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In fact, that’s literally what sex addiction feels like. Doing shit that makes you feel shameful, but getting some missing dopamine hit from from it generally means you’ll do it again, and probably in more extreme form as your body needs more intense experiences for the same amount of dopamine
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:27 PM
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How are men supposed to perceive women when this is the dynamic at play? You ignore them and don’t take them seriously.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 05:15 PM
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You’ve never had a woman give you a rimjob if you think Netflix and Pornhub are just as fun as an actual woman in your bed
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/24 03:25 AM
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including the ones married to you, owe you nothing by default Divorce courts strongly disagree with you on this. Otherwise alimony and community property wouldn’t be a thing
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:17 PM
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Women and gay men still deal with this shit. Men do this nonsense too, plus the typical affair partner is not a dude she would actually stick with long term anyway. He’s just a branch she swings on to the next guy
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:15 PM
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and if there was less of a stigma around women pursuing men we probably wouldn't have as much incel shit out there, The thing is, if a woman fucking wants you, she will pursue. The issue is that vanishingly few men actually inspire the desire to pursue. We just have a lot of guys demanding that women want that without actually making changes that make them more desirable to women. The reality is though, when you see the guys that women often chase, is that most men can’t be 6’4 and jacked, can’t…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:12 PM
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Yeah, you can’t compete with childhood trauma
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:09 PM
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She was suddenly extremely irritable and had massive ups and downs after childbirth My dude…you’re talking about post partem depression. That’s not “sudden” or even unpredictable. You sound clueless
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:07 PM
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Rarely does if communication is honest and clear.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:06 PM
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Guys, if your fiancee is not head-over-heels in love and burning with genuine desire for you, watch out Even if she is, it will change over time naturally
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:06 PM
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Lol, you will be financially way better off getting divorced if you are the lower income partner by a lot
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:05 PM
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Bro, more than likely she ain’t coming back and you just need to move on
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:04 PM
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Bro, some of those 20 year olds came back to the US and were treated like absolute shit and denied access to good housing because wrong skin color. And over 90% were conscripted, so it’s not like they signed up to be there. Their commitment and sacrifice was utterly spat upon, unless they were white
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:03 PM
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And what if your truth involves burning crosses in the yards of ethnic minorities? Foh with this “all feelings are valid” therapy talk.
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 01:00 PM
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99% chance she’s also acting out some unresolved trauma patterns, and likely has depression or some other disorder that impacts mood regulation
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 12:59 PM
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In love is not the same thing as love. In love is the honeymoon period of a new relationship - literally the rush of hormones. Love is that state of showing up for those you care about unconditionally and non transactionally. Many people - esp those with emotional self regulation issues (adhd, mood disorders etc) chase that “in love” feeling because they don’t naturally produce abnormal amount of dopamine and so constantly stuck on the hedonic treadmill. They regularly leave relationships once t…
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 12:57 PM
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She won’t regret it. She’ll latch onto a philosophy that will absolve herself of agency in her choices and blame someone or something else for her unhappiness if she doesn’t end up finding it
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 12:54 PM
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That’s not “spark is gone” that’s “I’m not getting core emotional needs met” And I suspect OP is in the same boat but his ex is just a poor communicator (or has already found someone else to meet the need and is giving a shitty excuse)
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 12:53 PM
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Yes
/r/Divorce_Men13/09/24 12:50 PM
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Because “no” doesn’t always mean “no”. Too many women like being chased or “fought for”
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:11 PM
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Sure, but what about the girls that will sit on laps, ask to come over for cuddles, and do other non sexual physically intimate things that a boyfriend would absolutely object to her doing with another guy? I think refusing to acknowledge the girls who are purposefully accumulating orbiters the way an emotionally stunted American collects dogs to provide constant validation is actually playing right into the hands of the incel types you’re arguing with. And also, if you don’t think girls call gu…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:10 PM
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I mean if you wanna play that game, don’t cry about the consequences lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:05 PM
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BTA kinda deal. Guess culture is for people who are too chickenshit to just openly say what they want
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:04 PM
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But also, the “hint” they thought was obvious was a barely recognizable non verbal
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:04 PM
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This is how plausible deniability fails, because it relies on both parties speaking the exact same coded language, and a man emotionally intelligent enough to pick up wouldn’t be letting her sit on his lap and play that “oh I don’t realize that I’m flirting” game
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 06:02 PM
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In actual relationships and not just short-term flings there's so much more to it than just physical attraction. As a married person who likes sex, you are objectively wrong. If there's no physical attraction, it's extremely hard to maintain a healthy romantic relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:10 AM
