will create some stress. Wether intentional or not, he's got to be making improvements to make it easier for his lady ev…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:12 AM
34

Plenty of men cook, clean and take care of the laundry without asking or expecting his woman to do that. Also whilst making you orgasm/cum. So why should women settle for a lazy, uncaring selfish person? (I might add that its a mutual street and if people agree on roles thats a different story)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:02 AM
6

AGREED!!! :) sounds like my partner too. Finding a man like this is a treasure trove of endless love.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:54 PM
6

Yes you are right. Find a man who won't judge you for being so in love that you want to pounce his bones!! xD I think most men like that. If he is scared by it.. then its probably outside issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:45 PM
7

If a man loves a woman enough (I'm talking that intuitive feeling she's the one or special in her own right) he really doesn't care if she's 'easy'. Its more similar to how women feel when a man is too sexually forward without any love or emotions there. You can't be easy if he already admires and respects you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:38 PM
0

I think this comes from a place of fear. Making someone hold out.. However its a good opportunity to get to know someone this way. I have had casual sex, mainly out of loneliness/not being good enough in my own skin. With my partner we really got to know each other first. We had sexual energy but we kept it sacred and didn't want to do anything until we met. It was long distance. When we did finally meet we went crazy! Couldn't resist sexually so to speak.. it didn't take away from the moment ca…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 04:32 PM
19

Very true. I have been in the industry my whole life and that's the basics. Learn how to trigger the love hormones. Its not about sex acts. I'd say I'm very vanilla but I know how to keep a conversation, I understand the power of touch and like to listen/learn new things.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 01:00 PM
1

Dating someone the same age is more rewarding though
/r/PurplePillDebate09/01/23 12:52 PM
1

Depends if her husband truly makes her happy. I reckon a lot of religious pragmatics stop women from ever expressing themselves and exploring what they truly want. Not the fault of the husband or anyone really. Just doesn't match with the nature of female desire and sex drive. Also, I think her complimenting you and holding conversation could be crossing a boundary. But she might also just be an honest person and just speak what she sees.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:47 PM
2

that sweet sweet sleep lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:42 PM
2

mid-twenties seems awfully young. Am 27 now and things are starting to feel more alive than ever!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:37 PM
1

its the same for women though. I attracted and project more femininity at 24 than I did at 20. We just become more secure in ourselves. Only weirdos find very young people attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:33 PM
5

Not in my experience. Maybe having a few days off just re-ignites the fire but it shouldn't feel like a chore. If that ever becomes the case.. DONT HAVE IT!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:21 PM
2

Daily satisfying sex sounds amazing. A recipe for great sleep and feeling the love. It also shouldn't add to your daily work cause your partner is an adult and can clean up/make you a snack whilst you lay there in post-coital bliss lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:19 PM
2

Once a week doesn't seem that much. I'm a woman and after LTR of many years, I'd want it at least every day. Maybe a couple days a month off or when on period just to give the body a chance to relax lol. I have never seen it as a chore but something I actively desire. So I don't understand why people 'gender' sex drives. Because everyone is unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 09:15 PM
1

I'd say most women hate authority that is just demanded and not earned over time. A lot of jokes can come across as a jab rather than witty or clever. Try to never make her the butt of the joke even if you don't mean it. I trust my boyfriend because I can tell he genuinely cares how I feel. So I know he's gonna make decisions in our best interest. How is your girlfriend gonna know that for sure if you are making them cry randomly? if that makes sense...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:22 PM
2

Sounds a little bully-ish/friendly type of banter that often doesn't go down well with the person you are intimate with. At some point after falling in love and the relationship gets to the serious stage... thats when the fears of opening up fully and being vulnerable with your person arrives. We got to feel safe and protected by our lover. So we want to laugh but never really be the target of the jokes.. unless they are silly and playful. Coated in plenty of sweetness, hugs and kisses in betwee…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 03:10 PM
5

There's nothing better than love. Hedonism is just an attempt at getting close to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:24 PM
2

Never take social media too seriously. No one is the same as their perfectly curated profile. You can make yourself look MORE attractive in a picture. I don't mean filters or photoshop. I worked with an incredible BDSM photographer and he made me look stunning. With lighting, the right poses and scenery. You can look on another level. Its all magic and illusion. The sooner people get that... the better.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 07:07 PM
-1

Agreed. I've heard men echo the same sentiment in regards to older women. And these men tend to be more mature/masculine even in their 20s.
/r/RedPillWomen04/01/23 12:56 PM
1

