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And if he’s getting it from somewhere else, time to divorce.
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/24 04:17 PM
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Take the fight away from him. If this seems like something he initiates when he comes home from work, start leaving things for him to do. Make dinner. Feed kids, if you have them. Do laundry. He won’t manage his feelings unfortunately, which means you’re trying to avoid him, pacify him, or make yourself busy to keep up the appearance of being unable to receive his arguments. At this rate, forcing additional work on him might be one of a few possibilities of forcing him to experience a come-to-Je…
/r/RedPillWomen23/12/23 05:22 AM
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But that’s not healthy if you expect to grow with this person for the rest of your life.
/r/RedPillWomen02/12/23 07:47 PM
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I wonder what his reaction would be if you were to share something similar? If his reaction is to shame you, you have your answer. He has a different standard for you than he does for him.
/r/RedPillWomen29/11/23 01:23 PM
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If you wanted to be funny, next guy who says that, you say, “Cool! I always wanted to try an open relationship as well. You’ll be cucking my boyfriend in no time!” See how fast they run.
/r/RedPillWomen28/11/23 05:36 PM
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Red flag. They don’t respect you enough to even pretend to be monogamous.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/23 09:33 PM
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I hate to say this, but your husband doesn’t sound like he’s doing what a husband/father should. The bare minimum is: check in with spouse/kids when out of town at least once WHEN coherent, if expectation of drugs forewarn spouse, and when home actively plan with you so you can have time off/breaks. He’s not doing those. He’s not helping with the family business (from what it sounds like), so you’re working at least 20-30 hours a week in addition to being a SAHM. He likes taking trips? Cool. It …
/r/RedPillWomen19/11/23 12:41 AM
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He violated your boundaries. Drop him.
/r/RedPillWomen11/09/23 09:11 PM
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Hey, I want you know that you have worth and you are loved. 🤗 Men’s redpill content says the stuff like that because there is some truth to it. However, they’re also saying stuff about men going and getting laid as much as possible to up their sex game, so they purvey the biggest double standard. Accept your past. Know that other people will rate you for what you did. Be honest with your partner(s), but don’t put it out there on the first date. Above these, watch for your future partner with a c…
/r/RedPillWomen30/07/23 05:23 AM
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Don’t find a RP guy that is found on social media. Find someone who fits the best with you and who you closely align with values-wise. Recognizing hard truths about where you are right now doesn’t mean you need to immediately settle down. You are your own person, who needs to find the right man to be with. That takes time. Be patient with yourself.
/r/RedPillWomen19/05/23 11:53 PM
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Just because you woke up and you saw how you devalued yourself doesn’t mean that you can’t come back from it, or find someone to love you. Your body count doesn’t automatically support his wishy washy behavior. Dump him. Also, he could emotionally abuse you later regarding this sensitive issue, and would you be able to see it?
/r/RedPillWomen06/05/23 05:08 AM
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I’m sorry that happened to you. You do not deserve to be told you’re ugly repeatedly and beaten down with those words. Knowing your flaws, however, comes strength, as Tyrion would say. Work on being charming, on your character and charisma. As one director said about Marilyn, she was maybe a 6/10, but her charisma, manners, and personality lifted her to a 10/10.
/r/RedPillWomen02/02/23 05:03 AM
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It is indeed a choice. Animals are not on the same level as humans. Thanks. 😁
/r/RedPillWomen25/09/22 10:26 PM
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Finding her groups and friends is definitely a start. But have you talked with your husband about sharing the burden? Maybe come up with a couple possible scenarios where he makes food so many times a week while you go and spend time with your mom? Facing the end of one’s life is stressful and maybe you and your mom need to confront it head on and talk about it bluntly with each other. I don’t recommend immediately moving her in with you because that is going to take a lot of thought and prayer …
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/22 04:42 PM
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You have a great response too! I love the encouragement to be a sounding board.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 10:48 PM
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Unfortunately you experienced grooming and sexual assault from your “first love”. It’s good you posted this. You seem to recognize some of the red flags here. Now take care of yourself, and I’ll be praying for your healing.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 04:32 PM
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Continue with what you’re doing and show your support for him. It sounds like he expressed a concern about having fun, so be receptive to hearing him out. He might need to process this more, so at this point keep doing what you’re doing.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/22 04:29 PM
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What’s different now compared to when you married him? Start there, and compile a list of similarities/differences. Why did you marry him? How much does he drink? Does he put the bong in a place where the child can reach it? Did he want your child before you had him? Does he interact with your child?