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It is easier to find a compatible partner when you have 100 people trying to be your partner than when you only have 2. That's the entire point that you're missing. You're acting like everyone has the same number of perfect compatible matches and that everyone has the same volume of opportunities to meet those matches. In reality, some people are just compatible with much fewer people and if those people get very few dating opportunities, their liklihood of finding that match is much much smalle…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:08 AM
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I actually do go from 0 to 100 if I can tell that the woman I'm talking to is openly sexually attracted to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:05 AM
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No it's not because I say so. Amazing argument that is very much based in reality and not your very warped view on reality. Your argument is "it is, because I say so"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:04 AM
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most women in the modern era can support themselves, have good social connections and a higher level of social/emotional EQ Most women have this better than most men, but on an absolute scale, I hard disagree that "most" women can actually support themselves financially (see workforce participation, where barely a majority of adults are in the workforce at all) or that they have higher level of social EQ. How would you even prove the latter without picking some cherry picked stat that's actually…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:03 AM
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It is an option. You just don't find it appealing. If everything dried up and the dudes you actually wanted never showed up and you were lonely and horny, you absolutely would call up one of those lesser options. That shit happens all the time.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 02:00 AM
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The sky is actually black and it literally is a matter of how our eyes interpret light that makes it appear blue during the day.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:58 AM
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If women actually had a hard preference for tall men, why is the average male height across the world more than 4 inches under 6 feet? And why is the average penis size under 6 inches?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:58 AM
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Emotional stability is NOT universally attractive. There are a lot of people addicted to drama and shit/cheat on stable partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:57 AM
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This is to highlight how rare it is to find people you really jive with. It's not really that rare if your social circle is not limited to the 20 people you work with, live with, or see regularly on your street.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:56 AM
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Because they throw themselves at men and immediately promise easy sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:54 AM
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20% is way higher than it was in 1960 lol. Also, the sexlessness has more to do with the fact that zoomers are just a mess of neuroticism and social anxiety and generally do less of EVERYTHING (drugs, sex, talking to people IRL) that doesn't involve being alone on their phone.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:53 AM
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If you can't tell the difference between a black man who is a criminal and a black man who isn't, it's best to treat both as criminals, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:52 AM
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I think both men and women find partners in general with high N counts as unattractive and impulse driven. It's only men who admire other men who are sluts.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:51 AM
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Sex when you engage in it the way men do (ie casually, with strangers) is high risk. But you've just unwittingly revealed the fact that life is actually far more dangerous for men than for women, because women have the option of waiting for something better to come along. While men who don't have options are forced into casual sex with strangers to get any kind of physical affection.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:47 AM
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I expect an actual man to introspect, develop emotional intelligence, and have some substantive skill or mental approach that fosters real confidence. Rather than take generic, shitty dating advice from their equally sexually frustrated friends - male or female.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:44 AM
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The data on women in actual relationships completely dismantles this narrative. And in fact, women are far far more realistic in general than single men when it comes to actually getting into committed relationships. In fact, the chronically unsuccessful single man is probably the most deluded person in the entire dating market. Where you have decisive, repeatable data showing your utter lack of attractiveness and even to a certain degree very clear feedback on what you're doing wrong and how yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:42 AM
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There's actually no point in engaging with this particular narrative when the people discussing it are involuntarily single men. They will find every reason except introspection on which to blame their lack of success
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/24 01:38 AM
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I’m considered to be very physically attractive Mom doesn’t count
/r/BlackPillScience11/07/24 10:39 PM
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Except 6’6 isn’t tall enough to be as inconvenient as having G cups is 95% of the time.
/r/BlackPillScience11/07/24 10:35 PM
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I’ve met tall dudes with negative rizz who couldn’t get laid to save their life. Height gets you above average shots on goal, but by itself won’t get you laid if you’re an autist or a spaz
/r/BlackPillScience11/07/24 10:34 PM
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It’s not cope to realize there are some women who just aren’t worth hassle of the admittedly good sex they might offer.
/r/BlackPillScience10/07/24 12:43 AM
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Never understood why. I’ve always had the worst sex with Asian women, with a small handful of exceptions.
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 04:07 PM
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A lot more men than your realize are also “selectors”. There are reasons why middle class and above dudes tend to not marry down as much as women marry up. Wealth and status are meaningful for men with assets, and that’s far more than 5% of us.
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 04:05 PM
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Yeah, seething online about it with your ashy dry dick makes you look real cool bro
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 04:03 PM
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Nobody is blaming incels for spreading STDs. Holy persecution complex
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 04:02 PM
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Right? The argument made above is exactly the argument an unattractive, mediocre person who felt entitled to sex without having to work for it would say
/r/BlackPillScience09/07/24 04:01 PM
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We'd have a world of problems reproductively if the ratio at birth was 1:1, given how many males fall off by the time they reach age 25.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 07:54 PM
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