Not true at all. Also the quality of guys at 18 are way lower regardless of age of the man. That type of dude willing to date someone barely legal isn't usually the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/23 12:36 AM
4

What does the same level mean? Not everyone has the same start in life and often a person's character really isn't determined by superficial things like qualifications.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/23 10:37 PM
3

Hate to break it to you but women get horny and want sex. Its not a bargaining tool and she lost interest in sex for a reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/22 11:14 PM
1

A man doesn't need a strong jawline to be attractive...
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:33 PM
17

Speaking as a sex worker - The Escort has no feelings for you and her affection stops with the clock lol Although I did have a soft spot for some regulars. Nice people
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:16 PM
7

I worked as an escort and enjoyed it more than a 'normal' job. However its hard being always in the mood. And sometimes clients are just bad at it.. so it can be mentally draining. A good session is amazing though!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:12 PM
1

Fair! I completely understand the perspective of a child-free person not wanting to date a parent! Also its much easier starting a family from scratch. Ideally we would all find that! And commitment has never been an issue for me or any of my parent friends. I've found it easier than before to be taken seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 09:06 PM
3

Oh what! Oh my! Thanks for the link haha xD
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 08:52 PM
2

Had my child at 21 and being a mother hasn't affected my dating life negatively at all. In fact men like that side of me. So I think that's just a personal preference. I see a lot of people online saying its a bad thing/turn off. But in real life it makes very little difference. Everyone deserves a chance at finding true love when it doesn't work out with the parent of your child.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:30 PM
9

30 to 33 isn't too late to have kids at all. Geriatric pregnancy is a weird term. Because from what I've seen plenty of women have healthy kids after 35. When I was pregnant @ 21 years old. Most women at antenatal classes were between 30 to 36 years old. I was the youngest by far.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:19 PM
-2

Your idea of 'ugly' can be very attractive to someone. Also a man's looks has no influence on whether he will cheat or not. In fact, I've found the attractive ones are very loyal to their partners. They are used to women approaching them and are immune. At most flattered but not tempted in the slightest. Meanwhile, below average dude with a shitty personality will cheat on his girlfriend any chance he gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 04:07 PM
1

Ah very true!
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:44 PM
8

Visually appealing for me I like slender guys - Toned with definition. Beautiful fingers can make me blush (I know it doesn't make sense). His face just has to have a unique look to it. if he's dark then his eyes must be striking/intense with defined lips. If he's Caucasian then I love light blue/green eyes with brown tussled hair. I love watching a man smoke cigarettes/blunts even if I don't approve of the habit! lol Another attractive feature is a proportionate legs/butt. It doesn't matter wha…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/22 03:38 PM
1

In reality the men that look for sugarbabies are often looking for cheaper, unprotected sex VS a professional escort that charges by the hour and has strict rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:39 PM
0

My partner is the pretty boy in the room. Some of us are very happy to be superficial. Even if not every woman will agree our boyfriend is hot. To me he's hot as fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/22 07:01 PM
3

Sex with someone you love hits a spot you just don't get with casual sex. I'd argue its smarter and more logical than random casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:31 PM
1

All my boyfriends of past and present lost their virginity to older women. Ten years or more older. So it doesn't just happen to teenage girls.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 07:13 PM
14

I don't use the word chubby. Cause I've seen women that look healthy be referred to as chubby. Unlike men we need a higher level of fat to get pregnant or have a regular menstrual cycle.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:45 PM
42

I would love that. It sounds like a dream being able to pursue things I actually enjoy - with no pressure of paying the bills/survival. Plus I actually enjoy cooking and keeping a nice home. Its a pleasure. And I would get excited for when my husband gets home. However I'd actually need to be love with the man. Money doesn't change my attraction level for someone at all... Although being good with money is hot! A poor man that isn't materialistic and knows how to save is impressive.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:25 PM
18

They aren't rare. I see MANY couples like this at schools etc. Many physically fit dads with curvy wives.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/22 06:16 PM
17

1 - can buy land (a permanent place to live) and low level of stress financially. Sounds like freedom.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:34 PM
1

They did have casual sex lol. But they would also get married more easily. My grandma didn't get married until she was 30 and she been with my grandad for 55 years. He is a japanese man and my Italian grandmother wasn't impressed before she met him lol
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 09:12 PM
8

Not noticed any wall as a woman. IF anything.. it gets easier to find a serious lover as I get older VS when I was 18/21. I feel more alluring and self confident. Plus I know what I want.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:55 PM
3