/r/RedPillWomen12/09/22 12:26 AM
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I did, and I tried to tame those in his presence. A good guy friend of mine encouraged me to relax around him, as shy people can tell you have a persona and that’s not going to help with starting a relationship. I loved his story, because he and his wife started out that exact same way! EDIT: when I say patience, I mean my husband and I were friends for almost a full year before we agreed to date.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 04:45 PM
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That’s awesome! Good luck. Here are some things from my and my now-husband’s relationship for you to take or leave: - Participate in activities with him. Show interest in what he does even if you don’t participate in it. - Listen to what he says, even if it’s stress about home or work. That shows he can open up to you. - Be patient with him. It can take shy people a long time to open up, and if you’re dedicated to trying to date him, understand it will take some time.
/r/RedPillWomen06/09/22 04:38 PM
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I like doing casserole dishes - smokies covered in cheese are a favorite.
/r/RedPillWomen19/08/22 04:58 PM
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It’s a reasonable take. RPW I find is more about acknowledging the harsh truths of reality and trying to find a middle ground to reach out to potential partners - for both the long term and short term. I think the hardest part of RPW is acknowledging that there’s a middle ground we should concede some things to men on. I personally disagree on the idea of sleeping with men who haven’t committed yet just because there’s no pill or contraception method that is 100% foolproof beyond abstinence. I h…
/r/RedPillWomen25/05/22 07:40 AM
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First, how did you find this on your boyfriend’s phone? Did he give it to you, did you see it open to this post…? Second, when you first dated, how quickly did he change his tune from marriage is a fraud to wanting to get married and have kids? How else has his views changed? Has anything else evolved from being a (even a kind of) red flag to something he has honestly changed his view where it is more in line with your beliefs?
/r/RedPillWomen06/01/22 12:08 PM
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Run now while you still can.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/22 04:41 PM
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You’re good! By the time I got to college, I was used to doing my own thing despite what friends would tell me. I would join martial arts clubs and work out on my own because I wanted to be fit. I studied a lot to make sure I did well. I went to the occasional party, but was very cautious about what I had and how much. I didn’t make a lot of friends as a result but I’m still in touch with people who matter the most to me from those days. You know what you want, so don’t feel guilty for being so …
/r/RedPillWomen30/12/21 11:17 PM
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Understand that a lot of it is coming from anger and hurt that they have, and while understandably so you’re better off reading it than engaging in it. I do think that the response you posted in response to his question was a good one, and all you can do is put your opinion out there. It’s up to him to take advice. The two communities need their own venting spaces.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 03:08 PM
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Don’t hesitate in asking him questions about this. It seems like he wants to help you in a business related way and being frank with him is the best way.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 03:05 PM
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You might want to look into it. Know the pros, cons, etc about it before fully committing to it. As for bags under the eyes, I’ve been eating more red meat and liverwurst and it seems to help decrease mine.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 03:01 PM
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I’ve done martial arts because I like being prepared and fit. My man is all over me for it lol.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 02:59 PM
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I’ve had to forgive myself, compare bad guys to good guys so I know what qualities to look for, and recognize when my fight-flight-freeze response is triggered because it links certain cues to past trauma.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 02:57 PM
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Do you know what his love language is?
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 02:55 PM
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Don’t say anything in case it blows up in your face.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 02:51 PM
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I say it is because around six months is when you actually get comfortable around each other to say what you really feel. And if he’s the one who initially pushed for the relationship and the commitment, it should be even more concerning. Either he’s trying to keep up appearances around his friends or there’s something else going on that could be affecting his views on relationships and marriage.
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 04:30 AM
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If he says he doesn’t want to marry you now, but could consider it down the line, that’s a huge red flag. He says he wants a prenup, but he’s acting cagey about marriage in the first place. If he wanted to protect his assets while getting married to someone he loves, he wouldn’t be fighting about whether or not to get married if he didn’t really love you. Consider if you can continue dating him for a year. If this behavior continues, it’s going to be a huge compatibility issue and you’re better …
/r/RedPillWomen14/12/21 12:54 AM
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It posted now!
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 04:57 PM
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Short version: I’m a Christian and I’ve been praying a lot. I also had to come to terms with some bad things that happened to me in my life. Long version: I’m 29 years old, married, and I still struggle with these feelings. I struggled with body dismorphia since childhood. I wanted to be a hero, a warrior, and saw more qualities to hate in the females in my life than good qualities. I also saw more qualities to hate in the males in my life as well, but there is more in regards to addressing and …
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 04:32 PM
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This. This was/is me.
/r/RedPillWomen12/12/21 03:51 PM
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Tell her.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/08/21 09:08 PM
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