Bless you, you aren't unkind! Just sharing to help relieve the stigma :)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 08:50 PM
5

Would never call a man a 'stud' lmao. I only date nerdy hermits that don't sleep around... mostly cause they spend their time learning stuff or dating a girl on the other side of the planet. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 07:32 PM
9

Are the women in this scenario also polyam/have multiple partners? Because I really don't see the benefit at all of sharing one man in split households.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 06:18 PM
21

Erm what about companionship, cuddles at night, love and splitting the rent? lmao
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:53 PM
4

I feel a bit uncomfortable talking about sexuality of minors. But for the sake of the argument - the desire for sex is just as strong in women. I'm 27 now and I've been sexually active since 16 years old. I WANTED to have sex. Not for the sake of it. Women do masturbate and we want that satisfaction filled. I wasn't brave enough to initiate it.. but when a new student arrived at school, the 'new guy' and he liked me... I JUMPED on the opportunity to have sex. I couldn't wait!! I didn't really wa…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/22 05:26 PM
1

its only modern western ideals that put beauty in gender boxes. In many cultures of the past or present. "Feminine" features or Pretty boys are considered masculine. Such as men wearing eyeliner to accentuate the eyes. A huge part of being attracted to men, is the eyes. Its very underrated. Other soft power features are the hands and how he carries himself in a subtle yet confident way.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:51 PM
1

On behalf of all bisexuals... Attractive features aren't as gender normative as some would like to think. For example: thick long eyelashes and wavy hair on a man ~
/r/PurplePillDebate10/11/22 09:45 PM
1

Would be really good!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:13 PM
1

Well it would be fun if your date like to discuss these things!
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:12 PM
2

Dont equate talking about technology and investing as the same things. Technology and Geopolitics - am down! Economy and Investing - I feel its all made up anyway due to the nature of banks etc. Love is not about the capitalist wetdream.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 09:02 PM
1

The male equivalent is showing skin
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:56 PM
1

Full Service Escorting can be great. But remember people are being paid to risk their sexual, physical, emotional and general wellbeing in order to satisfy a client's simple urge. A client that gets paid well, who probably has a family, and doesn't risk much at all (as long as the sex worker stays quiet). As someone who started at 18 - I've been stalked, harassed out of the profession by "clients". To the point I don't do it anymore. I would return if it was the 'fantasy' that High Call Girl nar…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:55 PM
1

At least the Military get benefits, discount, housing, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:47 PM
1

You have a good soul
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:45 PM
1

True.. but when I was a eighteen I did it just to survive. So there is a big difference. I'm still a sex worker however Sex is sacred. And people shouldn't have to numb their minds and body on that level. Being promiscuous is more for pleasure. So the balance is required in order to create a shift so the sex workers that DO exist... do it mostly for pleasure. They are just being paid for being 'available'. Not survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:44 PM
10

I sense you are faking on this comment and its some kind of fetish
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:27 PM
1

Cheating is a lack of morals. Regardless if I agree you should be fulfilled in a relationship. It should never drive you to do something hurtful to another. Edit: OP is probably a fantasist based on newer comments
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/22 08:26 PM
16

If she DARES talk about sex. SLUT!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:50 PM
3

Sounds soul draining. And would you want your parents to experience that just for your sake? Its sad this idea to sacrifice basic human needs for outside ideals. ( I say this as someone who went through divorce as a kid!) :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:48 PM
1

It sounds like a stereotype because it is. Also why are we acting like relationships when we are young.. are addictive in a way. And as you grow older you learn who is more compatible with you. And its never really about who you 'mate with' but rather who you have a connection with. Who you can spend hours talking with as you grow older. Thats what matters most.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/22 10:32 PM
7

Why do we even care? Having casual sex is not a goal. Its just a thing. It just means you get to have sex ONE TIME. Do they ask for seconds, thirds or a lifetime of your sex? So the 20% probably arent very good at it. xD
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/22 03:05 PM
0

Sex Workers dont profit from male loneliness. He is paying for a fake experience for his own satisfaction. How is a sex worker pretending, taking advantage of him? If anything, i have to forget my own desires and my own nature to make some money to pay bills. How do you think Sex Workers establish non-transactional relationships? We dont pay people generally, we take the time and effort like normal civilians to get to know someone. Don't blame loneliness for not taking the time to get what other…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:36 PM
2

Exactly. One year older but completely different lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/22 12:24 PM
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